How NOT to Look Like a Tourist in Paris (by a Local)!

[@LucileHR]

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[@gregoryhageage6362]

In the 11 trips I’ve made to Paris, most of them 3-5 weeks in length, I’ve had one negative experience and it was definitely my fault, a faux pas of youth and cultural ignorance (Didn’t know you weren’t supposed to touch the vendor’s fruit😬😂). The advice you give in this video is spot on, and is really just about common sense and being polite. Unfortunately, those two traits are often in short supply with turistas. Thanks!

[@solleon1167]

Fais une vidéo sur ce que tu penses de Miraculous Ladybug

[@francoisleveille409]

La question du jour : "Mais où est Notre-Dame bordel ?"

[@pelekeososhio5627]

I visited Paris for the first time this fall (I am 62 years old) and thoroughly enjoyed it. I took 4 years of high school French (late 70s) and brushed up on it before my trip. I tried to speak it as much as I could, but usually ended up just saying "bonjour", "au revoir" and "merci" a lot. I found the French people to be respectful at a distance, which is fine because I am very much the same. But very friendly on several occasions. One instance was a clothing shop owner who saw me looking in the window 30 minutes before it opened. He opened the door and welcomed me into the shop. My stay was for 8 days and I am already planning a 31 day visit next Spring to other regions to experience their cultures and foods. And I am including Toulouse in my itinerary because you recommend it in other videos. Thank you, Lucile, for your videos and travel tips. They are very helpful.

[@victordebasse]

Little recommendation if you're opened to it, Le Puy En Velay will blow your mind, if you google it you'll see why :)

[@bw5911]

Yours is the first video that I actually appreciate regarding not looking like a tourist in Paris. It is because you were directing the thought of the video more towards our safety than appearance for silly reasons.

[@LucileHR]

Thank you for saying this! I really wanted to make this video to help people have a good experience instead of just matching a style :)

[@bw5911]

@@LucileHR well you did a perfect job on this video so thank you

[@butanoverture]

I visited Paris with my partner 2 years ago. I speak pretty good French and know some of these customs from previous visits and my French classes. My partner and I were in a restaurant, I ordered for us in French but we were speaking English together, and the two Americans at the table next to us who arrived at roughly the same time noticed how much faster we got served and got the servers' attention too. I was polite and spoke French and the two people next to us noticed just how much easier it was for us! I taught my partner to always say bonjour and au revoir in shops and at markets and things went smoothly. We both had a great time!

[@LucileHR]

Yes, I swear it's almost a magic trick, everything becomes just a bit easier!

[@nastyanastya8596]

​@@LucileHRit's not normal that waiters give preference to guests, everyone should be served in a queue

[@nataliebohemian]

I love this video. I’ve never been to Paris, but I have studied and vacationed in Nice. On my last trip there with my husband, we went to La Poste to get some stamps. I needed some help with the kiosk. We lined up behind an elderly British couple to speak with the gentleman working. The couple in front of us were nearly screaming at this poor guy who had no idea what they were saying. They left in a huff, of course. I could see the relief on the gentleman’s face when I said bonjour and proceeded to politely ask for assistance (in French, malgré whatever my accent is). It’s not hard. I love French politeness because it respects personal space rather than prioritizing fake niceness. I also love American small talk. Both have their place, but you can’t deny the superiority of a server leaving you alone in a restaurant. I don’t need to talk about the weather. I’ve been outside. One thing I did notice was that the French tend to be very interested in American politics and want to discuss it with Americans. In 2008, when I was studying in Nice, everyone wanted to know who I was voting for in the democratic primary. When I returned for the first time in 2016, I had a very involved conversation with an elderly restaurant owner regarding his valid concerns about the potential global implications for a Trump presidency. I personally love those conversations. Trying to talk American politics with other Americans is exhausting because most of our country has no clue how any of it works. I’m rambling now, but yeah, vive la France 🇫🇷

[@jitkap2334]

Stupid. .

[@alexandragabitto2573]

Honestly, as someone who suffers from severe social anxiety, small talk is a great way to read the atmosphere of a room, gauge how someone else is feeling, and is a great icebreaker when your mind goes blank and can’t think of anything interesting to say when interacting with another person. The fact that everyone knows what the weather is like can come in handy when you’re neurodivergent.

[@tomconnolly9895]

5:02 Tourists do the same thing in Ireland. They go around wearing woolly Aran jumpers and peaked caps and then act shocked when we can instantly tell they are American.

[@KuukilabKuuki-rw7my]

I wonder why, everybody in Ireland took me for a local... perhaps because I'm a redhead ? :)

[@tomconnolly9895]

@KuukilabKuuki-rw7my If you were going around in woolly jumpers and peaked caps they knew you were American, they were just being nice.

[@chief6541]

💀

[@bostonphotographer20]

But those jumpers are so warm

[@serenadarling4100]

😂😂😂 there's an Irish shop near my house and I was considering getting these exact things😂😂

[@tamedraven]

I had one day in Paris last month and took your advice for my day and it worked wonderfully! Copains for lunch (croque monsieur), picnic by the water with the view of the Eiffel Tower, and thankfully with a heads up about politeness and saying hello everyone was wonderfully kind (and no one batted an eye at my french which was incredibly rewarding!) Thanks so much for the tips, they were so appreciated.

[@butanoverture]

Copains! I spent too much on those gluten free things and had a great time honestly!

[@fricatus]

I speak French and have worked a lot with French people, and so much of this is really good advice. We tend to be reasonably quiet here in Ireland (with a few exceptions of course) so we’re generally fine there. However I remember a French person telling me that often the quietest person in a meeting will be the most senior, since they don’t have to raise their voice to be heard, and some people cultivate this. Not sure if that’s generally true but it’s a point worth thinking about 😂

[@LucileHR]

Oh interesting, I like that story!

[@mireyam4661]

Love your videos!!! I have been in Paris 6 times. I do not care if I look like a tourist. I wear North Face pants, Columbia or REI shirts, Merrell hiking boots, and a hat with a large brim from OR. I purchased this quality and versatile clothing so it will last. I know that I look like a TOURIST but in all the years that I have been traveling, I have been treated with respect. When I travel, I respect the country that I am visiting, its people, culture, and traditions. Every local knows who is a tourist, it is not posible to "blend in". Just be respectful, polite, adapt to the situation, be patient, and most of all ENJOY every minute of your travels.😊

[@LucileHR]

Absolutely agree with you! Wear whatever you want, be open minded and polite and you’ll have a good time :)

[@jitkap2334]

​@@LucileHRthese brands are very expensive in Europe and they want them

[@Shelby-s2w]

Could you clarify why tourists wear hiking clothes in the city?

[@Justinian21c]

​@Shelby-s2w Hiking clothes are great for travel as they are durable, comfortable, don’t wrinkle or look good wrinkled, and dry quickly or wick moisture. In walkable cities like Paris, I can walk/hike several miles/km every day so hiking clothes are super practical.

[@Shelby-s2w]

@Justinian21c that makes sense from a practical standpoint but i guess i thought people dressed up on vacation especially when going to fashionable places like paris. But at the same time i know that its hard to be cute and fashionable when you're cold or your feet hurt lol

[@lexie4033]

A tour guide with 15 years experience here. I suppose some of the advices are universal that you give, but what amazes me is the reason you made this video. I’m surprised that people are so stressed about “Paris” and “France” and for real are trying to blend in (in their mind) and try hard to look local xD As a person who works in tourism for years I can say that there is nothing wrong to stand out, you’re expected to stand out anyways since you’re not local. Being polite is a universal thing- not just in France.

[@scol5868]

"Being polite is a universal thing- not just in France." Le truc c'est que "être poli" ne veut pas dire exactement la même chose à travers le monde.

[@CaseyAvalon]

​@@scol5868so true. I would assimilate to the place I am visiting, rather than expect things to adapt to me.

[@stevewilcock4767]

Try not to dress in1980's BCBG! Cheers.

[@pipmitchell7059]

Sorry, tour guide, but if you're obviously a tourist you get targeted. Not to stand out is good advice.

[@lexie4033]

@ oh sure internet experts know best lol 😂

[@lorettaray8317]

I wear berets at home in Canada all winter. Have done so for years. years. I love them and how I look in them. Wool for warmth. Have several colours too. And I do wear them in Europe in winter.

[@KuukilabKuuki-rw7my]

In France is not forbidden, especially in Basque country :)

[@FanNy-ku6wt]

There is no problem with that if it"s your style, she was referring to people who would buy a beret in order to look French

[@MarySchiller]

American living in Paris here, and I frequently see French men and women -- of all ages -- wearing berets, in lots of different styles. I wear them often and never feel out of place. The French don't often wear bright red berets, though. If I see a bright red beret in Paris, it's almost always NOT being worn a French person.

[@marmar-90]

You nailed it. I'm from Paris and I've worn them since age 10 (my dad as well) have quite a collection. The red one quite rarely, not because it's touristy but I felt like a revolutionary activist lol.

[@ArwenArtanis]

That's a relief. I have worn berets for my entire life and I wouldn't want to just deal with a cold head in cold weather for fear of standing out as a cringey tourist. My fedoras just aren't as travel friendly

[@marmar-90]

@@ArwenArtanis 1) There’s the stereotypes on Parisians (lots of them wear beret). 2) The videos that want to debunk the stereotypes a bit too harshly (nah, only the tourist do). 3) And then the reality (Berets is one of many type of hats that are worn by Parisians, you do you as tourist and wear whatever the fuck you want) :)

[@elizabetheyma-davies8584]

What an excellent video, really good advice,and one thing I notice in France is the noise level, there is generally a low level hum…in restaurants, on the beach, even on the metro, no shouting, parents loudly admonishing their children. You are spot on in this. Thanks for a really great video

[@handyvickers]

And people constantly looking at their phones??? Even dining companions? That's such terrible manners....

[@LivingBobby]

Lucile = best Paris advice

[@od2437]

You look familiar!

[@serenadarling4100]

Quite honestly learned this from my las visit to Dominican Republic. It's where we're from, so i didnt think twice about dressing up and looking nice, buuuut quickly realized my outfits were costing us. They can see you a mile away in your car with your get up 😂. We were targeted constantly. When i wore simple jeans and plain tshirts no one bothered us.

[@doloresfuertes6677]

I like so much your videos! The way you talk, your politeness, the clearness of the ideas you are transmitting, your willingness to help other people to enjoy Paris in the best way - is admirable. I don't speak French; for me it is valuable that French person gives me all those little tips in excellent English, so I can learn from you. Thank you so much for charing with us your observations and ideas - they are very helpful 💕

[@heidismith3678]

I am American ( with French ancestry) and I went to France for the first time, I was there for 12 days, and I think I may have achieved a non tourist look... some of the older European French people went up to me and spoke French at me, and when I did not say anything back, they looked confused... I think they might have thought I was actually French, and not an American tourist! Yay!!

[@higherthanthat]

Hello Lucile! I arrived in Paris yesterday to celebrate my birthday. Paris is amazing as always. And it is even more exciting to watch your content while in Paris.

[@LucileHR]

Happy birthday! I hope you have a wonderful trip :)

[@jalapenojalapeno5590]

my partner grew up in Europe and had visited Paris and other parts of France before; we visited Paris just for a few hours as a stop during a different trip, and thank God for them, I would have acted an absolute fool without their advice! My family and I have done a lot of traveling across the world, and your advice is actually AMAZING for traveling in most places! (mainly: be polite, let the locals show you what to do, follow the volume and vibe of a place)

[@backintimealwyn5736]

Buy the beret and wear it in the US. Berets are cool.

[@TP-om8of]

Business partner or dance partner ?

[@serenadarling4100]

And so true about the bad advice online! I was doing research for this same reason because id rather we fit in than stand out. Idc about aesthetics or looking fashionable as long as we were safe and iverlooked by pickpockets. The only helpful videos i found were the ones about how to avoid pickpockets and scammers (mostly by men). Every other female was promoting fashion and easthetics. I also looked at street fashions for the year and noticed they dress the same as we do on our everyday.

[@aisle_of_view]

Last time I went, I wore a beret and walked everywhere with a baguette sticking out of my bag. I spent the day looking for Jim Morrison and played an accordion wherever I went. I said "Comment ta le vous?" to everyone I passed but didn't stay to listen to their reply.

[@MultiElodiee]

Very solid advice. If you’re visiting Paris, you will look like a tourist and that’s OK. Us Parisians can also spot Provinciaux (non Parisian French people) easily so it’s not personal.

[@syberian18]

90% of inhabitants of Paris (especially East Paris) claiming to be true Parisians are in fact from the "province", who came to Paris for studies or professional reasons...They generally insist on being "Parisians", way more than true Paris-born and educated, who don't really care and don't feel the need to tell everyone...

[@Nunelii]

« Provinciaux »… such a Parisian comment. You make it sound like they’re some peasants covered in mud who never saw a 10 floor building before. I’ve lived in Paris for 10 years and by no mean it’s easy to tell who was born in Paris and who moved there after. However, the contrary is very obvious, which is partially why « provinciaux » have a very bad image of parisians tourists. That, and the condescending and arrogant remarks like what you said.

[@davebudd1429]

Hi there, I just stumbled upon your channel and wanted to say how much I liked your advice and presentation. you are very natural and easy-going. I have an upcoming trip to Paris and appreciated your insights. Merci!

[@michellesingh2000]

I wore a beret when I went, never got pick pocket and everyone was super nice. I mean I have a huge tattoo of the eiffel tower on my arm so I figure I will stand out anyway and don't care! I had an incredible time! I can't way to go back!

[@jenkrr]

I think I manage to do most of these when I visit Paris and other parts of France, and I've had some really great successes, but the one thing that always marks me out as a tourist is dithering about whether one gets seated at a cafe or whether to just sit down! It seems SO rude to me, as a Brit, to just walk into an establishment and sit down and expect the server to notice me 😅

[@carmelasantana3091]

I think it's important to note how people wear their clothes in France in general. In France, people wear tee shirts and jeans, but the fit is better (closer to the body), versus the way Americans wear their clothes, which is very loose and doesn't fit as well. Same thing for sports wear and sweatpants (which I only see very young people wearing on the streets). I've been living in France (south) for three years, and the speaking volume is a real thing- between the American normal volume and "airplane deafness", we sound like we're yelling across a crowded club, lol! Now, in the south, I've noticed native French people wearing berets; I asked about it, they were cool with it, so I wear my beret in the winter, too :) It's a lovely country, with a rich history, and I've seen the people here visibly relax when they see you can follow their rules on politeness.

[@joanreynolds955]

When I have been Paris, the only women I saw wearing head-to-toe Chanel were Asian tourists. Also, no matter the location, handbags worth thousands are a homing beacon to thieves.

[@nadinemenard6310]

Bravo pour cette vidéo pleine de bon sens et de gaité !

[@theuscivicsnerd7070]

I had little French but blended in by trying and simple but nice clothes. Even another American came up to me and assumed I was French. Same with a few other locals. I had a very pleasant time in Paris. Although public transit seemed old. I met nice people, had good food, and loved walking along the Seine. I hope to revisit soon. This time maybe a bit more proficient in French.

[@kaymuldoon3575]

Rule number 1: do not dress or act like Emily Cooper. 😂 In all seriousness, thank you for this video. I hope one day to visit your amazing and beautiful country. ♥️♥️♥️

[@juanfran579]

I reckon you always blend in if you just wear casual wear and don't look at everything with an air of amazement.

[@Mrrossj01]

Tourist. Wear an obvious, solid gold Rolex with a diamond bezel. Designer logos on all clothing. Gucci loafers. Gucci belt. Gucci leather gloves. Gucci sunglasses. Gucci t-shirt. Gucci jeans. Gucci contact lens. Gucci makeup. Gucci sanitary napkin. Gucci - Wait a minute!!!!! Gucci is two years ago. What happened? 😂

[@robynbeach3198]

🤣🤣🤣 "Gucci sanitary napkin" 💀💀💀

[@johnchisolm4033]

I was in Paris 2 years ago and I was mistaken multiple times for being French. I just walk around like I own the place. Plus, I use turn by turn directions wen I walk around and wear one ear bud. I can walk everywhere without an issue.

[@Mostirrelevant]

Well, obviously some people want to become future Parisians, and that is their goal. It seems that is the goal of their Parisian blending, but I am maybe mistaken. Advice about not wearing anything too expensive is actually great. I will keep that in mind when I come in visit. Merci. Excellent video

[@FalcomScott312]

Thanks for sharing the great advice of Paris Lucile! I've been finding them useful & I love watching your videos. ❤

[@LucileHR]

Thanks for always being there in the comments, really appreciate it :)

[@FalcomScott312]

@@LucileHR Welcome!

[@wild_insomnia]

Lucile is a sweetheart

[@enriquesanchez2001]

WOW! You know Théo and Gabrielle !

[@LucileHR]

Yes!! They are awesome! :)

[@enriquesanchez2001]

@@LucileHR Yeah! And so are YOU! ♥♥♥♥

[@leamubiu]

Les marinières j’ai essayé, mais les rayures c’est pas trop mon truc ; en revanche j’aime les bérets, sans ironie 😊 je pense même m’en offrir un géant, un de ces jours, pour y fourrer mes cheveux, ou pour former une visière quand il pleut. C’est sûrement le chapeau le plus versatile et pratique que je connaisse 💕

[@marie-ceciledelajudie7729]

Le béret de chasseur alpin ? Plusieurs hommes de ma famille et de mes amis en portent régulièrement. Pratique, pas encombrant, ça protège du soleil et de la pluie :)

[@leamubiu]

@ ouiiiii voilà :) la marque Laulhère en propose pour 100+€ par exemple…. ça fait un an que je me tâte lol

[@Edlira861]

Merci Lucile❤

[@JamieNiemeyer-tz7zy]

Hello 👋 Lucille, it's jamie it's been a while, and I really liked the video 📹 very well done. You truly are an amazing lady! A real wonder woman 👩 of france 🇫🇷 I'm truly grateful to have you as a close friend. You definitely are the best 👌 👍 love ❤️ you, Lucille. Always bye 👋 for now have a good rest of the week jamie ❤ 😊

[@BH6242KCh]

The two years of high school French I learned forty years ago as a drunken teenager may not be very convincing.

[@annepoitrineau5650]

Avoid looking rich: number one rule whenever I am travelling. Not that I am rich, but sometimes we intentionally look more affluent than we are just because we have packed our nicest stuff for the holiday. Also, do not wear jewellery.

[@sabrinabeardmore730]

Thank you Lucille

[@LucileHR]

Thank you for being here Sabrina :)

[@sabrinabeardmore730]

@@LucileHR your so sweet .thanks again. can't wait for the next video.

[@chakibougedela]

i wanna add something: if you’re in an escalator and you dont want to walk upstairs then stay on the right, when i see someone being on the left i already know you ´re not from here

[@kasparsm7964]

You can try to blend in how ever you want, but, if you are not staring all the time in phone, looking around and have a photo camera - You can not pretend. You are the tourist 😆

[@shanemcdowall]

Berret, check. Striped top, check. Bottle of beaujolais in right hand, check. Baguette under left armpit, check. Right, now I am off to Paris.

[@emilyneuman4029]

Thank you for such an informative video! I am currently planning a trip to Paris with my grandmother for next year and I just binge-watched all your videos! So helpful. What is your advice about currency? How do you usually handle money when you are doing a drip somewhere? For example, would you recommend someone exchange USD to Euros and keep cash on them, or pay by card, or what?

[@JeanPaulConnock]

You're being very kind when discussing volume -- French people speak considerably less loudly than North Americans. It can be shocking to sit next to a table of tourists and to have their conversation override your own. My advice to tourists is to pay attention to the people around them. Take your cue from the locals and you'll have a far more comfortable experience. (and now I've arrived to the part of the video where you say exactly this! :) ).

[@LucileHR]

Absolutely agree with you! I’ve been taught this advice by my grandma and it has been the best haha :)

[@marie-ceciledelajudie7729]

I must confess that for me, it's a major thing. A group of american tourists speaking near me in the metro once was physically painful. (And it's not me overreacting. Ear sensitivity is a real thing, and the differences between french and american prosody - tonic accent and so on - plus the loud volume given the fact that the metro is loud already- can make some syllables painful for the eardrums) I said nothing and just endured it (not all french people have the habit to speak up their minds😅) but maybe I should have offered these tourists an advice... Problem being it would probably have been more of an angry comment (and would have fueled the bunch of clichés about rude parisians 😅)

[@Nunelii]

As a French who lived in Paris it’s very easy to tell who is a tourist by the brands you’re wearing. Tourists are very fond of ultra luxury brands like Dior, Louis Vuitton, Chanel, Gucci, who have their logo displayed everywhere on their items. It’s actually very un-elegant from a fashion point of view, in French we have a pejorative word for it (« bling-bling »). These brands also have a lot of fakes, easily accessible on flea markets, scam websites or in Morocco for example, where a lot of people go for vacation, so in addition to be « bling-bling », there’s a lot of chances for people to also consider you « cheap ». To French people, these brands are the definition of having « I’m not rich but I want you to believe I am » written on your forehead. Parisians- and French people actually don’t buy these brands that much (it’s mostly the Chinese, Russians and Americans). They prefer mid-luxury, more subtle brands like Zadig, Sandro, Lancel etc, and more brands not a lot of tourists know about and which don’t have their logo displayed everywhere. In Paris there are a lot of rich people, but they don’t need a 20000€ Louis Vuitton bag to let others know it. If you passed them by on the streets you wouldn’t even notice them.

[@SiL-uj2zl]

Also try to go for lunch at 12 or as nearest to 12 as you can as many places are full or close early

[@Pardesland]

Interesting. Most of what you said is right for everywhere, however the specificly French stuff is very useful; Thanks!!

[@LucileHR]

Yes, common sense is useful wherever you go :)

[@julieparker8176]

Great video, Lucille.

[@lynnavery252]

I agree with the pictures and video law.

[@florenna]

Hmm, "Don't wear black" - I actually mostly do wear weal all-black where I live (except summertime), and in styles some might consider "dressy", so I wouldn't change that if/when ever re-vising Paris again ;) Also, when I've been to France, I've had strangers start to address me in French, so I guess I blended in at some way at least and didn't stand out too much ;)

[@sarahmitchell821]

One of the many things I love about Paris is that I feel very comfortable dressing LIKE MYSELF. I feel no pressure to dress like the mythical Parisienne, and I'm pleasantly free of feeling like I stand out too much as I often do here in mostly-styleless Vancouver

[@26mm62_]

Mythical Parisienne??? Yes please!😆

[@surlespasdondine]

You definitely get targeted by pickpockets if you look like a tourist. I looked like a student with no money during my time in Paris and while I experienced street harrassment (like all young women do in Paris) I never had anything stolen.

[@LucileHR]

Looking like you have no money = the secret to being left alone haha

[@MultiElodiee]

Street harassment is unfortunately still a thing.

[@beladorman8579]

what would be the street to avoid the street harassment?

[@surlespasdondine]

@@beladorman8579 it happens no matter what

[@justinecooper9575]

One thing that I didn't know identified me as an American when I was in Paris was keeping one hand in my lap when eating in restaurants.

[@williammeyer9616]

I lived in Paris in 86-87 while I went to cooking school . Parisians were, in my opinion , quite a bit more fashionable than Americans in some subtle ways; you might say they looked European. There were seemingly a lot of natural fiber clothes so clothes were more expensive than in the US and i think this influenced people to purchase a bit more carefully. I must say I appreciated it. Do you think there still is a European look in Paris ? Id also like to ask you about photography. I read from the consulate that street photos were legal but if you could recognize a person in your photo you only needed a modeling agreement if you wanted to show the picture publicly/ publish . Has that recently changed ? I had difficulty taking pictures of non artistic / artisanal objects . I understand the need for puis-je when trying on clothes in a boutique but I did not think it applied to rocks, nor to factory made pastry in a supermarket.

[@timmcclure2096]

This may be a silly question, but if the last meal of the day is at 8:00pm when do you start and end your day?

[@brek_m]

love your videos!

[@LucileHR]

Thank you :)

[@stevebartley628]

When at the checkout in a grocery store, do we also say bonjour to the clerk ?

[@LucileHR]

Yes!! Always! When in doubt just say bonjour at worst people will think you’re a bit over friendly haha

[@stevebartley628]

@@LucileHR Thanks. I knew to always do it entering a store. .Love your videos. Paris last year and next spring after a 40 year gap !

[@carolynlopez5242]

Christmas markets. Do you have a video or suggestions nowhere to sty best for them.

[@PraveenDevan1]

Hi, it's a wonderful video. As we are approaching the winter, is it possible to make a video on how winter will be in December till February and also the advise on warm clothing for kids (types to wear based on ur knowledge).

[@joanrojas9084]

So off topic (which was great, by the way), and perhaps rude (I hope not), but your complexion is perfection. If you’ve not already been approached by your choice of skin care product to sponsor you - they should!

[@LucileHR]

That is so sweet, thank you! I might do a video about it but my skincare routine is very unconventional, I only use 3 products that are all under $10.

[@joanrojas9084]

@@LucileHR I’d really like to hear! Thank you Lucile. I do love your videos!

[@Gonz-o8j]

I used to be a tabletop games player online (chess, renju, naval battle) and one thing I learnt from the french is they have no time for nosense even they have capacity for it. They valued honesty and being "there" Idk if that makes sense.

[@jahanshadi1934]

As a French but non parisian, in fact, just be yourself but be kind and polite whatever the country you’re from and the country you visit, it’s so much better and nicer for everyone 😊 About France, I want to say, if your fashion style stand out cause it’s just your personality, be just yourself, dress as you want, just be « decent ». If you want to dress as the stereotype ? Why not but yeah it can be funny or very elegant (too much elegant ) it depends the situation, just be comfortable and practical according to the moment. Sure, depending of the place ( town, district, quartier, aera of the city) it’s probably safer to not look too wealthy, too sexy, too « touristic » and to pay attention to the weather as she says in the video.

[@WillBuschOffical]

i am going to paris in february 2025 with my mother. watch almost all your videos for tips. also practices French at school and at home. really longing. I will be there in 3 days

[@hal90001]

I live in a big university city in an EU country where we have lots and lots of French studying medicine. You can hear them from a mile away on the street. Sooo... I'm not sure that the French are that quiet...

[@LucileHR]

I could 100% see french medical students studiying abroad being very loud haha

[@mir_zavec7441]

But what if I really like this kind of style (I mean classic one) and I usually wear it in Russia😅 and yeah… I have a cap )) not a red one of course)) I m going to your wonderful city in two weeks and can’t wait exploring it ❤ thank you for your content! Very helpful 😊

[@sofialojaarroyo3344]

Great tips!

[@kooale]

Re 5:00 "...stereotypical French onion man..." You do realize you're wearing his shirt? Otherwise...very educational vids! Thanks from the U.S., where many of us are very friendly AND genuine!

[@awesomeadamfrom2099]

Awesome job Lucia drop a line for you

[@LucileHR]

Thanks for watching!

[@awesomeadamfrom2099]

No problem

[@brettconti]

Super helpful video. Don't want to look like a pigeon

[@KDlove-d4f]

Welcome to kerala, is the southern part of India😊.

[@alyqat4]

I am afraid of my upcoming Paris trip due to my intense American ways. thank you for this video!

[@jackwalker9492]

I could care less if people can tell I am American. I am polite, proud of my country, dont try to hide it but I am a guest and act accordingly. But, I wear boots, blue jeans, and a collared shirt is dressing up for me. A sweater, long sleeve T shirt type things and if anybody doesnt like that, its their problem, not mine. For French, I spoke it well as a kid as half of our small town were Quebecois and didnt speak English. I watch (with English sub-titles) a comedy French show called A VERY SECRET SERVICE. The star is called "Agent Merlot!" Hilarious and it does help.

[@solarplexus4003]

Girls look so cute in a french berret😍

[@TP-om8of]

So do you, big guy!

[@adrianwillis66]

In America men take unwanted photos of women or girls all the time. I heard that in Japan that happens as well.

[@Ape4Apes]

Very helpful video with lots of practical information! I just returned from France yesterday. Each time I go - almost every year - I take note of what I see people wearing that may surprise me. Two years ago, I noticed a lot of women wearing puffer jackets, which I hadn’t noticed previously. (I usually visit in early autumn.) One thing I noticed this year, at least outside Paris, is women wearing caps with visors, or baseball caps, as we might call them. I need to wear a hat that protects my eyes from the light and generally wear a “baseball cap” and have felt self-conscious in Paris. I’ve tried other solutions, but I keep going back to the casquette. Your thoughts on baseball caps?

[@LucileHR]

Yes, a lot of people wear them! I might be a bit old school but I usually take my hat off when I'm inside and a lot of people do so too!

[@triciarose389]

I think people say backpacks are a bad idea because they are easy for pickpocketers to access.

[@sagarsharmaa27]

I came through DBB podcast.

[@geovannymorajr.1065]

Paris est un magnifique ville et la tour eiffel.

[@nastyanastya8596]

What i should to do, if i really like berets and i wear it all the time. I really hate beanie hat. I need to buy a hat specifically for my trip to Paris?

[@marie-ceciledelajudie7729]

Of course not ! Just wear whatever you want , be polite, not too loud, and you will be welcome everywhere 😊 We don't dislike tourists who find berets lovely 😂 If you absolutely want to blend in, (but why ?) i would advise you to keep a fast pace, not look around you nor up, and to answer "désolé" to street sollicitors (whithout stopping, obviously). That would do the job. I look like that most of the time 😂

[@guidine7]

good advice 🙋🇩🇪

[@LucileHR]

Thank you :)

[@UntakenNick]

I have a trick to look like a local that I use whenever I'm on a potentially unsafe place that never fails. I've visited Paris more than once and I've never perceived it as dangerous so I don't see why would anyone want to avoid looking like a tourist there, but in any case, here it is: Just buy a cardboard folder with elastics and carry it with you, as simple as that. You will look like one more person living there who is either working or doing some commission, but you will be completely invisible to anyone trying to spot a clueless stranger.

[@johnhodge9295]

Lucile, I am scheduling a short trip for myself, spouse, and mother-in-law on the occasion of the mother-in-law's retirement from a Gardening related field. It is following a cruise that ends in Barcelona on April 26. Intended to stay two days in Barcelona, then go to Paris and Versailles, finally returning home May 2 via Orly. I just got introduced to May Day in Paris. How bad do things get on May 1 in Paris? Is unpleasantness confined to avoidable locations or spread out everywhere? Is it limited to May 1 or does it effect April 30/May 2? Basically, would you advise avoiding Paris in this timeframe or is it no big deal?

[@marmar-90]

No issue on April 30 and May 2. The unpleasantness will depend on the ongoing turmoil, but demonstrations are located in specific areas which are big avenues and boulevard (eg. Place de la Republique, Bastille & Nation in the East) Complicated to say to which extent interruptions and demonstrations will occur. Most museums are closed during this period but some castles around Paris are open. I would say it depends on where your hotel is located. If you stay around Latin Quarter you can roam around the city by foot and enjoy a day of wandering around, visiting a few churches, parks etc. In some neighborhoods 1 May is festive, with small concerts and 'village' parties, flea markets etc.

[@Wyglafff]

To the non french people : don't worry, even french people have bad interactions with Parisians from time to time. Just be polite, know some simple french words and try to blend in.

[@elikorn7418]

San Sebastian is part of Spain

[@zehrabenli4169]

1:20 which street is that 😍

[@LucileHR]

It's called la villa des fleurs! Super cute street with a cute name (translates to the flower villa)

[@gerardjulien2118]

If you want to look french there is an "easy" solution. Just speak the language without any accent.^^ I mean french people speak french and if we hear english, we do know you are a tourist.

[@sammi0816]

I love your content! Can you recommend a good brunch place? We are going to Paris in a week🩷

[@LucileHR]

Yesss! I love Boulom and Kozy at the moment, you can check them out in my Montmartre video!

[@sammi0816]

@@LucileHR thank you very much! ❤️

[@kueller917]

No-activewear can still be good advice for Americans since it has become so common there and practically not anywhere else. I'll still see some sporty clothes but not like full gym outfits for a casual non-athletic day which I can see everywhere in the US. But otherwise it's a city, if you dress in standard "city fashion" you'll be fine.

[@LucileHR]

Totally agree with you!

[@surlespasdondine]

I find it hilarious when Americans wear work out clothes to "go walkinvg"😂 like it's a planned athletic activity. In Europe walking takes you where you need to go (supermarket, pharmacy, to see friends etc) and if you do take an aimless stroll around a nice neighborhood or because you want to move after a meal, there is definitely no athletic attire required.

[@iratanokodiak]

Perso, en Suisse romande j'ai vu plusieurs française en béret, comme si elles voulait affirmer leurs origines. Mais pas en France. Et même avis que toi pour la marinère, c'est trop classe et facile à porter pour ne pas en avoir quelques une dans mon armoire même en Suisse, d'autant que c'est moins connoté que la chemise à Edelweiss ^^

[@bluewave7120]

After working in a tourist hotel & restaurant i found it very disappointing that some tourists feel because they are on holiday they have a right to be rude and abuse the staff as though they are royalty We have to remain charming anyway which at times is very difficult with such people

[@philausa9629]

People should be paid xtra for xtra efforts .. tips in US are high but people are usually very friendly abs get paid usually well And yes - here clients are treated right and that is what’s expected as it should be

[@christopherhurley8694]

you are awesome.

[@criticaloptimist]

Imagine traveling to a country and wearing a stereotype of that culture… I cannot imagine wearing a beret in Paris. And if any Americans need to remember to say hello, just remember that beauty and the beast has an entire song about this. lol Honestly, these tips are things Americans should adopt here. Acknowledge the service worker instead ing of barking a request, don’t go to a restaurant right before close, be thoughtful of how you’re taking up space are all nice things in general.

[@rbphilip]

Interesting. The photo thing is strange to me as an American because the law explicitly says you are allowed to photo/video whoever or whatever you want in public. People still think they have a right to privacy but if it comes down to calling the police they will tell you that privacy only exists behind closed doors.

[@francoisleveille409]

"Avoid looking rich!" - With the staggering price of the apartments you know how most people are in Paris ; on a budget !

[@aldum14]

Merci