How P*rn Is Subtly DESTROYING You & How to Stop it.

[@djxp4]

One of my biggest regrets is getting caught up in this, it’s poison. From the age of 12-18 I was a slave to it, I couldn’t even go a couple days without it. Now I’m a year clean which blows my mind to even think about. For anyone struggling, the solution is Jesus Christ. The second he revealed to me how much he loved me, I hated my sin and it felt impossible for me to carry on down that path. Ask God to reveal the love of Jesus to you. Then surrender the battle to God and tell him you can’t beat the addiction on your own. He wants you to be real with him. I promise you if you humble yourself like that before God, he will lift you up out of that bondage.

[@AdamTichy-b4w]

Great to here that! I'm happy that you found freedom. Well if been strugling like you from the age of 12until now (I'm 18)... well I tried almost everything and at this point Ive almost given up. How exactly did God help you, seriously? Did you spend more time in the word or in prayer to understand his love for you more? Give me some practical advice if u can, it would help me alot. (english is not my first language, so bear with me hahah)

[@djxp4]

The way that Jesus saved me was enough to break me, I was running from Jesus for a long time but he still showed me grace by leaving the 99 just for me. That’s the type of love I’m talking about. And he loves you exactly the same way! My practical advice would be for you to stop trying. I remember trying everything to stop and I couldn’t. One night I cried out to God saying “Lord I love you too much to carry on living this way, but I don’t know how to stop. Please come and take this away from me”. From that night onwards all of a sudden I felt the Holy Spirit start to convict me about the shows I was watching on TV, and the KZbin content I was watching. The key thing is I obeyed his leading and dropped everything he told me to, which was hard and did take me a while. Then HE lead me to replacing all that stuff with reading the Bible, getting to know Jesus, spending time with him etc. Then Weeks and months go by and I realise that I don’t even have the temptation to watch p*rn anymore (All glory to Jesus) The reason why I stress the love of Jesus so much is because it draws you to a place of genuine authentic surrender. Without the love of Jesus you would only be reading your Bible or praying more in the name of quitting p*rn, whilst having no connection with the Lord. That my friend is religion. Religion sets nobody free only Jesus sets free. You have to do it with Jesus. Cry out to the Lord (genuinely) and tell him how much you need him. And when he comes follow his leading. Whatever he tells you to do do it! “So humble yourselves before God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come close to God, and God will come close to you. Wash your hands, you sinners; purify your hearts, for your loyalty is divided between God and the world. Let there be tears for what you have done. Let there be sorrow and deep grief. Let there be sadness instead of laughter, and gloom instead of joy. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he WILL lift you up in honor.” (‭‭James‬ ‭4‬:‭7‬-‭10‬ ‭NLT‬‬)

[@themagnificentorange672]

​@@AdamTichy-b4wMy same situation brother

[@AdamTichy-b4w]

@@djxp4 Thanks for taking time to answer me, I appreciate it a lot! You're 100% right, that my all of my motivation should be going towards being in the presence of God and enjoying God and his love for me. I don't know whats wrong with me but I don't have the motivation to spend more time with him anymore like I used to. I don't enjoy making an effort to be with him. It almost feels like labor, not enjoyement or peace. Ive been backsliding for weeks and months now, and I think my backsliding is one of the main driving factors for my addiction. So I'll have to change that for sure! BUT I don't know how. I know this is not supposed to be a therapy session haha, but your situations was almost like mine is now: thats why I'm asking for advice. If you have time you might tell me how you found enjoyement in being with God again. If not, I sill appreciate that answered my first question. God Bless!

[@mrspazzout1]

​@@djxp4this comment is so brilliant it really hits home to me. I've been struggling with this sin for 10+ years and was always so ashamed of it. Now after all this time i figured out that ONLY PRAYER WORKED 🙏 the way Jesus helped me was to take me out from the cycle of shame i was in, once i accepted forgiveness i was able to escape from my old ways.

[@marissajones1840]

When you're with someone it kills their heart and self esteem and gives them a constant reminder that they will never be enough

[@DillonColtMusic]

I have autism. It was much easier for me to go to porn than it was for me to face the bullying i always faced from girls. I started when i was 13 with magazines, im 37 now and i still struggle with porn to this day. I still havent healed from all of the abuse i took. Pray for me please.

[@ejmaster7075]

I understand. I have autism and was constantly bullied and rejected by many. To this day I struggle with depression and suicidal thoughts. I’m scared being around people. I was trapped with porn and still struggling with wanting to watch it.

[@symptomofsouls]

Girls have always been vicious towards me too, also because autism. It's tough. Best way to stay away from that is to not spend time alone. Do stuff with people. Family, friends, doesn't matter. I mostly just hang out with other guys now because I was tired of how poorly women were treating me. Idk if I will try to date again, I want to have kids but I don't think it's realistic. Once you get past 7 days, you are pretty much clear, those are the worst days, after that you get ~2 weeks of easy going, then you should be back to normal at around 3-4 weeks. Don't relapse at that point, that's just you factory resetting. Get used to that, it's the natural state. Got there once, relapsed, regretted it since. Best of luck, God is with you

[@marzdabull]

Beautiful video. Please keep the dialogue open about this silent killer.

[@Pbcvl]

yes. We have people saying its good to do once in a while and they dont see the harm. Even saying that they use it to have better m@sturbation. But who will explain to them that these 2 things are both bad for you

[@noeechavarria9756]

AMEN🙏🙏🙏I really needed to hear this and I’m greatful God allowed me to watch. Thank you for uploading and talking about this and May God be with you

[@Daily_Dose_Of_Wisdom]

This is really solid bro! Let me know if you would ever want to come on the podcast to talk about this issue. I know you've focused on it a lot & we both know it is destroying (even Christian) men.

[@getachew.]

3:33 wow, in order to accept the possibility of rejection, you need to be secure in your identity and who you are.

[@pilgrimsonourway]

The video every young Christian man needs to see, addict or not.

[@xwaazes6375]

NNN motivation

[@pantherscove2452]

Isaac GOD (through you) gave me a wake up call. Thank you Isaac may GOD bless you

[@FlatEarthChud-cell]

I haven't watched porn for proberbly four months now. I did semen retention for almost three months (about 80 days) however I did relapse recently (without porn) and am trying to climb back onto semen retention. I find that fasting is a good way to kill your desire for sex (which you will want for the first two weeks of SR when you are most vulnerable to sin/haram) Seriously guys, practice fasting and meditations combine it with prayer, excersise and more. Also, minimise the time spent alone because you will be far more likely to commit haram/sin when you are alone. Where slim pants that protect your privates from your hand. Don't rely on willpower alone, you need to also take minimisation procedures in quite. Willpower is great and all but it will fail you eventually. Learn how to transmute your seminal energy.

[@iczerman]

It's more like I don't have to ask permission. To fulfill a need..I have to get permission and consent from another person.

[@atomicsamurai8967]

I've backslidden into porn lately.. i really need prayer to be free of this. I got exposed to it around the age of 11 or 12. I'm 35 now.. i just don't want this..

[@aureatus]

i got you brother!

[@atomicsamurai8967]

@@aureatus thank you.

[@scoutdoorsman2345]

Can y’all pray for me I have so much anxiety and going through a extremely riff time in life right now I feel like I’m pedal to the metal on a down hill slide. I’m so tired of sexual sin

[@elementoryking4452]

I fell for this lie about 6 years ago. I really wanna escape this addiction but everytime I try I fail really fast. I feal like a hypocrite and a failiure. I can't even pray with confidence because I know how corrupted I am. Am I not trying it hard enough? Am I not praying enough? I won't give up and trust in god but it's killing me from the inside.

[@neobeg]

Keep praying and inviting God into your life.

[@Naturallife7.]

I will encourage you to fast for a day. Be conscious of what you watch, and listen to.

[@privatename2426]

There are a lot of experts out there who can help you along with turning to faith to change.

[@elementoryking4452]

@@Naturallife7. Why should I fast?

[@elementoryking4452]

@jeremym.5287 since I wrote this comment my life changed a lot. Thanks for your prayers. I was strong but the day before yesterday I failed. But now that I'm reading your comment I'm getting new strength. Thank you a lot. God has helped me the past few months so much. I'm really thankful for what he's doing with me. Please pray for me again.

[@__12315]

Pray for me guys

[@redhood3878]

I needed this i just fell back in it today after going a week straight without it but i won't lose hope i know God will help me cast it out

[@emmytobs]

Preach brother! ❤

[@Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin]

Man this video is incredible because this is literally my story I could of been Tyler of things went differently but thank God I am free and my life has benefited because of it I have the joy of the sprit I have love peace and a sound mind like today I asked a girl to be my gf and I got rejected and she said she don’t see me like that but the thing is I am not even sad about it I have so much joy peace love from God I am so happy because I already know the ending of the story and that she is my future wife this is just apart of the journey God has both of us on but man beating porn addiction really made my faith go up and fix aspects of my life for the better now I am more of s man and I live for Christ amen

[@mrmunchin2578]

needed this today

[@BabyGirlAnaya2002]

Amen, Thank You For Making This Video Because I really Needed This 🙏🏽

[@ramonmonterosegura415]

Thank you for your work and support. I really enjoy your videos, and also i try to use them in my life. This is a serious problem that the world doesn't like to talk about. Kee´p you mission and always seek the Kingdom of Heaven!

[@Kenn_eddy200]

God bless you Brother.

[@jinoia]

"Pursuing God's calling on your life requires risk whether that's building a relationship, starting a business, being vulnerable, seeking to serve people you have to put yourself out there. You have to be okay with receiving rejection. But in order to accept the possibility of rejection and failure you need to be secure in your identity and who you are."

[@ryanschmidt3913]

What's helped me recently is gaining a new understanding of what sin is. If following the word of God and the teachings of the Bible is the imitation of Christ, then knowingly going against God is the imitation of Satan, which seems like a very serious offense to me. That's not to say that you're a terrible person if you still can't beat temptation. It's just the thought process that seems to be working for me. If it doesn't work for you, then maybe God just hasn't revealed to you what the solution is yet, but it will come in time, and all of us just need to keep fighting to be better Christians everyday.

[@TnOrchidguy]

Thank you, brother, thank you.

[@juliusbarlizo2761]

Pray for me brother I wanted to quit porn I fall back into sin again.

[@mahesh.n.mahesg7713]

Thank you brother ☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

[@PlayerRECON5342]

I really needed this, thank you!!

[@Timinator4000]

Amen 💥

[@d3_sempai]

Needed this! Thanks!

[@pasalasaga]

I have failed again. Nothing works.

[@pasalasaga]

@jeremym.5287 worship music?

[@njburk]

Thanks for this video bud

[@Bilati123]

Amen 🙌

[@khunli7]

Thank you Isaac. May God bless you.

[@samuelm.5752]

The double whammy is to have same sex attraction pornography. Struggling for years!

[@hollikrebs]

I think it’s very very sad that a man will not make effort to learn how to love his wife but instead will take the easy way and the sinful way. This robs the wife of love and relationship and physical intimacy with her husband because he will not obey God but he will obey lust. It makes me mad. There is no good fruit from masturbation only selfishness. No good fruit from porn, he abandons his wife. The husband is ruining himself and his family. He thinks he is getting away with it but he isn’t. The wife is left and the husband excuses his sins with a worldly point of view that is not God’s way.

[@indistructi-bill9770]

Im embarrassed to admit it...😒😳😒

[@johngate4715]

A lot of us are 'tylers', God knows I am one. I pray that you all who suffer from this seek Jesus and repent and get better and stop. I can only ask that you pray for me :(. Forgive us God. Love you guys/girls

[@ServantOfChrist171]

Please pray for me my bothers and sisters. I need the power of Christ to put to death my lustful desires. Thank you, God bless.

[@KGIXV]

Believe that you have won the war against porn, because JESUS HAS ALREADY WON. Once you fully believe that Jesus has won the war you will be delivered, but you have to walk in that deliverance!! Know that, recognize it, and internalize it. Tell your mind you have won through Jesus, take your thoughts captive, walk into that deliverance! I pray over you that you are delivered. You are free!!

[@deandrehenry9135]

Amen

[@comradericefarmerhao2269]

Bro the made this video on NNN 😂😭🗣️🗣️

[@lordisfreedom9798]

Amen.🙏🤝✝️☝️

[@albertodove4125]

And another thing!!! Why aren't we addressing women about their issues?

[@LoganSmyth-nm6tl]

God is good

[@WillyPhonken]

Alphie by Incase.

[@RoBin_777_]

I'm sorry to say that, your videos are very important, but how are we supposed to take you seriously when you're ironically showing inappropriate images in your thumbnail? It may be a little bit blurred but it could still be triggering

[@Erbbrothers]

I think of this every time I click on the videos. It is click bait. it makes sense, but it does seem wrong. To me. then Again I am a kid and immature Christian, and watch this content because I struggle with this very thing. I hate it it pulls me apart. And honestly I clicked it because it looked like it would be satisfying. It was exactly what I needed to hear but it does not seem right.

[@GEO_75X]

yeah me to i said this once ....lol

[@BingoNamo-gb8pz]

I only came here to say this: “the only time I think about porn is when I see these Christian influencers pop up talking about it.” I only use KZbin to watch Martyn Lloyd Jones, RC Sproul, Wigglesworth, Spurgeon, Tozer, etc so I basically only get Christian recommendations. The world’s way to get free from addictions is to TALK ABOUT THEM. God’s way is to shift your focus entirely to HIS kingdom. Keeping your mind on things above, not earthly things. To set the MIND on the flesh is DEATH. To set the mind on the spirit is LIFE & peace. You cannot keep your mind on 2 things at once so as long as your mind is on Him (meaning Jesus is your Lord & you only take directions from Him so you only think about what He wants) then you will never be a slave to sin. You will be a slave to righteousness. But you have to WANT Jesus to be Lord & not your flesh to be lord. Ask God to help you. Only He can give you a new heart & mind & put his Spirit within you so you will stop desiring to please the flesh, & you will instead desire to please Him. But you must HUMBLE yourself, confess your sin to Him, make Jesus Lord. You must recognize the goal of porn is to prevent you from making Jesus your Lord & separate you from eternal life. Don’t believe the lie that God’s grace will cover you. You cannot serve 2 masters. You will love 1 & hate the other. Choose to love God & hate porn. Once you repent & make Jesus your TRUE LORD, then & only then will you be under God’s grace. Until that point you are under the sway of the wicked one & by the MERCY of God you are still breathing today so you CAN repent & make Jesus Lord. That means submitting to Him, not putting ANYTHING above Him. I do not say this to condemn you, but to rescue you from the condemnation you are already in. We do not judge according to the flesh BECAUSE we no longer live according to the flesh. But if we live according to the flesh we are bringing judgement upon ourselves. Whoever is born of God overcomes the world. All things are lawful but NOT all things are beneficial. All things are lawful but NOTHING will have dominion over me. Sin shall no longer have dominion over you for you are under grace. The law of the SPIRIT of life has set me free from the law of sin & death. The same spirit that raised Jesus from the dead gives LIFE to my mortal body. Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, an instrument of righteousness. God will rescue you IF you humble yourself. Do not harden your hearts. He is not counting your sins against you but wants to save you from them. You must ALLOW Him to save you. It’s not by your effort but by your humility. Read Ezekiel chapter 36 starting at verse 25 to understand it’s a work of God. You are weary & heavy laden trying to overcome sin on your own. You must rest in Christ so He can give you a new nature. You cannot overcome sin with a sin nature. You must be crucified with Christ. Allow your sin nature to die. Stop holding onto it. The divine nature is far more pleasing than the flesh. Knowing you have peace with God & eternal life will give you an everlasting pleasure that never stops. Pleasing God is far more rewarding than pleasing the flesh.

[@BingoNamo-gb8pz]

@@Erbbrothersplease read my message above & let me know if you need help after trying what I said & read Ezekiel chapter 36 starting from verse 25. God will do the work in you. The reason I was a slave to sin is because I was never born of the spirit. For 29 years I thought I was born again, but I never truly denied myself & made Jesus Lord. Once I did this I immediately had power over sin. I wanted nothing to do with it anymore. I only wanted to stay close to God & hear His voice & do His will & please Him. He actually became my Lord & my flesh no longer ruled my life. For those 29 years my flesh was lord. That’s why I could never overcome sin. For 29 years they told me I was under God’s grace, but I was still a slave to sin. I’m not perfect, but I choose to stay in the light so the blood of Jesus is always cleansing me. Back when I was a slave to sin I avoided the light. I lived in condemnation & tricked my mind into thinking I was under grace. Just like the whole world has no fear of God even though they are not under grace. They just think they are. It’s deception. Because God rains on the righteous & sinner. Do not mistaken God’s goodness & long suffering for grace. It’s not there to keep you in sin but to lead you to repentance. I’m 100% NOT a works based gospel. As I said, all I did was finally humble myself & asked for God to save me from the bottom of my heart. He did the rest. I knew I was born again BECAUSE sin no longer had dominion over me. God changed me. I did not change myself.

[@tainoloco2361]

The sad part is that I don’t feel like pursuing a woman because of pornography

[@ntkmw8058]

My brother in humanity, God can help you, you know that? First believe the gospel. I have a video in my channel that will tell you the true gospel so you can believe it. Then after that get baptized at a Bible believing church (KJV Bible, OSAS, eternal security, free grace). God directs the ways of his children. I don’t struggle with porn anymore thanks to God’s word

[@tainoloco2361]

@@ntkmw8058 I’m surrendered my life to the when I was 18 and I got baptized when I was 19. I’m 20 now and I’m still a believer of Christ. Holy Spirit told me that God wants me to get married and have children, but I don’t want that. I am open for that but I want to stay single deep down even though my body has high sexual desires.

[@okayitsray]

Brother, Please consider being more mindful about your thumbnails. I don't think its wise to even hint towards sin in that way. It could make someone stumble. May God give you wisdom @dailydisciple

[@BrockJamesStory]

I second this!!!

[@KaibaKid5]

Agree 💯

[@Yipper64]

I definitely want to serve a woman who would be my girlfriend, I want to do good for her and really just do whatever she asks. I dont know if that's like, the right motivation, but that's like, my general thought about it. But nobody has come my way that I actually click with. And I think the reason is because of my pornography addiction. I did at one point, go for movement, try to get a girl, but I did it in all the wrong ways, with dating apps and everything. Paying money for those dating apps. Trying online dating. Anything to just get me a *taste* of what its like to be in a romantic relationship. But that's me trying to force my plan for my life, not relying on God's plan I know I have to wait for God to introduce the right person into my life. Its just so hard, even while using porn to "take the edge off" if that's the right wording. Its not right to use porn in any way, and again, I think that's the reason God hasnt put someone in my life yet, but its hard. I just want it to be over and never look back on it, but ive been trying for over a year now and I never really stopped looking back...

[@neobeg]

Romans 5:8

[@Yipper64]

@@neobegyeah and so I have to shake this. What can I do to repay such a sacrifice even while I still sin? Romans 6:1-2

[@Naturallife7.]

Hey there Have you tried fasting, if not , I'll suggest you do so. Be aware of what you watch , listen to( especially regarding music) and your company. Avoid being idle because idleness is the devil's workshop. You have to willingly decide to put an end to it, by overcoming the flesh and the devil through the word of YAHWEH. I'll suggest you take some time and write down some biblical verses regarding defeating sin, warfare prayers and pray over yourself using this biblical verses.

[@Naturallife7.]

Hey there Have you tried fasting, if not , I'll suggest you do so. Be aware of what you watch , listen to( especially regarding music) and your company. Avoid being idle because idleness is the devil's workshop. You have to willingly decide to put an end to it, by overcoming the flesh and the devil through the word of YAHWEH. I'll suggest you take some time and write down some biblical verses regarding defeating sin, warfare prayers and pray over yourself using this biblical verses.

[@Naturallife7.]

​@@Yipper64 When you acknowledge what YAHUSHA (many call Him Jesus) did on the cross for your sins and you're still battling with sin but want to get rid of it. He is always willing to help you get rid of it. You have to cry out to Him , believe & trust that He can set you free and work & partner with Him regarding your deliverance from sin. And most especially,if you are not yet baptized into the Holy Spirit. I plead you to do so, cuz praying in tongues is very powerful and will help a lot in your deliverance (remember demons are scared of tongues and flee away when the hear tongues)

[@albertodove4125]

It's becoming harder since women aren't the same. I still have to fight it to this day

[@yaboifredrickscadon]

don't blame women

[@albertodove4125]

@@yaboifredrickscadon this guy....

[@BornR3STLESS]

Blame women and you'll never be free. That's an excuse. The real problem is you.

[@yaboifredrickscadon]

its true isnt it? even if woman do dress more seductive nowadays, if you want to beat this thing (no pun intended), you cant use it as an excuse@@albertodove4125

[@yasiem6245]

What do you mean by "women aren't the same"?

[@RepentNBelieveNJesus]

As someone who struggles with porn you shouldn’t put up thumbnails that trigger people.

[@Maksie0]

He's right, I looked at a boob and now I'm dead

[@FlipflopMount222]

Only one? Was she missing a boob wtf 😨

[@Maksie0]

@@FlipflopMount222 I died before I could see the second one 😔

[@midlander4]

Thanks for making up this bullshit story about non-existent Tyler

[@iwanohlukas7408]

I really enjoy your content. I will surely try this. I’m on my journey to Christ and feels great 🥹