How Putting The Breaks on Sex & Dating Propelled Dronme Davis Into Loving Herself

[@AbigailMilcarek]

I felt like my celibacy was wrong because sexual liberation has such a seemingly narrow definition. sexual liberation can be expressed in many ways! Celibacy is healthy!

[@StyleLikeU1]

Right on! It's so important that we expand our understanding of autonomy and freedom to encompass differing experiences! ❤️❤️Sending you love xoxo

[@anaissainza]

Right? I always felt that in order to be an empoweted woman, I had to be polyamorous and have tons of sex. That is just absurd. It's like saying that giving men what they want (no-strings-attached kinda sex) is empowering. If you want to be poly and all that, that's fine. But don't sell it as The Ultimate Remedy against women's oppeession, because it's not.

[@sparksoflife101]

@@anaissainza yep I think celibacy and high standards is more empowering.

[@ohmareshah]

The part about crying when angry or passionate , and losing any respect from men.. oof that hits hard. It's like they think conversation and debate should be devoid of any emotion. And the second you show it they write you off. Sometimes it feels like they are trying to purposely goad you there so they have an excuse to shut you down.

[@cosmicwoodtuft6338]

The crux is that they often get emotional and angry in conversation. But somehow only women get called emotional.

[@patsteel2023]

@@cosmicwoodtuft6338 Exactly.

[@cgoiq19]

This resonates so hard. I was the girl laughing along with house slave jokes, and developing early, and being told to cover up by adults because I had cleavage already. Being jealous of skinny white girls with perfectly straight hair and Abercrombie jeans. Hating my body and resigning myself, in fifth grade, to never being loved, literally because I didn’t look like *Bella from Twilight*. It’s so, so damaging. I’m not even done watching this yet, but I can tell I’ll be watching it many, many more times.

[@StyleLikeU1]

We're so glad you could connect with Dronme's experiences and honesty💗Thank you for sharing your story and we're sending you lots of love! xoxo

[@gabriellenichole3445]

I developed in 5th grade, had full curves by 7th...always compared to my tall skinny blonde best friends, always feeling less than. My mom being blonde and 100lbs size 0...Looking back I saw the influence of the media over my self esteem. I am now finally more comfortable, learning to love myself and my big hips and thighs feeling beautiful on the inside. I heard so much of my own story from this woman. I’m so happy we are moving forward in society. Thank you for this channel and these incredible people. 💕🥳👏🦋

[@the_mulattos]

Oh my god you're an embarrassment. Stop trying to exploit our Plight for your lesbian shenanigans. Mixed black white women are rated the most attractive even over white women. They are literally the standard now and you're trying to blame your lack of success with women on the patriarchy.

[@the_mulattos]

You guys represent the LGBT people of color not heterosexual people.

[@the_mulattos]

@@StyleLikeU1 it's not the patriarchy. In fact it's never not been a patriarchy even before we were humans. Just having one man and a woman equals patriarchy because the man is stronger and therefore has more power. We know it's only LGBT women who even complain about this so you're not hiding anything.

[@emmadezwaan]

Stop dating men and learning to be alone are the best things I've ever donde for my selfasteam and selfworth! Very empowering! Only then, you realize how much men do drag wonen down.

[@zolawilliams1]

I am so grateful to be bisexual/queer.

[@jblank1862]

I am happier than ever WITHOUT abusive male rhetoric. Not all male "rhetoric" is abusive.

[@roshie187]

Just stop dating for a while and don't lend your selfworth to romantic relationships as a whole*

[@lillypad0323]

Amen

[@henderickmitchell6941]

What is up with the hate for men lol! Patriarchy has deprived most men. Especially black men. All men are being judged based on bad men YOU ladies chose. Time to take accountability ladies.

[@xomuzikaldivaxo]

This channel is the torch lighting the way back to matriarchy. The divine feminine will heal and reclaim her throne. Thank you for your amazing work.

[@StyleLikeU1]

What an amazing thing to say! So much love ❤️

[@ClayMastah344]

Agreed!

[@gabrielladiamantina]

💖

[@StyleLikeU1]

@@ClayMastah344 💗💗

[@StyleLikeU1]

@@gabrielladiamantina 💖💖

[@bellejour559]

When she shook out her hair and smiled near the end she looked so completely free...Beautiful! 💜

[@StyleLikeU1]

Amazing moment!! ❤️

[@lisachatham8690]

Absolutely Gorgeous woman!! Just be yourself and everything else falls into place.

[@ellajanemusic]

dronme is a fucking light in this world. i could listen to her talk for hours

[@StyleLikeU1]

So could we! ❤️

[@the_mulattos]

This is a man in the body of a woman who is jealous of men being with women trying to manipulate women into political lesbianism

[@the_mulattos]

Lesbians are also the most likely to suffer from bed deaths within like 2 years where they don't even have sex or are in the same room and have the highest rate of divorce than any other coupling. You don't get to hide under other women as a mask

[@the_mulattos]

I'm going to respond to this

[@miaomiaou_]

@@the_mulattos seriously?? 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@esmieadele8865]

This confirms my feelings of needing celibacy for liberation from shame and abuse. So much resonated. Thank you love❤️

[@StyleLikeU1]

So happy to hear! Big love and hugs ❤️

[@Doesitstop]

"I feel so beautiful when I'm with her" such a beautiful statement.

[@HomemakerDaze]

I'm single out of a abusive toxic relationship couple months ago and I needed this video to remind me to stay celibate and not be afraid of the loneliness cause I need to focus on healing myself!

[@StyleLikeU1]

So happy you resonated with Dronme❤️ Sending you lots of love xoxo

[@HomemakerDaze]

@@StyleLikeU1 thanks so much. I love what you do x

[@paulawegman4204]

same!

[@wendysalter]

Celibacy is so powerful. After all we do it better ourselves. Friendship and hugs are more valuable.

[@TheReverenceProject]

She is me, I am her. I’m exactly the same, feeling most vulnerable when I’m mad because I’ll get emotional and blush. Needed this right now.

[@StyleLikeU1]

It's so amazing that you can see your own reflection in Dronme's story! Thank you for watching ❤️

[@kristyjohnson2820]

Wow! God almighty it is the TIME for the divine feminine to rise within each and every one of us.....& it is happening. These stories are SO powerful, and it is true power being shared here. Sisters letting go of what they have been told FOR EONS OF TIME, what is expected of us. It is TRULY magnificent to witness/behold the raw power of women.... rising through the ashes of their own experience and standing so fully in their divinity. A beacon of light for others. Nothing, just nothing can hold a torch to that!

[@bendemare5270]

✨✨✨✨✨🎆✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@CandySoulAndSoil]

I love the fact you feel the most beautiful when you are with your mum. That melted my heart 💜

[@user-gk8mf2ij4u]

StyleLIkeu, i have been following you for years now. I DON't THINK you realize how much of an impact you have in my life. This interview has changed me, once again. It makes me interrogate myself in such a good way : why do i seek validation from male and their attention , why am i willing to put my mental health in danger for their validation ? It makes me aware and i want to change that even more about myself, so i can be more free everyday. Your channel is so important to me, the people you interview are so inspiring, beautiful, holy, sunny. I love you so much, thank you SO MUCH. (sorry for all my mistakes, i'm french).

[@StyleLikeU1]

AWWWWW....Thank you and we appreciate you, so much love to you back! ❤️

[@ClayMastah344]

I love her honesty. My childhood was very similar to hers. It fucks you up immensely. Biracial and black children are not here for you and your kids to learn to be better people. They’re not here to teach you about race relations, project your favorite stereotypes, or ‘earn’ their way into your good graces. She’s also one of the few biracial women I’ve heard be honest about the brutality and callousness of their white communities and families. They’re very quick to highlight the black community but often the stories from the other side are just as bad, usually worse. I’d imagine it’s easier to avoid looking at that. So I appreciate her thorough honesty about how both communities failed her. You can tell she’s been very honest with herself.

[@StyleLikeU1]

Amen ❤️

[@jblank1862]

Excellent observations

[@stepahead5944]

Agreed.

[@Namine01]

This confirms my thought process in becoming celibate for awhile. To just completely separate myself from others validation of who I am when I don't even know who that is. I appreciate her and this channel so much. Thank you for freely existing 💖

[@StyleLikeU1]

Much love to you ❤️

[@punkybrewstar83]

Done it, stopped (😬😵😳), doing it again, highly recommend it.

[@lavendersomnium9328]

What happens if you claim yourself back (when alone) , but the moment you start relating to people again you fall back more ore less to old patterns of external validation/worry /comparison? In other words how do you fight back these triggers from the outside environment in order to preserve all this work done ?

[@DiosaNegra67]

Master YOURSELF and you can achieve anything. This is YOUR BODY....your TEMPLE....you can allow or DENY access as you deem fit. You OWE no one ANYTHING babygirl!!! 🙌🏾🙏🏽🙌🏾

[@StyleLikeU1]

Amen ❤️

[@sunnni_]

I love this! Been on my celibacy journey for a long time now and its honestly the most freeing and the absolute happiest i've ever been. I am free to just be me and live on my own terms. Dress how I want, laugh how I want, and just be who I want without feeling like I have to conform of what society tells women should be, dress, talk, liberate, and more.

[@marabragagnolo]

The concept of looking at yourself and accepting your “imperfections” because of the resemblance with your parents, family and heritage is so powerful. It helped me so much through my life to love myself. But some people might not be able to have that, because of the difficulty with accepting their heritage because of racism and difficult relationship with their family, that’s when representation becomes extremely important. With your channel you’re giving that representation and so much more, I will be forever grateful for it. 🧡

[@StyleLikeU1]

Yes!! You're so right, Mara! Thank you for being part of our community! We love that you resonate with our interviews and are so thankful to have your voice present💖

[@Lulu151196]

my god I can so relate with the crying part of feeling vulnerable when you are angry. I have the same struggle and I feel you girl! Thank you for sharing!

[@StyleLikeU1]

So happy you resonated with Dronme's story! Thank you for supporting and for watching 💗

[@KathleenJean53]

Male Attention is Not worth the actions we take as a result. The lower self esteem. The pausing of exploring and finding ourselves. The freedom to find stuff out about yourself, to try, to fail with yourself, not proving anything except to yourself, and most of all letting go, stepping out of unhealthy relationships. Hanging in there is a wast of your precious life.The relationship is not the thing, the goal, it is a lie. Thank god I am not into social media. I liked this video. We are precious.

[@GoldenGurl91]

Thank you for such raw honesty. Everything you've said has resonated for me as a Native American woman growing up in a conservative environment. I never knew that I could be myself and there was no one to encourage me to just be myself and live myself. There was always an ideal that I had to live by. As a lesbian I didn't actually come out until I was 23 and before then I had such shame. I let men use me because I had no self worth, I was so brain washed that my imperfection was the problem. I am at a whole new place and I wish I could hug my young self and tell her she doesn't need to change for anyone. You are so brave sharing your story thank you ❤️

[@nicedote7240]

so sweet. Misogynoir is definately a topic that needs to be discussed and more safe spaces (are) and should be created for women of color to talk about the duality of supporting black men and not falling victim to their misoginy. Great episode. Wish you all the best girl 🙂❤️

[@StyleLikeU1]

Thank you for sharing and sending lots of love ❤️

[@DiosaNegra67]

Yes!!!! Totally agree on this.

[@the_mulattos]

@@StyleLikeU1 please don't use Trayvon Martin or anything to do with black men or men generally for your narrative please and thank you.

[@the_mulattos]

LGBT women hate men more than any group on the history of the planet in the most concentrated way in such a small group. The only reason they don't hate gay men as much as because they're not competition for women.

[@labelle9921]

Thank you so much for speaking on this. When she touched on how the community exiled her while embracing the male predators...well. We def still have so far to go, but, steps are being made.

[@queenneurotica4591]

What an amazing young woman. What an absolute blessing she has discovered who she truly is at such a young age.

[@__orlando__]

i really identify w this girl, and her bravery in talking about some of the messed up politics around being mixed. its always hard to be dismissed by black folk and then to be given shit for voicing a feeling of rejection, cause at the end of the day you're still black and the world is still gonna treat you as such

[@StyleLikeU1]

We're so glad Dronme's story resonated with you. Thank you so much for sharing your own experience! Sending you love 💞

[@stepahead5944]

Acknowledge the dismal from both/all sides of one's mixed identity.

[@gabriellenichole3445]

This is the perfect example of the incredible power of self acceptance and self love. Learning that I am the only person who can change my life and my thoughts and my beliefs was the most profound understanding of my life. God bless all of us. #sisterhood

[@dilushix]

Her past story reminds me of so much of myself. I'm no where close to feeling this liberated but she gives me hope and her energy and aura is beyond beautiful. Just pure freedom

[@StyleLikeU1]

You will get there, we all have the potential and are here to do so! Sending love ❤️

[@alexish8183]

I think issues for biracial black people are so incredibly nuanced and rarely ever talked about in thoughtful ways. I deeply appreciate her perspective.

[@roccostrange2472]

It's always so amazing to me how many people mirror ourselves all over the world. It truly shows our "Oneness". I loved this and related so much, I tear up when I'm angry and it used to drive me insane because people go from listening to pitying or dismissing you. Therapy made me realise that my tears are a physical manifestation of my emotions &my capacity to feel. So I just let them flow and continue incinerating your ignorance with my eloquence. 💛💛💛 Thank you for this....

[@StyleLikeU1]

Love this ❤️Thank you for sharing, and we're SO happy you enjoyed the video! ❤️

[@octoberrosesaxon8818]

Thank you for being real and authentic. I’m in recovery from a eating disorder. This inspired me. Tearing up. Beautiful human. Thank you!! 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@StyleLikeU1]

❤️ We're thrilled to hear that Dronme inspired you! Sending you so so much love xoxo

[@hellokitty-nl]

I am exactly where she is now, only I'm 54!! You are so so so strong , thank you for sharing your story 💜

[@chloesugden5537]

Going through the exact same process of body acceptance and celibacy. This brought me to tears.

[@annemorrissey7372]

This 60+3/4 year old thanks you all so much for this interview. Signed me, feeling my back sweat!

[@sleepyspacegremlin]

I had a body that developed young, too. The way people treated me was so weird and uncomfortable. We gotta stop that crap.

[@lila3372]

So much admiration for her. Even as a white woman, acknowledging my white privilege and how it's kept me a huge chunk of her struggles this still resonated so much. Thank you StyleLikeU for facilitating and thank you Dronme!

[@StyleLikeU1]

Her story has so many layers! Thank you for watching 💗 We're so glad you could learn from and connect with Dronme!

[@jmaldo92]

I relate to everything she said so much!!! All of it. And she's so beautiful 😭😭 when she said her body looks like her mom's I cried 🥺❤️

[@StyleLikeU1]

So happy to hear, sending love ❤️

[@Userrrio]

I’m so happy I stumbled upon this channel. What a beautiful interview, I enjoyed every second. It’s so true, all that she was saying. And it’s frustrating how much misogyny is woven into our existence as women. I’ve had women shame me as a result of the patriarchal environment they grew up in and it makes me sad. I want them to live for them, not the approval of men. And don’t judge me when I don’t care about the approval of men

[@StyleLikeU1]

Welcome! We're so happy you've found us and that you loved the video! Dronme's totally incredible. We couldn't agree more about the frustration of ingrained misogyny that reveals itself through all people. We hope our videos will help to reveal that and reconstruct our notions of ourselves and each other! Sending you lots of love xoxo

[@Stressymessy]

Im almost 1 year celibate, i think ill keep going because not giving my body to anyone else has been healing. Ill be 5 years sober, i wish i could have been celibate all of my soberiety but i had to learn my limits at the pace i did.

[@CAM-fq8lv]

She is so articulate and honest. A lot of truth in that video. Thank you for the work that you do.

[@elenafetter9690]

When she said with such sweetness that her body looks like her mom's, it made me cry. Omg

[@StyleLikeU1]

We love that part too 💗💗

[@DMariaWoods]

Honest, insightful, heartbreaking and empowering. It takes strength to straddle the cultural fence, and be rejected by both sides. And yes, the hardest part is dating misogynistic males who think that thay have a right to YOUR body. What an awesome choice to reclaim her feminine energy and honor her temple. Celibacy equals clarity, strength and total self acceptance. Great interview! Thank you💚💚

[@xxfox]

She is so beautiful that I cried.

[@StyleLikeU1]

Ahhh wow, so happy you were as touched as we are!! love to you ❤️

[@xxfox]

@@StyleLikeU13 years later, same reaction! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@amandaray9027]

I love this! I watched it this morning and am now rewatching it. The part where she mentions how she wanted to be the exception for white males really resonated with me. Great interview!

[@yveje9720]

This speaks to me so much I have been celibate for a long time and it's definitely worked to make me a more confident assertive woman maybe not for everyone but like I said this spoke to me

[@cindyela1061]

Thank you so much for being so open and vulnerable. This is so healing to see

[@StyleLikeU1]

Radical honesty is the healing! Lots of love ❤️

[@ziwa13]

This interview broke my heart. I am sorry baby, you had to endure that growing up.

[@Baybiblu88]

A bit jarring but also so special and reaffirming to hear some of the experiences I share with Dronme told in such an elequent and honest way. I feel as though I'm on the same path as her now, to self love and actualisation. She makes me feel excited to meet that version of myself. Thank you

[@StyleLikeU1]

We totally understand how you feel! Others' authenticity and radical honesty can reveal so much about our own selves! We're all growing together 🥰❤️

[@kenziebranch301]

this is so real, growing up mixed you are introduced to the importance of your looks and body way too early. so proud of you

[@moz7173]

This was my childhood. Bullied, severely, at school for my natural size, but, also bullied and critisized by my father...... That was the cherry on top of my childhood / teen hell cake, and at 52 I still struggle with my self image. THANK YOU A L L at StyleLikeU for your content, it really helps X

[@iBRiDGE380]

For recovering your blackness, and your arduous and amazing journey to grow and help others by sharing... Thank you. 🇺🇸 We got time

[@wunderland1]

Made me cry.

[@tonitrieb1438]

thank you so so much for your honesty and authenticity... we really need to talk more about topics like that, where we show our true selves and allow ourselves to be vulnerable.

[@StyleLikeU1]

You're exactly right! So much love and power through vulnerability and radical honesty❤️

[@stellarose3655]

I’m so touched by the candidness ♥ As a multiracial woman learning to love my own inheritance and all the ways it shows up in my body, this was incredibly inspiring and important. Thank you thank you ♥️

[@thatlthatjiminhandedeverya1018]

This video is real. Her honesty is very much appreciated and a lot of girls who may feel like her should watch this

[@kotrynamichaliovaite8789]

This was HEAVILY GENUINE and honest. Oooof. Impressed, she is highly self aware and highly authentic.

[@DeclawedOne]

I love love love this

[@StyleLikeU1]

Exactly!! Thank you for watching ❤️sending you love xoxo

[@anakapoesie9720]

I think you dont realise how much this channel helps people to see people who looks like them, struggle the same and share their vulnerable side. What you are doing is so important and so meanningfull

[@itscomingtogeteverything]

That was so honest and real.

[@StyleLikeU1]

So happy you liked it, sending love ❤️

[@itscomingtogeteverything]

@@StyleLikeU1 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@stephanieeppes8437]

She is absolutely STUNNING!! Truly enjoyed this episode ❤️

[@StyleLikeU1]

Thank you! We couldn't agree more!! xoxo

[@odararumbol8781]

This was so so so impactful. Thank you for everyone involved.

[@StyleLikeU1]

We're so glad you were moved by Dronme's interview! Thank you for your support 🥰❤️

[@andrineborbe2470]

I keep coming back to this video like every month or so this will probably be my life guide

[@jamesloarie8427]

Thanks for your honesty and sharing how you feel. You are very beautiful inside and out, gorgeous woman.You are an example of how life is!

[@StyleLikeU1]

Thanks so much for the support! ❤️

[@Reina595]

14:33 felt that deeply. Appreciate you sharing yourself and cheers to your future journey.

[@caitlynj0nes]

You are so beautiful thank you! I have also always been betrayed by my tears when I'm mad, I just feel so passionately. It has gotten a bit better as I have gotten older, but yea I relate to you about that so much

[@StyleLikeU1]

We're so glad Dronme's story resonated with you! 💗💗💗 thank you for watching and for supporting the movement!

[@SacredVillage1]

Beautiful sacred sharing of space between two authentic beings...Thank you

[@angelaarafelis8943]

This needs like 50 thumbs up! So much in here , she has reached an awareness and body wisdom much earlier than many of us....love this, keep going!

[@indiaameye1417]

Beautiful talk. But the biggest brain washing is the fact that we were taught that being blond is perfect -in reference to her mom. But I also get her. 🙏🏿

[@StyleLikeU1]

Yes! You are right that there are so many little ways these types of assumptions and beliefs are engrained! So glad you enjoyed 💗

[@Sarablueunicorn]

Men are more attracted to blondes even if their own race doesn't come in "blonde" color. Asian men will date blonde white women, black men will date blonde white women, arabs will pay freaking camels for blonde white women. The colorism is more present in hair than in skin because people with fair skin tan but rarely you'll see a blonde dying her hair black or brown, unless temporarily. Brunettes will dye their hair blond, blondes will bleach and become platinum. Marilyn Monroe is a good example, she wasn't naturally blonde but she became the ultimate sex symbol with almost white platinum hair and the line "men prefer blondes".

[@indiaameye1417]

@@Sarablueunicorn No love, people are attracted to their conditioning, as such, they are attracted to an illusion, hence my original comment.

[@Makeupandmuscles827]

this is so honest. thanks Sis for telling your story and for your vulnerability. ❤

[@adwoadanso8644]

I come back to this video often

[@ignaziopravata5372]

She is a beautiful woman.

[@StyleLikeU1]

she is, inside and out! ❤️

[@humolovesjessie185]

Your testimony is so courageous, i know how hard it is to call out your own... there are guilty feelings of betrayal, but yes, "movement culture" & "protest communities", still have a lot of decolonizing to do. Black/Brown "radical' spaces are overpowered by mysoginy, (twisted colonized beliefs about what is manhood and masculinity), not just from men, but also by women who have internalized this macho toxic culture. (not to the mention the white groupie "radicals" with money who enable our Black & Brown men to continue abusing us) White money in movement work often, only helps to distort and dislocate the centering of our Black/Brown voices inside circles of healing and struggle. Thank you so much for your words and love and courage to be open and forgiving

[@savonnae.7246]

This is so beautiful. Dronme is so beautiful. I'm just so grateful to have wandered here.

[@lynzara]

I think you're amazing Dronme Davis. Well done on your journey getting to the self awareness and self acceptance that you are at. You're an inspiration for us all.

[@cathleenluo4712]

this is such a powerful video! thank u

[@cathleenluo4712]

"when I'm really mad, I start to cry" bc mood

[@StyleLikeU1]

We are so happy Dronme's story moved you, Cat! 💞💞Couldn't agree more! Thank you for watching❤️

[@myriamsanchez8541]

I've always wanted to be interviewed by them !!! sameeeee I had lil ideas of what I would say! I've been watching since I was 15 too ! just turned 25 and let me say that im so proud of Her. so grateful to be here enjoying these vides ! thank you for creating such inspiring content !!!

[@channel2n3ws]

your relationship to your body being so violent because of the narratives you’ve been told and then growing up to be like “well i like how i stand like my grandma” or “my mom has the same belly but i don’t hate it on her” literally made me cry. thank you so much for speaking about this

[@pureheartbadass]

i love dronme! she's so real and wonderful

[@StyleLikeU1]

Yes yes yes!! ❤️Couldn't agree more.

[@minkahalstead8748]

This was absolutely beautiful, what a beautiful woman inside and out. Heartbreaking to hear of her classmates toxic racist rhetoric. So pleased she is free of all the bs and living her best life, such a breath of fresh air and shining light ✨❤️

[@tschandraheinze1680]

She is just absolutely and boldly strong in all the right ways. Such a great way to share the joy of hard times in this life each human goes through in showing the positive way this beautiful soul came to be from some. Standing up an really changing the ways most hate and already are feeling are wrong but too stand up and say it and live it shows if i can you can. Stay beautiful just as you are. Happy New Year. Stay safe. From Wasilla Alaska, Tschandra

[@mariemasten6487]

Thank you so much for the work you do! Your channel and the people you spotlight feel like an unconditional hug!

[@StyleLikeU1]

Awwww that's amazing, hugs back !

[@iBRiDGE380]

"My mom and I have the same belly and I don't hate it on her" Epiphanies in process.

[@enns5366]

Felt this one deeply. Definitely can relate to feeling the same way with men.

[@madisonsparks8393]

Love this. Thank you. Loving my mother and grandmother's bodies has helped me love mine too 🧡

[@StyleLikeU1]

Such a beautiful moment in Dronme's story!💗💗Thank you for watching! We're so glad you loved the video! xoxo

[@krismm17]

I love how transparent she is. This is where we make progress a true fuckjng queen I need an autograph

[@assianeu197]

As much as I was also influenced by patriarchal ideology and still am, I would have never ever felt jealousy when hearing someone got raped? that really shook me, idk how this could be anyone's reaction ? Glad that she grew out of that because wow

[@StyleLikeU1]

Thank you for sharing! Our different perspectives can help us learn and realize so much about our own radical truths! 💗

[@Lisa_Lisa312]

The comment is telling, she didn't feel seen at that time in her life. The thought of being a victim of sexual assault means she would be seen, validates maybe even feeling disred. It is honest and allows us to peek inside of her inner turmoil.

[@naavajo]

It is not as uncommon as you think. I also struggled with this. Especially being a minority woman where you are often overlooked in white spaces. Any attention felt good at the time due to the desperation.

[@bronzecigar]

I came looking for this conversation. I really want to give her a hug. Sending love ❤

[@nicolawoodend3462]

So beautiful ,my heart feels lighter after hearing her talk 😍

[@itsfor_vega]

She and I lived parallel lives. Thank you for sharing sis!

[@StyleLikeU1]

So glad you could resonate with Dronme's story! Thank you for your support💖

[@sarahdaley6394]

What an absolute breath of fresh air

[@pauladejoie2999]

It's a shame that the fact that black men are brutalized by racist cops does not prevent them from abusing and brutalizing black women. I'd love to see a nationwide movement of black men acknowledging that and pledging to protect, praise and uplift black women. We've always been the backbone. It's way past time we were more supported and celebrated by black men and others, particularly those who control the media.

[@jackieburns5257]

I agree about misogyny in the Black community. I am still shocked by Cosby supporters, by the hate given to women who received settlements when divorcing rich/ famous black men. The labeling of women as goldiggers and vicious words used to negatively describe women in lyrics.

[@gwynneio]

She is awesome and beautiful! What a blessing of a person.

[@crystal-pupa]

This was such a beautiful interview. THANK YOU

[@tkmatunda5029]

Thanks so much for sharing. I can relate to her story so much. It's nice to know that I'm not the only one that felt like that. ❤️❤️❤️

[@StyleLikeU1]

Thank you for watching! We're so happy to hear that you resonated with Dronme's story. Feeling represented by the media you consume is such a freeing feeling. ❤️❤️ sending love!

[@cherokeemarsh]

Wow .. thank you for making sense of how I felt but could not articulate!

[@annafink9461]

This is my favorite one. I come back once a year to rewatch

[@MadelineRafferty]

Amazing. Hearing her story and witnessing her total self possession was inspiring!

[@StyleLikeU1]

So happy you enjoyed! Thank you for watching!!💗💗

[@elenamiller7104]

this channel has changed my life

[@thebrittdrake]

‘What’s your fave thing about your body?’ - ‘It looks like my mom’s’ ❤