'How Should I Handle 2 Girlfriends & A Daughter?'

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[@klondontv]

That child is toooo young to be told that daddy has 2 girlfriends. She doesn't need to be introduced to this and the instability that it may bring.

[@girlfromdabay93]

He should have left the room and closed the door behind him when she knocked on the

[@sammiedopee]

Right, that’s just too much

[@Chris-rg6nm]

Nah, just say they are friends. No need to complicate it with lies.

[@shadyzbabii420]

Honestly, it really doesnt make much of a difference.

[@samoxford5268]

It's called polyamory. It's not crazy common in many areas of the US, but it's not unheard of. I know a woman with a husband, and they have a girlfriend together while she has a boyfriend, and they all have children. The children are exposed to the love a village can provide, and there's nothing nefarious about that.

[@shesuminelse5226]

What kind of advice is Jess giving this man? First off, that’s not his wife, and secondly, his child is 7. You don’t have that type of adult conversation with a child. Also, what about the child’s mother? Before he thinks about anything, he should be talking to her mom. TF wrong with people

[@hazeew.6272]

I 100% agree

[@ayanj86]

Facts!!!!!

[@davaughnallen3324]

Jess cant fix her edges, reading, or comedy career... how can she help anyone?

[@janedough6410]

Also the double standard if it was reverse.... *with one person* moving in, less than a year.

[@jamilladanae]

she lives with him and has seen them all in bed laying together. he has to say something

[@rhondaboyd6929]

Definitely NOT let your baby girl know what you're doing. She is not of age to process this. It is also inappropriate, can potentially create more problems. Leave the advice to Licensed Professional Counselors Jess. Keep giving us jokes and laughter. We love that for you.

[@BillFresco]

What in the Three's Company? you better take that child to her granny's house

[@ayanj86]

Omg I laughed soooo hard at this 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nme.00104]

😭😭🤣😂😂😆💀⚰️

[@wendyfan8071]

😅

[@irvingomel5780]

I always feel like it’s a little crazy that people call a radio station to get help in their real life, but I guess some people don’t have another option 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@IndigoUchiha26]

But you here watching it tho 😂😂😂😂

[@irvingomel5780]

@@IndigoUchiha26 what the hell does watching for entertainment have to do with calling a radio personality for advice?

[@ShervierJ]

@@irvingomel5780People don’t know when to use that sentence. They just try so hard to have a “gotcha” moment when they don’t even make sense 😂

[@user-kc1sy1km9y]

Your assuming he got what he wanted and was Contempt. And maybe he wanted an opinion outside his circle. Jess still has an opinion.

[@irvingomel5780]

@@user-kc1sy1km9y i’m not assuming anything I’m not even really talking about the actual people that called. In general, I am surprised that people call the radio for advice, but I guess I can see how some people want a celebrities advice

[@SoulOfOle]

Lawd these people…. Glad I’m single SINGLE 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@wendyfan8071]

💯same!😅

[@mjgotbeats]

It’s all fun and games until your baby girl is desensitized to sex

[@szn1580]

Facts

[@rorisang88]

Didnt he say the little girl is seven years old???? Why talk to her about adult sexual relationships? Let her be à child! Find someone to babysit whilst you do your dirt! Damn!

[@natashasmith8301]

This isn’t polygamy this is polyamory. For question like this person. Ppl should see a licensed marriage and family therapist and or a certified sex therapist.

[@thehoneydeev]

They don’t want to pay. So the value is this exchange is for the caller to have an avenue to vent.

[@Legend_has]

if you are ashamed of the life you live, that should tell you all you need to know. You’re not living right. You not wanting your daughter to follow your footsteps. Should tell you that you’re with the wrong woman/women.

[@llaw8760]

This is the comment!

[@hazeew.6272]

The last caller just wanted to hear herself talk. You waited 10 years.. bffr. You aren't going nowhere. Lol 😅

[@jaymac826]

Jess told this girl stay then said leave....

[@mkwyche]

She might as well stay had three babies by this man

[@wendyfan8071]

💯 happens alot with these callers...there's always one 😅

[@memepapi]

Can’t sacrifice for the benefit of his child is crazy

[@Unc654]

Bruh if u won’t dump that 3rd chick and just date the one girl dawg 😂😂it’s dat simple

[@user-sx1pl8ii6z]

FRFR what are we doing here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@Chris-rg6nm]

His girl want a girlfriend

[@user-kw4lu3kl3y]

What noooo!!! Jess! The child does not need to know. The parent's job is to protect the child's innocence. I strongly disagree sis.

[@mysexpressions9604]

So The caller with the baby mother, has a girlfriend who his child now knows as mommy prime, also got a bonus girlfriend “for us” that he wants to introduce his child to as mommy double prime….. and the alternative is he HAS to leave the woman he loves 🧐 which I assume is mommy prime? AND you opened the door for the 7 year old during your super hot romance session…. Sir the reason you’re confused is because the devil is the author of confusion, please leave that innocent child alone and out of your confusion.

[@JEGlobalConcepts]

Jess can’t fix anything 😂😂😂😂

[@blacknburgundy3162]

Nah for real lol

[@Rico513]

She can't even fix her reading skills 🙄 lol

[@ariamason9324]

Exactly, she's unmarried and a 2x baby momma. Only advice she can offer is not what to do.

[@davaughnallen3324]

@@Rico513 Cant fix her hair or comedy career either... Trash in every way...

[@JEGlobalConcepts]

@@Rico513 🤣🤣🤣

[@crystalscott6274]

Absolutely do not explain this to this little girl. She’s too young to know what is happening. Now if he was married to these women that’s different. But keep that baby out of that 3 some mess

[@everettclinton4517]

Jess eyes when he said I have a daughter 😂😂like what he bout to say next😂

[@blah21blah22blah23]

I pray for this world smh. The things that people are so blahzay about now days is just crazy! Everyone runs around trying to figure out what in the world is going on now days, what has become common place and acceptable is NOT NORMAL! COMMON AND NORMAL ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.

[@nyoungjunior]

This ain't nothing new in history

[@blah21blah22blah23]

You’re correct this is not new. Nothing is new under the sun however, what is new no one looks to do what’s right and normal anymore. The rule today is whatever makes you happy and feel good that acceptable. No matter how detrimental it is to ourselves and anyone else. That’s what’s new and self destructive and doing a lot of damage in the world today!

[@anthonyellison5774]

Fax 💯

[@dream-nk5xv]

I hope buddy know if that girlfriend really wants a girlfriend they might end up leaving him cause I know a few guys that has happened to cause they get the baby and dip

[@quentinjones6877]

That's why I would never date a bisexual woman

[@quentinjones6877]

That's why I will never date a woman who is into women

[@christophersterling836]

Best case scenario I'll say.

[@janedough6410]

You know he's not thinking. All within a year.

[@quentinjones6877]

That's why I couldn't be with a woman who goes both ways

[@aishabellinger632]

Jess wtf that is horrible advice 😂🤣 ... how can a 7 year old process polygamy!.... He needs to keep the extra girlfriend private.. because im almost 100% sure that it is not going to last...

[@houseofmatrix6174]

Idk it’s not good decision either way

[@adamantinerebelle7578]

That Man Should NOT Introduce His Daughter to That For Someone They've Known 5 Months, or At All Frfr.. I Respect Him As a Father For Considering His Daughters Well Being, But That's Too Much. Children Are Very Impressionable, As He Said & Knows 💜

[@maniac50ae14]

Ten years and that many kids... CHICK AINT NOTHING ELSE OUT HERE FOR YOU😂!!! He got good d, he loves his momma, he do for you and the kids. You gotta ride that out unless he aint doing right, cheating or abusing you

[@LMB8]

Simple… don’t have your daughter around the other woman. She’s too young to understand that dynamic. Protect your daughter at all costs. Please seek advice from an elder as well…. Some people are not seasoned enough to provide sound advice on such sensitive issues.

[@calid42]

Better keep cute and say the other girl is auntie at 7yrs old

[@ayanj86]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@mrssss9112]

Wait 😂so why is auntie in the bedroom with daddy?! 😂🤣

[@calid42]

@@mrssss9112 we fixing the bed now go play

[@shadyzbabii420]

Sir, you need to grow up and be a leader. No matter what you choose. Also, as a woman, once I hear a grown man say "No Diddy" he's a loser. #2 Girl, he has exactly what he wants. Nothing is going to change, EVER.

[@rbggwapo]

how about establish the structure and strategy before you begin the freaky deaky

[@kingdom121989]

These were good I usually skip fix the mess, but I was intrigued by the first one.

[@TheWeeklyUpToDateShow]

This was a great segment ❤

[@THAFLIGHT]

GENERATIONAL CURSE SOUNDS LIKE BABY BOY FATHER - DADDY GOTTA HAVE A LIFE TOO DAUGHTER - YOU GOTTA LIFE🧐🤨🤔🤝🏿💯🗣

[@reginawilliams5472]

I don't agree she is to young to be introduce to that life style , then she may go to school and spill the beans then here go department of family service in your business.

[@_xbadazz9176]

agreed!! thank you!!

[@UnseenWhispers420]

That last caller have been wasting her time..... you can bring a horse to a well but you can't make them drink it.

[@giffondhall9214]

That title is wild 😆😆

[@janellesampson2976]

My son is a teen and he’s not able to process all of my choices.. come on Jess! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@TheStrawThatStirsTheDrink]

You dont. You PRIORITIZE the daughter. Period. Lion share of your time and money goes to the daughter.

[@spythe]

"Some man have trauma and mental issues" So I gave him 3 kids

[@syki11]

How does he have full custody.. like if you feel bad you shouldn’t be doing it. Break up with the woman bc it sound like she don’t really like men and forcing him to be with another woman. And don’t bring that baby in that mess

[@Dehow78]

People are so quick to leave their family man yall need to put in work with each other you started and then finish

[@thehoneydeev]

He should watch « Why Women Kill » season 1. There was a couple with a girlfriend for the same reasons.

[@brianmcclain5273]

This is crazy man this world is going crazy

[@oasisfullfilled7617]

People are really out they mind. Where is your daughter’s mother.

[@michaelpaul4293]

What’s more important. Your daughters well being or your sexual well being. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@_xbadazz9176]

his and his gf sexual well being smh

[@Rico513]

Jess tried so hard to place 100% blame on the dude until she realized he was well spoken 😂

[@janedough6410]

2nd Caller - You really want your man to choose you over his mother. Not going to happen. It's 10 years.. and 2 (3) kids later. You knew before his 1st kid what type of man he was. So calling off the wedding is really your loss. One can continue the 10 year path or start anew.

[@janedough6410]

Just want to add, it's possible dude can have neurological challenges, which could explain why he's close to his mother and the woman stated not being mentally ready. His mom is his support system. Once he can trust and/or depend on his woman in a similar way like his mother, then they'll have a closer bond.

[@janedough6410]

*How should I handle 2 Girlfriends & a daughter?* -------------> You shouldn't. A few things: What do you want/type of life for your daughter? You are the example. A child takes precedence in everything you do. Seems like your needs and girlfriends take precedence over your daughter. IDK the circumstances with the mother, but if it was the other way around: Mom with 2 men around your 7 year old; you'd have a fit. If you're concerned about your daughter's upbringing, this can't work. You're thinking about a life with two females within a year. Meanwhile your daughter must take a number for your attention? And when she doesn't receive it or you're too busy what do you think she'll do ------> be the example that was displayed. Sir, get your home/life in order.

[@kenyab3526]

What?? Jess let your daughter in on you having two gf.. the h***… Come on people and we wonder why we as a race in last place..

[@ariellemayaali]

jess’ advice always makes me wanna scream. I think it’s pretty simple, speak to your girlfriend about how you feel and if she doesn’t agree, unfortunately you have to move on. because he seems to be stern in his feelings. Also, I don’t think not having threesomes has to be the definitive answer. You can have one once in a blue moon, and there’s precautions to take that’ll keep everyone safe. Simple.

[@MazaBLaze]

So what I'm hearing is this dude has given his child's mom (if she's still around) ammo to use in court to take custody. Yea this is nuts overall and homie needs to think about the image he's showing his kid than worrying about a grown woman's overindulgence needs!

[@Leydo773]

THIS.

[@LeesysLife]

Jess may stop doing this segment be these people are too Wilddddd🤦🏽‍♀️

[@2centsfreelancer]

Real question, men who want or do poly (not saying it’s right or wrong that’s your choice) But will yall be ok w/ your daughter to follow in the footsteps of her being part of a poly ? Genuinely curious

[@jas1565]

You know the answer

[@ATLballer]

WOW ON HIS QUESTION

[@peterparker4342]

U see how black women tell other women to leave wow than they say we have broken homes this is the reason why other cultures doesn't do this

[@Leydo773]

Jess don’t ever give anyone advice ever again. That was horrible advice to give to that first caller. Keep that child out of that mess. She going to grow up thinking that is normal. I’m gonna unsubscribe from this channel. There is nothing fruitful from TBC and it’s getting cringy and hard to listen to.

[@etherealhoney96]

So this is okay but gay parents adopting isn’t? Lmaoooo

[@nicholasminor3806]

I want to know the longest standing poly relationship.

[@jenniferalexander3997]

I ❤ Jess hair

[@kayekaye08]

I hope she not plying with him. He seems very lovable and giving and deserves reciprocity.

[@Leydo773]

Is that what he wants for his daughter, to be with a man that has 2 girlfriends? That’s the example of a man he is setting for her? 🙄

[@wendyfan8071]

This child is gonna need therapy some day😅

[@Njordall]

Hi Lenrard.

[@elijahfisher1549]

I think the first guy wanted the polyamory fantasy but he’s not polyamorous himself.

[@LamarKing215]

Unless that 2nd girlfriend is doing some god mother like things,I’d keep that shit outside the house. That’s a Friday night out,not a Tuesday morning in

[@princedr.playanardx.96]

Women giving me advice sometimes can be devastating...

[@Ronez416]

Would you guys ask a vet for advice on how to build a house… Jess be giving the worst advice 😂

[@ThePryorShow]

This has to be a joke?

[@Drawingboredi]

Love, after a year. Leave that baby alone.

[@Jaysonluhrell]

Yeah sounds like he too attached to this woman despite her obviously not being satisfied with just being with him

[@gurugroove5132]

Jesse that first was horrible advice, don’t tell the lil girl nothing. They need to be sneakier. He gonna turn his daughter to a demon

[@user-dl6xi9eg9r]

OH heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeck no!! That ain't even her daughter either!!!

[@TheReilus912]

The caller is weak lol your daughter is going to grow up and make her own choices regardless 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@joshuazuniga1897]

As a poly man, I suggest that you don't live the lifestyle if you would not accept your daughter living it. You can't be a hypocrite. Nonetheless, this is a normal lifestyle to a lot of the world; just explain it to her. I also suggest living the lifestyle how the bible examples it, and don't allow those ladies to be in a relationship with each other. The relationship will not work. You need to be the leader, and what you say go. Women tend to be petty and emotionsl when they are upset, so it always escalates if someone is not there to lead and cut it out.

[@Chris-rg6nm]

booo

[@CobugCobug]

What if daddy had two boyfriends would he open the door to show him getting his back blowed out

[@mrssss9112]

I say seek couples therapy and put the child in therapy as well… 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@PrinceJett]

You should keep him. Too many kids shawty

[@user-dl6xi9eg9r]

the "D" being "too good" is overrated...smh

[@msmime35]

uhm would he want his daughter to be in this situation???

[@DetroitsReaper]

What a lucky problem to have lol

[@Truthfullyspokenmedia80]

Jess this is not your field of work baby I love you tho 😉

[@paradoxr.n.o8688]

Lady if he good enough to have kids with then he good enough to marry just stay if you staying

[@mardyovaeast7994]

She know his mama gone die eventually she might as well ride it out

[@XtraBree]

Jess don’t need to be fixing NOBODY MESS!!!!! Her advice is horrible 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@stStarz-we6tr]

Jess can’t read or listen 😮😮😂

[@KMaccTalks]

Why is this a segment 😂😂😂???!!!! She doesn’t fix anything, she just asks obvious questions so she can understand what the rest of us already understood from just listening the first time to what the person said…the only thing that needs solving is who exactly thought this was a segment that the world needed or would be useful or entertaining to anyone, at all 😂….

[@Chris-rg6nm]

Thats what therapists do

[@Eddy45639]

Terrible advice

[@kapersclark4726]

Man people gotta stop gaslighting Jess she the last person to try n fix someone's mess when she can't even fix her own mess lol crazy

[@mikec6207]

Case in point on how women are so easy to leave. 2 kids, 10 year relationship, and cancelled a wedding over his momma 😂 and Jess gave horrible advice

[@janedough6410]

She's not going anywhere. Especially after the 1 yr. old. The time to move was 8 years ago, the latest.

[@Eloony1]

Talk to a professional please

[@robbieez4]

This was dumb!

[@astheskylarksings]

In what ways do you think Charlalame has changed since he started therapy yall?

[@iamPhillipleblanc]

Weird

[@davaughnallen3324]

This is advice is worse than ask yee... Shouldn't get advice from a bird... Js

[@RoyallKing629]

Jess needs to find some other work fr. She repeating everything the man just said. Where Claudia at

[@kevinweakley5924]

Charmalagne and Envy sre cosigningbthis bullshi&$ Jess is buggin'

[@Chris-rg6nm]

She better stay with that man, nobody want a 3x baby mama

[@Troy_Johnson]

Every man should have two girlfriends

[@user-nz9be1yq2q]

Every woman should have two boyfriends...with money 😂 no broke men allowed

[@jonathanmuldrow8458]

Nah talk about Amanda Seales flaming y'all and your girl Issa Rae instead of these pointless Fix my Mess segments

[@RandomVideosFirst]

Having a girlfriend and wife should be mandatory in the west

[@jaysco7355]

Females giving out advice is the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard 😂😂😂

[@ChevTheMechanic]

Jess contributes nothing to this neither? 🙄 for all the trolls against Jess...

[@user-un6uf6tw2v]

Surrender it to God broski.🧿🏃🌪️🦸✌️