How Sienna Mae DESTROYED Herself & Jack Wright… Downfall of a Master Manipulator

[@PettyUniversity]

I'm baaaaaack..... missed you all! Wooooo this one was a beast..... what do you want me to cover next?!? Go to buyraycon.com/swoop for 15% off your order! Correction: I just learned that Sam Smith uses they/them pronouns. I should have checked this first! My apologies for referring to Sam by incorrect pronouns

[@Kimberly_Sparkles]

Thank you for crediting the clip to Supahotfire Deshawn. I have wondered where that came from for a long time.

[@latoyathomas6544]

Glad ur back! By the same token, because we love you & want you always to be okay, GIRL! TAKE TIME WHENEVER YOU NEED TO, TO CARE FOR & LOOK AFTER YOURSELF! Next, YES, I'm still asking for Merch the same color as your wig! Pretty please, bless us Petty U. enrollees with this? Thank You for listening & your time and attention. Be easy til we see you again with part 2! Love from Arkansas!💙

[@fadalerabrasool3563]

can you cover jamie lynn and her god awful family next?

[@carveylover]

I don't know what happened to my comment, but KZbin likes to delete them for some reason. Can you cover and look into OnlyJanus. She does not seem like a nice person. She has gone after POC creators, claiming they stole her content, asking her fans to go after them. She has said racist things in the past as well. Also, I second the whole David Dobrik/Casey Neistat doc and everything with that.

[@thefilthyheathen]

I would love for you to give the SWOOP treatment to men in the music and tv/film industry that get away with having teenage "girlfriends." I'm talking Prince, Bowie, Seinfeld, Paul Walker, Jimmy Page, Steven Tyler... Okay, i'm old, so these are who i'm thinking of, but i'm sure there are more current examples. I think it needs to be addressed, and i know you'd do it justice.

[@BoxOKittens]

The amount of men and women I've seen making fun of him for being traumatised makes me sick to my stomach. I'm so glad he has friends who love him and support him.

[@JIRH922]

That’s heartbreaking.

[@bandbecause]

Exactly this! I made a vid addressing those comments and explaining Cycle of abuse. I’m so glad swoop went over the cycle in this vid too it’s so important- people wouldn’t be making fun of him if they understood what he went through 💔

[@FreyaWarr]

I almost went to jail once because this girl was taking advantage of my drunk male friend. I was so pissed. No regrets, that chick deserved everything I gave her.

[@morganqorishchi8181]

My mom is a psychologist. One of her patients is a 12 year old boy who was assaulted by his 45 year old teacher. His own parents didn't see what the big deal was for several months until my mom had explained it to them. People genuinely don't believe that assault can traumatize someone if the assailant was a woman and that speaks to a huge moral failing in us as a people.

[@Beckyyycx]

I think it comes down to misogyny. People think it’s misogynistic to support men over women but we shouldn’t be looking at this as a gender issue. It’s a victim and their abuser. It’s disgusting that people don’t see that just because he’s a male.

[@mothman8943]

the way that sienna was FIGHTING to prove that Jack was “technically” awake in the video because his arm moved completely glosses over the fact that if he was so drunk/high/tired that he was on the BRINK of unconsciousness it’s literally still assault. it’s so disappointing to see the treatment of survivors & their stories

[@nichelleniks4526]

Exactly. If you have to think about whether or not the person is awake, they can't consent.

[@zoorenard1101]

Exactly. I had a friend who wasn't believed because she apparently "went into the room" with multiple guys during a house party. Others said she couldn't even talk properly or walk on her own. Just because somebody is still moving doesn't mean they are willingly agreeing to the situation. Specially when they are intoxicated.

[@bulbasaurusthe7th841]

Not even that. When you're asleep, are you completely motionless? Am I a mutant for falling asleep, then waking up in a completely different position??

[@plexiglasscheibe329]

And you can also be SA'd when you are awake and not intoxicated. Also then we don't know if he gave consent and if he says he didn't then it is still SA.

[@DystopianOverture]

People move in their sleep, and that's not even getting into the fact you don't need to be drunk/high or asleep to be SA'ed. Sienna is fucking vile.

[@shannonigans_]

I’m 37 so take this from someone older, Jack did exactly what you should in this situation. He dealt with it off the internet. He got help from a therapist, spent time processing it til he was ready to tell the public about this and was ready to take everyone elses emotions in. Protect yourself if this happens to you and do the same.

[@HollieAndApollo]

37 as well and I agree! 💯💯💯

[@Megan-cd6sh]

I'm 38... Can I still join the club?

[@spacekitten8946]

P ppl p

[@nd4856]

I’m 30 this year, and I’m an SA survivor. It takes time to process these things it hurts, it’s overwhelming. I went to therapy for years and I’m about to start going again. I agree with everything you said.

[@alyciamarie4163]

For how young he is and this sudden fame I give him huge huge props! It’s not easy

[@morganqorishchi8181]

My mom is a psychologist and she's seen so many people assaulted by women who don't get support, weren't believed when they came forward, etc. It's especially bad for girls assaulted by women, because we as a society don't want to acknowledge that's a thing that happens, but it's also awful for guys, who are presumed to be horny and therefore always into it. It's an ongoing issue and it's awful that in 2022 women like this are still doing things like this and getting away with it.

[@bernienelson8926]

There's also an assumption that men can't be assaulted, in particular r-worded, because they won't have an erection unless they're consenting, whereas in reality the body can respond to things without our consent or control, and a person's body can seem to be aroused even when they don't want to be.

[@morganqorishchi8181]

@@bernienelson8926 Yeah, my mom's had to explain that to people before. What's really awful and is one of the few things that's made her think about quitting is that she's had to explain this to parents arguing their son wasn't r-worded because he was 'into it'. The kid in question was 12. The assailant was 45. My mom came home and cried and genuinely thought about quitting her job. How do you explain to parents that their son was r-worded? How do you go on in life knowing society is failing male victims of assault like this? There are no easy answers. But in the end my mom just dug her heels in and kept arguing with them until they understood what had happened (which took two months, because these people could *not* understand that a boy wouldn't be into sex). Maybe that's all we can do, as individuals in a society that mistakes arousal for consent, is argue with people. It's better than doing nothing, at least. Side note but to those with vaginas reading this: getting wet is also not consent and I will deck any and all guys who claim otherwise. This defense is nonsense regardless of gender. If you didn't consent you didn't consent, period, the end, no further argument needed.

[@Bethany0420]

@@morganqorishchi8181 why was your mom telling you confidential info about patients? That could be breaking patient confidentiality laws.

[@bernienelson8926]

@@morganqorishchi8181 Absolutely agree. I feel for your mum, that boy is a child, regardless of what his body was doing he could not emotionally or psychologically consent to anything. And people seem to forget about random erections and morning wood - they are purely biological, there's nothing arousal-based about them. I was abused by my ex boyfriend, and he often used my own body against me. He would say that I might have been saying no, but my body was saying yes, and he wanted to 'respect my true self' by listening to my body instead of my words. I absolutely believed him because it was my first relationship, I was 19 and he was 28 so I trusted that he knew more then me. It was only later when I learned more about the biology of the human body that I realised it was bullshit. Our genitalia has uncontrolled reactions to stimuli just as any other part of our bodies can. We can become aroused in our sleep, when we are definitely in no place to consent to sexual activity. But there's this dangerous prevailing myth that if someone is wet or hard then that's as good as saying yes.

[@cursedwithsetience4017]

@@Bethany0420 there's no identifying information. It doesn't violate HIPPA laws.

[@JaneDoe_123]

The guy is so young, and it was incredibly brave of him to open up about the abuse and assault, especially in the public sphere. I can only hope he can get justice for what happened to him.

[@Sh1roNekoshi]

Let's just all back up around him, but without getting low and harassing her about it... Like you can support people without attacking someone else, and it will save your own conscience if they end up as innocent. In this case i do think she's guilty, but let's not sink that low.

[@snookers341]

@@Sh1roNekoshi the only thing i agree with is making fun of her appearance and weight, everyone clowned on her for being not fat and then proceeds to make edits of the ground blowing up when she walks. i think making fun of her in that regard has shit all to do w “the possibility of her being innocent” which we know she isn’t, but trivializing a situation and using it as an excuse to be fatphobic and misogynistic.

[@ObamaMpreg]

“I didn’t know I was young 🥺🥺” Ok and (correct me if I’m wrong) so was Jack when you abused him

[@JaneDoe_123]

@@Sh1roNekoshi I kinda get what you're saying - harrassing her will probably only serve to be used as ammo in her favour. That being said, I believe (alleged) victims on principle. I've been wrong before, and had to swallow my words and apologize. And I'd rather apologize to someone for being wrong (and sometimes an asshole, I'll be honest), than to risk re-traumatizing someone by being wrong.

[@Sh1roNekoshi]

@@snookers341 yeah, I meant in other cases regarding that. She is indeed guilty of this with all the evidence that has piled up against her lmao

[@AleksandarBell]

Sienna talking about how she was like “I don’t understand why he filmed with me if I SAd him.” Reminds me of when my English teacher couldn’t understand when we were discussing a poem about abuse, why a child would call an abusive adult a affectionate term. I’m a survivor of parental abuse and I responded by saying “well abusers are often kind to you after the abuse because they ‘feel bad’ and want to keep you under their control.” And he still couldn’t get it. Abusers aren’t abusive 100% of the time and there’s a reason for that.

[@TamarWise]

Yes, exactly. Thank you for sharing. I was abused by my father my entire childhood 😞 and it did take me a while as a young adult to completely cut my bio family out of my life. I can't even imagine the bravery of speaking out so young 🥺✌🏼

[@TamarWise]

Also, I'm so sorry for what you went through as a child as well 🕊️

[@AleksandarBell]

@@TamarWise thank you! It was difficult but certainly needed in the discussion

[@r-pupz7032]

That's super shitty, as a teacher he should have at least had some kind of training on abuse, in my country teachers are mandatory reporters so should understand the dynamics. Or if not, just basic human empathy, jfc... Good on you for speaking up and trying to educate him. I hope you are doing well now

[@AleksandarBell]

@@r-pupz7032 I didn’t really tell them that I went through abuse I definitely hinted at it though. They all know my mom and dad and they all think they’re great people so not much I can do unfortunately

[@andideal9496]

It’s important for people to realize that women can abuse men, just as much as men can abuse women. Women should respect men’s boundaries, just as much as men should respect women’s boundaries.

[@briannagordon9079]

You’re so right! Totally agree with you!💚

[@courtneyreeves1126]

Well said. I have taught my daughters from early that while no one has the right to touch them without consent, that also means they do not touch others without consent. Because it goes both ways.

[@nihilismistheonlyway4680]

@@courtneyreeves1126 good mama. sad tho apparently Sierra's mom didn't do the same

[@gwendolyn2442]

One of my ex friends got really drunk this weekend and was forcing herself on multiple guys at a party. All of them were super uncomfortable and asked her to stop but she wouldn’t, and a lot of them left early because of it. None of its been taken seriously tho cause she’s a pretty girl and they’re supposed to want that attention. It’s so sad and makes me really angry when people don’t think girls can’t be abusers.

[@bandbecause]

Absolutely ❤️

[@nooralahmar9207]

"I'm a victim of sexual assault" and "I'm a victim of people constantly trying to cancel me" aren't even on the same level.

[@ALT-vz3jn]

Exactly. One is a crime, and the other is what happens when someone thinks they’re entitled to use their platform to gaslight everyone.

[@sdoo-ou2ni]

"I'm a victim of people constantly trying to cancel me" is quite frequently untrue and/or deserved

[@roundsdm]

I was assaulted when i was unconscious multiple times, im autistic & i used to be more easily pressured into drinking & was around guys that were TRYING to get me to pass out and have horrible ptsd from it, even my abusive boyfriend doing it because thats what hes into & because i couldnt handle sex after the abuse was traumatic, being a man changes nothing, & i wonder how it feels to be as nasty & heartless as all the bad men, because shes one of the worst of the worst women.

[@333SarahBeth]

I was out for a walk yesterday wearing my Petty U hoody, and a someone in a passing car yelled out, "swoooop!" I, of course, responded in kind. It was a nice moment.

[@TamarWise]

The only kind of shouting out of a car that is appreciated lol 😅

[@lihagdgyusvxxjjh4042]

what does swooooop mewn

[@JuriAmari]

@@lihagdgyusvxxjjh4042 this channel!

[@BeccasaurousRex270]

@@lihagdgyusvxxjjh4042 it’s literally the name of the channel

[@rebeccalock4900]

Love this for u ❤

[@Rexdrinksredbull]

Sienna talking about how her love is "newly regarded" as toxic and overbearing reminded me a LOT of the way men would say "what, I can't just /talk/ to women now?!" after MeToo; a total over-simplification of reality and turning it around to try and get sympathy.

[@bandbecause]

Such a good point about over-simplification. There’s so much nuance. Sadly some people are unwilling or unable to reflect on situations where they may be in the wrong

[@bandbecause]

Also the “newly regarded” line really bothered me- considering she made jokes about how she knew her affection was too much/uncomfortable for Jack, and she joked that she didn’t care. And said things like “I can’t help it 😁”. Such a manipulative & dishonest revision of the truth

[@britnicox3929]

Honestly I’m just really happy that Jack at least has a brother and a friend who both stand up for him because unfortunately male victims don’t typically have that kind of support especially against female. It’s very interesting to me that sienna doesn’t realize how much she sounds like a perpetrator with the word choices that she uses and the things she tries to manipulate Jack over. “He didn’t come to me in private” NO SHIT oh my god

[@abeltesfaye_]

I read that the friend that saw Sienna SA Jack did nothing to stop her despite sitting right in front of her while she SA'd Jack while he was passed out. Obviously she carries the full weight of what happened but I wouldn't be able to watch my friend get SA'd in front of me while not doing anything to stop with or having a delayed response

[@mariac1160]

@@abeltesfaye_ they didn't do anything right away. They ended up pulling her off. First, it's surprising/unexpected to see something like that and the guy in the frame didn't know the situation and who knows if the guy behind the camera was really paying attention. My thought was also that since this had been going on so long maybe they wanted to finally get evidence and then pulled her off. Obviously there are still people taking her side. Imagine if there wasn't video.

[@Hello___there]

@@abeltesfaye_to be fair they are very public figures and men tend to be blamed for attacking women even when they’re protecting someone. So in their heads I could very well see how they’d reach a point where recording her behavior and not touching her to get her off is the better solution.

[@AKbaby89]

I'm a survivor of R, SA, and abuse and I can't even imagine the amount of strength it took Jack to tell his story and stand up for himself so publicly when he knows there's *millions* of people watching. It's very obvious to me that he spent his time offline getting therapy and processing what happened to him and beginning to heal, I have a lot of respect for him for the way he has handled all of this.

[@angelaholmes8888]

Yeah jack is brave for telling his story I hope that by doing this it has helped him

[@zunisilverwolf]

I couldn't agree more! ✌️❤️👑

[@youknowimright1725]

I don't belive jack shit(😏) about what jack says, maybe 20% of what he says but the rest sounds like sum bullshit to me, and I've survived several rapes and so much sexual assault and abuse, I don't belive him, sorry

[@teiya5662]

I really feel for Jack. sienna needs to receive some kind of punishment. she can't keep using her age as an excuse. at her big age she SHOULD UNDERSTAND CONSENT AND RIGHT FROM WRONG

[@coquigirl0789]

Right because if she was a guy and he was a girl, she would be in jail right now. Edit: I guess I should’ve worded this differently….if she was a guy and he was a girl, she would MORE THAN LIKELY be in jail. My point is that there’s a societal stigma around male victims but clearly there are women out there whose assaulters are still free from consequences…….. 2nd edit: I’ll edit again. I guess where I live (in Tennessee, USA) the majority of cases of SA that I’ve heard of have resulted in arrests. That’s just been my experience. I’m sorry if I offended anyone with my suggestion that most people go to jail for this. I guess my point is that society does absolutely believe female victims over male victims and if the roles had been reversed, there wouldn’t be as much victim blaming as I’ve seen in this situation.

[@glam_grrl]

It's really strange..

[@glam_grrl]

But.. don't give someone a 3rd time to violate you.. just saying...

[@darkempress410]

@@glam_grrl Don't victim blame... just saying. You aren't Jack. You can't say what he should & shouldn't have done.

[@leiylahcamp8442]

@@glam_grrl gross

[@ilz_y]

Something Sienna and everyone minor/young adult needs to remember: If you’re too young to be responsible for your actions you’re too young to be a public figure in the internet. Take a break until you’re mature enough to be responsible, or stop deflecting responsibility.

[@andyvail269]

this is the realest take i’ve read about anything in awhile, such facts.

[@Actinopterygiiguy]

It's truly disgusting and the fact that there's virtually no repercussions to her actions is sickening.

[@bumblebeeproductions1673]

It’s because some people think that women can’t be the assaulters

[@sheisaMachine]

Unfortunately anyone with a fan base is held to a different standard. Even when the situation seems clear cut

[@Really__anna]

Lop

[@eggs7594]

It's because as a society we believe men should want to he assaulted, that theyre always horny and them being abused in such a way should be gratifying for them...

[@samanthaM7119]

My hope is that they’re just being silent about it and Jack is taking Sienna to court and that could take a while

[@Vkpz]

When a girl gets assaulted: She asked for it When a boy gets assaulted: Man up and enjoy it

[@samanthaM7119]

Gotta love the patriarchy 🥲

[@Em-tj6rh]

Yeah nobody wins sadly

[@girlloveshemp642]

If girls/woman don’t get support why should mean?

[@gag9500]

@@girlloveshemp642 I think we should be saying that both should get the support they rightfully deserve.

[@cooliostarstache5474]

​​@@girlloveshemp642 Because basic human ethics and morality shouldn't treat victims of the same act using a point based system

[@k3upikachu]

I'm so used to men denying sexual assault allegations that it's throwing me off to hear a woman basically reading from the gaslighting abuser handbook.

[@labella9291]

This right here. Everyone ignoring this needs to think about if a man said the same exact thing she was saying. Look at what happened with David Dobrik, and that whole crew, and the things they said, and how they denied and how everyone came down on them, especially Dirty Don... It's really sickening that it's bushed off, because she is a woman. It is literally point by point the gaslighting abusers handbook, just as you say

[@forcehearts]

"If you don't have my number we don't have a problem" literally the most stereotypical high school mean girl bully sentence I ever could've thought of and she tosses it out there while denying that she was a high school bully 😭😭😭 she can't get even a single aspect of this correct

[@MelaninCosplay]

She is absolutely disgusting. The gaslighting, aggression, and manipulation that she expresses throughout this situation are disturbing. Had the roles been reversed, and Jack said he refuses to apologize and deny that he SA her, ohhhh you can rest assure, he would be canceled, his kids would be canceled, and his grandkids would be canceled and so on.

[@r.c.g.9228]

As someone who was sexually assaulted at 16 years old by another 16 year old, I agree that being legally a minor does not excuse such behaviour. Such a cop out.

[@bebo1492]

16:08 yes I agree. I was taught by my mom at a very young age that no one was allowed to touch me inappropriately. She explained this by saying : no one gets to touch your bathing suit parts etc. I’m glad this was taught to me considering the shit that’s been going on

[@ElizabethTheUnicorn829]

Exactly. It's scary.

[@sofiastj]

My niece was taught consent quite young. From the age of five she has told people not to touch her without permission (she's better at asking people to stop than I am), so it's so frustrating to hear the "I was young" excuse here.

[@koutsivepa2900]

I’m studying early childhood education and as young as two the children are taught about safe touch and their rights to their own body. Voicing and teaching about discomfort of inappropriate behaviour and touch is so important!! I can’t comprehend the thought process behind the excuse“I’m young”

[@FeyPax]

Same. I’m so lucky my mom taught me about this stuff at a young age

[@ALT-vz3jn]

@@koutsivepa2900 Swoop says this exact thing in her video…

[@ferchsakura]

As someone who was also a victim, I can’t stress enough how disgusting was that Sienna brought up old SA from him, or how she is like “oh well why didn’t you say anything?” Some people just don’t want to, some people just don’t want to tell it to the world. I am with those people, like Lady Gaga, that would rather not confront their abusers- more so stop communication and heal. People deal with SA differently, just because the me too movement is there it doesn’t mean that it may work for everyone. Specially for him, that he is a guy, it’s was probably hard for him to accept that he was SA’d. She’s just… disgusting.

[@angelaholmes8888]

I'm also a victim of sexual abuse yes not everyone deals with sexual assault the same way I absolutely am disgusted by sienna

[@clioalexandra6485]

Her claims that she "loved" Jack as if that makes it better... Like girl, that makes it worse. That means that you took advantage of him, knowing he didn't feel the same. What a mess

[@alejandrovallencci]

Not her acting like high school was so long ago that she can’t remember bullying anyone, when she’s literally freshly 18😂

[@julienotsmith7068]

I knew better than to do this kind of horrific gaslighting abuse toward a survivor before I was eighteen. In the less enlightened 1980s. This is insane. She should get jail time. I had a guy say no to me once. I said okay and backed off. That’s the only possible answer, gender, sexuality, social roles be damn*d.

[@agame._.]

👏 this 👏

[@LiLLaLa707]

As a DV and SA survivor this was extremely triggering..it is beyond grotesque that she is allowed to threaten both the victim and witnesses with zero repercussions. She is genuinely vile..and her confidence to lie and threaten makes me think she has done this to others..I hope Jack gets all the love, care, protection and justice he deserves. I hope the same for his family and friends too. If she is not held accountable she will definitely repeat this "alleged" behavior again and again.

[@ST-vt4nu]

I was in an abusive relationship for 2 YEARS! The argument of "why would they still hang out to me?" is such bs. Especially when you're young you can so easily convince yourself it's normal/ your fault or any other excuse. The same goes for if you witnes something happening to someone else. It's so easy to doubt yourself when you're scared of what happens if you were wrong about what you saw. And that's not even mentioning the fear of what happens when you confront the abuser/come forward in any way.

[@sweetie_babie]

Yes, thank you. The denial can be strong. I still hung out with the people who assaulted me months, even up to a year, after it happened. I still considered them my FRIENDS until I could acknowledged what happened. I think it's one of the few things 13 Reasons Why got right in their first season.

[@ST-vt4nu]

@@sweetie_babie 13 reasons why triggered me big time, but that also set in motion that I finally talke about it. I had to tell someone because I was going nuts. Before I had only ever told my then already ex boyfriend, who I didn't have contact with anymore.

[@sweetie_babie]

@@ST-vt4nu oh it absolutely triggered me too. That whole show devolved into trauma porn, but there are nuggets of truth buried specifically in that first season. I'm glad it helped you even a little bit tho

[@OpossumOnTheMoon]

Thank you for this. I was SA and harassed multiple times nearly daily, for a year and I remained friends with my abuser for years after. I truly believed that I was at fault and I couldn’t accept that someone who I trusted did that to me. I was also blinded to the other toxic bs in the “friendship” until I was told how messed up it was.

[@HaidebugCreates]

I truly believe Jack. Obviously I wasn’t there but the way Sienna handled it and the way she was so aggressive on top of being deflective made me believe Jack more especially after hearing his side. He’s so brave and strong for coming out with think knowing how the internet and society is when it comes to men being a victim of sexual assault from women. He’s a survivor and I hope he’s doing okay.

[@angelaholmes8888]

Yeah I totally believe jack

[@plexiglasscheibe329]

Jack is a survivor and we believe him. And the evidence is showing clearly. (In many cases there is no evidence but here we can see a video of one of the SA- situations so I don't get it why anyone shouldn't believe him).

[@HaidebugCreates]

@@plexiglasscheibe329 well young fans of Sienna might side with her because they don’t understand.

[@ruby7706]

can i just say that that section where you flipped sienna's questions towards Jack towards her instead.. was incredibly enlightening? i was sat here on my phone cooking a meal (ok that's a lie im making a salad) and that kind of framing struck me so hard. never in my life have i ever had someone deliberately question why an (alleged) abuser stay/ remain close to their victim. i have no words but it think it's something im definitely bringing to my therapist so i can unwrap my own internalised victim-blaming mindset.

[@greenfloatingtoad]

It was a brilliant section

[@nihilismistheonlyway4680]

her "I'm young" excuse is just as cringey as james' "I'm desperate" excuse. gag me. 🤮

[@sammicadwallader6391]

My Human Sexuality professor in college was asked to teach consent to a group of kindergartners. She had the children ask one another for a hug, of they said yes the children would hug, if the answer was no they wouldn't. Very simple and she said that every child understood what they were asked to do and had a full understanding of consent after she was done teaching.

[@Meanie74]

You know, as out of touch or annoying as KZbin culture is, it’s rather nice to see everyone coming together to agree on this being f-ked up

[@CBright7831]

I curiously went to the girl's YT page just to browse at what the comments say, and I'll be damned if there are bunch of people still supporting her over there. It's flabbergasting to say the least.

[@Meanie74]

@@CBright7831 I meant creators. Bc there’s always the mob of 12 year olds that that makes people like this internet popular in the first place

[@gurvysnake]

@Natalie bro what?… this has nothing to do with his race. He was literally sexually assaulted… has nothing to do with his race people just want the best for him

[@gurvysnake]

@Natalie ight bruh and that’s what you’re gonna focus on???

[@morganqorishchi8181]

As bad as KZbin can be, we can all agree some things are just plain wrong. Abuse is abuse and it's wrong no matter who does it or who they're doing it to. I'm glad we're all on the same page about that much, at least. Maybe there's hope for us yet.

[@janrobnettwordweaver2227]

To all the men out there who have suffered. We hear you. We see you. We totally get you. Thank you, Swoop for calling this awful situation out.

[@martahenriques4133]

Nothing like seeing a new SWOOP doc on my front page! Amazing, super well-written, and edited content that also integrates moments of awareness for such important topics! You are killing it, queen!

[@PettyUniversity]

You're so kind thank you!

[@aleesiauh]

No one does it better!

[@saphirothplaysbad4708]

@@PettyUniversity honestly missed your content. You've got an infectiously bubbly, informative and just energy.. your attention to detail, unbiased opinions and sensitivity to topics is unrivalled.

[@wabbitwabbit98]

"She'd break into my house..." EXCUSE ME how is she not in jail for that sentence alone??!!!

[@jaynehogue2459]

Because she is a she. Women seen to allergic to accountability these days

[@avejaly8065]

He did not report. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@summerjohnson9929]

It’s really upsetting that jack’s story was taken out of his hands by his friend. As someone who has had to watch someone struggle through abuse/trauma and just support them, I KNOW how gut wrenching it is to allow them to have autonomy over their story. But it’s really wrong to “out” someone’s trauma, no matter how good your intentions. Jack then says he “needs to speak up and be stronger” which makes me think his friends are pressuring him to move forward with talking about or dealing with his trauma when he may not be ready. I completely believe Jack. I hope his friends and family can set their own anger and frustration with Sienna aside and just focus on supporting Jack through this trauma journey at the pace that is safest for him.

[@Okayladaily]

I completely agree

[@dannahhoopervlogs]

How terrifying is that! I’ve had something similar happen, where it was always while I was asleep. It’s such a scary place where you sometimes can’t tell if it’s really happening or not, like you are having a nightmare. And other times you might be more aware, and you are scared to open your eyes and confront the disgusting thing happening. My heart goes out to him! There is no excuse for that ever! And know it doesn’t define your worth!!!

[@biancafoster5083]

The fact that his friends told the new guy (who was the only one to actually stop her) that “this always happens” like it’s somehow normal or okay is very disturbing if she feels that comfortable doing it continuously then she’s clearly not being stopped applause for the guy in the white hat who actually stood up for Jack

[@pinkbearx3ily]

My reaction to Sienna Mae in a nutshell: the lion, the witch, and the audacity of this bish. I don't know how any PR people thought any of her statements would fly. There were blatant issues with every one. She's so aggressive, threatening, and accusatory in each one.

[@Melissamms]

I so so so appreciate you. I was SAed in high school and the next week, I hung out with my abuser. During our hang out (playing pool in some bar that didn't ID) I had my first panic attack. It didn't make sense to me at the time. I had no idea why I felt like I was going to throw up every time I saw him going forward. It took me almost three years to understand what happened because I was extremely naive and had no idea what r$pe was until I entered college. I essentially gaslit MYSELF because of this exact idea. "Well, how bad could it have been if we hung out afterwards?" Such a toxic horrible misunderstanding of a complicated psychological issue.

[@hubabaloop]

God that video of Jack is heartbreaking. So sad when he’s talking about how he’s had to “become more bold” and “learn to say no”😭 that is horrible

[@shiko906]

No matter how innocuous one may think it is, doing anything to and on a person while they are unconscious isn't okay. Point blank, period.

[@sourgreendolly7685]

I wish more people understood this, there are so many supposed pranks that could make someone not ever want to fall asleep around you again. How is that breach of trust funny? Being asleep or unconscious is the most vulnerable time in most peoples day-to-day lives… Besides, you never know who has trauma they just haven’t talked to you about. If I even think something is happening when I’m asleep I end up with insomnia for days.

[@quinncalista2204]

I'm really tired of men saying "well if a man groped a women, jail" when that literally doesn't happen. 3 times I was assaulted. 3 times the police/higher people in power brushed it off, blamed me, and convinced me to not file a report or do anything further. Edit: before anyone says that I'm defending sienna, I'm not. I believe Jack. I don't really support either of them cause I'm not a fan, but I believe all victims unless it is proven that they completely lied are rarely does that happen. But hearing the men in the opening say that was disgusting to hear.

[@josukeshair8891]

THANK YOU, and I also believe Jack, but that whole straight to jail stuff is an exaggeration and it doesn’t add anything to the main point.

[@zet7670]

Durte Dom

[@ca2082]

I'm so sorry that has been your experience, and I'm sure it was triggering for you; but I've worked in legal departments in the past and you'd be surprised how many more people get in trouble for that now especially in the workplace than say 10 years ago. I find it so odd and problematic that happened to you 3 times, I know where I worked in the past that is not a common thing. Again, not saying you're wrong or invalid just that I've seen and experienced more of the opposite situations than scenarios like yours which is awful :( What makes me mad is that women like Sienna Mae make true victims of SA seem unreliable. My heart goes out to DV/SA survivors whose abusers were women. I'll never forget it, I worked at a bar once and my co-worker's girlfriend was horribly abusive to her boyfriend. We tried to get him help and even an intervention because she lied to the cops and said he assaulted her when we saw her throw a glass tumbler at him then lunged; he tried to defend himself. We told the cops she was lying and we witnessed it but the cops didn't take our statement serious because we worked with him. And she looked awful but that was because she was being more physically out of control breaking things, and hurting herself. Anyway, they finally broke up, but I would fight w/customers who thought it was funny how a woman could be verbally and physically "abusing" her boyfriend.

[@taylorpain9095]

I’m so so sorry you went through that. I had the same thing happen to me and the words the Senior Sergeant said to me stick with me to this very day. “Don’t ruin his life because you changed your mind. He is an outstanding citizen and represents our town and I won’t let you destroy that” By representing our town he meant “he is our best football player so shut up” He came to my house under the pretence of putting chains on my doors and then he pushed me against the wall and forced himself on me. If I hadn’t made it to my front door that opened onto a busy street I don’t know what would have happened. It never goes away.

[@quinncalista2204]

@@ca2082 three different men, three different years. And I also work in the legal system. I’ve seen how it messes up constantly.

[@artykeldeo]

what a great day to wake up at 2 pm for a SWOOP DOC!!!!

[@saaaaltydaaalty310]

My hateful brain woke me up at 4 am on my one day off and I feel similarly blessed bc the day has sucked til now 😅 🖤

[@PettyUniversity]

Hahahaha love it

[@nacho_panda26]

The pain he has when talking about what happened to him hurts my heart, I hope he can heal from this. Its sad that even in 2022 it’s still taboo to be a male who speaks up about this topic. I don’t know how she can justify her actions. He is brave for speaking up about his story.

[@cupcake-go6po]

When he said that it's always the nice someone who gets stepped on and so he meant that people took advantage of him broke my heart 😭. He truly deserves an apology and justice!

[@nacho_panda26]

@@cupcake-go6po definitely, you can see the pain when he said that, it was so hard seeing how hard it was for him to speak about this and for her to aggressively try and lie, it’s sick and he has clearly been through a lot

[@casrrole]

aw man he's just a kid :((( i feel like a proud big sister, the fact that he was brave enough to speak out about this really just moves me

[@lifeasrini]

I just got out of a hard situation and while recovering, fell down this rabbit hole. Finding your video was the one bright light as I saw all my head words fall out of your mouth .. in a different accent. I've never watched your content before but you've made an immediate fan right here. Having JUST escaped an abuser, sienna scares me, a grown woman. Poor jack, I don't even know these people but now I want to adopt him and wrap him in bubble wrap. He's surrounded by love tho, im happy to see. Glad to see you swooped in ❤️❤️❤️

[@TheAdrift]

At some point she’s gonna have to realize that she can’t blame everything on her youth, and the fault will instead come down to the fact that she is a horrible person.

[@cupcake-go6po]

Yeah that's disgusting

[@Jenna-zd9od]

Children can absolutely learn consent. My parents did foster care when I was preschool age and all five of my foster siblings had been SA-ed. They all did one-on-one therapy ever week but all of us kids also did group therapy every other week with a children’s psychologist. As all of us kids were part of their therapy and in the home with them, we were taught to recognize what wasn’t okay and to say no, leave the situation, and report it to our parents immediately. This actually turned out to be incredibly important knowledge for me just a few years later and will definitely be something I will teach my children when they are small.

[@tulip5210]

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[@DayDay80631]

Cases like this are so important, especially of the stigma that men can't be SAed. You can tell just by the tone of her voice that she's guilty. I honestly never heard of her before this, but she's not making a very good first impression

[@itsautumn30]

Yo this girl SOOOO aggressive for someone claiming innocence. I feel for this young man.

[@Twinkedink]

My heart goes out to Jack. This is something that sometimes never heals. I just hope he continues to get the love and support he needs. I believe you Jack

[@celinaelzer]

Damn, her saying stuff like "If I actually did that, why didn't you report me" really hits home with people victim blaming me for something similar that happened to me. Poor Jack. My heart still goes out to him.

[@ashleyhedrick5635]

I was a victim of physical abuse and dv within the first month of dating my last bf. He left a bruise on my arm that stayed there at least a week and a half. I stayed with him for another 3 months. I excused it because "he didn't know his own strength" "he got a little upset, don't we all" "he loves me right?" but the one that consistently kept me there was the idea that "you will never find someone who will love you if you leave. you will die alone if you leave him." It took me three years AFTER I broke up with him to heal from this mentality. So grateful to have a bf now who wants me to have friends, cares about my mental health, and doesn't try to isolate me at every twist and turn.

[@muzikluvr637]

Hey Girl!!! I'm in Yucatan, Mexico and I absolutely love you! I work from home and you accompany to work every day! Thank you for that!! You are absolutely amazing and I will be following you for E V E R !!!! Thank you for everything you do, God Bless!!

[@shook917]

My best friend of 12 years SA me and I finally spoke my truth to my close friends and family after 5-6 years of never speaking on it. She threatened me on twitter blasted my experience telling me she’s going to post proof that she never did anything harmful to me. Threatening to post and expose me after already posting my nudes when I was under age. Flipped it around blaming me saying I did what I’m accusing her of. I’m in therapy I started shortly before this happen but this is so fucking relatable to me. That social media can play this big of a role in my trauma. I know my truth thank you so much for all the work you put into these videos I honestly don’t know how to articulate or express how much this means to me makes me feel like I’m validated and you see me & my truth isn’t a lie. Thank you

[@ripley4884]

her deflection of the allegations feels the same as the way my ex spoke about meeting after he SA'd me. thank you for speaking about this situation with such grace and nuance ♥️

[@Lynn-zx3th]

I think one of the biggest lessons all us girls need to truly take to heart is that not everyone we are giving ourselves to and doing things for wants us to do those things.

[@_Chlorophyllis]

48:14 I had my abuser in my quinceñera because I hadn't fully processed what they did to me as a child until I was in college, 10 years after the crime. Its almost like traumatic events can make folks behave in unexpected ways.

[@juliafaith8907]

WELCOME BACK!!! Missed you so much, hope you're doing better now!! I'm glad you took a break for your health

[@PettyUniversity]

OMG I missed you all so much!

[@basementdwellercosplay]

Just because you're still growing doesn't lessen what you did. I had two friends who were SA by their boyfriends, 16 and 17, and one of those boyfriends also preyed on 14 year old girls online. Just because he was 16-17 doesn't lessen that they hurt others in very serious way that has life long effects. I had several friends who knew that even kissing someone without consent is gross and wrong. Sienna stop blaming age but grow up so you can be tried as an adult

[@Elliott_101]

It's like using children's age to excuse their horrible acts. It doesn't change the fact that they've done some pretty bad stuff that they should be punished for.

[@brittanygentry5911]

I don't often leave comments, but as a survivor, I just want to thank you for being such an advocate for erasing the stigma and all the work you do to support survivors. I love your content, you are by far one of the best creators on KZbin in my opinion. Much love

[@dkken0077]

I keep coming back to this video not only for the very extensive research and dedication but also cuz this was my first Swoop video I saw and I’ve watched every single video since then. I am so grateful for finding you and this community, I love you Swoop, thanks for everything you do🤍

[@JennRighter]

That video footage is so unbelievably disturbing. I’m glad you blurred it, but it’s still absolutely sickening.

[@rebagrammer]

Thank you for always being a voice for survivors. I had someone share my story without my permission and that actually broke me. So I truly love and appreciate you for being a voice for us and for always standing for what’s right. Thank you! I was disgusted by this entire situation, Jack is suffering and his assailant is just gaslighting him and trying to intimidate him. Pretty damning. Anyways, thank you!! 💕

[@carveylover]

I'm really tired of the "being young" excuse. I get that the brain is not fully developed until 25 but if you are over the age of 18( being generous) you are no longer too young to know. You are a grown up and know better. The world sees an 18 year old and above as an adult so that person should know how to "navigate" the world. People need to be held accountable and called out. These influencers I assume at a certain level have a team of people supposedly looking out for them and their best interest. Merch has to go through an approval process, putting up a video has to go through an approval process( maybe, idk, I would hope) did she surround herself with so many yes people that no one said no? Just no to everything. No one thought to say to her, "hey this kid/boy is passed out, maybe don't do what you are about to do because that is SA." Idiots. Just idiots. That poor young man. He already has to deal with the stigma of being a male SA victim and has to deal with the attacker denying it. What a shame.

[@cursedwithsetience4017]

It's mostly the frontal cortex developing. Cause/ effect relationships and higher reasoning are usually being solidified. It's like how teenagers don't usually think about how action now affects action later. Empathy is fully developed. A teen or young adult not fully thinking through that staying out until 3 or 4 in the morning will affect them the next day is completely understandable. I'm a young adult too and still make mistakes like that because it isn't fully connected. They know and understand boundaries. Sienna might not have though about how her actions would affect Jack in the long run, but she sure as hell understands that it was wrong to begin with. She wouldn't be trying to hide it now if she didn't.

[@carveylover]

@@cursedwithsetience4017 I understand what you are saying and I know that. But as a young person yourself you know the difference between kissing someone while they are awake and while they are passed out! She also did other things that constitute as SA. She is old enough to know better. Period. You sound like a smart intelligent person. My point is it is not a valid excuse. It just isn't anymore.

[@cursedwithsetience4017]

@@carveylover no, I completely agree. I was just explaining what's finishing developing, and it has nothing to do with having empathy, or knowing right vs wrong.

[@oscara8454]

That's true. Kids are taught boundaries at a young age. A teacher telling her students to keep their hands and feet to themselves is one example.

[@bellatrixumbra4149]

The amount of ignorance Sienna has along with the tactics she's pulled throughout this mess has me raging on so many levels. SA does not discriminate, anyone is a target for such heinous actions and sadly, it will more than likely come from someone we trust and are close to then from a complete stranger. My heart goes out to Jack. No one should have to go through this and I'm glad that he had friends and family that are supporting him through this ugly situation. As for Sienna... There is no redemption for her. She can't come back from this and if she does, this is going to follow her the rest of her online and real life.

[@angelaholmes8888]

My heart goes out to jack sexual assault doesn't discriminate

[@aleishataylor973]

“Do you think jack would make this video with me if he felt uncomfortable from the night before?” No that’d be crazy, that’d be like an actor being abused by a producer and coming into work the next day like nothing happ-…oh wait 🙄

[@englishmadcow7461]

Dear Swoop, you had me all teared up about how you feel regarding your/our community on here. It's so refreshing to have a mature conversation with like minded people. Especially about topics that are so important to raise awareness, understanding and educate ourselves.

[@LowlyDegenerate]

Thank you so much for covering this and giving him a platform. It's so difficult for men to come forward about being abuse victims, let alone SA victims. The criticism and ridicule they face is so difficult to overcome, and I really appreciate you shining a light on this whole thing

[@halfbakedn00b]

Same. I'm glad she does both sides and isn't biased to a gender. I was sexually harassed on a 12 hr airplane ride and was trapped, I had no outlet and because I was a guy, the issue wouldn't have even gotten a blink except maybe a "Nice". It's hard and traumatizing and I don't like that it's okay for some people to do it and other times. It just gets swept under the rug

[@TheHahafunnyguy]

We keep coming back because of the quality of your research and storytelling. You do the stories, victims, and other involved parties justice.

[@brandip3789]

Totally agree! I come for the great takes and stay because of the amazing video quality 🙌

[@MorellaDeville]

Just discovered your channel whilst on mat leave - I have so much to clean and organise. I love listening to your docs while I get my shit together. I've never even heard of most of the people you talk about but it doesn't matter. I come away so well informed. You're so personable and caring and funny! Thanks for adding variety to my regular true crime viewing

[@cztianaki2689]

I hope your maternity leave goes well and you have as little stress as possible!

[@airypersiflage]

I'm too old for Tiktok but appreciate how you keep us informed. Jack's pain broke my heart.

[@danielletrammell2208]

my dad died in Jan this year. For the last couple of months, Swoop has given me an hour of weight off my shoulders. Class is in session and my heart and mind dont hurt for while. Thank you Swoop

[@maeflowers2883]

I was finally able to confront my cousin who abused me when we were both younger and she said what I said was f-ed up but after I told her a specific time she stfu and I blocked her. It took me almost around 10-12 years before I said anything to her so the audacity of sienna to say “why didn’t I say smth sooner?” It’s terrifying and I hope the people who have been through that can heal I love you all and I hope you are all doing well

[@lise7538]

I was severely bullied when I was younger, and I came across some of the people who bullied me as an adult. Interestingly enough none remembered bullying me, in fact some even shared they had good memories with me, I guess most people are unaware they are doing it ...

[@cocobooksgalore3945]

The way people responded to this situation & Jack shows how pervasive and insidious victim-blaming and the perfect victim myth in SA still is. I got into an argument with my sister because she was essentially dismissing Jack because he didn't react the way she thought he should and I did my best to challenge that. However, Sienna Mai exploited this and used it to her advantage to change the public's opinion of her. Truly despicable behavior.

[@alexanderstone9463]

That sounds odd to me because as a guy, he responded almost exactly the way I thought he would, especially given his usual demeanor and apparent social standing. Guys are typically taught to hide/internalize everything uncomfortable, and this is just as true for some happy go lucky California bro as it is for any other “bro”. How did your sister think he was going to respond?

[@walkthemads]

Swoop u makin me cry after that ad 😭 I love u so much and I can’t tell u just how much i appreciate your presence here on KZbin. You have brought forth so much representation for so many different communities and you continue to make this feel like a safe space and empowering ourselves and others. You’re such a good human and you’re doing such a good job. Thank you so much.

[@midnighthour733]

He should bring charges...her age doesn't matter and she needs to pay for this crime. I hope a detective comes across this because they can open a case without a complaint.

[@Selene_Rosara]

She's seriously out here with the James Charles excuse "It's ok, I'm young. I don't know what I'm doing." Hmm. Yea. We all know the tea analogy, right? If they aren't awake enough to drink a cup of tea, then don't give them a cup of tea. Unconscious people don't want tea. If they are awake and say no thank you to the tea then don't force them to drink tea, they said no.

[@yuri-lf7mx]

They both should go jail I used to love James Charles But he needs to be in jail i mean he is still out there making videos and getting views

[@chromognome1911]

your videos go by so quick :-: its an hour so i know its ALLOT of work for you, but i get so captivated by your videos that i blink and they're over. thank you for all your hard work! Can't wait for part 2.

[@mjustjeanette7026]

And I admit that after careful consideration I find watching your Docs is well worth my time. I find myself learning, and thinking, and growing because of your well thought out words.

[@sophiewilliamswilliams5304]

The way she says “CANCEL ME” just grinds my gears

[@ironwitchbitz]

I’m basically making my way through your whole library. You’re so funny, smart, insightful, and PEEEEETTTTTTYYYYYY! I am patiently waiting for my melting face petty merch, as that’s how these people make me feel. Thanks for always backing survivors and victims, and for holding abusive and problematic people accountable.

[@Isabella_lovely]

And it's the return of SWOOOOP, lookin like a queen while being hella entertaining and informative. Gonna continue watching, keep up the good work queen!

[@GingerKid686]

Another awesome doc swoop! I'm really interested to see part two and the way Sienna continues to dig herself deeper. I hope Jack finds peace with healing and he gets the closure he chooses and wants.

[@fadalerabrasool3563]

honestly i live for your pettiness while still being serious on the topic

[@josephinecruz4704]

Swoop I absolutely adore you! You stand up for what you feel is right regardless of what people think or say.

[@Foxysoccermom]

I’m just glad she’s technically an adult now so she can’t hide behind the “why’re y’all attacking a minor?” argument because I’m sure she’d do that; but now she’s just stating that she’s young so it’s a given that she’ll make mistakes (which SA is not an accident/mistake, there’s intention there and she needs to receive the repercussions for it). Great video overall!

[@FearlessFighterAkida]

Looking at this situation from the outside as someone who doesn't watch tiktok/instagram influencers, this is honestly why teenagers really shouldn't be "allowed" to just gain massive followings on social media before they've even finished high school. It's a clusterfuck of drama, abuse and scandles because they clearly cannot even handle themselves and yet they're getting brand deals, joining houses/content groups, etc. and have neither the emotional or mental maturity to handle anything that comes with it whether it is relationships, creating merch, or just handling themselves online.

[@averyjasper]

Watching you address survivors in your videos always gives me feelings, but this one hit a little different. Probably because I sometimes have a hard time believing my r*pe was “bad enough”. I was blacked out drunk, still conscious, but obviously intoxicated and in no position to consent. I only remember bits and pieces of that night. I made the mistake of making a police report a few days later and the officer told me “he didn’t force the alcohol down your throat” when I was trying to explain that he kept pushing me to drink more. That has always been disturbing and traumatizing in its own way. I can’t bring myself to regret it, because on the off chance he ever hurts anyone else who reports it, my record will be there. That being said, it’s been so so so hard to talk about sometimes because so many people say that if I was conscious, it doesn’t matter that I was intoxicated. I didn’t mean for this to be so long, but thank you, Swoop, for validating my pain, and reminding me that being drunk doesn’t make what happened to me any more acceptable. ❤️

[@morganqorishchi8181]

The officer who said that to you is a piece of shit. You didn't do anything wrong, it wasn't your fault, it's still "bad enough" regardless of circumstances and I'm so sorry people in your life don't understand that. As someone who's also a survivor: I'm here for you, I believe you, what happened to you *was* serious/bad enough and you deserve nothing but love, kindness and healing in your life.

[@Important_Commentary]

Thank you Swoop. This happens so often. And I hope now that it’s talked about more people understand BOUNDARIES better. I have been SAed before. R’ed in my sleep by a best friend while I took Ambien. I woke up to him next to me and I asked why he was there. We had a “love hate” relationship where we would joke about how ugly each other were. In fact he even slept with my sister. There was no way in hell I would ever sleep with this man. When he said we slept together and laughed, I thought he was joking. It took months for me to realize I was raped. He then later on found out from someone else why I distanced myself and confronted me. My father called him and he threatens to show my father a video of him “f-ing” me in my sleep. He’s a rich kid in town. Well known family. I knew he would get away with it as usual. I had known him for almost 15 years. I remember as kids in middle school he tried to put his hand down my pants then started a rumor he fingered me. I was slut shamed for months in a catholic school. Imagine being in choir, everyone below you raising their right hand but then all of your class just raising their pointer finger because there is a rumor you got fingered by someone in class. My Mom was called by a teacher. I wasn’t allowed to have anyone over for months - even though I said no. Even though it never happened. I wish I took that as a red flag. But I didn’t. We grew up and he lost our mutual friends but I tried to prove to people he wasn’t so bad. That night I stayed over his house because I was afraid to stay in my apartment alone. I had done this before. He would usually sleep on the couch with his dog every night anyways. Later on, I spoke to his ex who was a lot younger than him. She was a SA survivor of him as well I found out and he did this to her while she would take medication or be drinking. He also abused her physically. We now communicate and support each other. That’s one good thing that came of this. I was able to help her. Along with this - so many people are pressured into sex when they really are screaming inside to get away. It’s so common in young teenagers and young adults. Especially as they start drinking and going out. Women and MEN. It’s not a gender or race thing. Everyone goes through this. Thank you for explaining this so well.

[@ellab9883]

Thank you for being a voice for the many voiceless people out there. I do hope that all victims will become victors like you.

[@scottyb8392]

as a guy who’s had guys around me get SA’d when I wasn’t around to help them,,, this burns me to my core, because every time I hear a story like this it makes me feel the same way because they’re almost NEVER public about it and they almost never face consequences. Especially when it’s a girl who’s the perpetrator… ESPECIALLY when it’s a girl they dated/were assumed to be dating. I have this protector instinct to try and protect people, and when I can’t it tears me apart. I’d imagine that’s how Jack’s friends felt while they were trying to look after him, and I can only imagine how frustrating it is for jack - on top of the trauma it may have caused to him personally - and his friends because they know the truth, and she still doesn’t feel bad.

[@cyntheebrown8459]

My abuser is still in my life (very minimally) unfortunately. How does Sienna not realize that victims are so confused ESPECIALLY when it’s a loved one?

[@katylacki878]

I just subscribed to your channel for this video alone. The way you tear this video tf down piece by piece and break down this girl’s behavior was glorious. I can relate to this on so many levels. Thank you for pointing out the disturbing behavior of this girl… you amazing Swoop

[@PandaBearsXc]

I think "why does this person have a huge platform" all the time. People are fans of some truly vile human beings.

[@Ivy94F]

What are these hilarious slapping clips, Swoop?? Where do they come from?? They’re killing me!! 😂😂😂😂

[@Kaykokovids]

her actions are so disgusting. regardless of her age she is old enough to understand it is never okay to assualt someone like that. jack is incredibly brave for speaking up and telling his story! i wish him the best on his road to healing and moving forward in life.

[@cupcake-go6po]

Yeah old enough