How the Fear of Ageing Will Make You Invisible

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[@brad9205]

I'm 51 and I've just bought myself a skateboard. I'm not trying to be young: I just really fancied one :-D

[@victoriaf1308]

Love it!!

[@MonishaKavita]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@tamelahart4808]

Heh I'm 56 and I'm considering buying my first long board!!

[@NiinaSKlove]

😍😍😍😍👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😍😍😍😍

[@Moomin420]

So rad!!!

[@JillianClairPrice]

My mom died when she was 49, she was always beautiful and always always proud to say how old she was. She also lived life to the fullest, wrote two memiors along with many children's books and a romance novel, owned a biscotti and bath bomb business, shes my #1 inspiration, I live to make her proud, and I'll never feel too old, because it truly is a privilege to age.

[@tinylions]

Jillian Price so well said. Your Mom was legendary!

[@PilotWright]

Everyone says I’m too old to be an airline pilot at 43 but I am going to prove them wrong as I have just started training

[@HairByReneeLLC]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@thatswhatisaidCA]

That's ridiculous. Go for it! (Besides, when strangers see you in your uniform, they will assume you have done a lot of flying and they will feel safe and comforted by that.)

[@MarketImmersion]

You're not too old. I'm a commercial pilot, I've seen many people over the years start their flying career at 43 and on.

[@SugarPuffAndFluff]

Love this video. I am constantly told by my viewers that I am too old for shimmer eyeshadow or too old to wear this or that, it drives me crazy!!! I might be almost 50 but inside I am still the same person that I was in my 20s but more experienced, more confident and comfortable in my own skin, I would not want to go back to my teens or 20s. Life is good xoxo

[@complexjanedoe]

I love this so much. Your still young and youthful just more enlightened and wise.

[@isabellalora6533]

🌹❤️❤️❤️

[@ladywrld5863]

Viewers. You mean kids probably. xp

[@maia.diaries]

You phrased that PERFECTLY ❤️ love it. We really are the same people regardless of what is on the stat sheet. Age feels like that last piece of statistic people seem to feel allowed to use to judge someone and get away with it. I tangented but comment was fire and clearly struck a chord with me! 😜💕

[@AC-mp7cx]

no, society places immense privilege in women for their beauty. Pretty privilege stumps almost all of them. So when you lose it, its obvious how society will treat that. Cant be a loss without the luxury to begin with

[@Chloe2000mm]

It's really sad that we live in a society where a 30 year old would even be making a video with this title. 30 is so, so very young.

[@rasher331]

Absolutely ridiculous it is. I think its her personal problem though. Ive never met anyone that thought they were genuinely getting old at that age.

[@SunSooTae]

Maybe she's reacting because she looks older

[@lw4294]

It is? Thanks. I’m 31 and feel ancient and now limited

[@ohthechitchat]

My niece got upset when I told a receptionist that it was her 24th birthday. She sulked for a full hour. I have an entire family of women who live in fear about their age. I really get angry with the stupidity of it all. What are they upset about ? Being alive?

[@ohthechitchat]

Privat I thought she was about 25.

[@AleXSutcliff]

Actually my mom is huge inspiration for me. She was 35 when she had me, around 40 she started completely new career as a yoga instructor, before that she worked as a event manager...then..she divorced my abusive father and raised three children (I have two older brothers) on her own as a self employed person in country, where at that time was some kind of stigma surrounding yoga, selfdevelopment (anything not christian). She had to work hard. Her best years are now when she is in her 60s she is the most happiest, she is healthier than me. Her "life" started around 40.💜 Don't let anybody deceive you. You don't have an expiration date, you do you. 💪

[@gnocchimitpestoundfeta89]

Wow! Thanks for sharing, this is inspiring

[@bethsharma4766]

Your story gives me hope! I turn 54 next week. Thx for sharing!

[@venuselectrificata]

I’m 36 and feel as if I’m just getting started. Thanks for sharing ❣️

[@sandyh967]

Thank you for sharing!!! Hope u n ur mom continues to have a blessed life

[@caraelaine4198]

I love your mom

[@lalalovinlifelala]

I'm 23 and it always pains me to hear people in their 20s drag other age groups for being "old" its like hun, do u not realize you're gonna be there in like a decade? we're "old" for much longer than we're deemed "young" so this narrative of your early 20s being the peak benefits almost NO ONE

[@sorchx]

Completely agree. I'm 26 and I'm already comparing myself to women in their early twenties. They seem so much fresher and radiant. I'm noticing grey hairs already and some forehead wrinkles. But I just have to remind myself I was that age. they will be my age soon and the cycle continues no matter what we feel.

[@its.albert.510]

Yes omg. When I was in my early 20s, I made it a point to NEVER say that. I always knew it was bs and I would never want to feel that way when I hit that age! And I don't.

[@coppersense999]

THIS. Be careful how you judge others, because you end up being judged the same way. So look at folks lovingly and embrace self-love.

[@Roguey84]

@@sorchx so much of it is managing stress and treating ur self with ur overall look at life. im 35ish and been through too much but taught me to love moments which is still a struggle ... bc ppl tend to think in the future but never in the present

[@CatEyeGem]

Considering the same irritated me at 23, no most won't hence why they going to a ball when they realize.

[@kathrynschumann5254]

31 is fabulous! i got married at 32. had my children at 33 and 35. At 56 i am still amazed by life.

[@tonisiret5557]

I'm 40 in 4 days, & I've been telling myself that I was "too old" for certain things since I was 21. I hope people realise, that it's not your age that's holding you back, but the "opinion" of your capabilities at**insert age** that is holding you back.

[@BarbaraatQueensAvenueTarot]

I've often heard people say about older women "she must have been really beautiful". I ALWAYS reply, "She's STILL Beautiful!" I'm 61 btw. Love your channel.

[@michellefredman7938]

Thank you for highlighting such a positive and important message! I just turned 27 and spent the last 5 years fighting cancer. Last year, after almost dying, I was finally declared disease free. Now I just feel so so privileged to still be here and to get to grow old. Ageing is such a profound privilege.

[@MaraGrace]

My grandma's my role model in this department... in her retirement she travelled the world (her favourite spot was Turkey, she also rode a donkey up a mountain somewhere, and somewhere else she went parasailing, has won garden of the year award in her town several times over (she doesn't have a front lawn... her entire front yard is a giant garden, as well as the sides of her house and the whole area around the backyard that's not her pool). She also has never used a computer before, not so much as touched it because she was scared of them, and then like 4 years ago she took the plunge and got an iPad and taught herself how to use Facebook so that she can keep up with our family abroad.

[@nonbinarygoblinonarainbow4672]

This is SO awesome, omg

[@MaraGrace]

Débora Teixeira she’s a very cool person haha

[@raniapanan]

sorelle: talks about the fear of aging me a teenager with years ahead of me still watching this video: 👁👄👁

[@jadenpinet]

Rania 😂felt thatttt

[@SorelleAmore]

I know what's on your mind or what will arrive one day. how do I know? I was once your age ;)

[@davidkonevky7372]

lmao same

[@1javixD]

Enjoy it and be fearless while it last.

[@1javixD]

Just say fuck and go for it.

[@kaitlinmae7681]

I didn’t think this was going to make me cry AHHH been having an existential crisis since I turned 18 about my age and I’m 23 now. Good for you for spreading such a positive message about something so inevitable that we’re all a little scared of, this made me feel so much comfort

[@AC-mp7cx]

no, society places immense privilege in women for their beauty. Pretty privilege stumps almost all of them. So when you lose it, its obvious how society will treat that. Cant be a loss without the luxury to begin with

[@kaitlinmae7681]

@@AC-mp7cx you sound vastly unintelligent, incel

[@cynthiav521]

I adore you! I’m 27 and sometimes feel like time is running out. There’s so much left to do. I work with the elderly (70+) and they always call me a baby. We have plenty of time. Just have to enjoy the ride bc we’re just getting started, BAY-BE (

[@ravenglebsky9404]

Cynthia V as a fellow 27 year old - I feel the same and thank you!

[@mirrorlessny]

"enjoy the ride!" YES & lets try to do basic body maintenance = activity, rest, joy, nutrition

[@missmayflower]

Cynthia V You’re just barely getting started. And it’s okay to feel like time is running out because that can motivate you to be sure to savour and enjoy every day and every stage of your life and make sure you focus on things that are important to you. Every day you wake up you get to choose to be happy and you can choose to do something new or different if you’d like to.

[@ellenz956]

I feel the same way 🙏🏽 @27

[@LizBrousseau]

AH! dear all the 27 year olds commenting here...this was a great age! And I remember the INSAINE pressure I felt to "BE SOMEONE" by that age...honestly in this social media driven life it doesn't go away and I am 40! But I have learned, the hard way, that the only "be someone" I need to be is, the "be someone" I wanna be...and if everyone has a different "be someone" goal then my goal really is not theirs and vice versa... so we are all our own someones and we a the BEST at it...SO fall in love with you! that's how you get success faster...be madly in love with you...and love your faults firsts.

[@karlijndegroot]

I just turned 40. I don't have a boyfriend, children, permanent residence or job. But I never been happier in my life then how I feel now!!!! The freedom that comes with getting older is beautiful.

[@ChristinaFaludi-Myers]

Thank you. This is the exact message we all needed to hear. Age is just a number. Everyone is precious valuable capable and full of lots of potential ALL their life.

[@iriszee129]

Thank you thank you thank you for this video! I turned 25 this year and have been having existential panic attacks and feeling very much like my life is over. The pandemic didn't help. Your message is so uplifting and gives me a lot of hope for what life will bring. I want to do so much and be so in love with life like you are!

[@vic7623]

I’ve been struggling a lot with growing up and the reality of “getting older”. I just graduated uni a couple months back at 23 and it’s so scary to me to life outside of school, as an adult, aging, and how time flies. This really made me think. Truly, thank you Sorelle.

[@nightowlkarol3410]

I feel like every time I watch your videos I unlock a whole new way of thinking in my 20 year old brain. I love your videos, I love how you spread that positive message and I cannot wait to see what life brings my way! Keep being awesome Sorelle you're really changing a lot of lives with your messages ❤️✌🏻🤘🏻

[@purpleishfluid]

Thank you for this! I'm turning 25 soon and I was getting into a serious quarter life crisis 😂 Needed to see your enthusiasm to start enjoying the idea of getting there myself. I believe people are afraid of getting old because they're slowly giving up on themselves. On their health, their bodies, instead of worshiping their vessels. I adore your love of life, preach sister! 👏💜

[@AllThingsSoul]

Every woman should hear this message! Believe me, this will have a positive effect on masses of women! I spoke my mind to the women I work with, who are in their 30's, who repeat the negative messages they hear. We watch the news while working, and they just sit and woman-shame every news anchor they see. I had to speak up. I asked, "Why do you speak negatively about another woman? That's woman-shaming. You will never hear a man talk bad about another man. Now, say something nice about her." They actually comply! I spoke up and made a difference and you will, too! Together, we will conquer this ugly lie the media wants women to believe. I'm 55, and proud of it! Yes, I'm insecure some days, but I like myself and I can do anything I want at this age. Keep being you, Sorelle. You're amazing and beautiful!

[@Simplyaileeen]

I am 17 and just graduated high school. Thank you for giving me a new way to think about life, I do believe this video shifted the way I view “aging” in an amazing new way. I now feel excited to grow, learn and experience more about life and the things that God has given us. Adore you videos💕🙌

[@galaxygal1746]

Age is definitely a state of mind. If you think young, you'll be young, All of life is a learning process... Each day we evolve & learn. I'm 51... I still collect new skills & do workshops in all kinds of things, wear short skirts, put glitter eyeshadow on, swim, surf, grow, take care of myself, invest in good grooming... I am rebellious, & free. The beauty of being my age; the older you get the less you give a crap what others think; in fact, the more powerful I've become... If this bothers you...I really feel sorry...

[@Eshapandit01]

did your youtube course in skillshare and loving your content since then :) You inspire me to grow and be bold and fearless and honest with my content

[@SorelleAmore]

Yeeeehaaaa!!! AMAZING!

[@Eshapandit01]

@@SorelleAmore

[@micheleboyd4993]

I've only just come across your site and find you refreshing and inspiring! I didn't realise till now your an Ozzy gal. I too left Sydney when I was 18yrs old and the trip has been amazing and challenging. I reside in Amsterdam now for over 20yrs and feel its my home. I turn 62 this month and keep telling myself that age is only a number. There are so many things I still want to do ...feeling stuck but everything changes and I know the trip Im on is a positive one if I choose it to be!!!!!

[@Bec_love]

I turned 40 this year and I needed to hear this - everyone will get here eventually but it is kind of a crisis point..I just need to accept my body is age. But I am investing in pursuits that make me happy and shine.

[@anna-mariegreene1046]

Thank you for addressing this - it's so refreshing to hear a woman especially to talk with pride about ageing. ❤️ Our society's obsession with youth is so damaging and pushes us to do everything in our 20s

[@anan-aremere7950]

I'm 28 and the messages I constantly get from society are crazy. I believe the secret is to stop comparing outselves to others and just live our lives as beautifully as we can. ❤

[@milloeh]

I’m turning 30 in two months and I needed this video, didn’t know I did. I’m telling myself the things you are addressing, but sometimes you need to hear it from someone else. Thank you!

[@neilybugg]

I really loved this beautiful! I've been so sad at 38 thinking I couldn't do anything. I'm going to really try to change. Thank you so much.

[@gordytwoshoes4955]

This is so awesome that you've realized this at your age. I am 49. I have recently lost 80 lbs and I feel better and more optimistic than I ever was at 18. Life is truly beautiful now and it's getting better.

[@FraBra88]

It hurt you because it is the truth. When youth is lost nothing will ever be the same. I feel this way.

[@haleyroberts9649]

This message is beautiful and NO ONE talks about it!

[@taniaheath7511]

42 here! Never married, no kids, recently single. My fear has been that dating will be more difficult at this age. I broke it off with boyfriend of 3 years because he inappropriately crossed the boundaries with at 23 year old. I handled the situation with dignity but didn’t realize that this fed into my insecurity of aging. While together, I feared breaking up even when I should have because I feared dating while older. Now I left, I have to face this insecurity….., and that’s how I found this video (googled fear of getting older). Thanks for your message. I feel much better about having a “bad-ass” attitude about life at ANY AGE.

[@BrianHernandezchannel]

I’m not lying when I say this, you’re energy and radiant personality made me smile many times while watching this video. Wishing you well ❤️

[@Khadeejahraja]

Loving the 2020 Sorelle! You’re back woman xx I’m 54 and don’t want to go back even one year.

[@nataliaalvarez4316]

I cant stop being amazed by you. I strongly dislike when people get into the mentality that life is not worth it after a certain time. It feels so absurd and limiting for NO good reason at all.

[@Mai-gv7rv]

I’m 20 and I’m crying internally. I’m so tired of everything. I’m tired of societal expectations

[@robinm1664]

I'm 42 and I completely agree with you. In most KZbin videos the message is usually assigned to a specific age the first 5 min of the video. Im like damn I'm not dead can I learn to make money online too! I honestly look and feel better then I ever have and whatever it is that's supposed to happen after you turn 40 I must've missed because I feel fuckin amazing!! I with you on not being ashamed of your age!! I've always announced my age because 1st Im proud of myself and I've heard countless stories from women about being depressed about not being married or having kids by insert age and it use it piss me off. I noticed that some men are starting to lie about their age and Its silly. I'm glad you addressed this because no one is saying much about it and it time to let that old way of thinking go. Social media will have you rethinking your whole life if you're not grounded enough to understand its a trap. New subscriber love your energy the first 60 seconds in!

[@theinfinitespin]

I feel like shit quite often thinking I'm too old for things, but I'm certainly trying to change that! I'm glad I saw this pop up today. I needed that!

[@AlwaysImproving1]

This video has really helped me, thank you. I come back to watch it when I'm having a wobble. You're great

[@Chia13579]

I am 25 and am already seeing wrinkles under my eyes from years of abusing my body and honestly I already look and feel older than I am. It’s hard to look at myself some days but thank you for sharing this and reminding me that it isn’t all about looks and that I’ve earned the wrinkles I have from all the things I’ve gone through♥️

[@SherryRooney]

Good for you!! You have a great attitude!! I feel the same way you do. I'm 53 and proud of it!!

[@ellacorrigan7935]

I'm 34 and have FINALLY learned to love myself fully, love my flaws and to realize that the bad things that happened in my life were actually lessons that redirected me on the right path. I had no idea what any of that meant in my 20s. Excited to see what types of life lessons and experiences are headed my way next!

[@connieb.4071]

I honestly love getting older, I was so excited to turn 30 and I'm excited to turn 40. Im still 30 so I have a long way to go

[@alesandravarallo3456]

This came at the perfect time. I recently turned 25 and constantly have this feeling like I am running out of time.. lol. Thank you for posting!

[@JODYTHOMASWING]

I first met you on skillshare and I have loved you since, Your primal creative spirit inspires me to do the content my imagination wants to do,but logic tries to dispute, to grow my channel to expand my imagination to be a better human a more playful parent. to laugh to cry to admit all the mistakes I have made along the way. I am so glad I found you on skill share. You taught me it's ok to be unsure about life. Thank you Sorelle Amore.

[@the_inspired_coach]

Wonderful video. 43 years and it's been a struggle to accept x

[@madisongouget6150]

You literally took the words out of my mouth!! I'm 30. Fuck yeah!!! Damn it feels good to hear someone else saying it!

[@mrkentusmc]

36 and happy with the direction my life is going, 20s and early 30s I wasn't in a place to be better for another person. That said, it took longer than I wanted, but I'm in a place that I can finally give more than I could for my family, let alone another person.

[@preetigusain2334]

THANK YOU SORELLE for this video ❤️❤️. Period.

[@Moonlight-bj9pk]

I’m 19 and terrified of aging, I don’t want to grow up

[@Fateyyma]

Same. I'm 16 and dealing with it for the last 6 months..

[@Bingbongq]

I grew up seeing all these anti aging commercial creams as if aging was this horrible thing and it made me fear it in a way I guess because it's out of my control so this really helped we can do anything at any age!

[@andreasandor3242]

I'm going through that roller coaster right now (I'll be 38 in 2 months ) what you were talking about. Really struggling tbh but will get through. Love the energy you project through your message. Keep going you are awesome! Society needs more ppl like you.

[@yanyperez3609]

I love it! I’m 48 years young and loving life! Been a bit of a rebel too! Feels great when you break the old “rules” of society!!!

[@kumkumjamir7655]

Wowwwww sorrelle..... Your message just cut through my heart. Thank you so much for sharing because this is exactly what I needed to hear to wake up from my misery... God bless!

[@Diaryofaqueen777]

This video is amazing!!!! When I tell people I’m 32 there like king you look great! I’m like why wouldn’t I? 32 is young asf. I’m living life. Life is good. Getting better every year! This year we moved to a new home. I got my dream car! So many positive things happening in my life!!! I praise God I’m 32. Now I’m going to start doing all the things I’ve always wanted to do!!!! Living for me. Not for my kids. Partner. Siblings. Parents. Nobody but me OKAY!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@NikkiTomlin]

Just hit the end of the vital statement at 4:08. Sorelle.. I. Have. Been. Saying. This. Exact. Thing. For. Years. Seriously, I say it all the time to my friends when they are losing it and I say it to myself a looooot. Do I believe it all the time myself? No, because life gets me down sometimes BUT COME ON THIS IS THE MOST LOGICAL LIFE STATEMENT EVER! People need this tattooed on their foreheads and bodies and cars and houses. This. Is. Vital. I’m 26 which means I basically have 3/4 of my life left!! That’s so much life!! Thank you so much for having this view and helping me feel a little less like I am the only person on the planet who feels the same way.

[@annabutler5389]

I'm ONLY 19 and just finished my first year of university and have felt panic creep in that I'm not "living my life to the fullest" before I'm too old to. Living my life to the fullest -- yes! Getting too old to -- never!

[@AdrianaGonzalezV.]

Oh, my God. It’s the first time that I see one of your videos and you really put me in tears. I just turned twenty-five this year and as I had my first business failure, I was starting to feel as it was already too late for me to start to try to build something new. Thank you. Just thank you, thank you, thank you.

[@pupculturevenice]

This is GREAT!! LOVE YOUR RANT!!❤️❤️✨✨✨

[@libragirl1991]

Wow your energy is amazing! Need more people with this way of thinking, its very refreshing!

[@JeanSeptember25]

I love this. And I love your energy! When I was a teenager, I wanted so much to be 25. Now that I'm 30, I say 30 is SO awesome! I now celebrate getting older and so excited to discover more in ALLL the years to come!! Thank you for being you!! ❤️❤️ I'm so done with people telling me to get serious because I'm getting older. I say screw it, it's BECAUSE I'm older, I KNOW I don't have to be serious all the damn time!! Let's go and have fun discovering new things and interests in the world, woman!! 🥳❤️

[@HealingHeartsMeditations]

Cool video! Always live a big life. I lived small for too long. Living large is the best and you can help more people that way!

[@rbrbeb1829]

Exactly, THANK YOU! We need more of us in the world. Lots of love

[@americanmythology2053]

Wow! So glad this popped in my recommendations. I turned 21 yesterday. Every year I just feel more and more limited, but I want to push through those feeling and change the way I talk to myself. Because (God willing) I don’t want to spend the next 60-80 years wishing I was in the previous decade of my life!

[@spunkiQT]

Thank you for this! I'm turning 27 in a week and though I feel I'm forever young at heart, the messaging of society had started to get to me, especially since I'm still breaking into my chosen career path. All the internships seem to be for college students :/

[@ChefMarciaBittencourt]

I feel you 100%! Completely changed my life and my career at 32, just started a new business and I'm about to move to another country again at 36 and start my masters. I do feel it's just getting better every day! 🥰💃🏻

[@Creatorscolony]

SO needed this Sorelle. Great reminder and makes me feel less alone in my conviction about the exact same thing. I believe this so much but we gotta stick together and help remind each other. Thank you X1000. By the way I just turned 27 years young and excited for the growth and wisdom to come :)

[@mrbungle3310]

I dont care what others think especially today,media is even more young focused now its 15-18 years or you are old or young I need someone like you in my life,id be a kid at 80

[@crrissa_the_cyberbard]

Thank you so much for this video. I deeply appreciate it. Seriously.

[@drvren030]

Society tries to market youth as an obsession to all of us, yet don't want to see someone who feels young no matter how old they get

[@sumiam115]

This video was everything! Helped me so much to feel better about myself and about my upcoming birthday!

[@lolalola1352]

I started feeling this way after Covid wrecked my body and left me with a terrible chronic illness. I feel like a shadow of my former self. And I’m in my 20s!! It’s been 2 years and I’m really starting to think what life will look like at 40 if I already have to deal with days at the time of being bed bound and unable to do anything at all, in pain, with severe brain fog preventing me from at least reading or enjoying a movie. It’s scary

[@AfroMedic]

It’s difficult to be an old woman, I really have respect for older women for going through life invisible.

[@suziseha369]

I changed my career from graphic designer to yoga and meditation teacher at age 46. (Strange to be saying that because I've never really thought about it!) I am now 52 and just applied for a master's in mindfulness at university. My friends are all ages from 20's to 60's. You get young 65 yr olds and old 30 yr olds...

[@bakeraus]

My 20s was mental partying, snowboarding, travelling and good times. I find in your 30's its deeper connections with people but just make it fun, you don't have a long time so make it a good time.

[@ShakeMyWay]

31 is still a baby! I am 58, and I just started to learn drumming and astrology!

[@erinmcgraw5208]

What a fantastic video!!! I'm feeling the best I've ever felt, mentally & physically in my 30s ❤️ Loving life!!!

[@fralou_sind_kreativ]

Love, love LOOOOVE!!! Thank you!!! Changing and rewriting the story and the narrative with you!! Heck yeah!!!

[@nautica00]

What makes me feel better is thinking about being 80.. quick minded hopefully and not giving a damn about the 25 year old children scrutinizing the old. Because everyone I grew up with is also old, and everyone younger is literally like a kid to you. I’m 23 and I look at at 18-20 year olds as weirdly so much younger.

[@JonathanRice-c6x]

Yes like when you see a group of college kids and even though they are 21 they all just look like kids not full grown adults, almost look the same as high schoolers. I started noticing that in late 20s. When i look back at photos of me at that age i realize i looked more like an adolescent in early 20s

[@JeffRazi]

Life has only been getting sweeter. I wouldn’t go back for anything.

[@fullmoon23dawn]

i love you Sorelle, you always make me feel so good about myself

[@tayokyo5860]

I am about to turn 22 and I was already freaking out that I don't have everything figured out and sad about getting old thinking "theres just going to be less and less to look forward to and soon I'll be wrinkly and fragile" LOL this video changed my mindset.

[@Pacificat]

I think a lot of women can get depressed thinking about aging because we are conditioned to believe that our value declines the older we get.

[@vanillacaffelatte]

Preach, girl!!! You're awesome!!!

[@1919elizabeth9494]

Extremely enpowering, thank you for all your incredible content. Love ya!

[@Amorexox]

I think the hardest part for me is once I think of getting older and not being here anymore it sends a wave of panic I try to not think about it but... it happens and it scares me

[@RC-gd7nt]

Im 43 and look and feel better than when i was 23. Im also shocked when people fall off their chair when i tell people my age. Because what does 43 look like?? Why is it so hard to imagine that im 43? Its such a damn blessing and while i look after myself FOR ME, i dont care to look younger.

[@kevin.anime.x7582]

Ive been way to in a depressed mode about my age being 17, i still look n feel 14 but i think i dont allow myself to grow by having fear, i love the amount positivity and makes me happy and feel better

[@generationxit5016]

I'm an almost 45 year old digital nomad, and I ignore the ageist haters.

[@KayKayBayForever]

GenerationXit You are awesome. 😊

[@davidkonevky7372]

I'm going to be like you someday :D

[@generationxit5016]

David Konevky 🤜🏼🤛🏼

[@BBaaaaa]

YES!!! You´re a whole inspo !

[@teriana29]

Yes!! 40's rock big time. Age is just a number. Attitude and mindset! Period! :)

[@jamiewindsor]

A couple of years ago I decided to quit my job and become a KZbinr. I'm 40. One of the best things about getting older is you get more confidence to just do what you want.

[@KimmiiaS]

Congratulations! But the thing is that it is a lot easier for men than women. Men are always " relevant " somehow but women starting from their 30s lose their relevance. Even if they share the same knowledge and content men do. It is unfair but what can we do.

[@jamiewindsor]

@@KimmiiaS This is very true. Gender is a big factor in privilege. Just like it’s a big help that Sorelle is white, able-bodied and cis-gendered. It is unfair, but we can use our platforms responsibly and educate ourselves about our privilege. Progress is slow, but progression always wins.

[@KimmiiaS]

@@jamiewindsor Indeed. I'm 26. AND growing up I always thought that life starts at 30 and even 40. My parents had me later in life. My dad got his first job at 30. Started lifting weights at 45. Mom started running everyday at 50 and lost a lot of weight. They both never mentioned their age as an obstacle. They used it like a motivation "I have less years to live now. I should start moving and not lose any othet day". Also during my childhood I watched 80s and 70s movies and all the main actresses were in their 30s and 40s and were considered beauties. I really don't know how the world changed so quickly but it wasnt like this forever. People from my parents' era are the proof.

[@GillianMulholland]

OMG!!! INSPIRING! I'm 39 and have been doing youtube for a year!!

[@heyJustephan]

@@KimmiiaS Unfair? You are joking right? Do you know how many young causal men who doesn't have a great job or look avarage have to strungle to get a girlfriend? It's not unfair it's just men turn by aging. You got your chance when you were young. Now you get replaced by young girls. It is what it is. Female great time when young, miserable as they age. Men, miserable time when young, great time when old. Why should men care about old women? They didn't also care when they young by hypergamy... Its time to Date down. A 30+ year women doesn't have the same benefit as a partner as a 20 year old female.

[@lstrugar]

In my thirties, I moved to another continent for several years. Life begins again quite often. I love getting older.

[@SorelleAmore]

Yeeeessss :)

[@_theplantkiller]

I am 32 and just sold everything to move to another country/continent. F*ck it! So much to experience!

[@LizBrousseau]

Truth sister!

[@DiHickman]

at 29 I moved from UK to USA. Each decade is just a new chapter!

[@korneliajewelry]

So true! Life begins again quite often. I also love getting older. We just sold everything to move to another country and start a completly different chapter in life. In my thirties I am learning new things (on sooo many subjects) every day! My biggest inspiration is my grandma, she never listened to what society think “old” people should be like. A lot of my friends (when I was a teenager) stopped by her house to chat with her, they all said she was “cool” and that they could not believe a grandma could be like that (=open minded, easy to talk to, funny, modern, ...).

[@KikaAloficial]

In a society that profits from self doubt... loving yourself is an act of rebellion. ♥️ Age is just another weapon used against us...

[@SorelleAmore]

FUCK YAAASS!!!!!

[@KaterynaM_UA]

Damn, I'm gonna print that on a t-shirt.

[@afaumisc]

Powerful quote.

[@sarahthatcher123]

Did you just come up with that ? Or is that a quote from somewhere else? The ..." In a society that profits from self doubt..."

[@KikaAloficial]

@@sarahthatcher123 no :( I wish it was mine. I heard it in another video about how women look at themselves thanks to society. but it is so true that I remember about it. you can look it up in google and you will see a bunch of images with that quote. Some words change for example: loving for the word liking. etc. hope I answered your question have a great day =)

[@ChewonVegan]

I went back to school at 47 and became a registered nurse at 52. I am now 63 and it was the best thing I ever did. It amazed me that some people would ask me "don't you think you are too old to go back to school?" No, you are never to old to follow your dreams. Should I have stayed in a job I hated making low wages? I started a you tube channel at 60 and I am having so much fun. I learned to film, edit and post my own videos. So age means nothing. You are never to old or to young to do the things that challenge you and make you happy. Don't ever let someone else define you. Great video btw! Your mom sounds awesome!

[@melissamoonchild9216]

thats awesome, thank you for sharing. Im almost 40 and have been thinking about going back to school for my masters or even phd. your story inspires me

[@Luphifree]

Cool

[@Luphifree]

​@@melissamoonchild9216do it Girl❤ It's your life no one is

[@superdupersnowflake]

Thank youuuuu

[@semt9]

I'm almost 31 and I've started noticing negative self-talk about my age. I needed this video

[@StardustEarthing]

I will turn 30 this year and I'm so happy I'm getting older. I'm happier than ever, I have discovered who I am & what I want, I am finally learning to accept and love my body (after hating it for almost 30 years) and I'm just excited to be alive and continue to learn more & grow as a person. It's amazing to experience life as a human!

[@PaulaAndreaGaviriaMarmolejo]

Same, 30 and genuinely freaking out over here. I desperately needed someone to remind me of this!

[@gaycha6589]

Grow up

[@wilfredopk3080]

@@StardustEarthing how do you discovered who you were and want

[@metalmike570]

Then when I hit my mid 40's and both of my parents were gone it's like well I now have nobody I can turn to. I was going through a divorce on top of it and left the US Arrmy after 12 years of service. I entered at an older age I was 33. So with the problems I had with my wife and our kids were still young we had in our mid to late 30's so I had a mountain of responsibility, I could not transition into a decent job due to age discrimmination and a tough economy too. I did transfer into the Army Reserves a Sergeant in order to continue service (now 45 years old) - and have some kind of a career. And my son is autistic low functioning and so my wife had to deal with it, and also our take care of daughter who was normal thank God. So my wife had to do a lot while I was working at what was now gig jobs and a Reservist a weekend a month. Our relationship grew more and more distant and I had to recover from being stabbed in the right arm by her. I had to have surgery in the back of the bicep area when the median artery is, and the nerve had to be checked for damage. So one good thing was I got 90 days of work, on orders at the Reserves when I asked if I could. We were separated I did not press charges on her because I was worried about our kids. A few months later she went to court for an assault charge and was given probation by the court. I remained on my own always supporting them financially and compromising my own life. The Dept.of The VA awarded me VA Compensation at a decent amount and financially helping us out greatly. I got the divorce and also finished 20 years of military service through the Reserves, I was 54 when I retired from there in 2018. Today I am in a local rock band as a bassist, I just recently got the gig, chasing a dream I had in the early 1980's when I was still a teen. Believe in a higher power, I was saying prayers to Jesus all the time over these years maybe because my mother always believed in Him and told me that prayers can work. Somehow, try to enjoy the challenges in your life, and work as hard as you can to achieve your dreams.

[@annav2609]

I am in my 50's, learning photography, art and i jumped out of a plane and doing other activities...I am trying to complete my bucket list..I don't feel 50 and I don't look 50 ...age is just a number.. You can have many lives...try everything...you only have one death...Enjoy life..don;t let fear stop you...who cares what others say. Women are beautiful at all ages.

[@LizBrousseau]

yes! love this!!!

[@annasteenberg]

"You can have many lives, but only one death." I think that's inspiring !

[@juliebasello3755]

Be r I am 52. I reinvented my career and revamped my life after a divorce a few years ago. I currently do a job that is unheard of for someone my age and I’m good at it. And not just good at it “for my age”. Tell your mom 52 is nothing. And have her watch this video. Such an important message and one that isn’t often spoken about. Props to Sorelle for using her platform for positivity and change.

[@mshadeel]

Yes to this!!

[@thatswhatisaidCA]

@@user-mb9nm7bq5e Omgosh, she is so young! I'm 56 and I feel like the next chapter is starting! I don't feel old; I will probably live into my 80s, and that is a long time. You don't realize how time works until you get older and observe how long 10, 20 years truly is; you can get so much done in that time! I'm so sorry for your loss.

[@wisdom-for-life]

I was an idiot in my 20s... don't want to go back and lose all the wisdom I've gained..

[@Xoannon1]

Omg! Same!

[@pacotunez539]

I love your comments!!! I’m almost 37 and enjoying being a University student. I just quit my comfortable, safe and well remunerated job (for 2nd time) because it felt wrong. Super excited of exploring photography, learning yoga and of course loving surfing, skateboarding, working out, eating healthy and falling in love with anything that it feels right!

[@coppersense999]

Awesome. I won't detract from that except to say I hope if you meet and fall in love with someone as awesome as you that they are 45 and you talk them up to everybody you know, spreading even more inspiration.

[@EuropeanGeisha]

That's great!

[@presidentamanda7468]

Paco Tunez I’m 34 and doing the same. So nice to see there are others like me!

[@ginaprespare1316]

Good luck with school! Earned my psychology degree when I was 40. I think I really appreciated school more with some life experience behind me. Age doesn't matter.

[@presidentamanda7468]

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