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The Tea on NPD and Relationships

The Tea on NPD and Relationships

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@louisegarner8888
@louisegarner8888 2 жыл бұрын
Narcs can steal our honey 🍯 but not our soul-full means of making it 🐝⛲ and they'll feel the sting of our absence long after we leave without us losing our stingers if we make our moves to leave in silence 🤫! Yes Tea, narcs underestimate losing the main cog in their fuel generator when it starts going wonkier than the 3 legged stool hiding under their mask which falls apart under stress to reveal their projected true colours we can 👁️to toss back at them with a hard and fast door slam and change of locks to block! Side stepping zebras can go hoover themselves! It's a sign we're too strong for them if they don't hoover us! Thanks for inspiring Telsha and your voice is sooo beautiful 🎶😇😍 Bella wants in too!! She's a gorgeous floofy girl! 😅💓🐩💓 Love you Queen, avagooday!! xox 👑👸👑🌹🙏💪💞🕊️🤗👋
@mandatereporter7928
@mandatereporter7928 2 жыл бұрын
Please explain the terms honey and bees
@louisegarner8888
@louisegarner8888 2 жыл бұрын
@@mandatereporter7928 Hey Sis, no worries, thanks for asking! 💕🤗👋 If you can imagine the empath as a bee 🐝 who may die if they lose their stinger to a predator and honey 🍯 as gifts, talents, skills, money, sovereignty, ability to love, find peace and joy, be alone if needs be, build with others, access God, heal, be empathetic, step into their calling to heal others, etc., then see that the narcissist tries to copy and steal the empath's good qualites much as man steals a bee's honey for his own needs, the narcissist takes to boost their own egos while deflating, draining and undermining the empath to the point where the empath feels they've had all their joy sucked out and can barely function so to survive they'd need to get away from the narc to heal themselves and remember that they always did, still do and will always have, the methods and means for restoring all of their God given good, empathic qualities, skills, abilities and purpose of service once they turn to God and free themselves from the narc, whereas like the bee farmer who can't make his own honey without going to steal it from the bees, the narcissist needs to steal from empaths to keep their supply chain going to meet their fuel, feed, finance, freak needs. The narcissist needs the empath but the empath doesn't need the narcissist. 🗝 It's a smarter move for the empath to escape the narcissist before feeling so drained and angry about the mistreatment and abuse that fightback to survive becomes inevitable as an empath will act out of character much like a bee will sting even though it knows it will die once it's stinger is gone and the narcissist will take advantage of any emotional reaction, criticism or challenge from the empath to further punish and abuse as their mission is to destroy the empath. I hope I've explained that properly? I was thinking I could answer it in fewer words! Sending lots of love and peace to you and yours Sis xox 🙏💪💕😊✌️👋 ✨ ✨ ✨
@mandatereporter7928
@mandatereporter7928 2 жыл бұрын
@@louisegarner8888 That makes sense thanks
@louisegarner8888
@louisegarner8888 2 жыл бұрын
@@mandatereporter7928 Oh good to know, I went a bit overboard there but Telsha's the best for giving us visuals on narc empath dynamics to inspire us about those bee stomping, side stepping zebras and hell-mentored frogs in psychedelic tutus with chinese crested woofers perched on their slippery, stinky behinds that need a good army booting to the curb! 😅😂💕😘✌️
@mandatereporter7928
@mandatereporter7928 2 жыл бұрын
@@louisegarner8888 can’t make any of this stuff up Lol
@ayttiiie7
@ayttiiie7 Жыл бұрын
They don't get with someone better, they get with someone that doesn't know any better.
@toniacompton1091
@toniacompton1091 9 ай бұрын
The narcissist has no way to me. I’ve deleted all social media. I’ve changed my phone number and all of my information. He’s in the pitch DARK as far as my personal life goes. Amen and Amen.
@Ronald-pz1lx
@Ronald-pz1lx 8 ай бұрын
IMA just b TOXIC FOREVER I GUESS
@toniacompton1091
@toniacompton1091 8 ай бұрын
@@Ronald-pz1lxthat is your choice.
@Ronald-pz1lx
@Ronald-pz1lx 8 ай бұрын
YES
@marilynmonheaux
@marilynmonheaux Ай бұрын
You went blackout ❤
@designatedblack9696
@designatedblack9696 5 ай бұрын
No weirdo demon formed against me shall prosper!
@mint_soup9743
@mint_soup9743 10 күн бұрын
😂
@loiswhite1834
@loiswhite1834 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! That’s a real word: They had one assignment. That was to destroy you, and they failed. May every demon assigned to me and my bloodline, forever fail, in Jesus’s name!
@latyraRudolph50
@latyraRudolph50 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@ezdeezytube
@ezdeezytube Жыл бұрын
Amen
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 Жыл бұрын
In the mighty name of Jesus
@nikkired4925
@nikkired4925 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@ibiminaabiye257
@ibiminaabiye257 Жыл бұрын
Amen and Amen
@beachy9920
@beachy9920 Жыл бұрын
When the devil cannot show up .. he’s sends in a Narcissist ❤ avoid them at all cost!
@unitrarenee1406
@unitrarenee1406 8 ай бұрын
They really are confused, then blame you. My ex started blaming me for things I said (I called him out his inconsistencies, etc…), and when I said I didn’t want to hear his excuses, he said “now that he’s FINALLY sharing his feelings, I don’t want to listen!” I was like, boy bye 👋 ✌🏽 🤦🏽‍♀️ They really are sick and delusional and want to entangle you up with the chaos. PLS LET SOMEBODY ELSE DO IT!
@Ronald-pz1lx
@Ronald-pz1lx 8 ай бұрын
Always u
@leslieallen5704
@leslieallen5704 Ай бұрын
😂😂😂...That is what I said...go on now, go deal with your friends/delusional relatives, flying monkeys ✌🏽🎯.
@jo5992
@jo5992 2 жыл бұрын
I changed my number so The Narc and Flying monkeys can’t contact me…I shut them down before they even started. 😆
@Smilesbaylock8554
@Smilesbaylock8554 Жыл бұрын
Honey you took me out when you said that's why they can't sleep! Up all night long.
@desertangelfish140
@desertangelfish140 9 ай бұрын
I live in the country and he showed up at my place once and I saw him through the window taking a 💩in my yard!!
@MoniqEdin
@MoniqEdin 4 ай бұрын
I am on the floor😂😂😂
@GreenEnvy.
@GreenEnvy. 2 жыл бұрын
After the discard, the narcissist flew a drone with a camera attached over my house, then sent me the video. He literally hoovered above my house. He did this several times. I ignored it and after months it eventually stopped. These people are literally crazy.
@Lillian-z7c
@Lillian-z7c 2 ай бұрын
,wow!
@jacqui884
@jacqui884 2 жыл бұрын
So true Telsha. I quit my narc, but after 3 months being free he started hovering last week. I refused his invite to dinner, but he still continued anyhow I sent him one RC Blake's video on Narcissism last night. He flipped out, went into a devaluing rant via text and blocked himself-didn't give me a chance to respond and blocked himself... Thank you Jesus. I'm continuing to cover myself by the blood of Jesus.
@esthero1994
@esthero1994 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I act dumb about the whole situation....I did think about sending him some RC Blakes though. I just told myself if not even Jesus can save him, why would I even try🤷🏻‍♀️
@kathyheron4952
@kathyheron4952 2 жыл бұрын
Love it, that was the perfect way to shut that Narcissistic demon up.
@dswannbeautyartist
@dswannbeautyartist 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@simonw9332
@simonw9332 2 жыл бұрын
Gotta love it when they suddenly go into a rage cause u figured them out good for u mate 👍
@ms.angieb.1597
@ms.angieb.1597 2 жыл бұрын
Amen my sister!🙏
@surfshack2
@surfshack2 2 жыл бұрын
The cycle has to continue with every supply because that's how the disorder operates in order to control. The disorder has to control the supply. That is how they get the fuel that they need. The need for fuel has to be satisfied in order for them to cope and operate. The supplies feelings don't matter. It has nothing to do with you so don't take it personal. You are dealing with a machine that has targeted , baited and tried to take you over and destroy who you are in order to control you and secure you for a supply source. It's not really difficult to figure out , it's just that when you are in love (or think you are in love or have a special bond) with this person, you are not dealing with a person really but a demonic spirit that needs fuel in order to operate and control. If you try to reason or try to keep loving this person it will eventually drive you crazy. Be very careful who you let in your circle.
@deefletcher8148
@deefletcher8148 2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@cheekslord1222
@cheekslord1222 2 жыл бұрын
Facts it’s a demonic spirit. The devil seeks to destroy gif creation which is man. The devil he was a lier from the beginning he deceived the whole world.
@cheekslord1222
@cheekslord1222 2 жыл бұрын
Facts it’s a demonic spirit. The devil seeks to destroy gif creation which is man. The devil he was a lier from the beginning he deceived the whole world.
@janmansour4313
@janmansour4313 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been saying all along that it’s Demonic! He’s infested and I believe the strongman is Jezebel .. THANK YOU
@shenika1979
@shenika1979 2 жыл бұрын
So true. This spirit told me I was not a gem to him AFTER I have helped him on numerous occasions, loyal, there when he needed me. Smh. It was to think he was breaking my spirit. It's not his to break. No matter how hard he tried. He will never be unblocked. It's an evil spirit. I feel this.
@aboriginaleveything
@aboriginaleveything 2 жыл бұрын
It's almost been two years since the disgard. And I still get calls from odd numbers. If by chance I answer they just hang up. That clown lost grad a supply when I got out. They are unstable absolutely. But that's no longer my concern, I more concerned about my healing and putting that period of my life in the rear veiw as far as possible.😌
@lg2different
@lg2different 2 жыл бұрын
Facts 💯
@liv_my_life6947
@liv_my_life6947 2 жыл бұрын
Same here...all kinds of app numbers..fake!
@nicolataylor536
@nicolataylor536 2 жыл бұрын
Same...
@amessinadress9340
@amessinadress9340 2 жыл бұрын
In a couple of weeks it will be a year that I DISCARDED HIM! I went NO CONTACT FOREVER and BLOCKED HIM FOR LIFE! After I found out he had been stepping out our whole relationship! He has not seen or heard from me again since that day! He did try to Hoover about a month out! Epic Fail on his part. That is when I BLOCKED him! Yesterday I got a Random message on my Instagram. Weird because I am not following him or him me! The message said I am glad my pain makes you happy🤔 Pain Seriously? They always play the victim 🙄 I guess the Pain I went through was Situational and I brushed it off! BOY PLEASE go sit in a corner somewhere! Watch this .......... Total Silence Moron Double Standards game I don't play! Haha he must be low on Supplies! Doing a Temperature Check!! NOT TODAY SATAN OR EVER AGAIN! BYE😂
@ms.s1321
@ms.s1321 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I could say two years. My situation is unfair. Find a good lawyer to get this fake marriage out of my life. I'm doing good going no contact for 4 months and 11 days. A week ago, I got a text from a strange number. It was him. I thank Yah for delivering me from this wicked narcissist. I'm healing and getting better each day.
@michaeltaylor9096
@michaeltaylor9096 2 жыл бұрын
When I got discarded. Then I took the hoover fell in the trap. She told she was confused. I went back. I DISCARDED HER. IM NOT CONFUSED. SHE IS ALL THAT N SOME!! A FOOL N CRAZY. IM DONE
@jewelmathewson2997
@jewelmathewson2997 2 жыл бұрын
How did my ex diagnosed with NPD get over me, he married his new supply, got a new job with lots of new supply. He never had complete control over me for 11 years. He never got my money, my soul or my mind, only my heart! I won.
@ms.angieb.1597
@ms.angieb.1597 2 жыл бұрын
They never change..will do same thing with the next one. I discarded him!
@Lillian-z7c
@Lillian-z7c 8 ай бұрын
😂😂 me too.
@thelightworker01
@thelightworker01 2 жыл бұрын
Apparently there’s a narc supply shortage- ex narc hovered me after 3 days showed up unannounced, and asked for closure. Hell no I told him to close the door that’s the only closure you need.
@Lillian-z7c
@Lillian-z7c 2 ай бұрын
😅😅😅
@popecurro8023
@popecurro8023 2 жыл бұрын
👑🥂One of the very first to add demonology & narcissism in the same sentence 💯 opened my eyes to how serious this is , they are everywhere
@janmansour4313
@janmansour4313 2 жыл бұрын
Yes …!! AMEN
@donnalathrop9946
@donnalathrop9946 2 жыл бұрын
Ephesians 6: 12 we do not fight against flesh and blood but of wickedness in spiritual places
@catherinev53
@catherinev53 Жыл бұрын
An exorcism yes! Ain't nothing else going to help them 😂😂😂😂
@wanstar1771
@wanstar1771 2 жыл бұрын
I love when you SANG 🗣🎶If Ya ROCKKKkks With YAAA Girlllll!!! 🎵🎶🥰🥰🥰🫖👑
@alienamarsh3623
@alienamarsh3623 5 ай бұрын
The 13:00 minute marks has ne cracking up, " One demon wanna stay up, the other wanna sleep they can't get on the right sleep schedule" 😂😂😂
@bearpolar90210
@bearpolar90210 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@newseason4417
@newseason4417 2 жыл бұрын
Pray for me🙏, ex narc started back hovering last night.... dropped off flowers in the middle of the night, I threw them out. I've been free almost 1yr and it was the best decision of my life.
@empress9857
@empress9857 2 жыл бұрын
Wow a yr nc and they did that wow that’s crazy and sickening 🤦🏾‍♀️
@pigletcookie8242
@pigletcookie8242 2 жыл бұрын
That’s so scary crap. I am praying for you
@DOTMH_1
@DOTMH_1 2 жыл бұрын
My husband who left ne is the most dirty way violated the Restraining order and did a fake pocket call left a 3 minute recording of him walking the gag is the last time we talk was about a year ago so i should not be in his call log, and he also called at 12:16 pm my birthday is 12:16. He's creepy and weird.
@dmarcusfuture
@dmarcusfuture 2 жыл бұрын
I'm willing to help you in anyway that I can, from my perspective, learning what makes them tick is a big plus. Because I thought I was just crazy, now I know that they are demonic an anything but normal, walk away asap! You are in my prayers an thoughts. If I could tell you some of the things I went through surely you may gain the strength to discard. Keep your head up.
@ChrisPyle
@ChrisPyle 2 жыл бұрын
Recycled pigeon gets me every single time lol Thanks for the smile!
@fionalee7360
@fionalee7360 2 жыл бұрын
Had a dream the narc was outside my house but there were people who wouldn’t let the narc in. Couldn’t see the faces of these people. Shortly after I started getting the weird 2am calls.
@empressb444
@empressb444 2 жыл бұрын
That was God warning you that he was coming. The people not letting him in was God's way of telling you you're protected and to continue to stand your ground against him
@sadangel7334
@sadangel7334 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. It’s been a couple of years since I 100% left him alone. He’s been recently sentenced to 56 years, 4 months, to Life for 1st degree murder. God bless you❤️
@icalotdonthide2646
@icalotdonthide2646 Жыл бұрын
Praise God that you got out and stayed out. Death was not your portion.
@kylaren6337
@kylaren6337 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. They’re confused because they don’t understand why you discarded them after all the shit they did to you or why they discarded you and you didn’t chase them.
@kimberlys347
@kimberlys347 2 жыл бұрын
You didn’t chase them. Yea, that part! Lol.
@ms.s1321
@ms.s1321 2 жыл бұрын
Correct!
@ms.s1321
@ms.s1321 2 жыл бұрын
@@kimberlys347 After 15 years of an emotional torture, I discard him , my final straw. All his family laughed and think I was crazy that I will take him back again. It's been 5 strong months of no contact. I changed my phone number and I stopped talking to his monkeys. I feel good and I am healing. The wonderful part about it all is that my children are healing too. Every man that comes my way I see the red flags. I don't even pay them any attention. I went through so much for 15 years. I divorced him during the 12 years, And he came begging to make it work. An extra 3 years went by of complete silence. Oh they played that good love bombing for a minute and then of course the mask came out. They were worst than the 1st. I am so glad I can say it is over. I will never go back to that depression. Aint no man will ever put me through that depression state again. Stay safe my lady.
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 Жыл бұрын
@@ms.s1321 🎯🎯🎯
@UndergroundCommenter
@UndergroundCommenter Жыл бұрын
You didn't chase them is right
@mhairimckellar1528
@mhairimckellar1528 Жыл бұрын
My neck was broken by the nark last February and he's still calling me a lunatic. I think sometimes we just have to accept that you can't change these people or even tell them breaking your neck is criminal. I despair of how life is going these days girls, it's certainly a place I don't seem to recognise xx
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 Жыл бұрын
Thank God you didn't die people put him in jail he will kill you the next time
@brendaleverick3655
@brendaleverick3655 Жыл бұрын
"Gone ham, egg, and cheese on the family". 😄
@diunjenai
@diunjenai 2 жыл бұрын
I had a friend that was narcissistic. I confronted her about her behavior and she said she didn't understand what happened. I was wondering how she couldn't understand how messed up her behavior was, because when other people did the same thing she did she knew it was wrong.
@lorenal.6003
@lorenal.6003 2 жыл бұрын
I started watching your videos and I love it because up until now I felt lonely and missing the narcissist thinking that I was wrong but girl let me tell you you made me open up my eyes !!!! Miss who ? Feel guilty why? Because he eat my heart and my life for 12 years ! I will listen to you every day to get on my feet and I recommend you to my girls too! 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
@Trinsantanaa
@Trinsantanaa Жыл бұрын
Stay Strong !! You got this !!!
@roxxannejarrett3551
@roxxannejarrett3551 2 жыл бұрын
When you talked about the not sleeping do to the demonic presence is what made me subscribe to your page I needed someone else to understand the truth of that. Thank you
@gemini188
@gemini188 9 ай бұрын
He has too many options. They don’t care.
@lg2different
@lg2different 2 жыл бұрын
I been in a lot of relationships in my life an I never been in something like this …. This wasn’t normal 🤨🤦🏿‍♂️
@michwashington
@michwashington 2 жыл бұрын
You had me dying with a million hours of therapy 😂
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 2 жыл бұрын
Lolol!!
@gabriellemaes4078
@gabriellemaes4078 Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely hilarious. When I watch your videos I immediately feel so much better it’s like I’m with a good friend. Thank you so much for all you do. And you are so right about them not doing better after they leave you or after in my case I left him because I got tired of being kicked and punched and pushed and interrogated for hours for merely looking at a guy when in fact it was hit him that was cheating the whole time. I finally left and he immediately started dating another woman this was after 16 years of marriage. He started dating somebody literally a few days after I left. He moved in with her almost right away. Several months ago I got a message from this woman’s daughter very concerned about her mother. She felt that her mother was being abused but isolated and she was very worried and she asked me if he was OK or not. Well I got my moment of glory and it was sad and at the same time confirming for me. Sad because I don’t like the idea of another woman suffering like that because I know how much I suffered. And at the same time itIt confirmed that I was justified leaving.
@toniacompton1091
@toniacompton1091 9 ай бұрын
You have given me a much deeper understanding on this situation. I want to thank you so much for this insight. God bless you.🙏🙏
@thereallisa1
@thereallisa1 2 жыл бұрын
Bless your heart. I did everything for that man. Best thing he will ever have. Loved him unconditionally for years. He abused the hell out of me and said the most horrific things to me even imaginable. 😢 no hoover yet .. been a few weeks ghosted. He sabotaged himself and a million hrs of therapy would not be enough.
@franceshaggitt3104
@franceshaggitt3104 Жыл бұрын
Hi..you ok now I just regret meeting the narc. Was two years. I'm four wk out
@ceyciemateo9411
@ceyciemateo9411 Жыл бұрын
Update ?
@soultrynicole8443
@soultrynicole8443 2 жыл бұрын
This is so on point! A fool despises wisdom OMG! BABY!! When I say you have read that demon...a perpetual complainer...going in cycles in toxic relationships...playing the victim and the list goes on. I have been so drained and now I am fed up. Cut! Door closed! You wont snuff out my great ebergy anymore! Thank you thank you thank you!!!
@designatedblack9696
@designatedblack9696 5 ай бұрын
Hahaha...recycled pidgeons...luv it!
@kb847
@kb847 Жыл бұрын
I love your channel.. u make me laugh and give me hope.. my current situation. I discarded mine after one wk of giving birth to my second child.. and he’s already w someone else (2m) NO CONTACT and looking fwd w/ all my might! And yes he was up the whole night and on types of sleeping meds and he abuses pills as well.. he did .. he blamed me for everything.. but I’m too strong minded to even believe this… it hurts bc I gave him 2 kids but ima keep myself and my kids away from him and his flying monkeys.. his family (the enablers) especially his Mom.. doing voodoo on me and him.. true evil they all are..
@karadodge7118
@karadodge7118 2 жыл бұрын
Wow......you said it! I sometimes have wondered if the narc was really confused or if it was all just an act............ And you nailed it.......the different demons are throwing a tantrum cause some want to go to bed and the others ones don't....lolol...........This was so helpful!
@oscarwilliamson6163
@oscarwilliamson6163 2 жыл бұрын
Kara Dodge,Hope you are not with a narcissist.....
@megalitzsmith6346
@megalitzsmith6346 2 жыл бұрын
This is why one of their tools is sleep deprivation.
@johnnymccottrell8040
@johnnymccottrell8040 2 жыл бұрын
Let them fall into whatever is there for them. Don't care, don't give in, don't respond periodt!
@johnnymccottrell8040
@johnnymccottrell8040 Жыл бұрын
I had to take my own advice. The individual reached out to me through Facebook and I almost slipped thinking maybe the changed, matured, but I had to tell me , Dont.do it boy!
@darkndlovly3
@darkndlovly3 2 жыл бұрын
I had one who said they wanted to be with me, I said no, then he asked could we be friends, I said yeah then he ghosted me… then I started ignoring him and he played victim, then ghosted me again 😂😂 I’m like oh I know what this is! I been watching Auntie videos for a while now! Goodbye!! 😂
@aldenduffieldIII
@aldenduffieldIII 9 ай бұрын
I absolutely LOVE the healing wisdom you’re sharing. Feed me young lady! Thank you from the Interior Smokies of East TN.
@Ronald-pz1lx
@Ronald-pz1lx 8 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@neeksweeks
@neeksweeks 2 жыл бұрын
My ex said he doesn’t like to be alone because he fights with himself. ....Physically 😐. I thought it was a joke but now I know why. ...He’s absolutely crazy
@Dajahgraves
@Dajahgraves 2 жыл бұрын
I’m laughing omg wtf. Are these things fucking demons bruh
@pigletcookie8242
@pigletcookie8242 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Dam smh
@eerynessential
@eerynessential 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂Wowwww..You have to explain more. This is Gold!😂
@temposhop8739
@temposhop8739 2 жыл бұрын
dang lol. I feel a bit bad for them, though
@queenb3088
@queenb3088 Жыл бұрын
Not crazy... EVIL! He's fighting with his demons. And that's not a game; it's a fact! Mine had a psychotic breakdown after a narcissistic collapse and I LITERALLY saw a demon. His eyes had changed... a demon had emerged, and was talking reckless. But, it was powerless over me because I have the Holy Spirit abiding in me. I always marvel at how resistant people are to accepting that demons are REAL. If we accept and believe in goodness why are we so unaccepting of the wickedness in the earth. We're told that the enemy is sent to steal, kill and destroy and that he roams the earth like a lion seeking to devour whom he will. It's written and it's TRUTH.
@farah4983
@farah4983 2 жыл бұрын
Family, our unresolved past made us desperate which allowed the narc to take advantage. When we pour that love and affection into ourself and begin to heal, when we encounter toxic individuals the red flags will not be ignored. Because our resolve will become sturdy and unpenetrable. Praise God for his guidance and to communities like this that provide support and knowledge.
@EDDIEJAMESPRODUCTIONS
@EDDIEJAMESPRODUCTIONS 2 жыл бұрын
Your words spoke directly to my soul. Thank you ✌️
@MillMill-fv1xo
@MillMill-fv1xo 10 ай бұрын
I just love you. Thank you❤
@lutreciawhitfield6892
@lutreciawhitfield6892 2 жыл бұрын
Stalking me through our children. Where’s your mom, did she buy a house, where is she living Non of your business BIRD! Smh! 2 months, zero contact after 34 years of marriage. Getting my peace back!! Glory be to God!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@mrscee44
@mrscee44 2 жыл бұрын
To God be the Glory 🙌🏽
@empressb444
@empressb444 2 жыл бұрын
That's ridiculous he's using them. Have a talk with the kids and explain to them the importance of not leaking any info to him and tell the kids whatever questions he ask them to reply back with "ASK MOM."
@Shawn2689.
@Shawn2689. 2 жыл бұрын
My whole family is made up of malignant narcissists that have slandered my name to dentists, gas station attendants, indeed, and my employers and coworkers. I'm not holding my breath on forming long term relationships with women in particular cause then they'd eventually want to meet the "fam" I just hope I can escape one day and I'm curious how many empaths just stay single after being in a narcissistic relationship.
@Shesmooth28
@Shesmooth28 2 жыл бұрын
I’m almost 1 year and half since my narc situation and I’m so blessed I walked away that last time and never looked back and couldn’t pay me enough to deal with that demon thank god I ran into my wife which has been a completely different situation I really lucked🍀 up I tell you
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 2 жыл бұрын
💗💯🙏🏽💗
@ms.angieb.1597
@ms.angieb.1597 2 жыл бұрын
Bless you my brother!🙏
@antoniojohnson285
@antoniojohnson285 2 жыл бұрын
You described my ex after the breakup. She ended our relationship but told me I shouldn’t move on but instead wait on her. When she saw I moved on and she didn’t have control over me. She did everything you said. Calling from block numbers and telling people she still love me. I done and never looking back!
@louveniabutler9202
@louveniabutler9202 Жыл бұрын
Wow you r right point thank god I’m out but wow I felt like u where right with me but it’s been 1 since me and my daughters been gone. I was with him for 10 years
@JesusIsTheWay.Truth.Life.
@JesusIsTheWay.Truth.Life. 2 жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right about their confusion at the time of discard, Sis. For 2 weeks before it happened, he was constantly sending me selfies and videos of himself while he was on the road. He was crying in all of them. Telling me how much he was missing me, and wanted to be here with me. He'd say that he loved me so much and needed to hug me tight. Or..... he'd be insanely excited and giddy. But all of that crying! At the time, I couldn't figure it out. Now that I'm far past that discard and fully no contact, I believe (in retrospect) that he was so utterly confused. He had already sucked in his new supply and was ready to monkey branch over to her....but, y'all, he's such A GODLY MAN! Oh yeah, he wanted her badly, but she's not a believer and he'd already said that he'd only be with a Godly woman. I honestly think that he thought he could force her into his beliefs, so that he could continue to play his "Godly man" part. Hahaha.... He'd say strange things that I didn't understand at the time, like, "Audrene, I love that you pray over me day and night. Pray for me now, Baby. You're my good woman. You love me so much." Then he'd push away. Yep. I believe he was scared to make the jump. He knew what he was leaving behind, but he wanted her. See? Just reading that is confusing! But that's how these spirits work! From a place of confusion and contradiction. That is how you know that it is NOT OF GOD. That's from the ENEMY because he's a LIAR! Sis Telsha, God has anointed you for this time. I'm giving Him praise and glory for that! From all of us that God has used you to help, and for those coming out behind us, that He'll also help through you... We appreciate you and we love you! God bless you Telsha! 💗🙏🏼
@jenniferhaynes8625
@jenniferhaynes8625 2 жыл бұрын
As a Christian woman it breaks my heart when people: use",Christianity and they are not Christians, they are false Saints to manipulate the true Saints to take away their virtues.
@JesusIsTheWay.Truth.Life.
@JesusIsTheWay.Truth.Life. 2 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferhaynes8625 I agree with that 100 percent. When I was out there whining to people about wanting a Godly husband, and a covenant marriage, Satan heard that, and he assigned this "Christian" man to come into my life. Sweep me off my unbalanced feet, and take me down that road to perdition. Fornication. Idolatry. The devil is a liar! And a THIEF. I'm done letting him steal from me!
@hr2r805
@hr2r805 2 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferhaynes8625 Narcissists are full of EVIL in their HEART... They are under the influence of SATANIC Influence 👹 that make THEM enjoy what THEY do... • Full Misery is is within THEM... • The ONLY way THEY feel better is ROB the GOOD out of the "Object" they are attacking.... ••••••••••••••••••••••• • No Contact • • is one's #1 • • WEAPON • ••••••••••••••••••••••• • NOTHING • ••••••••••••••••••••••• • Vengeance is mine • Thus says the Lord... • Let God - Let Go ••••••••••••••••••••••••• • Allow only God to • let His Sovereignty • serve Justice as • that Narcissist • "Reaping what they • Sowed" - Leaving • You with "Peace of • Mind" and a "Clear • Conscience"... ••••••••••••••••••••••••••• • (" No Contact ") • •••••••••••••••••••••••••••
@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1
@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1 2 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferhaynes8625 Profoundly stated!
@js-gstrength4190
@js-gstrength4190 2 жыл бұрын
The last thing she said to me was that she had a future that she was beautiful and that she had love in her life. All of those things was the things that I had. Thinking about it now. She never ever acknowledged my worth to what I really was
@chazbickel4518
@chazbickel4518 2 жыл бұрын
They are masters of hurtful words, and you are right JS. They see your worth as their own. All of the things you have they do not. They never will. Keep in the light.
@deleshiadavis4326
@deleshiadavis4326 2 жыл бұрын
My ex just tried to hoover again twice this past week by texting from new numbers. I promptly blocked the new numbers. It’s been like 4 years and he still sidles back when he’s going through something. Mostly when the new supply isn’t supplying what he needs. It’s sad because I can just imagine how many of his other ex’s his doing the same way. It’s sickening to think about to be honest!
@metavio7
@metavio7 11 ай бұрын
Soooooo true my ex told me she hid in the bushes hahaha
@queenofthesouth4205
@queenofthesouth4205 2 жыл бұрын
This channel is Golden!!! They always play the victim....their goal is to destroy you.
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 2 жыл бұрын
Facts Sis!! Thank you and welcome!!💗🙏🏽💯🙌🏽💗
@christyliberge4189
@christyliberge4189 8 ай бұрын
And Now they Changed. Please Take Me Back. I'M A NEW MAN.
@Ronald-pz1lx
@Ronald-pz1lx 8 ай бұрын
Don't believe it it's still the same person STARTING SHIX AND DRAMA, ATTENTION
@ladyvirgo013
@ladyvirgo013 3 ай бұрын
They get so ruthless & cold during the devaluing, i WILL NEVER forget the distain the X husband had towards me
@delightfuldeb1218
@delightfuldeb1218 2 жыл бұрын
So true, Telsha! Mine bought a shack paid cash in another state - didn't tell me! Also, ripped out all the plants/trees I planted in his yard when we were married as soon as I moved out. When I went no contact for almost 3 months, he got mad that I didn't call him on his birthday so the next day he filed for divorce. His brother spent a week with him trying to help him fix his shack and he said something is very very wrong with him mentally. He said he was on eggshells the whole week and he is very concerned about him now. He even had a family meeting over him - this was when I was no contact, so that tells me he was going crazy because I wasn't talking to him.. Even though he had the neighbor lady on the side, so evidentally she wasn't making him happy. Now he can have her 24/7!!!. Addicted to dope (smoked it all day and all during the night!!!) I went no contact when he told me the neighbor lady has been coming over and his bed smelled like cig smoke really bad. Disowned the whole family - he has no idea what's going on with me and I feel good about that, but still sad about the whole thing!
@bridgesbridges7179
@bridgesbridges7179 2 жыл бұрын
Lol, I decided not to celebrate his next month.
@delightfuldeb1218
@delightfuldeb1218 2 жыл бұрын
@@bridgesbridges7179 Good for you! You should do something fun and treat yourself that day!
@bridgesbridges7179
@bridgesbridges7179 2 жыл бұрын
@@delightfuldeb1218 lol, good suggestion. I most definitely will.
@lucrishamcallister410
@lucrishamcallister410 2 жыл бұрын
He gave my mother a dining room set and set it up in her garage. A way of controlling. He knew I parked in the garage when I stayed over……. I marched it right to the alley. The sleep part just confirmed what I saw. I would literally sit up and watch him squirm, toss and turn with a sad moan. I’m convinced now he was fighting demons within👹Exorcism ☠️
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 Жыл бұрын
That's too crazy 🤣🤣🤣
@alexandriaderamus1660
@alexandriaderamus1660 2 жыл бұрын
Whew this is was my ex .. he is definitely demonic .. I blocked him so he won’t bring my sprit down to the ground … being with a narcissistic is extremely exhausting.. I’m 10 weeks pregnant and I’m protecting my energy at all cost … my baby is a blessing but I wished I never believed his lies .. 😭when you’re a highly highly highly sensitive empath you need to stay away from people like that .. they’ll tear you down until you can’t stand it any longer ..
@Justhavefaith-
@Justhavefaith- 2 жыл бұрын
I went through the same as you or worse. Prayer saved me
@alexandriaderamus1660
@alexandriaderamus1660 2 жыл бұрын
@@Justhavefaith- prayer is saving me too .
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 Жыл бұрын
If it wasn't for God's grace he would have killed me a long time ago
@deefletcher8148
@deefletcher8148 2 жыл бұрын
So very true, my ex said he don’t know why he keep losing people
@janmansour4313
@janmansour4313 2 жыл бұрын
I said to him on a couple of occasions.. look at the common denominator.. IT’S YOU.. in one ear out the other.. oh well, I tried
@chilo597
@chilo597 11 ай бұрын
1 time he said...i dont know why i am the way i am. I have so much aggresion in my body. I have issues.
@Ronald-pz1lx
@Ronald-pz1lx 8 ай бұрын
At least admitted it
@ms.angieb.1597
@ms.angieb.1597 2 жыл бұрын
After I discarded him for hitting me, he went off the chain for six months.. smearing my name, in and out of jail, drinking, bad tempers, rage, etc! Ended up hitting his own neice. Spent 4 hours in jail only… friends with sheriff.. go figure! I thank God for delivering me out of that toxic relationship! 🙏🙏🙏
@andraewilliams6429
@andraewilliams6429 2 жыл бұрын
My dear you have spoken the absolute truth I experienced the things you said, keep speaking this truth....
@veryrareshit4149
@veryrareshit4149 2 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy because I was called the narcissist but I’m not the narcissist.. my ex is, she devauled me and discarded me after a dropped call.. she thought I put her on hold and she flipped out on me.. she brought up things that happened weeks ago and made me feel like the worst person ever.. I never experienced that before… I was at work and I had a panic attack because she just kept texting me and I really wanted to talk on the phone.. man she crossed my boundaries and baited me into accepting what she felt.. I never felt like such an idiot.
@ess1954
@ess1954 2 жыл бұрын
You are so true and refreshing. I absolutely love how straight up you are. I am a white woman and you so speak my language. God bless Sister.
@bellezanegra0206
@bellezanegra0206 2 жыл бұрын
I found this right on time. Just discovered my cheating ex is a narc. This was much needed education and levity. Thank you for this.
@gratitudeandselfthinking
@gratitudeandselfthinking 2 жыл бұрын
I finally put my foot down and stop dealing with this narc completely, but now my family members are being hoover by the narc.
@empressb444
@empressb444 2 жыл бұрын
Have a group meeting and tell them all what's going on and why he's doing it.
@CAROLYN143-8-9
@CAROLYN143-8-9 2 жыл бұрын
I WANT TO SAY THANK YOU MISS TELSHA. YOU TALKED ABOUT A TOPIC THAT I EXPERIENCED. THEY WILL ATTACK YOUR CHARACTER ( PROJECTING) 👈 REAL TALK.. LACK ACCOUNTABILITY, OWNERSHIP AND RESPONSIBILITY. PROMISCUOUS IS SOOOOO TRUE 👀, 15 YRS NARC FREE, I'M SO HAPPY I LEFT HIM HALLELUJAH 💃💃💃
@ms.angieb.1597
@ms.angieb.1597 2 жыл бұрын
So true!! Bless you! Three years narc free here! 🙏🙏
@CAROLYN143-8-9
@CAROLYN143-8-9 2 жыл бұрын
@@ms.angieb.1597 BLESS YOU MS. ANGIE B. KEEP HOLDING ON STRONG 💪 🙏
@ms.angieb.1597
@ms.angieb.1597 2 жыл бұрын
@@CAROLYN143-8-9 yes you do the same Carolyn!🙏
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@yuhheard.6391
@yuhheard.6391 2 жыл бұрын
YOUR ENERGY IS EVERYTHING!!!!😍😍😍😊😊😊💓💓💓💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 2 жыл бұрын
💗💯🙏🏽💪🏽
@Shirley-t9b
@Shirley-t9b 9 ай бұрын
I agree
@aimeehylaris5820
@aimeehylaris5820 Жыл бұрын
You'd think that they'd be tired of this cycle. How can anyone live like that without being empty on the inside? That must be exhausting!
@pigletcookie8242
@pigletcookie8242 2 жыл бұрын
Narcissistic free since November 2021 no contact 👀 Praise God I turned to Jesus & therapy to set me free❤️I am loving me now and will never go back to what almost destroyed me 👍Sending prayers to all suffering in silence
@laurensmith5076
@laurensmith5076 2 жыл бұрын
No more good cuisine type meals because the new supply can't cook and they deserve somebody who can't cook smh.
@Goddesigned
@Goddesigned 2 жыл бұрын
Such a good doggie!!!! Doesn't distract and so calm. Awe puppie!!!
@JGlass-os5th
@JGlass-os5th 2 жыл бұрын
You have a true gift from God.
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 2 жыл бұрын
Praise God I give him all the glory praise and honor.💗💯🙏🏽💗
@robdiesel9932
@robdiesel9932 2 жыл бұрын
This is unreal... Never heard this before realizing what just happened.... Sad
@nl7504
@nl7504 2 жыл бұрын
No coping for a narc. They move on b4 their bags are packed
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 2 жыл бұрын
😐
@denisemariani6958
@denisemariani6958 2 жыл бұрын
I fully appreciate your language because my most Beloved,the Word ,is inspiring you.
@kieranoconnor333
@kieranoconnor333 6 ай бұрын
I’ve been feeling in denial about it all recently, but there’s no denying that you just described my exact experience with the nex! Peace 🙏
@ashtonandthehelms2777
@ashtonandthehelms2777 6 ай бұрын
Oh gosh did I holler when you said that’s why they can’t sleep 😂. I swear that is so true
@simonw9332
@simonw9332 2 жыл бұрын
This woman is spot on 👍
@pressncurl
@pressncurl 2 жыл бұрын
Your videos keep me on my square. So grateful for the wisdom and the laughter. Thank you so much! ❤
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 2 жыл бұрын
💗🙏🏽💯🙌🏽💗
@jaybrick8973
@jaybrick8973 2 жыл бұрын
they are confused probably because they feel they are never wrong an always play the victim
@yvonnewhite5798
@yvonnewhite5798 2 жыл бұрын
Girl you nailed this hilarious video! My x birdbrain narc has been calling me from strange numbers for three years since the Disgard . Recently I got an unknown “supposedly wrong number” and I knew it was this guy when he asked me to forgive him for wrong number! Busted! My reply D ….Don’t ever contact me again! Unknown response Why? He’s creepy and I won’t even be with this nut again in life
@reginap942
@reginap942 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, you know your business. That is exactly what happened to my mother. I couldn't take no more and walked away 4 years ago. Then the flying monkeys came and I kept my grounds and she stated going after my brother and sister in law. They and other keep her at a distance now and she is kind of lonely. I still feel sorry for her tho....but I ain't going back. I'm done! She did too much damage.
@cupcake3836
@cupcake3836 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate!!!! And I can testify. It is sooo exhausting and draining. These backward walking giraffes!!!
@tanyagamble3432
@tanyagamble3432 2 жыл бұрын
These swamp creatures are ridiculous it’s been almost 2 yrs Aug 4 th I’m still getting these fake friend request from ppl with no profile pic , BLOCKED
@reneepalmer3969
@reneepalmer3969 Жыл бұрын
This is very helpful in getting away from the narcissist
@Bo00si33
@Bo00si33 2 жыл бұрын
He doesn't. He's lost without me 😂😂😭
@ShunThorn
@ShunThorn 4 ай бұрын
Lol😂
@Mr93sharpei
@Mr93sharpei 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊 Your co-host is beautiful. .I I just lost my little white poohuahua, Fancy....yours reminds me of her ...
@stephaniewilliams9890
@stephaniewilliams9890 Жыл бұрын
I don't want any parts of that..his wish was finally granted. He is dead to me and I'm fine with that.
@Stacey-s3s
@Stacey-s3s Ай бұрын
I love how you call them pigeons…
@lauraswanson6161
@lauraswanson6161 Жыл бұрын
Yes!! Yes!! Yes!! To EVERYTHING you said!! Spot on!
@jasminemccaslin3041
@jasminemccaslin3041 2 жыл бұрын
This is all truth 💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝 praise the Lord Jesus 🙏🙏🙏 blessed
@weireffie29
@weireffie29 Жыл бұрын
True... observed very lonely and sad looking. Office location and i was told to keep the reception door locked.
@ms.s1321
@ms.s1321 2 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy listening to you.
@roxxannejarrett3551
@roxxannejarrett3551 2 жыл бұрын
On point they unleash that demon on you. They are not gonna take my peace I have learned not to fool with them at all. They are the creators of destruction.
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