How The Runner Feels When They REJECT Their Twin Flame

[@sienna9743]

We all run at times. If we don't run from our TF, we run from our parents, from who we really are, from our life purpose.. from many, many things. Takes one to know one. If we are honest about our lifes, we have everything in it to help us understand that they run BECAUSE they love us. To not hurt us. Because it is not the right timing. Because they feel too week, and would drown. Or because WE are too week and they sense it. Just trust, don't try to find a whodunnit, love and treasure yourself like you would treasure them, were they here.

[@lusciouslivingtoday]

When DM are running in the beginning, it doesn't bother them. It doesn't affect them like the DF thinks for several reasons. Because the DM starts blocking, doing everything they can, including being intimate with others. They do what they can do when they can do it to distract themselves. This is why they don't feel that pain. I know the DF likes to think they do, they do not, they don't start feeling any of the pain until their awakening happens and then it never turns off. And this is also another reason why so many of the dm's get into other relationships shortly after that love bubble phase goes away because they're blocking. They're trying to shut their emotions off, so they definitely will do the distracting, but when that stops working, that's when everything starts comes crashing down.

[@EllaBella-76]

@lusciouslivingtoday •But at what cost to others the pain they cause them or the children involved in this tangled web of lies and deciept yes i know it catches up with them but do you truly think they feel the pain or we did anything let alone a baby or babies to deserve this all its done is put me off relationships

[@lusciouslivingtoday]

@EllaBella-76 hi, I can't speak on baby or babies. But as far as the dm no, they don't feel the pain when they're running and blocking, they're not going to feel that pain until their awakening starts because they shut those emotions off. Yes, the journey seems very one sided .A lot of times I understand that for the twin that awakens first, but there does come a point when the twin that wasn't awakened will awaken and there's no turning it off if they choose to keep running, which a lot of them do it's sad and unfortunate because time waits for no one. I know for label terms the df likes to think that the dm is just in agony and pain like they were. It does not happen like that, I know for label terms the DF lkes to think that the DM is just in agony and pain like they were. It does not happen like that, not at the same time. And the thing that helps the DF become stronger, because you start to realize all The Times that you spent crying over the dm, all of those anniversaries of meeting this person or holidays that they're not spending with you, they're spending with someone else and birthdays, you could go on and on, they're making memories with someone else, not with you. And that's a hard fact to accept. A big misconception, the df thinks oh, if I stop chasing my dm's gonna come back right away. No, they don't. It takes time because each person's healing is not set on a specific time frame. Just because a df did the work doesn't mean the dm is, and if the dm is, it doesn't mean they're going to come back right away if ever. One of the things that is so frustrating on this journey is there's so many so-called coaches that want to charge people mass amount of money for classes and coaching to help them get their twin and get over their healing. It doesn't work like that. And most of the people that are offering these supposed classes are not even actual Twins themself, because real Twins can see through that bs a mile away, people that do this are playing on people's emotions out of desperation and it's very sad to me, because the only one that can truly get you closer to your twin is yourself, and when you do the work to heal for yourself. No coach or class is gonna do that. And people that are offering these things are charging so much money because they want to make money, but they're giving so much false hope to people that are so confused and are trying to figure out within themselves, what the heck is going on to them.

[@tariqsaleem1519]

...her running has turned me inside out and upside down...brutal dark night of the the soul, a shit storm...but I'm still here...and grow deeper in love with her everyday...even tho may never see her again

[@JPcommunicates]

She isn't running from you and you aren't chasing her. You just act on learnt attachment styles which have nothing to do with the other person but yourself. It's natural behaviour. You don't grow, you can only learn who you are and what patterns serves you and which don't. It's no love when you have no life together. You don't know her personally. You just built up your imagination around her. Love is when you accept someone for who they are and share your lives together. Love is only experienced in the sensual way. Dreaming about someone isn't love nor life.

[@allywolf9182]

Giant news flash! When they run, let them. And don't fkn look back

[@edwintorres5791]

lol

[@SirWolf--1]

🤣😂

[@smangelemasengemu8350]

I am crying my lungs out right now because I'm going through everything you're mentioning here😢 he stares at me from afar but when I get close to him he looks away. It's like he can't stand me. He's going through a tower moment and all I want to do is just hold him but I understand he has to deal with his awakening alone. It is such a painful experience to be in a twin flame connection with a twin who hasn't awaken. I miss him but I know he's not good for me right now.😢

[@Katerina-ttty]

@@smangelemasengemu8350 it's so painful....lord help

[@JPcommunicates]

Don't attach on this whole story of twin flames. A lot of what is told there has nothing to do with life. Running and chasing are attachment styles. People do them because of being overwhelmed and anxious. It has nothing to do with you personally. Those who run can experience feeling overwhelmed and pressured by another person. The chasing dynamic sourced from being anxious of being left alone. Those are classical childhood dynamics where two act on childhood patterns. Your experience with being left alone as the other one runs has nothing to do with you personally. The felt experiences are just triggered experiences of your past and how you felt to this time. Both parties are confronted with all these emotions and there job is it to understand their past. Your twin flame hasn't either rejected you. Nor do you actually chase him. The runner runs to feel himself again. And the one who is left behind needs to find different ways alone how to calm their nervous system. It's very simple. When you feed into this twin flame concept, you make yourself sick and unavailable because it has nothing to do with any reality. It's just nonsense. There is nothing such an awakening. You can only get self-aware.

[@marjorieskarda5391]

Twin Flame connection is so intense I ran. I felt scared. I didn’t recognize myself in the connection- I felt vulnerable and weak 😢

[@TOPSYxKRiTT__x]

I feel like that’s part of the journey. Him and I were both runners for a minute. He’s the last running and I told him verbatim - I’m done running. From here - you know you’re the runner. How do you want to move from here? Stay in fear or work through it and move past it to get your twin flame? Sometimes tho .. this lifetime isn’t it for our twin flames.

[@soulgardener11]

Beautifully said, thank you!

[@JPcommunicates]

That has nothing to do with the person. It has to do with your fears when you run. The running and chasing dynamic are classical attachment styles. The intensity is often just experienced when two people are energetically open. So you experience not just you but also the other person's experience. Each more you getting self-aware of who you are each more you can differ and detach from taking things personally. It's ok to feel vulnerable and helpless. There is nothing wrong with it. Everyone feels like that. It makes us humans. There is nothing wrong with you. Vulnerability is a power!

[@JPcommunicates]

​​@@TOPSYxKRiTT__xRunning and chasing has nothing to do with twin flames. Both are attachment styles. Each more you learn about the psychology of human beings and life. Each more you are going to understand yourself and others. Getting self-aware is the purpose of this whole energetical connection. Accepting who you are You can work through anxiety. You can just accept it and move. Anxiety is going to remain. Be aware of it.

[@edwintorres5791]

“shes a runner shes a trackstar @ 😂🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

[@lynnvener6631]

Im going thru this BS with my husb of 28 yrs. Its a DREADFUL experience that's caused me more heartache then I ever imagined. YOUR BETTER OFF ALONE than with someone who runs. I have never felt so betrayed & abandoned by someone I thought loved, KNEW ME, & that I TRUSTED. Hes emotionally shut off & enjoys being that way. He ran away when I've needed him THE MOST. I don't think that he will ever come around. Even telling him that I'M LEAVING HIM keeps him running away. Im DONE chasing in 2025. I would rather be alone with my animals than playing games with a twin flame that continues to HURTS ME. Your spot on with this message. Its so sad how stubborn people can be. He would rather lose me than connect with me. Oh well, I tried. 😇

[@soulgardener11]

I'm so sorry you are going through this. It takes a lot of courage to surrender and let the universe take care of it. Proud of you! 💪

[@JGH-u5u]

It will be the hardest thing you can ever do not fun for the runner and the chaser I would not wish it on anyone,!! Im happy to be mostly pain free from it now I have no choice but to get on with my life. The way I feel it's the most devastating hurtful pain I have ever had!! It is a FACT LIKE DEATH YOU ARE RIGHT ITS WAY BEYOND PAINFUL!! GOD BLESS YOU ❤

[@Katerina-ttty]

That pull is crazy....wow

[@Tom-cp6yj]

Try being a man!! With the double standards and the world catering to women.. whe n I was told to leave her alone, I had to!

[@AudreyLynn17]

I enjoyed this perspective. Thanks!

[@agapelove1111]

I knew about my Twin Flame connection when he was only 15 years old. Obviously we were not introduced until over a decade later. When I was pushed towards him, I knew who he is to me. He had no idea but had visions of me, and memories from pastlives. He experienced phantom touch. I experienced this just earlier today when I felt a kiss on my cheek. It would be another 5 1/2 years and he never came back to stay because he was avoiding his healing. Looking at our deep wounds is very difficult. Now I have surpassed him in my growth, and healing and I am not sure we can be together in this lifetime. I am deeply saddened by this. I just keep praying that he heals before the Divine tears his whole life down around him. 😢

[@samarpitaroy1001]

Every said word is true... in the beginning its all fear and ego, gradually with time he understands that there can't be a distraction or an avoidance. This connection can not be broken , hidden, can not be fled away from, can't be consulted and compared with societal norms. The person faces severe physical pain as he denies the connection mostly in arms. Neither any medication nor worldly consultation works in this other than acceptance.

[@JPcommunicates]

Nobody rejects anyone. People can feel rejected by other people's actions because they take it personally. Running and chasing are attachment styles. They are created through trauma and apply to a lot of people who have no twin flame experience. It's just poor what people teach others online. They create with this whole story more pain than anything what actually serves anyone.

[@קרןקמרי]

Wow !!! Thank you so much for this ❤

[@redflag4255]

Thank you I really needed this

[@aaroni78]

All of this is true ❤️

[@matlou-ka]

His been rejecting me, his very inconsistent, ignores my calls and messages, worst part we work at the same mall I see him almost everyday and it's so difficult for me. But I've decided to let him go still love him my heart only wants him😢

[@edwintorres5791]

hmmmm the moment you care is the moment you lose so learn to love yourself thats what attracts everything

[@nofybn7794]

Not me. I have moved on.

[@nofybn7794]

@@edwintorres5791 That makes NO sense at all. I do love myself. I have moved on. Why would I choose him?

[@edwintorres5791]

@@nofybn7794 you already chose ask yourself that

[@lalitak7178]

The pain is burninfmg inside my soul. We are in separation atm it n hurts so much. I feel like i am going crazy. I am doing the inner child work, he said he would do the same. But he went travelling and told me he is moving abroad and seeing someone else. He told me its the deepest love he ever felt.

[@charlesdial7152]

I didn't know what I had until now so I ran from the pain inside my heart from my mother and I have to heal myself first b4 I come back around or if I ever do because I feel like I'm being pulled into a different direction and I will let God lead me and let my past pain go so I can feel joy in life ❤

[@Tom-cp6yj]

Relief!! 🤷‍♂️

[@RatucKoch]

Magnetic Aura book by Takeshi Mizuki ain’t for everyone, it’s for people who actually want to get ahead.

[@TauanaBrand]

There's no such book You can search and then AI boots Will provide fake pages

[@milingimbi1438]

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[@jessicaperdigao5116]

Why can I buy it ? I can’t find it

[@wendylegge4822]

Get a life.

[@JPcommunicates]

Nobody gets ahead of anyone.

[@gloriarobinson6820]

I don't know what I was thinking to choose this journey before I was brought her ..but I'm on it for 9 years ..I have to move on in my life and he's with his karmic for almost 5 years but reached out to me now 3 months saying what he wants with me but.. that can't happen rn

[@delavarkhan123]

It’s so intense

[@user-me4dj7cg5b]

I was the runner. I didnt feel worthy of a relationship. Hes now happy with someone else. I think shes better for him than me. However, I am working on myself so, I can find someone I can love!

[@LTizzle34]

We aren't to look for others, we are looking to love ourselves.

[@qbee1747]

It’s crazy when they don’t went to heal and it turns into depression. That’s where it becomes sad I just was so frustrated I told him I hated him and needed him away from Me I know what this is he knows it something . All ur saying he has said but heal he don’t do

[@edwintorres5791]

yes transform the whole universe book of Titus when Pual wrote a letter to King Titus and power of transformation i claim this 555 loved this

[@EmpressLexii]

Feel hurting the " chaser " is bullshit 😒 they can careless. All that matters is their ego and fear. I loathe my soul ever agreed to this 😡

[@polyphonicmonkey9797]

Same, Fuck this toxic bull shit. Mines married yet actively stopped me from meeting people when I was around her. GTFO here!!

[@Childlike_empress_iam333]

Ha I say the same.e thing...torn between why would my soul sign up for this 😂...and yea that makes sense id sign up for this b.s 😅💪🏾...

[@ChocolateLover4365]

Yes I said the same. Somebody forged my name 😂😂 cause I definitely didn't sign up for this

[@julieblanchard3035]

What he needs is courage to divorce the karmic, to end being used by everyone in his current inner circle, to gain perspective that 3d earth stuff is not that important. He has wasted his life working hard to get money for her to spend on expensive resort vacations, for weekend travel just to get out of the house as she is bored, and to fly constantly out of state to attend seminars to find ways to steal money from others in creative methods - none of those things are valuable and worth giving a lifetime toward, he needs to wake up and see his hard work for her results in nothing especially nothing that will help him once in Heaven.

[@twinsoultarot473]

The universe is cruel keeps us apart because neither one of us has enough money to be together he lives in New York and I live in South Carolina

[@ArataC-l4b]

Dope

[@QueenDET]

How when they ran right into the arms and married her? How can he not be vulnerable? I thought when people get married, they have to be vulnerable enough to do so

[@RaviKumar-jt5iq]

seriously, don’t pick up the book Magnetic Aura unless you’re ready to see things differently, no joke.

[@milingimbi1438]

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[@karissarobinson1892]

💯 my ego gets bruised and it makes me want to abandon the whole thing…. Just to get this gift of a reminder to coach me through the pain and frustration caused by his avoidance of me. Now I got to check myself when all I wanted to do was blame! It’s humbling and grumbly sometimes. Uggggg! 🤦🏾‍♀️🙏🏾😭strong ssa shizzzz man😅

[@edwintorres5791]

sometimes you gtta go thru an ego death which will mold you for future strength and struggles!

[@B-angel-ė]

❤❤❤❤

[@LTizzle34]

Forrest Gump and Jenny.

[@edwintorres5791]

👀 The runner lol hahaha im dead i understood after awhile it took awhile to adapt and adjust lol she a runner aight though lol til i put her on a treadmill in olace of me ao now she running in place 😂😂😂😂 and im 🛌 getting them 💤

[@AliciaSkylar]

😂😂😂C R U E L

[@marchella1st]

What are the true origins of this whole twinflame thing no disrespect to anyone that believes in this but i find this whole thing simply encourages bad behaviour towards one another because you let each other go and come back together and this pattern can repeat several times through out your life you go your separate ways get involved with other people you know you will never give yourself fully to because you have this twinflame attachment you hurt so many people along the way accumulating karma that you will definitely pay back sooner or later and so the cycle continues never ending really in my opinion when you meet this so called twinflame its either to have a beautiful relationship till the end of your lives or to learn the most important lesson of your life whatever it maybe but when you dont learn that lesson then you will forever have this back and forth with that person because it is that particular person only thats supposed to teach you that lesson.

[@JoshWest06]

Hermetic law of polarity. Most are dealing with narcissists and avoidants, some soulmates, but very few twin flames. Divine love is very different from just intense passion or amazing chemistry. You view the other person as sacred, precious, without the egotistical desire to control. It also isn't rooted entirely in romance like most make it out to be. Instead of the, "me me me," you begin to understand how this other person can help you on your own path, to leave the world better than you found it.

[@Bigdod81]

First and foremost this is not from God but universe. How? We have one chaser’s who is facing the real wound as this continues, who abandoning themselves because there is disregulated attachment style and they have no idea, in other side the avoidant it’s craving healing but no idea what it takes, universe mirroring our thoughts, in one point they pray for whatever and boom 💥 energetic match…. It’s hard as the chaser goes rock bottom but surrenders for the desire, they have the other person to heal, they can’t help the thoughts, but they allow everything to flow, once they are done and pray for disconnection really pray block DM and focus on themselves. It’s then the other twin awakens.. but this is all orchestrated by universe and other entities. This whole thing happens for them to know who they really are. They both suffer from their programming. They both have same kind of parents. They both are abandoned. They both have similar treats, but the chaser is using their light to help the world the avoidant using the darkness to manipulate and help himself. It works.

[@lisamcgrath5033]

Why is mine so painful? It’s grief ridden

[@vanessajames-w7b]

Evolve at a homeless shelter? Ion know that sounds weird 😂

[@PujaPal-fy9zs]

if you’re not ready for real change, skip the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it’s too much for most people.

[@milingimbi1438]

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[@nibirsaha5947]

you probably shouldn’t read the book Magnetic Aura if you’re cool with missing out on how attraction really works.

[@milingimbi1438]

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[@giulia2098]

❤️117

[@WhisperingMeadowss]

My favorite number 💛🪄

[@giulia2098]

@@WhisperingMeadowss mine too! blessed number, follows me everywhere!!

[@prairievintage]

Not quite, this is felt by the chaser while in separation, not the runner.

[@ritalamsley6846]

Dont send these messages there not wanted

[@Shot.king.V.T]

don’t read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki if you’re fine staying like everyone else, it’s not for you.

[@milingimbi1438]

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[@edwintorres5791]

i get rejected just to get re elected 😂 call me trump ✊

[@nofybn7794]

TROLL AND TRAITOR! Has nothing to do with this! Typical republiCON!! Thanks a lot MAGA! YOU DIDN'T MAGA!! YOU EFFED IT!! You will be crying by mid 2025 with recession/depression!!

[@denissmiljkovic9924]

The so called 'Universe' is our Creator who came to this realm as Christ to save us. But demons (& their Chief) doesn't want you to know that. The end is near. Repent