How to Always Look Expensive - Easy & Simple Tips | Slow Fashion

[@lu_re7198]

Taking care of your skin, nails, eyebrows, haircut and perfecting the "no makeup" makeup look can make a difference. Please consider making a video about weekly maintenance/care. 👍😊 Also, taking care of our shoes/handbag (cleaning, repairing) is important.

[@vivianhamilton616]

Great tips, thank you.

[@jacquiscottagelife7746]

I second this suggestion! Would make really helpful videos.

[@meilinchiang6951]

Healthy eating is also important, it does make a big difference.

[@PatriciaMuirMaestroQ]

Taking care of what you have not only saves on replacement costs, it shows respect for your investment and respect for yourself. Great comment Edna.

[@lenamahayni6216]

Great ideas 💡

[@reneemarais431]

Smell nice, no chipped nailpolish and clean shoes.

[@katherinemargeson8082]

A new tip I found is using bonding powder to fix threadbare spots in wool.I just bought a gorgeous 60s camel coat from Poshmark that has a tiny threadbare spot and the fabric bonding powder worked. You shave off some pills, cut them up finely, roll into a ball, iron, done and done!

[@clairekurdelak2913]

Katherine Margeson this is amazing! Looking it up on amazon now!

[@honeybdream]

What stores sell that? Maybe Fabricvile or Michaels?

[@nancyharris9909]

Alyssa, your first tip about having gratitude is so true...I love that you included that as a way to look expensive! Thanks for sharing such excellent tips that I can put to use in my everyday life.

[@TheSteffie59]

Love your tips, go with them all! I am finding "my style" now in my 60s, little personal touches to jazz up outfits, ie scarf, or brooch or something hair wise. I'm a wig wearer of many years so rarely have a bad hair day and I can change up my daily look to suit my mood/outfit! I love French chic, always avoided black as thought it didn't suit me, but I've now decided it does and it's so sophisticated! My tip would be to invest in great bags and shoes, which elevate high street items. Love fashion but in a definite classic style. Some of my clothes which I love, are years old but I look after them well. Thank you! 🤗😍😎

[@irairod5160]

All hail the FIT! I have to alter the length of all my long sleeves, and often take my pieces to have princess seams added to follow my curves, which are very pronounced...it's an added expense, but the difference is incredible.

[@apender01]

I think vintage jewelry and great accessories can update any outfit. It's like changing throw pillows and a rug to update a room without investing in new furniture. Great tips as always!

[@laurabasconcello4379]

Hi Alyssa! This subject is so interesting that I must add a few things that I think are very important: shoes must be clean, fixed and in good shape; bags: the material and color must be in good shape too. Nails: should be not so long and at least, with nail polish. Hair: I agree with you. I add: no roots, a haircut and a healthy hair. Kisses from Buenos Aires!! (I'm watching all your videos to be updated)

[@lfkilcran]

Yes....well groomed and polished is always a way to look elegant. Columns of one color in a long silhouette does have an elegant look. I like framing it with sweeping lines of silk...which can have a small pattern. Hair....it is an issue at times....but nothing like a beautifully made fedora or other hat to elevate (literally makes you look taller) to get that long, fluid line of pure elegance

[@kobrien7945]

Good posture and looking up conveys confidence in how you present yourself to others.

[@chickenleg002]

Have you done a ‘body types’ video or something where you point out iconic looks & the body types that frequently pull them off well? I am getting ready to scale back my wardrobe & would like to do a better job of dressing my ample apple body type. Any resources you could point me towards would be helpful. ( Like a boyish figure looks great in that straight 60s inspired suit, or an hourglass + DVF style wrap dress is heaven)

[@evelynglick5717]

Loved and agree with all these tips. I would add a great smelling fragrance and a good posture. No slouching! Walk like you are proud of your body

[@susieqmartin2746]

Looking out together even in jeans and a T-shirt can make a big difference. Being kind and smiling endears you to people! Good video!

[@dinaoreilly9483]

I think you nailed it honey....bottom line is we each have so many clothes already and need to in fact be soooooo much more GRATEFUL than we are for the lives we lead, the opportunities we have the extensive wardrobes already brimming over in our closets.....if you feel you have nothing, then de clutter, donate and become more thoughtful and focused going forware but buying more is rarely the answer.....great job as always sweetie..enjoy Italy..

[@crystalh1402]

There are a few videos with a similar title that I’ve watched but this video provides tips that I can actually implement!! So many of your tips have been amazingly easy and little by little my wardrobe is coming together and I’m loving how I look. ❤️

[@zabindhanji]

Thank you. I really enjoy your approach. I have so many beautiful things but I find myself constantly shopping for things. But you remind me and show examples of how I can fall back in love with what I already have. Thanks!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

I'm so glad you like this approach :) it's exactly why I started the channel! Your comment makes me so happy! Thx for watching!

[@dianascott2798]

Alyssa, Can you recommend a brand or model for a clothes steamer? Thanks.

[@MalloryEagar]

I love your positive joyful demeanor. I've been feeling guilty about the tailor bit- I know it would make much more of a difference than just trying to buy new things.

[@olagerta8199]

My short: 1. Shifting your mindset that you need a lot of clothes 2. Fit - also adjusting a bought piece 3. Wrinkle free - steaming, ironing 4. Neutrals - find own lighter ones, classic prints 5. Structure - clean cut blazer, trousers 6. Styling - what you already having, accessories 7. Personal touch - sth own 8. Good hair 9. Smile :) My adds: 1. Matched colors - Knowing own color palette 2. Cared nails 3. Leather things - bags, shoes 4. Cared basic pieces

[@marylohman4463]

I really love the addition of gratitude and confidence. You are so inspiring! Thank you for the beautiful example you set in both your content and your presentation!

[@karinsolli9581]

Always dress as if you’re going somewhere better!

[@bebop54]

yes , wonderful advice !

[@kendrabean606]

I agree with this. I wear scrubs to work bc I have to but after work I've changed some habits. If I didnt have anywhere to go I used to just continue to wear the scrubs after work. Now I change right away into something I love no matter if I'm just picking up my son from school.

[@reallyrho1101]

I love this idea!

[@bosvigos9165]

I love this advice. As someone who has been wearing clothes for 60+ years, I have a good idea of what suits me. One thing, neutrals on me, if that has to mean beige in all forms, will never happen! Colour means personality and that does not have to equate to trashy. Something that lacks, is wearing a slip to stop clinging clothes. Why does nobody do that anymore?

[@marionkine]

I can't agree more on self care (nice skin /hair/nails/feet ...). Going for basics made of good fabrics. Understanding what really fits you and bei g confident. This, in my mind, makes me feel a million bucks

[@chandlersreloved8751]

Alyssa Because of you I look at clothes totally different. Trendy is not even in my vocabulary. I am slowly getting rid of items that don't make me happy. I always shop at Thrift Shops. I donate everything to Goodwill. It just makes since!!!

[@heatherframpton9693]

Prints with a solid scarf or solids with a print scarf is an easy way to look put together even if feeling blah or in a hurry to get out of the door. I call it "Garanimals for Grownups". 😁❤️

[@sig9girl]

Self confidence is everything! You can have on an outfit from the least expensive store, but if you know how to put yourself together, and walk with your head held high... 😍

[@tsvetephotography]

Hey, i really enjoy your videos and just wanted to add something that crossed my mind while watching. I gave birth a year ago and am still fighting to get my belly back where it was before :) recently I have finally bought a piece of quite comfy shapeware and it's had a profound effect on how I look and feel in my clothes... Now I wear my clothes with much more confidence and ease which I think is the main reason why we perceive someone to look rich... So, i just wanted to include that tip to the list :) keep up the great videos :*

[@mariadankova9033]

What shapewear brand can you recommend? A fellow mummy will be grateful. 😆

[@bettylu3208]

Love your tips! Adding a fragrance always elevated my mood, and makes me feel more put together!

[@tobeytravels1861]

All your tips are spot-on...especially the one about caring for your clothes. Thank you!

[@sallygator22]

The information I've found on your channel has helped me curate my sustainable closet. Thank you! I wish A-list celebrities, like the Kardashians, would promote re-wearing or re-working the clothes they already have in their closets. It would set an excellent example for many people.

[@ericabertels]

Def fit and comfortable over everything! I think we all made that mistake when we were young. Taking care of your body, nails and hair is my first priority! Even just brushing your hair and trow it in a bun, big sunglasses and some jewelry and you’re good to go! I love your style and personal touch! 🥰

[@freefallingintograce4634]

Alyssa! Great tips 🥰 for me, it's classy, chic, thoughtful, playful, and creative. I also love the look of freshly steamed clothes, and i love the process of ironing or steaming too - it's like meditating and appreciating your clothes. Alyssa, a practical question... I have the same steamer, and it recently stopped working, even though it's fairly new - have you had any trouble with yours? do you have any tips on reviving it? 🧐 Thanks! N

[@carolegeddes998]

If you put vinegar in your steamer to clean out the scale it will work much better and last longer. 🙂👍

[@andib3017]

Love that blouse you are wearing! And glad that you added the part about gratitude!

[@kathyesargent9088]

Attitude comes from within thats works for me!

[@McSwan0709]

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[@louiseeady5296]

Hair, nails and your smile make a huge difference but in the end the biggest tell-tale signs are your manners and speech.

[@TheZeyre]

Thanks for the thoughtful Sunday video to go with morning coffee! I look forward to your autumn trends. Love the gold accessories. Hair - something to aspire to. Thx Alyssa!❤👜

[@lesliecarnes8775]

Fabulous thoughts! A pedicure always makes me feel a bit more elevated too.

[@karinkaras4380]

Beautiful video! I would love to actually hear more about how to take care of clothes. Whether it’s keeping whites white, is there anything you can do with blacks losing their pop and maybe recycling or repurposing items

[@jader2629]

Very late reply from me but black dylon machine dye (careful with delicate materials).

[@christinamanucy8037]

Great tips! One thing I don't do that I"m sure would help is taking care of my nails. I distract away from them using other parts of my outfit, earrings, hair, etc ('cause I just don't want to bother with my fingernails), but I do know that your hands can make a big difference in an overall impression. Oh, and having good quality, clean shoes that aren't scuffed up.

[@preston6814]

christina manucy I don’t like to spend time on my nails either, but a quick way to maintain your nails is to file them, I keep them short, push back your cuticles and then put on clear or a sheer nail polish. I like mademoiselle by Essie. It goes on smoothly without any streaks and chips aren’t noticeable and it looks great with any skin tone. 😊

[@skihillsandy]

Looking expensive does not necessarily mean classy. Perhaps we should discuss this idea? 🙏🏽❤️

[@carolannf]

Sandy Santigo agree!

[@faithuhunmwangho7517]

Well spoken!

[@Aja.S]

yeah but let's face it classy style will always appear as more expensive and put together 🙌🏾 take Kate or even Meghan now as examples ... see ?

[@fashionandluxury101]

Great tips. I always try to add two accessories to look polish. I agree with everything except tying your shirt in a knot or rolling up your sleeve. I think it depends in your age and where your going. I never saw a woman on 5th Ave with her shirt tied in front and sleeeves rolled up and said " oolala she looks expensive " lol. Great video as always

[@noblekel]

I love your makeup look, would love a favorite products/get ready w me tutorial

[@nicolestenson2641]

Hi, Thank you for all the great tips! I am on a minimalism journey and your tips really help my goal to not shop new for at least 1 year. I was wondering whether you let me know what the brand of the hand steamer is that you used in this video? Many thanks, Nicole

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Hey there! I didn't mention it, it's a Conair - so simple but works so well!

[@livelovehula8268]

I really like you and appreciate your tips and “look”. The four minute Shop Tagger AD, was a complete drag though. Certainly understand the shout out to your sponsor but could it be cut down to just 1 minute or less? I only have a few minutes to begin with

[@connieb5153]

In addition, I did not like shoptagr and I had to unsubscribed them long ago.

[@maaikevandijk-bokkers944]

Shoptagr hardly works where I live (Europe). And it keeps Sending very old updated on clothes to my emailaddress that have been out of stock for 2 years now. 😩 I of course skipped through the whole sponsored part

[@mysticfox1563]

Maaike van Dijk-Bokkers, it doesn’t work well in the states either. It sends me alerts on things that had no price change and sometimes glitches to show everything in nonsense currencies (not just not showing in dollars but saying one thing is pounds and another euros without the conversion being correct when they are all saved from US sites). It did help me get a basic pair of boots I needed at 70% off that I couldn’t have afforded full price though.

[@mgcap-p6v]

I am using “Stylebook “, it’s a sort of virtual closet where you add your clothes to match them in the best way (instead of grabbing the first thing you find available around the house), best 3euros ever spent on an application 😂!

[@shannaveganamcinnis-hurd405]

I just always just scroll past those ads. Easy.

[@sunnivabrynnel5019]

Great video, thank you! What steamer would you recommend? A travel friendly one maybe? thanks! x

[@sylvievicenza179]

I love the last point: SMILE! how many times have I seen well put women with sad faces. I do not wear a lot of makeup but I always wear a smile ;)

[@heatherframpton9693]

Yes! 😁

[@jainakriti21]

Hey Alyssa..i admire your style a lot❤️ please make more videos on styling one garment in 20 styles.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

So kind thank you! Will do! Love making those! xx

[@Meechka]

The one thing that has helped me feel more confident in my clothing is losing weight ha ha. It seems anything looks good when you’re thin I’ll tell you’re thin. And then you find out you really have particular preferences. The ketogenic diet has really helped in following this slow fashion style

[@sarahterry2140]

Love the Tank watch - definitely elevating ❤️❤️

[@sharonmcardle3561]

Love your videos. It's inspired me to shop my own wardrobe. That said, I'm heading to Ottawa on holiday in Sept. Where would you recommend I could find some re-loved / vintage or sustainable shopping options? Any tips would be great.

[@mimiandthemuse]

yes! great idea. I loved Ottawa in September!

[@nicolejackson6651]

Love the gold rings, bracelet and watch, but cant see them listed what you wore, please let me know where they are from or similar?

[@amybeck9522]

I would love to know about your watch too! It was a great video with clever ideas!

[@sarahterry2140]

The watch looks like a Cartier Tank watch

[@queenme02]

What do you suggest if you find yourself falling between sizes esp seasonally due to age. Im 44 and have had three kids. I find myself buying more bc of my size, so i feel like i keep two wardrobes im never certain which items i should buy larger or more fitted

[@susanasese3981]

Excelente. Muy buenos consejo. And also I can practice english.

[@mary-annebourke4907]

Clean shoes, and the French approach to take off one thing before you leave, oh and always check the mirror front AND back before heading out

[@heathervalentine8222]

hi Alyssa thanks so much for those tips. Its great to be reminded. I will look into the shoptagr and use it. I love TheRealReal and bought so many items from there. However, the shipping to Australia is prohibitive. Do you know of any other vintage and preloved websites that offer cheaper shipping? Or can you lobby TheRealReal to offer a cheaper, slower shipping service? I have contacted them but they haven't replied to me.

[@emsjane69]

What material are you T-shirts? They hang so nicely 😊

[@jeannesnodgrass8073]

A smile is the best accessory.💕

[@1960genius]

Thank you so much for this video! You share so many excellent tips ♥️

[@lilianhoulind723]

I like,picking items from a trend...that matches What i allready have,lately a boucleskirtsuit...love it and Will do so for years.

[@Lisa-hr4zz]

Hi Alyssa :) A long shot I know but where did you get your top and is it still available? I love it

[@trishb7092]

I have an off-the-shoulder top like that but it keeps springing up over my shoulders! How do I keep it from doing that? Love your channel - 😊

[@lose999]

Did you get your blouse on vacation? It show off you suntan nicely. I'm not sure looking expensive is as important as looking like I care about being well groomed. Ironing, tailoring, taking care of garments, etc. is essential whether you want to look expensive or not. IMO.

[@perrywalton2464]

Alyssa, you looked polished and chic in this video! Great topic and nicely done video.

[@TimbleM]

Your videos are always a hit💕💕💕 loved it!!!

[@jayjaytailor]

Love the sunnies at 11:24!

[@mwong5873]

Woolite and cold gentle cycle let my clothes stay as good as new for a long time.

[@donnaandre7633]

Fast forwarded through the sponsor info. Enjoyed the rest of the video.

[@elizabethwaldorf9275]

Any old thing looks elevated with a good pair of shoes and a good bag. They don't have to be a designer brand, just well made and in good condition. Personally, I can't stand accessories with obvious designer logos.They are self-aggrandizing, which is not classy. And I agree with you about a lip color - a natural looking color that enhances your natural coloring. BTW, I LOVE your videos. Great vibe and useful information.

[@jeanninelaila4228]

I love all these tips, Alyssa! Thank you☺️

[@ruthacuna4385]

I agree a smile is huge to make you feel like a million bucks!

[@Ameliemilli]

May I know what brand of steamer do you use? Thanks!

[@HackYourBloodSugar]

I LOVE THIS! I love how you wear your button-up shirts unbuttoned. Will you share what you wear under them to give that combo of bare, but when you see it, your unders look really classy or feminine?

[@jenntruong6023]

I love thrifting fashion items; Great ideas in this video!

[@Ivymoon]

Hi Alyssa! I'm changing part of my pants! I dye a burgundy pant, that I ad red to dye! and really improve that garment, looking more polish finish, and still use it more often then when I got it 10 years ago! yeah! I made it!(I was kissing myself). And like you said a little change or alteration in your garments can improve the choices to combine with other tops. Thanks girl for that advise, it was a courage issue to improve you garments

[@kathyesargent9088]

How about a wardrobe tour❤️Love your videos😘

[@FALENOTTERA]

Great off-shoulder blouse, Alyssa.

[@denisesawyer6980]

I can’t stop looking at your beautiful top/dress. Very elegant. I could not find the right Personal Touch channel. Could you post a link? Please and thank you. I’m new and l love your channel.

[@patriciasaldanha3165]

Smiles are not always appreciated by all and sundry so I have learned to reserve my special nasty scowls for certain folks - fortunately the occasions for these rare "mises-en-scène" are few AND far between and it works !! - Like a charm !! - But rest assured I am a natural "smiler" and your videos do make me smile🌞🌟☀️ so thanks for your great grooming tips 💖❤💝

[@karladbarry]

Here’s another tip I don’t think you mentioned - before walking out of the house - no matter where you are going - check yourself in a full length mirror! How does my make-up look? Do my clothes look fresh and everything in good condition! Sometimes you can catch a stain on a tee shirt or a hem coming out - you just never know! That last check can add to your confidence as you step into the world.

[@PatriciaMuirMaestroQ]

karladbarry also check the rear view before leaving the house. My dad taught me this one. Always check that you look as good walking away as you look walking toward.

[@BodaciousBeverly]

I absolutely love the top you have on! I had one almost identical back in the '90s, and, before that, a dress in the late '70s, with the same neck and sleeve shape and details. Classically beautiful! These are excellent tips. Thank you!

[@jackiebrown6577]

Great tips! You are so charming (and beautiful)☺️

[@bevsines876]

Loved todays video Alyssa. Thankyou for sharing those tips with everyone. Bev xx

[@malgorzataw9536]

Hi Alyssa, I love your channel so much 😃😃. Waching and hearing your films help mi to resist shopping😋

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Wow thank you for sharing! That is why I started this channel so I appreciate the encouragement!

[@carolinawaters3922]

To look like a million? I think you have to be and feel clean. Add a something to brighten your day like lipstick, mascara, foundation or whatever it is that does it for you, and a touch of a fragrance that sets your mood. And voila!

[@angiemcdermid4845]

I didn’t wear makeup during lockdown so I had lots of time to improve my skincare. Now I don’t need as much make up. Same with going grey and getting a good haircut- less fuss.

[@Saraa191]

Great video! 😍

[@lilianhoulind723]

Keep smiling🥰

[@DazzlingStar07]

Alyssa what would you suggest to do if I wanted to go for a edgy look with a slow fashion approach?

[@querida1809]

Thank you for the upload. You look amazing 😉. Happy mind, happy body. If you are happy you will radiate that. Take time for yourself. You cant be good to others if your not good to yourself.😊

[@Krrle4250]

Don't know if thos is dumb but could you da a video on how to actually handwash properly?

[@Keapix]

Kate Lee I would find that useful, and how to get them dry afterwards!

[@staceykersting705]

Wash in cold water. Squeeze item gently, don't wring it out. Let it soak for a bit, or long as desired. Rinse, rinse, rinse. Squeeze dry. Leave in sink to drain for a bit. Hang dry wovens. Loosely knit, or sweaters, dry flat on towel. Towel with garment can be rolled, squeezed and towel replaced with a dry one. If you have a screen, place across bathtub and shape sweater on top to dry.

[@francinepuskarich5755]

I love that.....SMILE. GREAT TIP

[@flavia9464]

Great video as always ♡ do you take a travel size steamer with you when you travel? Thank you and best regards from Brazil!

[@djrhhejdcigfvsvn3509]

Love love love from 🇺🇸

[@microporetape]

Watching your videos always makes me feel a million bucks! Thanks for the great tips! 🥰

[@dewainalexander6615]

I always feel expensive when things fit perfectly. Tailoring is key

[@TIL_TheIntentionalLife]

I always enjoy your videos, very informative !

[@sherryedwards695]

Great tips again. But question : why are you drinking your water from a pickle jar?

[@heatherframpton9693]

That blouse...😍

[@sinnombre4357]

The following are at the top of my list: Wrinkled, ripped, pilled clothes; too tight shirts where there are gaps between buttons; not fixing the hems of the pants so you go through life with raggedy hems; trousers with thin fabric and not wearing nude color underwear. I feel better now! 😤

[@notaclue822]

That blouse you're wearing is very beautiful, and it's perfect on you.

[@theresasteiner2748]

Tailoring even the most inexpensive shirt or pant will make me want to wear it more and keep it longer. This saves me money and decreases eventual land fill. I have almost no hair so I wear wigs. I feel that I look younger and well groomed. It's faster than styling my hair. I always want to look my best in case I run into an old flame. Her hee. 😉