HOW TO AVOID BRIDESMAIDS DRAMA | WEDDING PLANNING

[@TheIganya]

The point about being fair is important because these are your friends and being a bridesmaid is a whole of work. Stressful work. Well done for this video. That bridesmaid gift was good. Especially the necklace. I’m adopting it.

[@BoluAdekoya]

Spot on Tosin! Having your real friends and having fair and realistic expectations really is key!

[@surefunmiee]

Thank you, Tosin. I've been thinking about this for months now. I have to say... I literally just sent a message to my sisters about it and boom! This video pops up! Great grace! God bless you!

[@JustBooskii]

This video is what I call perfect timing lol. I took notes already. Thank you

[@LusciousSkinHair]

i wish everyone who plans on getting married soon watches this. ive been a bridesmaid three times. Two of them were wahala. i nearly gave up on the friendship. what i struggled with the most was the fact that u were expected to pay any amount because the bride was your friend. really unfair. no considerations about what u may b going through as a person. thanks for sharing xx

[@Ifanihinko]

Taking notes 📝 Informative ✔️

[@dhebrahaditaa6605]

Tnx Tosin for this video. I love the part where you said you thought about what you would have loved to receive as a bridesmaid and did same for your girls, that is sure staying with me......taking notes🖒

[@tolulopeosunz]

Am so sending this video to my sister who is getting married in January 2020. This are points to really take note of. The one that really stood out for me is choose your real friends and dont let parents and family convince you on choosing someone you dont want as a bridesmaid. Thank you for these.

[@obeyatta7674]

Thank you!!! My favorite point was be real with your friends. You can not now be forming for them. And if they are your ‘real’ friends, they will support you

[@enny_adams]

I love the be honest with your friends.

[@AanuJesugrace]

Choose your real friends 👫... this is so true

[@Jadeadaralegbe]

I believe you and support you. Alot of young ladies are now choosing bridesmaid based on looks and stature. I find it so weird.

[@onyemaechidoris4757]

Thanks alot Mrs. Tosin Alabi. Its really helpful🙏

[@chimerehope]

Thanks Tosin. I am on track

[@Opelixir]

I’ve missed watching your videos 🥺! Back like I never left - Going to watch my backlogs! As always very educative, useful content . Thank you Tosin!😘 Moral for me is : 1)Not everyone should be your bridesmaids - Choose actual friends who are all about positive vibes . Not all friends are bridesmaids material 2) Do unto others what you expect in return.

[@lightlysaltedcaramel8525]

You are literally my wedding planner/matron lol your videos have helped me so much as I’m wedding planning!

[@TosinAlabi]

Awww wishing you all the best with the process 💙💙💙

[@derakosi9741]

Watching this just made me realize that I’m not crazy rather I am smart 😂😂 thanks Tosin My wedding is in April and girl I’m on it 😂😂

[@derakosi9741]

Ps: I have seen the other video of the things you got and I have them in mind thanks 😍

[@enny_adams]

Thanks for this.

[@ShammahUna]

I always look forward to your videos.always educative👍. I’m not married but I have learnt a lot on how to treat my bridesmaids. Thank you 😊

[@theladyheritage]

So on point, like all points nailed... I wish some brides know this before their big day, on all you are right about everything. Saving it for the future...

[@oluwatomiolaoye538]

Hi Tosin. You look so beautiful😘

[@TosinAlabi]

Awww thank you 😅😅💕💕

[@entertainmenthub216]

Thanks for the tips... They are so true... You look beautiful😊

[@enny_adams]

Did you post videos on your wedding?

[@SimiOla]

Very informative video dear thanks for sharing and I’d be coming to you to collect your wedding spreadsheets 😘😘😘 chaiii am just playing catch up on your KZbin videos

[@viviansdiary]

I love you Tosin. Thanks for the tips.

[@amzolinek]

This video is packed full of information, you're thoughtful sis😍

[@nobleblessing1077]

Omg you nailed this issue because there's no better ways to explain it. Your wedding should be your friends as your bridesmaids and don't use that opportunity to do business. Am a party girl that don't like to be a bridesmaid, but my close friend was getting married and she asked me to be her maid of honor, base on how close we were i accepted. I spend a whole lot for that duty but it was understandable we were friends but the rest of the bridesmaids wasn't her friends, they were some random girls she pick but she make they spend like she is the one doing them favours 😔😥 the most painful part was NO ACCOMMODATION 6 of us in one room on the floor in europe😭🙆‍♀️ No breakfast or food in the reception for us or gift at the end. After buying everything from her😂😂😂 including asoebi. Lastly after the wedding she cut 🔪✂️ everyone off including me, saying her husband doesn't want her to be friends with single ladies🤣🤣🤣😂 people are funny. Then i get to know she was never a true friend.

[@AanuJesugrace]

Noble Blessing wow...! People are just funny

[@theladyheritage]

Wow... This is damn huge, people for you though.

[@boomesangobiyi1830]

Thanks for the sharing ... I'll come back to watch when it's time.

[@lizziexcorner]

Thank you for this video!! Definitely useful! God bless you!! 💕

[@ndinakie_MrsN]

Thank you sooo much for the advice ❤️🙏🏾

[@iamvalentine263]

Thank u tosin for this ideas God bless u

[@lizzieamede9952]

Really good video

[@Calltosavesouls]

Lovely 💖

[@omololaolojede2142]

Hi Tosin, new sub here. I enjoy watching your videos. Please can you do a video for christian Ladies like me on Personal hygiene, avoiding mouth odor during fasting, underwear hygiene etc. For example, how do you look neat throughout the day (hair, light makeup, body smell) knowing that in the mornings, people always look good. How can this be maintained throughout the day so that in the middle or end of the day, one doesn’t look unkempt. Looking forward to seeing such video.

[@owodunniayomide8323]

God bless you for this. A lot of brides use the bridesmaid avenue to extort others. They collect huge amounts of money and end up giving them rubbish. Its disheartening and discouraging.

[@omotayoareo1263]

Thanks so much, that was so educative and timely. I sent a mail to your address last week and haven’t gotten a reply

[@ayobamigbadebo4753]

Most of my friends want to wear asoebi and not bridal dress. How do you deal with those you're obliged to have in your train, like cousins?

[@TosinAlabi]

Who made the obligation to have cousins on your train?

[@bukunmiadejobi9821]

Ha Tosin...Family expectations and all. It can be draining. “Aunty Tope is getting married, my daughter must be a ore iyawo”

[@princesslolly6838]

Nice one

[@tomiolanrewaju1385]

I've really suffered in the name of being on a bridal train. I'm done fr

[@enny_adams]

Can guys watch this?

[@EventFlavours]

Your tips are helpful. But why did u mention my name now 🤣. I buy your idea of choosing only real friends cos that's what I am doing.

[@sisiadebanke5007]

😂😂😂😂😂😂invoke drama upon yourself 😂

[@ManifestHub]

Aesthetically pleasing ke? Sigh! Definitely choose your real friends. It’s just more fun that way 😂

[@deboraholuwaseunroselyn2191]

I stumbled on your KZbin video and I learnt a lot. Can I get your Instagram handle?