1) It was narrated that Ma’qil ibn Yassaar said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than that he should touch a woman who is not permissible for him.” Narrated by al-Tabaraani in al-Kabeer, 486. Shaykh al-Albaani said in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5045, that this hadeeth is saheeh. 2) It was narrated that Umaymah the daughter of Raqeeqah said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “I do not shake hands with women.” Narrated by al-Nasaa’i (4181) and Ibn Maajah, 2874; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 2513
@adeebsheriff5150 Жыл бұрын
These are some of the hadiths which tells us not to shake hands with non mahrams
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
JazakAllahu khairan for sharing these brother! 😃
@aafreenjahan3074 Жыл бұрын
@@bliifee appi plz make a video about it is correct to wish anyone HAPPY BIRTHDAY OR HAPPY DEEWALI TO NON MUSLIM
@adeebsheriff5150 Жыл бұрын
@@bliifee wa iyyaki sis
@ADCB510 Жыл бұрын
@@aafreenjahan3074 it is not correct/not permissible to wish someone happy birthday or happy diwali or any non muslim festival. There are three reasons: 1) Muslims don’t associate themselves with anything that non muslims celebrate. (It is also mentioned in Hadeeth). We have distinguished ourselves from them. The people on the truth of Islam stand out differently in the world bcz we follow Quran and Sunnah. 2) It is the duty of every Muslim to convey the truth of Islam to anyone they meet, especially non muslims. You should try to let them hear and know from you what Islam truly is, slowly whichever ways you can convey. Through Akhlaq (character) - your words and action. 3) wishing anyone other than two Eid, is encouraging them on Kufr as Muslims, which also doubts our faith and can take us out of Islam. Why? Bcz their festival is associated with worshipping idols and associating partners with Allāh, Na’udhubillah, which is not allowed in Islam and it is against the law of Tawheed on which Muslim stands by saying Shahadah (that we worship Allah alone and only He is worthy of worship and the dominance of Heaven and Earth belongs to Him). Hence as a Muslim you should be careful on not wishing on festivals bcz instead of telling them of Islam, you have rather encouraged them on kufr and that is wrong. Hopefully this helps
@JuanGomez-ss4lc Жыл бұрын
Very useful video. Sharing this with my wife. We are a mixed couple, I am a Colombian-American revert, Alhamdulillah, my wife is born muslim. Useful as she will interact with my very western latin american family! Colombians love to hug!! May Allah grant us easiness.
@DIMANIA Жыл бұрын
Non believers Source- Quran.com An Nisa 4:144 O believers! Do not take disbelievers as allies instead of the believers. Would you like to give Allah solid proof against yourselves? Gafir 40:70 ˹They are˺ the ones who reject this Book and all ˹scriptures˺ We sent Our messengers with. So they will know ˹the consequences 40:71 when shackles will be around their necks and chains ˹on their legs˺. They will be dragged 40:72 through boiling water, then burned in the Fire ˹as fuel˺. 47:4 So when you meet the disbelievers ˹in battle˺, strike ˹their˺ necks until you have thoroughly subdued them, then bind them firmly. At Tawbah 9:113 It is not ˹proper˺ for the Prophet and the believers to seek forgiveness for the polytheists, even if they were close relatives, after it has become clear to the believers that they are bound for the Hellfire. At Tawbah 9:123 O believers! Fight the disbelievers around you and let them find firmness in you. And know that Allah is with those mindful ˹of Him˺. At Tawbah 9:29 Fight those who do not believe in Allah and the Last Day, nor comply with what Allah and His Messenger have forbidden, nor embrace the religion of truth from among those who were given the Scripture, until they pay the tax, willingly submitting, fully humbled. At Tawbah 9:111 Allah has indeed purchased from the believers their lives and wealth in exchange for Paradise. They fight in the cause of Allah and kill or are killed. This is a true promise binding on Him in the Torah, the Gospel, and the Quran. And whose promise is truer than Allah’s? So rejoice in the exchange you have made with Him. That is ˹truly˺ the ultimate triumph. Al Anafal 8:39 Fight against them until there is no more persecution-and ˹your˺ devotion will be entirely to Allah. But if they desist, then surely Allah is All-Seeing of what they do. Yunus 10:99 Had your Lord so willed ˹O Prophet˺, all ˹people˺ on earth would have certainly believed, every single one of them! Would you then force people to become believers? Al Baqarah 2:171 The example of the disbelievers ˹not responding to the Messenger’s warning˺ is like a flock not comprehending the calls and cries of the shepherd. ˹They are wilfully˺ deaf, dumb and blind so they have no understanding. Al Bayyinah 98:6 Indeed, those who disbelieve from the People of the Book and the polytheists will be in the Fire of Hell, to stay there forever. They are the worst of ˹all˺ beings. Al Fath 48:6 Also ˹so that˺ He may punish hypocrite men and women and polytheistic men and women, who harbour evil thoughts of Allah. May ill-fate befall them! Allah is displeased with them. He has condemned them and prepared for them Hell. What an evil destination! At Tawbah 9:5 But once the Sacred Months have passed, kill the polytheists ˹who violated their treaties˺ wherever you find them, capture them, besiege them, and lie in wait for them on every way. But if they repent, perform prayers, and pay alms-tax, then set them free. Indeed, Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful. Hud 11:109 So do not be in doubt ˹O Prophet˺ about what those ˹pagans˺ worship. They worship nothing except what their forefathers worshipped before ˹them˺. And We will certainly give them their share ˹of punishment˺ in full, without any reduction. At Tawbah 9:3 A declaration from Allah and His Messenger ˹is made˺ to all people on the day of the greater pilgrimage that Allah and His Messenger are free of the polytheists. So if you ˹pagans˺ repent, it will be better for you. But if you turn away, then know that you will have no escape from Allah. And give good news ˹O Prophet˺ to the disbelievers of a painful punishment.
@JuanGomez-ss4lc Жыл бұрын
@@DIMANIA you are taking the words of Allah out of context. You need to study these scriptures carefully! Al-Hujurat - The Apartments - 49:13 (Sura: 49, Verse: 13) "O men, We created you from a male and female, and formed you into nations and tribes that you may recognise each other. He who has more integrity has indeed greater honour with God. Surely God is all-knowing and well-informed."
@muslimah3006 Жыл бұрын
@@DIMANIA he said he is a revert, which means he is a muslim. The moment, a person embraces Islam, all his sins from the days of his ignorance are forgiven. They're as sinless as a baby! So I dont think these apply to him as he is a muslim
@zam_zee Жыл бұрын
I stopped shaking hands with non mahrams since my school days like from 15 yrs... I took that from one of my seniors... But during some of my competitions and prize givings, I couldn't do it instantly to the opposite person and I have ended up shaking few times...felt so guilty after that.... But promised myself never again... And this video motivated and made it more stronger alhamdulillah...
@ledam2654 Жыл бұрын
Good on you for trying to improve, sister! Masha'Allah.
@zam_zee Жыл бұрын
@@ledam2654 ❤️
@sujjad Жыл бұрын
Ohhh great
@sujjad Жыл бұрын
@@zam_zee so happy that u are achiever
@DIMANIA Жыл бұрын
Non believers Source- Quran.com An Nisa 4:144 O believers! Do not take disbelievers as allies instead of the believers. Would you like to give Allah solid proof against yourselves? Gafir 40:70 ˹They are˺ the ones who reject this Book and all ˹scriptures˺ We sent Our messengers with. So they will know ˹the consequences 40:71 when shackles will be around their necks and chains ˹on their legs˺. They will be dragged 40:72 through boiling water, then burned in the Fire ˹as fuel˺. 47:4 So when you meet the disbelievers ˹in battle˺, strike ˹their˺ necks until you have thoroughly subdued them, then bind them firmly. At Tawbah 9:113 It is not ˹proper˺ for the Prophet and the believers to seek forgiveness for the polytheists, even if they were close relatives, after it has become clear to the believers that they are bound for the Hellfire. At Tawbah 9:123 O believers! Fight the disbelievers around you and let them find firmness in you. And know that Allah is with those mindful ˹of Him˺. At Tawbah 9:29 Fight those who do not believe in Allah and the Last Day, nor comply with what Allah and His Messenger have forbidden, nor embrace the religion of truth from among those who were given the Scripture, until they pay the tax, willingly submitting, fully humbled. At Tawbah 9:111 Allah has indeed purchased from the believers their lives and wealth in exchange for Paradise. They fight in the cause of Allah and kill or are killed. This is a true promise binding on Him in the Torah, the Gospel, and the Quran. And whose promise is truer than Allah’s? So rejoice in the exchange you have made with Him. That is ˹truly˺ the ultimate triumph. Al Anafal 8:39 Fight against them until there is no more persecution-and ˹your˺ devotion will be entirely to Allah. But if they desist, then surely Allah is All-Seeing of what they do. Yunus 10:99 Had your Lord so willed ˹O Prophet˺, all ˹people˺ on earth would have certainly believed, every single one of them! Would you then force people to become believers? Al Baqarah 2:171 The example of the disbelievers ˹not responding to the Messenger’s warning˺ is like a flock not comprehending the calls and cries of the shepherd. ˹They are wilfully˺ deaf, dumb and blind so they have no understanding. Al Bayyinah 98:6 Indeed, those who disbelieve from the People of the Book and the polytheists will be in the Fire of Hell, to stay there forever. They are the worst of ˹all˺ beings. Al Fath 48:6 Also ˹so that˺ He may punish hypocrite men and women and polytheistic men and women, who harbour evil thoughts of Allah. May ill-fate befall them! Allah is displeased with them. He has condemned them and prepared for them Hell. What an evil destination! At Tawbah 9:5 But once the Sacred Months have passed, kill the polytheists ˹who violated their treaties˺ wherever you find them, capture them, besiege them, and lie in wait for them on every way. But if they repent, perform prayers, and pay alms-tax, then set them free. Indeed, Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful. Hud 11:109 So do not be in doubt ˹O Prophet˺ about what those ˹pagans˺ worship. They worship nothing except what their forefathers worshipped before ˹them˺. And We will certainly give them their share ˹of punishment˺ in full, without any reduction. At Tawbah 9:3 A declaration from Allah and His Messenger ˹is made˺ to all people on the day of the greater pilgrimage that Allah and His Messenger are free of the polytheists. So if you ˹pagans˺ repent, it will be better for you. But if you turn away, then know that you will have no escape from Allah. And give good news ˹O Prophet˺ to the disbelievers of a painful punishment.
@artyCrafty4564 Жыл бұрын
"Everything we do as muslim is a dawah opportunity to show the nice ness of islam" 👏👏 very well said....just be confident to show yourself as muslim because as nowadays muslims are more into worldly things so they do things according to duniya..not according to islam and allah....oh muslims! We should never loose our faith and love of allah...never 😭
@joyceanshu9599 Жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert Christian girl.. I don't like shaking hands with others especially other men, yeah thanks for making a video like this..😊 this would help many ppl like me(introverts)😊 I thank my God for showing up ur video to me..😇🤍
@fahimahmed8761 Жыл бұрын
Assalamu Alaikum sister. Actually the technique, keeping hand on chest, I've learnt it from Dirilis Ertugrul. Now I've adopted it so much I've been greeting people in the same way, Alhamdulillah.
@jalpha Жыл бұрын
You're right brother، that series taught numerous Ethics
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
Wa Alaikum Assalam! Oo ma Shaa Allah i didnt know that. Very cool stuff! 😁 JazakAllahu khairan for sharing and glad alhamdulillah that we could learn this from the series too! 😁
@ZarminaNaveed Жыл бұрын
@@bliifee Asalamu Alaikum sister you should not send this laughing emoji to that boy because he is also non-mehram for yo.
@gems5395 Жыл бұрын
Hands on chest only for non mehram Not for everyone my brother
@fahimahmed8761 Жыл бұрын
@@gems5395 I know, I do shake hands with men, I hug my male friends who have that much space with me. But shaking hands/ hugging females who are non-Mahram isn’t allowed in Islam, so I just greet them in this way.
@aliashakeelkhan Жыл бұрын
When I was watching this video, I thought I would never come across such a situation where a non mehram would want to shake hands. But guess what? The very day I came across such a situation and Alhamdulillah the tips given in this video helped me a lot!🥰 Jazakillah Khair sister for making such useful videos! May Allah Tala reward you abundantly for this! Ameen!
@user-qp3yv3tj2e Жыл бұрын
Who is proud to be a part of ummat e Muhammad (S.A.W)❤️❤️❤️❤️
@iam_sirius Жыл бұрын
Alhamdhulillah
@dumeeha Жыл бұрын
Meeee ❤️
@islamicworld5614 Жыл бұрын
All mumin
@bushramoni8551 Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah
@bushramoni8551 Жыл бұрын
Me
@thegameseriesop1300 Жыл бұрын
Mashallah. Jazakallah khair sister. This was indeed a motivational video for me, coz it's been a while since I'm trying to avoid High fives with Non Mehram women, but because my reaction time isn't fast enough, I end up shaking hands and regretting later. May Allah forgive me and grant me ease and may Allah make it easy for this Ummah to seek and implement the knowledge of Islam. Ameen
@beenish8189 Жыл бұрын
LOve it Asmaa! All the points are very useful, I had applied the on-chest technique at the job interview and my Manager put his hand back on the chest as I did the same. But we just slip up when so many people are around. May Allah grant me and other courage! I will put this into practice more ofteninsha'Allah so we become stronger in our faith and identity!
@parvezhossain999 Жыл бұрын
Relax woman! You won't die shaking a man's hand
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
@Parvez Hossain, as muslim women we choose to follow the command of Allah. Whats the problem in that?
@parvezhossain999 Жыл бұрын
@@bliifee tell me where's it even said to NOT handshake a man. Will it kill, or worse, incur sin upon ya
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
@Parvez, Check pinned comment.
@parvezhossain999 Жыл бұрын
@@bliifee Ah, that! The one Hadith that's been used to death which is not even from the Major Six books. And btw that's not even classified sahih, if that's any consolation
@NorfLondon4Eva Жыл бұрын
This is so useful. Jazak Allah. I work in a office setting and if I know I will meet the opposite sex for the first time, I tend to hold my book and coffee in each hand.
@fabulousfaheem51852 ай бұрын
Great idea actually!😂🙌🏻
@toobaumer2913 Жыл бұрын
This video was full of wisdom as it covered all the aspects of the topic. Also I do agree with the relatives part since Allah SWT tests us from the people closest to us. More power to you girl 💕
@thisisarika Жыл бұрын
Happy to see a video from you! Such an important topic.. you know i've noticed that since I started wearing the hijab, men don't usually even put out their hands for a handshake lol alhamdulilah
@Yan_100 Жыл бұрын
Sister Asma, i am from India. You pick and solve a really common problem. Allah bless you.
@farizma Жыл бұрын
Literally this is what I've been thinking about recently. Thanks for making video on it sister. I've never done it but just 2 days back at a team dinner catchup, I couldn't avoid it & ended up shaking hands with 3-4 mens, it's so quick & didn't get time to think how to react. And I've been feeling guilty since then and was thinking about kind and gentle way to avoid it
@nasimakhatun09 Жыл бұрын
We have all been in this situation. Allah hasn't made us perfect, we ask for forgiveness and learn to do better.
@anishali7697 Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah 😀 i live in that area where this kind of situation never come because there is no these kind of rituals
@imranaaaishi2180 Жыл бұрын
I am also muslim from india And am Aalima as well I know properly about my religeon Glad to listen to you Keep doing well keep growing May you live long My face matches your face
@Familysusers3 ай бұрын
That is really helpful for people who do not want to be touchy or do not want to follow haram culture like handshake or hug or bow to non mehran or bow to people.
@ssiddiqui8079 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sister, some 3-4 month before even i was searching the way to escape handshakes with non mahram, for that i searched a lot then i could not found any video. I am sure this video is very informative for all of us. I have seen video if Some Muslim athelets greeting in such a manner.
@peakinyou Жыл бұрын
Jazakumllahu khairan sister Asmaa. I appreciate this advice. We face this in almost every category both professional and non professional settings. Greetings of islam, Asalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu from Nigeria 🇳🇬.
@cesakib2651 Жыл бұрын
You solved many “real life” problems for Muslims. Thanks 😊 You should reach out to reverted Muslims around the world.
@ZainAhmed456 Жыл бұрын
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@cesakib2651 Жыл бұрын
@@ZainAhmed456 what?? Didn’t agreed with my comment??
@drmohammadibrahim624 Жыл бұрын
So proud of you sister! 👐 Jazak Allah Khair
@alsalaam Жыл бұрын
Ya Allah! Give us "Isthiqamath & Ikhlas" in this beautiful duty! & Give us "Thawfeeq & Barakaath more & more" to do more like this beautiful duty! Aameen!
@ichosethisnamefirst841 Жыл бұрын
Allahumma barik. You covered all the aspects and so nicely!!! May Allah protect you and increase you in goodness
@Its_Boba_Min Жыл бұрын
I usually just hold my own hands and nod and look awkward... This is *definitely a life saving hack* because mostly I come out as rude or uninterested... Mostly when receiving awards on stage I panic 😂🙂✨
@Sara_ilm_seeker Жыл бұрын
Assalamu alaikum. A very useful video on an important topic. Could you do one on lowering the gaze in the presence of non-mehrams?
@EastWestLifeInsider Жыл бұрын
Very true..its happen some times with me as well... We absolutely should care about Allah because we going back to him
@sukriamostary Жыл бұрын
ZazakAllah Khair Sister ❤️ It was such an important as well as "must watch" video for all Muslims. May Allah bless you.
@Nabeelahaha Жыл бұрын
Subhanallah! Just today A relative grabbed out his hand and I was so nervous that i just covered my face 😅 and made it look like I was wiping it. It made me feel awkward for a while but Alhamdulillah now, after watching your video I feel unapologetic. It is what it is. I just hope I dint offend him. May Allah bless you Asma ❤️
@hamidabegum3723 Жыл бұрын
Masha Allah very good job ❤️❤️👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@parvezhossain999 Жыл бұрын
Relax woman! You wouldn't die shaking a man's hand
@apk4764 Жыл бұрын
Suggestion: Importance and tips to memorize quran😃
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
In Shaa Allah i'll add it to the list of future video ideas 😁
@aliyuhazo Жыл бұрын
@@bliifee Assalamu alaikum Yes please 🙏
@iam_sirius Жыл бұрын
Yes please
@abdullahiabdi1332 Жыл бұрын
If you understand arabic I can send you pdf which will help you
@apk4764 Жыл бұрын
@@abdullahiabdi1332 noo...i don't understand arabic..i can read n write ❤️ anyways jazakallah khair❤️❤️
@sippingonmytea3132 Жыл бұрын
Masha’Allah I love this video, thank you so much for the tips Alhamdulillah. May Allah SWT reward u abundantly Ameen 🥺❤️
@sulisueeeeee0553 Жыл бұрын
Felt guilty when I had to shake hands with non mahram. Thank u for this video💯
@ahmadshahab7857 Жыл бұрын
MashAlllah this was much needed and you explained it very well. This is a common thing and we all need to learn communication skills within the code of Islam. Great video!
@alexdavid4547 Жыл бұрын
Jazak Allah sister...May Allah shower his blessings on you...I got really motivated after watching this...may Allah grant us easiness to stick to this...
@sufiyafirdoush3615 Жыл бұрын
Masha Allah, you explained so well sister❤️✨
@HhHh-jd1uf Жыл бұрын
who live in the land of non-Muslims, but still keep your faith, you are truly the highest people mowmin❤️💪, we are in trouble with faith even from Muslim countries, I am learning to judge good and bad, may Allah grant me to stay on the right way Amen.
@nidasughra1680 Жыл бұрын
May Allah bless us all .... I loved your way of explanation asma ❤
@lillanakitten Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah sister ❤️ I loved this. I am a new revert and I have so much to learn
@therighteouspath Жыл бұрын
Masha ALLAH … May ALLAH increase you in knowledge about Islam and May ALLAH boost your confidence for walking towards Firdous . Ameen ♥️
@karmanzoora Жыл бұрын
Assalamu Alaikum sister! I am so happy to see you back 💓 was waiting for your videos from a long time and finally it's here 😊 May Allah bless you and reward you for this 🤍
@Phymacss Жыл бұрын
Thank you Asma! When I’m competitions usually people shake hands with me all the time and it can get awkward..but your video was really helpful!
@hibakhalid8660 Жыл бұрын
May Allah give barakah in ur work asma!!
@fatimahafiz4000 Жыл бұрын
May Almighty Allah bless you, since you are sharing your knowledge with us. Keep up this precious job.
@CuriosityCraze112 күн бұрын
I had never encountered such situations until yesterday when just like u I was hanging around with my female friend and 2 guys she knows extended their hands towards me. I went completely blank coz after 10 seconds the silence grew and I had no clue how to react out of the fear of making them feel offended I ended up giving a lady's finger handshake to both of them. May Allah forgive me and this video is didactic to me. ❤
@shajiarahamath6058 Жыл бұрын
Happy to see you after a long Asma Sis May allah bless you with lots of happiness ahead ✨
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah so happy to hear that! 😁 Ameeen! May Allah reward u for all ur support! ✨
@shumayamanwar6766 Жыл бұрын
Please write Allah with capital A
@shajiarahamath6058 Жыл бұрын
@@shumayamanwar6766 aacha ji ...capital ya small ...Dil sa bolum mai tho ...muja capital ya small par farak nahi padta
@ninaadams4713 Жыл бұрын
Jazak'Allah kheiran dear sister. That magic word "anymore" will truly help! Thank you so much ! Xx
@Ana-rb7ws Жыл бұрын
Just stopped by to give my love and subscribe. Thank you for your positivity and energy. Lots of blessings to you. Ameen.
@nasimashabnam1758 Жыл бұрын
Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh💝 Happy to see you after a long time💜 May Allah bless you in this world and here after❤ Lots Of love from India💞 Love you sis💝
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
Wa Alaikum Assalam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu sis! 💙 Aww alhamdulillah and Ameeeen! May Allah reward u for all ur support! 😁💙 Lots of love to you tooo!
@razinashaikh4948 Жыл бұрын
Jzk for all the helpful advise. I feel like Its very important to maintain islamic culture in a world where things are constantly changing, because we need to appreciate beauty of every small amal
@fishbarbeque85403 ай бұрын
This is PERFECTTTTTT I love your energy!
@aymanali1814 Жыл бұрын
I am shocked to see that people are teaching how to avoid handshake with people of different religion. I am proud to be an Indian here we do handshake and hug each other irrespective of their religion and caste. 🇮🇳🇮🇳🚩🚩🇮🇳🇮🇳
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
This is not about religion. As Muslims we avoid physical touch with opposite genders who are not related to us.
@aymanali1814 Жыл бұрын
Ok leave religion. But are we all not humans. In our country it is taught that everyone is equal. Here people gave their lives to establish equality in the society
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
@@aymanali1814 Brother, our deen takes priority. No one is saying to treat anyone with unequality. I'll end my point here. JazakAllahu khairan. :)
@aymanali1814 Жыл бұрын
@@bliifee Ok. Jai Shree Ram 🙏 🚩🚩
@Xx_RidigonDragonNinja_xX Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video as didnt know that i wasnt able to shake hands with the opposite gender and non-mahrams, which is a new word i learned today too. Now i know how to avoid and start convos without being awkward.
@wingswalker1294 Жыл бұрын
See these were things of other religion too... they revolved by time..You need too
@DS-ql5rk Жыл бұрын
I out hand on my chest but they still insist shaking my hand so gets awkward and I just tell them that I don’t my touch
@sevacphone9041 Жыл бұрын
Jazaak'ALLAH khair sister, a very useful clip, may ALLAH keep you on his DEEN & grant you more wisdom in'shaa'ALLAH- Ameen .
@HaroonKhan-ix3xs Жыл бұрын
6:50 I would suggest 2 steps away in advance (backwards of course) to avoid any such situation.
@abdallaMoa Жыл бұрын
I've just stumbled upon this informative channel. Many heartfelt thanks to you, sister.
@JarradONeil-xk4te6 ай бұрын
this channel is the most adorable thing in the world alhamdullillah
@khadijatulkubra1816 Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah sister we have a very strong relationship because we are muslims I am from pakistan Love you sister
@filhanislamictv8712 Жыл бұрын
I have organised peace talks where a Hijabi Queen refused to shake hands with non mahrams. I also worked at a place where non mahrams behaved casually with each other I was of the few who did shake hands with Sisters I could marry
@skowaled3580 Жыл бұрын
Masha Allah!What beautiful words from a beautiful Muslim Girl!
@byrabia Жыл бұрын
This is what I needed thank you so much for making this video
@SpeakWithQuran Жыл бұрын
So many times I had to face this situation, this video is very useful, nyc video !
@mehar3056 Жыл бұрын
Jazak Allah dear sister yours videos are wonderful Masha Allah ur videos seems very useful in balancing deen and duniya (world) Somehow I reached ur channel today Alhamdolillah Insha Allah I will try to follow ur hacks
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah, and wa iyyaki sis! 😄 Welcome to Bliifee and the Bliifeeans fam! 💙
@mehar3056 Жыл бұрын
@@bliifee what does wa iyyaki means dear sis
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
It's the reply to "JazakAllah" 😊 for girls
@mohammadaffansiddiqi21 Жыл бұрын
Sister you're just awesome, how did you know that we face these issues in our lives
@_an_aspirant_1 Жыл бұрын
JazakALLAH khair i learned a lot from this my sister Maa Shaa ALLAH ALLAHUMMA BARIK💓💕🥺❤
@preciouspearl6678 Жыл бұрын
Ma sha Allah ❤️ I really need that guidance Jazakillah Khairan kaseera ❤️❤️
@akhira.over.dunya99 Жыл бұрын
thank you for the ideas, my neighbor's older sister always High fives me, and she's around 4 years older than me. I always think of not putting my hand out, but I feel rude. thank you for reminding me of something I should be thinking about. btw she is also a Muslim, and she is not a bad one. but she has merely forgot.
@edahithnain4829 Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah, your tips make sense. We will try the gestures you suggested, InsyaAllah.
@madihakanwal4272 Жыл бұрын
Masha Allah. Doing gudd job. I was looking fr this kind of content fr my young ones.
@MariNomayriWisdomIslamicSchool Жыл бұрын
JazakAllahu Khair for sharing some tips
@mariyarukhsar9190 Жыл бұрын
Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Barakatuh !Thank you so much for this video!! It really helpful!♥️
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
Wa Alaikum Assalam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu sis! 😁 Alhamdulillah so glad! 💙💙💙
@ashikumar1670 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sister alhamdulillah Allah give you Janna insha allah
@aawrpaa Жыл бұрын
After 9 months you uploaded a full video sis...🥺🖤 Really missed your videos😩🌷
@salmanoormunni4903 Жыл бұрын
''Don't say your name is Asma unless your name is Asma.'' -Very important words by Asma, 2022. 😂
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
😂 Please this made me laugh so much 🤣🤣🤣
@abloodorange5233 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for spreading our message.
@its-TRAV Жыл бұрын
im not sure why this video got recommended to me, but now i have an awareness of something i never knew was a thing
@halimasumayya9890 Жыл бұрын
Awesome tricks... 😃 It's somewhat easy to avoid handshakes with nonmuslim men, But it's very difficult and awkward to avoid them with nonmahram relatives.... I really can't explain to them. They are nonpracticing Muslims and they think it's "extreme"..
@sujjad Жыл бұрын
Allah give them hadayah
@halimasumayya9890 Жыл бұрын
@@sujjad Aameen... 😔
@farsanajunise6617 Жыл бұрын
It's really useful.I have experienced this type of situations, I work in a travel agency and some of my colleagues are men.. Some circumstances i was forced to handshake with them,It's hard to explain them why its nt permissible.. Anyway thankyou for this video
@noura99433 Жыл бұрын
Asalamu Alikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Baraqatuh I saw this post on Pinterest but it was basically saying how a British guy came to ask a Sheikh a few questions about Islam. One if the questions were related to why Muslim women don’t shake hands with men. and the sheikh replied with something along the words, “ do you go up to the Queen to shake her hand?” And the answer was no, because not anyone can come so close to the Queen, she even wears gloves. This concept basically emphasises the value of a Muslim women revealing that not anyone can touch her and not anyone can be close to her especially men.
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
Wa Alaikum Assalam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu sis! 💯!! Spot on!
@piousukhti Жыл бұрын
Ma sha Allah ☺️✨❤️
@shameembanuganjurwale541 Жыл бұрын
JazakAllahu Khairan Aasma sister This video is very precious to me
@tajwarjamil6186 Жыл бұрын
AssalamuAlaikum, my biggest struggle is since I have already shaken hands with non mahrams especially at school idk how to approach the situation, as in if I suddenly stop shaking hands.
@fiddah Жыл бұрын
I advise you not to say “sorry” to any human when they invite you to do something ALLAH Forbade and you choose to follow the Command of ALLAH. A Muslim is strong, ma shaa’ ALLAH. Actually it is an opportunity to give good advice to people when they invite you to do something wrong (maybe they don’t know certain things or have forgotten). الله أَعْلَم
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
That's true. The intention behind saying "sorry" here is to excuse ourselves from that situation politely rather than being sorry for not shaking their hands. 😁
@mediarabbint9837 Жыл бұрын
Assalam u Alaikum api ... Finally back 💌 .. glad to see your video pop out all of a sudden .. May Allah bless you
@rubelrana304 Жыл бұрын
Good advices . In many muslim countries like Egypt, , maximum girls hand shake with non mahram in name of peace
@mehar3056 Жыл бұрын
May Allah swt bless you and keep ur imaan increasing
@skstudio6952 Жыл бұрын
Sister your content is an incredible,beautifull.... These things are mostly ignored in our society.so we must talk on this.... Be continue.......you are doing good 💯💯💯.
@adz_054 Жыл бұрын
Ngl tho sometimes it may be hard to refuse the handshake of the opposite gender but we need to control our nafs and be kind to the opposite gender, jazakallah for the advice tho sister
@itsmejenean9457 Жыл бұрын
Ever since Covid came I find it that people are learning more of their deed and imam and the non muslims are learning about islam
@romin_1122 Жыл бұрын
Wow sis, this video was very thoughtful. I thank you from my heart. I've encountered with this problem before and it was soo embarrassing haha.
@sadiahussain3761 Жыл бұрын
Assalamu alaikum sis thanks you for making a new video after so long.
@hebaabsher75584 ай бұрын
Could you make a vedio about putting make-up and where and when we put it..the matter is i like putting makeup like other girls at same time i can't put it because everywhere i go is mixed ..i hope you got me
@AbdulJawad123 Жыл бұрын
I'm new here, just watched your video really inspired, keep it up sister.. Love from PAKISTAN, جزاک اللہ
@abdullahibrahimhabhab Жыл бұрын
Great mashaallah, there has to be more such videos. May Allah reward you sister.
@erikahammerramalho1025 Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah amazing video ❤ thank you so much for that.
@learnnupswing8963 Жыл бұрын
Jzakillah khair Sister 😊 I feel so proud of you Alhamdulillah ❤️ Keep it up ☺️ A lot of love and respect from Pakistan 🇵🇰❤️
@jackjohnson1072 Жыл бұрын
Hello, Asmaa! In your opinion, how much distance should you keep with non-mahrams of the opposite gender? Can men and women talk to each other casually? Can men and women be friends? Can men and women hang out together, either alone or in a group?
@fayazmohideen8484 Жыл бұрын
Nope brother, men and women can't be friends and couldn't be hanging out together. We should make friendships only with the people of our gender... For example, if you ask your mixed gender friends, frankly about their relationship with other gender, he/she would definitely be in guilt. Even though the people say , " we're not just more than friends " , there the 'evil bloody shaytaan' comes into play... he uses the opportunity to slowly build immoral relationships between those. "ALLAH" knows the best.
@bliifee Жыл бұрын
Hi Jack, brother Fayaz's answer is absolutely correct in Islamic terms. 😇 And JazakAllahu khairan brother Fayaz for your answer.
@yasmeenibrahim7104 Жыл бұрын
I’m wondering this too as I am in uni and talking with the Opposite gender is so normal, can we casually talk to them?
@freznox6 Жыл бұрын
@@yasmeenibrahim7104 only stick to the point and converse if needed like when doing group projects or club meetings. Otherwise good morning, casually asking about life and how things are going is obviously irrelevant
@bushrakhan9304 Жыл бұрын
Nice video..... Please make a video on abaya as well and how to dealt with it with the family.... If you attend some family function or visiting any of your relative and there is mix gathering than what is the best way to avoid it and maintain your naqab before the Namahrams
@filhanislamictv8712 Жыл бұрын
The hand on chest and slight is what I do without even thinking about it
@annaegorva815 Жыл бұрын
Again it's getting deleted... So I will ask in short.. Shaking hands is wrong but doing muta marriage is great??