How to be MENTALLY strong when others judge you.

[@shafakhan4368]

Amazing concept and very well delivered.. Thank you

[@mindmastery1787]

I just love this video, i was too sad from many days but now I am feeling very better, thanks a lot

[@rayshmeevarrier7473]

I called out my narcissistic partner for his nastiness and bullshit that he has been doing for ages. This time I called out and gave it back promptly. He instantly shared this video with me and said see you are being judgemental. . I would appreciate it if you could clear this cloud and make another video over the same topic and make sure that Narcissists don't misunderstand/ misconstrue this topic of judgement.

[@MPatel84]

Nicely explained but I feel it's nicer to listen to your content in hindi

[@jhanvichoksi2930]

Superb.

[@supriyasomasundaram2330]

Why people shout out their judgements... that's so rude ...We all have judgements by nature... but why can't they keep it to themselves instead of letting it out and hurting others...agree with the freedom of speech part but vomiting out everything that pops in mind is truly indecent...

[@ambadasghule1806]

True some of them have this habit but u should not get affected by this.. Stop geeting affected what others say

[@explore_with_sagan9596]

Because they have insecurity and jealousy issues , they judge others to make themselves feel good

[@kirankgoswamimm1781]

Explanation 👏

[@vandytaurus2292]

Thanks for the video..much needed

[@leenajoshi1341]

Good...

[@tash0081]

What am i supposed to do if they start liying about me and and start insulting me in from of people

[@monicagarg1050]

Wowwwww

[@JenniAlbert]

Hi Jennifer my husband getting angry shouting fighting with me talking about girls mother dogs important in mind my husband telling the idea for me

[@Anuradha-c6g]

Mother Teresa examples was un called for, she was not here for any social service. She was a missionary who was constantly converting Hindu

[@snehasoni6220]

Sir, I wanna pursue career in Psychology. I don't know much about this field so confused which way have more career opportunities. and faster, coz i already had graduation but wanna change career in field of my interest. Plz suggest.

[@kiranchavan1128]

Excellent Counselling.... Great explanation and easy to understand the message from this video..... Thank You....

[@Shretan]

Nicely explained sir...i feel now i can handle it.. but in ourr indian society the daughter in law is always judged for no reason. I think we have to take that too as their nature only...😊

[@AC-jg2dg]

They are judged because the inlaws are jealous.

[@mrskhan597]

This was great. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. God bless

[@tanusreemukherjee315]

You are a calm person , you got the inner peace and trying to help everyone to get the same Thank you very much

[@AC-jg2dg]

How about telling them to stop harassing you and keep your judgement to yourself? That should put an end to this crap.

[@bunnyman_5454]

First of all people should understand the need for constructive criticism. If there is no such thing the criticism or judgement is useless. Next time if someone judges you for being frugal ask them if they can help with money. To summarise only listen to CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM

[@ChildFirst]

I now personally take an unconditional type of understanding to approach with family and any other people. I respect all differences, I don't like to play status games. But I'm also well-aware that just because I reached this mental stage because of personal efforts & long healing process, doesn't mean that every other person have transformed. I can't start expecting my same attitude from others. I still expect other to judge me like I use to judge earlier. And I have truly made peace with this fact that it is going to happen no matter what I do. You are still seeing themself in some special light. The day you can hear criticism about yourself with the same feeling that you hear criticism about other, you have become enlightened. It is possible, you will just need to remove the Ego and Specialness from yourself. Bottomline no body is special, everybody will judge everybody else. Accept it don't get shocked, don't get angry.

[@sumaraj100]

I had very tough time with my LCHF diet, people had very cheap comments, but still I am carrying on, reduced my dosage too

[@pritisingh7100]

Absolutely to the point. Hit on d mark. Very well explained. Will surely try to be non judgmental n take the criticism in my stride. Attain Nirvana 🤗

[@mrskhan597]

Liked it before watching. I know it's going to be a gem as well. God bless

[@Shridharlifeschooling]

Very happy to hear that :D

[@loveshell007]

Pile 1 - Eating addiction, sugar addiction

[@cliffypereira5363]

Lots to learn from your videos. Helps a lot in self development. Great!!

[@JanetChifomwa-x6y]

Thanks alot am learning hope it helps me. I

[@peace4825]

You are so perfect in your communication. Kudos to you. Unconditional positive regard is the most important quality in a good counsellor.

[@sonasandhuji]

Yes, it took me 45 years to reach at that level

[@jennifercampbell5925]

I like how you talked about free speech because entitlement is a big part of being offended and upset by judgements. So many people think they are entitled to being completely liked and respected by everyone all the time no matter how they behave. While it’s nice and preferable, that is quite rare and we should be grateful for it when it comes our way. Really the only thing we are entitled to is our own self acceptance, and if we have that foundation nothing anyone says can truly shake us.

[@chiccharipidugulu1692]

As always, very helpful video in current times

[@hardworkbitstalent2774]

After this videos I know i can't control others to stop judging me But i can stop judging others...and respect the difference

[@deepaksingh-ic5bc]

Excellent explanation ❤

[@jyothijayanarayanan2457]

How do u speak so fast ???

[@knoName5691]

I think I need to come here again and again to feel motivated and keep going !!

[@moorthyilamaran8491]

Ur way of delivering what u intended to say ✨ great sir

[@tiasa6635]

12:12 7:30

[@home8630]

I am the opposite. And have always lived with opposites, both together, patience or impatience, peace or losing your temper. I spent my beginning of my life, not judging anyone or anything, I can't tell you how much trouble that caused me and others but also how freeing it was. Where I live, you can wear what you like, within reason, as long as you have what needs to be covered up, its fine in other words, you are not exposing your genitals. I went the other way, into poverty to learn and that is where I feel comfortable, not in the too poor, or not in the wealthy, because I have been in that way as well and both are corrupt. I learnt to judge, with wisdom, understanding, not to be critical but to be helpful and give feedback, in other words tell the truth and be honest. Problem is, every other place, tried to make us and say its like this or like that, where I am its not like this or its not like that. A lot of the time, the truth telling is assumptions that people believe that its like a certain way when in truth its not. For me, judgement is about making decisions, choices and now, every one that ever judged me, I now process my life, and get to judge it rightly, and how do I know I do that its right, because I have learnt and it brings peace and an end, which it doesn't go on and on without any solutions. Its never done to cause pain and suffering, but its done to end the pain and suffering. To have a good judgement, is important for peace and ending conflict, true judgement, its never about being critical or telling people what they can and can not do, that is immaturity. BTW I am empathetic, so when people are criticising people to me, I feel all the pain and suffering of the situation then I feel l it for the whole lot and it can be debilitating particularly when I have disabilities and can't be around it at all, because its awful then I want something done about it, because it affects health and is awful. So for me I became and learnt, gifted with perfect gifts of acceptance, and I also processed beyond measure rejection, and when rejection goes and it does, I am still left with how I was born, acceptance and understanding, along with peace.

[@smriti2950]

I have a continuous comparison with my sister because she is more beautiful than me...every one is like coming and telling she is more or most beautiful girl in family although we are only two..only me and my sister... It's just heartbreaking because it is continuously happing ...

[@sn2000]

Judgement from your own people hurts u :( like the people whom u live with... ur spouse especially....how can we avoid effects of judgment from spouse? That wipes off the peace :(

[@alpanamehta9745]

Awesome

[@naaz9435]

Amazing...I'm your big fan...You make things so easy to understand and I cn easily relate to that

[@belikebutterfly8063]

The speech is so helpful. Thank you Sir. I atch your videoes very often. It's beneficial for day to day social life.

[@aim621]

Thanks ,i was feeling helpless ,but after dis ,i m feeling much better ,God bless u

[@sandrakavarana6793]

He has pigeonholed judgements appropriately. His analytical approach is laudable.

[@highonart2204]

Thank you Sridhar!! Your way of putting things in perspective really makes sense to me. It just helps deal with the same situation with a new perspective. So thanks. If I could ask your perspective in a complex MIL situation. I would be grateful if you could address in one of your upcomming videos. What to do if the MIL is all the time out to pull you down, always looking for opportunity. No matter how much you try to keep things positive trying to do everything right, treding cautiously. Some things are so bizzar ways that you feel helpless. Example, deleberately eating previous days leftovers in front of son and servants. Kind of implying that the DIL is not looking after as she should. It's such a covert attack. How caution can one be throughout the day? One it's causing shame. Two it's causing hurt. How look at this situation?

[@unicorn615]

Start making more relationship videos as when the partner needs space what to do when he lies on your face but ofcourse not cheating.... Not being honest but this was not before some specific time...

[@panduranga421]

my god I genuinely enjoyed this masterpiece though it is bit longer

[@unicorn615]

Pls make relationship videos more.... Your lst playlist was soo good

[@payalpatel11]

What if an immediate family member uses the freedom of speech to defame me?

[@ashokpanda7473]

One should not judge another

[@fatimaislammim9272]

What does the meaning of nirvana?

[@rumanasiddiqua3235]

Hindi in between was good ☺

[@symamtachoudhary3784]

Sorted people like u r rare .

[@swathireena5400]

Hello sir,i want to know the things which are spoken about me is completely not true means rumours to show me down .how to handle with those people

[@Shridharlifeschooling]

Don't worry about rumors. They pretty much don't affect you at all. Just make sure people you care about know the truth. This is the general approach. Do you mind sharing what the rumor is?

[@poojabridvlog5027]

U r great teacher👩‍🏫‍

[@Chloebleu]

Wow that must be a weird feeling to be enlightened

[@Chloebleu]

I hope one day I can feel that way

[@madhumitadas156]

You are excellent

[@garimaupa]

I love you

[@divyajyothi1093]

Excellent.

[@srividhya7765]

Exactly said! People truely believe in judgements, but reality 80percent who judge u are living in false prestige! They are sure u are better than them so free of cost they can do is stamp u with their opinion. May be we realize late but these are the best life lessons for a person to change. It hurts but at same time we learn a, lot. Nice subject explained in simple way. 👋👋👋👋 Also if we are surrounded by such people we also start doing that. And better we understand it early .

[@komalranawat3420]

❤️

[@shirishpathak5193]

Hello sir I am working at a private firm where I am holding a position of manager still feel like other employees are not treating me well and grouping ho against me. When I tell me boss about it he says it will take some time. But it is effecting and demotivating me to leave the job. Please suggest something.

[@Shridharlifeschooling]

Can you think of a reason why they maybe grouping against you?

[@shirishpathak5193]

@@Shridharlifeschooling to be very honest no.

[@shirishpathak5193]

Might be case they I am asking them to work in my way or may be they don't work hard as I do 😅

[@Shridharlifeschooling]

@@shirishpathak5193 I'll suggest first take some feedback. You can create like a google form or do it personally. Ask them about their experience. What they like about your leadership, what they think you can improve on. Always be in touch with people's feedback.

[@shirishpathak5193]

@@Shridharlifeschooling ok sir.