Oh I love that! I never saw my silly playfulness as an act of invitation but when I really think about it deep down I was hoping others would join in too! 😊 I understand this better now.
@O8080808O Жыл бұрын
I cherished the times my wife was playful, it was nourishing and now that you mention it, I felt safe. It was hours of fun, like a cat and mouse. Until she turned us over to her divorce attorneys. Now she has two men supporting her motherhood. I think about our playfulness together, and try to accept that I wasn't safe?
@athenamurphy13179 ай бұрын
Or that her Dad wasn't safe in ways that no one has considered. I'm very playful and I've been left TWICE by men who were triggered by this part of me. They only wanted "mean" play, and I don't do "mean" play. My Dad only wanted "mean" play and could not make the adjustment to what we needed. She may still have her work to do in ways that you don't see.
@mac_archct57173 ай бұрын
I would say @27:00 being childlike rather than being childish. Many say we all have that little boy or girl who wants to come out and play. As adults we want to play like children and not be childish.
@ashleyjaylene6278 Жыл бұрын
I just love all the gold in these lives! Thank you!
@AlisonArmstrongVideos Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoy it!
@hongquan316111 ай бұрын
I love you Alison! I can listen to you all day!
@miabolte6575 Жыл бұрын
The sound quality on this is GREAT. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and playfulness, and with good audio!
@athenaphan8663 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Alison. I learn so much from you about playfulness and feeling safe. I am safe. I am safe.
@AlisonArmstrongVideos Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@JY601 Жыл бұрын
This is a great piece of advice although I’ve experienced myself to be the serious one and women more playful the value in this still holds true. Wonderful job and thank u for the insight
@abigailschreiber1895Ай бұрын
Love your videos, absolutely amazing!
@chilloften Жыл бұрын
Such an interesting topic. I take life so very serious and it’s not fun. If I could change career, it’d help, but that’d be moving backwards in a way.
@emmarennie4199Ай бұрын
I used to be so playful . I'm 50 now blessed to have a young child but exhausted 😮x
@LightningStrikes66 Жыл бұрын
Always sharing great info
@johnsonfarm8170 Жыл бұрын
How does a woman be playful with her man that is so serious most of the time?
@tuduongminh547Ай бұрын
Hi, i just found this topic through broken relatioship recently. Me and her know through game on internet and we found many commons and fun things talk together. But i take too much serious love on her without meeting her in real life yet because we live in different country. She is playful love but I'm become romantic love ( obsessed love ) when i love her. I can't have fun talk much as before or i talk something too deeply and much love in future which is make she get bored and loose interest from me. After i heard your topic, i understand part of Playfulness. Thank you after all. Can you give me advice that how can i be open minded talk funly and enjoy every conservation, playfulness when i'm in love without talking any seriously about future
@missfabidia9 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@user-em9ce2vo4k13 күн бұрын
Am I getting this right That you have Greg and Dan as your partners?
@AlisonArmstrongVideos11 күн бұрын
Hi! Thanks for your question. Greg was Alison's husband (and life partner!) for almost 28 years. Unfortunately, he unexpectedly passed away in 2019... Alison then met Dan about a year and a half later, and they've been exploring a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship ever since. Alison generously and graciously shares her experiences from both relationships as real-life examples of how to apply her material. - Alison's team
@michaelsanchez8457 Жыл бұрын
Trying to think about this is interesting. I have people I can be open around. I think I get surprised by modern women though, because they have things they do that are more like a job interview, or a test. Being open and playful is maybe a little too feminine unless a person really has affinity for you.
@GLORYBOUND Жыл бұрын
Do you have this in print form I can purchase?
@Daboiiiiyezzir Жыл бұрын
I like turtles
@lindseyc.7493Ай бұрын
She really knows how to talk lot to make like 2 points
@evat294520 күн бұрын
😂😂 I personally speed it up (x1,25) so it’s easier & pleasant for my body to listen to, and it’s quite delicious like this!