Are you struggling with wasting your time in the evening?
@carlatate5359Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video! ❤
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
You are welcome!
@neliswambhele8410Ай бұрын
Yes😢
@StyleAndGrace7Ай бұрын
Of course we are! But I am here to master it.
@juliegordon809817 күн бұрын
I can’t get anything done & ive zero job, zero money also & productivity went out the window. You’re lucky you have your s together. Good for you
@stephanietaylor7560Ай бұрын
I’m in my 50 and this morning I’m stressing trying to find my Badge for work. I said girl get your 💩 together and praise God I came across your feed 😄
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Love it!!
@MycescosАй бұрын
I was not motivated and about to scroll aimlessly. Watched your vid and picked out my work clothes for tomorrow. Now going to read. Thank you for your vid
@DiakaMelendez27 күн бұрын
That is what I am talking about!
@deluxecoco2789Ай бұрын
Love these tips! The key for me is to not sit down as soon as I get home. Making my lunches for the next day right away makes such a difference in my mornings.
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Glad it helped!
@kimboeskeim39720 күн бұрын
packing your lunch when putting away left overs is helpful as well ❤️
@SHENA75051Ай бұрын
Just came across your page and as a woman that’s in her 40’s and being single in a season where your really trying to figure out what to do with your downtime. I love these ideas. I’m taking a fast from social media and I’m in a season on trying to be more obedient and productive. These are amazing tools that I’m going to utilize in my downtime
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
So glad you it was helpful! Thanks for watching
@BimmerBabeАй бұрын
Yes I too have found self 40 and kid grown. Career and finances are stable. So now what do I do? This was great
@OKJen98Күн бұрын
I used to dread house chores but now I put my EarPods in & listen to KZbin while I work. Now it feels like something fun & I’m getting a lot done.
@shellibass659928 күн бұрын
Thank You Diaka! This worked today!!! I came in ( now I did sit me and my purse on the couch for 5minutes wrapping up a call about our November and January Hangout) vs getting in the bed to watch KZbin videos! I changed my clothes first. My dinner for tomorrow is cooked, lunch made, clothes from dryer folded, clothes from washer in dryer and I’ve eaten. That’s all I have in me for today; but I did more tonight than I did last week!
@DiakaMelendez28 күн бұрын
THATS AWESOME!!!!
@EmmaJonYoureWelcomeАй бұрын
I need to follow these tips because I am so easily distracted when I get home from work and it definitely makes my mornings harder. great tips. xx
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thank you!
@mangisty1007Ай бұрын
I stumbled upon your video and so glad I did, I never really see videos of people going into the office and talking about what they do when they get home, there are many out there with people who work from home, but doesn’t apply to me😬
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
I know! I’m commuting everyday. Thanks for watching!
@chiznslaviАй бұрын
I love the idea of the 15 min drill upon getting home from work. And the flash 15 mins of reading is *chef’s kiss*! Thank you, I’m going to incorporate this. 😊
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
You're so welcome! That 15 minutes can get so much done! Thanks for watching :)
@justinadunavan8506Ай бұрын
I just came across this video. I have been struggling with coming home and being on my phone or watching tv until bedtime. I don’t have to cook dinner as my husband is retired so he does alot of the cleaning, laundry, cooking. However there are things I want to do that I enjoy but because I am brainless and tired from work I sit. I would thrive on a scheduled routine. Thanks for this video!
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
So glad it was helpful thanks for watching!
@orobinson721Ай бұрын
Thank you for this. Sometimes when I get home I get overwhelmed with what needs to be done and end up doing nothing. Your suggestions help a lot. New subscriber here.
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Welcome and thanks for watching ☺️
@candicec229414 сағат бұрын
Hi Diaka! I just discovered your channel. Love the simplicity of your strategies. This is just what I need to get myself back on track and out of my slump. I just ordered a digital timer to get myself started!
@QiB3autyАй бұрын
This video just popped up on my timeline and I believe it was the Lord because I struggle with being productive after work. I'll be super tired and I have four kids to look after and I'll be lost as a duck after work trying to figure out what to do
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
I know how hard it can be with kids! I used to tell them the first 15 minutes in the house let me get stuff done then I can get to them. It allowed me to at least start with small wins! You got this!
@shannajames8373Ай бұрын
Same
@alicegarcia7468Ай бұрын
Great tips for staying productive after work like getting the coffee set up for the next day!
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thank you!
@ellebelle25815 сағат бұрын
Love this! Just subscribed. This is very realistic & relatable. I work from home and I always struggle with stopping work at the end of the day then I pick up my phone and start doom scrolling!
@DiakaMelendez15 сағат бұрын
Thanks for subbing! I do productivity, routines and wellness. Welcome!
@callalily79Ай бұрын
This was so helpful, such good advice! I’ve struggled with this so much that this gave me hope and made me cry happy tears.❤
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
I love to see this!
@portiadane6020Ай бұрын
🙏Thank you for this video, very insightful. I've been working on improving my evening ritual. It's so easy to just slip into eating dinner and watching tv.
@prosperityprincess963Ай бұрын
Love this video .I struggle with managing my time.I am working on improving myself.
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
You got this! It is trial and error!
@Stephanie-gl8su29 күн бұрын
Your home is lovely! I love your tips.
@DiakaMelendez29 күн бұрын
Thank you! ☺️
@oluwatosinmc434014 күн бұрын
Who is this amazing woman?😍 Best night time routine I’ve seen and so easy to follow. The breakdown of the tasks into just a few minutes are pure wisdom
@DiakaMelendez13 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@afuaa751216 күн бұрын
I love this content! I am all over the place when I get home from work. Sometimes I waste too much time in the car ( scrolling or napping) before I walk in to greet my dog. I don't get much done due to guilt of leaving him alone while at work. I entertain him all evening and just lose myself. It's a vicious cycle.... I love your time structure concept. Seems very practical. ❤❤❤
@DiakaMelendez16 күн бұрын
Awe I have my dog Mr Bacon too! He makes a cameo in most of my vids.
@KO-wu2og28 күн бұрын
Thank you for this! I work from home and yet I still really needed this video. 😊
@DiakaMelendez28 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful
@StyleAndGrace7Ай бұрын
Love the timer idea Going to get one for me and the kids…. My evening looks totally different because I have a 3rd and 8th grader so it’s pretty intense. But I’m trying to teach them this exact type of thing.
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
They work! Let me know how it goes!
@marilynthompson4513Ай бұрын
Where have you been!? Finally a channel I can connect with. New subscriber...Love your channel ❤
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
So glad you found me! Thanks for watching!
@shimmerngspiritАй бұрын
What a great video. I'm not trying to "hussle" or build a business, but there are some self development things I've always wanted to do and this helps a lot.
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thank you!
@justinewalters878722 күн бұрын
So good! My job is physically exhausting and I'm expieriencing some pain in my hip...which adds to the physical and mental exhaustion. I also have a large dog that requires 5miles of walking each day. It's refreshing to realize that smaller time blocks can accomplish so much! Thank you!!
@DiakaMelendez22 күн бұрын
Wow 5 miles! so glad there were some helpful tips.
@AligningHerАй бұрын
Great video. I recently lamented that I miss how productive I use to be after work. Lately I come home and sunk out. My excuse is I’m an early riser and am generally more productive before work. I like the two minute drill! And will be incorporating this immediately. Time chunking too. Even my water consumption has decreased but new week struggles loading!
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thank you for watching! Yes that first 15 minutes can change the momentum of the evening!
@Blaaaah98Ай бұрын
Very inspirational especially for procastinators like me. ❤
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thank you!
@debifierАй бұрын
Thanking the algorithm for suggesting this video and introducing me to your channel! I’ve been struggling with a tendency to “couch rot” in the evenings, so this came along at the perfect time. I love the tip of doing the 15-minute “tomorrow prep” immediately, before anything else, after I end my workday (I WFH). What a gift to my future self AND a way to build a bit of momentum that sets the standard for the rest of the evening. Thanks for the great tips and inspiration!
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
You are so welcome!
@iamtranyceproductions3 күн бұрын
I love this!! I may tag you in a video of me attempting your 2 minute challenge to see how applicable it is to my life. Thanks for the idea. I think the timer idea is perfect. ❤
@DiakaMelendez3 күн бұрын
Cool let me know!
@sawanuslegrand-fleming40813 күн бұрын
I love this. Thank you so much for sharing your evening schedule. I needed this! Especially, with the time change, the evenings seem much longer. 😊
@DiakaMelendez13 күн бұрын
@@sawanuslegrand-fleming408 You are so welcome!
@kristenlafollette5627Ай бұрын
Thank you! I just found you and I needed this. What a great help. Looking forward to watching your time blocking videos.
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
My first planner video is coming sunday and we are starting with the weekly plan!
@petersahn116 күн бұрын
Love this! Full of excellent tips. Get that tedious stuff done ASAP- great idea!
@DiakaMelendez16 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@JessicaFranco1Ай бұрын
Such a great video and topic! So powerful when you reframe your thinking 👏👏
@UnapologeticallyRaquelMarie24 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, I've been looking for a simple evening routine and here you are
@DiakaMelendez24 күн бұрын
So glad it was helpful!
@classyfirstladynsb364619 күн бұрын
totally needed your video had no life after work hours but now i can be way more productive thank you sooo much
@DiakaMelendez19 күн бұрын
You are so welcome!
@kathudson2129 күн бұрын
Very helpful information .
@DiakaMelendez29 күн бұрын
Thank you
@susanwashburn6067Ай бұрын
Came across you randomly. Liked ur content!!
@cleareyedskyАй бұрын
Simple, straight to the point, and so helpful! I love your energy. I needed this one. Thanks so much!
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
You are welcome!
@nancygbakerАй бұрын
This was good info, especially if you can get home around 5 or 6. When i had a 1+ hour commute and little ones that needed help with homework and i fixed dinner, my extra time had to be in the am before everyone got up. I do think time blocking is important if you are going to be intentional about getting things done.
@tanyatobias990126 күн бұрын
The way I just got excited and gave you a high five!!!! Yes Yes Yes...I needed this video!!! Thank you!
@DiakaMelendez26 күн бұрын
Let’s go!
@NaamiAnayahhАй бұрын
This was a good video that just popped up. I’m going to see how I can adjust this since I currently WFH.
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Definitely setting boundaries while working at home is important! Thanks for watching!
@riahlutv7739Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing. I’ve been struggling in this area lately and need to revamp my schedule. 🙏🏾❤️
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
You are welcome hopefully you can use some of these tips!
@nimotalahibintmustopha9523Ай бұрын
Thank you very much for this video. I watched this on Monday and it's been working for me
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Love that for you!
@amyalbers614510 күн бұрын
This is so great--just what I needed! (Also, I'm from Houston!) Thanks for the great ideas and inspiration.
@DiakaMelendez10 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@rm475524 күн бұрын
This was so so helpful. I just ordered the same timer!
@DiakaMelendez24 күн бұрын
They are awesome!
@MakeupJunkie119Ай бұрын
Oooooo!!! I can’t want for your planner / planning your day video!!
@delisadawnmariee5189Ай бұрын
I really Loved this! What's so funny is I move like this when I get home from work. My goal is to be in bed by 9:00 to make sure I'm getting 8hours if sleep
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
So glad you watched! I have a ways to go to get in the bed by nine!
@iamgoddesskouture24 күн бұрын
Great video and tips I am definitely going to follow. I find myself coming home and spending most of my time on the couch in front of the TV trying to get things done for my online boutique. Not to mention, I'm a sports girlie also ❤
@DiakaMelendez24 күн бұрын
Thank you! Love a sports girlie!
@rebeccaandro891014 күн бұрын
Just came across your channel! Loved the video. I plan to implement a few things. Thanks!
@DiakaMelendez14 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@RoxxPaperScissors11 күн бұрын
I just came across your page!! I live in Pasadena (outskirts of Houston). I'm a new widow & have been struggling with balancing my life!! I am going to give your method a try. Subscribed look forward to viewing more. Roxx
@DiakaMelendez11 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching! Take your time one day at a time. Enjoy the weather we are having and make the best of your evenings 🥰
@lineaostri26 күн бұрын
I appreciated this video. So helpful!
@DiakaMelendez26 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@AprilGarciaDfwАй бұрын
Been looking for content like this. And here it is showing up on my video suggestions 🙏🏽❤ ive been trying to stay at a schedule juggling alot as a single mom. Thanks for sharing this video with us
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Single mom been there done that with no help! You got this!
@shellibass659929 күн бұрын
I am so glad I found you!!!
@DiakaMelendez29 күн бұрын
@@shellibass6599 Me too!
@sammyc987Ай бұрын
Your videos are so motivating! Thank you
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
You are so welcome!
@amycobb634624 күн бұрын
Great content. Just subscribed!
@DiakaMelendez24 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@PNWmorganite8 күн бұрын
New sub! Thank you! 🙌🏾
@DiakaMelendez8 күн бұрын
Welcome
@managingmarlysАй бұрын
Love this, hopefully I can take something away from it. I do use timers, I have about 3 scattered about the house, but I really want to be more productive in my personal life.
@FAMOFSIX5 күн бұрын
Great tips !
@DiakaMelendez4 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@heidijohnson8590Ай бұрын
First time coming across your video. I love what you are doing. Awesome!
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thank you!
@tamekafrostАй бұрын
New subscriber!!! 🔔 I am so happy that I’m finding my over 40 tribe on KZbin!! Great content. ✨
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thank you for watching! 🥰
@tamekafrostАй бұрын
@@DiakaMelendez 🥂
@EmbracingLifeinYour40s24 күн бұрын
Wow I am recently retired and this helped me so much!!! Thank you for the video
@DiakaMelendez24 күн бұрын
You are welcome and congratulations on retirement!
@EmbracingLifeinYour40s24 күн бұрын
@ Thank you!
@afuay7945Ай бұрын
I recently found your channel. I love your content. This video was very helpful. Thank you!!!
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thank you glad it was helpful thanks for watching!
@tr7339Ай бұрын
Am downloading right now
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
🥰
@lfashion25Ай бұрын
⚜️⚜️⚜️⚜️⚜️⚜️🥹thank you for sharing. Die hard Saints fan as well
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
It’s a hard time for us right now ⚜️😡
@AbilityToBeAwesomeАй бұрын
I wish I was this organized! This vlog is to the point. But yes I will sit in the car and dread coming in to the chaos 😂
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Trust me practice has me this organized! Yeah that sitting in the car time can get away from you!
@SweettoothMarie77Ай бұрын
How did i end up here? I totally love what you've shared...no regrets, I'm subscribed 😊❤
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Welcome thanks for watching!
@dailywithdeon16 күн бұрын
Geaux Saints⚜️ First time watching your vlog and there are some helpful takeaways. I’m curious to know if you have school aged kids? It’s a struggle juggling the evening routine and I do the best can -always looking to learn from others. Thanks for a great video.
@DiakaMelendez16 күн бұрын
At this point my kids are older. When they were school age I did still spend the first 15 getting settled. With kids I had to priotize what I wanted to focus on which was my fitness. If something else gave that was ok as long as I kept the focus.
@iameulzАй бұрын
Wow, very inspiring video. I just saw your thumbnail just now. Watching from Philippines
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@debbiecarter4565Ай бұрын
Love this!
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thank you!
@Tari33814 күн бұрын
Great video ! I do something similar and it’s life changing, being a single mum and working full time , it really helps to use our evenings ❤ Did you shoot this video with Sony or iPhone ? I’m looking to upgrade for my KZbin , thanks x
@DiakaMelendez14 күн бұрын
Been there as a single mom! Time is so precious. I actually am using the Osmo Pocket 3 to film this. I love this camera!
@tsanchez225Ай бұрын
Thank you for this
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
You are welcome
@Freya-lynnАй бұрын
Love your content!
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thank you so much! 😊
@madelinedrayton6049Ай бұрын
Love this❤
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thank you! ☺️
@ms.one-town901Ай бұрын
Hey sis, I just saw your comment on Natalie Stringfield’s page and decided to come over and support you as well. Wishing blessings on the growth of your page and your Glow up! ♥️👸🏾👑
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thank you 🥰
@shawncaselberry4282Ай бұрын
I'm glad I found your channel - thanks for sharing! Do you do meet-ups in Houston? I'm in Richmond.
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Awe thank you! Possibly down the line if more are interested.
@startingoverafterfortyАй бұрын
Excellent suggestions ❤
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
@@startingoverafterforty thanks and I am enjoying your channel.
@startingoverafterfortyАй бұрын
@@DiakaMelendez Thank you!
@normidwest1316Ай бұрын
so helpful
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
thank you!
@AnitraSargentАй бұрын
I like the idea of gauging your emotions. The emotions will be bothersome.
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Helps decide my next steps!
@tosin101814 күн бұрын
We are so addicted to productivity. It’s okay not to be productive after work.
@DiakaMelendez13 күн бұрын
Definitely I agree which is why after my two minute drill i evaluate what if anything I want to do. Every day is different.
@pewempowermentАй бұрын
And I just subscribed to your channel. See you soon.❤
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thank you!
@jlinaАй бұрын
Hi! Fellow houstonian here now in kemah! Don't you ever feel constricted by all that planning? Serious question. I quit doing that in my thirties, but I rely on routines and daiily goals. If the post it is still up I can't go to bed!
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Perfect question! I’m going to be uploading a video on how I use my planner. even though I’m time blocking there’s really only three things a day I’m ever really focused on so stay tuned! 🥰
@brothermharchannelАй бұрын
Hi maam new here thanks for sharing have a great day
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@MarcoNomadChannelАй бұрын
How you re a Melendez!! Nice too meet you maybe we re family.
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Small world!
@MarcoNomadChannelАй бұрын
@@DiakaMelendez How s you keep your house so clean when you come from work?
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
@@MarcoNomadChannel Two things and I talk about this on my budget video. When I was a single mom and barely had any money I made the executive decision that I would sacrifice eating out, Starbucks or whatever it took to have someone clean my house at least once a month and so that has always allowed me to maintain a pretty clean house. Second my kids are older now so as long as we clean up and go it’s easier.
@oriannajoyАй бұрын
Do you have a hard stop for productivity when you get home? That’s what keeps me from doing anything after work lol
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Yes that’s what the timers are for. I try to do 90 minutes. Sometimes I go over but a lot can happen in 90 minutes if I am focused. Thanks for watching.
@CareSolutionsIHS4 күн бұрын
What time do you typically get home and what time do you typically shut down for the night?
@DiakaMelendez4 күн бұрын
I usually get home between 5-530 and shut down around 930 my goal (though I fall short often lol) is to be in the bed by 10.
@6kidsand8cupsofcoffeeАй бұрын
I want this hair style
@Daynam3010 күн бұрын
Where does housework come into play?
@DiakaMelendez10 күн бұрын
We clean as we go. Luckily my husband helps and I do my laundry on Fridays. I do have a housekeeper who comes every two weeks though. I talk about this in my budget video. The time she gives me back is worth the cost and I am willing to cut to make sure we have this service.
@GordaBGone9 күн бұрын
I wish I had realized these habits when I was raising my child.
@DiakaMelendez8 күн бұрын
It is not to late!
@nadinewalker937514 күн бұрын
My first task when I walk into my house to wash my hands…first and foremost!!!
@DiakaMelendez14 күн бұрын
Got to stay germ free this time of year.
@HawasCozyLifestyleАй бұрын
My job makes me so tired to do anything after work 😢😢😢
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
I’m so sorry. Let’s find one thing you can do after work and start atleast with the two minute drill.
@marisameans9859Ай бұрын
Warn your fam that the qst 15min.youre home is not their time...
@gusmonster5922 күн бұрын
Nope. After work I am done with 'managing my schedule'. After work is the time I relax and do what I feel like doing. For me, reading for 15 minutes is a 'why bother'. When I sit down to read, it's a couple of hours. This is NOT 'wasting' my time. This is MY time, not work time. Do I decided what I want to wear the next morning? Sometimes. Do I set out the the things I need to take with me? Yes. But I am not going make a schedule (manage) for my time away from work. If this works you, great. For me, my time is MY time and I don't need to manage it so closely away from work.
@DiakaMelendez22 күн бұрын
lol do you that’s the beauty of your own routine! Thanks for watching!!
@s_pru23Ай бұрын
Now you are really coming for me 😔 😂
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
I mean I am just saying lol😂
@jessicasieloff3217Ай бұрын
How was this different when you were in the thick of it with a young kiddo?
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Hey Jessica when I had two kids my main thing was my health so I went to 24 hour fitness that had child care! A lot of my energy was targeted in the evening because AM was to hectic.
@latashiaabrams2600Ай бұрын
Who Dat!
@raquela8266Ай бұрын
ohhhhhhh she has a man providing her another amount of money she has plenty of time yeah of course
@DiakaMelendezАй бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@pewempowermentАй бұрын
Time is the most valuable thing on earth. Yet we take it for granite but it ain’t nothing like being organized. I’m in my 50s and I just started my channel 4 days ago and I appreciate you sister. My channel is about inspiring and uplifting women. Thank you.🫶