HOW TO BECOME THE ALPHA MALE | SIGNS YOU'RE A BETA MALE | ATTRACT GIRLS

Learn the psychology of alpha males and find out the signs of beta males and how to avoid being one.

[@jacquesnicolay9221]

The way you become an alpha male is not giving a shit about being an alpha or beta or a kappa....

[@tranquil31]

key

[@originnone]

Yes, being conceited, arrogant, and generally useless are indeed characteristics of an alpha male.

[@godlies9257]

Beta males

[@cheetopuffs2580]

Wtf is a Kappa.

[@Rawnfella]

I run a Seafood department in a supermarket and I saw more fish in this 5 minute video than in my 12 hour fucking work day.

[@attiumeyami417]

omg I'm dying hahahah

[@solarwolf857]

Rawnfella this is the best comment

[@UNOwen-nn6ui]

Have a fish!

[@gravitygas3891]

What kind of fish were they? Catfish? Ok, me and my awful puns are going now.

[@attiumeyami417]

I love eating pu$$y that shit is tasty, healthy and fucking expensive:(

[@SpecialOpsPepe]

i was surprised in the middle of the video he actually said what you can do to improve yourself, instead of i have a course you can buy down below.

[@BizyGi]

Jalin Williams I know. That's what I was waiting for. Some book or website where we can learn the rest of the tips.

[@ladycryptik]

As a girl, I can tell you that being confident and humble is the base of what you need to become an 'alpha male'

[@cheetopuffs2580]

Teach me

[@davidceballos788]

You won't teach me how be alpha.

[@MrThrashman666]

Sometimes, when I pay attention to my own behavior I seem to lose all spontaneity, I create a feedback loop in my mind that makes me appear weak and doubtful to others. Other times, though, I am totally alive and awake, and my behavior is natural and powerful. Trusting and accepting oneself is so important...

[@ruhap9311]

uhhh, me too, sometimes I'm good spontaneously, but a lot of times I wind up being out of tune and things come out poorly/rudely.

[@lolsucks3599]

I have the exact same problem xd

[@7th808s]

Iggy Wake I have the same thing sort of. I think I'm actually very alpha, but I just don't present myself as one, partly because of the ongoing pondering my mind is occupied with. (I found out alcohol helps with that, but if you're underage, I didn't tell you that)

[@IizUname]

Yup

[@HippieP629]

I feel u bro. That's so natural, I'm like that too at times. Keeping working on it; you'll get there, more than you are already.

[@hindsightpov4218]

Sign of an alpha male: Don't take shit from anybody.

[@GarveyToure]

another sign of an alpha male: has no real connections with anybody

[@GarveyToure]

wow. i jus learnd sumthin. Thanks for the tip

[@AK-jl2wm]

Hi, it is I, a girl who has no idea why she watches these videos. IF YOU ARE A BETA MALE THIS IS PROBABLY WORTH READING TO THE END. AH FUCK IT. IT IS PROBABLY WORTH READING NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE. The Alpha male is a natural born person, as is the Beta. If you want to try to become a different person, that's your choice, and I understand the feeling. Maybe this is not the case with most girls, but I have a knack for very deeply understanding and relating to almost everyone. I am not sure what it is about me that makes people trust me so easily, but a girl who literally one person in school had a conversation that lasted longer than 10 seconds with just poured all of her unsaid thoughts on me, and now I am actually her only friend. What I am getting at is you don't need to change. (ACTUALY ADVICE AND MY POINT STARTS HERE): Let's call every person a kingdom. The buildings are all the nuanced things about someone's personality. The animals and people in the kingdom are the thoughts that pop up. Maybe it is not a big kingdom, but is still one. If nobody loves you now, somebody will someday. While, yes, putting a wall up in front of any side of your kingdom causes other kingdoms to try to connect their kingdom to yours through other sides, seeing in you what you want them to see, walls can also keep other kingdoms out. Maybe you don't know that another kingdom wants to join forces because you have built a wall too big on the part of your kingdom that they want you to show. If you build a big enough wall, no matter how many kingdoms are standing on the other side other side of that wall, wanting desperately to build a road in and form a deep alliance, you'd never notice. If I am the only kingdom trying to get in, then person's kingdom's walls come down almost immediately, but if there are kingdoms trying to enter from other directions, I am suddenly facing a wall that I cannot pass. Even if I like other aspects of someone's personality, I often enter their heart through parts of their personality that the person themself doesn't like, because when I think I like someone, I need to know a lot of things about them(but of course I don't ask people to spill all their secrets and emotions, just their personality). Too often, I find myself screaming and pounding on that wall for while, before just staying there, doing nothing. The person on the outside of that wall almost always ends up heartbroken, and you never know how many people's affection you are blind to. I wouldn't purposely ignore aspects of myself to get people to like me, if they don't like me and I like than, then hey don't like me. Even if it makes me cry, it's okay. I find that the warmest people will enter your heart through part of your personality you don't like. I get get people to let me into their hearts, and I let them in mine. Then as time moves on, some people start trying to attract more people, and they put up a wall, or they completely destroy or ignore he part of their personality I entered from. That causes us to loose our connection, as it is with most people who get a wall put uo in front of them. The people you leave outside the wall ends up heartbroken. So, please, if you ever choose to block offpart of your heart or personality, make sure you check on it every once in a while. Even if you have a mentality that letting people into your kingdom can lead to attacks from the inside, so you don't want to let people in, you are not wrong. But isn't love and trust going both ways when both kingdoms open their gates, giving each other the ability to comepletely wreck them and trusting them not to? The best thing about your kingdom is that it is yours. The people who are in your kingdom(remember, those are thoughts and feelings), are part of you. While you can choose whether or not the people in your kingdom decide to reproduce(this metaphor/simile is getting a little weird), but you don't have to let those thought-people become dictators. You should acknowledge and accept them, but a truly unified kingdom, in the end, functions better than a kingdom ruled in fear, hate, or sadness. This is my opinion, so you don't have to agree, but thanks for reading it. If you read this entire thing I am sending you a virtual hug. **hugs everyone who reads this entire thing**

[@RSN2277]

Random Weirdness I'd agree with your thoughts. However, I do agree with some things in this video as well. If you take chances and try to go beyond your limit, people will notice you. You need to start living your life the way you want to do it, but don't change who you are in the process. It never works out in the end if you change who you are.

[@mattdg1981]

Guess I don't get a hug.

[@Ashbringer36]

Random Weirdness I do appreciate both the words of advice and the hug, however I do have a few points I'd like to make See you are mixxing up changing and evolving, to stick with your kingdom metaphor (or I'll just use a castle to make it easier) You assume that video's like these ask one to demolish bits of the kingdom whereas in reality they are telling you to add furnishings, add insolation, fly your banner and add a flag blowing in the wind above. To give an example of myself, I am a writer and an artist at heart, I tell stories and I make people think and feel, my carreer path (my main one) is a web designer with novel writing and game design as somthing of a hobby that might turn into more in the future who knows. Regardless I know why I do these things, but I can improve upon my craft by learning the balance between knowing when my vision is more important, have confidence in my own skills to not be torn down by the slighest hint of negative critisiscm, to have the confidence to go out and go talk to the publishers etc etc. To improve is not to change, your castle should be as pristine as possible, it can still be yours but it has to be the best you've got

[@theartoflife2837]

Ash bringer, she is a girl. She knows what she is talking about

[@MurdermiesteR]

The importance of self reflection, discipline, and self improvement can never be overstated. Never be happy with who you are. Be happy with who you are becoming.

[@xAlcoholicGamer]

its not being nice, its not being ambitious. "too nice" guys roll over in confrontations and just generally give up easily. Has nothing to do with bad boy - good boy.

[@awkirkness]

I hope guys looking for more confidence don't take this too seriously.. Pretty vague instructions on how to be fairly specific kind of dude. Human breeding doesn't really work quite like wolves and apes... there are more than two kinds of personality... Etc etc

[@imacg5]

But we work like fish!

[@rickyeldiablo800]

I always thought being reserved about your talents and passions made you seem a bit more mysterious and interesting. I don't mean not telling people what u do, but such as having one major passion that most know about (for example tennis) but when people get to know u it comes as a shock that u also have other interest (guitar or social games of volleyball)

[@JJmastah]

Buying popcorn is an important decision?

[@AliumMoAnn]

Valentin Constantine well do you wanna get hungry in the middle of a movie?

[@peromxip_7710]

I'm Caillou or just do intermittent fasting.

[@gravitygas3891]

Eat beforehand, save money.

[@TheMwowner1]

for a alpha male it is hahahahahaa

[@Honeythief212]

Valentin Constantine I mean 9$ is a waste for stale popcorn

[@brandonvirgin2799]

I’m slowly becoming an alpha! 💪🏻

[@blinkymontreal4629]

Obsessing over becoming an alpha male is the worst thing you can do.

[@Weirdomanification]

Beda mail looser

[@essencehd]

Not obsessing but caring about it

[@bajikimran2304]

Confidence in women is very important too. If she isn't confident, how can she possibly hold a good job and support you? I had a woman flirt with me one time in a laundromat. Red Flags went up instantly. How could a woman who could not afford a washer and dryer possibly support me? I got out of there quick. If a woman wants to get laid, she's going to have to have earning power.

[@andrewlewis-brown664]

This is golden! I love this

[@Felix-rc4wv]

This is only the case if you expect the women to support you. In most cases, the man supports the woman. I hope you were being sarcastic with the rest of your comment. Your comment is hilarious

[@pinkpriss]

What town was that in? I knew a girl who hated bars and was screamin' rich who would sometimes take a load of clothes to a laundromat just to meet guys.

[@bajikimran2304]

Sweetcheeks Babycakes It was in the quad cities area of California. Alta Coma, Alta Luna, El Tijo and Merchandise.

[@Felix-rc4wv]

Baji Kimran dude...is your comment serious???

[@LucianC137]

Buying popcorn is an alpha decision

[@hugomartins628]

According to science, beta male is actually the second in the hierarchy of the group, ranked higher than all the others except the alpha. Males in a chimpanzee group are divided in high, middle and low ranking. It's like in human society, but our status can increase or decrease depending on the inviroment. Trust me. I've read a lot of academic works about this. I'm not american, so in case of some grammar misteaks just let it go

[@ChiefPLUR]

i feel personally attacked

[@Laetwalk]

TNasty 😂😂😂

[@xCestLaVie1]

TNasty I'm dying lol so many triggered betas in this comment section 😂😂

[@DonCarlos590]

You feel personally attacked. Rofl. You're comment is hilarious. Were you speaking sarcastically?

[@ricardogonzalez-om4gn]

Reflexez thats what beta males do talk shit online and you are display that behavior so don't count self an alpha cause you are not

[@musardus]

I feel personally attacked by your comment

[@johannesb7013]

„Be confident“ Wow thanks

[@CloudyMedzzz]

"don't be a follower" I just realized my goal was to follow what the alpha does

[@nospoontobend2656]

You can't become a personality type...but you can becoming more educated, aware and create a better version of yourself

[@bkarnhem874]

I was what you call a beta male for so long, but since i began working out in the gym and started to see myself getting bigger, my confidence became sky high. Since then i wear what i want and say whats on my mind, because im confident doing so and if you are you should never be embarassed. Now i get so much attention from girls that its annoying. So basicly if you are like i was, you just have to start working out

[@classygirrafe7207]

MKG - COMMENTATOR Yeah dude confidence is key, and I guess working out also gave me confidence, and masculinity

[@conkersquirrel8872]

This video is quite good. What makes you alpha isn't really how many women you get, it's how much you believe in your own self-worth and happiness.

[@Dee-mo3oj]

most think they are alpha until its time to stand for yourself i learned so much growing up in the system not glorifying it but it made me the man i am today .

[@sethz5747]

i was a beta male. I ate teige hanley and now im an *alpha* male

[@attiumeyami417]

I was a beta male and now I am a fish

[@justing1810]

People say that money is the root of all evil. However, money is just a tool. Ive always thought that fear was the root of all evil. This fellow makes some good points about fear.

[@beat_master7766]

Do I have to feel bad now that I know that I'm a 100% Beta Male? Oh man science pisses me off

[@halox8800]

Beat_master77 No, you can stay that way

[@jps0117]

This isn't science. Relax.

[@NeymarJr-vg8mn]

Start hitting the gym

[@Misterloy]

After some years in my life I kind of act more like an alfa... People look at you more when you are confident... If you feel week and unatractive it is only in your mind.... I am still improving myself about it but I am very happy with the changes I have made.

[@bahaatamer1245]

I'm pretty new to actually approaching girls and asking them out, however today a friend of mine got so tempting and forced me to face my fears and eventually I approached 2 girls today! - was kinda happy about it to be fair! :)

[@joonwooly4011]

Why cheating with nature and why turning Beta to fake alpha Male? How it is possible to ignore that everyone has got a wonderful function with who they are! Beta Male can attract a lot of woman who is looking for an nice guy focused on emotions and able to listen to them. This is the great power of Beta Female and Male! As an Alpha Male, I recognize that we are not perfect! Even if we've got a lot self confident and we know how to concrete plans, we can be really rude when it's concerning emotions by our rational functions on communicating most of the time by logic or symbolic-archetypes... Don't turn yourself to pretend or to be someone else! But use who are to find somebody compatible with your nature and your values! Be yourself if you wanna love yourself and be loved for who you are!!! Cheating makes us sad... Happiness is when we get real and when we composed with what nature give us!

[@DoubIoons]

fucking beta

[@TheNachina]

watched this simply to check which one i was. never actually considered anything like this. glad to know im a total alpha even tho im skinny and around average height. then after watching this i can immediately recognize who among my friends are betas - not many. alphas dont surround themselves with betas. they surround themselves with other alphas. we want to be challenged. we want to be wrong sometimes as to improve ourselves. self doubt just doesnt exist. example: last night i was at a party, met a lovely girl. we spoke for a long time and after a while i straight up told her i liked her. we went on a date today and it didnt go all that great. im happy about everything that happened because whether or not it went great is of no consequence. i guess you can sum up any alpha HUMAN (men and women) in one simple phrase: its better to try and fail that not try at all.

[@ginayip23]

There are some good points in the video, but shame some of the comments show those points have been mis-understood. Strong assertive confident honest does not equal to aggressive and arrogant by any means.

[@Ashbringer36]

KZbin seem to produce some of the most ignorant commenters I've found

[@xagonent4942]

Based on ths video I am getting being a male on either spectrum is faulty. The main goal is to be an alpha and women have this super power to where they can see who you are. Women dont really have to do a thing in order to get a man because the alpha will get them. What I took away from this discouraging video is that being a 27 year old virgin really warrants suicide for my seeds of fear due to rejection. And that if I was born this alpha or a woman in fact I would have the golden ticket to life. Well ths is my last day on this rock. No more conflicting information about working on self, do this do that, following a guide to have a female consider me a good catch. Best of luck to anyone who follows this, hope your life turns better than mine was. -Alex

[@bryanhall7974]

Alex Armando Come on man, don't do that. Most of my life was absolute complete shit and I was certainly no "alpha." If you want it and work for it slowly, it'll be much richer and better than those who seem to get it early on. And you'd be surprised- Many of those don't do so well later in life. In the animal kingdom, "alphas" are killed first.

[@MrDutto]

for god sake man just pay for sex..its not hard

[@xagonent4942]

Mateus Fontenelle thank you and thank you all for the positive real comments. I took steps these past few days to help myself better. having clinical depression I have found antidepressants that work for me. so far so good. gym, hobbies, my own channel and work life improved. I may not have a girl right now but I will get where I need to be soon. thank you all once again from a man who finally sacked up. peace

[@bryanhall7974]

Alex Armando Good stuff bro. Keep seeking truth and success and you'll find it. God bless

[@xagonent4942]

Bryan Hall thanks man and will definitely do.

[@CheriLexvold]

Amazingly I'm a woman, but I derive a lot of benefit from teachings about alpha males. in this video in particular I like what you said about confidence. I can use that! !

[@uber-trooper4162]

I unknowingly became alpha after I broke up with my girlfriend. I reflected onto how I treated her and I just tried improving myself. A year later I have completely changed

[@Rushmanyyz]

Human don't have alpha/beta social structures. The stupid, it hurts...

[@justindavis2711]

Essentially, being alpha is simply being the "best" human being in the group. The most confident, the most socially intelligent, the most mentally stable. The person who is the most self-actualized is always going to be the Alpha.

[@pretzalshd2654]

Fear, I'mma almost 2 meter tall black guy. And I'm afraid of making others afraid of me by being an alpha

[@lwrapoza5150]

Oh, to late. I already took the red pill.

[@alpha.primus8258]

If you are handling your family well. Loving your wife and she does respect you and your kids looks up to you as their leader. Then you are an alpha.

[@Sodoiable]

This video is a complete joke. You say alpha male stands up for himself (popcorn example) Every sane person on earth knows that standing up for yourself is a must. What people do not know, however, is HOW to stand up for yourself. Instead of making a completely useless video and giving guidelines that are clear to everyone, you should make a video which actually explains HOW to act and WHAT to say in these conflict situations. But it is kinda clear you have no idea yourself. You just provide cliche bullet points of general ideas without explaining how to actually achieve those ideas. A 6 year old kid can google some general ideas ant make presentation like yours in a video. Please, try harder to provide content that is actually useful to people. :)

[@shakos4105]

Albert J so why don’t you make the video then, Mr. Smart?

[@luigisgl2639]

I think that If every males were nice too everybody in every situation, the earth would be a way better place to live in.

[@EnochStultz]

Just an add on that wasn't mentioned in the video. Women don't like loud, talkative men that never shut up. They prefer guys that are quiet, dark and brooding that only speak when something needs to be said. This is because women like men with an air of mystery about them. They don't want to know everything about you at once, they like peeling back the layers to slowly discover things about you on their own.

[@dominicm255]

lol pseudo scientific nonsense!!

[@paullambert8701]

If you feel or an inhibition holding you back from doing something you want to do, just ask yourself whether the worse possible outcome would be fatal. The answer is usually no, so you should go ahead and do it. Going up to a girl? If she tells you no, you will survive. You should be USED to rejection. It gets easier with practice, and then it doesn't happen so often.

[@cianmulvey5552]

Just do drugs lol, or drink. I always go into school drunk and everyone bows to me when I start singing ACDC, even the teachers are blushing to talk to me.

[@Amphanotes]

I don't think that's a good idea to advise people to do unless you are really really desperate to be an Alpha. Gl living a shorter life and experiencing your existence shamble as you get older WHOOPS

[@a.knight4962]

WOW, you had to be insanely intoxicated to have imagined that happening to you.

[@Machi74005]

When you are 51, ISTJ, TFL, with risk factors for Aspergers, hope is more lost than you can even imagine.

[@foxglovearts1129]

I am a girl what am I doing here?!?

[@GarveyToure]

ur different

[@icedlemongamer]

Lunacy Loveborne you're aboutta become a male fish

[@foxglovearts1129]

Nuuuuuu

[@MrSidney9]

Lunacy Loveborne Do you find any merit in what he's saying? I don't like the dichotomous, alpha-beta framework in which this issue is discussed in the video,but I do believe that there is and has been a successful push by feminist groups to pustify white boys/ men due to their absurd beliefs that masculinity is inherently toxic and at the root of all evil in the world. Nonetheless, it's not what most women want, they don't want an emasculated men (physically or psychologically)., Even the feminists, for the few who aren't lesbians anyway, prefer a manly man.

[@foxglovearts1129]

I see no importance to this Alpha-Beta society, it seems a bit like self-loathing and petty. I don't see masculinity as the "route of all evil" either. Its idiotic on both ends. I guess its because of my lack of understanding for both parties. But overall Masculinity isn't evil but it isn't necessary either, masculinity isn't toxic in itself but its how people display it and force it over other men or boys, telling them human emotions are bad and girly but stern faced people and iron mans "Alpha-ness" should be your only idols. On the other hand, feminism isn't on my best terms with how they portray Caucasian creatures that happen to be male. I honestly don't want to get in to such a touchy subject but all ill say is I don't agree with it either. Sorry if I went on a tangent or strayed from your question, I just don't get to talk about this a lot.

[@stephaniec6458]

Guys, relax and be yourself. This also applies to chicks. I've been an alpha female. It's a blessing and a curse at times. Power and confidence is key. Who cares what anyone thinks.

[@Felix-rc4wv]

Great video. It's unfortunate when betas can't handle the truth and dislike this video because of the truth. That's just beta behavior. If you feel like crap for being a beta and this video has shown it...then you should be thankful because this video has unveiled a source of your life problem. Why only like videos that lie to make you feel better? smh

[@somegirl8410]

betas are always triggered and claim alphas dont exist lol

[@ThePhantomLion]

Instructions unclear, I became exposed to gamma radiation and became the Hulk.

[@alfonlee7040]

Rather than going off from a video that tells you to become someone else. How about just improve yourself into becoming your OWN alpha male. Accept yourself then become YOUR own way of being a man.

[@ANIMEBEAST27]

I already do all of these things

[@ellashe6489]

ANIMEBEAST27 I guess your fucked

[@laudinoselepe4385]

How ironic. Nice guy telling me how to be alpha

[@s.scringe6924]

Lmao

[@megacancer7231]

He certainly didn't ask you to.

[@Weirdomanification]

Stop baing so beda

[@CommonTateW]

My only problem is that I am too nice I am trying to fix that now.

[@bassiejazz]

Eli E These videos are very well done and entertaining. My only question about the Alpha/beta discussion is ... who comes up with the theories and details of alpha and beta characteristics?If it’s alpha males who came up with the rules does it really fit in with their busy ‘get things done’ kind of lifestyle?Are alpha males social theorists or aren’t they more likely to be movers and shakers, leaders, titans of industry etc?Most people would say the latter traits apply to typical alphas.Or are these people who determine alpha or beta qualities actually beta males?They might be, but it would go against the argument of betas being lazy, passive men who would prefer to complain instead of accomplishing things.Personally if I had to choose, I would say that this alpha/beta theory is created by beta males, or higher functioning beta males because they tend to be more thoughtful, insightful and introspective than the hustle and bustle alpha.Making hard and fast distinctions between men and their personality traits and then categorizing them according to letters of the Greek alphabet ignores the nuances of human behaviour and personality that make people individual and unique. So if a man gets upset because he believes that too many characteristics of a beta male apply to him, he should step back and think that maybe, just maybe, these ‘rules’ were created by other men who fit the beta stereotype and are a way of throwing mud at other versions of themselves who they’d rather demean than actually help.Just a thought, but I would welcome feedback: even trolls are welcome :-D

[@nodcarillol.6550]

I just wanna be beta till i hit 50, wish to have cancer and will sure do anything to Provide for my Family.

[@jacobhawkinsmusic]

Im alpha when i wanna be, beta when im too tired to put up with shit

[@christianmendozatapia295]

Just be yourself, then try to be a better version of yourself.

[@BAMBIPLUS]

dear everyone it’s ok to be a beta male

[@antoniosoto5768]

I been an alpha since I was 15

[@schen2024]

I am an alpha asian, but feel like I became a beta since I got in US;) I really need to workout, y'all really got some big muscles.

[@williamfitzpatrick4020]

Reference to alpha's in the animal kingdom is an outdated reference that was denounced by its own creator. However since this video is pointed at helping insecure males find confidence, I feel the video still achieves its goal

[@Ashbringer36]

The thing is you're reffering to alpha wolves denouncement, the thing is alpha's do exist in wolves in captivity, and believe it or not human society is closer to captive wolves then wild wolves. It's still an overly simplistic view but it's not THAT out of the wild

[@williamfitzpatrick4020]

I am certain that any peer reviewed journal standing behind the statements you have made, is a spectacular read. I implore you to share it with me. Otherwise, making 'factual' statements that cannot be backed up with more than anecdotal evidence is a sophomoric mistake

[@lionkingmatiouz3441]

Thx for this interesting and pertinent vid. What you said here is so true. A lot of guys surely will remember some of this different aspects to be an alpha.

[@buster117]

I swear trying to become an alpha is harder that bank robbery

[@samnair1152]

The key to being top dawg is in your mind.

[@jg3000]

Now that your more coinfident and feeling more dominate. You'll have to fight Brock Lessnar for dominance. Good luck winning alpha.

[@danexus1]

To me I think that a mix is the best. I don't want someone who's all alpha

[@lordgortash]

Win the lottery and you go from zeta to alpha in 5 seconds

[@izunahosaki6133]

i feel like he's talking about girls like if they were aliens.

[@alexisverpakovskis6804]

The thing that sets the Alpha Male apart from the rest is actually... competence. NOT "confidence". Real confidence is a merely a side effect of success: it's neither a personality trait nor a quality in and of itself - but a condition derived from having proven, over and over, that the instrumental traits you carry are more than fit for the task at hand, i.e. good-looking = good genes = sexually attractive. And having had an vast abundance of willing partners with A-grade aesthetics from the age of 16 to 20, one is likely to KNOW FOR SURE that he is attractive, hence "confidence" - you know what's in demand and you know dam well that you HAVE IT. Now let's juxtapose this with what people think "confidence" is: think back to upcoming heavyweight "prospect" Kubrat Pulev and his absolute fiasco against Wladimir Klitschko back in November 2014: he went in with chest-puff arrogance, talked no end of shit, tried to get personally offensive with the champion... and ultimately got exposed for the physically weak, overweight, slow, technically inferior, completely void of talent NOTHING that he really is - and he's still that same zero today - although just as arrogant for the press and public. In many ways, it's like an aesthetically inferior man trying to put on an act of feigned dominance in order to confuse women into thinking that his high standards and expectations come from him being "high value" - when in reality, what is of high genetic value is pretty much clear to the naked eye, and it's ALL ABOUT LOOKS: aesthetic + athletic = alpha by definition, and from that point on you're free to act any way you want: your genetic value will STILL be your genetic value, no matter if you choose to be civil or overtly disdainful of others and painfully narcissistic. Know what I mean? The thoughts and schemes that go on inside the mind are not "you", and that false notion, the "personality", is certainly not you. The carbon-based molecular body is YOU, and it's outer appearance is the Alpha and Omega of who you are to the rest of the world - and how you will ultimately be received. So, as a man, WHATEVER you're doing to become "more attractive to women" is in fact completely useless. The TWO things you can do that WILL have an effect are: 1. plastic surgery that will hopefully result in perfect facial characteristics; 2. hormonal supplementation with anabolic steroids that will make you not only muscular, but unnaturally lean as well. And it costs BIG MONEY because it DOES WORK. But it works because it affects the OBJECTIVE perception of OBJECTIVE MATTER by OBJECTIVELY improving its ACTUAL QUANTIFIABLE DIMENSIONS and even at that: it's a mere mirage of reality, although one that is designer-sculpted, and doesn't fall into line with the evolutionary imperative of "passing on the best genes". However, inasmuch as we, as a civilized species, can choose to have sex for fun while curtailing unwanted and unnecessary childbirth, it IS VERY MUCH the thing to do. Just keep it a secret what you've done - lest you want your desired partner to murder you in your sleep.

[@eduardomacias901]

Victoria Justice CLICKBAITED HARD

[@johnbennett9030]

I seem to be %50 Alpha and %50 Beta. I'm going to change that. Thanks for the helpful video!

[@JokerScribe]

So I can speak like a prepubescent kid and be an alpha. All modern day alphas are displaying compensation. I couldn't give a fuck what I am.

[@allantaylor1047]

Great summary! Nice job!

[@jreschke5]

This should have been explained to me about 15 years ago

[@victorcardenas5666]

When I do something that's unlike me, I cringe so fucking hard afterwards.

[@johnmellor932]

Alpha's are rarer than people think. The vast majority of Alpha's are indeed aggressive betas. That's why so many fall into thst trap. The easiest way to spot a fake alpha from a real one is how much you find them annoying. My advice by the way to any young person who identifies as beta is to say, you are beta because that's were you have been placed by your peers. The first step to shedding your beta existence is to dump all your friends who ARE responsible for it. No matter what you do your friends will never accept you any other way. You need to adopt MGTOW before you can develop alpha traits. Go forth and form new social circles with people who do not harbour the same prejudices as the social group you grew up with do.

[@mehdizeddouk]

damn DAMN I was that alpha but over time fapping got me slowly in the beta however after watching this video I realized that I've started to make some steps toward alpha

[@jeffostby1384]

I don’t feel like an alpha. Feel I have years of niceness, and now that I am older, how the hell do I change? So much to do.

[@MixedMartialOtaku]

Hmm, impressive. You even covered the aggressive Beta, I like that. You sir, get my Omega seal of approval. 8/10 I docked points off only because you kept leaning toward the opposite sex's control over you while Alpha, as a need instead of a want. 2 That fucking fish.

[@whotz6951]

My cat watched this, he is now a lion

[@onejoehill]

Well the problem with comments in this section is that its mostly Beta Males that watch this video. The nice guys probably wont write a comment because they think their opinions dont matter. Which leaves the aggresive Beta Males writing most of the comments. I however find this fascinating because at various times in my life I have been the Alpha yet at other times I have been the Beta. I call them different chapters in my life. However, I had never equated it to being an Alpha or Beta male. I was much happier being a Alpha male. Then I got hiv, that kinda made me fall into a dark dark place. So my question would be are there things that could happen that would throw any Alpha down to the Betas and would never allow him to be an Alpha again?

[@othmantayach9449]

nice video I really learn so much

[@skywin592]

i am the ALPHAAA

[@Cruelaid]

1. treat all people with respect 2. don’t give a fk what people think 3. Big heart - Back yourself 4. Always be humble

[@SecretDefect]

NOICE

[@t0jota]

I wouldn't say respect is the solution. Treat who deserves respect with respect, and treat others with common decency.

[@hezekiahibin5965]

Now that's a real man not know Alpha shit!!!!

[@eskaban_edits_beats_and_more]

always be humple is exactly the opposite of alpha

[@514Exc]

Wow i felt like you knew me personally.

[@ChickenWings103]

Stop worrying about being the Alpha, Beta, or whatever the fuck. If you go along with this mentality you'll constantly be judging yourself against labels and the expectations they carry. They exist - sure - but fuck the labels. Focus on developing yourself, _for_ yourself, and the rest comes naturally. If you want confidence, work for it; *INVEST in yourself.* That's all there is to it. The more you push your own limits and discipline yourself (Exercise, read philosophy, Journal...), the more self-trust you develop in your own abilities, which equates to confidence. Exercise, meditation, and cold showers are the best for strengthening your self-discipline. Fuck cold showers - but that's the point; victory over yourself is power. After three years of having cold showers I still don't look forward to them, or working-out, but the command I have over myself seeps into all other areas of my life; my body language, communication, decision-making, and so on. Grab a pen and write; really consider your goals and make a plan. All that matters is your ability to lead yourself, which is only harnessed through self-reflection (which is why I recommend philosophy) and owning the discipline and self-control to follow your own plan. Every personal achievement will make you stronger and more confident in yourself. Men need purpose, which we primarily get from building things. Make it your purpose to build your own kingdom, every day, *for yourself.* The rest will follow in time. - If your focus is girls, change that focus. Women want a man who owns himself. This is what worked for me. Good vid nonetheless.

[@TWFDeadzoneII]

ChickenWings103 you're exactly right. We shouldn't care about what other's think. achievement should be done for the self.

[@randomrealistictone2231]

That's what I'm currently doing now.

[@abeaman9648]

ChickenWings103 That was the most alpha comment I've ever seen.

[@JokerScribe]

It is kinda like a psyop to make males thick as shit...all loud mouthed, unthinking, zombies that want to constantly prove themselves. I don't give a fuck about how I seem to dumbasses and nobody else should either.

[@Fettclone1]

Absolutely on point. The irony of all of the "alpha" advice is that even seeking those guidelines is weak. Just be the best version of yourself and try to be better than yesterday/last week.

[@josht6018]

...Or just say fuck it, and become an omega male

[@daimao7392]

October Sky Or a phi male!

[@santiagodaceprano3917]

boy!! this comments are gold😂

[@danextrinsic0174]

omega refers to "last", while alpha refers to "first". so you mean to say go and be a loser instead? uh... LOL

[@ByzantineCapitalManagement]

Be an emo kid

[@almasih4150]

I am the Alpha and Omega!!!

[@fmj_556]

I was an alpha then I got married.

[@dilz2012]

Worrying that married man is watching these videos.

[@shyamshrestha9368]

🤣🤣

[@bahaatamer1245]

@@dilz2012 that I must agree on! 🤣

[@mrfaysal2485]

@@carljohnson4128 in my class alot of girls look at me get close to me try to sit next to me i believe I'm alpha

[@conkersquirrel8872]

🤣😂 Dude! You kill me.😂🤣😂

[@CaptnKrksNippls]

Stop drawing the fucking fish.

[@shecoduran]

he uses. the same few sprites over and over and over again :)

[@dirkam47]

cheaper that way , yuck

[@Assimilator702]

Saturite He's drawing a beta fish.

[@BRBallin1]

Yes, I eat da fish.

[@pswitch9553]

The fish is running a beta version of macOS High Sierra. So it's a beta fish/Mac thing.

[@michaelcdarby]

I'm the alpha of the betas

[@gamingkenny7084]

Same bro..

[@purejokes3951]

Facts bro, all you’ve gotta do is be an aggressive man & stand with confidence.

[@jordanraney581]

69th like

[@godspeed7986]

Pure Jokes so all I gotta do is be an asshole? Sounds legit

[@essencehd]

Step up then

[@503NastyNate]

Im the type of guy to walk into my girlfriend cheating on me and say, " Oh sorry, I came at the wrong time."

[@newtguy]

I would of joined in. The other person she's cheating on you with is another girl right?

[@daoallegro1360]

is it just me or was that a hilarious choice of words...sounds kinda weird.

[@BariumCobaltNitrog3n]

newtguy *I would've...not would of. They sound the same but what you are actually hearing is would've, a contraction of would have. Don't shoot, just trying to spread some knowledge. Cheers.

[@insaynt9924]

That's just, lacking common sense.

[@rhyness1969]

Tf?

[@bamfowski]

That moment when your neither alpha, or beta, and just weird af.

[@DABADAVISUAL]

lolololololol

[@KaneJankeTwo]

You're an Omega :)

[@AbusiveFilms]

So do you get laid often? and why would you be afraid

[@panosa2502]

Then you are a beta. There is no omega or anything (an omega basically is a beta who cannot accept his position as a beta but who can't confront alphas either thus avoids getting tangled with them). There is only alpha and beta, it is just that the alpha-to-beta is a continuum and is defined by social relations. I.e. if you put a 100 typical betas on an island, these will re-order and 10-15 of them will stand out as alphas. If you put a 100 top-alpha-dogs on an island the bottom 80 of them will start showing typical beta behaviour (... and those who refuse, will die fast and painfully, LOL!).

[@Maluhia808]

me im just me

[@oii647]

just be confident bro

[@YasinTheDuke]

I'm not handsome. :(

[@gabrielguzman6018]

Yasin Kılıç doesn't matter women will find you sexy

[@imnotevensupposedtobeheretoday]

wow thanks my anxiety and depression is cured

[@vree_]

wow forgot its actually that easy, suddenly Im good looking, smart and achieved anything meaningful in life :O

[@excus]

not too confident

[@nagato2046]

My cat listened this this and now he's a lion. welp.

[@ME-xh5zq]

Manhandle the lion, you beta.

[@stratoskakalis1580]

M E lmao

[@chatmod1595]

well after watching this good video ive come to the conclusion suicide is the way to go ! thanks !

[@Rebius]

me too

[@sonnyj2k]

Group suicide on skype? It'll set it up.

[@ememmasorong9657]

Suicide is not an option.

[@DogDamour]

mcpartridgeboy what about living for yourself and not thinking about women all the time?

[@screws2loose834]

lol exactlu what im thinkinh anout

[@killersquir1]

I watched this, expecting it to be bullcrap. But it turned out decent. Just too much emphasis on not being nice. Aggressiveness will get you shut down faster than niceness. Assertiveness is the balance.

[@stockloc]

David Hoyle I find overly aggressive guys to be very similar to overly complacent guys. Very insecure.

[@basilioskostantinoskomneno5913]

What's even worse are the girls who are full of shit and videos such as these seem to suggest it is always the man's responsibility. I agree with self-improvement but I think the notion of accountability in this context ought to be reassessed in some respects.

[@MrSun0007]

You know your stuff david

[@EllieManda]

yeah, mee too..but it helped:))

[@thebarf9235]

This post gets 135 likes but is completely wrong about what the video said. SMH.

[@MegaTroySmith]

Sign #1: you're watching this video.

[@danabeatriceestabillo4658]

@Ewan Jones Shit dad? Some dads just prefer their sons to grow up as respectful young men, who don't have the idea that either gender is superior to the other. They don't want their children to believe in that "aLpHa" shit. My dad taught me that there are no alphas in life, and even if there was, you didn't have to have certain traits to be considered an alpha, you find it in yourself to be an alpha. You don't lead anyone because everyone else leads their own lives.

[@augustaverbian]

How to be alpha : 1. Deal with your fears 2. Being okay in the conflict 3. Get over self-Inhebitle(?) 4. Be assertive 5. Do not be a follower

[@user-jq1ie7iy6s]

Augusta Verbian how can u be alpha with that profile pic

[@flam8924]

@@user-jq1ie7iy6s look at your you sound like a 7 year old kid trying to act like and alpha Male._.

[@user-jq1ie7iy6s]

Retro girl just cuz u have the same gay profile pic ur trying to come at me

[@flam8924]

@@user-jq1ie7iy6s how does my profile pic look gay ._. Bruh use common sense

[@void3819]

@@flam8924wow i didnt know that, So 7 year old know how to be an alpha huh?

[@Ben-ox5vs]

"How to animorph into an orange fish every ten seconds"

[@nuclearnonsense2274]

It really deters me from finishing the video

[@imacg5]

Or fishing it?

[@anthonyjs8048]

hahahahaha

[@Zamedlolz]

Ben 10 what a coincedense... because animo and Ben

[@Zamedlolz]

+Zamed2995 lolz no one cares

[@merrittpalmer4349]

Step 1: NoFap

[@arthur0023]

Well Id sure as hell rather stay a beta

[@armannixkhan]

Lmao don't even think of banging girls now

[@ferrisclark3324]

NoFap is all fun and games until you get her in your bed and you're done in 30 seconds.

[@pabloazor3520]

M m no no

[@megacancer7231]

@@ferrisclark3324 fapping does the exact opposite though