How To Build An Emotional Connection With A Woman! FROM COURTING TO DATING!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

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[@bulldawg986]

I wonder if your husband used these methods to put that ring on your finger?

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[@andrelouisy3459]

I fell in love your video

[@ToeKneenumber1]

Apollonia Ponti do you have an audio book in iTunes

[@brianmontgomery4595]

What if a woman finds no connection and puts u in the friendzone

[@Moraud5386]

Boys, we have to protect Apollonia at ANY cost! Her videos are GOLD!

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Emotional connections aren’t built overnight - they’re crafted by consistently showing up, being present, and sharing real thoughts and feelings.*

[@bigdogmack8692]

You give better advice then most therapist give. You make a person feel comfortable. This has helped me a lot and I thank you from the heart.

[@spirosdoukakis7215]

The best relationship that someone can have is with him/herself and secondarily with the others.

[@josephwhigham3490]

Yes true because God created us to be relational with other's. I'm working on that I just don't want to talk to anyone and I don't want to live my life lonely I want a wife and kids also friends. I get shy around people. But you forgot one relationship that matters out of all of them. . . The best relationship is with God. How can you become the man and women that God wants you to be if your not in a intimacy relationship with God . If you don't have that relationship the rest are useless because that's not going to save you from Hell.

[@spirosdoukakis7215]

@@josephwhigham3490 Well, I have stopped believing in Heaven or Hell and in God too. I used to believe but this belief drove me crazy and I turned my back on it.

[@josephwhigham3490]

@@spirosdoukakis7215 I'm praying for you

[@spirosdoukakis7215]

@@josephwhigham3490 Thank you!!!

[@absolutelyfookinnobody2843]

Ugh. No. The best thing to do is put everyone first and never do anything for yourself

[@brianbradleyfilms]

I’m late to the party but this advice is so useful! This explains why so many of my relationships have only been 2-4 months. I’m learning more here than I’m learning for the books I’m reading

[@DukeSaragono]

Your so good at what you do Apollonia, it's like you know me more than me. I gave up chasing women because I'm so bad at it and my self esteem gets crushed, it not a good feeling so I said forget that I just be single for the rest of my life. But watching your vids is giving me purpose again to keep going. Love your Vids Apollonia thanks

[@mosesm8176]

Thank you so much Aplonia Ponti.. to understand better woman..( mom, sis, wife, daughter or girlfriend...who ever) how they feel about us..and the way we treat and the way to respect. Now increased lot of respect and responsibility.Stay safe n healthy 💐

[@mikemartin1434]

Your a true caring human!! Theres a lot of brothers out there that you are helping so much

[@tubedeuce29]

You videos are gold. Your like an Oracle

[@dejayz0166]

I'm from New Zealand..living in Australia.. and I've been an avid but silent listening student for only a few weeks.. But I'm very confident in your advice

[@johndanielgarcia4780]

I'm very glad I found your videos. I'm a great guy and can do really good I just needed help improving myself. Thank you

[@LHommeDeParfum]

Always so to the point and insightful. I really appreciate your experience that is palpable in all your videos. Plus, humbly eloquent and professional. Thanks Appolonia !

[@MephiasLisenga]

Very good information about knowing women.Great staff.

[@MichaelSmith-bs1hd]

This was recorded 2 years ago but praise the Lord may God bless you and I hope you succeed in every way

[@5000000000250]

If all women are like you, so clever, there was no wars in the world, nothing bad, only paradise. Thank you for opening people eyes and making this world better place.

[@demetriussaulsberry3714]

Girrrrllll! You are worth your weight in gold! Such cool info! Thanks so much! So helpful to get in a woman’s head.

[@James67851]

It’s like giving someone a small portion of their favorite desert. Makes them crave for more. If you give them all they can eat of it at one time they get tired of it quickly and throw most of it away. That’s Human nature. Give her yourself in small portions to keep her craving for more.

[@jaspergabriels8933]

that's why i fcuk it up

[@obi-wankenobi8462]

I know what else really builds attraction-lies about lots of money!! It’s the only thing that ever works.

[@windward2818]

Appollonia not sure if you read your comments? But please comment if you do. I think that men should know that an emotional connection is more than verbal questions to build rapport and understand who she is as a person. If both man and woman are self-aware (emotionally mature) and they are attracted to one another, then in conversation they are essentially seducing each other. You're communicating verbally and nonverbally to impress upon each other that there is a special attraction and that you understand and feel a closeness. Some call it chemistry. The thing that men need to know is that you have to expose emotionally who you are to have her do the same. This is all nonverbal, you are using your natural charisma, you are projecting yourself. You are signalling to the woman, I really like you, I want to get to know you, your special to me. An example. After the woman responds to a question, take a long pause and look into her eyes, and give a sweet smirk of a smile and see what she does. If she smiles back then you are enjoying each others company. The exchange of smiles is much stronger than anything you could have said verbally. It will not be long before she touches you, if does you can reciprocate. This is when the verbal conversation slows down. You understand that together you are content, verbal conversation can be fun and playful, or you can hold each other without saying a word. You are making an emotional connection. An emotional connection should not be viewed as a stepping stone to sex. It is in itself a way to enjoy the company of a women, find out about each other on an emotional level and basically to have fun. Once the relationship reaches a point of mutual trust, then sex is a possibility. Be aware that to do the above sincerely is not a skill most men have. Why, most men are not self-aware, that is, recognize and understand their emotions, have a positive self-image and accept themselves for who they are. Once you are self-aware, you are now in a position to recognize and understand emotions in others (empathy). Most problems with relationships (and marriage) are that people are not yet mature enough to understand their roles and what is healthy behavior.

[@sujay750]

This is gold

[@larsseiffert7941]

BEST VIDEO on the subject!! But sadly 3 days too late for me :/ Had a date where attraction went from 100 % to nearly 0% . Keeping your advice for next time. THANKS!!

[@TheBishop12]

Hey man good outlook. In the life of constant ups and downs nothing is ever a complete waste ! I guess I can also insert the quote: ‘what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger’ here

[@obi-wankenobi8462]

She just wanted free dinner, that’s why “attraction” disappeared at the end...

[@jamesmarchetti3286]

I am close to 200 hours over the last 12 minutes of educational psychological male / female videos !!!

[@gunnarmcfalls3642]

I've watched your content over the last 2 years. You are so insightful and helpful. I'm looking forward to getting your help soon. I plan on purchasing your service withing the next 3-4 months. Just busy with new career atm. When things settle down, I'll have more time to focus on it.

[@Melinasabani]

I am in Greece.i am Greek American.my name Christos.you are fantastic.i am learning from you a lot.God bless you.

[@14kurtismiller]

How are the women where you are sir? Are any of them hardened by past experiences as some of us Americans maybe?

[@moisesbeyond]

dont ask a fish how to catch a fish women say one thing and behave opposite..

[@moisesbeyond]

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[@brianh1969]

Hey Apollonia, Enjoy your videos, and especially when you talk about "actual relationship" advice vs just dating. I appreciate your vulnerable and authentic advice vs the "hyped or dating" tricks put out by others. Your advice has been truly helpful. Keep up the good work. Thanks, -B

[@scarr6200]

Such a happy and genuine, lovely woman! I enjoy your videos when i come across them. I hope you and yours stay safe in these troubling times with this virus going around! Keep up the good vibes!

[@honeybear8485]

Thank you sweetie I must say my forties then it's a little embarrassing to admit but listening to you speak it was very uplifting powerful and encouraging and intuitive I definitely look back and see now a lot of the mistakes I was making on trying to court women and build emotional and physical attraction. I sure wish I had access to this information years ago but I guess it's better late to never then I guess it's still look pretty good for 50 lol ty it's actually coming in handy real time thank you. Look look forward to hearing and watching more of your videos be safe out there.

[@slightly_m3ntal]

Appolonia, you are a great coach, passionate and really break dating down for us men. Thanks

[@MywalkPOV]

Can you do a video on courtship during a pandemic and everyone is home haha

[@geraldfournier7323]

Wonderful presentation, you’re my favoured coach, you bring out the proper in adulthood!

[@michaelkihara1563]

Hello Apollonia. You are sweet in helping & teaching men. I love your way of teaching . Thanks so much

[@ovidallen857]

Hi Apollona , been following your videos. You're very enlightening... I thoroughly appreciate this one. Thank you !

[@tglofm1]

Tom : When do you ask what she wants, a Friendship or a Relationship. If there is no chemistry you will never make it beyond a Friendship.

[@vamsiganta3502]

The best from Apolonia

[@thehealthbodyfitness]

Wow This Video is Really Much Powerful You Broke it Down So Good Thank You For This 🙏❤️♥️

[@davidormes3420]

Hi, love your videos! Thanks for the information you're putting out there!

[@dedrickpatterson9]

Great Video Appolonia.. I'm going thru this exact scenario courting a female right now.. Its flowing just as you are describing!! Thanks!!

[@thenoble39]

thanks. that's helpful. I personally don't have the patience to really listen to a woman. this really helps

[@angelsantiago1430]

Such a beautiful and humble lady. And great information. Hello apollonia

[@timswinnen6681]

Yeah, you've got a new fan. 🔝

[@J_David_Worthington_III]

Great video Apollonia! Thanks for sharing it!

[@mauriziobarrasso3341]

I been watching you videos for awhile your incredible coach and I find most of things you talk about I used on with a woman I am with from friend to dating her i find your videos alot of success

[@sergeikamenev473]

Apollonia, thank you from Siberia, Russia!

[@MephiasLisenga]

I am watching from South Africa.

[@williamserrano8206]

it's deep your teaching is awesome

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much William!

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Brian Watching from trinidad and tobago

[@henrytorresvlogs]

Boriqua 🇵🇷 ❤️😍😘 thanks for the videos you have no idea how much this can help someone after a break up after a long term relationship.

[@yashkhangura]

Hi Appollonia, it's really the best video of yours

[@chille6769]

I think men need to first see if a woman is attracted to them. Then do the following 1. Build foundation of trust and respect •treat her like a gentleman •do what you say you will (be a man of your word) • Set boundaries, dont tolerate disrespect. Don't be afraid to replace her. 2. Show her you appreciate her • say thank you when she does things for you • surprise her in some way • take her on a date weekly 3. Build an emotional connection •Listen to her, show interest in what she does, and support her when needed. •engage her in stimulating conversation and make her laugh. Your main focus in conversation should always be on the woman, and the main focus of a focus on the woman should be on her strong emotional topics - childhood, dreams, past relationships, goals and aspirations, things that are currently exciting her or frustrating her in life right now. The reason why this is is because sharing strong emotional topics is what makes someone feel deeply bonded and connected to another person. If your aim is to get a woman feeling connected to you at a rapid clip, this is ultimately how you do it. •tell her how you feel about her and how much you enjoy spending time with her. 4. Establish touch •hold hands •hug when you see her •caress and massage her body •look at her passionately (strong eye contact Apollonia.. any feedback you have would be appreciated.

[@chrisghost100]

Chill E you got this pretty right, friend. Excellent summary of the basics. Imagine if most men understood this.

[@rameshmahadeo1700]

How do i get a woman to like me and go on a date? I talk to women, i get cell numbers but i don't get the date.

[@issaccaballero3929]

Ramesh Mahadeo be yourself and be the best version of yourself! Be confident and have fun with her!

[@MegaAmazingc]

@@rameshmahadeo1700 If ur not building an emotional connection with the women u got numbers . Then u more likely won't get a date. Some women give a number to a man out of courtesy and the fear of that's the only way to make a man stop asking for their #. I say be the person u r with all or any good friends u have. If the woman likes u for that truely person u r inside. Then ur good but if she doesn't then keep moving on. Never let a woman keep u from being who ur enjoy being with urself and ur friends. Cuz in the end even if u get the woman to go on a date with u. If ur not truely enjoying urself then she's not worth ur time.

[@emaambition9378]

Ramesh Mahadeo I don’t know how old you are. Dress like your age. Wen you talk to her be cool. Don’t be nice for her to like you. If you do that. You lose her already. Talk to her the way she talk to you. Treat her the way she treats you. Most of all listen to your heart. The more you are careless. The more she wants you.

[@sh-vg4tn]

You are really good, you helped me alot! Thanks

[@paulophilip7948]

Great content Apollina, luv you much gal😛

[@djalfredstein1049]

Apollonia, amazing video..This hits home with me. Thank you!!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

You're welcome, Andrew.

[@abrahanmora9306]

always the point of view of a woman are the best couches, thanks

[@texranger1012]

I just met Lindsay a few months ago but it feels like I knew her spiritually, we both agreed to take it slow with being friends first but a little did I know she told me was abused by her real dad as a little girl what should I do to help her?

[@Dweeb-Ball]

Very good I learned a lot.. u broke down the process I needed with women

[@wileyprice9844]

Wiley from lake worth fl glad to be here

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Hi Wiley, thank you for being here!

[@jeffreymunn3518]

This was very informative thank you love

[@gigglezgoham]

I have no problem attracting women. My family is moderately women and everywhere I go I can surround myself by women but as far as getting them to ask me out is troublesome and I don’t know why

[@francisstocktilliii2452]

I am horrible at the pace of courtship to shine a light from the mystery, emotional connection. She is a 10 overall and is 28.

[@jhonjohnjonjondoe5011]

being a mystery is very easy i can sum it up in a few words. be vague when you answer her questions so you can allow her to use her imagination and after you answer her question flip it on her. Also for the mystery part is to not let her know how you feel about her but show interest. showing interest is asking her out getting her number and showing up on dates. Emotional connection can be easier then how she said it but what she said can and does work. However in doing what she said can be done easier. Knowing how she grew up and how whatever she loves to do make her feel when you ask her how does these things make her feel she will enguage her emotions and good feelings. Also another important thing this girl didn't mention is always end a date on a high note like when everything is going good and not when it is in a lull and died down. The reason you do this is she starts to wonder why and wants more but you don't tell her why and this will make her think about you a lot in a positive light and whenever something else happens to her that makes her feel those feelings again she will associate it with you. This makes her think about you more and often a lot and not being available and not showing her or telling her how you feel will make her anxiety go crazy this is how you make women to fall for you.

[@DarrinFerrante]

Thank you! Great information and presented perfectly.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@DarrinFerrante]

@@ApolloniaPonti I think you are doing a great service and genuine nature shines through. 🤗

[@enanlouise8528]

Hi Apollonia, how do you get an emotional connection with a woman? You are so right, I am that kind of guy who lacks the experience of talking with women. Shy and lacking confidence! 😢

[@plasmopix]

Begin talking to more people every day. Then focus on only women, then narrow it down to the type of woman you want to date until you feel confortable. By then she either wants you or you already want another woman and she will be chasing you. You're welcome.

[@jasonalexander1373]

Thanks this was very helpful

[@bearssaymeow7186]

Idk why, but I always here "you're nice and cool and everything, but I didn't feel a connection." But then when I try to turn it up a little they tell me that "you need to take it slower and not come off to strong." Needless to say idk wtf woman want. I'm an awesome guy, but why am I "not their type" or "they didn't feel a connection"? This is what confuses me because I feel a connection.

[@obedankomah7904]

Watching from Ghana

[@braedenduncan1052]

Got so much value from this, thank you Apollonia!!

[@geoffreytambulukani6951]

Love your work. Really helps me. From Zambia

[@KCdurt]

@15:15 so, basically like cats. They roll over, want a little belly rub, but if you don't stop on your own, they get over-stimulated and rip you to shreds.

[@robertambrosini5172]

the best advice ever on finding love with women

[@francisstocktilliii2452]

Thank you for your live video

[@christophethierry2429]

Hey I'm from Mauritius 🇲🇺

[@Jeannettemillan63]

Hi from New York

[@brohurd357]

Where's the link to this 20 question? Also my situation is different and difficult bc I'm Muslim and was introduced to a woman for basis of marriage but I we talk often but she's in another country and I haven't met her bc of the covid travel restrictions. If we're both interested how to keep a flame and interest in someone you haven't met or in a long distance thing basically also not to waste time🤔🤦🏿‍♂️

[@danielsantana540]

Apollonia Your such a very beautiful woman .your.boyfriend /husband is a very blessed man

[@tresfielder3148]

Daniel Santana a quick aside and totally random. Did you ever notice the AWA logo looks like Bruno vs. Spiros (WWWF mainstays)?

[@danielsantana540]

@@tresfielder3148 yeah

[@giftedwords7541]

Hey, I love all your videos

[@johnnywayman7226]

Hey I'm from Salt Lake City, Utah

[@josephgarcia1161]

It's not a game it's a dance! They deserve to be attracted to a valuable you as you deserve to determine if she is valuable.

[@londonstackhouse4145]

Great video 👍

[@mattmonteith2175]

I love your coaching . I really appreciate it. I started to chat and date this girl on messenger and now we chat on hangouts. We are so excited to meet up. I chat with her around December 2021 to now. How do know if she is a real person not a scammer or a catfish. We talk all the time. She so beautiful and a doctor in school. I have a deep feeling. We have talked about having a family. I understand u correctly on this topic. I will say dating this way is easier for me. So please help me to know if you tell if there real or not.

[@plasmopix]

Did you find out that she really catfished you?

[@karl8222]

if only there were women that could be real like Apollonia, then things would work

[@kevinmoriarty6642]

Hi from New Jersey.

[@gogez33]

Love it🤙🏻

[@fatmeowrizzler]

PREDICTABILITY IS THE ENEMY OF ATTRACTION, get it!

[@Michael.P247]

@Apollonia Ponti.... looking good, keep it up :-)

[@1stplacemorethanamazing185]

You are a godsend

[@stevebernard1197]

Hi Steve from ri. I.need help

[@KingoftheJuice18]

Great video! Very helpful (p.s. it's *recipROcating*)....Thank you.

[@jamesmarchetti3286]

I am still trying to past 3 female friends in the past 12 months telling me that friends don't date !!!

[@kyrareneeLOA]

This is attraction and communication. It really is not about what emotion intimacy is and what is really means to be emotionally open. Predictability is a trait, not emotional connection. Study what emotional intimacy and being emotional vulnerable really means.

[@johnnysand6676]

Idaho here hello

[@1stplacemorethanamazing185]

Hello..I have a question....the info you give is it universal....what i mean is I'm a black man and the woman that has my full attention..is hispanic..but..i made all the mistakes you mentioned and got friend zoned...i saw and i am watching all your post...you are truly a God send.....my question is is there much differences..when trying to attract a woman of a different culture? ....you are a God send beloved...and if you ever have any seminars in dallas or houston please let me know I will be in the front row...

[@clarancebradley6109]

She is just giving examples you can go along those lines but be authentic be original put your own twist on it.

[@mustaphamhaoud8547]

Hi Apollonia . I like your accent ,

[@HHHPedigrees]

Why is modern dating so complicated. It used to be if a guy found a girl attractive he should ask her on a date. Why is there so many silly things that go into dating now? Attraction hasn’t changed since the beginning of mankind. Why are there so many rules??? Dating should be natural not some sort of thing you need to learn.

[@edwenretutal5831]

From Honolulu, Hawaii

[@GregoryCampbellSwag]

Guys my ex posts an Instagram photo RIGHT AFTER her ex before me posts a photo on his account every time. She broke up with him but still cries about him because she misses him. He never likes her posts on IG either. Why is she doing this? It’s literally within 30 minutes of him posting she will post something right after every time

[@jaspergabriels8933]

this is something i really struggle with and also why i can't keep the women because mostly it's just for the good sex and we have commonalities but it's like i don't know how to connect emotionally with her and arouse her mentally and emotionally

[@francisstocktilliii2452]

Hello, I am from Orange, VA. I just moved here. Nice town.

[@bigdogmack8692]

That gemini energy comes through in every video you produce. The Ponti brand is REAL AND IT WORKS

[@keithritchie5090]

As always gd advise 👌

[@malachilove18]

You always have something good

[@outlawstarr5209]

Hi Apollonia:-> Happy Hump Day. I can't believe missed your live KZbin video. I will check it out.

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Hi Apolonia from central america Belize.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Hi Ali, Shout out to "Belize". I really appreciate your support! Best, Apollonia