People call me names. They push me towards the edge of my sanity. If I fall, I lose myself forever. I feel so angry. Just a second away from destroying someone. I feel this bursting flame. Like a bomb. Inside my chest. I clench my fists. I am controlling myself. I feel so powerful at that time that I can sink my fingers in someone's chest and tear their ribcage apart. My eyes widen. I feel this rage! I feel so energetic! Full of adrenaline! I can do anything! I can kill. But I don't. I spare them and say "Allah will deal with you"
@shahstar23064 жыл бұрын
Excellent
@shahstar23064 жыл бұрын
Excellent
@nastehamahad74734 жыл бұрын
Mashallah
@farhatali31544 жыл бұрын
Mashaalla you said the right words. May Allah SWT guide you through your life to follow the right path Am3
@commanndo14 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@SD-MA3 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah Aisha r.a.’s example here helped me understand why and how my tears dried up! May Allah keep us guided and safe - Aameen!
@aishaba14 жыл бұрын
Brother Nouman, May Allah reward you infinitely. I am forever learning sabr. May Allah help me and accept my genuine eagerness to please HIM. 😔 and I love you so much💓
@RJ-uq6py4 жыл бұрын
Say "Auzu Billahi minash shaitan ir rajeem" 10x when angry. First, sit if standing. Lie down if sitting.
@utubebeena4 жыл бұрын
Very helpful. I have most of times fallen victim to false accusations simply because people just hear one side of story and never clarify from the other side. Never check with me... I had endured until recently I had an outburst. As a result of the outburst, I was feeling bad because now they all said the typical line of "what kind of practicing Muslim are you, your salah, your Qur'an, what use are they if you can outburst, feel bad and angry". People think when you are observing Islam, you just let them step on your head, continuing hurting them without expecting any response. This is what they understand by patience. They forget that practicing Muslims are also humans with emotions and feelings. After years of tolerating, they will reach a boiling point. I felt that too, angry, sad and broken... to the extent that I felt I have failed in the eyes of Allah by having the outburst...😥 Thanks to my study of Islam, I was not consumed by my guilt, I knew its OK to feel angry as long as I watch my tongue and not cut off ties with people. This action is sabr. And after listening to this speech I'm rest assured about it.
@farhatali31544 жыл бұрын
I like the way he explains every thing. May Allah SWT give him more knowledge and help us to understand what he teaches and apply in our lifetime Ameen
@tekahmaholmes37103 жыл бұрын
Ma sha allāh! Alhamdulilah! Istagfirullāh! Ameen!
@bareen12544 жыл бұрын
Pray for me I'm a bad person I need Allah's help
@Minecraft-ng5ss3 жыл бұрын
same bro I can't control but in sh allah eventually I be better same to you
@muskansiddikee21713 жыл бұрын
The fact that you feel guilty and have the knowledge of your own State is a gift from Allah. Allah is making you and me realise it we are amongst the lucky ones who at least have the knowledge that they are being misguided or wrong many of them don't even feel❤️❤️❤️ the guilt of the disconnection. May Allah help us all in our personal situations.
@20239041014 жыл бұрын
Alhamdullilah for this Nouman.
@RJ-uq6py4 жыл бұрын
Assalam alaikum wa Rahmatullah wa barakatuhu. Say "Auzu Billahi minash shaitan ir rajeem" 10x when angry. First, sit if standing. Lie down if sitting.
@SHORTIMAANBOOSTERS4 жыл бұрын
Jazak Allah Khayr
@UmarFaarooq3 жыл бұрын
Pray for our brothers and sisters in #Kashmir🙏
@naseemkad4 жыл бұрын
Good lecture but very difficult to concentrate with the background music. No need for that humming sound.
@firdawsibunismailajammeh654 жыл бұрын
Thoughtful video. May Allah SWT bless you for it. Ameen
@SHORTIMAANBOOSTERS4 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@islamicjournal2844 жыл бұрын
just a fabulous example and explanation,Mashaallah!!
@gul.12 Жыл бұрын
Thank u.Without music,it is more clear.😣with music is very distracting.
@naziamehmood86754 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for that. 💕loved the explanation. Behaviour, feelings and thoughts are very controllable. The Modern day neuroscience NLP and hypnosis is in line with the Quran and help us tap into the power Allah has given us in the incredible gift of our mind
@كهعيص-ظ5ص4 жыл бұрын
Jazakallahu Khair
@AhmedHussein-de3dx3 жыл бұрын
jazzakumallah khayr akhi
@charleshurstreinvention39592 жыл бұрын
All cultures share anger. And none should. Becoming angry when needed is normal. But as I tell my own subscribers--staying in that state is not. Suffering from chronic anger causes a few problems. First it impedes your progress. By draining your energy that you should be using to advance yourself. Ever been angry all day at work then skipped that night workout? That's probably why. But it also isn't physically healthy and can lead to long term effects on the heart and doctors now think future cancer as well. Not to mention high blood pressure. There are two simple methods I tell my own people how to control anger. One you have with you--your breathing. You can breathe in a meditative state while walking down the street. You picture a coil slowly unwinding as if you were breathing through your stomach. Slow and in and out. Wind the coil and let it go slowly. It calms you down and if you do it every few hours for maybe ten reps then it keeps you calm. Second--reflect on what you are growing angry about. Is it really going to affect you even four months from now? You'll find many times it won't. So I would use these techniques to minimize anger so you can only progress forward. Hope that helps someone out there---Charles
@youllmakeit4 жыл бұрын
JazakAllah Khair
@pyrijansheikh70934 жыл бұрын
SubhanAllah
@ummaazrim22112 жыл бұрын
These days people start behaving so cheap when we stay honest they start lying again and again and in end they push to our last limits they do cheap tricks to revenge and hurt but as soon as we say something abusive they catch it and taunt us anger can cause no one good in end those who hurt will regret
@tauseefbakkar61022 жыл бұрын
Very Insightful
@aminathsiara26133 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah this man makes my day Thank you
@4551rose3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this ❤️
@utubebeena4 жыл бұрын
Is there a link for this whole lecture/speech? I would like to listen from beginning to end. Jzkk.
@sabihaaltaf67424 жыл бұрын
Do I need control!!! I try , try but always loose it
@RJ-uq6py4 жыл бұрын
Say "Auzu Billahi minash shaitan ir rajeem" 10x when angry. First, sit if standing. Lie down if sitting.
@faanouman20834 жыл бұрын
Keep try & do lots of astaghfirullah & you will see the different Inshaallah
@trishlumagsao83532 жыл бұрын
Allah heal and forgive me.....
@sekoudiarra87503 жыл бұрын
How can I control it? What’s the point of being in the world if people will always hurt me inside
@syazwanitmt3509 Жыл бұрын
Can anyone share the full version of this lecture if you know? Thank you. Jzkk
@UmerKhan-ou5dd4 жыл бұрын
Allahu Akbar..
@aasyatabassum90064 жыл бұрын
Subahanallah
@sistersembellishments9492 жыл бұрын
Salam Alaykum Waramotullahi Wabarakatu, Thanks so much for sharing and imparting knowledge on us. May Allah SWT bless you and others propagating our beautiful Deen Islam positively way. Jazakallahu Khairan. May Allah SWT bless you and family in this world and next.
@shaistaafzal33964 жыл бұрын
That's so true
@Dahar123 Жыл бұрын
5:36
@Bushrahere062 жыл бұрын
Full lecture link plz
@mohammedwaheeduddinafsar948210 ай бұрын
Assalam walekum dekhiae Noman Sahab mujhko dene wala to Allah hai aur main Allah ke Siva kisi se nahin manta cal vah de raha hai uska shukriya kar raha hun 💞 Sare Insaniyat ko aur Sare Makhan ko jameen aur Aasman mein jitne bhi chij Allah ki saat chamak ke niche tak ginti SAR to Aasman mein bhi jitni Mal ko Lucknow ka unki hajat Puri karne wala sab Allah sahi mangte hain aur vah sab kuchh Mera masala hai aap bhi unse mango ansh ka Malik hai Sare Alam Allah Hu Akbar sallallahu alaihi wasallam
@mdimranakhtar20114 жыл бұрын
Can anyone help me with background music "hmm hmm hm hmmm" Plzz i need to make similar video plzz help me
@catatonic83134 жыл бұрын
music name : darude sandstorm
@crashban4t.f.s.b7832 жыл бұрын
The Incredible Hulk part is hilarious.
@Minecraft-ng5ss3 жыл бұрын
ya akhi NO ONE SHOULD BE TOLERATED FROM OUR ACTS OF HARAM EVERYONE SHOULD CHANGE WE ONLY WILL HAVE HEART DISEASES AND MENTAL PROBLEMS FROM HARAM WAL A3YADHOO BILAH
@essakhan7664 жыл бұрын
Salam brothers ... Is there a second part of this video ??
@zerio54404 жыл бұрын
The title said how to control your tongue and calm down when angry but where in this video was that mentioned?
@jayjayjannat-81334 жыл бұрын
In the first bit
@RJ-uq6py4 жыл бұрын
Say "Auzu Billahi minash shaitan ir rajeem" 10x when angry. First, sit if standing. Lie down if sitting.
@jonmcintire90672 жыл бұрын
Its a big book of anger😀😀😈
@Abbottabad164 жыл бұрын
JazakaAllah Khair for the video but PLEASE STOP putting music in the background. It's very annoying. Like bees in the background.
@TheJacko88874 жыл бұрын
Amna Rasheed i think thats a human voice i mean acapella and not music
@Abbottabad164 жыл бұрын
@@TheJacko8887 You are right. By music I did not mean drums or guitar. A capella is also a form of music without instruments. All I wanted to say was that the lecture in itself is powerful enough. No need to put music ( with or without) instruments in it.
@AyeshaNargund-eg9ie Жыл бұрын
I m pregnant tomrrr ws bakrieid my 4 mouth started all ready and still my husband and his family r not allowing me to eat the meat bcoz I m pregnant and I m more tempted to the meat😢😢😢 I don't no I feel very sad and angry bcoz there going to enjoy the eid and I have to eat dal rice and they're not even allowing me to eat biryani bcoz it have masla and it is dangerous for baby I carried in my namaz and I feeled better I don't no this is small things bt I feel more emotional for small small things my allha gave me sabr
@saimaahmed46124 жыл бұрын
I m very very sad and very very angry.
@diycuristicart54024 жыл бұрын
Sorry u haven't mentioned those 10 verses neither the name of surah
@ateqahh37654 жыл бұрын
Surah Noor
@diycuristicart54024 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the details
@adhikrhusna9602 жыл бұрын
2: 256. *There is no compulsion in the ‘True way of life’. The Right Way has been cleared from the wrong way, then anyone who rejects with the Thagooth and believes with Lord Allah, verily he has grasped the strongest Rope that never breaks; and Allah is the All-Hearing, All-Knowing.* It is told in verses 10: 99-100: “If your Lord had so wished, everyone on earth would have believed all of them together! Are you forcing mankind to become believers? It is not apt to any soul to believe unless, with Lord’s Permission, He places blight upon those who are not utilizing their intelligence”. Adhikr is the Unbreakable Rope extended from Paradise to earth, so whoever holdfasts It, he did holdfast Lord, and is guided into the Straightpath as told in verses 3: 101-102. It is told in verse 31: 22: “Whoever submits his face to Lord Allah while he is testifying the Best Book Adhikr, then he has grasped the Unbreakable Rope, and to Allah returns whole matters”. Whoever prefers Adhikr, It will guide him to Lord’s House Paradise, and whoever neglects It, It will push them into Satan’s House Hell. Lord taught through His Messenger the explanation of verse 4: 118 “In every thousand, nine hundred and ninety-nine will go to Hell and the remaining one will go to Paradise. This ratio is well-known, specific and fixed”. Thagooth (the arrogant satanic forces): It includes one’s whim, selfishness, partiality, racism, nationalism, communalism, sexual partiality, and all such different footsteps of Satan. See explanation 2: 185-186 and 10: 108. *From Adhikr-the Best Interpretation of Lord's Book* www.straightpathonline.com
@tf.f4tima_ Жыл бұрын
The narrator still didn't tell how to control your anger. Istg I rlly need to learn how to manage my anger cuz when I'm angry I say/do so many things that makes me regret later; especially when someone yells at me. When a teacher yells at me, I yell at her back and later I feel guilty. I'm in dire need of anger management advice
@Oneisonekon4 жыл бұрын
Would have been better if there was no annoying humming. Very irritating and takes people away from listening to the message.
@cjewe1z2 жыл бұрын
There is no 'how to'. This is just a story.
@Sadrtv4 жыл бұрын
@sadr.tv
@noor14-53 жыл бұрын
He said its ok to be angry instead to of telling ways to control your tongue in anger. What a waste
@canadianvisitor92734 жыл бұрын
Music extremely distracting and disturbing. I stoped watching. And, disliked.
@AbdulRehman-rb1yt Жыл бұрын
May Allah guide you and us to straight path Ammeen