Summary guy here! 1. Do some self reflection. 2. Have a perspective and stand firm. 3. Stand up for yourself. 4. Be assertive, but not aggressive. 5. Set and achieve goals. 6. Carry yourself with strong body language. 7. Be open minded. 8. Stand on your word. 9. Add value to other people’s lives. 10. Treat other people with respect. 11. Eliminate bad people.
@eduardo2943 жыл бұрын
Thank you man
@anyakanaman22053 жыл бұрын
thanks!
@colinesquire24803 жыл бұрын
Good list
@theblackdr.phillip93303 жыл бұрын
Thanks G
@youngslime96922 жыл бұрын
Thanks man God Bless Screen shot it🙏🏽❤
@ronaldgaylord45442 жыл бұрын
Right on brother. I recently had to tell my daughter not to come to my home because of disrespct. It was hard but it had to be done.
@JosephFarrier-c8q7 ай бұрын
Is she back?
@JosephFarrier-c8q7 ай бұрын
I say forgive I went back to my mom's alott there's spirits involved just let go live don't give excess
@off-the-record66133 жыл бұрын
In my opinion, You don’t ask or buy respect, you earn it, and all starts how you present and act to society.
@sammyb5283 жыл бұрын
As someone who doesn’t think people respect him, this is effin’ perfect. Salute Jeff!!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Sam!
@Shawntraci3 жыл бұрын
Agreed! One thing I've always done is to be mindful of others, but never compromise myself to please others. When I have to speak with someone about their disrespectful behavior and it doesn't change they find out real quickly how good my cut-off game is. Great points in this video good Sir! Keep giving us that top notch content...
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Wise words!
@Larry-qz3es3 жыл бұрын
One of the best admirations for gaining respect, from the 48 Laws of Power is "Always say less than necessary" The more you talk, brag, complain, and boast regarding in the face of others, they will have a great disdain about you. Hence it is best to say less, be humble, and be assertive.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@chamboyette8532 жыл бұрын
The Style O.G.s videos are my favorite of all other videos of others like this I have seen. Love his stuff about red flags where he says one or two are OK and to not seek perfection since you aren't perfect is great. I like the stuff on this video as well. I think my only possible issue if IF this video is only directed towards men which I find a bit sexist. It should apply to women as well and women should be held to the same standard. For example, he is right that you shouldn't expect a person to give you things and you not willing to give. Men and women used to be taught that. So many women today lack that for example.
@brentbarnes47153 жыл бұрын
Aggressiveness and Assertiveness have a very thin line between them...Especially for African American men! SALUTE!!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@jessieb.simple67703 жыл бұрын
Brother Jeff. You're absolutely right. There are some people you have teach how to talk to you and ultimately respect you. Some of them dont realize it and others do. I had to pull aside a few people. Those that dismissed my concerns are no longer in my circle.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Very wise!
@FatherAndTeacherTV3 жыл бұрын
I respect this video on respect. Thanks Style OG!
@brownpunk17943 жыл бұрын
Respect is earned and not given..its that simple💪
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Indeed!
@sergeake24083 жыл бұрын
Spot on! Huge thanks for this great video which commands more RESPECT.🎖
@breadnbutter22182 жыл бұрын
Big respect to Jeff👊🏾
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Respect!
@TerryCarter2 жыл бұрын
As always, awesome content! Thank you for sharing these things!
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@spectre5x53 жыл бұрын
I agree with you that respect is a must! Great run down Jeff!
@Jebro4393 жыл бұрын
All of these are great and easy things to do. Thanks for the video. Salute
@kirkveesaert95953 жыл бұрын
Yes ! A man who doesn't go his own way is nothing , been told many times by others maybe in the day of the pioneer you could do that , but "today" you gotta play ball fella. Neat video !
@silverstar42892 жыл бұрын
Good points. I had a meeting with a minority group on a particular policy I had with my organization. A community member who didn’t like the policy attended. The group didn’t know that person, and were taken aback by the questions and comments made. After explaining was getting nowhere, I advised, this was my policy and I am not changing it. I left when my business concluded. Later, after the meeting I got a call, and was told I gained a lot of respect with the group, when I said I was not changing my policy. The group didn’t have a position on the issue, just wanted to learn more. ******** you just helped me write my upcoming speech giving my bio. Thank you.
@tarrySubstance3 жыл бұрын
You are completely correct. Especially having short term and long term goals are very important to achieve and people do notice.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Yup!
@dameonr.dennis54122 жыл бұрын
This was absolutely invaluable information Style O.G. and you saved me a counseling session please bill me, for this treasure. I am most grateful for the reassurance, and the practical tips on how to command respect.
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@petermapp59883 жыл бұрын
I focus on each of these videos....jot down..implement.Its been a year this month.Some instances the pace of change is evolutionary and in other instances its revolutionary. l love the reaction i get from friends and moreso strangers.But self improvment is like studying for a degree....have to work at it EVERY DAY.Love this channel...akin to the dad i never had...keep up the good work.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Kind words indeed!
@anthonyjacksonjr48122 жыл бұрын
Always give and demand respect. Thanks.
@savvylifestrategies94453 жыл бұрын
Excellent video, Jeff. I've also found being highly knowledgeable in a specific field garners respect, even from those outside the field. Salute!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Lou!
@Czechbound2 жыл бұрын
This is very good. I'd add There is persuasion and perception. You may be meek by persuasion, but you can work at being perceived as more confident that by nature you feel.
@vusimashinini9072 жыл бұрын
You've summed it nicely. Thanks O.G
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
No problem!
@dariushubbard5279 Жыл бұрын
Good info. Most appreciated indeed!!👍
@middlechamber35742 жыл бұрын
Yes sir...I Stand on my Square everyday, ALL the time!!!
@CloudyFX2 жыл бұрын
I get a lot of respect from my friends. I dont wanna brag but I think im the most respected of my friend group. One think i think that help is: 1. Not always taking credit. A example is: when you came up with a idee to give someone a gift don't tell that person it was your idee. If other people tell that person it was your idee they respect you more and probably think you do this more often. 2. Give them advice in live or difficult situations. 3. Do not always tell them what you up to but tell them what you did. A example: don't tell everyone you just started investing is for example stocks or crypto. Tell them after you made some money and how you did it. Give them advice if they ask for it if you know what you talking about. Its okay to say i just started i still have to learn a lot myself 4. Be yourself and have a unique style for example. I like to wear mech from artist i like. 5. Work on yourself (like doing meditation or work out) and share the benefits with others. don't brag about this just tell them what you did and how it made you feel. Don't force them to do it or make them belief your better because you doing these things to improve yourself. 6. Even tho they respect you NEVER tell or try to make them belief your perfect. Let them see or know you flaws. Accept the help they offer you to fix this or try to listen to the advice they give you. 8. Don't lie about things you not doing or tell them about fake goals your never gonna reach. 9. Don't be a know it all. Don't command every time someone is doing something work. For example: if your painting a house with your friends don't command them on there skills. If you really want to command on them first ask why thy do it that way and after that show them how you do it and tell them the benefits of doing it that way I also like to tell them where I learned doing it that way. 10. last but definitely not least. NEVER CHEAT IN A RELATIONSHIP. I my opinion you will lose all the respect you eared or got and have to start over if a big minus. If you wanna recover from this you have to work really really hard on your self. I you do this for a second time after its done. A lot of people or at least I will never respect you no more.
@scm242 жыл бұрын
Yes sir, respect is a two-way street....leave those, even "friends" or family, who can't/don't respect you.....life is too short.....
@cliftonsledge9623 жыл бұрын
Great advice, people need to understand respect isn’t free like the air we breathe, it has to be earned. Salute O.G.
@mngkyouGoD3 жыл бұрын
💯 agree
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Clifton!
@rodneyparkssr.54833 жыл бұрын
Agreed accountability is so important
@ceeze99232 жыл бұрын
This Brotha right here is da truuuf. I've been watching this channel for two years......SALUTE
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@ceeze99232 жыл бұрын
@@TheStyleOG HAND SALUTE🫡🇺🇸
@demondjones75363 жыл бұрын
Ive been a politician all my life when meeting people. I've long time felt I should sell myself but I've also learned how too not OVERSELL vs. selling myself short. This is just a follow up for others but for me it's been the cornerstone of my personality for a long time easily. Mainly because my family indoctrinated core values and principles within me from a youngster. Now I'm 38 and I'm noticing a lot of us BLACK MEN are lacking morals and principles. To me those guys are behind the spectrum because without principles, morales and values NO SELF RESPECTING PERSON WILL RESPECT THEM AT ALL. Good video brother. It's well needed for most of us and I'm about to put some RESPECT on your Subscription button💯💪🏾
@fabailey29292 жыл бұрын
Great post OG!
@Kieso9043 жыл бұрын
This is real OG talk! I need the youngins to understand these principles because their lost. I do wish you would’ve added how your tone of voice and how you talk garners respect ✊🏾 #salute
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@dredrob2 жыл бұрын
This guy is like having that “Cool Uncle” On Demand. Many of my uncles are gone. I have a great dad, but uncles have a great way to impress wisdom as well. I wish I could talk to them, they are in Heaven now. However, I’m glad Style O.G. is here so I can download some good advice.
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Happy to help!
@MrShinobi7973 жыл бұрын
Great content as usual Jeff ... #RESPECT 👌🏽
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it!
@bagramfacilities3 жыл бұрын
Another hit O.G. Salute!!!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute June!
@a.medina43383 жыл бұрын
Words of wisdom for the inward man! Thanks bro
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!!
@michaelbullock80113 жыл бұрын
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You too!
@michaelbullock80113 жыл бұрын
You welcome keep up the good work and thank you very much
@seanlove643 жыл бұрын
Major gems were dropped!!! SALUTE!!!!!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Sean!
@prestonmcleod17262 жыл бұрын
Great tutorial as usual, especially when it comes to respect. I was always taught respect is earned, not giving.
@1koolkat13 жыл бұрын
Tru dat! Once again, thanks for droppin’ that fiya 🔥
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Any time!
@dholmesjr3 жыл бұрын
Great video . I like the phrase under promise and over deliver... That's a great standard to have. I agree with having standards, boundaries, and morals... That shows leadership qualities that people will respect. Thanks again Jeff. Salute.
@WiderWorldDiscovery3 жыл бұрын
On point style O. G. Great Shot.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@carljhardy793 жыл бұрын
I can't say enough about the knowledge you drop. I appreciate you Uncle Jeff. #Salute
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Carl!
@skinfanjay3 жыл бұрын
💯
@gunzelloharris33483 жыл бұрын
Thnx Bro !!! Keep'em coming!!! ;)
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Will do!
@MillyMill873 жыл бұрын
This is GOLD 🔥🔥🙏🏼🙏🏼💪🏼💪🏼
@ashtreylil13 жыл бұрын
Finally answered my comment from way back! Salute OG
@jmorgan08293 жыл бұрын
Looking good bro!!. Luv u 12 ways of command!! Respect is definitely a deal breaker 💯
@clesser873 жыл бұрын
Great advice Jeff thanks 😁
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Any time!
@blues1j9112 жыл бұрын
Great Video OG - hope the new generation is watching this . Nice job sir
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@howardhodge36223 жыл бұрын
OG, this is a list we can all agree with! Thanks. 👍
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Howard!
@lennonmoore28473 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you Jeff 🙏! Content is always relevant.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Lennon!
@cashmerefunk21363 жыл бұрын
what's up big brotha great information and great advice I will stick to all of them I will stay on my Square👊
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
My guy!
@williamjones62763 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👍! 📣GREAT VIDEO! I'm in a program where military veterans are paired as Mentors to young men in the 18-24 age group. In the conversations we have with them the topic that gets them to really open up is the conversation about respect. Some think it's having the nicest automobile or the latest shoes or technology. We tell them that those things don't amount to people respecting you and that they should strive to command respect not based on what they drive, the clothes on their back or the type cellphone you talk/text on. Respect is much like a good reputation: It can take you years to obtain it and only a few moments to lose it. Some of our young Black males have been sadly tricked into believing that respect is something that can be purchased and if they don't have this or that, they cannot be respected. It's our job as men who are truly about something to not just tell them but to SHOW THEM that commanding respect from others is an "inside job" meaning they have to respect themselves BEFORE anyone else will respect them.
@chad.williamson2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video.
@GREATBLACKSHARK3 жыл бұрын
*@TheStyleOG:* Well spoken good brother.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@jr1profesor3 жыл бұрын
This is solid info!! I enjoyed this video.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@Super-c00n3 жыл бұрын
Salute to the Style O.G., thanks for another good video with some great advice.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
No problem!
@glenngray68593 жыл бұрын
What up my bro Og, Great teaching video my G, I look forward to hearing these type of videos. Salute my friend.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Glenn!
@cashmerefunk21363 жыл бұрын
What's up brotha how you doing long time how was your Thanksgiving with your family. i hope everybody ok.
@glenngray68593 жыл бұрын
@@cashmerefunk2136 Am good and the family is great. I hope all is well with you.
@paulevers35383 жыл бұрын
Now THIS was a much needed video! Thank you so much Jeff for making these videos! Much respect to you my brother!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Much respect!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
ease up on the spam my guy..
@paulevers35383 жыл бұрын
@@TheStyleOG thank you
@skinfanjay3 жыл бұрын
💯
@Lionheart12763 жыл бұрын
Greetings to O. G... This is one of my favourite video which address the word respect.. Many people don't know how to show respect.. 💪🏾 🙏🏾 💯
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
💯
@haroldmurff67323 жыл бұрын
Uncle O.G. keep it coming.. loving it...REAL TALK....
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Harold!
@deondeon87603 жыл бұрын
I don't know how you do it fam but you touch up on the bases that are needed💪🏿💪🏿 Keep em coming "THUMBS UP"🥊🔔
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Will do!
@angrywill92603 жыл бұрын
JtSOG! Good Stuff my Brother.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@allanclaridge62793 жыл бұрын
I can agree with you
@hughhudson51022 жыл бұрын
Great stuff
@Retr0Dedsec2453 жыл бұрын
Great advice 👍🏾👌🏾👏🏾😀
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@ernestcarter70733 жыл бұрын
Great break down on commanding respect.. salute bro 👊💪
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Ernest!
@ernestcarter70733 жыл бұрын
@@TheStyleOG thanks. Keep up the great work!
@jaybrown92523 жыл бұрын
Style OG Jeff thank you for your platform we need more men like you looking out for our brothers with postive advise, I see so many women and even celebrities make comments on looking out for there on gender and US men need the same foundation. SALUTE✊🏽 YOU BROTHER MUCH RESPECT .
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Jay!
@skinfanjay3 жыл бұрын
AWESOME. Bro. Jeff. OG
@genehughes78743 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@pierregeorge90503 жыл бұрын
Style OG, Great advice in this video. I’m a firm believer in treating people the way I like to be treated. Respect doesn’t happen overnight it’s earned. Salute to you Jeff
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Pierre!
@jreid6413 жыл бұрын
Really great video, Jeff.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Many thanks!
@ronniemiller3493 жыл бұрын
Thanks for keeping it 100% on respect I only hope disrespectful people watch this video!🙏👊🏽
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
💯
@ernestcarter70733 жыл бұрын
Yeah disrespectful people need to see this video!
@skinfanjay3 жыл бұрын
💯
@Pierretv3713 жыл бұрын
Where do you get your suits at
@AJisfly3 жыл бұрын
This vid is all facts. Definitely things I have to keep in mind when I'm dealing with my staff. Salute O.G.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@skeyzz13 жыл бұрын
This is all facts!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
appreciate the feedback!
@jamesmurray28763 жыл бұрын
Real talk OG salute
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute James!
@mborges21333 жыл бұрын
Morning OG!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Morning!
@JTCoinRings3 жыл бұрын
Excellent video
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much!
@cuthbertwchance90453 жыл бұрын
TRUE, VERY TRUE Jeff HOOYAH
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@mikemike31603 жыл бұрын
I hear that standing on my square, having that moral compass. 👍👍
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Yup!
@marcusa.fromthebay75142 жыл бұрын
Whatever your faith, let others see you live it more than they see you judge others by it. If complimented on doing that well, assure whomever gives the compliment that you are trying and they have in them to do even better than yourself.
@csee5183 жыл бұрын
Style OG that video was on point like a mosquito needle
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Ha!
@kenneth78263 жыл бұрын
Excellent video..i will give you an A+....peace and SALUTE!!!!!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@imjustsayin29313 жыл бұрын
As always brother you are exactly on point but let me just say this I don't require everyone to respect me you don't even have to respect me but what you will not do is disrespect me and that's for sure be blessed bro keep up the good work
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
I understand!
@patriceesela50003 жыл бұрын
Remember fellas, strong body language and not strong body odor that commands respect 😁...another great video, Big Bro
@BoostedPastime3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@jasonwilson86713 жыл бұрын
Greetings O.G
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Greetings!
@uncleal80613 жыл бұрын
Respectfully respecting this video and the content and the presenter . PEACE AND BLESSINGS OG.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Peace Al!
@Eddybo223 жыл бұрын
Respect! #Salute #PositiveVibes
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Respect
@asbhm20243 жыл бұрын
Amazing video
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@brentbarnes47153 жыл бұрын
Aggressiveness and Assertiveness have a very thin line between them...Especially for African American men!
@shawnmontgomery1633 жыл бұрын
Great video Jeff. Do you have an email? I have a few follow up questions.
@Richie-uy6io3 жыл бұрын
Being open minded is definitely an important one.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Yup!
@michaelxthunder3 жыл бұрын
Hey Jeff I’m new to the channel, 16 years old here. On my journey to build my manhood. Quick question: Does kindness attract women romantically? I hear a lot of the time that girls only like “bad boys.”
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
kindness yes, niceness no, there is a difference. check my archives for a video called don't be nice, be kind
@acollins92773 жыл бұрын
Right!👍🏾
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@curtislane99423 жыл бұрын
How do you get your shirt collar to stay so perfect