How to Date a Nigerian Man

[@cubbybear8322]

As an african,this is 💯 accurate

[@MsYooToob]

So don’t. Got it 😂

[@mikasjewels5772]

They're for the streets.

[@ItsKells]

ACCURATE 👏🏾 also, they know how to play the role of “Prince charming” very well so don’t lose your head thinking you found the perfect one in the first couple weeks of meeting them… they know exactly what they’re doing to sweep you off your feet. You still need to be on your toes and keep grounded.

[@bosespeaks111]

I’m Nigerian and would almost never date a Nigerian

[@tracywalker244]

Wow 😮

[@guiomargomez952]

OMG, VERY USEFUL!. Just before I go on this date with a Nigerian, will play this video on my way...😮

[@sendinglove5040]

Whoa you are spot on! I agree with everything you said. I am black American and have a few friends who are of different African ethnicities and Caribbean ethnicities… spot on.

[@am-harris7458]

Run Forrest RUN! 🏃🏾‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏾‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏾‍♀️‍➡️

[@nkechiesan5207]

I’m a nigerian lady and this is 💯

[@TheeDeniseRose]

Is it just me or does this sound like it’s too much work?

[@MissHamilton2988]

It is

[@ItsKells]

All men are work. You “pick your poison” upfront or blindsided 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@TheeDeniseRose]

@@ItsKells Or you could just stop dealing with men altogether. That’s an option. No “poison” at all. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@sweetxjc]

@@TheeDeniseRosenot all women want to stay single and prefer a partnership so the hard work is worth it to them

[@Doctor.Dentista]

Idk if it’s Yoruba in particular, but my estranged husband and his family and the church expect women to be high earners. Men are not expected to be sole providers. But I got an Americanized slightly feminine Nigerian 😂 asks me and his family for money all the time! Just yesterday he was dry begging and he moved out over a year ago! Why is he estranged? because I caught him on Instagram telling a girl he was no longer married…oldest boy only boy….three sisters. No wonder he’s so feminine and spoiled. Anwar you hit so points pertaining to my spouse! TRICKY THEY ARE

[@seunshopeju_]

This is NOT a Nigerian thing. Your estranged husband was just poorly raised.

[@aeiou0123]

It is not Yoruba related. What you got is a man who cannot try that nonsense with a Nigerian girl so he went outside the culture. No Nigerian father wwill watch his daughter go into the hands of a useless man. Naija girls r raised as princesses and their parents expect them to marry well.

[@Empressivegoals]

You should also know that there are different tribes, so they'll not all act the same. It is the Igbos that are provider's, not so much the Yorubas.

[@crystalmason4523]

I heard the complete opposite! 😲

[@aeiou0123]

Providing has nothing to do with tribe. Dont come here and say things you dont understand. I have yoruba and igbo men in my fmaily. Every single one of them is a provider. Will it be correct to also say Igbo men r more likely to be domestically abusive? How come Igbo men t more likely to force their wives into nursing jobs and collect their checks? Be careful what you say cos u dont know these cultures. Generally our men provide in Nigeria, okay? But some of them come here and change.

[@livelife32]

DISAGREE. As a Nigerian-American woman, this sounds like most men. There’s nothing unique about these patterns that I haven't also seen in American Black men.

[@viviiku2327]

I'm not sure how to feel about this video @DatingCoachAnwar. I'm a Nigerian woman, married for almost 2 decades to a God fearing kind Yoruba/Nigerian man here in California. I must have hit the jackpot but I also happen to know many guys just like my husband. This feels too general but I don't want to trash it all. There are still good elements of information you shared here that all folks in the dating pool should have in mind while dating in general.

[@aeiou0123]

Its because you are a naija babe. The mentality of many naija men is to go and rubbish/use non naija women as playground, then they marry a good naija girl once they are done playing around. Even my cousins day these amongst themselves. My cousin in college now is currently dating all kinds from Lebanese to AA to whyte girls but he has his eyes on a particular naija girl for marriage. But he is not really pursuing this particular naija girl now though he talks to her like a friend

[@daisylavender5275]

Dating comes with way too many rules, do's and don't's. HARD PASS 😂

[@thatsso_imani]

Does this apply to Ghanaian men too?

[@QueenOfNY10]

You are right

[@danilove8127]

so what if you don't hear from him over the weekend and you ask him what part of London he lives. He responds the next day but doesn't answer that part of your message comes across as deflecting. I been talking to this guy for two and half months. Please Help!

[@privacypreferred5796]

Spot on

[@TheHealingVoiceofReason]

Doesn't sound worth it

[@earthangel8399]

All true

[@GDL364]

Don’t

[@KT-sv6jx]

😮‍💨 Too Much

[@iamkingkennedy]

You cannot generalise all Nigeria men. Be more specific that’s normal trait for every men and that’s by the way have you dated a Nigeria man 😂😂😂😂😂

[@enyonamagbemadzo8684]

What he said was accurate and this is coming from someone whose dated BM

[@down2jupiter]

Nah u def can generalize all Nigerian men lol. It's a bit too easy actually!