How to deal with a careless husband || He is never there for her when she needs him || لاپرواہ شوہر

[@romausman]

"My husband takes very good care of me and gives me a lot of respect. He also tells me to take extra care of myself. I'm grateful."

[@herfablife]

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Mashallah

[@MahwishAkhter]

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[@AtiaZaman]

U r 100%right... meri shadi ko 14 saal ho gy hain shuru k 9 saal mein ne esy hi waste kiy.. peechy peechy .. but phir mein ne apny ap ko change kr lia bcho pe focus kr lia apni hobby ko apna profession bna lia mein ne fashion desighning ki hui thi yaha Uk aa k mein ne dress making shiri kr di .. ab believe kren 5 daal se ye roteen hai k husband mere peechy peechy an bhaagty hain k time nai deti tm ab.. but ab mere dil mein un ki wo jaga nai ab mein ne apny ap ko piorty mein rakha hai phir bcho ko phir is k baad hubby ko.. esa hi hota hai mera personal experience hai k apny ap ko mat giraen kisi k samny apni ehmiyat ko jaanen ..

[@anumkhan286]

Ma is waqt bohot takleef ma hun , apka comment dekh k ise nasehat samajh k faida lungi , but kya mard apko shaadi k day 1 se ignore karay , zaleel karay , kya meray bachy kush baray hongy ? Chahy ma koshish krlun. Husband to theik nae hoga , dil bhi toot jata hai insan ka

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[@herfablife]

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Ek saal se ap ke vilog dekh rahi hun boht confident mila ab her kisi ko face karjati hun

[@mehwishimran123]

Agreee

[@romanaasad9549]

Thanks alot erum This vlog will give a power to those women who suffer this situation and never share to others

[@herfablife]

I’m so honoured dear that I’m helping a lot of women and I’m always in a favour of woman power

[@Malaikathehomemaker]

Buht hi acha topic pe bt ki apny ....ye esi tkleef hy ju koi dusra ni janskta k orat kis aziyt se guzr rhi hy grate vlog

[@Sadrealitiesoflife]

Thankyou sooooooo much! I agree 100%. Buhat achi aur thek nasihatein ki hain ap ne ❤

[@dcatty]

U r very right ...I got lot of manipulation and mental abuse in my marriage...After that slowly and steadily I used to detach with him.I feel when I go close to him I get hurt ..so I ignored him and focused on my kids Alhumdulillah they r gifted and have brilliant minds I really enjoy their company ...plus I have my job I took good care of me and my house...He feels so lonely now..and tries to talk with me occasionally..😂He often feels something is off ...I clearly communicate what I want and what not in relationship...he has changed a lot in 10 yrs from a manipulative partner to a caring one..😅

[@naveedshahzad1257]

I think sbi husband aesy hi karty hain jitna ziyda hm inka krti hain wo hamy hurt krty hain

[@IbrahimJannat-xm9zg]

Hy. I also get hurt when ever I talk to my husband.. . And feels regret k baat ki hi kion inka calibar hi low ha.

[@anumkhan286]

Same I'm facing from day 1 of marriage but now it's 6 years to be completed, 3 little kids , n I'm heart broken trying to run n constantly trying to make the relationship right , now people suggest me to focus on my kids n ignore him , because it's that time of my life not to leave this marriage , I wish ma ap se eik eik cheez detail ma pooch sakti shayad ma bhi usab se guzr rae hun jise ap guzri hongi

[@mahirakhan2675]

Asslamuallikum very good to see back to back two vlogs in a day I feel very lucky to be your subscriber aap yakeen karenge k ma aapne family k baad namaz ma aap k lya dua krte houn aap hamesha khush rahin aur hamaare saath rahin

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It's true same here

[@SaadAhmad-t5e]

Erum api ap bht smjhdaar Lady hein mashallah Allah pak apko hmesha khush rkhay Ameen Sumameen ❤️

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much!

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YOU ARE MY BIGGEST MOTIVATION. MAY ALLAH PAK KEEP YOU HEALTHY AND FULFILL YOUR LIFE WITH HAPPINESS.

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much dear. May Allah bless you too 🙏.

[@shahidarubab8371]

JazakAllah dear for such a very good advises and right line of life❤😊

[@aky7674]

My mother in law has always ruled over my married life ..after 3 kids n now after 14 yrs she has kept father in law with us so that he can convey all our matters . .poori jaasoosi..😇 I get so tired but now kids growing Alhamdulillah so hoping for a change . I keep busy n started caring for myself ..at 45 yes pushing my hubby to make me go out n work .I refused .I said this time is my time ..when it was my prime time to go out n live n do job they didnt allow me . Made me work like a bloody servant..abb buss hogai

[@amnautman8465]

Ys u r right .....i will also try todo all your points..... points about improving myself in studies n job ..... insha'Allah ❤

[@herfablife]

I hope you found the video helpful!

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Wah wah.... Super ...... Best advise..... Dil khush ho gya.... Kitni ache bat keeee

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Bhuht acha vilog as usual but me late aae hon q k bhuht busy the,but dear sister ap k lia time zroor nikalty hon,u r my inspiration,i always say🥰💝

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[@herfablife]

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[@herfablife]

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[@herfablife]

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[@Nawaal-Mom]

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[@herfablife]

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[@herfablife]

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[@herfablife]

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[@herfablife]

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[@herfablife]

I will share a soup recipe in one of my upcoming videos InshaAllah

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[@herfablife]

I hope you found it helpful 😊

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Please pray for my brother, unka ghar tootne se bach jaye. Allah kare mere bhai ko unke bachche mil jayein. Aameen

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[@herfablife]

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[@noorhafsa7072]

Assalamualaikum! Baji you are telling absolutely right. My childrens also are not friendly with me. They listen to my husband but they don't listen to me,no one understands me accept Allah so please tell me how should I stay with them.

[@herfablife]

It's so important to remember you are loved and cherished by Allah

[@pakistanimomvlogs831]

Assalam o Aleykum 🌿 well said khud hi apni izat banai parti hai koi nahi karta warna or husband's ko to 24/7 ki maid chaye chaye thek ho ya bimar dil chaye ya na chaye.

[@nasreenkhan6729]

Thank u so much Erum for sharing this video.This problem is v common.I dont know what husbands think about themselves.Its no use of begging them.Plz Share more tips n tricks of handling these kind of people around us.Hope for the best from u.Looking forward for these type of more videos.Stay blessed Dear 💖😊 ❤❤❤. I also live separate in my fathers house with my 3 children from 6 years but their father doesn't ask them to come n live with him.Then what to do with this kind of person plz tell

[@herfablife]

Dear it's a common problem and I will try to give you more tips on how to deal with such people in my future videos InshaAllah

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[@pollytheparrot8929]

My parents dont give me importance, dont care at all.. Im jobless.. I try to focus on myself now.. Wasted a lot of time thinking abt them doin for them, when they don't need me and value it.. So i hve stopped expecting, accepted the reality☺

[@herfablife]

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[@herfablife]

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[@naadia8408]

Salaam mam,,,Jo kuch apne kaha us ki leye bahut hosley ki zarorat hy,,,Q ki ye rashta ALLAH ne essa banaya hy,,,hamarey zinadagi ma sirf yahi ek mard hota hy,,,,or bache,,,ma baap koi bhi en ki jaga nahi le sakta,,,,or agr yahi mard beve ko ignore kare to bahut takleef hoti hy,,,,

[@herfablife]

Dear let me tell you one thing with the passage of time you were you realise that okay fine if the other person is not putting any effort so I should stop trying and I should concentrate on myself and on my kids so sooner or later the person will do this

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@@herfablife yes, Allah ke waaste kaam karein, lekin Apne aap mein (aur bachon ke saath) kush rahein. Chahe to Dua bhi kijiye jo dil chahta

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