How to deal with jealous family members | tips for success | succeed anyway | pursue your dreams

[@ba8501]

Gosh yes. I have been through all those things. At first, I was so confused. I was just living life and getting on with things like we all do. The jealousy and backbiting started. I was shocked at first. Then I realised that it is envy. I have had to cut off a lot of people, including jealous parents. Now I continue doing what I am doing but I move in silence. I don't share my accomplishments with them.

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

This is an unfortunate reality! But I pray that they will have a change of heart. Life is so much better when we can share our accomplishments with family who have our best interest at heart! God bless!

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN..ME 2!!! U R #NOT THE ONLY ONE!!👍💯😇👌

[@johnkinuthia8068]

Very true it happens to me

[@MsArleeneE]

Me, too! I am literally alone at 54 yrs old, now.

[@dianerebb85]

I needed this today. My family their whole life struggled financially and they have made that as part of their identity. Now they think money is bad and that they are "good". They are not good, they criticize everyone, are bitter and hate the world. My husband and I have worked very hard and have become very successful after MANY years of struggle and now my parents try to bring me down. I just wish they would say "I'm so proud of you. Yes, you worked very hard to go on that trip, to buy that car. etc" but no. The shame us. I will DO ME from now on.

[@lewisrich3515]

Yes I'm a living witness this sh** is real deep. Family are the WORST!!! I had to cut and delete some family members completely out of my life too damn toxic

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

It’s unfortunate but totally true. Look out for part 2 of this video coming

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN..ME 2!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@alvinachenkunju657]

Amen

[@PersonalGrowthUniversity]

When I started realizing this was my reality at 15 I really thought I was all alone it’s great to know I’m not now at 22

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

Your are definitely not alone! I hate to hear that you had to face this so young... keep your chin up and trust God! He’s in your corner and your going to do great things!

[@PersonalGrowthUniversity]

@@ChristianMillennialTV Thank you I appreciate you taking the time to reply. God bless you as well 🙏😇

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN...I STARTED EXPERIENCING AT AN #EXTREMELY YOUNG AGE..MY MOTHER, GREAT GRANDMOTHER, GRANDMOTHER, TWO SISTERS AND 2 DAUGHTERS R MY WORSE..#ENEMIES!!!💯💯💯💯

[@KM-oy5yh]

SISTER, U R #NOT ALONE!!!😇👍

[@lorettahines7936]

Christian Millennial TV I experienced this too, I thought that I was an orphan, but it was my parents who were orphans, they went to their graves and didn’t know it; they worried themselves to death over the relatives!

[@jamiebrumant2153]

My entire family is toxic my mother is the ring leader who has put all other members against me, she has destroyed my entire life by spreading lies about me throughout england, america and the caribbean , my family broke my spirit from since a little girl but Jesus saved me and is helping me now so even though they are fighting against me, I am focusing on my goals, praying plenty and working hard, I was born a shark but they locked me in a tiny fish tank my entire life, spoke so many curses over me as a little girl that broke my heart and my spirit causing the spirit of rejection to follow me my entire life but I have learn to use the rejection to my advantage by staying in isolation and working on my goals away from their drama and hate

[@njeriew1111]

I pray for your healing. May you find love and acceptance in Christ and may your identity be so rooted in him

[@jmk2530]

Wow Jamie- I can 100% relate to you- ring leader mom smearing my name to everyone. I’m 50 now- and only realized what was going on with me till now. A move away and the pandemic made me realize the heavy weight that was on me. My first name is very similar to yours :) may you shine brightly inspite of these people.

[@Meralysp-cv6wr]

Ugh sis. Been there. I have a sister who gets mad when my mom tries to support me in my stuff. My sister always wants to be the top 1st. Golden child. And manipulates my mom into trying to convince my mom that I need medication, while she suffers from depression, and denied that she needs help

[@dennisrobinson8008]

You can use anti slander legal action.

[@chriswalker5812]

That's right and when you shine and work hard to accomplish something you don't have to apologise for it to make some one else happy.

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

Yes 🙌🏿 humility and hard work needs no apology!

[@soundcloudkingsumy390]

Bro its actually sad that your family are no different from all the snakes in the grass we get caught up in

[@magick1383]

It’s so hurtful and it drains my energy but family is the worst haters even you help them and show them means of success it doesn’t matter, I realize it’s a different from family and relatives, but it really hurts when it’s mom dad brothers😔😒😎

[@sbell6351]

I’m going thru the exact same thing with my mom and sister and brother and it truly hurts😔but now I know that I’m not alone in this battle!

[@cpenn36609]

I feel you

[@KM-oy5yh]

@@sbell6351 AMEN AMEN AMEN..ME 2..I HAVE EXPERIENCED THIS #ALL MY LIFE!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@ysgoldt]

Story of my life but I don’t let it bother me. I know I would NEVER feel this way about my children or family, but they do about me. My dad called me ‘entitled’ because I said ‘I believe I can really do anything I’m given the dream to accomplish’. I have 3 children and to me that’s how I raised them and look forward to seeing them do better than me! I do have an amazing husband and aunt and uncle who cheer me on 🎉

[@dorothymatthews6690]

Amen brother! Thank you for giving biblical reference to jealous family members! This was golden!

[@dfig4584]

Succeed anyway👍

[@memyselfi8604]

That was fantastic! Thanks for the Bible references too because it shows how jealousy has existed from the beginning of time even from family members.

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

So true!

[@carmenleeder4673]

They excluded me from their parties and other functions because of their jealousy

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

I’m sorry to hear that! I pray they change they’re ways. Life’s too short and family is very important.

[@carmenleeder4673]

@@ChristianMillennialTV Threy just want to control me

[@oliviavaldez8961]

Sorry to hear that! Remember when you see them having their fun parties, just mentally tell yourself "one day that's for me!" and remember you will have your own parties too! You're not EXcluded...you are EXclusive!

[@bhavinshah1]

Never share your goals with family! Big mistake due to INFERIORITY COMPLEXES and 'SELFISH SCARCITY MINDSET AGENDAS'. Thoughts 'attract' :) The only people that should be involved in our goals are those that really want us to succeed. This is rare so forget most people when it comes to sharing goals :)

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

Well said i agree with you 100% percent on that

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN..MOST OF THEM WILL TRY 2 #SET TRAPS 4 U 2 TRY 2 HINDER UR BLESSINGS..BECAUSE THEY #KNOW THEY #CANT #STOP IT..WHAT #GOD HAS 4 U..IT #IS 4 U...THIS IS AN #EVIL AND #PERVERTED WORLD!!!👌💯❤👍😇

[@bhavinshah1]

@@EM-fz3hf Yes I have had 'Religious' family members do this. It's pathetic

[@aneicelewis4267]

That’s so right! Pursue your dreams no matter what💕 Good 1 Sam

[@crystalwilliams6454]

Succeed anyway

[@lorettahines7936]

According to article in ‘PARADE’ in 2012, a psychologist study showed that children need to know (1) that things don’t always work out (2) and you need to know about your ‘Family History’! A foundation (family history) is so important...even if just stories about a parent’s life experiences. Somebody’s opinion: we need to raise children to be resilient. The other part psychologists are saying it is important that parents allow children to solve their own problems. Too often parents step in to fix, but we will not be here forever to solve their problems.

[@craigchuru3277]

@Loretta Hines very spot on and great nuggets

[@alightedpathrestored3577]

Preach Brother!

[@Musicandfilms7]

Thank you so much for this message, I really needed to hear it, my extended family is extremely toxic and jelous

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

Gonna pray for you!

[@deeblack2781]

Thank you so much, brother !!! This is exactly what I needed to hear right now 🙏

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

You welcome! Keep pressing to succeed God sees your efforts!

[@daughteroftherisenking3165]

May God have mercy on me and my family I keep praying for them but my brother Jealousy and rudeness is very high at the moment . I still thank God for all he is doing for me thanks for the video very Encouraging ❤🕊️

[@michaeljone2682]

It is my winning season

[@adrianjones495]

Thank u big dog, u was telling 💯% truth, and I thank Jesus christ 4 ur message, thank u man😊😇🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

Blessings to you, part 2 coming soon

[@yanzhangmd]

I think things happened too quickly. Sometimes, it is hard for family to comprehend what is happening. That is OK. Life is about do the right thing at the right time. Family can understand later.

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

I totally understand that! It’s just so much better when they’re on board though right?

[@catherinesumner9708]

Oh yeah family 👪 is Something else.

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

For real!

[@kavehmottaghi6519]

Thanks for the encouragement I really learn from you. Bless you sir.

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

Blessings!

[@claubit32]

God bless you, brother! Thank you for making this video.👍😃

[@VerushkaMontesanti]

Absolutely looooove this ❤

[@getmoney5922]

Thank you for this encouragement and this message.

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

No problem! God bless!

[@tatayananayari3084]

Facts!!

[@loveandlight5986]

2s into the video and I'm already hooked like an owl. 11.11pm. Thank you so much❤️

[@yamad102]

Thank you very much and God bless you

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

My pleasure God bless you as well!

[@kelgoneimy]

Thank u Sir, I honestly feel that I need to have tunnel vision to achieve my goals. Cause I many things I sense from my family.

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

stay focused on your goals and keep pushing!

[@kelgoneimy]

@@ChristianMillennialTV thank you!

[@shadaeanderson1105]

Yes Brother🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Bombshell0810]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

🙏🏿

[@lorettahines7936]

I found out 15 years ago that there were many unofficial adoptions from the beginning of time up until the 1940s where there were no paperwork, no attorney nor court, nothing legal. You just take the baby, infant, small child, teen home with you and when the ‘census records takers’ comes around you just tell them that its your daughter/son if they will be too young to remember that they were separated from their biological parents; they are not never told about whatever happened to their parents, that they were/are not their children, and that they are not the parents. Not only did relatives take in the orphans but none relatives or friends of the parents and neighbors took in orphans. Back then heads of households took in strangers when they didn’t have nobody to stay with; and the census records aren’t correct as to the ‘role’ of the baby, small child to the head of households, in many cases if the infant, small child isn’t no kin then they are mistreated badly, not talked to, nor cared about nor looked out for and encouraged to do better or stay in school. This is the reasons that you may not be liked, respected, cared about, talked to, looked out for by who you think is your parents, grandparents, greats, aunts/uncles cousins and other kin. Collect the Family history anyway, because you could be possibly cousins, you would have to get an Ancestry dna test or 23&me to find out for sure!

[@FireAwayProductions]

thanks for this brother

[@michaeljone2682]

I now release the need to dilute my self to make other people feel good

[@crystalwilliams6454]

Thanks so much

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

You’re Welcome, God Bless!

[@MsArleeneE]

ABSOLUTELY, 1,000%❤️‍🔥🕊💃🏻

[@carmenleeder4673]

They feel threatened by me since my mom died I've inherited her money and my success

[@oliviavaldez8961]

Good for you! I'm sure that's what your Mom wanted. I am sorta in a similar situation...I am praying for things to pan out as she wanted. God bless your Mom and Bless you in your truth. Inheritance is God's abundance made possible through the love of your Mom!

[@KM-oy5yh]

#RELATIVES R THE #WORSE ONES!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

Sad but true! Sometimes!

[@KM-oy5yh]

@@ChristianMillennialTV AMEN AMEN AMEN!!!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@KM-oy5yh]

@@ChristianMillennialTV #MOST OF THE TIME!!! ALL OF THIS IS..#BIBLICAL!!! READ LUKE 21ST, MATTHEW #24TH CHP, MATTHEW #10TH CHP, #MICAH7THCHP, #2NDTIMOTHY3RDCHP!!!👌😇👍😄

[@KM-oy5yh]

@@ChristianMillennialTV AND #MARK13THCHP!!!💯👌

[@occamsrazor7939]

I do appreciate the words you are saying, but I need other advice.

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

What advice do you need?

[@chriswalls5831]

I cut them off small minds

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

Unfortunately that’s what has to be done at times!

[@avengers9286]

I need your help. My brother always looks at me like a thread. He always indirectly wants to compete with me in everything. Whatever I do he will replicate it. He even looks at my wife's behaviour and kind of forces his wife to do the same. Now he has a 3 yr old boy and I have a 9 yr old boy. He always looks at us like a benchmark and copying what we do and what we have. I feel like disturbed by this. He started to get intimidated since we grew up. And it doesn't stop but gets bigger. How can I address this issue to him? I don't want to lose my brother but at the same time I don't like his behaviour.

[@damn..7786]

It is okay to stay away from them? Like living alone and living them behind because I feel guilty living them.

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

Separation can be necessary but does not have to be permanent!

[@flavian_ndunda]

One of your family member disliked your video

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

😂😂😂 I was wondering who LOL, that’s how it goes sometimes! This is the best comment though! God bless brother!

[@flavian_ndunda]

@@ChristianMillennialTV God bless you too brother!

[@lorettahines7936]

According to an article in the Internet, there are about 600,000 switched at birth people among the earth’s population all around the world! Babies are switched at birth: are babies who because of other error or malice, are interchanged with each other at birth or very soon thereafter, leading to the babies being unknowingly raised by parents who are not their biological parents! After slavery ex-slaves were marrying their own cousins, and didn’t know it. Black people still marrying their own cousins and don’t know it. We have 100 thousand or more cousins that we don’t know about and never, couldn’t imagine it. You have cousins spreaded out all through the world because of the transatlantic slave trade and rape of slaves causing slaves to have many siblings that they never met. I received the Ancestry dna results may 14,2019 and was shocked to find out all of this. In Every state, country, continent, island, sea island even in the Soviet, Middle east, India you have forth (4th) to tenth (10th) or more cousins in which you would never have imagined!

[@lenajanssens7859]

They support me a lot. But they are very fake indeed

[@soniajoy3727]

Yurk

[@Catherine_Kate]

Thank you so much 🙏 I was meant to see this! ❤️

[@ChristianMillennialTV]

God bless you!