How To Deal With Loneliness (Live Energy Tune-Up)

[@thecoolestgingerkid]

Really helpful, Lee, thank you! I had a REALLY emotionally triggering week last week of intense loneliness and saw how much my inner child NEEDS connection so I have been focused this week on co-creating that everywhere as much as I can. Setting the intention now to find and co-create a beautiful community of friendship and love

[@ambersonline]

I just texted my friend about feeling lonely today and then your video popped up within two minutes .. 🙏💖

[@yoya4766]

That's big brother at work.

[@plutonicfireball1559]

Talk about timing Lee! The ego loves to tell you you are alone. Blessings.

[@KeyaKyea1]

You truly are a warm Presence, Lee, and always on the point, honest and accurate. Thank YOU!!! Have had this feeling of loneliness a few times lately, but the same nature as you, so needing my alone time, It's more about the need, especially with a 19-year-old young man to guide, educate still, "reframe" from time to time, to have a partner in life, someone to walk the walk with, a good hearted man who could also represent a healthy father figure and be the 'yang' energy. This world is extremely tiring at some moments, especially when so many seem to be caught in the ambiant craze if you see what I mean... Feeling a need for protection, a shoulder to lie down on, a pair of strong arms to tenderly take shelter into, someone who could say: "We're flying away for the weekend, it's a surprise, you'll love it" and then take me for a wonderful journey to a spa in the Swiss mountains, a couple of days in Toscane or anything relaxing and cheerful". I sometimes wonder if the someone who can match my energy is actually alive on Earth...hehe. People without our kinds of 'gifts' seem to have less trouble with this, but here again, there are sooo many women alone!!! Men have the choice and seldom remain unpaired, right? Then, when the spiritual dimension is a part of your life, it's not so obvious to find a masculine counterpart as most of them seem to be less interested in the spiritual reality of life and generally more 'matter oriented'. Is there anyone there? Hahaha ;) (In ten years -after a divorce, I only met one man who made me feel like a woman. He is a contemplative and didn't seem ready for a relationship... there hasn't been anyone who really triggered much in the sense of wanting to even try. Lee, you're a treasure of a soul. Thank you for all that you share, thank you for YOU! Big Love 💖

[@bkswanson2461]

btw...I remember so well reading about Robins depression he had for decades...this is kinda common thread so to speak with comedians....love Robin!! So many millions of us love Robin!

[@bkswanson2461]

Lee, what you were turning into could not have been more accurate!! Lonliness, have been dealing with for several mths...there are no relationships, as like you I need much time alone...but now am truly dealing with lonliness, sadness as never before...as you said, last several mths have been rough, I feel as tho it is going to continue to be even more intense going forward....changes are going to occur at and even faster speed...always trying to find "balance".....I cried through your message...it could not have been more on point!! I thank you from the depth of my heart and soul, Bless YOU, Bless ALL!!! xxx

[@lauraelizabethgoodyear31]

BK Swanson I feel you for sure... same situation. I Have to remember to ‘re-Mind’ myself (I forget this when neg thought spirals grab me seemingly out of nowhere)... let my Higher Wisdom reset my humans old mind: “Hey! You may be bringing up some residual feeling of your own, but your Essence through childhood was joyous, happy & you were always trying to cheer others up. (Actually, that Still describes my true Essences- not as much on the surface as then, but coming back after all the emotional clearing). You Always empathed others’ feelings unknowingly, &, are even more highly sensitive now, yes? The Majority of this loneliness you’re feeling is likely that of the collective who are Fa-reeking Out inside coz they don’t know what’s hitting them & shaking up their old junk. Yes, this Lightworker mission of transmuting support for the collective is growing Really old, but you Just have to keep anchoring your Light, Knowing that All Is in Divine Order, then your Vibe will level on up!” So, hoping something in that dialogue w/ my HSelf May be helpful to you. And don’t forget that since the Summer Solstice, All of the cosmos has been literally lining up ‘wake-up’ lightening bolts of intense frequencies, one after the other: the whole phase of 3 eclipses was Huge, the line up of all our planets on the same side- Huge, lots of powerful planets going retrograde, &, I think it was Taurus, coming direct after being ‘gone’ for 8-9yrs! Then in Aug, the Lion’s Gate- an annual Biggie, yes? So we have all been put through the wringer massively. For me the entire past 3 months has been as intense as probably my past 5yrs or so... it’s like some kind of ‘final exam’, or even a graduation w/ a special Cosmic Degree! I have heard & read several explanations that this is all in prep for a big, Big opening in October, so know that we are leveling up & are ready to envision & start- to whatever degree possible- living in the new timeline we’ve been preparing for. Yea? Yes, I think so. Wishing you & all the very best. ~*~

[@bkswanson2461]

Laura Elizabeth Goodyear yep, those eclipses esp the last one..kicked my a..still are!! Thank you so very much for your wonderful post!! I am an empath yes for sure!! My nerves are pretty much shot these days!! You are wonderful!!

[@lauraelizabethgoodyear31]

BK Swanson Hey, I’m so glad it helped in some way. The minute you spoke ab nerves on the fritz, I was guided to share the book that helped me understand some important detail about the energy system & how it worked in tandem w/ the nervous system. This was back ab ‘12 when a very intuitive couple taught me more about this & various emotional release techniques. They had muscle tested my meridians & found at least Half of them were not just ‘stalled’ but running Backwards! I was a walking nervous breakdown at that point & this made sooo much sense to me. (I’ve since come to totally relate my nerv. syst. to the wiring in a house & I know immediately when a small or large circuit has been tripped; as you’ve been feeling yourself, it’s not too difficult to know when the big/ ‘main’ breaker box has blown, right?) The book is “Energy Medicine” by Donna Eden & is Chock full of all the basics, descriptions & great graphics of how you trace your meridians to get them really running clean, along with a Butt Load of techniques to use for all sorts of situations. (I even used one on my little nanny-toddler as she consistently tantrummed at nap time.) It became my bible for quite a few years, plus I’m a science geek/ former nurse so this stuff fascinates me anyway. I wish you (& anyone else who feels they’re in the same ‘electrified’ boat) all the best in riding these waves. Plus Always ask your Higher Self to assist is slowing things down a bit & supporting a more even energy flow. ~*~

[@bkswanson2461]

Laura Elizabeth Goodyear well I must check out this book for sure!! You have really helpful examples...I love that!!! Yes, I have been reading and researching the same info in regards to October 2018..the collective is just now starting to feel all this massive shifts, purging is gonna be on another level....wow right now I am still having purging, and many physical and emotional push and pull...here's a video that explains much better as to wt heck is happening as many including me was hoping it would slow a bit...but it does help to have the planetery explanations as to why it is soooo intense when we have just come thru what was truly massive!! Big HUGS!!!xxx kzbin.info/www/bejne/pHuTdqt-dtxmfrs

[@simransingh4824]

Thank you Lee ! I chanced upon you when I was looking for a spiritual discourse video. The Universe conspires to make things happen and I was meant to receive msgs from you. 🙏 you’re a soul stirrer !! You Help me a lot and I’m in the midst of dealing with my loneliness and finding a partner. Need you blessings and guidance to find what I’m looking for 🌈 God Bless you always Lee 🌈 loads of love 💕

[@Dondy1971]

After a busy day of managing people at work, I pretty much retreat to my bedroom away from my husband and kids when I get home. You’re right, too much isolation leads to loneliness - and I fall into the loneliness trap quite often. I also get social anxiety so it’s a tricky one for me to get right. I get really overwhelmed in groups and social situations.

[@masterfit-byrobbiemasters9994]

Great video - loneliness, for me, has been one of the most difficult challenges of this process. But videos like these are really comforting and reassuring. Thank you. :-)

[@lauraelizabethgoodyear31]

THANKS LEE! As Always, such a loving & inspiring support for us Lightworkers in these crazed times. I really resonated w/ your description of Loving to get out amongst people yet Really requiring Lots Of alone time for your introvert. That’s exactly the same for me & likely one of the biggest sources of suffering, &, absolute agony many times during the isolation required during the active phase of the Dark Night. Not that I don’t have that requirement hit me off & on, sometimes several times a week or 2-3 days in a row! I just know what it’s about now & have so many more standard energy practices to manage through it. I’m not Fond of having to go “Avatar” as I call it bc I Miss being active & in Service ‘Out there’, but then again, I’m actually Grateful that I now know how to go Avatar... doing that “phase lock” to get back into my true ‘Navi’ essence, Knowing I’m in Complete Oneness w/ everything.... Ah, Pandora, here I come! (Avatar fan much!) Well over 20yrs ago while my younger sister was visiting, she did the whole Meyers-Briggs test on me out of curiosity & was really surprised I came out an INFJ. “This makes no sense.. you’ve Always been the most extroverted.. way more Natural at socializing than all of us (7kids.. yes, Catholic family!). But, neither of us realized that ab 3yrs prior I’d ‘put my heart/inner child into a closet’ after finding out my son had autism. That diagnosis completely changed how I perceived myself in terms of worth, capability, reliability & on & on. I absolutely retreated in order to function as his primary caretaker along w/ so many other roles & responsibilities. I was Completely knocked to the floor by that & since my then husband was fully immersed in med school & basically said I just had to suck it up, I remember thinking, ‘Ok then, I guess there’s no one to take care of me now’, so off I scooted her into hiding & Never even Knew that happened until ~ 24yrs later! Then 2 yrs ago, after a particularly Knocked-to-the-ground episode of emotional clearing, I had a vision as clear as a bell that That was where my heart was.. that it hadn’t been vaporized by different traumas, etc. That Completely changed my entire perspective of my life & had me ecstatic to be alive rather than suicidal for so many years. Apologies for blogging our, again. Just in case any other Lightworkers are curious, most of us Will test INFJ, which is the rarest of the 16 types... something like 4-8% if memory serves. It’s quite fascinating, & there are some great vids here on YT ab this & the MB’s personality type test. When you think about what we have to go through to Wake Up &, very quickly, it makes sense that we’d have to have some strong introvert tendencies to be able to make it through the isolating periods. Well, Love to all... hang in the quietude when needed, then go back out & shine your Light once you’ve re-Fueled! ~*~

[@adelinavucetic4664]

I love your energy. You don't know that, but you are my good friend ☺

[@MissVTube]

You beautiful being ...thank you for blessing us 💜

[@shaunageorge3786]

Thank you! This has been an incredibly stubborn issue for me as well. Much love to you XO XO XO

[@megmuise4148]

Thank you

[@velvetindigonight]

Theres a difference between 'being alone' which is a positive state creative, enjoyable, empowering and limited and very different from 'loneliness' which is painful and isolated.

[@DoctorGeri]

Helen, Just what I was going to write. My husband and I each enjoyed our alone time separately, but enjoyed (even more) being together. A year ago I found my husband's lifeless body. He died suddenly and unexpectedly. I have found myself alone and terribly lonely for the past year. Alone and lonely are two very different things.

[@SusasLight]

Hi Lee.. Funny, its the middle of the nite n i just got off the phone with my guy, n im wishing he was here with me. We have a long distance relationship..n was feeling lonely n couldnt fall back to sleep n here ur video is. Thanks, i think since ive never lived alone n here i am after 34 yr marriage..so now its been 7yrs n i do have new friends n all.. Just not the same az living n having that partner with u, ya know.. Its so different! Thanks for sharing ur insight. I appreciate your love n light! I think i will look for new groups that interest me. Love n Light 💚💫💝

[@eduardotorresbetancourt654]

I just woke up to this last beautiful and bang on point video. As a gay guy and living in a rather isolated island I've been dealing with loneliness for quite some time; despite considering myself -as others do, apparently- to be attractive, intelligent, loyal and fun to be with kind of person with a lot to offer, but i think that that's perhaps what's been hampering me from finding quality people, not only as friends but also a partner/lover for life, I'm a very spiritual man, and this seems to be a misgiving in today's world, people don't want quality, substance; I find that very sad and discouraging! I know that a lot of women out there perhaps feel somewhat the same, but what about guys...I'm i just too sensible for my own good? Thanks a bunch Lee for your great work and input into this world. Many blessings.

[@farrenrohana]

I'm 55 and I isolated myself 13 years ago. I want like minded friends but suffered so much abuse I am too scared.

[@Meechka]

I'm 64, have also isolated myself. I think if you click on my name you will find my email address. Email me. I live in the middle of the U.S.

[@bellj753]

I am in a similar situation. With COVID many of my casual friendship have fallen away. It's really hard right now. I have always been out of sync with my peer group due to abuse, live circumstances, etc. I don't even know where to start to make things get better.

[@tonyawhitehead2209]

This is probably not relevant at all, but if I had to guess, I would say you are a Virgo. I am a Virgo as well and you just remind me a lot of Virgo. PERFECTIONIST, ATTENTION TO DETAIL... I love all your videos!! thanks so much for what you do🤗🤗😘

[@MariaHjelmborg]

Tonya Whitehead Virgo moon, RAHU and Saturn here. I believe U R right, could also be a sun in te 6th with other planets in Virgo

[@simransingh4824]

Hey I’m a Virgo too !! And I thank Lee for such a wonderful video !

[@gretanavarauskaite2904]

I've met my husband online dating site☺️💖🌸 Much Love ❤️

[@Meechka]

What about online dating just for friendships not romances. I have a partner. I have moved a lot and would love to us something like online dating just to find some friends. Could someone please build that system :)

[@ProPivot17]

lee i don't know if you will ever read this, but my very recently ex girlfriend had been threatening suicide and i had to call an ambulance as i was afraid for her safety. i'm dying of guilt because i couldn't be the partner she needed and i couldn't be the friend she needed. she's been taken to hospital where she already has some trauma associated. i'm scared, i feel guilty, i don't know what to do with myself now. i can't believe i did that to her, even if it was for her own good. what can i even do? i'm lost.

[@justicemoody]

ProPivot17 nope you did the right thing (based on the information given). You gave her the wake up call she needed. If you tolerate that behaviour, you’re condoning it - and that would send a message to universe that you deserve suicidal, traumatised partners. Not good for your self worth, not good for her either. So bravo 👏🏼. Now give yourself a pat on the back, release the guilt, stand firm by your decision and move forward into a brighter future. Life is too short to tolerate that kinda bullshit. You deserve better, and now you’re standing for it.

[@estefaniacastillo133]

Loneliness is very revelent i noticed just yesterday how people in UK have everything yet nobody seems happy it saddens me how i see the truth and many just accept it. We need to stand up to these things i feel i am lying to myself by excepting it. And is why ive made the decision to move to The central Americas a poorer country which has less money yet more unity amongst the people enriches my soul with vitality. Western society is possibly the most traumatized society on the planet. What is here is wounded people. The scars of past atrocitys over genetical imprints has never healed. The dysfunction seen in Western society is that it is a traumatized society. They is no way to turn back Europeans are the walking wounded, the descendents of the victims of one of the worlds largest genocides. America fhen inherited that messed up society from Europeans. We Westerners are a maimed and scarred people once awaken to the loneliness, deception ans system you cant except it you must find a happier healthier place to live for your future and sanity.

[@anasan00]

💙🙏💙

[@zihuetlachtli]

I am Loneliness AF!

[@zihuetlachtli]

las weekend I was talking alone in loud voice, and now I have pain all over my body...

[@RoseQuartz728]

What if I never get lonely? #empathissues

[@apollofateh324]

Found this video for y'all, hope it helps! kzbin.info/www/bejne/fobNq2uOpdGVm9k