How well articulated, best part about all these pointers shared is they are pragmatic and win-win situation as we will learn how to handle the situations in not just work life but elsewhere and grow emotionally. And the last point is absolutely right - it's not about the toxic people getting up each day with an intention to spoil other person's life. They come with baggage, and that itself is their curse sadly. Alas we can just empathise and be good to them, not a tit for tat act basically, and sometimes that does become source for their change in any small way be it!
@juanphilp50233 жыл бұрын
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@alpana3725 Жыл бұрын
If u not faced such circumstance u shd not make a video
@nikhilpachauri57613 жыл бұрын
Best is to leave the toxic environment as soon as possible . I tried many points mentioned in the video but in turn I was asked to leave the company during time of covid
@AbhishekSharma-gi6eg3 жыл бұрын
How many times can you actually leave a company ?
@TSCardoz3 жыл бұрын
@@AbhishekSharma-gi6eg exactly. I've left 3 toxic companies in a span of 3 years. It is ruining my career
@soniagill41813 жыл бұрын
agree. But 99.9% places are toxic and dont know how to find 1% for healthy environment. Thats called heaven and in heaven you can be after your death only... Ha ha
@Ashish-ss5nt3 жыл бұрын
@@soniagill4181 that is the problem with modern world, it has done everything outside for its comfort but not given enough time to improve itself from within
@WanderingBackpacker3 жыл бұрын
@@TSCardoz doesn't matter. as much as your skills are on demand companies will hire you, i am also waiting to complete 1 year in my current company and then i will leave, it's way too toxic.
@kapiluppal19252 жыл бұрын
This is a diplomatic video which just tells you to take soft steps. Sometimes you have to face the toxic managers and speak up. You cannot always report them, many a times you have to deal with them yourself.
@sushilpayar40143 жыл бұрын
Exactly true, by genuinely we want more to hear this type of content How many of you agree 🙂
@rohit-zf8nj2 жыл бұрын
Nahi bole bhai
@maryamnaz14953 жыл бұрын
I'm really suffering with such toxic environment and head Your video really make me realize and deal with such environment and people
@AB-bb5cz Жыл бұрын
Poverty is the reason why i am in it !!
@D7eo Жыл бұрын
Unable to leave because of financial issues?
@rajatjain30823 жыл бұрын
Toxicity peaks itself in TCS.
@viralfacts4963 жыл бұрын
True
@sandronesta12 жыл бұрын
in SBI as well
@rajatjain30822 жыл бұрын
@@sandronesta1 sorry to hear this!!
@codingchamp55772 жыл бұрын
Agree
@pramod88382 жыл бұрын
In fact in every place where Indians are in majority. Problem is with Indian mindset and how we Indians are brought up
@toshikbhajanka70263 жыл бұрын
I never ever thought someone could give me such a manner to tackle the toxic people at workplace.
@khankhursheed77734 ай бұрын
Ultimate solution for toxic people just stay away from them and try ignore them totally .
@Stunning55313 жыл бұрын
Bhaiya dil se bol raha hun ye abhi tak ki sabse zyaada beneficial video hai mere liye. Thank You
@HarsimranSinghMegaShipz3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@Sumitkumar-co5kx3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ankur, Me wakai kafi pareshan raha hoon beete 1 saal se or finally mene sabkuch try kiya jo bhi bataya ab tak apne, or mene apni life ek naya spot aim kar liya, M thoda dar raha tha ki har month ki salary nahi hogi kesse hoga, par apki video dekh kar confident feel kar raha hoon ki move out karne ka fesla sahi tha.
@bsbhanwala3 жыл бұрын
1)Distance yourself 2(Let them act out drama without giving any reaction 3)don't gossip about them 4)Document everything discussed on whatsapp 5) report them to senior 6) surround urself by positive people 7) leave if not earning respect recognition encouragement 8)emphathise and understand why they behave like this
@tejaswkumar19443 жыл бұрын
I am a kid and my opinions change every moment ... I always try not to take action against what i feel toxic ...i was completely relating all the time as I was ragged at my college today...just got some support ...thankyou sir
@73prerna3 жыл бұрын
Being INDIFFERENT with emotional toxic person is a tool I use. And I think it works way way better than reacting to it.
@neelimatravel3 жыл бұрын
In all your videos you have been advising not to talk about another employee or employer who is toxic.. this is so interesting to me becoz we were raised in a school of thought which said - if you share your problem with others you will feel light. However, at work we cannot do this and I learnt it very hard way. Few of my colleagues couldn’t tolerate my boss but yet were quiet about it or moved to another company. However, I spoke to these few colleagues openly as though it was going to be a secret. Finally the message reached my boss somehow and I felt sick becoz that wasn’t my intention but I was just venting out. I wish I hadn’t done it but towards the end I was like the bad person even though my boss was toxic one!!!
@MayankJain223 жыл бұрын
I once reported my manager for putting undue pressure on me and putting others work on my plate and now I am branded as not a team player.
@soniagill41813 жыл бұрын
Agree. I am also sailing the same boat.
@DineshPKulkarni3 жыл бұрын
It happend with good employee and capable employees only. Toxic people always try to pressurized capable resources to become king of team and creates flattered resources, Flattered resources rewarded with promotions, good ratings and project bonus. Personally experienced it.
@anandasarkar9473 Жыл бұрын
experienced the same
@officialcritisizer64624 ай бұрын
Yes, if we say anything for ourself they will point out it as behavioural issue
@poojaagrawal17194 ай бұрын
Yes same happened with me. I work too hard but I tried to speak for myself and everyone in workplace started thinking of me as behavioural issue.
@fitnesswithweb69462 жыл бұрын
The last point you said really describes your character, it tells me that you are a good leader.
@richaa89063 жыл бұрын
My manager was very toxic in my first company, he used to take away credit of our work. he even used to blame girls that they compromise with him for promotions. Very bad experience... Too bad, but helped me to rise later. He taught me what not to do. Today I am myself a lead, and know exactly how people feel.
@rishaanuraj1593 жыл бұрын
I have experienced such toxic people in my previous organization. I could barely survive for a year there. The manager and the lead were sadistic and in a span of one year, my whole team of 10 resigned to escape such toxic people. I sometimes really wonder how someone can be so so toxic :/ but like you said, there could be some experiences and/or people that might have resulted to such toxic nature of a person.
@warikoo3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your empathy
@SuvaMukherjee Жыл бұрын
@@warikoo Regarding last point, I have to say people are born with their unique nature/mentality. That's why you see some children enjoy bullying weaker children. Their habits get even stronger as they grow big, if they are not punished. Yes. Some people do have criminal minds .
@nsundu123 Жыл бұрын
@@SuvaMukherjee yes that's why one should be mentally strong!!! To tackle these assholes!!!
@zeeshanalam74683 жыл бұрын
Always try to make a proper difference between your professional n personal life... What ever happened at your workplace, leave it at your office's gate only.. don't ever you bring it with you to your home 🙏
@mmeeta63623 жыл бұрын
All these points I needed to hear 2 years ago and I am glad that someone made video on this topic and suggested the solutions as well.
@dipti12123 жыл бұрын
Reporting behavioural issues in the company for our manager are taken granted way. Higher management only concentrates on the delivery of the project.IF TOXIC MANAGER IS BRINGING THAT IT’s OK FOR THEM.
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@jyotsnajadhav6813 жыл бұрын
Nice Video sir... mai bhi office me mere toxic seniors ke toxic behavior se gujar rahi hu..kyun ki mere team me sab oversmart log hai, jo dusre ke chup rhne ko woh unki kamjori samjate hai....mere seniors ke behavior se me irritated hui hu, suicide karne ke vichar mere man me aa rahe the... .lekin jab mere jiju ne mujhe aapka ye video bheja aur mene dekha.. tab mujhe realise hua ke aap same wohi point explain kar rhe hai... jo mere sath office me ho rahe hai... aur mujhe laga ki aise logo ko ignore karna hoga.. nhi to Job quite karna hoga... but ye aapka video dekh ke mai bhi kuch positive sochne lagi hu... Thank you sir for this video
@apurvtewari44343 жыл бұрын
Such a gold pill Ankur.... recently went through a phase of experiencing a toxic person
@skumar33953 жыл бұрын
Amazing articulation. I have a toxic boss who doesn't know what he is doing. I too tried everything to sort things but in the end, it's not worth wasting my life. So, am moving on.
@ajaysarode47573 жыл бұрын
Best Video on KZbin so far. Very Well Articulated with so much clarity. Thank Ankurji...Wish I had someone like you in my 20s.
@pankajtripathi50263 жыл бұрын
Definitely sir, u proved tht mine decision to leave toxic environment is correct 🙏 N this video came on right time where i m on notice period 😇
@mehulnileshjayaswal22693 жыл бұрын
I really would like to appreciate for your content. Secondly can you please make a video on how to reduce over thinking and keep ourselves mentally healthy
@InsiderGyaan3 жыл бұрын
Loved this video Ankur. I have been lucky to have been in a toxic working relation only once in 8 years. I realize now, empathizing really helped, to understand where the person was coming from. I did also raise my concerns to him personally and other leaders, managed to get out of the project in less than 2 months. But empathizing actually helped to move on from the drama and the mental stress, and bringing back my own confidence again for next projects.
@anushree073 жыл бұрын
Ankur, what you explained that works up to certain extent, but at times the political war goes to a long extent , where such toxic people gang up and standing against them for a long is really difficult. There survival becomes difficult.
@gauravthadanii3 жыл бұрын
Very true
@deepaliahire11213 жыл бұрын
True'...but always keep doing good and our work. good did always bounce back to us with good always and they will get their.
@lovenikki4933 Жыл бұрын
So true 😭
@thewatchworkshop3 жыл бұрын
Your channel is a GOLDMINE. I’m so glad I stumbled upon your channel lately. Really appreciate the efforts you put in Ankur.
@prachiagrawal94012 жыл бұрын
I loved the last point of empathy. It just simplifies everything at work and personally. Thank you!
@IAmWaliurRahman2 жыл бұрын
Your ads are bothering but videos are not. Good points.
@freespirit13753 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much, Ankur. I m working in a toxic environment since two years . Very helpful clip. Thank u
@sky_finance3 жыл бұрын
100% agreed with your statement, making distance from toxic people help us to focus on our assignment to achieve goals.
@sirajunnisaain5042 жыл бұрын
100% sir toxic mahole se mein bhi baahar aayi hoon, mein lecturer hoon, uss maahole mein bahoth udaas hojatithi, finally maine resign kardiya aur dhoosri institution mein kaam karrahi hoon, mein isiliye aapka video dhoondke watch karrahi hoon.. Finally jo aapne bola ka insaan paidaaishi aisa nahin hotha , mein aise hi sochthi hoon..Thank you very much...
@vandana64313 жыл бұрын
Very practical tips indeed.... Not for workplace only but for relationships also. Thanks
@moibulhoque1012 жыл бұрын
Just ignore them and follow the company rules. Company team and conditions and bosses targets are too differences. They always want to be in top. Thanks for motivation video.
@ashdeepkaurvij3 жыл бұрын
Oh that’s exactly what I felt today! Just had a conversation with my colleague today evening regarding the work environment. After watching this video , I’m sure I can survive this. There are very important key takeaways from what you’ve listed here. Stop Gossiping is the highlight. Couldn’t agree more to this. Good news spreads fast. Bad news spreads faster. 💯 Thank you Ankur for covering such relatable issues we experience in our lives. 🙌 Shall surely implement this for my own good :)
@maheshshelatkar72363 жыл бұрын
The amount of wisdom that anyone can get in your 15 min Video is just Surreal..
@Himanshi_girl2 жыл бұрын
This single video sorted my whole problem of life. Thank you Ankur sir 👍👍👍👍
@hiteshdua37463 жыл бұрын
Love you, Ankur. Always a pleasure to listen to you. You're a great mentor and a very genuine person!
@prerna44973 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this Valueable video. It is needed video for people like me who observe every little thing and if someone said anything bad they get affected. But best way to deal is as you said. Be more empathetic. Be more emotionally strong.
@bankinghub76833 жыл бұрын
You are an exceptional orator sir I can listen to u throughout the day without getting bored
@pallav07772 жыл бұрын
One of the finest videos on KZbin. Thank you so much 🔥💯❤
@RiyaBhatia263 жыл бұрын
Very common concern among working professionals!
@pankajshaw6743 жыл бұрын
yep
@giteshpandey3 жыл бұрын
The one channel we really need❤️
@AbhishekSharma-gi6eg3 жыл бұрын
This is so intresting that I happen to come across this when I am going through something similar. While with experience of 14year + you are expected to know all of this however it still healing and directional.
@yashwantkamat77485 ай бұрын
Totally agree to all of your points Ankur. Thank you for such informational video. For an example If boss is not appreciative of the work you do even if you do the work there is no point in doing it. You should always look for better things for yourself. Thanks again!
@sabahshaikh40313 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much sir....i was so stressed but because of you i am so relaxed now....
@abhilashagehlot59683 жыл бұрын
Avoiding drama has to be the best policy.
@nityabajpai2022 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. It was much needed. I was having a tons of stress which I could actually feel over my shoulders physically. This video has truly removed that stress to the extent when I can atleast sleep peacefully. Thanks so much!! Will try to follow all points one step at a time. You're are a great person ❤
@BabitaKumari-wv6ej7 ай бұрын
Thanks. Hope this helps me to fight the toxic environment in my office😊
@ratikantasahoo7153 жыл бұрын
This episode is so core to heart ,so true .Each line is so powerful and beautifully explained.The message is loud and Crystal clear .One of the best motivational speech till now .I can easily correlate this .Thanks Ankoor Sir 🙏🙏🙏
@nehagc3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video !Much needed.Please also guide how to not get overwhelmed with such environment, as once targetted emotions run high and you need someone to share which might get you in more trouble.
@nikhilsrivastava91203 жыл бұрын
Just to add to all the beautiful points, we must choose our battles wisely.
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@AsmaJaleel-bt6ye Жыл бұрын
Amazing Wt a gud suggestions u hv given in a simple way....100% sure u helped many with Ds speech..keep it up God bless u😊
@bsj01013 жыл бұрын
Thankyou Ankur. How to react when we give our 100% dedicatedly and do our work correctly but boss doesnot appreciate that, and personal interest that he has in a girl doesnt say to her anything in meetings so that she doesnt feel embarrased. It is very demotivating when dnt good feedback and appreciation
@rajatjain30823 жыл бұрын
One of the best video. Mental and emotional exploitation is at peak.
@akshaythakur48353 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ankur sir.... I really face these type toxic roundly behaviour and unwanted unproductive talk communication from last few month and i did not know how i deal with it. But after this video i diffnelty take action on it. 😊👍
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@jaiprakashtripathi48543 жыл бұрын
Ankur, your vedios are really helping to have common knowledge, that most of the people miss it.
@abhi745213 жыл бұрын
I respect u sir today I felt helpless and worthless due to my boss , my company
@alokdas27273 жыл бұрын
In workplace, we should encourage ourself to spread Positivity and say NO to toxicity/politics. Ankur sir, hats off to your contribution in our lives as you're investing your everything to grow our mindset. Salute ! 🎗️
@mojorojo63 жыл бұрын
This was best video. Yes, even better than stocks. It helped me to reflect upon my working environment and my actions. Thank-you.
@warikoo3 жыл бұрын
All the best
@drnabanita40563 жыл бұрын
I just lovvve you! Eventually you will save me from all troubles! Your clarity of thought is amazing 👏 It connects to me in all aspects
@nandinipattnaik5757 Жыл бұрын
These are pragmatic and well documented. Thank you Ankur.
@bajiraochavan90332 жыл бұрын
Ye mere liye video banaya hai shayad😊 Bahut benifits hua
@manjudalal2823 жыл бұрын
Feeling empowered now. Thanks so much!!!!🙏🙏 The last point is truly a gem 💎
@dillipdora6053 жыл бұрын
Hi Ankur, I can connect with all of your videos. This issue is now growing most of the work places. It is a thing that is causing mental issues in most of the employees.
@ytb.addict3 жыл бұрын
oh my god sir I loved it when you talked about yourself in context you used a female self salutation it grabs my attention and make things more interesting and actually alerts my brain because i am always imagining you or myself in the situation and expecting male pronouns but suddenly a female version comes out. Thanks Sir
@sreetamadas233 жыл бұрын
And most important thing is fighting in everything is not possible for some people...and one only way to make ownself happy is choose own way ..yes in this type of situation my close one and my family support me
@BultiRoy-cr1pb4 ай бұрын
This video is really helpful for me... I'm also facing such intoxicity in my work place 😢
@mohdtati48933 жыл бұрын
Like who think ankur warikoo sir is the best startup and business advisor
@brudhk76493 жыл бұрын
Very true sir they need to be in the limelight ...for that they employ all sorts of dramas to gain attention and importance ...they want to keep people around them, nodding for everything they say and do
@tusharmodi98833 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this video. I was going through similar situations at my workplace. This video is definitely worth learning about tackling such a situation. I'm going to implement this thing personally and professionally in my life
@rajeevpratapsingh69992 жыл бұрын
I am glad I came across this video. Best take away for me is to analyse higher managers as well. As mostly we are concerned about the behaviour of our colleagues and manager. We never try to study the situation globally. @Ankur, thanks a ton for sharing this perspective. Keep up the good work.
@MohsinAlimilosh Жыл бұрын
You are the best and so easy to understand. One of the best truly. God Bless you!❤♥♥
@meghajoshi27233 жыл бұрын
I have recently started following you and just love your content it like u know the nerves of your audience. My question is please create a video for a toxic member in your family please
@fredykoshy46993 жыл бұрын
Points that is occurred in a professional world. Thank you sir for your stunning solutions
@sidraiqbal67602 ай бұрын
We love you ankur... you're great.. informationative. Keep doing this work from the knowledge of investment, IT and everything you are great
@22700000093 жыл бұрын
Sir,you are really an inspiration to people like us,I wish I could be like you..how could explain all these tough life situations so easily...
@Paragjaswal5 ай бұрын
Thank You Sir, It meant a lot for me & helped a lot. God Bless You
@ManishKumarishere3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for providing such a very useful content, i'm going to watch this video again and again to keep myself motivated.
@syedziaurrahman27133 жыл бұрын
Thanks brother for an information, this is the issue that i have been facing on a dailybasis
@moitryguha47192 жыл бұрын
Very well portrayed and well defined. This are not difficult task but small tips to make them as your habit. I encourage the last point empathize your boss. And I really need to know my boss after hearing you.
@yatharthvlog73172 жыл бұрын
Sir ur videos is just an rescue for my mental state m going through in my office...thankyou ❤️
@shaifaliagarwal9473 жыл бұрын
Very well explained and thank you ... I will be able to start my day with positivity today.
@abhi745213 жыл бұрын
Tu bhai hai apnaa,ek dum sahi topic choose kiya
@sachin336517 ай бұрын
You are gem..... Alll credit to your exposure
@mohitgoel7243 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir for sharing such a solution for the biggest problem in corporate. Believe me you are the life saver of the many people like me to excel in career.❤
@abhishektd20102 жыл бұрын
Thank You Ankur sir for sharing this video. I really like the way you have explained the various situations and how to handle those. after watching your video I don’t think I need to listen or watch any other video on this topic and really feeling very motivated and confident about myself , thank you for sharing this video.
@vijaypandey71563 жыл бұрын
Actually sir i think i am follow all this point before this video... But after watching this video i feel great about it ❤️
@snoisoni34823 жыл бұрын
Sir,, Please make a video on your personal life .. what u do in life.how u came to this stage. Do u hav a family, own house.. do u hav kids, what they do ..etc etc. If it's not too much to ask, please make a video.
@vikasdubey86978 ай бұрын
Excellent Sir... Salute to you...👌
@vimlagajaria71982 жыл бұрын
Super liked this video. Eksum word to word sahi bola he aapne. I m now ur bigg biggg bigggg fan
@avinashdevadiga92363 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this important talk. This was one of much needed talk for me. I am grateful for your help and guidance. Thank you Sir
@aayushanurag2793 жыл бұрын
I just wish this video was released much earlier. Never realised that we can be feeding into the energy by confronting/saying yes..this was happening on a daily basis by the topmost person of the company with my colleagues & myself and Man! The outbursts that wrecks your mental peace and created such a toxic work place. This content definitely makes me understand a little better and to watch out for such signs in future.
@omkartalvelkar39083 жыл бұрын
Absolutely brilliant stuff.... Thank you so much for the real guidance.
@helipatel92803 жыл бұрын
Hello Sir, Thank you for providing so much valuable information on youtube , after watching your videos I feel over the time, I have evolved to cultivate a very mature thinking and lifestyle at a young age.. May you keep sharing for the rest of your life and I am sure I will still following your wise nuggets of wisdom even then 🙏😊