How To Deal With Toxic People

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[@gabgab..]

Hamza you really helped me out here bro. Im a muslim and people at my shcool kept calling me a "muslim" in a bad way and I just confronted them in a good manner and they respected it. Thanks bro. It really helped me out with confronting them as I've wanted to do it for some time now and after this video I huilt the courage up to it. Thanks bro Much love from your fellow cult member, Gab

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[@turkeysandwich1275]

So 4 months ago I had this really toxic friend and we ran a business together. (He was a terrible business partner.) and often times he would bully and be racist to me and my friend (his name is Srish) and he started dating this girl and was often very rude to this girl and he would ignore her. He eventually broke up with her and once that happened He started to become very mean and aggressive especially whenever we would be running our business. And honestly I used a lot of copes like “oh he’s just going through something” or “maybe he’s just joking around” but it was quite the opposite he was very insecure and he put his insecurities on me and Srish. So I confronted him and he completely denied it. No apology whatsoever. And now I cut him off and took the business and I ran it better than ever. Thanks Hamza.

[@Poetry4Peace]

Sick bro what business

[@osbellgarcia7065]

I have a female friend who lied me, about something serious, I was disappointed it but I used that anger for lift up higher weight at the gym, breaking my record in a weighted pull up, I was telling to myself, you will see in a few months, I will be a stronger! Hamza is right in the end, I did this, it's true

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[@MillorBey]

Dear Hamza, Thank you

[@Achilleas-gaming]

My gf is the toxic one today is the day i will end my relationship with her

[@Fred-zt5ky]

dump her, King 👑

[@firestar5946]

I had a toxic friend for like 6 years. He was my best friend and I was devestated seeing him just stop caring about our friendship. After actually cutting him off my life went through the roof. My grades and body improved and I finally see my life improving

[@demonplayer2372]

I had three toxic friends they were really close to me but after i watched hamzas vids i left them and i feel the change in my life, thenks Hamza

[@mt70092]

Man, I remember having a friend group back in school when I was younger where two of the guys would just constantly shit on the rest of the guys a lot of the time, including myself. I always thought it was just a joke and whatnot, but man looking back it was such a weird and bad dynamic. From calling friends stupid to being outright racist in a "joking" manner, but getting offended if you ever joked about them. You can tell if someone's toxic just by whether or not you can say with or without 100% certainty that they talk shit behind your back.

[@ADELO1it]

thank you hamza you changed my life

[@rustieskitchen6523]

I needed this video, especially that second half. My best workout was after I got pissed off cuz my cat pissed on my desk chair. I deal with a LOT of aggression so imma start tryna tap into that more at the gym cuz I got a lot of trauma. Thanks Hamza keep inspiring 💪🙏

[@kanishqsharma5104]

I am now suffering from this kind of situation and no therapy worked except your advice. I am now showing aggression towards them and working on myself. This is the best pill. Take revenge by living the best of your life.

[@SinisterDeveloper]

Hamza you worded this video perfectly, thanks for this type of content, needed this video man. ❤

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Been listening to your videos while cleaning my room

[@divyeshchougule262]

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[@devagrawal7146]

I have only toxic friends so i am all alone now cause after cutting them off i found being alone is better than being surrounded by toxic people

[@9pkokak]

My friends are so toxic and assholes that they still laugh at you even if you try to sit them down and talk through your friendship.Thats how toxic mine are

[@MoTheDawahMan]

I have been in high school (UK) for 2 years and a bit now, so I'm in year 9 and I regret how I acted in the past which has given me the bad reputation I have now and I have a more respected friend who is badly affecting my life. He's slightly on self improvement but he doesn't respect me. I either move to another school to restart; become more popular and respected or slightly improve my reputation in school, deal with the 2 and a bit years left and improve my life after school.

[@adamkolino8114]

Love from Poland bro

[@ItzzzDre]

this video felt wayyy different than your other videos. idk why but what ever u changed keep that shit up

[@shrish_says_]

Thank you

[@jrpn-wtch]

i'm glad I found this video. I used to have a toxic best friend from around 2020 till 2022. I cut him off before I even found Hamza's channel and before I even went to the gym or did self improvement. I took the courage and he was literally the type of "friend" Hamza described. I go to the same class with him, same year but I set strong boundries and we only talk in school till school ends. (this is my last year of middle school aka 9th grade where I live)

[@tehlaziness]

omg Hamza, I went through something very similar last year too. I was dating a girl and I brought her into my friend circle and she just wrecked my life. She was emotionally abusive, throwing tantrums and lashing out and berating me every single day while we were dating. She even threatened to beat me once. And then weird stuff started going on between her and someone that was supposed to be one of my best friends. She started going behind my back spreading rumors and lies about me with his help, and eventually she ripped apart the entire community I built around her. It turned out she was very manipulative and had no moral qualms against lying to get her way. I lost most of the people I thought were my friends, I lost all of my readers (I was writing novels at the time) and my mental health went to trash for a while. I only found out she was doing it thanks to the one true friend that told her to go f**k herself and showed me the shit she was DMing around about me. It turns out all of my male friends stabbed me in the back because they just wanted to get in her pants, and she was trying to get with one of the "friends" I was closest with herself. In the end, I even had to leave my job because I worked with her and she was doing the same evil crap at work too. I'm so sorry you went through anything like that, and its hugely inspirational that you're willing to talk about it. This and so many other things. You're truly a man's man without glossing over your humanity. I also have to say, you hit the nail on the head in regards to hating their guts. This needs to be said, to hell with everyone that disagrees; the naysayers have likely never been through it themselves. Another point that bears mentioning is, if these people were toxic and manipulative, hating them eliminates the sentiments of "Oh, maybe fate will bring us back together one day and it'll work out this time" or "Oh, well if I had done this thing differently or been better in this way", no. To hell with them. They're in the past and they don't deserve any positive sentiment after what they did. I honestly hope they all destroy each other like they did me. If they ever see you again, let them see how much better you are without them. Let them see how successful you are without them, how much you treasure the true friends that stuck by your side and helped your through that quagmire the assholes dropped you into. You're awesome and its their loss, not yours. Thank you for everything you do Hamza. You've inspired me so much. I literally watch your videos during my daily workouts now. Keep kicking ass, man!

[@barox2869]

Thank you Hamza

[@ironmine]

Everything he said is bang on

[@User_03693]

Thank you hamza, as a foreign person in a different country I receive so much racism and this helps a lot man

[@zion367]

It seems like a smart move, but only getting in your anger is not gonna work because you are not going to the core of the pain. Also, becoming lean does not make you a better person. If done from this intent it only compensates for the inadeqauty one feels inside.

[@vicenzocento9715]

good points

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[@ianvisnevschi6827]

You’ve become my role model and helped me change for the good

[@ViltrumiteIsRite99]

Based vid, Hamza. Don’t regret the aggression & agitation you’ve shown. Its real shit, and you gotta harness it to your production & method. Glad I clicked!

[@cnasr9992]

I do not know why this feels so fucking relatable, back almost a year ago, like around late june, one of my old friends, me and two girls formed a "friend group" or something like that in order to "get closer to each other". While my friend had a crush on one of the girls, i didnt really care but he became overtime more and more toxic towards me because she didn't really care for him and kind of had some attraction towards me, I understand his feeling but I literally didn't give a shit about her and got more and more burned out the more time I spend around them, and until december 2022, I finally took the decision to completely ghost this "friend group" and my life have been going uphill ever since, I doubt that they miss me since when I left this group no one talked to me or asked about me ever since, but realising where I am now, stronger and more motivated, and where I could have been, still burning out and getting more and more depressed, I literally felt much better

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My boy Hamza

[@Sabbie07]

Be careful who you trust closest people hurt you most

[@RJ-do4fv]

This is probably the best, honest and most insightful vedio of yours I have seen in a long time

[@Adi29x]

"Take Their Souls"

[@LacedCandyBar]

I have this one friend who I've been friends with for about 5 years almost and me and him have never had an argument we're never silent whenever we call each other, we have almost the same interests and no matter what we do we're always supportive, we both watch your channel and we've grown and changed drastically within the last year or few months, some of my other friends shame me for changing myself like my physique, or they think having abs and a decent chest is cringe, but I cant seem to actually cut them off for some reason it feels wrong to just unadd them because I've been dealing with them for a long period of time but this video has really opened my eyes for the better.

[@cheza3000]

This is the good shit. Big love hamza! You've really helped my life in the past 6 months, I was thinking the other day how blessed I am to have seen your self-improvement vids. Fuck the toxic Jeffreys. Keep pursuing excellence. 1.5 Mil subscribers says a lot.

[@carlboivin1456]

I really appreciate your honesty during all these videos, you make me want to keep working hard asf! Thanks for helping me become a better version of myself

[@julian1457]

I was like this, used the anger to make things happen. Now i am a bit depressed, but i am realizing that i need to release that, bc otherwise i Will get ill or something. Thank you hamza.

[@Sculpturesque]

This is the best and the most relatable video you have made. This video is probably going to change my life.

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Thank you!

[@sleeplessnights6224]

So glad that this was my mindset when I joined a boxing gym a month ago due to heart ache

[@zianzaujec2733]

hello hamza I would like to tell you that your videos are making me a better person thank you

[@acechka]

7:35 In my situation I've always had a group of friends, not like one guy I know, we were like a tribe, a weak tribe, the Jeffery tribe. And before this video, because we were a very close group of friends, I had to do something. So I started my self-improvement alone. I didn't party with them, play video games, etc. And after a year I became filthy rich, got my first girlfriend and my grades in school improved. And then one of my friends came up to me and said, "Bro, I want to like you." We started going to the gym together, and after he put on some muscle, we encouraged other guys to join us. And after they were all in the gym, I told them how to improve and that it's not all about looks if you want girls. And now almost every day we sit in school and talk about your new videos like "damn, this guy speaks fax" lol Thanks, Hamza! Keep inspiring people.

[@sheilahabiodun1315]

I love him to is fighting against all the evil ideologies that they push on us

[@rebuildeditz3501]

U have helped me out a lot

[@rhyguy6260]

I had a jeffry day today. I did manage to keep my year challenge going but I didn’t wake up early and even now it’s midnight. I didn’t get everything done I wanted to today. I will do better tomorrow

[@azi8929]

I respects you for helping me with anoying friends.

[@cosmoticking7012]

i learned all of this myself around a month ago. Works.

[@ilyasnassery7036]

What a video man i really needed this and this just goes to show how great you are for risking you channel to help us

[@legoandrei2024]

2:41 yoo thats CJ

[@ukrainaunfiltered5435]

I don't even have to imagine, this was my high school friends group

[@BrandonHalo]

I ghost toxic people.

[@qr8440]

Respect to you brother, and all my brother out there that seek the challenge of self-improvement.

[@Thomas-os6xn]

This is the kinda shit i need. I'm always the scapegoat of the group and people make fun of me, and when I tell them i just get the response "it's just a joke".

[@levifphillips]

"Can't be stabbed in the back by someone unless they first had theirs arm around you."

[@jamalplatino]

That girl who called me a disturbance, have it coming, same with a lot of negative people in my life.

[@seanfromtheyukon]

Watched and took notes 01.10.23

[@paratpargoud3789]

Take Their Souls, Not Them.

[@Demitri_Ungureanu08050]

Thank you bro I really needed this

[@ozeanskyman5666]

Very humble, thank you for mentioning, that Adonis can mess up as well sometimes :)

[@cactus_pot]

This is a useful video thanks

[@smoothlesst1981]

Ok so far never had toxic friends. We do take a pissat each other but thats only when its the bros , ariund other people we talk good about each other and try to make each other look really good

[@Resolute7]

100% of my friends aren’t *friends* and when I ignore them I end up coming off as over rude or I get lonely

[@jhonkar7805]

16:32 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

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It’s the raw unfiltered parts that bring the change. Let’s go 😈

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Lone you brotha

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May Allah bless you

[@watchyourback8877]

Thank you Hamza, for being selfless and sharing your story about controlled aggression, you may think that it will take a hit on people's perspective of you, but no, quite the opposite, I respect you even more, I used to think that being angry was wrong, it is the outlet that should be considered, not the emotion. When you asked us if our friend was more of an Adonis or a Jeffrey, I was contemplating, I didn't know if my friend was either because he is trying to improve, I'm happy for him, but he's such an ass, he doesn't give back, he's an ungrateful piece of shit bro, he knew about my situation, why I'm in a bad mood, worst part is he knew, now I tried to understand his situation because he did admit to knowing and he was afraid to confront me because of it was partly his fault, congratulations, atleast he's self aware and he doesn't want to do that in the future again, but fuck him bro, no matter what happened to this guy, I was there to help him, I was there to comfort him, I was there to bring him up when others pulled him down, I did everything so that him and his crush could be together, he stopped because he realized it's not going anywhere, but he immediately fell for the woman I like, that's some pussy shit, he can't even confront me about it, he doesn't even have the balls to admit it to me, I'm gonna take their souls, imma head out and star running, FUCK. THIS. GUY.

[@timangeles9071]

Love it. Rage was given to us by God for a reason

[@oxye4247]

Hey man, how u doing after your surgery? Hope all is well.

[@simonemurgia1442]

Fury is my best weapon.

[@prestonkim9096]

Hamza I don’t know if you’ll see this but could you make a video on how to film yourself at the gym

[@loganblackburn2427]

“The more chances you give someone to redeem themselves, the more bullets you give them to shoot you in the gut.” I got shot in the gut for six years by someone who I thought was a “friend”. I’m ashamed that it took me that long to distance myself from him, but I’m glad that he can’t make me feel inferior anymore.

[@jedn1660]

I still don't really get how to define people as toxic. Some of my friends I sincerely know deep down want to see me grow and do well but the bantering is sometimes a bit out of hand

[@P_I_G_G_A]

I was it 4th 5 6 7 and 8th grade with toxic people and i got somewhat of a mental breakdown

[@Aur9345]

Thank you Hamza!

[@akmalwasti4745]

learn to be dangerous and then learn to control it

[@bogiebomb08]

That David Goggins book is one of my favorite reads so far. Amazing book

[@nave5250]

Having a toxic family is probably worse...

[@uwubot3132]

I have been weak my entire life, always have been skinny and bullied by others but now I'm one of the strongest in my class am just 15 and since they use to bully me now I bully them like punch them all the time but now after this video i felt guilty about my past self and my present. I apologize.

[@disobeats]

i had some very toxic friends in school, i really wanted to cut them off but they were so embedded in my friend group that i couldnt without leaving behind everyone. only now school is over am i free

[@ShahGamingPro]

one of the best videos ive seen from you

[@lewis2808]

Really enjoyed and related to this Hamza. Keep up the good work bro

[@hurricane7124]

I have this one person who is quite toxic to me in high school. My only problem is I have a really good friend who is also close with him rn. I feel if I were to tell him something my other really good friend will cut me off in response. I don’t really know what to do

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W HAMZA

[@ThechefRontop]

Hamza, I watch your videos daily. You help me get through the week day by day.

[@soobred2672]

i think i am a toxic person i am going to change

[@samwilley8748]

I dated a toxic girl and got completely manipulated by her on 3 separate occasions until I finally realized what was going on. I have forgiven and am still close to almost everyone I’ve been rejected or broken up with besides her

[@TrackYami]

Dude I like these videos it makes me want to be more like doing and like I need to read books I need to keep myself busy and I need to get a job and need to do all these things so I will do them this is my vow I will do

[@itz_reaper473]

Thanks i really needed this lol

[@lunaropp]

Relatable

[@cyrusB.33]

9:33 To sum up the video.