How to DM a girl on Instagram - Dating guide for men

[@BrainWavesVillain]

it's so sad that that she called men without friends: "creepy loner"

[@aryaun]

She also said girls post pics with friends as if we give af😂

[@bankrollfresh69]

Tip: be yourself, positive and forward. If she bring fk all to the table then leave it. Dating is about chemistry and not playing games.

[@dennisjames6753]

I do tend to get messages on Instagram from female followers, but my hunch is they're often scams or fake. Never thought to actually use it as a dating site. I mostly just post Golden Age of Hollywood movie star photos. That said, I've now added a bio and some pictures of myself on my page. Who knows?

[@xpallodoc1147]

I’ve had luck with no profile pic. KZbin comments section and videos are also a way to pick up women

[@andriidanylov9453]

I guess starting from commenting when other person asking something under pictures is better, because You coming to dialog. DM may be only as second step.

[@JimGEDDIS3000]

Excuse me.. I thought Instagram was similar to Pinterest 🙄🤦. I had no idea Instagram was a dating app. Also, my experience with Instagram is it's full of scammers and fake people 😔😔😔😔.

[@DatingByBlaine]

That's why people should be vigilant and be very careful in approching people on Instagram.

[@JimGEDDIS3000]

@@DatingByBlaine Understandable, However I never went out of my way to approach anyone on Instagram.

[@modelclasslist]

OF COURSE you can meet people from social media. It's better if you are willing to invest the time getting and staying noticed online. Instagram, Twitter, TikTok, KZbin, Bumble, LinkedIn, Facebook are all good to meet people. Attract dates if you do not need your hand held or napkin placed. Be a man and lead. Go for what you want. Do it without being clumsy.

[@zaine117]

You seem like you're underage lmao

[@lemantarawaly3081]

I want to meet woman on Instagram, but I am really leary on putting my profile on public because I work at a highschool and afraid students will add me. This could put me in real trouble. Is their any other way of meeting woman.

[@user-ng4ug1cb2p]

You find any luck?

[@Unlucky_831]

All this to get a girls attention, but all you gotta do is say hi to get a guys attention 🙄

[@Yuuppppp]

as soon as she got to the point about commenting on a girls photo and telling her to check her DM’s, I was like oh OK. She doesn’t know anything about getting girls.

[@magnusburnouf661]

I wonder why having one friend or no friend just mean your creepy...a lot of video gamer have no friend or very few and its dont mean they are creepy, just boring . Its sure for gamer best place would be comic con but since its only one time I years you cannot have a lot of pratice to get better at trying to pick the interest of a women. Only place you can know you have share interest...

[@fabiancdotcom]

Just like all dating apps... Women read the messages but only so they make fun of you on tiktok instead. Endless cycle. Also I'm way to ugly to date so there is also that.

[@Eotres]

I get what you saying, a lot of women can be cold you just gotta not care about the result. If you thinking of the failure you’ll never shoot. Believe in yourself. You ain’t ugly my guy the average man is so mediocre be above average work at it king

[@Juans5488]

It sounds like you’ve worked in BB sales before!😂

[@jorgegrant1897]

You known I using this strategy and doesn't working nothing un the us they want your money and thats all!.

[@Alocubano6174]

This is why I don't use apps

[@jacobersno6955]

What if I want to get married you, is there any tips about it ? :)

[@bagelj]

I’m doomed

[@billalan1593]

Sure I don't have a awesome profile but Does that mean all I get is a mostly almost all have a story about-- o me and my mom are having hard time can you help us? Am interested but can you fill my gas tank up, how do I do that send her a$80, I think Iam still waiting for a girl that I sent a almost full tank but that just ended my dating site trust , for 20 years Ive been ripped off ,lied to , humiliated, disgusted , hurt and Instagram is one the most crooked apps there is . Blaine am surprised you would even credit that cold , ridiculous site, Get a guy u know on there with a basic no dazzled profile, few followers and watch how many scammers you will notice.,do know what a scammer is or maybe I don't?

[@jaketoo7958]

normally I'd just send her "hey, (location)??" and go from there

[@marniekilbourne608]

No.

[@Notmiuser]

I thought you were gonna say linkedin

[@DatingByBlaine]

:D It's a good place to check someone, however they will be notified that their profile has been eyed :D

[@andyr.5769]

​@@DatingByBlaineWith that in mind, IDK if Instagram notifies a member that their page or DM had been checked by a visitor or another Instagram member? Is that true?

[@rabtechtutorialvideo]

How can do DM on a new account please help 😊 I just meet gorgeous girl

[@michaelbarrett9107]

Imagine spending months to make an instagram profile more attractive so some shallow women might look at you.

[@syedsabeeth7996]

add chapters

[@michaelbarrett9107]

Creepy loner vibes…..yeah I’m done with this. I travel and work for a living.

[@zachharris3040]

Although some of the stuff you say is correct, a lot of it is obvious and you really have an impersonal presentation style. You’re talking to a lot of guys who are for lack of a better word outsiders. Yet, you talk like the most basic girl with really terrible priorities Cultivate a social profile so that girls will like you? That’s pretty lame. It may be true but man you definitely don’t come across as someone I would want to talk to.

[@kurtudingai]

Babe, you need a microphone

[@jackhansel5036]

you need to turn your speakers up big boy

[@mikejohnson699]

Absolutely horrible failure advice

[@jacobersno6955]

How I can find you on Instagram?

[@lmfao6530]

See the description

[@jacobersno6955]

@@lmfao6530 I’ve found, mr_ersno