How to find a Good Guy in a world full of Bad Guys!!

If your looking for "Mr. Right" this video will give you all the answers you will need!

[@lindadow8531]

I have been widowed 3 years, not interested in any man, be careful what you ask for. Drama comes with it. Peaceful by yourself.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Linda, I have been thinking about that! It is peaceful now.

[@Candice-1989]

Yes, I'm a young widowed Baptist Pastors wife from Georgia. I'm content, no one can come close to what a godly man I had.. prayers for all of you who are walking the road of being widowed .. God is my everything. Washed by the blood, saved by grace🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕 I been walking the road for 3 years also. He treated me like a Princess...

[@WayfaringStranger56]

Beautiful prayer, moved me to tears. As a sister in Christ, I am blessed to see how God is using you through your channel to share His Good News! God bless you, sister! Great video.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you so much and God bless you as well!

[@williamproper7848]

I thoroughly enjoyed your video. Being a Christian, I loved your prayer of Salvation. I pray others did also. There is nothing like having the Holy Trinity in your heart. Thank you Sandra for your advice to the ladies on finding "Mr. Right." Even though this information came from years ago, ala Ann Landers, It's so true today. I look forward to your future videos. This one being on Easter, Resurrection Sunday was special to me.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

William Proper, thank you for your comment. It was well written and very encouraging. I did not plan on praying, it just happened.

[@happydeedee1765]

Oh Sandra, thank you for being such a Blessing to us older gals out here navigating these widow-waters. So glad you're here sis. Peace.🙏❤

[@ETylerJC]

How about women no longer need men in today’s world? Widowed since I was 49. Only realized I didn’t need one when I became a grandma at age 60, and wish I had all the time back I spent searching for something I did not need! Very happy at age 75. 😀

[@cumberlandquiltchic1]

Im 55 and a widow of 11 years. No interest in remarrying or dating.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

That’s wonderful!! You will have no problem living your life on your own. God bless you.💕🥰

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

I’m happy for you, that is wonderful that you can enjoy life without marriage. 💕🥰

[@Mrs.Peachthriftyliving]

This is such great advice I pray that so many people will listen to this if they're thinking about remarrying, this would be saved so many problems lives. I think about my own, married the first time for 19 years and then marrying my husband of almost 40 years, by God's grace it was awesome we went really fast about getting married, one thing I knew him all my life but he was a little bit older than me and we did not run in the same circles. I was at church girl and he was not, in the meantime he had given his heart to the Lord and when we met he had been serving the lord for a few years. God bless you and I'm loving you stories and your help ❤️

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Mrs Peach, thank for your sweet comment. God will continue to be with us even if we make bad choices in a marriage. But, it’s so lovely when you do it God’s way!❤️💕🥰

[@alyce-kayruckelshaus1224]

Another reason not to look for the same man we were married to before, no matter how wonderful he was: Because WE'VE changed. When you're with someone -- good or bad -- it changes you. You grow up during that time, and in many ways, you just change. When your partner dies, it can change you, too. So the person you are is different from the person you were when you were with him. At least, that's how it is for me; maybe not everyone. But I know that if I were to marry again, even though my husband was ideal for me, I would need someone different now. Thank you so much for sharing these videos, Sandra. They're really making me think. Thank you, too, for sharing the prayer and the Scripture, along with your thoughts.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

What a good point Alyce, your right, we have changed in all those years of marriage.

[@alexiasherman3358]

Alyce-Kay Ruckelshaus I was married for 31 years and we were like peanut butter 'n jelly. Randy died 11 years ago and for the first 5-8 years, was waiting for me to get back to the woman I was when married. Well, she never returned - that was something I had to let go of. Your comment above turned into an "a ha" moment. I've now been on my own for 11 years and have also changed a lot in that time. I definitely agree with you, if I were to meet someone now, would be different from Randy, who I grew up with. His death changed me forever, and being on own since has made me a very independent woman plus I'm older too. Never thought of how much I've changed throughout especially these last 11 years. Appreciate your comment.

[@alyce-kayruckelshaus1224]

Awwww ​@@alexiasherman3358 so glad it helped!

[@hazztv6317]

Yes, because when we go through changes we grow our bodies, mind and souls grow after pain and when we alone we grow to another level. Life is about storms and experiences. We grow to other levels. We get stronger. But we have to always have love in our hearts. Amen

[@TheMocao]

I recently read a quote attributed to Lucille Ball, when someone asked why she remarried a man so different from Desi. She said something to the affect that the reason so many people have disastrous second marriages, is because they keep trying to find the same things in different people. That was my “aha moment”

[@lesjay6968]

I'm a widow too...I don't understand why u are looking for a man after only 3 months....it's been 4 yrs for me...I was happy for forty years but now I'm enjoying living alone for first time in my life....not looking for a man...never even crossed my mind...

[@MD-hb3pk]

Ya 3 months, can’t imagine. Still in shock.

[@BearsMjg]

Me too. I don’t understand. I was married 45 years. He passed away only 2 1/2 months ago. I cannot imagine even considering another man…ever. What is wrong with the woman?

[@songbird5030]

Thank you Sandra! I really appreciate your videos! I lost my husband 5 months ago, and it has been the most difficult time of my life. My husband was awesome and I miss him so much!! Thanks for your videos, it is really helpful to hear you share your thoughts!!

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Dear Sandra, there is not one answer for everyone, we all have to find our own path in life. All our marriages were very different as is our personalities and needs.

[@davisholman8149]

Whoa - Ann Landers 😍 - things are WAY DIFFERENT out there from when that article was written. When I first moved to Arizona, I remember sitting in a little waiting area, talking to an older woman while I waited for my car to be serviced. She was a widow & I asked her, being this area has many retirees, if she was finding men to date. She rolled her eyes & said, “All they are looking for is a “nurse with a purse.” I thought that was so funny - but most likely true.🌵😜

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

There are a lot of good guys out there, ask God to bring one to you, and God Bless you!

[@michellediekman4873]

Love those sayings!! Here's another one "" it's better to be alone then wish you were"" you are a Sweetheart, God Bless you 😙❤❤❤

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

LOL!!! Oh my, so much truth to that one!! Thanks for your comment, I love it!

[@patriciaredick9849]

Thank you Sandra. I've been a widow for 3 months also. My husband had Alzheimers. I am finding a lot of enjoyment and encouragement in your videos.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Oh, we could talk, right?

[@cherylhubert2713]

Thank you Sandra. We do need the Lord Jesus in all things. This is true advice, coming sense. ✝️🙏🏼

[@sharonholt3118]

I love your testimony! Thank God for Christians like you. We need more of them in this world .

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you Sharon!!

[@a.j.4661]

Awe…. I felt that big hug. Thank you for doing this. 💕

[@tammyneill8406]

I noticed Sandra , where someone made a comment about not getting religious. Said she already had a religion. Please don’t let that discourage you talking about & bragging on our Lord Jesus ! Your very words might through the Holy Spirit bring someone to except Jesus as their personal savior.I am a widow of almost 3 yrs. I could not have made it this far without the Lord being with me . Brag on Jesus for he is worthy of our praise . Bless you Sandra you are such a beautiful lady .

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you, so much, that encourages my heart.

[@liewhtor]

Sandra I am A new subscriber. We are the same age. My first video I watched of yours I relayed to it so much . My husband is still alive he is 83. Things seem to be going downhill somewhat. But he is still in pretty darn good health. So a lot of the things you’re talking about I’m trying to take notes for when this actually will happen. Although his family has longevity such as 96 to hundred. So who knows I may go before he does. I have a suggestion. You talked about papers that you had to get all together after a husband‘s death. Could you possibly go over some of those so we out there could plan ahead and know what to do. Sincerely, me. I am a Christian and I love Jesus. my husband in such a prayer warrior. God Bless you keep the Faith.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

I will try to do that, and God bless you.

[@evelynfredericks4397]

The most important thing for me to do after my husband passed was the income tax. You have to do that for him.i am in Canada,so may be different somewhere else.

[@hope3761]

My Grandfather lived to be 94. My Grandmother did not

[@louisegrove4248]

Thank you for this! May God bless your ministry on youtube (because that is what it is) ! (Titus 2:1-6) "But speak thou the things which become sound doctrine: {2} That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience. {3} The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; {4} That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, {5} To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. {6} Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded."

[@felicitypaulse7965]

A beautiful prayer of Salvation... it's not easy starting over again but it's best to be fussy

[@sandracheatwood7634]

Loved your introduction to the gospel. I pray someone accepted Jesus!

[@donnadornbusch6738]

Bless you Sandra- I love a true believer 🙏🌷

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you Donna!!

[@delorisobrien2639]

Happy Easter. Love your advice. You are a Godly Woman and if you meet a good man,he will be blessed.

[@debbiel2098]

and another 🚩...if a Man does something that displeases you, hurts your feelings, or makes you mad, and you ask him to STOP.....and he keeps on doing it over and over...that Man does not love or respect you!!

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

So true!!

[@susansmith493]

Same for women.

[@vondavee1544]

I just discovered your videos, and what a wonderful surprise your a Christian, I am saved and some days I long to leave this world and be with the Lord. I lost my only child 13 years ago and my younger only sibling and I miss her so much. Your message’s enlighten me.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

God comfort your hearts here on earth, and remember your daughter is in your future, it’s not over.

[@kathybriscoe1474]

Excellent advice to every woman whatever reason they are single. Thank you also for the scripture at the end of your video.

[@carolynthomas8193]

I hope you have a wonderful 2nd marriage. They say love is better the 2nd time around. You are such an encouragement.

[@found-it0620]

One tip a happy friend gave me: hang out at Cabela's, Hardware Stores - where men frequent. That's where she met her bf.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Love it!!

[@annatshenye8839]

I enjoy watching your videos, Sandra. God bless you 🙏🏽 ❤️

[@MegDD3912]

Good video! I agree those are really important things to think about. I've been wanting to make a list to give my daughter she just turned 16

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Glad it was helpful!

[@puppy2haley]

I use to look forward to their columns daily WHEN I was growing up in 50’s & 60’s. 😂Great memories!! ✝️❤️

[@eessa1727]

your vedio landed on my feed is no accident..I am in tears❤❤🙏

[@brendalamson2493]

We had her in the Bakersfield Californian when I was young and Mom and Iiked her and Dear Abby as long as it lasts. ♥️

[@nyebazashivan3064]

Am your new subscriber from Uganda the pearl of Africa 💚. Thank you for loving JESUS ❤

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Welcome Nyebaza!!

[@pattyhustad8198]

I did the prayer with you, even though I do feel Jesus in my heart. I never knew all the Ann Landers and Dear Abby background, so very interesting. You are a beautiful lady, love that green necklace. Great message today.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Oh Patty, your so very sweet, thank you!

[@cherylthepearl4085]

I thought about Ann Landers as soon as you held up that newspaper article. All good things to think about. I myself am not interested in having another man in my life. Maybe one day but the thought of holding the hand of a man, or anything else makes me feel ill. I guess I had the best in my mind and for now I’m fine by myself. Or rather I’m not alone. God is always with me. He is my everything for now. Thanks for the big hug Sandra. I needed it. You are absolutely gorgeous on the inside and the outside. Your skin is radiant. Luv your voice also. God bless.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

You overwhelmed me with your sweet comment, God bless you!

[@karlawyman1054]

I think there are different chapters in our book of life.When you are young you want a husband to support you and maybe have children.That was how we used to think.I have been on my own for a long time now,wish not to take care of a man.I am in a chapter where I take care of myself.Do what I want,all the time ha ha.

[@SheriLatulip]

When you bend you head down you can see your hairpiece.

[@mimiv8766]

🐈‍⬛🙀meow URGH 🙀🐈‍⬛

[@javelinaflips-annie5000]

#15: A Man is Not a Plan . Thank you Sandy❤

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

LOL!!

[@carolyngunn-hook9265]

Thanks for your sincere helps. We each have to search out but. Know. If God has him for us. Is the only way we want it to be.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Yes Carolyn, God has good plans for your future!!💖🙏💞

[@evelynfredericks4397]

I just love your words and prayers. I am a widow of 8 months.i find it very hard to go on without him,I am alone and ,I don’t think I want anyone else,I just feel like he can see me and I feel guilty,,is that normal? We were married 43 years.June 9th would be our 44th anniversary.it will be sad for me. I will keep looking at your videos and love your prayers,makes me feel loved by God.❤️

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Don't feel guilty, you are no longer married, your loved one is having a blast in Heaven and would want you to marry if it brings you joy!

[@hazztv6317]

Yes, it is normal because you are still grieving. Don’t fill guilty because you haven’t done nothing wrong. It is a process. Everyone is different. It took me three years.

[@hazztv6317]

3 years and I dated 3 times and I stood single and I love it.

[@cubalakeland]

I love your praying makes me happy and smiling 😊😘

[@MichaelHardiman-qe7nz]

Thank you , Amen 😇

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

You are so welcome💕🥰

[@estherbrewer2720]

Thank You for encouraging words from God's Word. Just ran across your channel, I am so glad that I did.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you Esther, your comment encouraged me to keep posting!

[@pamcornelius9122]

The perfect peace of the Lord shines through in your videos. We need more witnessing on YT.

[@mschultz2072]

I'm taking in all the wise advice you are sharing before making the plunge into dating. Thanks Sandra!!

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Great! I found a wonderful guy on Zoosk!

[@picklevamp]

Great tips👌🏼...loved this video❤ I love when you read us a little scripture🙏🏻

[@lori750]

REALLY great advice....I remember Dear Abby and Ann Landers being sisters....I THINK there's either a movie or a documentary about them. I'm a documentary enthusiast...so wouldn't surprise me if I saw it doc style. I remember my own mama....who went Home to Jesus....this past May 29th....made 6 yrs ago.... I remember her telling me....the way a man treats his mother ...is a MAJOR indication as to how he will treat you. I find myself telling women younger than me that same thing...I've been married a long time...it will be 39 yrs in August....yes, we got married as "babies"😉.... but we're still here....and I STILL believe the advice on how he treats his mom...it's mostly true. My husband treats his mom quite well....maybe sometimes...let's her overstep boundaries occasionally.... BUT....ya learn....after this many years of marriage to pick and choose your battles....and some things are FAR less worse that what some other wives are dealing with....what you think Ms. Sandy? 🤗🥰 Loving the videos 🌠

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Your right, sometimes it’s just not worth the battle and the waves of resentment you will get!

[@bettymarshall615]

If that's the case why haven't you found that great guy?

[@sammie4695]

She's only been a widow for 3 months! I don't think she was talking about herself meeting a great guy, just the ladies that have been widowed for awhile & are ready for dating. And advice to be wise about who they go with. Come on!

[@dianalester1351]

You are a lovely and a Godly lady, just found your videos today. Thank you for your inspirational words, God bless you and yours.

[@lilydauber3147]

Why get married?! It is too much work! A godly man who loves the Lord while being the spiritual leader of his home and laying his life down for his love is finding a needle in a haystack!

[@ursulamullikin4723]

Just found you by coincidence, or maybe the Lord let me to you, I've been a widow for 13 years and have no intention to get involved it would be a mistake because I would be looking for the same qualities from my husband and I know I can't find that I'm good with that.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Yes, good or bad we will look for what was familiar to us.

[@susanmulvey6311]

You have such cute, stylish clothes and jewelry, could you tell us where you get some of your outfits! Thank You! I trust in Jesus too! I pray all day and every night! God has have helped me through sooo many challenges! I am truly Blessed!! (Funny story, I met a retired dentist for lunch. Well, his teeth were not great and I walked by his dirty car. NEXT!! 😂😂😂)

[@shirleysinger839]

Ann Landers was a great lady!!

[@kerrycockburncampbell3044]

I think I would know when to quit with men....and put my focus on HIM and enjoy life a best possible

[@sandrawhitney8903]

Excellent wisdom!

[@CarolLovesJesus]

Hallelujah~ be a light to someone ✨️

[@maryannedeering1663]

Hi Sandra, I Loved Ann Landers ❤️ she had alot of wisdom. And Dear Abby❤️

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Yes they did!!

[@denisethibert9232]

This is the first time I see your show I think you're a very lovely lady may God bless you I am little twice I had a boyfriend and he died I understand where you come from loneliness but like you say Jesus is our husband now just going to keep my spirit busy cuz there's always someone will stop them we are God bless you I'm glad I got to see you

[@sj6728]

I asked Him into my heart when I was 19. I am now 66.

[@hope3761]

My Mom and I are both believers in Jesus . I could not face living without Jesus he gets me thru this life

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

I totally agree!

[@cindyholt8870]

Amen, God Bless and thank you 🌹💖

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you!!

[@barbielockett5839]

May the Good Lord, Bless you always.. Jesus'nBarbie

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you Dear Barbie.

[@debcraig1558]

You’re a wise women!!

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

It comes with age!

[@bonniedeibel1546]

Very lovely!

[@deborahnay8736]

Your such a beautiful lady and don’t look your age. I wish I had one of those books that someone sent you. I could watch you for hours. Keep them coming and God Bless you

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Oh sweetheart , I love your comment.

[@lisaharper1892]

Sandra thank you so much for your videos and you are just a lovely person with a beautiful spirit and I know there's a lot of ladies that are in your position I am there I've been a little for quite a few years but you've just helped me to come out of my shell and I am a Christian but you really helped me just to be able to see some different things I'll be 81 in May so you know there's a lot of things you don't know about getting older either so and I'm always willing to learn but thank you so much for your videos they are so nice or spirit filled with the spirit God bless you

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank 😊 you so very much!!!

[@lori750]

Praise Easter for our Father has risen!😇🙏✝️

[@susancross5192]

If your husband treats you as good as his mom she will be resentful and jealous of you. And men like to pit women against each other because men love to feel fought over. my last husband made sure his mom did`nt want for anything but I couldn`t even get a birthday or anniversary gift out of him. She was married and living on 2 retirements so it was`nt that she needed help. He liked to treat me bad in front of her so she`d see I wasn`t that special like she was.The best husband is a motherless husband!

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Well, I have no Mother-in-law at this age! LOL!

[@scottbelmont4959]

Amen thank you

[@nyebazashivan3064]

Amen 🙏 Thank you so much for your good prayer

[@bdianesmith5300]

Amen

[@louisehardee6075]

I love your style, where did you get your top?

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

On Amazon, and thank you!

[@hellohappy2]

Thank you for your prayer. Amen.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

You are so welcome

[@junescales9552]

What’s cool too is that Abby and Pauline were identical twins!🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️

[@FayeWall-md9yh]

I say God has you

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you, yes he does.💕🥰

[@motalaneref5650]

Beautiful human being👍👍

[@lapantera8]

AMEN!

[@lindarobertson2897]

Sandra, this was great. I have been told I attract "bad boys" and think it is true. It was not intentional. LOL

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Of course it isn't your fault, attraction is complicated.

[@dziriboumedienne8676]

God bless you Sandra

[@mo-anniemc8227]

You are precious!

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

I don’t know what to say, but thank you.

[@miathompson1172]

That’s a lovely video….🌸

[@joannfowler6100]

I love watching your videos I haven't dated in 15 years I think I'm going to give it a try

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Go for it!!

[@Relentless0808]

Amen.

[@maggiefisher48]

dont worry about negative comments we are all very different.....nobody really wants to go through life on their own. I love your hair..........tho..must say...mine is so thin now. x

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

I knew before I started posting that I need to brace myself for negative comments. Thanks Maggie!

[@kindred1113]

HI. I really like your video....thanks for sharing..........MINDY

[@susanford4351]

Have you found your good guy? We didn't hear from you for a long time come to find out you say you met a guy, but left all of us wondering where were you? We want you to be happy, if this guy makes you happy, we are happy for you. No rushing, take time for you first. Now you are gone again. We love you, we want to hear from you, we enjoy your youtube.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

I have had much going on, but will post a video soon. Thank you, I miss all of you to!

[@ontarioweddingofficiant9691]

what dating sites have you tried and would suggest?

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Zoosk

[@JayP-kd5rc]

I didn't know that Ann Landers and Dear Abby were sisters. That was interesting. I hope you're doing well. God bless.

[@anncollver6865]

#7 is WAY OFF! No man even a good man can make you happy. Only you can make yourself happy!

[@Onumero66699969]

I disagreed in some points one is find a man with skill education 🙄well so many narcissist integrated psychopaths is in a education skills job because it’s power and control so better find a man with good skill as a parent good education and patient to them kids. Also don’t be a choice, you choosing the man it’s metaphorical it’s some common quotes? What it’s mean. You should not let man choice you?? No sense. Another advice I really not analysed. It’s no for me! Person knows narcissist and psychopath personality never gonna put the education of you own kids in someone have skill in education it’s parents job. Not put in a new partner shoulders.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thanks for your input, that is something to consider!

[@ritashustitzky2934]

When you said, laugh at the same things, rang a bell. My husband laughed at things I thought were stupid, I laughed at completely at different kind of things. I didn't watch it because I'm looking for someone but I know people that are desperate to finding someone. I don't understand why some woman need a man in their lives.

[@kimzeck9827]

You are so beautiful 🌻

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Kim, thank you Sweetheart.

[@lizstephens3]

God bless you sweet lady. ♥

[@lizstephens3]

I'm good today. Thank you for asking.

[@lizstephens3]

@David Scott Texas

[@lizstephens3]

@David Scott Yes

[@barbarafountain6615]

Love your blouse.I decided no sex until we become good friends, could be lust rather than love, need time to decide what the heck is going on.play a form of hard to get.

[@ericsyahrial806]

👍😍🌷🌷🌷😍👍

[@doristate9200]

got a lot of bad woman to very bad you should not pick on just men

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Yes Doris, but I have not seen what women put on the dating site. This is just from my experience.

[@kathyackerman7813]

I thought this was supposed to be encouraging to those who have lost their husbands. Not religious things.I already have a religion. I needed comfort from another widow. Please don’t turn into a u tube preacher

[@MD-hb3pk]

She isn’t pushing religion but should feel free to talk about her relationship with Jesus Christ. Maybe you need a therapist.

[@sammie4695]

I think it was great her talking about how God loves us & about Jesus. Because sometimes when your feeling lonely, missing your husband so much your faith gets weak. She reminded me God loves me & I'm not alone. It was very comforting to me. Just let her be herself! Alot of us appreciate what she says about Jesus & sharing scriptures.

[@peggybaggenstoss3817]

It’s her channel she can talk about what she wants. Others can leave or scroll on by. Her encouraging words are helping some of us.

[@deborah3912]

Please watch Life over 60 with Sandra Hart,she just lost her husband and gives good advice. GOD Bless!

[@susansmith493]

I know videos bashing and generalizing negatively about men get lots of views, but it's intellectually dishonest and extremely unbecoming. There are as many predatory and vile women out there as men. There are as many lovely men out there as women. Disappointing because bigotry is not Christlike. Plenty of channels of women doing these kinds of topics. What does it say about women? Sad stuff, imo.

[@maggiegray1698]

Alot a Sandra's comments are true And she's had two loving husbands so not all negative. It's good to be real rather than in denial.

[@susansmith493]

@@maggiegray1698 Not denial at all. It's blatantly false that the sea of men is overwhelmingly "full of bad guys" while implying the sea of women is overwhelmingly righteous and good. Fact is, it's exactly this sort of negative stereotyping that leads men away from relationships and rightly so. It's akin to saying "believe all women." Intellectually dishonest, sexist and statistically false. Women lie all the time. Gender is NOT a precursor to goodness, humility, decency and virtue. Remember we fought AGAINST men who generalized negatively against us with falsely stereotypical statements. That we now do it to them is despicable. It's the last politically correct and completely accepted bigotry.

[@sammie4695]

What is your problem? She wasn't bashing anyone. Take your soap box somewhere else drama queen.

[@maggiegray1698]

@@sammie4695 Well,Susan gave me food for thought and she's eloquent. Sandra isn't "bashing" men but she's giving dating advice with a real,practical component so that's good.

[@annatshenye8839]

Hi Sandra may I please have your Instagram account if you have any. I would like to to DM you. Kind regards Anna

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

I just signed up for it. Listed as Sandra Golkowski.

[@annatshenye8839]

@@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60 Thank you

[@TT-ny6kz]

Amen