How to Find Your Personality Type (for free!) - 4 Questions to Ask Yourself

[@beatofmyown]

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[@mohhhhhhhhgjghvcy]

As a Ne dom i know damn well that even after watching the 368th video about what my type is i will still be doubting 😫 and i’m not even sure i’m an Ne dom i say that just because i can’t settle on one type and am indecisive…

[@PowerRedBullTypology]

maybe the fact you keep doubting _is_ the proof you are Ne dom?

[@oglovski]

me too! lol! perhaps that could be a sign that somebody is an Ne dom!

[@annaraines5465]

what are you torn between? (bc this sounds like me too) LOL

[@mohhhhhhhhgjghvcy]

I would say E*fp or I*fp. Yes, I know it is weird to hesitate between Ne and Se, since they’re completely different, but I honestly relate to both 😂. I was also diagnosed with ADHD as a kid, and ADHD is similar to Ne, which makes things even harder.

[@annaraines5465]

@@mohhhhhhhhgjghvcy OOOH that does sound tough.. were you able to find anyone that could describe how they perceive your type? personally, i am stuck in the loop between infp an enfp

[@enlightenedglass7879]

My ENFJ grandmother helped me with finding my type without her even knowing it :DD (she doesn't talk about personality types and I didn't tell her yet that I'm interested in this topic). She used the exact terms that are used in C.S.Joseph's system. The number one word is: logic- she calls me a logician a lot (if she discovers that my personality type is called the logician (INTP), she wouldn't be surprised at all :D). The second is: pragmatic. And not just logic but also empathy (Ti+Fe). Also discipline+ responsibility (Si). She would also definitely say: control (everything measured) (introverted control types are INTP, INFP, ISFJ and ISFP), and systematic. But she would say that I'm concrete and focused on reality- which is why I also considered me being ISTJ (but at the same time she's surprised what highly intellectual and philosophical things can come up from my mind). But a person can be either pragmatic+abstract+systematic (NT) or affiliative+concrete+systematic (SJ), not pragmatic+concrete+systematic.

[@reflectiongate]

uh uh as a SEE sx485 it took so many blows to my ego to accept this was whom i was and not a beta ST juggernaut i thought i was :'D. i am VERY isolated and always caught up in my own shit just to prove myself to myself. parting ways completely with mbti helped because i knew none of the mbtis in existence could really capture me as i was at all.

[@Ninten5002]

I’m excited for this been struggling finding my type for years this function stuff is tricky

[@SoulGoof7]

gosh, IKR?!!

[@Ninten5002]

@@SoulGoof7 what types have you thought of for yourself? I understand how tough it can be.

[@bogurenbarakadakikz3159]

Do you think the video was helpful and did you find your type? There is no intuitive type that I haven't tried in 2 years. Finally I can identify with any of the NF types right now. If this video doesn't work, I'll probably stay in this dilemma forever 😢

[@seraphingoheehee]

the sacrificing part is such a good question. I find myself not sacrificing the importance of achieving my goals and dreams. And what I envision.

[@puffskein6397]

what is your type?

[@Altaria_so_yay]

Very excited! Can't wait to finally get a better understanding of what my type could be (for 2 years now I still haven't decided on a type... curse you stereotypes, clickbait vids and inaccurate videos 👿, but let's see what this vid will bring! 😃)

[@renzugh]

This is so helpful! The tip #3 and #4 opens alot of realization what type really am

[@PowerRedBullTypology]

I think with functions it depends on the person. I found functions helped me understand types better. However, knowning them didnt make me change my type, but it turned out that they so accurately display parts of me that are functional or not so functional. However, I'm not in typology land for self descovery, as I'm quite introspective already. However, functions lay out what I find hard about choices...which comes from having high Ne and wanting options

[@Shale240]

These are cool tips, I really like the one about thinking about our choices vs our circumstances. I know my type but I'm going to help my brother find his type, he's starting to get interested in this too. I joined a typology server and it was surprising to see the perceptions that people had of me, they think: - I have a strong work ethic - I talk a lot - Apparently they like me because they invited me to their server just for people they feel comfortable being there The people who know me the best think I'm: - Mean - Bossy - Funny - Uptight - Cold - Intelligent My friend said to me a couple of days or so ago: "Damn you're mean but you're funny as f" I was surprised, I had always thought I was lazy but I've started to realize I'm really hard on myself, I just didn't notice I was being hard on myself until recently. As for being bossy and mean, I'm not, people just misread the situation and I'm not sure where to begin on phrasing whatever they get upset about in a more palatable way. I joined a server and was unanimously typed as an ESTJ by people who seem to know what they're talking about.

[@beatofmyown]

@@Shale240 I can tell just by the way you formatted your comment that you are some kind of Te type. 🤣 A perfect example of my 4th tip.

[@Shale240]

@@beatofmyown Lmao, yeah like, typology isn't really the realm most people would expect to see an ESTJ, but the way I chose to format the comment was very indicative of one. Ngl it is a bit lame because I'm not a cool type like ISFP or a nice type like ISFJ but I am who I am and if wishes were fishes then we'd all have a feast. Do you like being an ESFP or would you change types if you could?

[@mary.outis.]

As for the 3rd point, the first thing that i felt imaging a certain scenario is the need of control. Like if i imagine myself to be homeless, i sense this need of seeking for what is next, in order to improve the situation. It also makes me think about those chaotic (social) situations where i need to solve things linearly, feeling the pressure of time at the same time. Like I need to get things done FAST but also PERFECTLY, just as I've pictured in my mind, regardless of the fact that everything around me is unbearably chaotic. I've also imagined a potential situation of me delivering a baby. The fact is that I've thought about it before, and I imagined to tell everybody to not come visiting me at the hospital. Because I imagine the whole experience to be extremely stressful and chaotic, both physically and mentally and so i would limit any inconvenience to make that experience as short as possible. So the 2nd thing that I'm not willing to sacrifice is peace, tranquility. Because with it, it is easier to see what is going on around me and i can see where everything is going and, again, i can know things, i can control them and handle them by myself. Even if it only is in my mind. Even if it all is just a mental process

[@SoulGoof7]

My mom thinks I'm weird for asking her all these "peer questions" btw xD

[@beatofmyown]

@@SoulGoof7 Btw, if you’re finding that people are starting to hesitate in answering these questions for you, or if they’re like, “again??” Chances are, you’re getting too deep with your questions. Remember to keep it super short and surface level. And when they do answer for you, just accept it for what it is. Don’t pry, don’t debate. Just take it.

[@SoulGoof7]

@beatofmyown I just asked 5 people these questions, I basically used 2 sentences per question and then let them describe everything. And they all replied with 4 lines per question, YET with sufficient detail. WE MAKING PROGRESS PEOPLEEEEE

[@SoulGoof7]

@beatofmyown also I really appreciate the tip! Bless!

[@FatefulMender89]

Terms that have been used to describe me: Quiet Emotionless Dry Moody Grounded Pragmatic No nonsense Stylish Disciplined Determined Unique Artistic In conversation I often get told that my tone of voice never changes and that I’m not one for embellishments or dramatic displays. Sounds like Fe polr but I doubt it because I don’t stress myself out over Fe matters. Others’ opinions of me don’t mean very much if I don’t respect the person

[@RaidenShogun..]

What is your type?

[@kanakyozou]

what if your parents are extremely neglectful and don’t know like anything? I always hide everything from me and my family

[@kanakyozou]

or if you have no friends /srs

[@bunnyteeth365]

I think I'm drawn to the less "obvious' types because the two or four most obvious types don't quite seem to fit. I originally typed myself as an INFP or maybe an ENFP. Then I took a socionics quiz and my result was LII, which is closer to INTP. I didn't really expect that result, but apparently people seemed to think it fits. I think INFP, INTP, ENFP and ENTP are the most "logical" types for me. At the same time I can think of many reasons why none of them quite fit.

[@tamianguyen29]

Amazing video! So excited for enneagram content :)

[@kanryuseizone8338]

Ppl around me described me as quiet, shy, cold, diligent, low energy, anxious, stubborn af when comes into something I think is true (I think that's my TI), detail oriented but I suffered anxiety and depression so I can't really tell what my type is

[@RaidenShogun..]

A helpful tip when you are stressed and if you are looping, try to find what loop it is.

[@daisydaisy246]

I was thinking for 8 years that I am an INTP, not after my INTJ friend for 15 years said that I am too extroverted to be an introvert. She has a good reason that I get bored easily and always reaching for something (not boring) outside of myself. Me being really bad at Fi, I know that there will be possibility of me being an extrovert. Lately I realize that I have difficulty on Si more than Fe (eventhough I am not the best at Fe, but handling boredom is way more challenging to me). Then I am open to possibility and rebrand myself as ENTP lol (still not really sure with enneagram, I think I am a 5 but I need some time to ponder about this subject)

[@beatofmyown]

@@daisydaisy246 This is a good start!

[@shanelfederico9716]

When could we get typed by you again

[@SS-Typology]

Really great video your explanations are solid and matter of fact -Solomon

[@beatofmyown]

@@SS-Typology Hey, Solomon! Thanks for stopping by.

[@adorablechrysalis7386]

I wonder if asking yourself or your peers how your advice usually are would be a good idea. Since it could show you how you ideally want to approach a problem but idk

[@Cheeriu]

I would love to get typed but english is not my first language. And I think that could impact the result :( So I will try these 4 questions and hopefully get some clarity. I have been researching for 4 years now lol

[@vivjrhy1129]

my father said i look like from another planet, even sometimes when he saw me watching tv i was shocked that he nagged at me like he want me to know that im loser😂

[@christopherjnicholls3742]

So your personality type is ... ? Very confused I'd say, also not particularly relevant, but I thin k you're sweet anyhow.

[@isabelaortega5249]

Would you say caring too much what other people think of you and overthinking relationships is an introverted or extroverted trait? Or is it just neutral?

[@beatofmyown]

It depends on what you’re “tied to.” If you’re extroverted, then regardless of these factors, you will still find yourself wanting to get involved with what’s outside.

[@enlightenedglass7879]

I'd say insecurity about relationships and what other people think (and overthinking it) is Te/Fe inferior (4th function) or nemesis (5th function). So I would guess INXP or maybe ISXP, but not sure how the Fe inferior social anxiety works in ISTP or in ISXPs in general- they live in the present (Ne and especially Ti+Ne sounds like overthinking) and especially ISTP is fearless.

[@L.adislav]

As a non native English speaker, I’m having a time trying to get what “peers” mean and google translate is not helping 😂

[@beatofmyown]

@@L.adislav No worries. It just means to ask the people in your life (coworkers, friends, family, etc.)