How to get children to listen to you?

[@oreo835]

This was very educational. I took notes. The sadness I feel is that I lose the connection and bond when I yell at or threaten my children. I’m happy to have come across this video. I think every parent really needs to do this. I am praying that more families watch this and change, and for my own family- far from perfect, be really changed by this. Thank you.

[@MargaretDear1]

Took notes as well😄

[@tosinakinsete6645]

Be clear with your instruction. Give concise direct request. Limit too much option Apply consequences to wrong actions Follow through on your actions Work on bonding with them. Thanks Jady

[@subhanAllah9417]

"parents are giving children's so many choices it's overwhelming to them it's always give them power" "they're not mature enough to make that decision yet" say it louder for the folk in the back 👏👏👏 just found your videos and I'm appreciate of your advice and knowledge! thankyou ❤️

[@gloriaakafi2770]

Clear and concise directions is what I've been missing. Oh my... I clearly understand Jady. It's clear what I've been doing wrong. Thank you so much! You're amazing 🙂.

[@parris05]

Thank you so much for this video!!! I keep wondering what my husband and I have been doing wrong with our 5 year old? He is strong-willed and wants things his way. The sad part is, I’m a teacher who has received recognition for having excellent classroom management. I can manage my 160 plus students (different classes), but I come home and I feel like a failure with only one child😩

[@Prettypeachylife]

Thank you for this video! I work with children and it’s amazing how many children don’t listen. They respond to clear directions and I feel they are relieved to have the structure.

[@Thehappyification]

Children are great... My child is teaching me a lot. He is just four years old.. they know so many things already, we just need to refresh and retain them and learn from them.

[@BettyThompson-gd8mh]

I’m very thankful and grateful for this wonderful opportunity to change my actions with my kids. To be a better mom. Bc I’m always hollering. Instead of being direct, I was blind to this to be honest. THANK YOU SO MUCH, May GOD continue to use you, to help us on raising the kids the right way.

[@babybaby5893]

Listening to you equals reading a chapter of a good parenting book. Thank you 🙏

[@LadyzOTL]

This is such an important message and the guidance is needed

[@sarlamonu]

Thanku Ms Jady A.....your parenting is best...u r a great devoter....Hats off to u

[@jpalms7163]

Thank you Jady for sharing, starting the new school year making sure we’re on our A game for our new schedule these are always a good encourager to keep up good parenting!

[@josephhervieux7374]

I feel like crying right now. You are 100% right. I spanked my 3 year old probably 5 times now and realize it isn't working. I feel horrible knowing that it only confuses her . Why would daddy hurt me? Thank God I watched your video. I'm changing course and applying the lessons you have generously laid out. Thank you emphatically!

[@jennyquezada9644]

You are the best Jady…!

[@royallt4218]

Thank you so much for these helpful tips. Thank God I 'stumbled' upon your page just yesterday. I clearly had been giving the babies in the creche too many options. The challenge I face now is with a two year old in my school. She learned to respond only to threats and bribes to get her to listen. This little girl is so smart though and now we are teaching her letter sounds. But it is so challenging to get her to listen. It is really important for teachers and parents to be on the same page with these adorable kids.

[@jeannettelucky8267]

You are so amazing for me.. In homeschooling my 4yr old son and teaching him listening skills

[@Marshas_Journey]

Wow this is very informative. Thank you

[@badgerlife9541]

Very helpful! Thanks for sharing your knowledge. Your entire channel is such a valuable resource for the world! ❤

[@nochte.rosa1149]

I just found your video and have started todo as you are saying and so far its helping other then when my daughter purposefully wouldnt look at me and i had to make her look at me

[@jenasysgil8163]

This is really helpful I always play teachers with my niece and she just won’t listen and keeps grabbing stuff, crying and all those naughty things kids do and I really hope this helps her

[@wvfarmersdaughter]

This is incredible advice thank you

[@happymura2514]

Thank you so much for your help! I tried my 2 and half yrs daughter to clean up her toys according to your method and it worked!!!!! I was so surprised that she she could tidy so well. Just wanted to tell you this. From Tokyo, Japan. 😘. I’m excited to try other methods as well.

[@dreamingwithgodtv]

This was a much needed talk for me today. Thank you!

[@TheGigiChannel]

Thank you for giving this information. I ran into your video Watchung other videos and it came up below another I was watching but didn't seem to get much help from. You are telling me things I know but you explain things in a more relatable way and reinforce WHY you take the actions and give examples. I appreciate that AND I can't wait to check out the book you referenced. I just bought it! I have a strong willed child who is very smart and having stubbornness with following instructions from time to time. I'm on a mission to break this habit. Thank you again for this!❤

[@rounarashid6860]

Omg this thing made my day, thank you so much for your clear explanation

[@herminwilson5186]

Thank you for those great ideas. They are very logical. I need to put them in practice with my students. Kingston, Jamaica 🇯🇲

[@jessicarayanedacostasilva6584]

Hi, Jady! Thanks for giving us these instructions and advices, 'cause sometimes we can forget what to do, or how to do this in the best way to teach our children how to behave, and i also add that the most proper way to do this is trough the Bible, who is best to teach about goodness, truth than Jesus who is the MAster? the one who has created us, he knows our hearts and minds So that's why i believe in Jesus teachings and it brings not just good behaves , but also LIFE. Ephesians 6:4 4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. May God Bless you and your family. ;)

[@658Chrissy]

Thank you for this video. I now see where I am going wrong.

[@mary-janeezeogu3376]

Thanks you a million times Judy. I really appreciate this video. As a teacher over 5 Years I have found out that there is a time to be firm about some decisions in order to guide the children properly. Am glad I came across this because recently am just feeling am not getting it right due to recent trend of parenting where children are given veto power over every thing and once you try being firm you are seen as been mean and unfriendly. Thank you for giving me the courage to continue on the right part in order to make right choice for our children.

[@MamaJeanMontessoriMusic]

Thanks Jady so much for this valuable info. I value your advice and mentality so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@terrivh]

I have a granddaughter who likes things her way when playing with other kids. She will start crying and won't sit in timeout and will move away from us when we try to approach. She can be a bully at times. She is 5

[@HarmonyandHope7]

My 2 & 3 yr old cry and have outburst, stomp away, etc when they experience the consequence of timeout.

[@KC-ku2ew]

I can't thank you enough for this...

[@AuroraVillanuevaa]

I absolutely love your channel. Thank you so much for all you do.

[@pharmclare]

I found this content fascinating and informative. Thanks for sharing 👍

[@nordsthomas4271]

Amazing and very useful tips, I hope more families watch this ~ the elemental books also look great need to get for my child ❤

[@Alexmate10]

You’re awesome! Thank you for these tips.

[@OmBakhitaNahla]

Thanks

[@roneladedja9925]

I am just about to become a TA and your tips are very useful 👌 thank you very much🙂

[@annamariedanipog6119]

Thank you so much godbless

[@kieutrang8989]

Thank you very much! This video helps me a lot!

[@goura1420]

Thanks dear,May Allah help us and bless us

[@omarispozo4231]

Thank you.😊

[@annbenson1076]

Please Jady, what do you do if the 2 1/2 year old keeps biting her 4 year old sister (she does it when she gets angry and frustrated and isn’t getting what she wants)? I love your channel and we are purchasing your reading mataríals😂

[@tawibakes]

Very helpful

[@maridalisantana4269]

Excellent video!

[@ChacieWhat]

The godly home series (by denny kennaston) has very good advice on this very thing.

[@anaanguiano6658]

Hi . Is that Godly Home Series on you tube? Thanks for your suggestion

[@ChacieWhat]

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[@lloydpillay4771]

Thank you Jady. Always great advice!

[@estherkaidza1618]

Thank you very much

[@ceewng5042]

This was so very helpful.

[@pppalande20]

Thank you 👍🇺🇸

[@kugonzasarah4047]

Thank you so much madam

[@caroleastmond9064]

Thanks!!!🎉🎉🎉

[@dpizzle98]

legend

[@ecoknitty]

Amazing information.

[@susanmbamah1762]

I watched this and all i can think of is my husband. He is like that child who NEVER listens. After 8yrs of marriage, I'm only starting to follow through with consequences. He has narcissistic behaviours that probably doesn't know nor believe He has. This all began when he was a child. i know this because he has narrated his parent's parenting style.

[@danielmaeng]

Thank you so much! What do you do when your child doesn't want to do time out and is getting violent? Do you use force to carry the child into another room and sit with them in the room? I have a calm down corner in our dining room, but since there's no door, he keeps getting up and walking out of it. In this case, would you put the time out/calm down zone in a room?

[@lodybitat9036]

Very well said.

[@kugonzasarah4047]

How can I help my child improve in speed when is doing work

[@evelyn1635]

Is it alright to start already with 1 year old? Or is it too early. Thank you so much for all videos.

[@teacherv1148]

Am I seeing this video too late my daughter is six years old can I still make a change

[@BubblesBath]

Your right my 10year runs the house i

[@JMarie-th8xe]

I think I messed this up. My kids are now 13 and 14. I'm now having behavior problems with my oldest.

[@janussamayal3410]

Hi jady how to practice for my baby sitting attention

[@frochoffthebranch]

Very helpful, thank you sincerely.

[@shaylacarter4599]

Thank you ima first time mom I glad I found you 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@josephhervieux7374]

By the way I'm subscribing to your "AWESOME" channel.

[@MayflowerHomeschool]

Trying to get my 2 1/2 year old to listen to instructions and behave. He will not sit and stay in time out. He becomes more unruly and disobedient. I’ve resorted to raising my voice. Any suggestions? He refuses all instructions my husband and I give him. We’ve tried starting potty training and he refuses even using the potty. We are at our wits end and the only thing we can think of is spanking but don’t want to do that. We don’t know what to do. He gets into literally everything in our house, makes messes he refuses to pick up and we are running out of places to put things that we’ve taken away.

[@bp5522]

What if they throw a tantrum if they won't hold your hand crossing the street?

[@sweetlilella1983]

Tell them they can walk on their own and nicely hold your hand, or you will carry them across. Kids usually like to do it on their own. Practice hand holding and praise a lot before getting into dicey situations.

[@dhanalekshmin9201]

What if they continue even after

[@janussamayal3410]

He didn't hve writing interest how to practice jady pls guide to me

[@nazneennchoudhury208]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@saleenakurudan9583]

❤️❤️❤️

[@nilofernisha2726]

Dear mam, How do I know that my 3 years old kid has narcissistic tendencies? If it is because of genetic factor, how can I raise him? Pls guide me. Pls

[@BubblesBath]

My 10 year old is this way.shw does not want to take shower.she likes to spend hours on the computer.its furstrating.im becomeing angry

[@melindawilson2085]

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[@QweenTInspires]

JADY THANK U SO MUCH🙏🏾🫶🏾 #MOMSMATTER

[@sanatlife8429]

But what if he should sit next to me and time out but he just didn’t?! What should I do? Take him and bring him over and over again? 🫠

[@monicanadine]

That was my question too, but yes that’s the answer. She mentions that it may take several times/ a few months. I know it can be super challenging for us parents, but the payoff is 100% worth it.

[@stephanievargas2189]

Thank you SO MUCH for this video! Awesome tips.

[@elichevanakache5013]

Thank you very much.