How To GET OVER Your HORRIFIC Breakup & The Secret To Come Back 100X Stronger!

[@OwenCookFreeTour]

Transform Your Life with www.blueprintreloaded.com/ Highly recommend you watch this through to the end. If you want a powerful free course on fundamentals - www.higherpurposeprogram.com - removing it this week! -Owen

[@raybarnes2616]

Thank you for keeping the presence pumping out

[@raybarnes2616]

And I’m sorry the people you poured into fucking just, wiped you out of their minds. Terrible man. Thanks for sharing that. Present ppl have their flaws just like more grounded people, but there’s no excuse for forgetting someone

[@alexanderschwaiger9548]

You look and act like the clown from IT

[@chaitanyabhargava7603]

Seeing a notification that my mentor since last 10 years (RSD Tyler) dropped a video on breakup (while I am going through one) brought a huge smile on my face. Pretty sure it’s gonna be loaded w value. Thank you Owen! Gonna dive into it now! 🗿

[@STARGAUD]

Simp

[@Delphius-]

The pathway to less suffering is through suffering.

[@yishihara55527]

There are some situations where they deceive you from the start and it wasn't a legitimate relationship. Those people should be discarded because they are poison.

[@Brandon-wo1qd]

Sitting here ruminating on my 4 year relationship breakup with toxic gf and it was poisoning me and my health just like he said. After I watched this I gave her a call and we made amends and even though I know it’s a process I feel 1000x better just forgiving her and reflecting on my own issues in the relationship

[@enriqueavalos]

‘try harder to understand where you friends are coming from.’ TRUE

[@mav6232]

5:00 critical feedback 25:00 having kids Vs pimpin 28:00 Owens dating cycle 32:00 what didn’t I understand? 35:40 emotional dysfunctional or a gap I’m not bridging? 37:00 anger and hatred 43:45 everyone thinks their ex is a narcissist 44:45 audit yourself 47:00 sermon on the mount Why forgiving benefits you 51:00 self examination 52:00 you have to go into a different paradigm for ltr or having kids and not just have firm boundaries 54:15 kids being the main benefit, if not pimp 1:02:30 forgiveness and looping on the incidents 1:04:30 own your chunk, even if it’s 90% their fault 1:06:20 how do you forgive 1:07:10 the negative energy is running them and they want you to operate with that as well 1:19:30 focus on what you did wrong

[@AA-eg7fw]

You're a legend 🙂💪💪

[@rezzbuilds8343]

Thanks for this. I haven’t been through a break up in over 6 years and was wondering if this video would be relevant, but now I’m seeing that it absolutely is.

[@DESTRAKON]

“having kids vs pimpin” bruh 💀

[@buildthedream77]

Thanks Owen! The bonus section towards the end is also great!

[@andre5468]

My mom died last week. I'd give anything to deal with a breakup instead

[@biggiesmalls3096]

I had this exact same thought three years ago when my dad died. It was terrible for months but eventually it becomes normal. The memories you have don’t leave you and they stay alive forever. That might sound cringy and delusional, but three years on I feel good when I think about my dad, not sadness. No words can help the pain for a while, I remember. Just one day at a time

[@FreeBrunoPowroznik]

How are things going with you atm, dude?

[@jonathannolan4665]

God bless you. May your mother rest well. Praying for you

[@nicholasanderson9019]

Ah I'm so sorry to hear that man. I was wondering this exact same thing, these heartbreaks we experience on our journey seem like small fish compared to a loss like that. There's lots of solutions to a break up but losing a parent must just take pure fortitude and grit. Hope you're being strong 💪

[@aloenottingham6163]

Respect for your comment 🙏🏾 I went through both in the space of 1.5 years & am still recovering now 3 years later. These videos are priceless, Owen is unreal 🙏🏾💚💪🏾

[@jean-jaquesrousseau4712]

Discard is straightout denial of everything we had together

[@devinyoung354]

I just keep watching these to see Owen crushing his public speaking. It’s really next level and he’s so committed it’s inspiring.

[@bensprinks]

Thanks Owen! One of your best ! You explained what is happening inside me better than I could. My mission now... close the gates on L.V.E. I love you man.

[@vikramchatterjee4495]

I got kind of frustrated with Owen's work last year but that's on me... I am the one who has not been handling my shit and has been giving my power away. Listen to the man, he's a modern day Thomas Kuhn.

[@jaycecornell1827]

Owen I almost tried to argue with something you said before I listened to your entire idea! I really love the idea "that's your friend", brilliant. I think I can keep this thought with me for the rest of my life. "I love my girl, she makes my day Even when she's on my case" Juice World -- Girlfriend

[@Edwards87]

This is an amazing video, highlights so many ego defense mechanisms we use to get ourselves off the hook and just conveniently dismiss our own destructive cognitive and behavioral tendencies. Great reminder to always keep looking in the mirror and examine our own flaws and shortcomings. There are always two parties in every interaction. It's a fine line defending yourself from win-lose behaviors by others and adressing your own lack of self-generating and petty behavior. It's okay, we can practice compassion for others while also drawing boundaries when needed and also draw self-boundaries when we are on bad behavior ourselves and practice self-compassion simultaneously.

[@geniustennisacademy5182]

Loved this video - curious as to what happened to the last upload?

[@tristandavis6060]

Important topic, thank you Owen.

[@vinit33pratap]

Thank You for saving us from destruction at the right time. 🙏

[@kandlrex]

This video was much better than i was expecting. I like that you mentioned the value in keeping a relationship with someone even after a break up. Also being there for that person no matter what until the day they die... really hits hard

[@DeadSoundful]

Beautiful recording, thank you. Would love to hear you talk more too on how do we forgive ourselves, perhaps when we've put an ex through tremendous pain through acting in ignorance, selfishness and low vibration.

[@seandonovan219]

Thank you Owen, great content as usual. Really enjoyed the bonus section, there is a real depth to it that you can really resonate with. Would love to see more content in this area where you dive in real deep.

[@patrickkiefer4836]

Thank you brother. Real value here. The best "how to handle breakup" video EVER.

[@oranjjjggg]

Forgiving is hard. I do nice things for people who hurt me, I can manage that. But I still have hatred towards them in my heart as I’m doing it even though I want to let it go

[@nf-ib2cr]

Thank you for bonus section

[@thomasgrabowski2202]

Oh man is this ever timely....Thank you fucking God!!!!

[@ShivAusar]

thanks for the wisdom

[@Ash_Hudson]

You hit that narcissist trend on the head. Mostly it comes from girls who barely understand the word's meaning, and don't wanna take any accountability for their own behaviour or mistakes in a relationship. I've heard it a few times during/after a breakup, and I went inward to see if there was any truth to it, but of course there wasn't.

[@thomasgrabowski2202]

Exactly why my ex broke up with me. Told her she needed to work on her trust issues (I could of been WAY more gentler though because I came in her house like a goddamn firebreathing dragon tearing shit up, and that's what ultimately well idk I think there was other stuff going on and I think she used that experience as an excuse to break up but honestly idk because a week later after she came back to my place and we had sex so now I have no idea what it meant, I think she didn't want to lose me but she also doesn't fucking care anymore so now I'm just confused and yeah things got pretty bad because I didn't understand why any of this was happening....it was pretty fucked up and am still no contact with her.

[@tylerdurden7965]

Yeah ive noticed this as well, you go onto the narcissist videos and the comments are just 90% full of women hating on how bad men are, when really their choosing these men and just dont want to take any accountability for their own actions. NPD is a real thing and it does exist, but for many people its become a crutch to victimize themselves and not self reflect.

[@TheEdge3003]

Great video, personally Owen and his team of instructors are easily the best dating and self help coaches in the world!

[@kaicanyonellis]

47:25 1,000% agree - David Suchet reading the Bible is legendary. The dude was born to do it. I listen to him read some scripture just about every day because his voice is perfect.

[@synchronaute]

Frkn god level monk Owen, eternal cheers

[@jacobbailey5498]

This really is therapy, better than anything else. Thank you, Owen.

[@katielowen]

This reupload’s even BETTER THAN EVER.💪 Thanks Owen!🥰

[@katielowen]

@@marselshtylla oh man forreal it’s absolutely crazy thinking back on some of their old videos. I remember a long video of Julien just on the phone playing mind games with some girl that he randomly would see when he arrived in town like once a year, and he’s totally just running her on a roller coaster of emotions about how much he cared about her while Owen’s laughing next to him. I definitely don’t fault any of them for their past, because it was a different time for sure, but I think it is weird to just ‘hide’ or ignore it and not just own both your mistakes and successes equally.

[@marselshtylla]

@@katielowen these arent mistakes these are the real human nature to its core what humanity really is craving but i know i will have to do that myself i am just working on leaving this shit hole country and soon i will make it a reality and do it myself

[@the555deal1]

This is a re upload? How did you know lol

[@katielowen]

@@the555deal1 I caught a bit of this video when he first uploaded it like a day before lol

[@damienwelter4543]

@Marsel I don't think he wants it to be mainstream, his level of content and thinking is literally incompatible with the level of consciousness the average individual resonates with. We seek not to conform to the ways of the world, but to make the world conform to our superior, ideal ways of being. No one is perfect obviously, but the Faustian spirit of restlessness will see a revival as Western Civilization collapses and we fulfill it's destiny, no longer will we be plagued by the human sickness of complacency, consumerism, and conformity.... The Imperium will rise from the ashes of this controlled collapse, and the strong alone will live on to push Civilization towards a state of readiness for the next Aeon, the Space Age Renaissance and complete domination of the Universe. Forget about the rest of these people. They're simply dead weight, and not fit to go on with us to the next age.

[@Alebib]

Much praise and applause to Owen for these insightfull wisdoms

[@chinabill379]

Great work Owen

[@oranjjjggg]

Forgiveness is hard for me. I am so hard on people and myself. When someone wrongs me in a major way it’s almost guaranteed I’m gonna be mad at them for several weeks. I hate it and it’s embarrassing with my lifestyle.

[@dang9269]

I resonanted with this my ex cut me off after a good 2 year relationship. Admittedly i made a few silly mistakes that i should of put right earlier and ultimately it pushed her away which as heartbreaking as it was it has forced me to look at myself and where i went wrong

[@elchanongoodman6478]

Still love these deep personal talks from Owen. I bet this was filmed at 2 in the morning

[@tylerdurden7965]

Thanks owen, i needed to hear this

[@kamelkadri2843]

This is mega gold advise here, Owen is the best

[@nf-ib2cr]

Thank you! I think you reupload and make it longer

[@hieroem9611]

Thanks owen, Just lost someone by putting constant competition fear on her to defend my boundaries in pu manner. I realised how much LVE driven i was. She has ended it but is still so respectfull and nice which makes it even harder in a way. Says she cries everyday about how she misses me but says it will go over. But its still an rsd flip as she wont take me back..... Should have seen your Video before.

[@stalingrad66]

what is "LVE driven" by the way ? I tried to look it up but haven't found a satisfying explanation.

[@stalingrad66]

Low Vibration Energy ;)

[@MrDanielvass]

Love the honest energy in this video Owen. A ton of knowledge bombs in this 💣 👏

[@chrisariasnow]

16:08 "PUT IT ON THE OTHER CHANNEL..." And now we see it on the other channel. 😆

[@HiNinqi]

Library worthy conversation

[@RomanMironov]

Thank you!

[@kylestein6662]

The amount of valuable information Tyler just spits at you in every video is almost overwhelming lol the critical feedback portion makes so much sense, do you know if there's a book that expands more on it?

[@laurameloy275]

lol. Exactly!!! The narc trend was ridiculous with no self reflection.

[@yishihara55527]

When someone is an out of control cheater who deceives not just you but others multiple times, it's pretty safe to say that they aren't your "friend." And the reason why they do this without shame or remorse is because the feel entitled and there aren't any consequences because they don't care about anyone in the first place. They are simply after that constant novelty buzz.

[@osvaldourena988]

Oh yes! Loads of pure crème from the G.O.A.T himself! Thank you Owen

[@lcboh]

Finally, the next level

[@FiddelCastro]

This video changed my fucking life.

[@BreakupResilience]

A lot of great points here.

[@valevallo]

Really does suck to see the term narcissist thrown around so easily. But to actually experience a narcissistic relationship is truly devastating - like losing your soul. By throwing it around it downplays real victims experience.

[@thedust850]

Exactly 100%. Owens advice is spot on but its dangerous if your ex really has a personality disorder.

[@ifeelhalfnaked484]

@@thedust850 if you know your core essence as a human being through multiple experiences, none of grandiosity or manipulative tactics can have an effect on you

[@santiagomollo2442]

Epic video Owen, thanks!

[@heatherwood2449]

Everyone needs their own base life to live.

[@JJ_Boyes]

WISDOM DROP

[@ElijahXMedia]

Owen never misses 🎯🎯🎯 Thank you 🙏🏾 🔥

[@Daniel-px8xg]

Thanks!!! I was disappointed when they deleted it. I wonder why they deleted it? Maybe Owen swore or something

[@Funkylover-sl7ew]

That shirt rocks

[@NumairQureshi]

Thank you for sharing this powerful video. I love this perspective.

[@itsAuffy]

she demonized me rightfully so I have anger issues very protective over her and when her life was threatened I’d say some horrific things Saw her a day after Valentine’s Day And a couple times before that We keep trying to make it work But it just too much hurt I have to move on If you love her let her go

[@prabhatkiranchaulagain1095]

I needed this! Thanks Man! You're a God Saver!!!

[@John_van_Jhonson]

Go watch the video till the end guys, the last 5 minutes are the best

[@QuixoticOdyssey]

From the perspective of someone who feels inclined to totally discard other people sometimes , if someone is really charismatic and high-status, you can feel powerless in the relationship. If it seems like they don't value you as much as you value them, it's very painful and you want to get out. The only way to break free is to erase the memories of them in the brains file-system. It's not even about hurting the other person, you legitimately just want to break the addiction.

[@ifeelhalfnaked484]

It's like a fear of abandonment I assume the victim is raised in a family where parents don't look at his or her existence importance

[@boldmeditations]

Good alternate point of view. I agree that wayy too many people are focusing on finding an excuse to calling their ex a narcissist… but just like I would take that perspective with a grain of salt I also think Owens perspective should be taken with a grain of salt as sometimes the ex really needs to be out of your life for good and seeing them as a “friend” and feeling empathy towards them may mean giving them excuses to come back and mess up your life all over again. That doesn’t mean the good memories never happened on the contrary they are something to be cherished but just as that… memories. Are all exes narcissist def not, but setting boundaries and definitely ending/ cutting the relationship sometimes does need to happen.

[@tylerdurden7965]

Yeah, i think there's a fine line there and you have to be careful. I understand the point owens trying to make regarding getting the negative poison out of you, but at the same time... showing everyone forgiveness, empathy, calling them your friend and being nice to them can be dangerous and open the door back up to unhealthy relationship cycles.

[@javiercasillas7249]

Hell is cool, all my friends are there 🥵

[@NealDamiano]

All these social media platforms are saturated in narcissism 🤷‍♂️ That’s the main focus, sickly enough.

[@StealthScouts]

Dude this some real shit

[@AndreasChrysopoulos]

I'm incredibly curious about what made you come to the realisation that you don't want a life partner. I get it the other life is more fun, but isn't having a life partner more meaningful?

[@oranjjjggg]

There’s a lot of mentally ill people around these days just because there’s so many people in general , and narcissism kind of shadows alot of mental illness IMO

[@laurameloy275]

I LOVE this. Hilarious

[@MrTechnotrance98]

It sickens me to the core that crucial insights had to be censored, no mercy

[@vixenxiiiv]

What are your thoughts on the new wave of “anti-natalists” all over the internet .. I can understand why someone wouldn’t ever want kids but there’s something kinda dark about that movement

[@JohnSmith-hs1hn]

Not really. Look at all the negatives to marriage and having kids these days. Planet doesn't need any more units anyways.

[@vixenxiiiv]

@@JohnSmith-hs1hn yea makes sense

[@damienwelter4543]

It's just a natural reaction to the propaganda that's put out by population control people, those without personal power, family values, a significant identity, etc. will of course latch on to that bandwagon and help the watchers spread that wave with as much zest as possible. Some of those people even get paid to do weird stuff like that by geopolitical think tanks. I agree that it's dark, but we're gonna see a whole more darkness before we reach the light, so brace yourself! The weirdos will perish by right of their own self-hatred and destruction, being against more life AKA having lots of babies is literally setting yourself against the biological impulse of life. It's against every genetic imperative we have and will never become widespread as a radical viewpoint.

[@vixenxiiiv]

@@damienwelter4543 that’s deep, I agree with you

[@damienwelter4543]

@@vixenxiiiv Deep is where all the good stuff is hidden at

[@benjisea]

Yay RSD Tyler is Cross Pilled! He believes in the Messiah :)

[@playerovgy]

Couple of minutes in, but I've had this discard. It was absolute AGONY!! AGONY!!

[@JohnMilonJohnson]

It's rough I know. The agony is real. Just know IT WILL PASS and you will feel better soon enough.

[@playerovgy]

@@JohnMilonJohnson thank you brother. It was actually a few years ago now, but healing has taken so long. (Long story that involved way more dynamics than I could list without boring you.) But sometimes, that agony can actually make you. In the end, it can make you stronger

[@JohnMilonJohnson]

@@playerovgy I agree it brings unique strength and other benefits that you can't get another way

[@playerovgy]

@@JohnMilonJohnson 100% bro

[@zeedo666]

Kids are not better than Lifestyle it is not for everyone. Not everyonr has a calling to be a parent. Most people have kids and are unhappy, they do it because they were told so, or by accident.

[@tapashyarasaily4869]

this message is unconventional advice for sure. i wish there was a female perspective of it too...like how a woman could go through her own introspective process about why she couldnt get the commitment that she wanted as an example.

[@SlZIJI]

She didn't correctly (or at all)communicate her expectations and became bitter when he didn't meet those expectations

[@tapashyarasaily4869]

thank you for summarizing it so accurately.

[@georgigeorgiev6634]

What if I think that it was my fault every time? Even if it wasn't

[@MrTechnotrance98]

Owen did Big Baba remove your vid? Sad.

[@damianbern4178]

I'd love to give some feedback: You're great at crafting catchy titles, just don't forget that they also should match the content as accurately as possible. Sometimes it feels like, as a viewer, that you're not entirely getting what you expected when clicking on the video. Like in this case. I get that this is the result of doing an improvised speech and trying to find a label for it, instead of coming up with a topic/title first and then creating content for it. Quality is still great, as usual. You'd probably just a lot more views if title and content were in alignment.

[@silentswitchsis]

He jumped all over the place I was so confused. He is definitely long winded

[@SimpleSourdough]

Anyone found serpent on the mountain?

[@Delphius-]

Sermon

[@damienwelter4543]

Not sure if this was removed purposely or not, but if it got flagged, at least be impressed that only YOU could make a video on how to get over a breakup, which is fairly mainstream content, and then get it removed for some arbitrary BS.

[@heatherwood2449]

It's my only child.

[@gamedaydos7825]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@poufaki]

33:48

[@rickthemenace1164]

Why does he look like an old version of Julien lmfao

[@magdalenawiszniewska2825]

Haha lets see what all these "we re dudes, we pickup " do when they grew up and got bigger

[@AndrewHorezga]

What a train wreck

[@banterabc5135]

looks like i got a whole 90 minutes in front of me, wish it was 180 doe

[@COMARto]

I get triggered by this. Which is why i came here, i guess :D

[@o123fourfive]

Reuploaded with 100x the CLICKBAIT!!! (Derpers beware!!!) 😱

[@aribashirkhalil3902]

Bro i used to fall for all this new age ancient wound crap. It's nothing like painbody etc God puts pains so we turn to Him. Your broken deep down because your heart is separated from God nothing else not some random breaks up. Study islam you will soothe your soul and heal deeply and connect your soul back to Allah swt.

[@fredherring876]

lol

[@solomonking328]

I love OC but the swag is hurting... Bum beard and Hawaiian shirt... In field Owen was on his A GAME...

[@MrDanielvass]

Expensive signal - “I’m so good, I can wear a hippy beard, an ugly shirt and old man glasses and still crush”. It’s a flex.

[@solomonking328]

@@MrDanielvass no, OC shows up like a BOSS but he looks like s*** & he knows it. 1/2 of winning is showing up so...

[@STARGAUD]

Lovebomb -> devalue -> discard