How To Get Started in Lolita Fashion

[@graciellead]

I recently found out about Lolita, and I love it I want to be a Lolita so bad. I love how pretty the outfits are.

[@jazzybunn8042]

omg saaame but i have no idea how to tell my parents i like lolita style! 😰

[@babyraose]

me 2 i wanted to be one to for 3 years

[@graciellead]

babyraose i dont want to be lolita anymore, im emo af

[@graciellead]

Isaki Tahashi ok i will :)

[@annarighetti1108]

gracielle are you still emo now?

[@DebbieBuckland]

Hi you are wonderful. My daughter is 11 and saw Lolita dress she wanted me to recreate in blue/white. I usually dress in Victorian or steam punk style (not Lolita) I am holding a tea party soon and my daughter preferred Lolita style so I am sewing her first Lolita dress. I have been watching a lot of videos to do with Lolita and my daughter also is saying what she wants. I hope to do the style justice as its a fabulous way of expressing oneself. Bless u love your video it has helped.

[@isakigoboom]

+Debbie Buckland Thank you! And that's wonderful. I have a huge love for both Steam Punk and Victorian. I swoon over womens dresses from that period and the Edwardian period. You are one awesome mum.

[@hamadryad]

Debbie Buckland she is so lucky! so lucky! my dad doesn't get the fashion and says im not allowed to wear lolita until im older. im 14 so i think I'm old enough! i just dont get him sometimes.... i mean i understand that the name lolita stands for a different thing but im talking about the cutesy lolita. i wish i could become one... :(

[@sourirecherie562]

Marissa Hicks Me too ): except it's my mother and father.. My dad thinks I'll become a Porn-Star for dressing cutesy lolita even though I explain it over and over it's not like that and my mother thinks I'll embarrass her and myself, Thirteen nearly fourteen I think I know what I want, So in the future I will. Mm.

[@rikkirikki4892]

dαddчdσngσ you can slowly incorporate Lolita-esque pieces into your wardrobe when your parents take you shopping! As long as you don't mention the style's name (because for some reason the movie had to ruin the word, even though it has nothing to do with it) they'll just think you're buying cute/vintage things! Just do it a little bit at a time and don't try to go all out all at once :)

[@prettypandora5849]

Debbie Buckland wish you were my mom

[@wetpaw122]

I live in the bible belt, so there's no community near me considering most people here believe that all of its risque. I've never seen a Lolita here, however I'm extremely interested in the fashion, and always have been. I'm getting into sewing, and I have been making small scale plushie, and plan to make things such as doll dresses as a beginner thing before I start on bigger scale things. I'm stuck on deciding whether I want to go with Gothic or not, considering where I live, I'm worried they may believe I'm some form of a Satanist, and yeesh- I'm planning on moving once I attain the money, and hopefully somewhere out of this tiny town ^^"

[@isakigoboom]

Today someone at the store made a remark saying "Is that your natural hair color?" My hair is currently green. I ignored them; that's always the best option. But alas they didn't like that and said "Well why does she do it unless she wants attention?" Point is- you're never goes to please everyone around you. From your family to the asshole stranger. So it's best to just be yourself and do what makes YOU happy. Cuz that is what matters most.

[@evaphalise5213]

If you don't mind my asking, what state do you live in? I live in the bible belt too so if we live near each other we could maybe help each other out! ^ ^

[@astraeaflorence]

I live in a tiny Texas town so I struggle with the same problem. Luckily, I already am used to odd alt styles and cosplay so I don’t mind odd remarks

[@kelseylundry7981]

I'm new to lolita fashion and my favorite is victorian era and lacy. My family isn't completly accepting of it. I have worn it around town and people are accepting but I'm nervous because I'm going to my first con and I'm not sure how others will react because it's mostly hand sown.

[@chexwonder1916]

I'm being really awkward but the first thing I noticed was your Alice in the Country of a hearts poster and I fangirled. ^ . ^

[@isakigoboom]

+Chex Wonder No worries- you're not the only one XD

[@banannabatts4613]

Chex wonder+ same!

[@S0ngzi]

Welp.... There is no Lolita Community groups where I live (Arizona). Time to just dress in public as a Lolita and not care :D

[@ananaki5644]

I'm a Sweet Lolita and Fairy Kei / Decora who also lives in Arizona. (8 Welcome

[@S0ngzi]

Holy flip. I'm a Gothic Lolita, Although I switch between Sweet and Gothic. Do you live in Phoenix?

[@ananaki5644]

Unfortunately no :c Wayy over in Foothills

[@S0ngzi]

+Madelyne Padilla So close but so far away! DX

[@ananaki5644]

Aughh I'm sorry! (〒︿〒)

[@babyraose]

step one: get a job

[@pelicaneel6138]

Yup, Lolita can be very expensive. Although if you sew it, it should be less expensive.

[@mewiarts4749]

@@pelicaneel6138 that isn’t necessarily true

[@TheOneWifNoUsername]

This helps me a lot tbh. I am visiting vintage/thrift shops soon with a friend and will be this summer with my to be husband(we'll be married then) he likes tat I like lolita fashion amd is supportive of it. He's even got me some FPF stuff. Aaauuggh. I need to find cute Loliable clothing I can make into cute lolita skirts and shirts so I always have something lolita to wear when I want to dress up.

[@TheatricArtist]

I actually started my towns Lolita Community :) We're having our first meetup on the 20th!!

[@isakigoboom]

That's awesome! I hope you all have lots of fun!

[@LoveMyAnime1218]

I cant do it now, but I do know in the future when I have my own place to live and a good job its going to be my life style. my bedroom is already anime themed and I just love cute stuff, bows ruffles all that stuff just makes me so happy.

[@TammyJerkChicken]

Is it just me but i have never heard about this dumb book until i started watch these video. maybe older people have that in mind but everyone i talk to about the style irl haven't mentioned that at all

[@lilyjohnson7493]

Yes, the book is generally mistook for the fashion by older generations. People must know that the book Lolita and the fashion are two very different things and the only thing in common with them is their name. :)

[@nicolehiser8033]

I love the lolita life style but sadly I am not a lolita to be honest it's mainly because I'm a little on the lazy side when it comes to even getting ready in the morning but I do have a question. Do you get up and ready everyday or are there some days that you sit back in lazy clothes like a pair of shorts and t-shirt?

[@isakigoboom]

I don't wear it everyday due to my job and some days I don't even go outside :)

[@nicolehiser8033]

It's just so CUTE and I've never even seen one person that can't pull off lolita but since I live in a small town I have never personally met one

[@kanda1957]

Cuppy Cakes same i went to Los angeles and bought a baby dress with my savings from a (summer job)and thought i would buy items i am and i wear it but i live in a farming town and we don't have a com so i guess I'm on my own I'm 13

[@mattikurkela5159]

where can i find lolita dresses (from internet plz :)

[@isakigoboom]

Please google lolita brand websites.

[@cherrychuzzi801]

Hiiii I'm interested in being a kind of casual lolita, with occasional full on outfits. What are some tips you have? And what exactly makes a casual lolita still a lolita?

[@isakigoboom]

I can do a video on that for you in the near future!

[@cherrychuzzi801]

Isaki Tahashi Thank you! :D

[@robjoy1515]

Bodyline is the only company that have larger sizes. BTSSB makes some things in M that works. They have a store in NewYork. They need to make larger sizes. Claire's is a good place for accessories. Can't find the kawaii prints in fabric stores in the US that have figures in them. Everything is imported. So sad nothing is made here anymore. Great video.

[@mewiarts4749]

Wait there’s a btssb store in New York? :0

[@robjoy1515]

@@mewiarts4749 There was a btssb in NYC. They closed like 2 years ago. There is no other place in NY to buy lolita clothes. So sad. There is still one in San Francisco Calif. Go to Ebay. Lolitain.com has clothes, but no brand.

[@jesusnmarychain]

Would you need a petticoat to wear under your jumper skirts,dresses ect. all the time?

[@isakigoboom]

Yes! A petticoat is an essential piece in lolita fashion. The only exception is for casual lolita or if a squirrel jacked your petti and ran off with it to store if for the winter.

[@LadyMeilin]

Its such a cute blouse! I seriously need more blouses i keep using the same ones XD None seem to fit me but i shall keep looking!!!

[@isakigoboom]

I'm really happy with the quality of it! But I'll keep an eye out for bigger sizes for you. Darn those tiny sizes!

[@Just.me.salima67]

Yeah I new to lolita is it okay to get lolita thinga from walmart

[@sasutomato]

I finally found a lolita style that suits me. Walolita! But it's hard to find. I actually saw some on eBay and examined them like crazy. I risked it and bought one and was surprise that it looked just like that photo and wasn't ita. T~T I'm in love. I don't see many lolitas wearing this style I'm always see mostly sweet and classic these days.

[@lunarosemoon5878]

I live in England and the only lolita meet up is in London which is way to far away like 4 hours

[@katiejarred3541]

try to look around a bit more. usually there are a lot of groups on facebook you can join. just search up your county and then lolita group. i live 3 hours away from london and its not like any of my nearby cities are big ones

[@xTwilightWolvesx]

+Kikirllett Really? Thank goodness for that. I live in Yorkshire and I'm happy to hear I'm not the only Lolita there ^_^"

[@Fermataloid]

I think it's really neat that you're showing off ways to incorporate off-brand and handmade clothes in lolita. It's really creative and inspiring!

[@isakigoboom]

Thank you. I used to think lesser of such, but realised how snotty and closed minded that was. I really respect those that can make their own dresses now and hope one day I can do the same. It's no different than someone else making the 'brand' dresses.

[@V0Y463R]

aww you're so pretty and cute! your grandma seems very nice.

[@isakigoboom]

Thank you :)

[@skuntanksnuggler3919]

I tried researching for any Lolita community in my area and it seems it died off a few years ago. shame. :(

[@ambereneqayyum919]

Hatter 9514 Bring it back :P

[@skuntanksnuggler3919]

If only 😂 it's hard to do something that bold alone.

[@stevieevieee]

Same! I live in the Buffalo area, and I recently found that there was a community in Rochester, but it looks like it died out a couple of years ago..

[@KarmatheCorgi]

Ahh You have become my hero! I LOVE your outfit! Soooo beautiful. I was a little overwhelmed with all the prices and stuff when I first found lolita. I'm sooo happy to hear that I can take some of own clothes (I'm very girly and almost always wear skirts anyways) and find some that can be used to start building outfits! I'm so excited!

[@michdie1046]

Oh my goodness, I made a skirt years ago using the same fabric of the skirt you’re wearing. That’s so crazy!

[@sammilammbi5851]

Okay, I love you so much this video has helped me so much! I have been too shy to actually jump aboard the lolita train, but your love for lolita has pushed me onto it. As you said "Don't feel the pressure to be perfect" this is one of the main reasons I haven't tried to go to any meet ups (and also cause I can't find any groups in my area.) but mostly I am so afraid of getting the style wrong and being made fun of and even today I was looking at clothes and after I knew I had no money I felt anxious about maybe never actually being able to do it. You're video has truly made me feel so much better. I realize that I don't have to be perfect, i'll learn over time how to make this style my own. I don't have to get it perfect in one day.

[@isakigoboom]

+Dreamy Neko Chan I'm so glad to hear that! Take your time and do what makes you happy! ♥

[@Jordan-yp6bg]

Is it possible to be more than one style of lolita? because I like classy but I also enjoy gothic. Can I do both?

[@isakigoboom]

Only if you like more than one type of food or listen to more than one type of music ;)

[@julietelleria8510]

Can you buy from body line in Florida, and with US money?

[@isakigoboom]

***** Yes! They have an english site and take US dollars, but if you switch it to Yen at the top; you'll pay less. Their conversion rates are wrong :D

[@メイシエラ]

I'm into lolita and I'm on a huge budget. I have a few skirts and blouses that work for the style I like but I can't seem to find a good petticoat anywhere and I also have MAJOR confidence issues do to being a little overweight. Do you think you could recommend a good place to get a petticoat? I am working on my confidence issues and that has helped a lot. I would appreciate your help a lot. Thanks for listening. 🐰

[@whohailey0]

What makeup would you suggest for sweet lolita style?

[@isakigoboom]

A more natural look. Depending on your skin tone; for pale (white or shimmer eye shadows, pink lips and blush, not too dramatic lashes), for darker tones then some lighter brown shadow; peachy lips and blush.

[@annikahernqvist7523]

I really like gothic lolita and sweet lolita. Is it "okay" to wear gothic one day and sweet like the next day?

[@isakigoboom]

+Annika Hernqvist Please see what I wear in my other videos :)

[@evii_art8315]

Hi im 13 and i live in belgium i dont really know what style of chlotes i should wear because i dont Like casual chlotes but i really love Japan and cute (kawaii) stuff but im afraid to try lolita because i am bullied plies help me ps sorry for my bad english

[@TheAJbella]

Who cares about the bullies? I mean, if they physically hurt you that's a different story, but I'm going to assume they verbally insult you. Just dress the way you want to dress, and if the bullies insult you, just smile at them and walk away. If that doesn't work, ask them this, "How does the way I dress affect you?"

[@double-edgedallusionart6384]

Corset tips?

[@emilymadison6621]

i was at a htrift shop and was so happy when i saw this pink dress and am gonnaadd some lace on it

[@KristynRene.]

what part of vegas are you in?? I used to live in Summerlin and Lolita is new to me but I've always been in love with Victorian Era style of architecture and fashion.

[@isakigoboom]

+Kristyn Dobson For safety reasons I don't want to say, sorry :(

[@fazecat2620]

Where could I find a petticoat?

[@gummmie]

Classical puppets on taobao have really affordable pettis!

[@fazecat2620]

***** thanks

[@Anayal8tor]

Watch the first minute and a few second I realized your personality is so similar to mine!!! Your one of my favorite youtubers😊😊😊😊

[@isakigoboom]

Anaya Temple Hope my other videos don't scare you away haha XD Nice to meet ya!

[@Anayal8tor]

Isaki Tahashi you 2😊😊😊😊

[@creatievecreaties6294]

Thank you! I love what you said about dressing for yourself, and not to impress anyone else. Lovely video ^___^

[@Majjikyne]

ok so I looked up the lolitas in your area and there hasn't been anything posted since 2010...

[@isakigoboom]

Haha- quite untrue. What you found is the old page. If you watch my International Lolita Day vlog you'll see the group I belong to :)

[@Majjikyne]

+Isaki Tahashi oh crap i forot the ....these things " (i cant spell) i couldn't find any in my area im terribly sorry for that! >///

[@isakigoboom]

+Mami Tomoe Don't give up looking. I'm sure there is some!

[@TheOneWifNoUsername]

Where do I get this fabric? OMF

[@xoassumingshelby8987]

Do you have to be a specific age to be in lolita and do you have to have a specific style of lolita like gothic, sweet etc. ?

[@isakigoboom]

Fashion has no age restrictions. Be what you want to be. Never limit yourself.

[@xoassumingshelby8987]

Okay tysm that worried me because someone said you have to be over 20 so you can be "childish" but thank you im gonna try to get into lolita i watch all your lolita videos and it helps so much

[@nikola9741]

I've always had a weird obsession with big and cute dresses. And i just like the whole part of tea party's and the like whole part of old fashioned manners and things like that. And I've been asking and looking everywhere for things which remind me of things like that but all i would find is tight skirts and dresses (i really don't like tight things because i don't really find it beautiful) then i found out what lolita is and i realize i really like Lolita fashion. Now, im just searching for good things and research it 😊

[@missunderstood2274]

Gothic, lolita, anime, and "citizen of the world" is my style (the latter kinda clashes lol)

[@petrichorweather350]

I want to be in your group I'm from Vegas ! But I haven't even mentioned it to my parents!

[@isakigoboom]

The group is on Facebook, but I'm no longer on Fb so you won't see me there.

[@petrichorweather350]

+Isaki Tahashi Thank you anyways!

[@insertgoodusername6981]

I cant find any stores near me

[@TheIlovemyworld123]

Isaki Tahashi , i was wondering how do you find lolitas in the local area..... your videos are very helpful to help me get into lolita but i feel like if i knew someone i could talk to whos into it then i would feel more confident and comfortable. Thanks XD

[@isakigoboom]

Search google and facebook.

[@double-edgedallusionart6384]

WHERE DID YOU GET THAT PLAID SKIRT? IT IS WHAT I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR FOR MY WHOLE LIFE!

[@isakigoboom]

***** Hope this helps!

[@squidgirlinc]

Isaki Tahashi, thank you so much for making this video! You were so informative and super helpful. I'm definitely going to check out the websites you listed in the description, and I now have a clearer idea of this fashion. Thanks again, and if I have any more questions about lolita, I'll be sure to ask (and knowing myself, I probably will). I'm a sucker for cute things, so I think I'd really enjoy dressing in sweet lolita, and gothic lolita, though I'll start out in small steps, first. ^u^

[@isakigoboom]

***** You're very welcome and yeah! Don't hesitate to ask! It's really fun being in lolita :D

[@andiefields4947]

Hi I found this video because I am very interested with the cute lolita style. I am 14 and I use to wear only black, purple, red, and white at school. I want to be a lolita but I usually get procrastinated because I am a tough, smart girl who wears dark colors. I want to go to cute baby blue and pink lolita. What should I do if my friends make me feel like my new lolita style is a burden? And is going from dark colors to light colors a good decision?

[@isakigoboom]

Andreamix Gaming How would lolita be a burden to your friends? Sorry, but I don't understand. I do both sweet and gorhic lolita. Just be yourself and dress in what makes you feel happy. There are a lot of 'dark' people who love cute things!

[@andiefields4947]

Isaki Tahashi​ Ok thanks! And I just talked to my friends and somebof them are interested in it too! Thank you for getting me interested in lolita ! :)

[@Curewaffles]

Hiii ^^ i love your video !! So helpfull, im 15 years old from the netherlanda ^^and lolita inspired me 3 years ago and therefore victorian style, i still love it so much. I had never the balls for telling my mom i like this kind of stuff and this year i finaly did im a beginner lolita and i have now 1 coord with stuff of bodyline, my mom helps me and im happy ^^ i want to get a job so i can afford more clothes and rings and stuff :)

[@lindayaranoellenicolequist9979]

valeska ik ben ook Nederlands en wil Lolita proberen, maar durf het niet...

[@lolitatotorro6971]

het is jammer dat we hier geen comunnities hebben :(

[@sabrinao8595]

I'm 12 I never wore Lolita and I haven't told anyone I never wore Lolita to but it really interests me and I want to do it is there any cheap stores where I can get dresses? And how should I tell my parents? >.

[@isakigoboom]

Zhang Yixings Wife Age is no big deal :D Don't worry about that. There are no physical stores for lolita fashion except a few for the really big and expesive brands. I'd recommend checking out lacemarket (dot) us. It's where lolitas resale their items; sometimes for cheap. Check out some Tao Bao brands; they're usually really cute and a lot cheaper because they're smaller brands. You can also look at Bodyline (they have an English site too). Some of their items are pretty cute. In regards to telling your parents; if you live in the US and you same 'lolita' they'll prolly assume it has to do something with the book which is about a promiscuous little girl and an older guy. Otherwise I'd tell them that you're interested in this fashion style you found out about that's really cute and girly and based on old French style. I explained to my family that i'll be looking like a doll from now on haha. Explain that before you say 'lolita' and if they have any question about the term; Deerstalker Pictures 2 has a video all about why it's called lolita. Hope this helps!

[@isakigoboom]

Zhang Yixings Wife Also; check out the links in the description of the video.

[@sabrinao8595]

Oh thank you 😁❤️

[@isakigoboom]

Anytime! :3

[@pastelplaysgames563]

same 😫 I've been researching but I'm scared to tell my mom

[@isakigoboom]

Have questions regarding lolita fashion? Check out my lolita playlist first. They're prolly already answered there. Thank you :) kzbin.info/www/bejne/oKmcppmLj8-EpZY

[@laurynk]

Isaki Tahashi I want to do more Lolita like fashion, but the problem comes with the fact that I only wear slightly above knee shorts and longer, so I wanted to know what kind of shorts/ pants would be best are there certain patterns or designs/styles that match better than others, I wouldn't know what to look for any advice?

[@isakigoboom]

lauryn k If you want to wear shorts; then google kodona style aka boy style or prince style. I've been meaning to make a video on it for a long time now!

[@laurynk]

Isaki Tahashi thank you :) and thank you for replying

[@isakigoboom]

lauryn k You're welcome :)

[@tostergirl-sama907]

lace monster (jk I'm sorry) I kid to much....

[@helmihomentcovschi8233]

What is the right age to start because I am 13 and I haven't seen any my aged Lolitas?

[@isakigoboom]

Any age is a good age!

[@hellothere7993]

I love love love this fashion and lifestyle. Probably won't get into it right now but sometime in the future for sure. For me, I'd just try out the fashion, not dedicate my life to it lol..but you do you!

[@marymay4723]

What is the background song?

[@isakigoboom]

I don't remember anything but that it was royalty free and had to do with rain.

[@Rainkit72]

The other day a group of lolitas showed up at a kitty cafe I volunteer at. A couple of gothic lolitas, a few akai lolitas, and a couple of sweet lolitas. I wanted to ask questions and just chat in general but I got halfway to a panic attack when I tried (such a shame, they seemed so friendly!!), so I just talked with my coworker about different styles. XD Maybe I would've been far less (unreasonably) scared if I had showed up at the cafe in ouji or kodona.

[@isakigoboom]

Next time don't hesitate! :)

[@OpalPixie]

How do you google for a group? I always wanted to do Lolita but I can never find groups. So I never done it. Also is there a age limit? 😅 I’m like 27 be 28 in 4 months.

[@isakigoboom]

There is no age limit on fashion! I'd recommend searching 'lolita fashion + your city' or go to a local anime con. Lolita fashion panels are held at cons sometimes.

[@kinsdo8146]

I live in Virginia, and I honestly had no clue there were lolitas here! I just read about the community and it seems awesome! I don’t have any lolita clothings but.. I’ll get there someday haha.

[@joycephang1172]

Hi I really like lolita fashion but I don't think they had any physical shop in my country, can u hro recommend some Internet shop for me? Thanks;-)

[@isakigoboom]

Joyce Phang Google brand names and you'll find their online shops, Look into TaoBao shops and check out the Lacemarket site (it's like ebay for lolita)

[@joycephang1172]

Isaki Tahashi thanks for ur advise. ;-)

[@silverphoenixelieceine]

Hi my name is Harmony I am 21 years old and I have need wanting to get into Lolita fashion for a year. The problem is every time I try to I am either told it's not Lolita or it's not name brand so it can't be Lolita. I try my hardest in Cosplay and now I want to kind of combine every thing I love into one so I want to do Lolita. I am an otaku cosplay and I do the Renaissance fairs. I only have one week left in Vegas and I work at the out door Swatmeet on the weekends. I think Lolita will give me the Renaissance feel like I love but the comfort of me being myself with out having to dress up as a character to do so. You think there is any way you can help me with trying this new experience.

[@isakigoboom]

Well first you have to understand that lolita and cosplay cannot be combined. They're two different things and should never be called the other :) I have a lot of other lolita vids that may help, but if you pick out a dress on ebay- chances are it's not lolita. If it looks cheap or crappy- not lolita. Lolita dresses are made with attention to detail and with better quality fabrics/lace/etc. You don't have to have 'brand' to be lolita, but to train your eye about what's 'ita' and what's actually lolita- I'd recommend looking at a lot of brand pieces and see what the differences are between them and a 'lolita costume cosplay' dress looks like. Hope this helps. Also- please don't ever share where you work publicly! For your safety :)

[@kiki9627]

Hey, I'm super new to lolita (never worn it out) and I love the fashion so much! But I'm not a fan of most of the shoes. Are there any "rules" on the shoes and how strict are the rules? Thank you! You're a huge help!

[@isakigoboom]

kiki9627 What style of shoes do you not like? Boots, platforms, mary janes, rocking horse, flats- those are the typical ones.

[@kiki9627]

I like the boots but the platforms and heels just seem a little over the top to me, I much prefer little, thin flats and boots

[@isakigoboom]

kiki9627 You can wear flats and boots :) Just try to match them and look at other co-ords to get some style idead.

[@kiki9627]

Thanks!

[@trashrabbit6398]

I'm transgender but lolita fashion. Makes me super happy and I want to try out the style but no one sells it for the male gender as I can tell so far

[@zerofann]

I lurvvvve your outfit!!! ahhh nice skirt!! so dreamy...

[@isakigoboom]

Thank you!

[@kenkentaylor9690]

Me and you are VERY similar!! I've always been interested in victorian everything and ALWAYS have been a lover of lace and things before I even knew what lolita was! And the theme I have in mind for my future house would be quite girly too x'D Sort of like a doll house, but NOT BARBIE. Just a really elegant feel to it. It's my DREAM to have a cute little tea set!! Other than the other stuff I'd wear, light, soft, pastel & neutral color lolita like I think Classic Lolita, the occasional Hime Lolita, and sub-genre aristocratic lolita REALLY fit me as a person. :)

[@sprinkledcupcake6178]

hii! so, I have have a question.. what if you want to be a lolita only your best friend isn't , do you still go go and hang out with another group ? I wanna start start as start as a start as a lolita badly, it's cute am I feel like myself in the dresses and skirts ^_^

[@isakigoboom]

When I first got into the fashion I didn't know anyone who was also into it. I wore and still wear it just for myself. I've made new friends thru it and now one of my best friends is also a lolita.

[@rylandoreo5373]

im kinda new to loita but i also cosplay, and im a furry among a ton of other things. but this vid did help me cause i was missin a few things but couldnt figure out what. soooo thanks. im a part of a ton of subcultures, an often i go back and forth between some like lolita an pastel goth and such, im just not a normal person lol, i am very random an such, and i have just gotten to dressing in lolita a month or two ago so this helps me with a few guidelines an such for lolita, thanks for makin your vid. im mainly tomboy but i do wear dresses and stuff including lolita, i adore lolita. im glad to be a part of the comunity/fashion. it makes me hapy to be who i am an such. thanks for makin all your vids.

[@silverphoenixelieceine]

Thank you I do understand Lolita isn't the same as Cosplay. I want to do both and keep those two separate because I want to feel comfortable as my self with out being in a cosplay. Thank you again for your tips.

[@isakigoboom]

+Harmony Rodgers Glad i could help ♥

[@avakaltreider4262]

I would love to dress in Lolita and tried to explain to my dad it’s not related to the book and movie from the 50s but he won’t listen and I’m scared to ask again.

[@ghostofthefallenvalkyrie3320]

Maybe you could try showing him pictures of the dresses and coords and reintroducing it as an "alternative fashion from Japan". Maybe try to sneak around the word :)

[@fashionmonsteramvs536]

I have a question for you. I want to try wearing Lolita once, to see if I actually want to try it out and I don't want to spend tons of money on it if I turn out to not like it. I know you said to stay away from things that say cosplay, but there is a cosplay store near me, that also sells Lolita clothes for a decent price that I can afford. Would buying a Lolita dress from there be bad?

[@isakigoboom]

+FashionMonster AMVs In all honesty; I don't know why you'd need to buy something to wear out once to see if it's you. People either like the style or they don't. If the shop has a dressing room; then maybe just try something on if you need to see what flatters you. Cosplay dresses are NOT lolita fashion in any way. I doubt they sell something of good quality that would do the fashion justice. If you're not sure who you are yet then I'd recommend keep looking at photos of various styles to see what fits you best.

[@fashionmonsteramvs536]

+Isaki Tahashi Thank you!

[@isakigoboom]

FashionMonster AMVs No problem. Good luck with things :)

[@sambreaux3558]

Hi, I'm 14 and my mother does not like Lolita and I need help to tell her that I want to be Lolita. How do I tell her

[@isakigoboom]

Ok :) but first I need to know why she doesn't like it. Does she think it's a fetish or impractical, etc?

[@emkayoutofcontext7559]

(I am fully aware of the Lolita style and love it, and I know that you're not a "living doll") But the style really reminds me of Melanie Martinez's dollhouse (Which is awesome!) Also I love your voice

[@insertgoodusername6981]

I don't wanna wear wigs but my hair is boy short which makes me look kinda weird or maybe its just me.

[@alyxo.b4486]

Hi... I’m Lolita. Do you have any ideas on how to cope or deal with being bullied for being Lolita...

[@isakigoboom]

Alyx O.B The same way anyone else should deal with bullying- tell someone with authority to do something about it. If it's online- then stay away from certain sites and block those accounts bullying you.

[@alyxo.b4486]

Isaki Tahashi Ok tysm!!

[@TheFoxfeather]

I have been trying to get an answer to my question in some lolita channels about what is lolita exactly but I haven't gotten any responses. Maybe you could help me. So far, I haven been very intrigued by the lolita fashion especially with jumper skirts which look more like dresses to me. I have fallen in love with the dresses because it fits the poofiness and decorative glam I like. However, I am slightly discouraged by the emphases on modesty and conservatism, which is naturally part of the victorian era. Basically, if i modify the dress to make it less modest like taking away the blouses in jumper skirts and tights, would I still be a Lolita? I already purchased my first jumper skirt on bodyline which resembles a classic lolita style. I don't want to be called an "ita" by a community I would like to associate myself with- so please help! Thank you!

[@isakigoboom]

+TheFoxfeather In short the answer is no. If you wear a jsk (jumper skirt) without a blouse underneath or cardigan over top then it's lolita done wrong. Lolita = modesty which is why you'll never see someone who takes the fashion seriously doing that. Even in warm weather. Bodyline can be a good site for beginner lolitas, but is not very good quality and can have some tacky prints. If you like lolita pieces, but don't want to follow the guidelines, then it's not considered lolita fashion but instead 'lolita influenced'. Hope this answers your question. I have a lolita playlist if you want to hear more; I cover a lot of topics.

[@TheFoxfeather]

+Isaki Tahashi Thank you! So then based on your answer, I don't think I will be a Lolita BUT I think I can take in some Lolita stuff into my wardrobe. The risqué lolita did interest me and it may fit into the realm of my tastes but I doubt it will be less modest than what I would prefer - it can float around as possibility. I will follow your channel regardless of not being a lolita 😅😂 I find you quite informative of this subculture.

[@isakigoboom]

+TheFoxfeather Glad I could help :D It's okay to mix styles and make your own. As the Kawaii Pateen channel says "have fun with fashion!"

[@lilyjohnson7493]

I'm wondering why you want to take away the modesty of Lolita? Lolita is the opposite of sexy/sexual if you catch my drift!

[@miso6758]

I’m 14 and I want to get into Lolita fashion part time tho because I do still want to wear chill not as much work clothes sometimes and my mom doesn’t really care cuz she doesn’t even know about the book and neither do I lol

[@annacarolina5134]

Huh... I wanted to star using lolita clothes, but i live on a small town and you know... At small towns everybody judges you, so I'm kind of afraid to start doing it, even though i know that i would feel better like that, being myself i just can't think about the looks of the people, I'm really shy so... I really want some advice, can anyone tell me anything about what should i do?...

[@isakigoboom]

+Anna Carolina No one can tell you what to do. You have to find confidence within oneself.

[@annacarolina5134]

Isaki Tahashi Oh i was only asking for tips... Im not from the U.S so i forgot the name... I'm actually brasilian so its not a common thing here, anyways thanks for your words! (＾▽＾)

[@isakigoboom]

Anna Carolina I have a video on confidence, but it's not something that can be taught.

[@victoriabenson1600]

Me and my whole family love the victorian aria so much my name is Victoria

[@jeanbott8217]

is there a certain age you have to be

[@isakigoboom]

No; it's not a group or cult XD

[@jeanbott8217]

+Isaki Tahashi OK thank you so much

[@feiyangjia]

No, it's really just a fashion style not a stereotype or anything so who cares if you are 6 or 60, you can be any age to wear Lolita

[@mayasrantings3174]

I shop on Amazon and it's actually really cheap, for lolita fashion

[@isakigoboom]

There's a lot of cheaply made costume pieces tho; so be careful!

[@jenniferhopesafe9742]

For those who're getting started in the fashion, do NOT buy from Milanoo. I've heard that people were scammed. The pieces are mediocre at best and the stock pics were stolen. I say again, STAY AWAY FROM MILANOO!!!!!!

[@gloomytwoshoes]

I’m scared to dress Lolita, but I’m diving in feet first. Nobody ever dresses Lolita in my area, and everyone kind of dresses the same. I want to stand out and be different.

[@kinsdo8146]

Little Girl same with me!

[@Littlecat3100]

Thank you for this video. I personally am not interested in dressing in Lolita I like the baginess of basketball shorts too much xp but I am interested in making Lolita outfits and selling them for others to enjoy so thank you for making a video of what people want/expect

[@isakigoboom]

+Littlecat3100 That's awesome that you can sew! ♥

[@fatmat1701]

do they have male lolitas?

[@isakigoboom]

fatmat1701 Yes, There are cross-dressing lolitas and kodona or ouiji lolitas. just google them :)

[@isakigoboom]

Isaki Tahashi *ouji

[@fatmat1701]

nice

[@firellily]

sooooooooooooooo i just found out what a jumper skirt is, turns out i have 2 and i just thought they were dresses -turns out the person who gave them to me use to be a loli- may as well do more research and wear them in the full style, seems like it could be fun for holidays or school, or special occasions until i get enough money to buy.make more stuff... this vid is cool btw -totally gunna watch more of them-

[@hailiehart525]

see now I'm like half Lolita in the style that I love the wigs but I want a more casual skirts and stuff

[@captainjacksparrow1521]

What I seem to see is practically anything Lolita can be labeled as cosplay. I'm working on making a dress but until then I'm saving up to buy a Lolita dress. I'm scared to buy one though because as soon as I find a dress I like, I see it pop up somewhere else labeled as " cosplay Lolita ". I really looked into what's ita and what's Lolita but I'm scared that if I buy the dress I really have my eye set on, it's gonna look too anime-ish and be more like a cosplay.

[@isakigoboom]

Anything that says cosplay you'll want to stay far away from. Learn some brand names- the big ones and small ones to help you pick out one that isn't crappy. I'll be doing a video on this topic soon!

[@captainjacksparrow1521]

+Isaki Tahashi That's the thing though. I'll be on a Lolita site and the dress will say that it's a normal Lolita OP or JSK but then I'll be browsing amazon or eBay for second hand nerd stuff and I'll see a used version of the dress labeled as cosplay. I know I shouldn't really trust eBay and amazon when it comes to identifying Lolita but it's a bit nerve wracking. XD The dress I'm looking to buy is a simple navy blue OP with white sleeves, frilly cuffs, a frilly white collar, navy blue buttons and a darker navy blue bow at the collar. The skirt cut looks like an A line but the angle makes it a little hard to tell so it might actually work for a bell shape. I'm gonna leave it up to you or someone else as to whether this doesn't sound like Lolita. XD The site I'm using is called " My Lolita Dress ". It was the first site that popped up when I searched for lolita clothes.

[@isakigoboom]

My Lolita Dress is a bit of an iffy site. Most seasoned lolitas tend to stay away from there. Check out Devil Inspired or Lacemarket (second hand) for help picking out your first dress.

[@captainjacksparrow1521]

+Isaki Tahashi Thanks for the help. I'll take a look at those sites rn.

[@mikeydelwey6779]

what do you do if you just like the dressing style of the Lolitas but you don't know much about the lifestyle or anything else

[@isakigoboom]

You research.

[@mikeydelwey6779]

Isaki Tahashi ok thanks

[@selahshowproductions3725]

Thank you so much! I'm really young and I would like to try Lollita fashion, but my wallet hurts every time I look on Lollita websites. I hope this will help me get into the fashion without looking like an ita(even though I'm not quite sure what that is) Thank you!

[@feiyangjia]

You should look on Bodyline. I'm also getting started in Lolita fashion as well. Bodyline has cheap items and good quality. I am also sorta young as well, but I saved up

[@zenpie5093]

I would love to dress a bit more lolita-like but I am a XXL woman and gained like 25kg in 4 years and don‘t feel very comfortable about myself so I avoid colorful and puffy stuff in my normal style. I really want to try it though and maybe gain confidence from it. Because the last times I lost weight over the years I still wore loose clothes and felt like I didn’t loose a pound. I think dressing as cute as I want to might help me :)

[@missunderstood2274]

I am following you now. I love how you get real with this style, contrary to unfortunate popular belief that lolita is "slutty". I love how you endorse being conservative 🙋😊

[@isakigoboom]

+Miss Understood (Dandere) Well there are 3 definitions of lolita: a name, a fashion style, and a promiscuous young girl. The only one people pay attention to is the ls one.

[@isakigoboom]

+Isaki Tahashi *last

[@missunderstood2274]

+Isaki Tahashi I know right??? I love the style of the goth/victorian/kawaii mix but not only that, the things you learn people really used to wear like corsets etc. which I also love but not sure if its counted lolita. People seem to think lolita is girls dressing as loose animes but when done correctly and conservatively, it makes sense and is appropriate

[@bethmare9141]

any lolita's in Sydney?

[@princesseevee3851]

I'm not in Sydney, but if you look on Facebook, you are bound to find lots of Lolita groups!

[@ayo_melah]

I know I'm sort of late to this video but I really want to be a lolita but I know how expensive it is and my mum has no problem with it but she doesn't have them money to do it I'm only going to be 13 ( may 23 ) but my mum is buying me my first dress for my birthday but I need a petticoat to go under it but I don't think my mum knows were to get them from and I can't sew to save my life so I have to wait to find stuff but I won't be able to wear it to school because we have uniform and I don't have a dress that matches the colors and also I think my god sister might become a sweet lolita like me because she already has a dress but she only has it for cosplay but I want to dress like it for a long term thing not just for cosplay

[@ayo_melah]

oh and my mum used to have to dress like a classic lolita when she lived with my great grandma so she is familiar with the style but she didn't wear the wigs

[@isakigoboom]

+adorkable :P You can check lacemarket or ebay for a secondhand petticoat till you can get the one you want. Glad your mum is supportive :)

[@ayo_melah]

Thanks your videos are very helpful 😊

[@isakigoboom]

adorkable :P I'm really glad! Thank you :)

[@mintytheshade3754]

This is very helpful ^^

[@basicbrunette1798]

I think I know why I'm unorganized ... My room is normally messy , because it's not the way I'd like it.. I would change it just I share a room Don't get me wrong I'm grateful for everything I have just I'd like my room to be cooler and cuter. I'd like to try tea sometime. It's hard being my age 😞 Lolita is cool I mean I probably wouldn't keep a lot of doors I'd probably have my room classical and sweet Lolita. I also think others won't like me. Any help , tips advice perhaps ?

[@basicbrunette1798]

Dolls'

[@isakigoboom]

Why you would think other wouldn't like you; I don't know. That's for you to decide and then change yourself only if you want to. I personally promote people to be themselves so long as they aren't a total bitch. I do have a video about decorating with lolita influence, but that's normally foe those who want to persue a lolota lifestyle. Never limit yourself!

[@basicbrunette1798]

+Isaki Tahashi yay thanks! I'll go watch it later, And I don't think I have any Lolita's where I live who knows

[@basicbrunette1798]

+Isaki Tahashi I like Lolita a lot a lot. Now that I think about it I don't think anyone wouldn't like me. From what I know my friends say I'm nice and that what matters! Thanks a lot :)

[@MayushiiGaming]

I've been wanting to try out different 'worlds' of fashion, such as steampunk and lolita, recently, but I'm having some issues. 1) I have little to no money. 2) I almost never see anyone wearing anything even remotely close to lolita where I live, so I'm not sure how to find my 'local group'. I also have trust issues, so meeting people online is a no-no. 3) I'm not very confident, so talking to people I happen see in lolita scares the daylights out of me. T_T

[@MayushiiGaming]

Okay, thanks. I'll be sure to check her out :)

[@isakigoboom]

+Mayushii Gam Yumi King has very cute cosplays, but her 'lolita inspired' outfits don't go well for actual lolita wear. I'd call it more cosplay than lolita, but she teaches some very good tricks! I met my local group thru their fb group. As I've told others; search your town's name and lolita to see what comes up. If you don't want to do that then good luck! haha :)

[@MayushiiGaming]

Isaki Tahashi Okay, thank you. :)

[@floralover01]

I want to make that skirt it is amazing like make videos on how to make them hahaha

[@vannavee597]

"May the force be with you!" *does Spock thing*

[@visascake]

Can you talk about how to being Lolita's, but for males?

[@isakigoboom]

+Kawaii Derp Sure!

[@visascake]

Wow thanks!

[@isakigoboom]

Kawaii Derp It'll be about 2 weeks before it comes out just fyi :)

[@visascake]

Okay thanks

[@oumaimaelhamidi2786]

Hey ! I am 15 years old and I live in Morocco. I really admire and love Lolita fashion but the problem is I've never ever seen a person dressing as a Lolita in my country or even Lolita items in stores. We don't express ourselves much in fashion in my country. I really want to dress as a Lolita because I feel like this is who I am but I just can't find Lolita clothes and I'm afraid of the strange looks people will give me. I haven't told anyone yet not even my parents but I'm planning to stand out as a Lolita this September. Sorry if I made any mistakes English is not my first language :)

[@isakigoboom]

Oumaima Elhamidi Your English is very good so no worries. :) There is a well know lolita who wears a hijab and abides by her practices while in the fashion. I don't know if that helps if you follow the same guidelines. I do know there are lolitas all around the world. What style do you like? If you want something a little more plan and easier to accept then maybe go with classic lolita. Or slowly add in frilly elements to your everyday dress so your family can get accustomed to it step by step. Hope this helps!

[@oumaimaelhamidi2786]

Isaki Tahashi Thanks for your help !

[@kitty-zb8pk]

thank you

[@isakigoboom]

De nada :)

[@arianapotassium4137]

You have such nice hands!