HOW TO GET THROUGH A FRIENDSHIP BREAK-UP | Recover from losing a friend

[@kiki_7k]

I never thought I would come here in a billion years, but here I am🤕

[@drmether9150]

Idk how to communicate with this person when they aren’t even willing to have a mature conversation....

[@jordyyy8400]

I'm here right now because me and my best friend just stopped being friends. We were only friends for 9 months but it was the best 9 momths i've ever had. It hurts really bad because she understood me in a way no other friend did. I gave her my everything. She was a good friend on the most part until things started going down hill. She had lost her brother and the grief changed her. I will never understand her pain of losing her brother but I was there for her as best as I could. I found out she was talking about me behind my back, hanging out with people who hated me, lying to me, and breaking promises. We also started to fight ALL the time. My gut felt like something wasn't right and everytime I confronted her about it she would get mad at me. I couldn't take it anymore so I cut her off for about a month and it honestly didn't even bother me. she came back to me apologizing. Not even an hour after that we fought some more. a day later she blocked me on everything without a warning. I tried adding her back as a friend and she accepted it. we agreed that things weren't working out for us and everytime we tried to get back as friends it lead to the same burning hole. something in me told me just to let it go, our friendship had been burned out. for some reason it hurts more this time because now it's finally hitting me and i'm starting to realize that this is it. i have to let her go. it's over.

[@mishhhhhh5078]

Plz tell me more because I’m going through the exact same except for the fact we were friends since birth so it hurts a lot

[@iamglorianasio6459]

Currently going through it, the feeling is mad.

[@fizaowais2416]

Hair 🥰. But on a real note this topic is such a raw thing we all go through and it can hurt :(

[@misskeisha9188]

yeah we were very toxic, but i still miss herrrrr and im to scared to reach out so idk what to do so

[@dhdjdhjdhsj4004]

she said it to my face that she doesn't care about our friendship :(

[@Twerkarella]

It hurts when you genuinely care and love someone and they don’t feel the same

[@Nayeonsoneeyedgf]

Sameee

[@oliviamiller4024]

what are you trying to tell me

[@Jmwamuchemi]

He didn't tell me what I did was wrong but instead he kept it himself and waited till the day I asked him for a favour and he exploded He said he will treat me the same way I treat him, and he dumped me and blocked me, and so i will respect his decision and move on, i will not reach out to him! Am walking away, i feel more healthier mentally!

[@technocatgamer101]

My cousin just break up a friendship with me :( I’m crying 😭(sorry for my English)

[@DutyLync]

what friend did you lose

[@ThatsWhatChiSaid]

u

[@Nayeonsoneeyedgf]

U know i shouldnt still be sad over somthing that happend a year ago but it still hurts last week i got a text from my ex friend it was probably her messing around it read “bye 🙄😂“ to clarify i did nothing wrong she replaced me with bullies and i have a real best friend who stuck by me since i was in primary but i was allready trying to heal from the argument that broke us apart long story short it was like : “Gabby Gabby we need to talk” then * all said one by one * we don’t wanna be friends then they followed me round the play ground I got angry and swore at them and then they told on me this wasn’t the only time they had been bullying me for months and I let them just because of one girl I didn’t wanna lose she was my best friend (well not any more ) my mum let the school know it wasn’t my fault bc of my behaviour problems that I snapped everyday I walk out of school and see her I’m not upset all of the time but on and off I’ll think about her or the argument and cry I just don’t know how to stop being upset over this it’s just ridiculous...

[@mandolaa]

For me it's 2 years and it still hurts sometimes