How to get your life back on track: The Reset Method

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@struthless
@struthless 3 жыл бұрын
2021: it's month number 6 Me: so it's been 6 months? 2021: Well technically it's only- Me: *makes this video*
@struthless
@struthless 3 жыл бұрын
This is my new favourite mistake I've made... enjoy the month headstart on half #2 lol
@st.valentineArt
@st.valentineArt 3 жыл бұрын
we don't come to you for your impecable maths skills!
@kreativeReise
@kreativeReise 3 жыл бұрын
@@struthless I panicked but than I saw ...aaaaahh another month left...I'm not finally lost, yet. 🤣
@abbyanderbard
@abbyanderbard 3 жыл бұрын
LOL! It's fine :)
@nikki5095
@nikki5095 3 жыл бұрын
@@struthless We needed the extra time, in all honesty. :)
@observer4292
@observer4292 3 жыл бұрын
You give the people what they need. I am people.
@kaylan341
@kaylan341 3 жыл бұрын
I'm people too. 🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️ And I can't agree more.
@stanblank7579
@stanblank7579 3 жыл бұрын
can confirm. i am people too
@dianalondono5599
@dianalondono5599 3 жыл бұрын
i prefer 10 quality videos to 52 half done. These are so useful
@sassymango9369
@sassymango9369 3 жыл бұрын
Truth!!! ❤👍
@SoumyaWadhwani
@SoumyaWadhwani 3 жыл бұрын
Hahaahah sameeee
@Sunshine-yk2eg
@Sunshine-yk2eg 3 жыл бұрын
1:29 *empty your head* brain dump. Your head is a computer and not a storage cabinet 2:19 *write down your goals from the start of the year* 3:11 *write down what you actually did in the fist half of the year* 4:11 *assess why you hit some goals and not others* 4:38 *write down your ideal second half of the year and WHY you want it* 5:22 *hierarchy of goals* 5:49 *who would you have to be to accomplish these goals* 6:40 *create a system where you can realistically hit these goals* 》(either create routines or break the goal into smaller chunks and turn them into habits) 》make the systems for when you're not at your best 7:55 *how do you stick to the plan when things get tough?* 8:48 *why do you deserve this improvement?* 9:17 *take the 1st step right now*
@Emily-Hodgins
@Emily-Hodgins 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for time stamping these!!!
@Philipp-pz6yh
@Philipp-pz6yh 3 жыл бұрын
3:11 literally nothing lol
@ayaahmed9537
@ayaahmed9537 3 жыл бұрын
People like you must go to heaven.. thank youuuu 🙏🙏🙏🙏🌠🌠🌟🌟
@greggreg7400
@greggreg7400 3 жыл бұрын
@@Philipp-pz6yh I hear ya
@meghana1113
@meghana1113 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you soo much😭😭
@PSMotorsport
@PSMotorsport 3 жыл бұрын
We're definitely only 5 months into the year. Don't give me anxiety like that, I still need to do my taxes 😅
@Lilylightbourn
@Lilylightbourn 3 жыл бұрын
The taxes part is too relatable 😂😆😩
@Hallelujur
@Hallelujur 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@Tania_888
@Tania_888 3 жыл бұрын
Girl same!
@TheMichelex20
@TheMichelex20 3 жыл бұрын
Same 🥴🥴🥴
@PSMotorsport
@PSMotorsport 3 жыл бұрын
@@mesCheerios One step ahead of you! :p
@isabelsaavedra7947
@isabelsaavedra7947 3 жыл бұрын
I never thought about the question "why do I deserve this change?" It's interesting. I saved this video because I don't have my journal with me. Also, my inner perfectionist (and procrastinator) thinks "oh, well, I need to find the perfect moment of the day to write."
@kjbphotography2532
@kjbphotography2532 3 жыл бұрын
I just subscribed we'll get you to a million! I also pre-ordered your book on Amazon, I can't wait!
@malumalz774
@malumalz774 3 жыл бұрын
You are the humanliest human i have seen on internet. I don't know how to explain it but that is a really good thing.
@standing_around
@standing_around 3 жыл бұрын
+
@wordwriter
@wordwriter 3 жыл бұрын
What I appreciate so much about your videos is your acknowledgement that there is not just one way to do things, and that failure is normal. I have OCD and ADHD and I struggle a lot with fatigue and time management, so I often find that advice from neurotypical coaches etc. can be counter-productive or just end up making me feel discouraged. I love that you provide so many useful tips and strategies while reinforcing that life is unpredictable and that different people respond to different things. :)
@abbyanderbard
@abbyanderbard 3 жыл бұрын
"failure is normal" is the most comforting thing I have ever heard :)
@ninjabreadgirl
@ninjabreadgirl 3 жыл бұрын
OCD and ADHD here too! Life is... massively difficult, to say the least.
@naheedshaikh3973
@naheedshaikh3973 3 жыл бұрын
@@abbyanderbard lm
@DMNKLR_official
@DMNKLR_official 3 жыл бұрын
I'm totally with you on that! I have a Sensory Processing Disorder, and fml if it isn't a real bugger on the brain! Fatigue and time management, yeah, completely relative! The majority of people who don't have issues like these, typically don't get it, and oftentimes it causes more anxiety, which only feeds the cycle. The struggle is real, but stay strong sister. You got this!
@wolfgangdali1036
@wolfgangdali1036 2 жыл бұрын
You guys are brave, any chronic illness/disability, particularly cognitively, is extremely difficult. As someone who is in the recovery from chronic fatigue, just getting on an even footing and finding a groove again is a herculean effort and you should be proud no matter what the outcome is
@nowherels64
@nowherels64 3 жыл бұрын
The point about making your systems for you-on-a-hard-day is such a good idea, it seems so obvious that that would have a better chance of sticking! I'm going to try that instead of creating systems for superhuman-me. Great video as always!
@SimpleSustainableLife
@SimpleSustainableLife 3 жыл бұрын
This is frequently where I fuck up! I get all motivated and PMA and set ABSURD tasks for myself, like 5am Club stuff which inevitably fails and my systems and habits go to shit after a week or so. Most ridiculous thing is I know I'm doing it...but somehow making the small changes don't seem like enough of an effort so I just wallow about until I'm motivated again. Daft.
@arcangel2064
@arcangel2064 3 жыл бұрын
@@SimpleSustainableLife haa I feel ya😁.... .....😑
@JacobPatrick1
@JacobPatrick1 3 жыл бұрын
'Make the systems for when you are at your weakest not at your strongest' That is such realistic and understanding foresight.
@kenziekline2231
@kenziekline2231 3 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate how much you de-dramaticize failure or the anxiety that comes with not connecting to a particular method. Yeah, it's all good, it's not a big deal, this is all figureoutable, we're not doomed. Definitely helpful to hear that attitude and encouragement from someone else!
@iliveinsideyourhouse3943
@iliveinsideyourhouse3943 3 жыл бұрын
Yea, sometimes we should just chill and not take life too seriously.
@tiffsterritoryonyoutube
@tiffsterritoryonyoutube 3 жыл бұрын
Bruh your humility and kindness ♥️ So glad the algorithm introduced us.
@briancoyne6700
@briancoyne6700 3 жыл бұрын
I just rediscovered my old journals from the past 20 years. It's amazing how I've been dealing with the same struggles for that long. But I could see there were times I was making progress and how journaling was a big part of it. I am inspired to keep journaling for the next 20 years.
@aurorasurrealis1032
@aurorasurrealis1032 3 жыл бұрын
I just got half a panic attack when you said the year is halfway done. It was january yesterday. 😭
@laurahigson8192
@laurahigson8192 3 жыл бұрын
same jesus christ what happened?
@marylevin9262
@marylevin9262 3 жыл бұрын
@@laurahigson8192 oh my no kidding
@melanie_meanders
@melanie_meanders 3 жыл бұрын
If it makes you feel any better, this video is basically like setting a due date a week before the actual one. This half of the year is only TECHNICALLY over at the end of June.
@uglyboynat5743
@uglyboynat5743 3 жыл бұрын
Frrrrr 😭
@TheTruthHurts6666
@TheTruthHurts6666 3 жыл бұрын
Really? I'm so happy it's already half this year. I was so stressed this past year up until May of this year. I work in public health and everything is finally *almost* getting back to normal and I can have more time to myself instead of working.
@SamLooksForTheGood
@SamLooksForTheGood 3 жыл бұрын
I'm amazed by how timely your videos always are with my current life. But I think it goes to show how we're all more similar than we think; despite living in different countries, with different lifestyles...we all have stories we can relate with, stories we can empathize with, and I think it's through these stories that we feel less alone and more hopeful that we can overcome them. So thank you Struthless for making me feel less alone, for making me feel empowered, and for giving me so much practical tips and wisdom through your videos (I've been super grateful how frequent they are too!) We're all just strangers on the internet (and you often refer to yourself as "that bald guy on the internet"), but at this point, we're all more than that. I think we've built a community of awkward, brave, kind, and whole-hearted people (you can tell I'm a Brené Brown fan HAHA)! Congrats on being 6 months sober too
@teenajoe22
@teenajoe22 3 жыл бұрын
oh my gosh, same! most of his videos come just as I need them
@realglutenfree
@realglutenfree 3 жыл бұрын
Right? Just yesterday I bought a second desk for my apartment, this new one is for studying only. I wanted to start exactly today with learning phsyics. I can concentrate so much better without all the other (gaming related) stuff lying on the other desk. And now I even get recommend this video.
@arcangel2064
@arcangel2064 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations
@Merryyy203
@Merryyy203 2 жыл бұрын
That was such a lovely comment to read. I've felt it!
@n00bitaww
@n00bitaww 3 жыл бұрын
Also, "the pain of NOT doing it > pain of doing it" hit me in the gut. From over a year I've been telling myself it's time to share my art with everyone, kept stalling it. I promised two days ago that I would do it starting 1st June but it's 22:00 and I chickened out. Then I see this video. 😂
@heikek2134
@heikek2134 3 жыл бұрын
Still some time left, go for it!
@MrMitlerKun
@MrMitlerKun 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, Devleena! Your comment struck gold with me, I guess at the end you just get tired of being afraid and just do it.
@RusPitman
@RusPitman 3 жыл бұрын
Go for it!
@kimatlastlooks2915
@kimatlastlooks2915 3 жыл бұрын
The world needs your art. Do it.❤️
@n00bitaww
@n00bitaww 3 жыл бұрын
I did! Thank you all, so much. I was very confused about my first post so I was late. (I'm literally sitting on mountains of art 😅) If anyone would be interested it's @ccu2077 on Instagram. 🙏
@lizardqueen6041
@lizardqueen6041 3 жыл бұрын
You've only made 10 videos, but it's always quality content whenever you put something out
@FatemaRasul
@FatemaRasul 3 жыл бұрын
True.
@KindaCarolin
@KindaCarolin 3 жыл бұрын
I don't think my life has ever been "on track" with what I wanted it to be or thought it would be. I have a lot I'm still working on this year, and I'm happy where I am even though it's not the path I thought I'd be on when I used to think about the future. Great video and lots of food for thought
@clementcomposer
@clementcomposer 2 жыл бұрын
I did this exercise on Sept. 30th (2022) and today it's Nov. 3rd, so, almost five weeks in. The relief and sense of direction has been enormous. I feel satisfaction knowing I'm working toward the things I've decided are most important. I have patience for the life projects and goals that I've decided *aren't* on my 'most important' list for this stretch of time--I'm no longer worrying I'm 'not doing enough' for them because they're simply waiting their turn. Thanks to the habits I set up with this system, I actually finished a new piece of music for the first time in years, and I adapted these steps to reflect on that project and figure out what the next one will be. Basically, this was one of the most effective and clarifying tools I've ever tried. Thank you.
@relaxalax
@relaxalax 3 жыл бұрын
Dude you're the coolest. Thanks for what you do. I followed your advice for the 70% rule months ago and it really helped me be happier with what i made This advice is what I recommend to others who want to get their goals completed, thanks for sharing
@skyinuri8868
@skyinuri8868 3 жыл бұрын
I do follow his 70% rules.. I feel happier and when the result ain't so lucky. I thank myself instead of blame
@janik8812
@janik8812 3 жыл бұрын
well
@BlackHayateTheThird
@BlackHayateTheThird 3 жыл бұрын
'First step usually isn't more self-improvement content'- lol, called out. But it feels so good to binge your content!
@munchkinmeep
@munchkinmeep 3 жыл бұрын
It took me a few days to to the whole thing, because I get emotionally drained when untangling myself, but I did it!! And I feel satisfied. Thank you for making this booklet and video
@redporkpadthai6368
@redporkpadthai6368 3 жыл бұрын
Every couple of months I kind of spiral and your videos always help me get my head above water again. Spent about an hour and half doing these steps after a very anxious weekend and I feel a lot better and more centered and focused again. Crazy how just writing down what you're thinking/how you're feeling goes so far and making stressors external instead of internal. Thanks again for another quality video.
@opheliel.5234
@opheliel.5234 3 жыл бұрын
I was having a real moment of self-doubt and self-hate because I felt like Iike I hadn't moved forward at all since the beginning of this year (in fact even before that) but now I'm more motivated than ever. Followed your advice right away and took the first step for a better life. Thank you for helping me🙏
@kriston_
@kriston_ 2 жыл бұрын
I remember when I watched this video a year ago when it first came out. And now, as I am currently in a rut, I’m rewatching this video and doing the exercise. I’ve been in a rut because I’ve felt like I haven’t been very productive, but when I take a step back, I realize I’ve accomplished so much A list of a few things I’ve done since the first time watching: - (Sorta) got over my fear of driving and got my license - Got accepted to college after two gap years thinking I couldn’t go back (and got scholarships and grants, so I won’t have to pay anything!) - Started selling journals on Amazon - Opened an Etsy shop for digital prints - Got my first freelance writing gigs - Started going out way more with friends and even went on a little road trip out of state, etc. I’m glad I stumbled across this video again. You are a wise guy indeed! Thank you 🙏🏾
@fearghadecleirnichiannaigh3345
@fearghadecleirnichiannaigh3345 3 жыл бұрын
I watched this a week ago and said I’d come back to it. I just spent 3 hours watching you talk about each step and then really going deep and doing it. I wrote so much, learned so much. I think the bit where you evaluate the reasons why some goals were achieved and some were not is so interesting. And the parts about the kind of person I want to be and why I deserve to meet my goals were so empowering. I feel completely different about my goals now, super clarified on my purpose and priorities. This video and channel is such a gem I will be reccomending it to anyone who could use it ❤️❤️
@clairekug5709
@clairekug5709 2 жыл бұрын
Literally the best, most motiviating, and practical video I have seen in the self-improvement community
@rubyburr
@rubyburr 3 жыл бұрын
“take the first step right now.” me lying in bed at 1:37am: 😳
@wafa2075
@wafa2075 3 жыл бұрын
Same, except it's 1:55 am for me. 😂 I'm still going to take the first step now though!
@phoeniceae
@phoeniceae 3 жыл бұрын
same
@vkdrk
@vkdrk 3 жыл бұрын
Watching this at 00:09 😅🤣
@p4gyt710
@p4gyt710 3 жыл бұрын
That comment scared the shit out of me It's literally 1:37
@rubyburr
@rubyburr 3 жыл бұрын
@@p4gyt710 🤭
@mantoskeeee
@mantoskeeee 3 жыл бұрын
I like how you are able to find and ask out loud all these hard questions. It's like a superpower.
@georgiaklipic112
@georgiaklipic112 3 жыл бұрын
The timing of this couldn’t have been better for me. I’ve hit a point of realisation and am aware that what I want doesn’t line up to what I’m doing. I’ve still managed to achieve some big goals this year, but this put into perspective how my systems and the effort I put in could have been very different (dare I say, easier? Simpler? Less exhausting? A lot to think about). Great vid, thank you!
@Bjunior420
@Bjunior420 Жыл бұрын
I like how he says he would love a million subscribers and now he is at that milestone. I am now motivated to accomplish my dreams in life
@ThePatchworkQuill
@ThePatchworkQuill 3 жыл бұрын
You always have a fresh take on this stuff, they're never 'just another self improvement video'. Always super actionable and sympathetic while kicking your butt to do something. Thank you :)
@fenixright
@fenixright 3 жыл бұрын
It took me 2 hours to sit and fill this whole thing out but I'm so glad I did. Having the "why do you deserve this?" At the very end was incredibly useful for me. I've made these kind of journals constantly for many years and it's been hard to actually stick with it but I feel like this one has actually left me with a simple system I can work with and adjust, despite being a massive perfectionist.
@scarfycoolcat
@scarfycoolcat 3 жыл бұрын
Journaling just your thoughts helps you understand yourself. Have fun with it get a nice journal and a nice pen. Write what you want to say to someone. Write about a bird you saw. Write about anything. Just don't forget to date it.
@soaperon1
@soaperon1 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve always done a quarterly reset and I always start by cleaning my room and folding my clothes. A clean room and organized wardrobe always helps me to actually think about what I want to accomplish because I have the space and can see all the materials I have to work with to accomplish those things when it’s clean.
@olivialangille5889
@olivialangille5889 3 жыл бұрын
at the end of june we will be half way through I believe
@wadball
@wadball Жыл бұрын
"[The key is not to watch more self-improvement content, but to take action.]" I appreciate your integrity in saying that. I know you're really trying to help
@catboywizard
@catboywizard 3 жыл бұрын
Lately I've felt absolutely bulldozed by the overwhelming weight of everything going on right now, but just watching this video and doing these exercises in my mind eased it a bit. The first step for my mid-year reset will be buying a journal 😎
@Fortysixand222
@Fortysixand222 3 жыл бұрын
Legitimately the only channel that everytime I see a new video posted, I know I’m actually about to get helpful advice.
@BobbyDoesMusic
@BobbyDoesMusic 3 жыл бұрын
Me: Man, I'm feeling a little aimless and stuck. I could probably use a reset and reevaluation of where I'm at and where I want to go. Struthless: I got you bro.
@kyriakospolyzogopoulos6874
@kyriakospolyzogopoulos6874 3 жыл бұрын
Dude, you give therapist sessions for free to all of us. Bless you.
@thunderpants153
@thunderpants153 3 жыл бұрын
ur vids helped me get back into school to do a access course and now I'm going to a top uni for art and design
@lifeisartreality
@lifeisartreality 3 жыл бұрын
I just realized that living purposeful is better for every one around me. So refreshing to watch a practical video like this; with an action to follow while watching., and move these steps into time blocks of the future ! Thank you.
@siberiaswan4060
@siberiaswan4060 3 жыл бұрын
Your timing is impeccable as usual!!! I was just thinking the other day that I should start giving myself half-year progress reports and here you are... Thanks dude!
@jenntroxclair6785
@jenntroxclair6785 2 жыл бұрын
you are a blessing to have come across. thank you, you are helping, you are reaching people, this is amazing !!
@Amandasbarros
@Amandasbarros 3 жыл бұрын
This year is being crazy for me, I wanted to be a doctor but then my childhood dog died, and I needed to spent so much time with him so he would not die alone and scared. Than I decided that I will be a nurse, keep helping people but with more time for the ones I love in my personal life. I changed my room a little bit, started to study more English and Spanish, decided that I wanna learn how to sing, and that yoga really helps my mental health!!!! I did not do anything that I said I would in January, however I'm learning so much about who I am, and who I wanna be for myself, and for the world, and for the spiritual world. I think I'm happy, that's scares me a little bit but I'm fine
@JunaidForYou
@JunaidForYou 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss! Hope you’re feeling better
@woody3786
@woody3786 2 жыл бұрын
Going through every step was no small task, but my tank is completely refilled! Thank You!
@lemonadeslices
@lemonadeslices 3 жыл бұрын
you: "think about what you've done in the past year" me: ....*cricket sound intensifies*
@igorthelight
@igorthelight 3 жыл бұрын
him: "think about what you've done in the past year" me: "But that wasn't my fault! They are out of hospital by now!" That was a dark joke :-)
@VitoFavareira
@VitoFavareira Жыл бұрын
Its been around a month since I've found your channel and, man, you inspire me so much and help me so much. I had been trying to quit smoking for a while and some weeks ago I changed to "I actually don't like the taste of these", just as I did when I became a vegetarian. I haven’t smoken since and, boy, did I had people offering me those, but I simply did not feel like smoking. I have been walking too, long distances, and I decided I want to run a São Silvestre by the end of the year and for the first time I feel like I'll be able. I've been journaling a lot more since I found you and I love your prompts and how much I've been rethinking my life. I was in a really dark place, pretty much that paralyzing anxiety from the beginning of this video, but I've been feeling like things will work out. Thank you. I wish you all the best ❤
@madisonaugustine
@madisonaugustine 3 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure July means half the year is over….
@nikki5095
@nikki5095 3 жыл бұрын
He's giving us a month's head start to get our shit together. ;)
@marylevin9262
@marylevin9262 3 жыл бұрын
june
@Jaylink15
@Jaylink15 3 жыл бұрын
June is the 6th month...
@drevz_
@drevz_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jaylink15 lmao when the 6th month is over, then half the year is over
@keithk2879
@keithk2879 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jaylink15 therefore the last of the first half?
@gregorywilliams7752
@gregorywilliams7752 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for calling me out! I’ve been watching self improvement vids all week and no action. Journalling right now!
@stephenajulu
@stephenajulu 3 жыл бұрын
Kindly cover depression, self-loathing/hatred, low self-esteem, fear of the future(catastrophizing) and self-blame. Suffering from these and I am definitely doing what you have said in this video
@mychemicalromantics
@mychemicalromantics 3 жыл бұрын
your videos are actually like massively helpful? none of this self help stuff usually works on me but yours are realistic that life is messy and its great! theyre also not moralistic at all which is nice for someone who struggles w anxiety and depression like myself
@fauna6332
@fauna6332 3 жыл бұрын
thank you, genuinely, right now i am not in a good state, mentally and for the first time, it's been shown in my works/ job and it scares me that i won't be able to pull it back and I will ruin all the achievements i have made so far with the actions i am making, i want to get better but it's hard
@esmiram5375
@esmiram5375 2 жыл бұрын
I love how realistic you are with goal setting because other videos I’ve seen only go as far as to say “make little goals and work your way up” but I love that you added the idea of setting a system for your harder days. You break it down so well, thank you!!
@dianalondono5599
@dianalondono5599 3 жыл бұрын
2:10 mark "i recommend to start with at least 3 pages" me: my mom issues alone was 7 pages long and i haven't stopped, i still add paragraphs now and then
@siobhancapell
@siobhancapell Жыл бұрын
"I do not play with fire like that and I will not be doing that in my life." Fast forward to making yourself run a marathon. We always become so different to what we expect we'll be. Props for running the marathon distance. Whatever it took to get you there.
@skyjii8430
@skyjii8430 3 жыл бұрын
The start of your vid resonates with me so much: Couple of minutes past midnight last night I was actually panicking a bit when I saw the date changing into June and actually talked to a friend how we´re basically at the half the year mark now and how we didn´t accomplished any bigger plans or dreams yet haha Thank you for the vid and for the really realistic and practical tips , it actually helped me to calm down. Gonna go and take some action now. :D
@dodhdhdfdffgdhfonhdh
@dodhdhdfdffgdhfonhdh 3 жыл бұрын
as someone who literally has nothing and am on the edge of mental health, your videos are a life saver. the positive self talk is so foreign to me. but im just going to keep trying and watch your videos when im feeling like losing it. thank you for what you do
@Jimbowholivesinsoup
@Jimbowholivesinsoup 3 жыл бұрын
You have really good taste in making graphics, colors, layouts ! Thanks for the video. I started with goal setting but my life flipped around, but still it's always fun when You can continue !
@diadiaa892
@diadiaa892 2 жыл бұрын
I came across this video weeks ago and I finally watched it. I immediately got out my journal and followed your steps! It took 2hrs in total but I'm super proud! You really helped me since I felt very stagnant until I watched this video! I barely set any goals for myself at the beginning of the year (I only had one!) and that was proving to be the reason why! Thank you so much man!! I appreciate you bare!!
@Eddison33
@Eddison33 3 жыл бұрын
This one hits harder now( Because it's like seven months already. And I'm really struggling on the 'why I deserve it' section. I came up only with the idea that I've been saving money for several years for this endeavour, and it means I had to self-discipline financially at least. Nothing else seems to indicate I'm entitled to success because I guess I haven't grown professionally.
@skeletondude641
@skeletondude641 2 жыл бұрын
Me too haha ! But don't give up. It's better to start now than later! Best of luck mate 🍀
@depressedcoffeecup3190
@depressedcoffeecup3190 3 жыл бұрын
I just did all the steps and I gotta say I needed the help. I have tangible steps now and I calculated everything and thought about stuff I put off thinking about for months now. I never thought to do a plan for my weakest self and now it's not like, write 1 chapter per day but write 2 pages and 1 chapter per week if I can't do the page. Like way easier and I feel better about it than all my other failed schedules which felt a bit too much and overwhelming and really...cruel to myself. I loved this and I found out stuff about myself I didn't know so thank you from the bottom of my heart. I kept wanting to think about how to make a better plan rather than winging it which got me burnt out and then wasting time so I hope this will have me more consistent and less depressed. I didn't know what to start with and though I had a general idea, I realized that my priorities were wack. I was also honest about my capabilities for the first time ever haha, so...Thank you again.
@rissamayrox
@rissamayrox 3 жыл бұрын
This is honestly life changing, gonna do this today to get a head start on the next half of the year ;)
@coreyle3303
@coreyle3303 3 жыл бұрын
Your life is so on track that you were a month early! Love these videos. Thank you!
@un0m3asa13ah
@un0m3asa13ah 3 жыл бұрын
I mean, the second half of the year actually starts July 1 so if I procrastinate the next 30 days mind your business 🙃😉😅
@EstellaBanks
@EstellaBanks 3 жыл бұрын
😄😁😂
@mexy04
@mexy04 3 жыл бұрын
Atomic habits changed my life!!!!!!! I love that you broke down the year planning. I was just trying start basic stuff at the beginning of the year. My therapist has slowly gotten me to journal and it really has helped.
@kimatlastlooks2915
@kimatlastlooks2915 3 жыл бұрын
Me: Could use some encouragement today. Universe: Say no more. (Ding goes the notification alert) *New Struthless video available* That James Clear quote was loaded. Going to need a bit to unpack that one. Thanks!
@ouijafox6953
@ouijafox6953 3 жыл бұрын
Your videos have been so supportive for my mental health and over all expansion. Most of selfhelp youtube is great however what standout to me about your content is that its Theory to Practice. Mahalo for taking the time to make amazing, high quality, engaging, creative and accessable content. Much love!
@susrev88
@susrev88 3 жыл бұрын
instead of setting a career-ruining tweet, you should just set a sudoku puzzle to disarm your alarm. pro advices: also save money for a new phone
@nirelotus
@nirelotus 3 жыл бұрын
Where have you been all my life? You’re able to take the concepty things I know and turn them into ordered word things- and I keep watching!
@holocoffin
@holocoffin 3 жыл бұрын
🍌 banana sticker for everyone who journaled today.
@marykellyncurrie199
@marykellyncurrie199 3 жыл бұрын
It's honestly kind of incredible how I always find your videos at the absolute perfect time. I have never encountered another creator who makes me feel so seen, understood, and personally challenged in the most positive and uplifting way. Whenever I'm struggling with something, I always run across one of your videos relating EXACTLY to my situation, and the way you break the problem down to make it seem less scary, more normal, more manageable, not to mention giving us PRACTICAL methods of overcoming those challenges.... I can't fully express how helpful it truly is. THANK YOU for making the content that you do, for being vulnerable, and helping others like myself feel less alone.
@Beaut_Beau
@Beaut_Beau 3 жыл бұрын
Hey struthless, you got anymore of your 2021 calendars hanging about for sale still? Maybe you could do a reprint with only the last 6 months in it and call it The Arse End of 2021 calendar?
@sophiemcintyre8841
@sophiemcintyre8841 Жыл бұрын
Wow this made me realise that I stopped setting goals because over the last year i experienced a series of upsetting / challenging things one after the other. My brain began to believe if I cared about something or looked forward to something it might get taken away/not happen. Im re learning how to be optimistic about life. Thanks for the relatable and helpful videos cam
@oskarsvito
@oskarsvito 3 жыл бұрын
Shieeeet.... i gotta watch it again... I didn't have me journal... Oh boy I shure dont hope the algorythm does not see me watching struthless 2x 🙃
@tashbrennfleck8370
@tashbrennfleck8370 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! I'm feeling like I'm in the biggest rut of my life and need to move on/past it because life does indeed continue. Thank you for your down to earth and empathetic and open energy - Love your work!
@Avaaaw
@Avaaaw 3 жыл бұрын
"write down what you actually did in the first half of the year" - does "surviving" count?
@kaoutardaoudi2338
@kaoutardaoudi2338 3 жыл бұрын
Yes and yes and yes
@kaoutardaoudi2338
@kaoutardaoudi2338 3 жыл бұрын
Someone like you on the other side of the globe was trying to survive while managing life and dreams. That other person is me. And so many others. You ve got this
@Onthe9thlife3730
@Onthe9thlife3730 3 жыл бұрын
Survival, rest, recovery. Relearning to be human, learning what human means to you. All counts.
@Avaaaw
@Avaaaw 3 жыл бұрын
@@kaoutardaoudi2338 thank you, I pray that you and the many others find your peace ☮️
@Avaaaw
@Avaaaw 3 жыл бұрын
@@Onthe9thlife3730 true, I've never asked myself what being human means... To me! Thank you for the insight 🐱
@itsjigen
@itsjigen 3 жыл бұрын
Every video and self improvement article I read just makes me believe that I can NEVER ever improve. For the past decade my life's been totally aimless with no motivation to the point that I don't know how people even have the energy to do the little things. ANYWAYS great video I hope it helps some people!
@JamieBainbridge
@JamieBainbridge 3 жыл бұрын
Not sure when this channel pivoted from fucked up drawing of the Simpsons to insightful practical self-help but nice work 😎
@olliemcphersonartist
@olliemcphersonartist 2 жыл бұрын
I just did this exercise and was actually amazed by how many goals I actually did achieve in the last six months. It was a good chance to reflect and it has left me fired up to go at the second half of the year and see where it can take me :) Really though provoking questions I wouldn't usually ask myself about how my goals went/ why I am setting them. Thank you for this video I have found it very practical and useful.
@kristengo9454
@kristengo9454 3 жыл бұрын
i am 0% done w my goals:)
@Maxbps88
@Maxbps88 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Strangely, after watching thousands of great videos on youtube. Yours is the first that helped me, ironically, STOP watching videos and get back to my life which makes yours the BEST VIDEO of all of them. Cheers. God Bless. & Godspeed, my friend.
@bemccune7671
@bemccune7671 3 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel. Already cried twice in 2 videos. I've finally at 36 been doing really well and “taking my life seriously" and I need things like this to keep that upward trend and your vids hit the spot. Thanks.
@saramoore4172
@saramoore4172 Жыл бұрын
Watched this 2 years in the future lol. Trying my best to become better every day. I recently moved and the thought of calling this place home gives me real bad anxiety. I need to find my groove again... Thanks for the videos, you're always an inspiration 😊
@AmyandAlex
@AmyandAlex 3 жыл бұрын
Strong believers in journaling, especially for a targetted purpose! The last two days we've been figuring out what we want to do with our KZbin channel, because we really lost our way with it, and this is a great exercise that we're going to do to have our goals and disciplines written down. Thank you!
@melaniefrancis48
@melaniefrancis48 3 жыл бұрын
This is just what I need to help me stop kicking myself and start taking positive steps to reset and get going again. Thank you
@bookaboy2000
@bookaboy2000 3 жыл бұрын
I think my favourite part of struthless' videos is that he is genuinely trying to help all of us, the authenticity shows ❤️
@fifthwallrenaissance3433
@fifthwallrenaissance3433 3 жыл бұрын
I was going to post about the whole 5-6 month thing. Saw that you'd already joked about it and other people joked about it, and you took it really well and rolled with it. I'm a wicked self-critical person, and seeing that in tangent with having watched a lot of your content spoke a lot to me. You seem like an awesome human. Keep doing your thing ma dude. Much love.
@andremindreau1374
@andremindreau1374 3 жыл бұрын
Lately I've been going down a downwards spiral without quite knowing where to go with my life. But you always show me some light at end of the tunnel. Thank you for always giving us some great advice.
@kieunta
@kieunta 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making mental clarity and improvement (and the systems to make them last) approachable, and guilt-free.
@iwakorica3463
@iwakorica3463 3 жыл бұрын
So technically it's mid-ish July right now, but better late than never! Honestly I'm left speechless... You've done an amazing job here! Straight to the point, no drama, no judgement, no unnecessary fuss. I've spent the night listening to your videos while working and I can say you've definitely enlightened and encouraged me!
@DMNKLR_official
@DMNKLR_official 3 жыл бұрын
One of the key things that I need to work hardest on, is to STOP sabotaging myself. I've found that I do this, albeit mostly subconsciously, far too much, and it always prevents me from achieving my goals. Sadly, this is especially true in my creative space. I'm definitely going to do this reset, and hold myself much more accountable across the board. It's time to clean shit up/out and reset myself! Thanks!
@tsivtsivtsiv
@tsivtsivtsiv 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks to the universe or youtube algorithm for helping me to find this channel! You can't even imagine how thankful am I, man! A really HUGE THANK YOU for your work!
@nicolemihaylova9351
@nicolemihaylova9351 3 жыл бұрын
watching your videos makes me calmer and less anxious about the future
@pandesalcheeks
@pandesalcheeks 3 жыл бұрын
The feelings of low self worth and horribleness came crawling back to me today but it was just a blessing to have found you. I’ve only watched two videos so far but honestly thank you for making these videos. It helps me put things in perspective and calm down a bit 🤗
@shakurvariawa8315
@shakurvariawa8315 3 жыл бұрын
Spent the last month in hospital. Thanks for the motivation to get back on the horse
@tejankshah89
@tejankshah89 3 жыл бұрын
Many of your journaling prompts are what I have also come up with after years of journaling. In general love all of your videos but those especially that have these journaling prompts. Helps to strengthen my own practice
@terrijapp4131
@terrijapp4131 3 жыл бұрын
Dude! How do you always know what I need when I need you the most!? Wizard! A wonderful, grounding wizard 🙏
@emberstonequest
@emberstonequest 2 жыл бұрын
I watched this when you first released it a year ago, and I just rewatched it now because I do feel I have kinda failed in all goals this year so far which has affected my daily joy. Now I've redone the exercise, and taken my first step like you advise. Thank you as always for your wonderful videos. They are always great to learn from, and I love how your videos have become a big part of my achieving my ideal outcomes both in the past (when I rocked my goals of highest priority) and moments like now where I need a little bit of help resetting. Thanks for everything you do, and congrats on the baby :)
@habibadokubo-asari211
@habibadokubo-asari211 3 жыл бұрын
Watch the video it goes into a lot more detail 1. Empty your thoughts 2. Bring up your goals from the start of the year 3. Write down what you actually did in the 1st of the year, part of the goals or not 4. Assess why you hit some goals and not others 5. Write down ideal second half of the year and why you want it 6. Order the goals in terms of importance 7. Write down who you have to be to achieve the goals 8. Create a system where you can realistically achieve these goals: Make it for when you’re at your weakest then scale up from there 9. How will you stick to the plan when things get tough 10. Why do you deserve this improvement? 11. Take the first step right now
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