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@kevinmcguire67742 жыл бұрын
This makes so much sense to me now. My wife briefly left me, for approx. three weeks, six years ago. She has since (July 2021) left me and it is because of my ‘extrinsic value’ and only briefly focusing on that six years ago!
@GeoffreySetiawan2 жыл бұрын
Yep, you are starting to get it now. Don't make the same mistake twice!
@brendan60853 жыл бұрын
Geoffrey love your content and for me always comes as the right time for my situation. You have helped me through this and I Thankyou for that and I’m continuing to grow both internally and externally. I’m currently in a separation (been 5 months) as my wife has had a affair and still is seeing her AP (have had a look at your content in regards to cheating) however I believe I have remained emotionally bulletproof through this but using your other principles how do I when me and her talk about kids etc how do I interact with her knowing this affair is in the back of my mind, do I be just normal and not raise the issue within the affair situation or just be normal whilst interacting asking how she is going, what she been up to lately etc. would like to know your thoughts?
@GeoffreySetiawan3 жыл бұрын
Hi Brendan, Glad you found my video helpful. Your situation is not unique, many of my clients are facing some of the same situations and challenges that you are. What they have learned are the right set of tools, skills, and mindsets to playout the frameworks in conversation to address the issues that are plaguing the relationship even when your partner is having an affair. Check out this video on how to handle things when your partner is having an affair. kzbin.info/www/bejne/gojdhYGrgJ6UgMU
@brendan60853 жыл бұрын
Much appreciated Geoffrey. What do you mean by the Mastering the right daily practices within your video on the 4 layers of growing your intrinsic value, what does that encounter and how. Would love to know your thoughts further on it, may vitally give me insight on my situation. ☺️
@seanbombae3 жыл бұрын
so my girlfriend for the last 6 months told me she doesn’t want to be in a romantic relationship with me due to our age difference of 6 years..it’s long distance and she still wants to be friends but all that’s going through my head is that is that she is talking to other dudes and when I said I would take a trip to go see her beforehand ..she said it would be too much seeing me in person
@chitos21322 жыл бұрын
Ngl I didnt wait to finally seek help but I didn't know I was ever in the wrong. I had gut feelings that something wasn't right but it never really woke me up until the day she said she wanted to leave and left as she said. Only then I realized, like a dumbass, how much pain I really put her through. It's been almost 2 months but I've been studying these videos and master classes. She's stonewalling tf outa me lol if only I seen these on the day she left or before. I still love my ex gf so much that I'm staying calm for her.
@MakZakk Жыл бұрын
bro, plz let me know if you got back with her. are u together? did u work things out?
@CeeJayCarter2 жыл бұрын
Gotta say I been watching all your videos since April, and everything you say will happen when you focus on tactics etc literally happened. It’s a lot harder to CONTINUE doing the internal work when your situation feels hopeless. When the bad stuff keeps happening and destroying your hope. But your videos have given me guidance and although I’ve struggled to be consistent, I know that if I stick to these changes that everything will be okay. And for that I’m appreciative for your content 🙌🏽
@noeledoilide3 жыл бұрын
Sense of urgency is key.. getting help, acting and releltlessly making things happen is urgent... immediately act, don't get confident with a demonstration of affectiin. Someone is not an accident or a mistake... it is serious. Don't hesitate and get help ASAP.
@GeoffreySetiawan3 жыл бұрын
The only thing that needs to be urgent is your growth. Getting your desired outcome is not. I have seen many of my clients separate and get back together after many years. There is no tipping point in long term relationships and in marriages.
@leroymthulisindlovu Жыл бұрын
@@GeoffreySetiawan This comment is what I needed to hear today. I struggle with the illusion of urgency quite a bit.. .I am literally addicted to your videos now because everytime I start lollygagging I know my mind is focused on the wrong thing, so your videos really help in realigning.
@Prettytony06273 жыл бұрын
Excellent content as always!
@GeoffreySetiawan3 жыл бұрын
Hi Tony, Thanks brother! Glad you found this video helpful. If you would like to learn more, you can join our free masterclass & consider enrolling in our program. In our Relationship Revival program all our clients have learnt the RIGHT processes (frameworks, mindsets & identity shifting) to create MASSIVE safety & trust. Have a look at how the program has been life-changing for so many of my clients… kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU
@Viralsh0rtcuT918 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the information. Sincerely.
@peterbox88223 жыл бұрын
GEOFF IS THE BEST.
@GeoffreySetiawan3 жыл бұрын
Peter Box, thank you my man. Glad I am able to provide help to you all.
@livewithinthedream3 ай бұрын
Started the daily, way too late into this separation but its for me, and I wish I had the 4000 just to pay this guy cause its saving all my relationships. My notebook is filling up
@maximefcom3 жыл бұрын
Where can I find the ressources to imprive my framework, mindset and identify shifting ? I'm at this stage now, Emotionnal/psychological trust is fine but I need to improve myself.
@GeoffreySetiawan3 жыл бұрын
Hi, Please feel free to submit you application to join the Relationships Revival program at the end of the master class to learn about identity shifting and learning the frameworks. relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
@yowspisaac61133 жыл бұрын
We’re not talking as of right now, it’s been over 3 months. She told me she loved me on the 4th, but do i keep waiting for her to reach out to me ? or will she eventually go and talk to somebody else
@GeoffreySetiawan3 жыл бұрын
Hi Isaac, That’s a very common issue in most relationships. When there is a lack of safety & trust, there is always a struggle to openly communicate. When there is a lack of communication this leads us to make wrong assumptions about what your partner is looking which inevitable leads to conflicts. In our Relationship Revival program all our clients have learnt the RIGHT processes (frameworks, mindsets & identity shifting) to create MASSIVE safety & trust. Have a look at how the program has been life-changing for so many of my clients…
@Bri913103 жыл бұрын
What if I give her the space she ask for but she's really just looking for someone else around this time? Or she finds someone else?
@GeoffreySetiawan3 жыл бұрын
Hi scotts825, Let me ask you a question. If she does want to do this, how does trying to stop her help? Does her feelings change? Does this stop her from wanting to do this? In my program we have a saying. "Give your partner the power and freedom to leave, treat them well enough to where they will not want to." Hope this helps.
@AkimboTimbo2 жыл бұрын
What are the five pillars?
@Jake.tm_politics6 ай бұрын
Its been almost 2 months, at this point shes starting to stome wall me and is unsure if she wants to continue our relationship. To make things worse her brother is making decisions for her.
@GeoffreySetiawan6 ай бұрын
Feel free to watch my interviews with Michael, Eve, or Scott. We talk about dealing with stonewalling and resistance a lot in those interviews. I've also made a video about this. kzbin.info/www/bejne/iJLNnIF-fNubaLs
@LynWariame Жыл бұрын
What if man is still not trusted
@sidewaysrain76092 жыл бұрын
80 grand Plus dollars a month business??? Maybe you should bring for a bookshelf that cost more than $6 and a $12 chair.... Just saying I don't need to work at a rodeo to know what horseshit smells like!
@GeoffreySetiawan2 жыл бұрын
Horseshit? I don't know man - my actual earnings report does not seem to horseshit to me :) In fact, we've actually grown to much bigger than $80K a month! Why? Because we're actually AWESOME at what we do :) www.loom.com/share/30e11081a8f1415d837848112c0afaf7