If a woman is being over the top disrespectful, she’s just going to be that way no matter how cool you do or don’t react. Don’t let them try to swindle you into thinking it’s because how you act or react. Just leave her and save yourself the years.
@davidstaychillen2274 Жыл бұрын
I have a disrespectful / mean girlfriend but we have a 1 and a half year old son that means the world to me … I don’t know what to do it’s a constant battle with her it’s like she resents everything I do and I just like to keep the peace but she says I ignore her and I never listen to her and she gets aggressive at times in front of the baby like breaking things , slamming doors , and hurting herself to prove a point and her manipulative behavior is just wrong it’s a non stop cycle
@ReyAllDayDotCom Жыл бұрын
@@davidstaychillen2274 if she wasn’t like this before the baby. She may have postpartum depression. It can last for years unaddressed. Recommend therapy. If she doesn’t want to, then you have a choice you must make. If she was disrespectful before the baby then you shot yourself in the foot but it’s not the end of the world. Just remember, if you aren’t okay, you can’t do shit for your kid. And you don’t want your child learning and experiencing these traumas. It’s unacceptable. Good news is, there is a healthy way out.
@BiblicalFlatEarth Жыл бұрын
TRUE OP.
@zeeonthemap37611 ай бұрын
Yes
@jblabs86514 ай бұрын
Postpartum depression it just childish behavior spoilnes of a woman. Dont fall for that. She have depression dont deal with it
@RIDDYxMUSICH Жыл бұрын
If she grew up watching her mother disrespect and devalue the father in the household then it will be embedded in her psyche/nature to do the same to any men she comes across the rest of her life and adult life.
@ShaunZachary Жыл бұрын
Very true!
@RIDDYxMUSICH Жыл бұрын
@@ShaunZachary New subscriber. Great content and knowledge homeboy. Keep doin what you do.
@ShaunZachary Жыл бұрын
Appreciate ya man- thanks for watching 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@thecowboy9698 Жыл бұрын
"Only a complete idiot would argue with a woman and appeal to her logic." - Erich Maria Remarque.
@Movieclips_1012 жыл бұрын
Speaking facts 💯 you gotta be willing to check her on her disrespectful behavior and you gotta be willing to walk away from these chicks at anytime 💯
@larryrubin51502 жыл бұрын
It doesn't matter or make any difference how much we like a women. It's how much a woman likes a man. Can love a woman it's no relationship if she has no attraction
@barneyrubble8839 Жыл бұрын
Shut up 🤣 if they are treating you like shit then you walk away and go and f*ck a new woman, you are the prize not them
@patrickjensen56025 ай бұрын
This is the absolute truth !
@captain01049 ай бұрын
I just broke up with my ex as I've had enough. She has disrespected me by calling me names and accused me once of something I didn't do(being on a dating app). She had trauma from her previous exes and although I kept on reassuring her that I'm not like her ex by making her feel loved and safe. I tried to make things better for us but no matter what I do for her I always end up getting disrespected and I feel like I'm the one paying for all the shit that her previous exes have done to her.😢
@sementhrower91618 ай бұрын
Just focus on your self
@timidjawa63243 ай бұрын
I feel for you, man. I broke up with a girl who were cheating on me, but some time later she started messaging me, suggesting that we should try again. As soon as I asked her whether she is sorry for lying to me or not, she said that she doesn't understand why am I making such a big deal out of that, instead I should start "acting like a man and agree with her invitation to have a serious talk in person." I was shocked, to say the least. Naturally, I refused her wicked advances toward me and called her disrespect out, after which she straight out started calling me names and pointing to my weaknesses which I had made a mistake to open up about them, when we were in the honeymoon phase. Some girls are monsters under a beautiful disguise.
@hassanhohay103Ай бұрын
Any tolerance toward a woman is your path to her DISRESPECT.
@halohair1118Ай бұрын
Same thing and we broke up same time 7 months ago. Walk away. Mine tried to come back. I miss her sometimes but better to move on. She will change at first but revert back to her old ways with time
@peymansalehi49352 жыл бұрын
My man deserves a MEDAL
@sauliusagintas2 жыл бұрын
If i only knew this info 18 years ago! I did not had a frame and my wife was so disrespectful for the last 2 years. Last mont i just walked away. Now divorce to follow. Thank you.
@ShaunZachary2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻 ✊🏼
@larryrubin51502 жыл бұрын
Women try to provoke. Your correct. Lot of psycho chicks I've dated
@etmerde2 жыл бұрын
I was married for over 20 years and at 42 she suddenly unexpectedly passed away. I’m 45 now and finding myself back in the dating scene. Last time I was dating it was pagers and pay phones lol. What I knew with the wife was to make it work, when I got back in to dating that first one was a disaster. I did all the wrong stuff. I miss my wife but to succeed and be happy for this next part I need to continually adjust and get better in every facet. Thanks for the content.
@ShaunZachary2 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss bro. But yea dealing with these women now a days, the dating game has completely changed from those golden days.
@camels9654 Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear it bro, I'm in a similar situation. I think these types of channels get generalized as for players or guys looking to womanize, but that's not most guys intentions here. We're here to do better with women because they are brutal.
@gregorylatta8159 Жыл бұрын
Wow I am dealing with exactly the same thing!
@Acez-lf4qk Жыл бұрын
Watch corey wayne instead
@juliend94953 ай бұрын
You're gonna get crushed by those women my dude. You have to toughen up.
@nickislearningАй бұрын
I’ve developed a zero tolerance for disrespect. I’ve been in some of the most stressful relationships you can imagine. Now that I’ve done the healing work, I value my peace way too much to accept disrespect.
@travisthomas17102 жыл бұрын
Bro you helped so much with going through a divorce! 💪🏾 keep doing the good work!!!!
@ShaunZachary2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻 ✊🏼
@larryrubin51502 жыл бұрын
Desire is more intense an emotion than getting something. Oh yes women's emotions change every 5 minutes
@colematthews75353 күн бұрын
Pathetic that grown adults need to have their behavior corrected.
@TYE2020 Жыл бұрын
Pay attention to the red flags actions are important than words
@jamesvillarreal6336 Жыл бұрын
“I Am The Prize!” 👍🏼
@Jack-lf4op2 жыл бұрын
Had to learn that on my own recently. Great to have Teacher like Shaun. WIsh I knew all of that earlier, but every relation is a lesson.
@ShaunZachary2 жыл бұрын
We all have to go through it to some extent bro.
@o7511062 жыл бұрын
3:18 “handing out commitments, like hot cakes! “ 😂😂😂😂
@DavidKing-pq6br2 жыл бұрын
Loved that bit too😂
@o7511062 жыл бұрын
@@DavidKing-pq6br 😂
@awaisabbas21382 жыл бұрын
Every part in this video is absolute truth and solid advice. Have done all these things, letting emotions get to me when treated wrong by her, only giving her more power and making her feel more valuable about herself and eventually walking out of the home with child.
@otismoody6553 Жыл бұрын
A not nice person is a not nice person. Dont let they cuteness fool you been there twice. Waiting for the femine woman to come out it never does. Just watch how aggressive they are listen how they talk to people.
@zareuz2 жыл бұрын
I wish I would’ve found your channel a long time ago
@ShaunZachary2 жыл бұрын
Better late than never my guy! Thanks for watching 🙏🏻
@peterrose88862 жыл бұрын
This is so true I was the nice people pleasing and sacrificed so much and I was in that scarecedy mindset and she left me and I beat myself up at the beginning then I worked on myself had a purpose and went out my buisness and gave her silence and man it really changed the landscape now I don't allow to be disrespected anymore and I let her know with a few words without getting emotional that I won't put up with nonsense and gave her silence they get the message trust me
@rztejas206511 ай бұрын
That MEXIICAN girl checked you dawg! LOL.
@larryrubin51502 жыл бұрын
Quite class in session the professor is teaching valuable wisdom. 💯
@PepperstoneGB21 күн бұрын
*Pile of gaslighting. If there is genuine attraction, frane maintenance etc would never be needed.*
@jessebradford71302 жыл бұрын
The funny part about me is I've NEVER thought about how much money I had. How much I'd spend on her. I always let it be natural and spent on her when I wanted to. The expectation was you wanna be with me for me. If it wasn't like that then obviously I put her in her place or leave. I'd even throw it on her and say what you do for me?
@fightingforlight2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your positive asskicking talks, Shaun ! You´re a Top Motivator and you talk the Real Talk ! Absolute Great Content on this Channel - love it ! 👍👍👍
@ShaunZachary2 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro I appreciate the kind words 🤜🏼🤛🏼
@Angus__oneill Жыл бұрын
This guy deserves a fuckin medal spot on !
@nabalegwameddy10022 жыл бұрын
Personally, this is a wake up So powerful
@joeyandlucas20132 жыл бұрын
Dead on!! Thank you Sir
@A218422 жыл бұрын
I completely had a different perspectives of maintaining frame but this video said it all. Thanx Shawn 💯💯💯
@MarkiusGlover-p8v Жыл бұрын
Quality advise; keep it coming Bro!
@BoxingTrainingJourney2 ай бұрын
bois, I have 14 of these videos in my playlist, I'll be a new breed at the end of it all🥳
@forextraineronlinesanmitho99502 ай бұрын
The first thing is to be invaluable or at least be going somewhere. If you’re not highER value than her and more importantly be confident at whatever level you’re at.
@AlejandroJimenez-uy6mf2 жыл бұрын
This one hit home 🏡
@CharlotteAmelia-i7x6 ай бұрын
I got emotional and overreacted and went outta frame with my disrespectful girl, now I want to ignore her but I feel the impact of doing the ignoring thing won’t be felt since i already lost my emotional balance and yelled at her so what do I do? Do I play dumb keep calling her just for me to correct the situation where I fucked up ??
@bengalselite9588Ай бұрын
No leave it alone send a message and be done nothing too long though short notice to the point.
@davewhite9362 жыл бұрын
Thanks man dealing it for on and off 13 years relationship
@LilApostleX2 жыл бұрын
Great video believe me bro i have been preaching this to my boys and getting them out of the friends zone lol they are getting it now 😂
@EugeMeijster-nf7flАй бұрын
I would like to point out there is a huge difference between a woman that fears God and those who don't. They need to be held accountable otherwise it's just a free for all.
@Danimal77 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the wise words Shaun.
@realist8888 Жыл бұрын
This is something they don't want to go through! trials to see if they fit to be your woman.. They do this to men all the time. And the disrespect that women do to their men( screaming.. arguing, lying).. either two things: walk away or ignore her until she apologized. Good video G.👌
@reggieexum55212 жыл бұрын
“…handing out commitments like ‘hotcakes’” 😯🤣🤣
@Shiva-mh6td5 ай бұрын
Man my Girlfriend starts to use me as a doormat, I‘m a non confrontational kind Guy and can control my emotions really well. People somehow mistake that for weakness sometimes tho and no idea how to correct it. My Girlfriend is on her period and the last days the disrespect got to a level i dont tolerate, in the moment i control myself and basically ignore it, maybe be a little more distant. I‘m not into arguing tho so no idea if i should confront her about it and just tell her or ignore her the next couple days. I think imma ignore her for a while hope it helps and if it doesnt i need to breakup. It pisses me off tho that people assume I‘m somebody to talk to that way just because i‘m a kind Guy. I‘m pretty Masculine got myself trough alot of shit and built a life for myself, aint noone talking to me that way. In the Moment its hard for me to eypress myself tho since ive learned to tolerate bullshit like that in my childhood for a long long time
@ГеоргиИванов-т1щ Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad there are a good number of real red pillers on the internet
@TM-nk2du2 жыл бұрын
its really crazy how many 'mans realtionship Advice/Red Pill ' channels are blowing up. This just shows how fucked our society is. Guys just stop validating these girls, quit social media, work FOR yourself, not ON yourself.
@larryrubin51502 жыл бұрын
Dig it yes yes💯
@stevenkrupka3670 Жыл бұрын
So true man, say..."hi ...bye... " get off the phone, quit the texting bs. Hard to take this but stop f/booking them. stop social media altogether! Tech. is great however, we did it to ourselves.
@aldogg19872 жыл бұрын
Bro, it’s only a matter of time before you’re interviewed and featured on Fresh and Fit. I want to see you tell your story on there and interact with the ladies on their night talk! As well as on Roommates with Hafeez & Co. That would be lit 🔥
@ShaunZachary2 жыл бұрын
It’s a goal of mine to get on freshandfit. It’s only a matter of time. I fuck w Myron heavy
@aldogg19872 жыл бұрын
@@ShaunZachary inshallah
@aldogg19872 жыл бұрын
@@ShaunZachary All in due time mate!
@corywill78332 жыл бұрын
Commitments like hot cakes. Lol
@Yung_Wicklove Жыл бұрын
These are all facts. Too bad it took me 40 years to finally get it. Awesome video. 💯
@berrybestlifestyle91882 жыл бұрын
Shaun, you don’t think that being silent is a form of passive aggressive behavior and enforcing healthy boundaries and checking her when they are crossed is a better option?
@ShaunZachary2 жыл бұрын
I’m confused by the question bro. Email me if you still want this question answered if you can explain it differently
@ShaunZachary Жыл бұрын
@@nightshademasquerade4703 thanks for supporting my channel by your view, comment and engagement 🤜🏼🤛🏼
@zezegambles Жыл бұрын
im in the worst relationship ive ever been in right now. im 27, shes 21. Shes screams at me almost daily. Im at the point where if shes starts yelling now imma just throw hands. Fuck it. my mental health is basically destroyed.
@SlyC6 ай бұрын
Do it bro
@zezegambles6 ай бұрын
wow i dont even remember this comment, to update she continued screaming til about late January. Shes finally moving out soon thank god. Worst 2 years of my life.@@SlyC Im never dating again bro
@SlyC6 ай бұрын
@@zezegambles I understand how hard that can be broski. Glad your finally movin on from that toxic life and it gets better from here in out for ya
@shawnalexander11586 ай бұрын
Leave her She's not worth your future bro
@zezegambles6 ай бұрын
she moved out 2 days ago, only part that sucks is she took the kitten i helped raise which sucks. But yeah, new chapter just started bro. Hope you have a nice day@@shawnalexander1158
@TruthCrucified2 жыл бұрын
Sadly 6 years in and i'm finding out how difficult it is to change behaviour and the sad part is we live together. Almost convincing myself to just cut and run. 😂
@ShaunZachary2 жыл бұрын
Yep. It’s very difficult man
@lwill4075 Жыл бұрын
Leave bro.... I was living with my gf on a 10 month lease. I ghosted once lease ended, cut her off completely. She was disrespectful and mentally draining
@Kaizen6718 ай бұрын
How’s it going now…still together?
@TruthCrucified8 ай бұрын
@@Kaizen671 We broke up 6 months after my original comment and we live seperatly now... I've gone on a few dates since and met some beautiful smart young woman and one of them is showing promise, a fresh start.
@RK-cj4oc7 күн бұрын
@@TruthCrucifiedAny update?
@blackheartedjayy21032 жыл бұрын
Wat if y’all got kids together and y’all broke up but she still disrespectful and acting crazy
@thevision79472 жыл бұрын
Your killing it brother 👊
@djRichyRichh5 ай бұрын
100% right.
@karmahleone1196 Жыл бұрын
Dammm you don’t playyyyyyyyyy😂😂😂😂😂😂😂✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾😂😂😂😂😂
@adddddams2 жыл бұрын
Fire, brother 🔥 TY!
@bbqchips302 жыл бұрын
Thank you 💯 I’m learning from you big bro
@maxfob3899 Жыл бұрын
Great point!!! 👍🏽
@joseaparicio3027 Жыл бұрын
Another great video .
@o7511062 жыл бұрын
14:25 all the way to the end fellas (Gold)
@tonyblair91652 жыл бұрын
Hey Shaun thanks for this video. Well, about three days back, my girlfriend broke up with me and she said she doesn't have hope for the relationship any more. I've been so down in those days but as I've been watching ur videos I started gaining some more things in my mind that I didn't know. Now recently few hours back she has been calling me. But I've not been picking up. So my question is, should I pick up her calls or keep the silence?
@ShaunZachary2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t. She’s playing games
@retro7461 Жыл бұрын
Great Advice
@petecoventry6858 Жыл бұрын
I got asked - and then 3 weeks later was asked why i never left her alone when she left 3 months before.. f'd up
@sulaimansidiq56772 ай бұрын
If she disrespect you tell something tell her the same dont stay quite cuz ur cool show her what ur dont just let her go like that
@Charleswhite22 жыл бұрын
Maaaaaan🤦🏾♂️👍🏾💯
@johnmartinez7758 Жыл бұрын
I’m bout ready to whoop that trick fucking tried talking tried arguing tried silent treatment tried about everything at this point only thing I haven’t tried was sign language
@sloebone7399 Жыл бұрын
I think you mean how to handle a disrespectful “EX” girlfriend.
@PDBristol2 жыл бұрын
Dude; you are something else…
@williamwoody7511 Жыл бұрын
Yup I gave her all I had too easy..
@cocis911 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video! Just a tip to help you grow your channel - please improve your audio. You are using an auto input level - resulting in the hum increasing when there is a gap in your talking. You need to fix the input level on your audio recorder. Also I super recommend Davinci Resolve for video editing because it includes an incredible ai voice isolation function on the edit screen. But the main thing for you to do is just set a fixed audio input level when recording your voice. Best of luck.
@305jakec6 ай бұрын
What happens when they completely switch it up on you after year 4 or 5 ….-and ir already knee deep .
@larryrubin51502 жыл бұрын
Yep. 3:18. Lol. I’m waiting for an impersonation of a sissy boyfriend. Hilarious 😂
@d-redbeatz39487 ай бұрын
Needed this
@larryrubin51502 жыл бұрын
I walked away for good
@etimspeed11 ай бұрын
Many guys needing help with this type of female behaviour is in marriage situations with kids and invested. In this situation, it's not so easy to just walk away from family you've been building, maybe that's why they act crazier in marriage.
@MrSemro123452 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, what? Handle a disrespectful girlfriend. The first instance she disrespects you, it's donzo. She's out the door, goodbye, good luck with your search! Guys, please do not take disrespect from a female because she will keep disrespecting you and use you. The way to test her is ask her politely to make you a cup of coffee, if she refuses, pack her bags and kick her out.
@discorabbit9 ай бұрын
Do u care about how much alimony & child support she’s gonna collect?
@mattc8852 Жыл бұрын
What happens when you lose frame boss and you do the back and forth with her ?
@ShaunZachary Жыл бұрын
She’s loses attraction
@CharlotteAmelia-i7x6 ай бұрын
My question is how do you FIX this??? in a situation where by she can’t walk away she knows no man would put up with her crazy ass she wants you as a husband but all you wanna just do is to use her to learn CONTROL to be in frame always but you already fucked up losing frame once so how do you go from there??
@HouseBladeDesign9 ай бұрын
Great video
@obswyatt36182 жыл бұрын
Idk about that year thing
@carltonsmith35652 жыл бұрын
Bro me and my women went through a break up and currently I'm still stay there with here going on two and I be dam ahe is so despectful bro she talk to a due when I'm at house and her ass even go out while I'm even at the house I feel like I'm stuck
@jayraw11202 жыл бұрын
Walk away bro. Your life will get so much better. Be a man not a simp 👍😎
@carltonsmith35652 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro I'm been trying but sometimes it hard
@servorb100 Жыл бұрын
You are still there, that's why you are suffering. The more you see her talking to some other guy, the more you are sulking. I know it is difficult to endure such disrespect, but you need to question what she has been giving you all these months and years. You expected love, equal give and take and her company and look what she is returning you,anxiety, stress, frustration, sleepless nights, restlessness. Has she hypnotise you, if not, just leave her. Don't become frog of the well. Kick at her back, once for all. Yeah difficult, but that's what she deserves. Perform or perish.🎉 God bless you bro.
@austinmiller37852 жыл бұрын
Gems 💎
@RJN85802 жыл бұрын
Kudos my friend!! I appreciate your vlogs
@Yung_Wicklove Жыл бұрын
I subscribed and this is my first time watching you. 💯 you should be a preacher. I’ll go to your church 😂
@ShaunZachary Жыл бұрын
🤜🏼🤛🏼 welcome bro
@marquisnishawn6598 Жыл бұрын
Yeah quit being soft and just dump the bih.
@larryrubin51502 жыл бұрын
Is there really a unicorn?
@tyancedric10 ай бұрын
WORD!
@sinnombre5466 Жыл бұрын
Straight facts
@EdwardSnowdenJulianAssange10 ай бұрын
Perfect ❤
@jeromestanford19922 жыл бұрын
Life 101
@kevinbushey18796 ай бұрын
My girlfriend is a real mean woman and always crazy but she been with me for 10 years and she's always saying she wants to leave so I tell her go get the he'll out but she never leaves, but I put up with it because I'm in my 60 and don't want to start a new relationship because I could care less if I'm with a woman ever again and she knows it but I treat her very nice and polite that's why she never leaves because she knows she the problem.
@jackblack75732 ай бұрын
It sounds like you watched coach cory wayne
@karmahleone1196 Жыл бұрын
I know a few mofos who needs to see your video…
@ShaunZachary Жыл бұрын
🤜🏼🤛🏼
@MattCool007 Жыл бұрын
Fuck this life. Atleast when it comes to finding love again.
@davidstaychillen2274 Жыл бұрын
What if you already have a kid with her ..
@larryrubin51502 жыл бұрын
It really takes a year? Even when both are totally bonded
@ModernArcher2622 жыл бұрын
Yes. Bonding is not the goal - seeing who she is over that period of time is.
@ShaunZachary2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@larryrubin51502 жыл бұрын
@@ModernArcher262 thanks
@larryrubin51502 жыл бұрын
@@ShaunZachary ok thanks.
@ModernArcher2622 жыл бұрын
@@larryrubin5150 You bet, man.
@jdmartin29842 ай бұрын
Please give me strength to leave my girlfiend, im not good at leaving people. Most of the time i feel like it will be easier to just off myself
@malejoseph65092 жыл бұрын
Dude l enjoy ur teachings though l hv this challenge. I girl am dating ghosted me for 2 weeks and l pulled bad but she's back claiming that l hv changed. Brothers wat should l do coz l love this bby
@ShaunZachary2 жыл бұрын
She’s recreational use only until she proves otherwise. I would put in zero effort with her, invite her over.