“HOW TO HANDLE PHYSICAL URGES WHILE SINGLE?”

Been single all my life, but not without physical urges! Here's how I fly.
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[@reshmafaithe]

tbh yesterday i asked God the exact question -> like God i feel like i need someone to love me, comfort me, hug me physically & I felt really bad about it & I prayed to take this thought out of me........... boom today this vdo appeared to me!!!!! 😂😇.... Thank u yesapa....

[@VihanDamaris]

Wooohoo praise God!!

[@ChrististhereasonLecheKoza]

I am in my early twenties rn and I too get urges for physical comfort a lot of times (just recently as well). This question and answer was for me. Thank you so much for reminding that Jesus always is and will be there to satisfy my urges ❤.

[@lesliedevasagayam660]

hi Vihan im 62 years old and love your music and all the topics you share about, keep it up our child of God. lots of love from South Africa.

[@dhannasingh7067]

I want to say that being with someone does not garanty satisfaction. U can be with someone and still be the most lonely person. U can still long for that comforting hug. For you young ladies; Enjoy your singleness. Wait. Seek God. Let Him direct you to the right person. Enjoy being with your parents. Wait for that God fearing man who will love you the way u deserve. Because he loves God first, he will love u right.

[@annabey1819]

The ending song though 😍

[@BeLikeJesus.]

What?!?!? 😮 Awesome!!! 🥳🎶🎧🎵 Eagerly waiting for this!! 🤗

[@maeri-1816]

100% agreeee🤯

[@lumina_7]

Realising that I asked this Q! 🙈 hehe thanks for answering and yes you are an inspiration being obsessed with Jesus at such a tricky age!

[@VihanDamaris]

Hehe thank you! I loved answering it by God’s grace. Just yday someone asked this again and thot it should be a separate snippet that I can hopefully send to more when asked! See how God uses every little thing, even struggles, so we can walk through this together 💜🙌 God bless you to be the light of Jesus in this age!

[@lumina_7]

@@VihanDamaris Amen ❤

[@henrywhefner-wv7ou]

Bless you and thank you I am 53 and dealing with the need of a hug. I want to be Christ alone but others slip in there. It's tough sometimes but I am where I am supposed to be.❤😎🙏

[@ashishrobertsamuelahne2188]

@@VihanDamaris you are soooo lucky to have this relationship how do i get it? I was baptized🥲 yet i dont have this kind of relationship. Some times i remember verses i spell God's promises,but i felt that it's my conscience(🧠) i want to hear him like another person speaking to me like a second person. I'm so happy with knowing that this is true❤️

[@VihanDamaris]

@@ashishrobertsamuelahne2188 remembering verses was the first stage of God talking to me! As I kept following verses and doing what He said through them as clues, He started customizing verses for me - piecing together a couple of verses to tell me something. As I kept following, it started becoming clearer and more customized! Now also even His specific voice is full of verses, but sometimes particular to my situation - yet never contradicting the Bible. So you're going well!

[@brii4370]

Supreme hug it is, many times I tilt my head open my arms wide, the widest I could and hug. I don't recall doin this even when I was a kid to my parents. King of Kings, Jesus Christ - My saviour, redeemer, friend hugging me is the best thing I have ever experienced or will experience. I just can't stop speaking about Him. ❤ Hallelujah You are My heart Jesus and My Abba ❤️

[@VihanDamaris]

❤️❤️❤️

[@linaa7274]

Thank you for this! AHHH IM SO EXCITED FOR THE SONG. ITS LAUNCHES 4 DAYS BEFORE MY BIRTHDAY

[@VihanDamaris]

Wooo so cool! ❤️❤️❤️ may you have a precious one with Jesus!

[@spchristabelbenita]

Waiting for the song release !! 😍🔥

[@VihanDamaris]

Woohoo! 🙌

[@yaginperciyal6733]

I agree with the Hug Part ❤. I do the same with God and I have felt the same feeling ❤❤❤... This video is just precise to what I have experienced

[@VihanDamaris]

Aww your dp too! So glad! 🤗🙌♥️

[@prashanthi469]

A) "I don't even remember I'm single." B) "I don't even remember I don't have somebody" 2 powerful statements that will get you committed too soon 😂😂 in Christian way 😅

[@agoodboy5435]

Ayy lets goo...another indian sister in Christ 🔥🔥....Loved your message ❤❤

[@ashishrobertsamuelahne2188]

Please continue those skits.. Miss that🥲

[@chasehudson1155]

Hello Please trll us about productivity and getting things done but in s christian perspective and how to stop being lazy thankuuu i hope you see this Also u are like the elder sister we dint know we needed..❤

[@girlofJesus-333]

Thank you for your honesty ❤❤❤

[@ariah5093]

You couldn’t have said it better, sister!

[@VihanDamaris]

Thanks for the question! Full video - kzbin.infoCn29dn5WSTY

[@lumina_7]

hehe yes it exactly meant the same! Because our desires or urges aren't just always about the extreme end of the spectrum. They can be ranging from as subtle as badly needing a hug or caress and beyond it.

[@samuelthampy]

So wonderful dear sis, God bless you🙌🙏🏻

[@DeepakrajAnson-bv9uv]

Bold dear sister vihan damaris may God bless you always..

[@VihanDamaris]

God bless you! Thank you, glory to God for His boldness!

[@Anaindy99]

Waiting for that amazing song to drop !

[@VihanDamaris]

😄😄💜💜

[@johnoketch3329]

It's all about learning to be content in Christ through our single hood 😅

[@yolandampayipheli9772]

You're now like a mentor to me😢❤

[@Jeslinmariageorge]

I love him(Jesus) soo much

[@hannahgracejaison5442]

May God keep you this way! Praise God for what He does through you!

[@priscilla_catherine]

1:04 yesss!!!!! He is Jesus❤❤ songs of Solomon: 8: 3 I imagine this verse as, jesus embraces mee😁😁🥰.... teenage temptations are nothing , if we keep Jesus near... ecclesiastes 12:1 Remember your creator in the days of your youth🎉❤✝️ counting days for 18th june🌟

[@ariah5093]

Sister yes!!! Praise God! SO TRUEEE! JESUS IS REAL SO CUTE AMAEN

[@Jeslinmariageorge]

Jesus is amazingggggggggggggg

[@jibymathai1031]

Love you lots dear sis❤... God bless you 😇

[@EstherSymss]

Ooo😍 waiting for the soooonng!

[@VihanDamaris]

Heheh 😄❤️🙌

[@charleslee5707]

Yes Amen Hallelujah praise the dear lord Jesus christ ❤🎉💓🥰🤗🛐✝🕊🙏🙏🙏 i am never a single because my God my dear savior is with me always Amen ❤🎉🛐✝🕊🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@fousteena2657]

Is that you sang that song in the end of the video? Awesome! I really loved it. Thanks for the video. Even I'm having the same struggle in my 20's but God spoke with me through you vihan! Thanks a lot❤

[@jessepacheco7471]

Amen Vihan Amen, God bless you, so strong with Jesus,sing it Vihan, proclaim it, we have a relationship with Jesus and it's wonderful, God bless you my friend, Sold out for Jesus

[@sharonb.maxwel]

So true sister ❤

[@AMEN777.]

May God bless you sister Vihan Damaris

[@missisfj777]

Oh, Vihan. I feel you

[@VihanDamaris]

🙌

[@sahithinakka8585]

Praise the lord 🙏 sis ❤️😊

[@VihanDamaris]

🙌 praise the Lord!

[@miraclindafne2004]

I always thank God for you!❤

[@VihanDamaris]

Aw how precious! God bless!

[@ck_christmysavior9816]

Psalm 19:14 : "May my words and my thoughts be acceptable to you, O Lord, my refuge and my redeemer. "

[@pintseuniceeunice6825]

Vihan I'm in my 25 I'm really struggling to live I'm not happy at all, the joy is lost and I feel nothing is working out, anything for tht matter my job everything seems to look very sorrowful.

[@-HolySpiritDove-]

‘Have hope -never give up’ -Lord Jesus🌳🌅🌈⛅👼🙌✨💫

[@girlofJesus-333]

We continue to hold on to our loving God ❤❤❤

[@LeslieFlemons]

I’ve been single all my life too and also had sexual desires! That’s so crazy! But I’m staying strong and not letting the Devil tempt. EDIT: and I’m also almost 30!

[@VihanDamaris]

Get it girl! Nothing like being ‘dead to sin, alive to God’! 🙌❤️‍🔥

[@Grace-qe2lb]

This is awesome, Glory be to God!❤

[@Abigail-888]

Thank you for the video Akka It's amazing!🥰

[@QuesaDia05]

This is awesome!

[@namrathahanjel7058]

Vihan. I have a request to your mom… if possible please ask her how she led her prayer life with you children and household chores at her youth…. Im finding it too hard to spare time for prayer….

[@-HolySpiritDove-]

Jesus did early morning prayer before start of day (more energy at start). Can also do Prayer in the midst of tasks✨💫

[@lydiajasmine6005]

Praise God

[@priyasowz8105]

Much needed...

[@KristofinaHailonga]

You are a blessing especially to us the youth,thank you Vihana may the Lord continue to be with you 🙏

[@princesszari9404]

I also have these urges in 33 age (single) vihan pray for me please dear i want to keep loyal with God but some time my physical urges teases me and i dis obey to God 😢

[@-HolySpiritDove-]

Don't give up. Keep trying -will eventually overcome 🎆

[@mr.t382]

🙏❤️🙏

[@Peacemaker_Alena]

JUNE 18, 2023!! 😭😭😢😭

[@ivettnagy000]

what is gonna be on that day?

[@Peacemaker_Alena]

@@ivettnagy000 Vihans new song is coming out!!(the song you heard at the end of the video)😁

[@ivettnagy000]

@@Peacemaker_Alena oh, ok, thank you. Seems nice. :)

[@Peacemaker_Alena]

@@ivettnagy000 Your Welcome (">")

[@VihanDamaris]

Can’t wait! 😄🙌♥️

[@BeLikeJesus.]

Jesus hugs 🤗 are the best

[@justinekj7220]

❤

[@pallecarey1671]

Awesome 🙌

[@Titan_Design]

Wow 😲

[@kingpradeep8884]

Thank you

[@kingpradeep8884]

Thank you vihan

[@DineshTaco]

Which song is that in the end? I love it

[@VihanDamaris]

My upcoming song 😄 so glad!

[@DineshTaco]

@@VihanDamaris When is it coming out?

[@ChrististhereasonLecheKoza]

​@@DineshTacoJune 18th!

[@TaniyaThomas8888]

❤️❤️

[@alkagupta3974]

Hey vihan(Help me) This is Alka Gupta from Mumbai Santacruz Firstly I am from a hindu family But my mom came first into christ ( when I was in my fifth standard school)not taken baptism still because of my father From my childhood I was having same sex feelings also to the opposite gender but very much less So slowly slowly my same sex feelings were growing and I was living like a tomboy from inward not from appearance So when I was in 5th STD. my mom came to know about Jesus then slowly her faith on Jesus became stronger and stronger In midst of this when I didn't know the word of God I was a lesbian I was in Jesus but not knowing the word I have fallen into relationships not sexually but like girlfriend So when I grew up one day 1 question came into my mind that what bible talks about this lesbian relationship Then I read may be deutoronomy then I came to know that this is wrong in the eyes of God Then I tried to cut off this thing in my life and I succeeded in this sin. But now I am in my SY (14) College I am suffering the same sex feelings towards a teacher (female) I am very distracted please help me. I know this is a sin please help me to overcome this

[@Jesuslovesyou_365]

Dear JESUS, please set this person free, AMEN.

[@alkagupta3974]

@@Jesuslovesyou_365 🙏🙏Amen

[@UjjeevanAbraham7]

I know what you r talking but wait u said he was REAL to you.

[@DaleyBwoi]

Your capping tho I'm sure you have people who are interested. Also having Jesus while he is enough and sufficient, He also says in his word that its is not good for a man to be alone, along with be fruitful and multiply, a man that finds a wife finds a good thing, He relates the church to His bride and His word speaks to people to say to be married if you desire too. All that said that's for the majority, if you as an individual find that you may be one who is called to singleness there is also consessions in His word for that and it may even be seen as admirable, however all that said for the vast majority of people who wish to be married and are made to be married and reproduce / share intimacy etc they need to understand that Jesus is enough on a contentment lvl but to also have the ambition and practical steps towards seeking out what they desire. Too often people are wrestling with pride and or vanity. Too often people are waiting on God when they need to be working. Some are dealing with trauma from past relationships, and on and on... 😂 sorry for the rant just wanted to get my 2 cents in. I see alot of people complaining, but they are also passing up every opportunity and then saying they can't find someone.

[@VihanDamaris]

Now why would I lie? It would be far easier to say I can’t wait and be accepted by everyone else. I’m being very honest at the risk of sounding very weird, because it’s the truth :) yes, singleness is given to some, and I’m overjoyed with Jesus! One needs to be more open-minded that such satisfaction exists, as Jesus Himself lived and Paul, and Paul even advocates singleness. Point is, this contentment in Jesus is very real, & open to you to see for yourself! Because all are called to live in all fullness in Him! Shall joy/fullness stop the day marriage ends? I think not. So why not from the beginning? God bless!

[@DaleyBwoi]

@@VihanDamaris So we all believe Jesus is enough in a sense of speaking, but the word of God tells us to seek frist the kingdom of God and all other things will be added to us. This implies that there's things we desire that are not totally separate from God, but are in a sense apart from God or his kingdom. I get what you mean. I just think that your relationship with God was not expected to act as a replacement for other relationships. Mostly of us can have both. We need only to make sure that no relationship becomes an idol and takes his place. All that said those are completely separate relationships although the relationships can affect each other. Also I wasn't saying your lying. I'm just making the assumption with some confidence, although I could be wrong that you along with others probably have people who are interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with you or them and are maybe just being picky, etc. This also includes myself and just about everybody I know who are "waiting on God". I also believe in this freewill thingy plays a major roll in areas where people use God's name in vain. By that I mean the claim things in his name that's not really from him. It's very complex stuff, like the im waiting on gods timing or that God has someone in store for me. I think too often this is an excuse to negate responsibility for choices and the outcomes of those choices. I hope this makes sense 🙏🏽. Also some of this is not a reply to anything you said, it's more of a reply to issues around the topic that I hope will be helpful to at least someone 😅