HOW TO HEAL FROM A DYSFUNCTIONAL BACKGROUND 2

[@gloryawhaire7154]

I wish someone told me all these long before now. Mistakes I made in my teenage age, I did because of the dysfunctional home I came from. So many things I accepted, I did because of the dysfunctional background I came from. But I am honestly happy and grateful it is coming now.. I thank God for the transformation he is doing in my life, my heart and my mind. I will marry right and my partner and I will be good Godly parents, in Jesus name 🙏🏾 Amen

[@godgrace561]

I also made mistakes in my teenage age due to the same problem, I wish I heard this teaching during that time but I thank God that it will help me to be a better parent

[@olabisidurojaiye]

Amen

[@olabisidurojaiye]

Thank you sir. This are the things we have denied for a long time. This is practicality and reality .

[@ogechukwundukwu8028]

Amen.

[@SpaceMattersRealty]

Amen!

[@BrendaAtuherize-e1s]

I was cutt off from my entire family back in 2000, I had just turned 4years. I was raised by my father's cousin,this woman raised me with a hand of iron. I didn't have a childhood, because my guardian forced me to be all grown up by the age of 5years . Till I turned 20years, the only time I felt loved and accepted was when I met Jesus Christ, with a changed heart I left my country Uganda to Qatar so as to find myself and purpose. I believe oneday I will find my way back home. Every child needs a parent,so never be absent in your child's life. Love y'all ❤

[@sarafinaok]

God bless you and be with you always

[@feliciadickson8072]

Sending you love and virtual hugs 🫂

[@BlessedofGodBT]

❤❤❤, lots of Love, thanks for the testimony

[@Namuggah]

I am so sorry that the adults around you failed to protect you. You are so loved and it does get better

[@BrendaAtuherize-e1s]

@@Namuggah Bless you

[@delmwadeshi900]

Sir, I've only recently found you, but in the few months that I've watched you, you've brought clarity to long suffered situations, and all I can say is you are undoing decades of the work of the enemy. The Lord only can bless you for us.

[@clotildefaye5910]

Whenever this man speaks he soothes something in my soul. Yet, at the same time, because of the content of his messages, he is pointing out my hidden hurts. God bless him 🙏🏽

[@PassysKitchen]

If you grew up in a complete home with parents who gave you the right guidance please be most grateful for that. Unfortunately some of us didn’t have that privilege but thank God for the gift of the Holy Spirit🙏. Thank you @Pastor Femi🙏.

[@sonitayufenyuy]

Ive never heard my life described to me like this..I have dady n mumy issues..no wonder pple are always taking advantage of my vulnerability, it ends today, Jesus has healed me 😫🙌🙌🙌

[@JournalwithPraise]

Literally getting the therapy I knew I’ve always needed from this channel 😊

[@Pearlrutherichard]

I get out from the definitions of others. I refuse to walk in the projections of the insecurities of others. It's the beginning of a new order for me. I will not be a grave yard of God's abilities and talents for me. I will not be subjected to the moulds of others nor will I massage their ego anymore. I shall become all that God wants me to be. I shall bless the world with all that God has placed in me. I break into new expressions. I'm no longer a slave to people's opinions and emotions. I am God's child. I manifest after my divine ordination.I am no longer held back. I have the spirit of boldness and audacity. I will not be small. I impact the world. I am relevant and useful.I am free from today henceforth. Thank you Apostle Femi. Thank you Jesus.

[@michaelmadubuko5419]

Amen Amen Amen

[@savanna3985]

The emphasis should be on HEALTHY PRESENT parents. My father was a very abusive alcoholic who damaged us beyond explanation and I wish he wasn't present. Because of him I transferred my issues to my husband and its now that I am getting therapy

[@GraceChimera-tn6jl]

Oh wow😭😭 It's like you're talking about me I didn't go home for holiday last semester becoz of the same reason I admire my friends who cant wait to go home for holiday😭 I stayed on campus for the whole holiday alone and people kept asking me why I can't go home I felt sorry for myself May God bless you apostle femi God is speaking to me through your teachings I know will have a Godly marriage and my children will not go through what I'm going through because of my husband and I

[@mercyforster5987]

My children will have healthy relationships in Jesus name amen

[@mheyrie]

Amen and me too

[@issy5988]

Amen!

[@Helenteee]

The father is the law giver the mother is the law interpreter.God bless you Apostle. Coming from a dysfunctional family can break you even as a girl child, you would have to be looking for love even from the people that would still take advantage because you are vulnerable. May we all be healed.

[@osakpolodanielighodaro1559]

Thank you sir for this message, it was on point, Dishing out realities some of us struggled with for years. I have always felt I was living in the shadow of myself for years. It feels like I always put up something that am not. Always trying to please others(sustaining the image people have about me). The only time I show my talents is if there is someone then to encourage me. Thank you soo much sir for this message. I almost deleted this chat but I told myself that I must break free. I break free.

[@swillztv4052]

Amen in Jesus name! I'm so rooting for you.

[@Adojipeniela]

You are brave for this and I thank you for showing us the real you,God bless you!😊

[@MagmayChannel]

I love you ❤

[@ribaker822]

🤗❤

[@tapestryoflove07]

Amen!

[@folashadeadeoye7421]

Sir , you have perspective into this matter, I have never heard anyone talk about it this way. This series is a confirmation of the things that God is speaking to my heart and the podcast he told me to start . Thank you , thank you sir

[@JournalwithPraise]

Finally started a KZbin channel this year and seeing this message at the point where I was going to quit is really special to me. Thank God I saw this message 😊❤❤

[@tildahmagoba7761]

Absolutely loving this series. It's refreshing to see the church address dysfunctions in the family

[@weliketravelsweliketravels7543]

Pastor you are what I asked God for . I’m a single mom and when I had my child in 2023, I asked God to help me raise him well , and then your messages comes up on instagram. Your words are therapeutic. Thank you.

[@ruthchanda6444]

Grew up in a system where we were told marriage is problematic. Dont submit to a man he will take advantage of you. Get all possible achievements to intimidate your husband and so forth. I am so thankful to the Holy Spirit that it is now before my marriage that i am now unlearning all the things my dysfunctional environmental taught me. Holy Spirit help me Lord i pray thee. Amen

[@BlessedofGodBT]

Very westernlike. I'm being raised the same way, thank God for delivering me in my youthful years.

[@ronnazya298]

My father abandoned us for another family, i always told myself that everything was good because we all turned out successfully, however, I have come to realize how that has affected me but I believe God is healing my heart, rewriting my story as I dedicate my life to him. I am free and will have a successful happy family . Thank you Man of God

[@freddyfosso8967]

THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST FULFILLING 2 HOURS I'VE HAD ON THE INTERNET FOR A WHILE... SO MUCH WISDOM AND STRONGHOLD DESTROYING WORDS IN THIS SERIES... I WAS FIRST BLESSED BY THE SERIES ON CHURCH HURT...NOW I CAME ACROSS THIS... THANK YOU MAN OF GOD FOR YIELDING TO THE HOLY SPIRIT TO HEAL OPEN WOUNDS IN OUR LIVES.... GOD BLESS YOU....

[@adewoyinadenike2415]

I don’t know what pastor Femi is trying to achieve in these series, my mind cannot process it all. But whatever it is may it be one of the best things he will achieve through Christ in his ministry. No lies, I lose and miss words to describe how this is blessing me.

[@isabellannaji1917]

This message is needed. I’ve been so Hurt and scarred so much that it feels I might never heal😢, I’m trusting God for healing

[@insidetoriashead8989]

You will heal...keep leaning on God and open your heart

[@joan.frankish8716]

There is nothing the Holy Spirit cannot heal

[@joyologe8587]

You being aware means the healing has started already.

[@Adojipeniela]

On this journey too,we will both break free!😊

[@sougerianqueen9903]

Heavenly Father help me to express myself and live out every gift and talent you have blessed me with 🙏🏽 I uproot every wrong foundation in my life 🙏🏽 Father Lord help me to a better parent and speak life into my children to inspire and motivate them to their full Godly potential 🙏🏽 Lord have your way with me and remove any fear from my mind that is holding me back 🙏🏽🙌🏽 I manifest the calling upon my life in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏🏽 I Break Free 🙏🏽 Walk gallantly 🙏🏽I Break Into New Expressions 🙏🏽 I live the life God has given to me 🙏🏽 I become bold and audacious 🙏🏽 Amen 🙏🏽

[@eugeniasosoo1694]

I break free🙏🏽, I'm not tied down, my future spouse and home will not be tied down in Jesus name 🙏🏽. My kids will grow in a healthy home with healthy present parents

[@princesskara5628]

I am so grateful I started watching Pastor Femi’s messages. I have had my fair share of mistakes as a young lady, but never an again because it ends with me. Moving forward with the help of the Holy Spirit, I will be better🙏🙏

[@imoakpadiaha9411]

I also came from a dysfunctional background… now I know where all my insecurities, fears, etc come from… I believe that I'm beginning to be transformed and free tho, though God bless you sir🙌🏾😭

[@temiloluwaadebisi7536]

I break free Thank you so much sir I came from a dysfunctional family so I understand and can relate. This message is for me. I am relieved ❤️ Thank you sir 😁🥳

[@marylinus3255]

Thank God I got to listen to this message, before I got married. God bless and increase u, Apostle Femi.

[@laymahkollie785]

I’m glad to have come in contact with this teaching. I’m finding my purpose, working towards my goals. I know someday I will have the right spouse and our home will glorify God🙏 patiently waiting on God’s time

[@yveunacks4742]

I break free, I break into new expressions, I am no longer a slave to people's opinions and emotions, I live the life God has given to me. Thank you Apostle, this was for me even down to the dancing part. It's a new day for me. Thank you Father.

[@AmandazipaulSunday]

I'm in tears while watching this !it as if he is talking to me ,he said everything that I'm suffering from in my life 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 but I'm no slave fear I am a child of God from today onward

[@rebeccaamonor4909]

Stepping out in faith virtually. “I break into new expressions. I am no longer a slave to people’s opinions or emotions. I will not try to manage people’s emotions.” Today is the day I finally break free!

[@sharon_Stralia]

Apostle...i know God is blessing you..... But this is special.... GOD WILL BLESSSSSS YOU. i am glad i watching these teaching while on summer break i have all the time.

[@babatundebukola4596]

This message is deep. thank you sir for allowing God to use you for us. so many of these things you said affects me, but I'm breaking out. I am consciously walking out of this abuse today. I BREAK FREE. I AM FREE.

[@arise6886]

Thanks God for your life

[@insidetoriashead8989]

You're free!

[@calebsyoutube1090]

i shed tears watching this. thank you sir. i'm free from the burdens of my family.

[@11Dreams]

So true. A person from a dysfunctional family or household must heal first because he/she has the tendency to perpetuate the same mistakes they encountered when growing up.

[@halftimepromiseswithneibert]

Such a blessed ministration! Thank you, sir!

[@chrisokoh7419]

Thank you sir for this enlightenment. I have learnt a lot. Now i pray for myself and my siblings that the negative patterns in my family won't get to us. We will be the best husbands and wife to our spouses, Amen. God bless you for us.

[@joyousyou24]

Thank you so much sir . This is an eye opener . Never knew I have trapped as a result of all of these dysfunctionality

[@boystarlightstn2670]

i step out of all that hold me back from expression and am no longer a slave to people's emotions, Amen.

[@flourishmaxwell4427]

Amen

[@priscillatravis]

The relief I feel in my heart😩🙌🏽🙌🏽is unexplainable. God bless you so much Sir

[@solademijoeloludamilolalive]

Glorayyyyyyyyyy🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩!!!! I'm freeeeee!!!!! Thank you so much, father❤... It was a session of deliverance for meee!

[@thelmachibemba6915]

I am always happy to be here. Thank you Lord for this message,it was not easy but your grace was abound.

[@ADeepBreathWithYahweh]

This topic of trauma and dysfunctionality VERY deep. Wow😢. But I thank for Jesus ! God bless you Apostle Femi!

[@QueenEsthersDiaries]

This series is a much-needed Therapy for me. Thank you so much sir!

[@kemeyfal]

I agree, therapeutic session

[@joshinfiniti2986]

What! Such quality of information. This is the voice of God.

[@dollarsqueen]

I'm actually in tears listening to this message, it tells a lot about me. Dear God heal me please 🥺🙏

[@Dvibejunkie]

God bless you sir for this message. May wisdom never be far from you ❤

[@emergents59]

Just listening to this But wish i heard earlier Coming from a divorced home at an early age had to survive by myself Till i met the holy spirit Thank God for his love 😊

[@precieoux]

i will heal and love and trust. i will have healthy relationships. God bless you apostle🙏🏻

[@Phoebenails143]

I am so grateful to God , for bringing this sermon my way, My dysfunctionality had a touch one on me , But God in his infinite mercy saw me through, Thank God for healing , I am still in the process of healing , amd I can see the manifestation of His goodness , thank God for bringing this message my way, God I will forever be grateful , And I will serve you till everlasting, 🙏🏻

[@Humanandwellness]

God bless you apostle You actually mentioned my case of breaking free from the opinions of others and expression of oneself May your oil never run dry 🙏🙌

[@talktimewithfifi]

Such a powerful message. Thank you very much sir.

[@ayobamiadebisi1445]

Oh my God!!! God bless you Apostle, I am freef from the grips of the opinion of men and living an expressive life of purpose

[@Sinachisays]

He said that when a mother is missing in the life of a child,the child becomes wayward because she has to develop some sort of strength at a certain age. Some mother's push their children to the wall sometimes by expecting so much from them . For instance because you have sent your child to primary and secondary school you start expecting that child to be paying bills at home ,you start billing the child unnecessarily. You never appreciate what the child brings to the table and that's not fair. Later on when you and this child don't have connection. You make it look like the child is stubborn,evil spirit is following the child

[@11Dreams]

I agree some moms and dads behave this way - they are dysfunctional. The purpose of this series is to help bring healing, break that cycle so we do not unknowingly repeat dysfunction with our own children/wards, and help manage the relationship with the parents with “wisdom”. Yes. We need to forgive & honour the parent no matter what they did - it helps with healing and opening doors.

[@mabeludoh4032]

Thank you for opening my eyes...will definitely train my children well

[@morenikeadejimi3553]

This is the best statement i heard in this message; The Holy Spirit can cover for any deficiency. Thank you Jesus for the Holy Spirit.

[@joyokungbowa7552]

Powerful message , thank you sir.

[@RomaricIKO]

Thank you so much apostle for this timely messages. God bless you sir. You are indeed a gift from God.🙏

[@williamssarah9389]

God bless you sir for this I've listened to part 1&2and my God its an eye opener to be better and do better I break free from the opinion of men amen

[@SpaceMattersRealty]

The comments are interesting an I'm learning from them as well. Thanks to all those who shared in the comments. May God heal us and our homes

[@mphotshwaedi2904]

Pointing out my hidden hurts and now that I'm trying to build my life from scratch at 30😢I'm a victim of carelessness and a dysfunctional family background.God have mercy on me and my children.

[@SholafunmiAregbesola]

We'll be fine. It will be well.

[@thelmaejiro5509]

Thank you so much sir We need more of this These are issues a lot of us are dealing with and it has really affected our relationships

[@solangevorhies3547]

Sir, thank you so much for talking about these issues it is needed. It will help many to heal, many to avoid mistakes, and many to come out and reinforce this truth. More grace sir

[@oroboadeopeoluwa3105]

Thank you for this powerful message Sir. May God continue to increase you in wisdom and knowledge.

[@judithchika2858]

This message is a true blessing. I break free from every dysfunctionality. God bless you Apostle

[@bukonlalawal7963]

4 things that are affected by dysfunctional backgrounds. 1. Relationships. I must find my expression. World judged by sight. Build healthy relationships begin with me and I must be mindful of people who enters my life When will I get out of the definition of me people have. Anyone who abuses me is not a friend of my destiny

[@vickyike7968]

Pastor Femi, I am gradually getting addicted to your messages. Chai…. Raw truth. No embellishment. PURE truth. God bless you sir.

[@Phoebenails143]

Pastor Femi Lazarus , God bless you sir , Ur days shall be long , God , I been crying listening to you sir , God bless you, Thank God for healing ,

[@omotolaniabolade5093]

Thank you JESUS I was at the verge of losing my mind and your video pop up on my instagram page😢... I was a lovely and sweet girl but how i have become so cold and withdrew despite been a sanguine😢😢. Dysfunctional Background has really dealt with me and is affecting everything(i know this isnt me) God please help and healme😢😢 1:32:00(i cant express and communicate well)😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@femi_lazarus]

We will love that you watch all the series to get complete insight and healing that you need. Our prayers are with you always

[@SpaceMattersRealty]

God loves you queen and wants you healed. No matter what happens, please be positive always and hold on to God. I am rooting for you.

[@marympesuka]

I will be bold and audacious🙌🏾🙏🏾thank you for this teaching man of God,may God richly bless you...I am free indeed

[@nimatayomide223]

I step into a new expression🙏🏾I break free from every pain or thinking or anything holding me back🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾

[@adedojachristianah751]

Very impactful. God bless you sir

[@nazfav2757]

There is need for the church to preach messages that resonates with diverse realities of church members.

[@margaretbrima5112]

Thanks you sir you preach with reality God bless you and your ministry amen

[@imoakpadiaha9411]

God bless you sir. This series is such a blessing to me🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@misanmeggison4156]

You spoke about me sir. My foundation has really affected my life.😢😢😢. Wish I knew all these before now

[@inatonekespiff]

Beautiful message! Sinks deep , I have no words Sir!

[@BlessedofGodBT]

Growing up in a dysfunctional family, from birth, it was dysfunctional. I was born out of wedlock and my Dad was not always around. He had a family too; a wife and children. Thus, he wasn't always there, although, i loved it when he can over to visit me. However, i wish he was with me everyday. My mother had to raise me on her own, with his aid but i grew up getting so little of a father figure. I wish i had the fatherly guidance at all times. Also, so many other things have framed my life that make me understand that it's the issue of dysfunctionality.😢😢😢. God help us

[@uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240]

I'm just getting to know this personality... The few clips I've watched on Instagram brought me over here to get more

[@blessingnjeri9823]

Me too 😁

[@Oludeewon]

Me too😊

[@izhabelbella5265]

Me too

[@jessicaacheampong7954]

Me too

[@abimbolaodubona4525]

Same here🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@olabisidurojaiye]

Yes sir. I just love how you disperse the truth. Fearless

[@adeolaadeniyi_Tv]

This message met me at this time, am about to give up... I pray for total healing

[@adenijitifeoluwa4079]

Thanks so much sir for been an incredible blessing;all glory to our great LORD GOD

[@kanyinsolaawe3976]

Thank you Apostle God bless you real good

[@IanMurangiri-i9y]

Hallelujah thank You for this word 😢

[@victorjoy2584]

Thank you Jesus for Apst Femi Lazarus. 😢😢😢

[@mercyforster5987]

Wao this is a balanced message. Thank you sir

[@flourishmaxwell4427]

Father lord thank you for the freedom of expression 🙏🙏

[@nmaumeh]

This is sooooo valuable and liberating. God bless you exceedingly abundantly! If you belong to this house, please don’t joke with your pastor 🙏🏻 Blessings

[@franchescaasamoah3046]

I WILL HEAL. I AM HEALING AND I UAVE HEALED IN JESUS CHRIST NAME AMEN 🙏 🙌

[@victorwinner491]

Thank you so much for this message sir🥺. It is a huge deliverance to many of us🙌 words cant describe how grateful I am sir🥺🔥

[@boluwatifeolowo8390]

God bless you Sir for this message.

[@unfazed4975]

"Embrace Christ and don't let anyone else define you" Hmm!! Thank you sir

[@FatimDiabagate-xe4uv]

I choose to forgive thanks you father.🙏🏾

[@ezechinedu5692]

I am blessed to come in contact with this message. I will marry right and my marriage must work

[@andrewyorke6399]

Such messages. We need it more...

[@deborahmanari4286]

Absolute truth, God bless you Sir

[@Olamide2324]

Just seeing dis after a year and it really help my life and I pray for healing

[@FeliciaEmegware]

The illustration made about a young girl dating and cooking but it's not appreciated is what i went through just this last year before i got a job that gave me accomodation. Jesus!!! Help me

[@abiolaalice9611]

Thank you sir for breaking the tables of generalised ideology