How to Hold a Dominant Masculine Frame

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In the full presentation, Brian Begin discusses how to fearlessly connect with women through the art of seduction. You will learn how to live courageously so that you can get the high impact results with women that you want.
In the full presentation, you will also learn:
-Why tension is essential for seductive success
-How to hold a dominant masculine frame when dealing with difficult women
-The two things you need to have amazing sex
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[@notaras1985]

is that ass real?

[@spammail06]

Ok, so if a woman starts hitting you you just step into her and don't break eye contact? I saw a homeless guy do that the other day to some woman he was asking for change. He was alpha af.

[@j.p.8137]

Nope Nope difference between being playful and self defence

[@blackjackool]

Nope Nope hol up everyone! This guy predicted the homeless homicide!

[@rivblack]

Lmao

[@sirbattlecat]

He's illustrating a point, not an action.

[@MrWhitemare]

Nope Nope 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤘

[@tony7951]

She looks like she has no idea wtf is going on

[@agnel47]

Makes her the ideal candidate

[@ZMorpheus]

She should run for presidential elections. Atleast her hair is real.

[@bdsbckjdskl]

Micheal Antonio Cordova lol ..Eye Candy She's 🤔 *Just Stand There And Look Pretty* ❤️

[@matthewwaddington2777]

Behold gentlemen, I now present you with the 'object' (A financially desperate cosmetics spokes-model). I will now demonstrate how to creep-out a lady, and you young gentlemen, do the same until you find one that puts out. Try this approach in a nightclub (you'll discover how quickly doormen can react).

[@HUNTENT247]

She doesn't.

[@Dee-ix2gk]

So basically Quiet and still being you and not being in your feelings 💯💯💯

[@RuXsel]

Stoic

[@thebusinesshour1733]

This was one of the best definitions of masculinity and feminine expression I've ever seen. Very well played.

[@PurpleSixBeats]

Her face is like "Damn is this true, does he knows about me more that i do..?"

[@jameswatsonatheistgamer]

I picked up on that microexpression. It was written all over face.

[@apollonian_lux2473]

That's what she wants.

[@paccawacca4069]

it really is true what they say, dont take advice from women about women, they really dont know, or wont tell, about their pyschology.

[@nestcuni]

I wrote a story about a man and a woman, both students, he was solid rock, and she was a furious storm. Here is the part that that tells about relationship and his solid mountain attitude you described. "Most of the time their days passed like heaven, but she would sometimes get mad at him with some uniquely female attitude. Her rage would flair up and she would turn and shout at him. Invariably, though, she would quickly lose her fire as he stared at her, undressing her with his gaze. His quiet, passive eyes told her that he was just letting her blow off steam. No matter how she complained, shouted, and carried on, she would not change anything. She gave in, smiled at her own stupidity and fell under his spell. Luxurious. Contentment. Hers were the only eyes he had ever seen that could be sad and content at the same time. A fierce woman, she could melt his heart and make him obey every childish command. But in front of him, she was a lamb. He would soften her, make her vulnerable. His look would pierce her heart, his voice would make her body tremble, his touch was her heaven."

[@nestcuni]

It's funny and interesting how I had forgotten commenting this, and I feel good you enjoyed it.

[@larashlomi8582]

@@nestcuni *Yess loll*

[@edithboozy1000]

Ok weirdo

[@mansoorahmed1676]

damn this was lit

[@EobardFerguson]

‘Flare’, not ‘flair’.

[@stevegwizzle3560]

While approaching girls can be a challenge and scary for many men, I believe in order to become a TRUE dominant alpha, you need to challenge yourself in other arenas of life. Not just in approaching women. Hell I'd say challenge yourself in arenas where women aren't even involved. A true alpha in my opinion is also a leader of men. Men who follow you and trust you as their leader or at least men who want to be YOU. A man who is unafraid to stand up to a fight (if necessary). A man who knows what he wants in life and literally goes for it.

[@milesmorales5271]

I agree. I’ve always said, you have to be able to attract men before you can attract women. If men don’t admire and respect you, women won’t either.

[@andersonmatos9976]

You are definitely right, Martial arts are a great way to develop this skill you are talking about!

[@CA-rr3xi]

Notice how she’s struggling to explain her nature, all subconscious!

[@jemperdiller]

It's a paid actor on a paid event.

[@popeboi172]

@@jemperdiller 😅😅

[@snakebite2529]

C A that's right

[@paccawacca4069]

they really dont understand themselves. Some do, but they're rare.

[@maxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx]

Bro men are the same

[@ivaerak]

Why is Mariah Carey punching that guy?

[@manuelschmoller2884]

Because he likes it

[@nowhatimsayinb9314]

🥴😆🤦🏾‍♂️

[@1dayshaun]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Veganphobic]

What turns me on is when she's level headed and not a crazy emotional psycho using excuses to act childish. There's no reason to scream at me or disrespect me. Which is why I love my wife I got lucky and found that woman.

[@SbgTeddy]

Banana Bandana brooooooo that first sentence killed me

[@babynyxe4784]

Ur rlly good looking 👀✨

[@MattGarcyaDC]

How’s it going?

[@Anonymous-zd1ow]

@@astralpurpose1344 bro wtf?

[@astralpurpose1344]

The Incredible Hulk my opinion has since changed. Will delete.

[@coachk7906]

Girl that hits me will be the last time she does and trust me she'll feel that masculine energy

[@joshuafrank9566]

😂

[@e.m2117]

Yeaaa 💪🏻😂

[@Mason4YAH]

Lol😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@hanzogang798]

LMAO

[@kristopherryanwatson]

@Name Unavailable wow, a real man right here.

[@captinkrunk101]

0:45-0:52 her eyes are going nuts

[@notyourdad361]

Installing updates

[@djnelson-mm4xx]

@@notyourdad361 😂😂😭😭😭

[@blacksamurai6038]

@@notyourdad361 LMAO

[@mrketelsker8188]

Maybe it's the make-up on her eyes

[@fxstdribbler6427]

👁Exe.stopped

[@illuminatijones3131]

How am I supposed to continue my NoFap.. with this???

[@warpspeed8305]

Does it still work for you? I had sex with girl time from time and did NoFap... I guess sex doesn't count as fap.

[@JHardyExTReme]

Nah man the point of nofap is to not jack off or watch porn so that you can have sex with real women. So no it doesn’t count as a fap

[@maddart4445]

Lol poor thing

[@TheMikeHolland]

Does this only work for women with butt augmentation surgery?

[@Thegalacticgeneral]

Lmao

[@SummeRain783]

Loool that was funny but it could be real

[@GetLostInTheSauce]

From the man's perspective this feels like a balance between the warrior and lover archetypes

[@brandontejada4879]

2:27 hrs, Because what's that going to do? "Starts to rub nipple"

[@beckbat7479]

She is hired employee. She can't react for real as if she was in a club. She has to fake it at some point. Guys who attend this seminar got to go out and test if it produces results. This is where real learning takes place.

[@sirbattlecat]

Exactly. That's why it's called a demonstration.

[@youarebetterthanme7629]

Battle Cat yeah didn't know demonstration of self defense sends people to hospital. Or did this guy not simulate it enough for u?

[@ihelpyouwitheverything4720]

@@youarebetterthanme7629 what?

[@tobiashansen488]

there is a book on this behavior called "Emotionel Intelligence" it talks about how we communicate trow emotionel behaviour, fx a studder can be interpretated as nerviousness, a gasp of air can be interpretated as you are scared etc. it is a goal to not be nervious around women, when leading, because for me personally i got no problem not being nervious around women, but i´m pretty sure they interpretate me as not really caring much about them because they think they are boring me. when that is not the case at all

[@mistertexaz]

Tobias Hansen is it a best seller?

[@illuminatijones3131]

mistertexaz It's a key concept in Business Leadership... there are plenty of books on it.

[@scissoroarscissoroar3214]

Great analogy, women are the picture / paint and men are the frame, excellent no bs video

[@wandarimmer2128]

I don't know if other women have watched this. But, I could feel that masculine frame through the screen and I agree it's a turn on. He might have been performing a demonstration, but that masculine energy shown through.

[@juniorlee7084]

I need a girl like that they do say girls motivate us to be better and more competitive

[@zaci5824]

Only YOU can motivate yourself to be better

[@jayhernandez1449]

This shit is fucking GOLD!!

[@stardustvideo]

Yup man

[@MarcusEMunya]

Dominic Mora Lol ok morpheus

[@KingBowserVlog]

Dominic Mora Spoken like someone who hasn't tested it out for himself or does it shittily. Try this out well and you'll never look back.

[@maxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx]

Nah

[@sirbenzo9]

I'd still love to see a full voluntary interaction between a model and a new client beginning the Fearless Man program. I wish to study micro-expressions of both the client and the model and then listen to Brian Begins assessment of the client and recommendations. That would be gold! Thanks.,

[@369Shahin]

She's SO into it. You can see her sound bites as if she's yelling them to you.

[@arvi2010]

Awesome! This has helped me a lot!

[@veiktik2297]

Well, i usually dont buy these help from videos, but this actually is true. I have fucked up this consept in my previous relationships untill i noticed this and it makes a difference. It is an all around thing that you as a man must stand as a rock. Not bullshit, just growing up as a man.

[@niahbernardo8752]

I got a homie that’s for sure the ‘nice guy’ to a fault. It was hard for me to understand his problems at first cause I’ve always considered myself to be pretty confident, and it was as well hard to give him good advice, without just telling him to not give a fuck or to just tell him how I would approach situations, without feeling like I was making him feel like being himself was not the best thing to be. I’m gonna show him these vids tho !

[@z31rider24]

Love her Accent. Great video on factors on what should and shouldn't be done.

[@alchemyhendricks725]

Great video! I already knew this but this is great!

[@rossjeffries4639]

Totally true and good on him.

[@dudewat212]

BRIAN BEGIN !!! #FearlessMan

[@carolanntownley6022]

Very cool video! I totally melted when he came into her space.

[@edithboozy1000]

Who the paid actress?

[@freedomisntfree131]

"Talk softly and carry a big stick."- Teddy Roosevelt

[@bencobb5545]

GREAT VIDEO!!! thank you for sharing, i appreciate it very much. this is important knowledge, and can save so many men and women.

[@karimnanji4163]

excellent...thank U and all the best!

[@dariusalexandru9536]

Wow, amazing !

[@HungarianPussyMagnet]

This guy is the golden middle between Corey Wayne and Zan Perrion, the perfect balance in essence.

[@rajarshiborah8390]

Legendary 🔥

[@sebastianjurado1600]

Basically, he knew she was wrong for throwing a childish tantrum so because he is confident about him behaving good and she behaving wrong he doesn't apologize to her because apologizing means he is taking the blame when in reality she is the one who couldn't control herself..by you as a man not saying sorry means you are making her responsible for her way of acting thus being assertive and letting her know she is wrong w/o even speaking...that is how they get aroused.

[@eleveneleven572]

I can remember taking an irate call from a committee member of a branch of the NGO where I was Director of Finance (a masculine job..). She started on me and I kept calm, would not bend and she finally admitted that she wanted me to fold and give in to her over the matter in question but seemed to appreciate my firmness, calm and reason. A couple of months later she came up to me at a conference, gave me a silk tie....and asked for sex!

[@andyzhang3050]

Yo this man actually brought a 10/10😂

[@WeGetWildTV]

lol thats a washed up 7

[@toneiv6560]

@@WeGetWildTV lolololol no cap

[@HIRISK]

Butter face nigga

[@andyzhang3050]

@@HIRISK i apologize, i was a lot hornyer 2 years ago. i see where i went wrong

[@290revolver290]

I was wow'd throughout this clip 🥺

[@Grimnir33]

Though I'm a rookie in body language but, i still managed to spot signs of submission, attraction and approval from her, well played!-too bad I Can't just snap my fingers and be well framed when it really matters 🤦

[@MrTapout180]

Dude, it takes practice. Train yourself to be that type of man. This guy we watched wasn’t born like that he made himself that way.

[@king_d0ma1n41]

Found this video at the right time

[@user-un6sb4kn2z]

Tested it on my mom, must admit it works, guys

[@AmazingRick]

After I saw this Video I decided to go into my mother room while shes watching tv and stood there blocking her on purpose. She got mad told me to move and i ignored her so she kick me in the bum. I was standing and she was laying on the bed so after she kick me i turn around walk closer to her holding eye contact without even getting angry or aggressive. Boiiiii it worked i saw and felt that energy

[@beckbat7479]

Good point to think about.

[@NixonRexzile-xz4sq]

I didnt know think I need knowledge but damn that is a good point,

[@obray00]

I think this 4 minutes has just changed my life

[@billyvazquez3212]

Good analogy

[@fxstdribbler6427]

1:59 who threw that piece of paper at me🤣

[@olusolapelumi6660]

Thank you bro

[@vincentmarq9409]

Good video

[@iamweird6453]

This guy is playing mad mind games

[@francismarcomiranda4288]

This guy is an awesome frame holder

[@909Pocahontas]

Is it hot in here or is it just me?!

[@DanTuber]

I'd like to see how solid you'd be if she kicked you in the nuts. LOL

[@LouStoriale]

I started dating a teacher who later became an assistant principal who thought she could hit me and punched me in the shoulder as much as she wanted. When I told her to stop she said what’s wrong can’t you take it I thought you were a big bad boxing instructor but I said I am, but if you hit me again I’m gonna knock the fucking teeth out. We dated for four years and she never hit me again.

[@wilfriedvomacka1783]

This guy is 100% masochist. This video is all about "hit me, hit me again, hit me harder, hit me one more time"

[@jamescolbert1]

Nice, thanks 😊

[@Gramidle]

Expert!

[@oliverhojas]

Oh fuck, I needed to hear this a week ago....

[@battlescargigantica2159]

She hits me out of anger like that and I'll step in, with a right cross. Feminine and masculine my ass... shes a fucking adult and needs to be accountable and responsible for her actions and choices. Telling men it's ok and by proxy telling WOMEN it's ok to strike someone out of anger is a load of bullshit no matter how you respond to it. Right cross folks...

[@Jimmy-mt4kn]

Battlescar Gigantica ...Women are children who never mature. Selfish, shift accountability, and lie much to hide things and get what they want which is usually financial security, i.e. food/shelter.

[@Ytremz]

Funny but ultimately untrue

[@elijahenriquez7885]

Battlescar Gigantica then your not a man enough to deserve her. You are the fucking man in the relationship. You need to be strong if u back down because of a little silly ass slap you are showing the same behavior she is exhibiting. You lost ur grounding and ur manhood.there is a difference between slef defence and being a little bitch.

[@Ytremz]

Battlescar Gigantica Yes it's about accountability, but honestly, your suggested course of action isn't practical. Women tend to be more emotionally reactive than men, so it's _more likely_ that she will behave in an emotional way when confronted with an escalated situation. Would you be justified in retaliating with equal/greater force? More than likely. But if you value that relationship, and can see through her irrational response (as a byproduct of her being more emotionally than logically reactive), then it's not the optimal decision to make. Perhaps, instead of physical retaliation, you could set the precedent for the right way to conduct oneself as an adult, in an emotionally charged situation.

[@ChristopherP]

Triggered!

[@imoretullv243]

My way is controversial because it involves maturity, a good high social proof currency as well. I imagine doing her from behind while talking to her because a women will always be attracted to a guy that makes her feel like a girl (or submissive). End of the day it's about intent of actions in the bedroom. If I mentally thrash her, that's exactly what she wants in the bedroom and the vibe is primal and strong. Don't do this if you don't know how to socialize with people in general, or you could get arrested for mentally assaulting her in a creepy way.

[@ihelpyouwitheverything4720]

Dont work

[@alexm1841]

Is there a video using conversation?

[@kbouffort6463]

The way of a superior man

[@Catholic_Fiat33]

He should talk about the major female archetypes in relation to this. Because "The nice girl" archetype would prob shy away from such a strong approach.

[@upgrade1015]

It works for a short time… Eventually, they will keep testing, harder and harder until it breaks. They will test your boundaries over and over. Within six months they will do things that there’s no coming back from.

[@danipombo]

Awesome

[@mountainman6172]

Why did I get this on my feed. Nevertheless, fiesta fiesta baby fiesta 😂

[@Emir-hu5gy]

Very cool

[@ChunWong]

Nice

[@UnexistedWords]

Man, get Arthur Kwon Lee on your show. He’s the new kid on the block in regards for fighting for masculinity from a very unique vantage point. Saw him on JLP radio show

[@saelaird]

Always hold your frame and give a simple push back. Don’t ever hit.

[@cellslave]

Way to send the message that domestic violence is acceptable... A woman should NEVER hit a man.

[@mallikak7374]

Master Wong: Hold my nunchuks

[@KonAnt]

sooooo akward and cringy when she starts to speak oh god i cant

[@iamweird6453]

كن أنت | Kon Ant well English is not her first language so I don't what's so cringe worthy about that....she actually turned me on more after she spoke she seemed so vulnerable and men would want to protect and love a women like that

[@pejpj2890]

It was sexy. man you dont know south american women

[@bencobb5545]

haha i know right. i felt that too. :) she's just not comfy being in such a real scene, she is so used to playing all the mind games. she doesn't like facing it head on. it's okay though, that's just how they are. some women don't mind talking about it, and some do. she's just not comfy with facing this reality head on, and that's fine. because that's our job as men. her job is to provide a different sort of value; the value of fantasy for a child. the value of love and emotional balance. when a child doesn't get this love from the mother and discipline from the father, it grows up in a sort of wonky way. and that's what's happening in the world. parents are doing it wrong, creating children who do it wrong, on and on. TLDR; be a good parent, whoever you are, man or woman. take the lessons from these videos and use it to be the best parent you can be. raise good people.

[@bebeezra]

Seriously? English is her 2nd language, she's in front of a room full of *MEN* and she doesn't give a Toast Masters performance so you dump on her? Enjoy your palm dude..

[@harrymlondobozi8605]

Amen, Distant! Grunts and moans are more than sufficient.

[@descendant0fdragons]

This educational video is very subjective! We all have seen women who can cause more damage than a slap on the chest, and we all know that men might not be that nice, so it all depends on the individual.

[@icarus9097]

@Stranger Studios She will if she intends to do harm. Sometimes women slap you (usually NOT on the face) or push you to get a reaction out of you.... but sometimes they mean to actually INJURE you, and most women can succeed in injuring most men if that's what they intend. If she's trying to injure you, you should practice self defense, not "moving in to show dominance"; but then again, you can't be a pussy and mistake a provocation for an actual strike.

[@ChasingYonci]

He said the slap was supposed to be metaphorical for emotions expressed verbally. Physical abuse should never be accepted in relationships.

[@rogerrock868]

Thanks for the reminder, bringing married for 16 years, than cheating on, I lost my inter strength..now staying on frame

[@Cool-Danny]

It's about, don't have a people pleaser attitude, instead show you have full control of yourself.

[@fadiahashim409]

She is in another world

[@lolodacholo]

can you do some infield where we can see you approach girls to demonstrate? I know that will multiply your subscribers. I know what you say is already really solid information

[@chris_evolution131]

男人的框架就像一幅畫的框，而女人則是中間的那幅畫， 如果男人跟女人站在一起，人們都會把目光關注在女人身上 另一個比喻是 男人是河岸、女人是在河岸中間流動的河流， 男人是堅固不動的，把河流緊緊的包住， 當女生出現不好的情緒時，男人還能夠不受影響，待在女人的情緒之中， 用男人的潛溝通和女人交流，女人開關反而會被打開，會覺得是高興的 你或許有聽過，男人跟女人吵架，結果吵完卻還發生了親密關係， 還有一種狀況是 男人跟女人吵架，女人卻是氣到一個禮拜不理男人 這之中有甚麼不一樣? 第一種男人，不會去和女人多說甚麼，卻有辦法在行動上去主導女人， 去應對女人心中的情緒，這樣反而會讓女人覺得放鬆 有點像是女人在鬧脾氣、打了你胸口一下， 你卻還是能不受影響，甚至更靠近對方， 反而讓女人不好意思、有種好像是她自己不對那樣 第二種男人，則只會在道理上去和女人爭對錯， 或是害怕女人生氣而一昧的道歉，這樣會沒辦法處理好女人心中的情緒 而導致女人在心中對你產生埋怨

[@jeroenfens8978]

He has an incredibe energy! Really grounded

[@Dabighomiee]

Bill Burr sure has come a long way

[@ysmni]

I wish more men would act like that!

[@alexm3392]

Why are those that call themselves "black pilled" so obsessed with coming on videos like this and mass spamming that "women only care about face and looks". Seems to be over half the comments. But if you really were "black pilled" and convinced so thoroughly that chances with women are predetermined at birth, why would you waste all your time going on videos like this to convert everyone else. Would seem to me to be the perfect opportunity to do something constructive with the time. I don't believe for a second that almost all those who post comments like this on videos like this, aren't just trying to find company for their self inflicted misery.

[@ThiefKingofLegend]

Okay so be present to the moment and step in to the tension? Remain Nonreactive but in your emotionality. Cool.

[@roseyrosey123456]

When he steps in even I thought it was kinder hot

[@Nemesislord001]

“Jokes on you I’m into that shit” 1:45

[@Curitibaas]

Yes sir!

[@Victor-it6bv]

I hold frames all the time. Mainly picture frames but sometimes door frames

[@Lokipower]

Excellent demonstration. To be fair though, I wouldnt call this "dominant", especially given the negative connotation associated with the word. "Grounded/solid masculinity" is what i'm seeing, and it's great!

[@TheMagiki]

I agree that Dominant behaviour and dominating and controlling intention is negative. But this is a dominant frame , not behaviour. He holds his own rightness. In this the woman is not dominated but is free to express her emotion fully . Nobody is wrong , nobody is controlled. That's a surrounding frame.

[@J.B.1982]

Gotta read David Daeda

[@FabledNarrative]

Thank you for having feminine women on. : )

[@DZIGIN]

Yes!

[@mistertexaz]

freerolll you gay?

[@justinparker7902]

freerolll he means submissive

[@davidkoreck1341]

The tone and pattern of the voice

[@vladfiryago7198]

Oh there’s polarity in that waist hip ratio alright

[@pete05074]

I can tell she is Colombian because of her accent

[@benserkowski4663]

What is saying is correct. However you can’t fake it.