How To Inspire a Guy to Proactively Commit To You For Life

[@BernMendez]

Be pursued by quality men (free training): bit.ly/my-dating-cure-training

[@Borinquena1973]

I love the last point about the man understanding that someone else will take you from him if he doesn't want to commit. I think that a lot of women have attachment issues that prevent this step from happening since they don't want to lose the man and cling to a man without him being invested. Its so important to have self-worth and to be confident enough to give off that vibe, not cocky, but sure that she can absolutely have anyone she wants if he doesn't come forward. Love your content. It has really helped me n the last 4 years.

[@jenniferpoitier]

That was one of the best videos I’ve ever seen on understanding the male perspective on a relationship. Well done. Thank you for the insight and the growth opportunity. That was phenomenal

[@BernMendez]

Jenniffer, thank you so much for your kind words, and so glad this was helpful to you.

[@nlewis4196]

Excellent content. Extremely helpful. Thank you Bern.

[@BernMendez]

You're most welcome.

[@sandragreen5146]

Powerful video🙌 I love this! Thank you🙏❤️

[@BernMendez]

You are so welcome, Sandra.

[@Smileygld123]

❤❤ Right on the mark, as always!

[@itssarahduffstyle]

Very informative video thank you! Being seen, accepted and feeling valued -- so powerful 🙏🏻❤

[@BernMendez]

You are so welcome, Sarah. So glad this was useful to you. 😀

[@joansandeen9443]

Excellent!! And very powerful. Thank you.

[@BernMendez]

You're so welcome!

[@daniellecharming]

Excellent video!!! Thank you!

[@BernMendez]

You’re so welcome, Danielle.

[@boomerangsruckflug8513]

Thank you so much, Bernardo 💖🙏💖

[@BernMendez]

You are very welcome : )

[@ekaterinasaturn6853]

Great video! Thank you, Bern!

[@BernMendez]

You’re welcome!

[@reemsaif3105]

Thanks Bern 🦋

[@BernMendez]

You're welcome!

[@thisgirlkarenn]

Aside from your wisdom and generosity, I've always admired your articulation and communication skills. Your word choice helps me receive the message perfectly. I'm bilingual and I feel insecure of my communication because I don't feel proficient in either language. I have so many thoughts and ideas but can never deliver them efficiently. 🫤 Great video as always. Thank you for sharing. 💭

[@BernMendez]

Karen, thank you so much for your vulnerable share. I appreciate your kind words and can say this, In order to record all these videos I've consciously made the decision that I'm much more committed to my purpose which includes helping women than on what others might judge me for in my accent-filled Mexican English : ) So I say, deliver your ideas imperfectly and with passion and you'll get your point across. Big hug to you.

[@elmarinavisagie7275]

Thank you so much.Im learning a lot.

[@BernMendez]

You are very welcome, Elmarina.

[@elmarinavisagie7275]

You have taugut me so so much in relationship I am so alert in now looking out for red flags I'm single and I'm srll learning I'm from South Africa.

[@AsexualiseMyAsexualLife]

I'm currently on the right track after watching this.

[@BernMendez]

So glad to hear this :)

[@AsexualiseMyAsexualLife]

@@BernMendez yeah. Many of these things I have already done with with guy I met online recently. Such as telling him outrightly he has an attractive personality as well as looks and I can't help but be attracted to him. I also told him I like how open and honest he is. We both feel a connection so far and are building a foundation of friendship so far, while have some attraction and connection already, and we do our first video call tomorrow. It was his suggestion to do a video call.

[@avocado3748]

Thank you Bern, that’s clear and helpful differentiation that’s it’s a matter of finding the right person than taking a person and making them fit.

[@sandramarshall5101]

He wants to be with me when he’s not with his kids

[@BernMendez]

Sounds like you need to have better conversations with him to understand his needs and figure out if they fit with yours.

[@amyj.4992]

Why swiftly, just enjoy the hunt with your mate until union 💕👑💖😉

[@sandramarshall5101]

What if he’s a widower and his adult kids refuse to accept and include me in his life.. One year now.. he goes to family things but I cannot go

[@BernMendez]

Sandra, please get help so that you don't have to "silently"suffer throughout this relationship.

[@dianezemliak5606]

What about asking his kids, do you think your mom would want your father to be happy?

[@alcie8133]

He is in charge of whether or not you attend events with him-or are his kids in charge? An adult man does not let his adult kids decide whether or not he can date. These “adult” kids sound extremely immature. Set yourself straight-I feel like you are seeing this through a distorted lens.

[@LinnLinnok-fe5tq]

He is the one keeping you disconnected and blaming the kids or letting them take the blame. He makes that decision. If he is not bringing you into his family then HE doesn’t want you there. Time to move on to someone who brings you into his family and treats you well.