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[@ashleycarberry8376]

Having trouble realising whether I'm gay or bi and it's killing me.

[@jessw2118]

cactaj - Same. I can't cope

[@graciecassar1475]

cactaj - same

[@jenniferjones7317]

cactaj - exact same same same same same

[@maeves.w.7156]

cactaj - same it's awful when you dont know :(

[@amaliaalexander3763]

cactaj - ok same that's actually me

[@pepe_the_pussy9218]

In my mind I'm bi but in my heart I'm gay

[@mybabes5327]

Same

[@RainbowVrage]

I wish I knew wether I was bi or lesbian

[@julietbarnes5883]

+RainbowV_rage same

[@saramilijic]

+RainbowV_rage s a m e

[@spicyegg1740]

Same here, shit...

[@madimationproductions5505]

Why is sexuality even a thing?? Why can't we just fall in love with people and not genders? Do you guys realize how much easier that would be 😂

[@themindbenderr]

How I wish that to be the only important thing!! But It doesn't work like that :'(

[@synthspleen]

Madimation Productions ikrr

[@ursuladupreez1164]

Madimation Productions agree soooo to that

[@Amanda-mz2bi]

That's what would happen in a perfect world, but unfortunately you're a million steps ahead of everyone else. We just need to keep fighting.

[@adele8456]

ikr!

[@casso.p.8692]

I didn't realize the volume was up all the way and my family just hears "OH YOUR GAY" blasting all of a sudden

[@AsdfAsdf-mi6ks]

Cas that’s one way to come out

[@emofuckass2385]

O O F

[@BeHisLikeness]

LOL just tell them you clicked on the wrong video!!!

[@lpsspiritwolf6636]

oofffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff poooooooorrrrrrrrrr youuuuuuuuuuu

[@jessicagallagher3537]

Lol

[@jessicaday22]

I think I'm bi But I'm really scared and really don't want to be I absolutely got no Problem with the lgbtq+ Community,but ... idk

[@jessicaday22]

And I Love my boyfriend over everything

[@synthspleen]

Ella Melville What does being bi have anything to do with your boyfriend?? bi means you like both sexes.

[@jessicaday22]

V I know

[@jessw2118]

Ella Melville I want to be straight but Ik I can't change myself

[@zeemin5880]

Internalized homophobia is a thing so I understand not wanting to be bisexual. Why do you think you're bi?

[@shep689]

okay i DEFINITELY have a preference for Ruby Rose. idgaf about my sexuality she is friggin beautiful.

[@ElloSteph]

shep689 LGBTQR(Ruby Rose)+

[@sukidakara4326]

Your sexuality *is* Ruby Rose

[@leighannwilson1181]

shep689 currently my phone screen lock background 😍😍

[@_anime.sausages_]

shep689 ikr she's so cute 😍

[@ciararobertsxx8464]

shep689 relatable

[@candyheartsz]

this video was great! you're such a good role model for lgbtq+ youth

[@ElloSteph]

Hesitant Meme Trash Thank you so much!

[@anjelycemartinez3668]

+ElloSteph Your expiring!😍😍😄😄😃

[@Eueueyw]

+Anjelyce Martinez expiring means rotting lmao

[@Eueueyw]

+Anjelyce Martinez it's inspiring

[@maxinax4247]

FFuzzyandfurryF noooo it's not disgusting

[@poweredbygluten]

it's funny/ironic how coming out should mean you make your self free... but then you put yourself in another closet named gay or bi etc. and suddenly our society expects from you to live by the stereotypes that stick to that particular closet.

[@toongurl]

This is so true! I think we're all kind of tired of stuffy closets.

[@isabelosborn6617]

That's a funny way of looking at it. I actually never thought of it that way. :(

[@poweredbygluten]

Isabel Osborn You can look at it they way you prefer but the truth is the society has a tendency to categorize people and that's why we feel the pressure to come out and label ourselves like we are some sort of robots. One of the reason I don't like the idea of coming out.

[@isabelosborn6617]

born@Kepler452b But by coming out doesn't it mean we are proud of who we are. No matter our sexuality or gender.

[@poweredbygluten]

Isabel Osborn that is true but long before you come out to your parents, best friend etc you have to come out to yourself and accept your sexual orientation as part of your identity, gain confidence and so on. So in the end it's a long process where you get to discover who you truly are. I just disagree with coming out to others because if we want equality then coming out should've never existed. Straight people don't feel the pressure to come out and wait for an approval from their parents.

[@definitely_not_firefly]

I need to figure myself out, Jen from buzzfeed makes me question my sexuality

[@abbylens7180]

Natsu Dragneel same lol

[@versol6581]

YAS

[@sophiacradit5717]

Natsu Dragneel lol same

[@alexamckee7389]

Natsu Dragneel nobody has to firgure themselves out, you can but dont need to.

[@penny3348]

Natsu Dragneel Jen from buzzfeed makes everybody question their sexuality, shes gorgeous

[@raynemoody3329]

The funny thing is i allways admired women and really liked them sence i was young. I refused to think i was anything but straight. Then i took 3 steps into highsool freshmen orientation. Yeaaaa no. Im lesbian

[@eldunari0291]

Rayne Moody i thought you were American

[@bruhmode3041]

You sure you are not les-bean

[@jakaylahrich1040]

I am a lesbian😂 no question I have never liked a guy. Not even a celeb crush. I have liked girls since the 5th grade but was scared to admit it

[@ibuprofem9901]

you look like colleen ballinger

[@PedroRodriguez-dp6pv]

I see the resemblance

[@feet5503]

It'sFemke she does

[@tdannemaria]

It'sFemke Yep, She does.

[@alexia2003]

She really does

[@shorrrtbean3038]

It'sFemke i thought that

[@awshucksitappearsiwasrudet8664]

I know for a fact I'm gay because I only like guys and am not even slightly attracted to girls. Also I don't know how to tell my friends or family that I'm gay, can I have some help

[@erinparkes9916]

Science Strand look up at the "coming out song"

[@awshucksitappearsiwasrudet8664]

Erin Parkes thanks I'll send it to my family

[@thereisalwaysarainbowafter1364]

Charif Abdeslem go to fucking hell

[@xander178]

Charif Abdeslem fuck you

[@mindsgameroleplayedits9681]

I am in the same boat except i like girls not guys

[@johnfernandes3685]

I im 12 and I've had crush on girls but never on boys but lately I feel Im gay but im not getting attrated to boys but to girls. This got me to depression cause I am a chrsitian.

[@Ikefilmzz]

John Fernandes a sin is a sin go for it

[@jazzman1626]

Billy the bully You're not homosexual. The fact that all this teaching in schools nowadays and the results being confusion and distress like you're feeling, proves that the teaching of it as a valid life style in schools is the corruption of the young. Hypocrisy rules, it seems, in the governments of the west. Don't believe the propaganda!

[@moltenkitty7157]

JAZZ MAN you dont know shit. end of story.

[@moltenkitty7157]

Billy the bully God will NOT send you to hell for being gay, and does NOT hate you. S/He wants you to be happy and live a fulfilled life. S/He would never never support you hurting or forcing yourself to be something you're not just because of what some Christian beliefs or religions believe. If you want to talk more please do, I've gone through this entire same thing as you and I was also and still am that scared little girl sometimes. If you wanna talk my IG is thvelle and my skype is moltenkitty, be safe and love yourself just as you are sweet soul, there is NOTHING wrong with you EVER for loving someone 💞

[@brendanmcpike184]

look up HOCD you may have it. its a form of ocd. quit masturbation and porn and youll know, whether it takes days or years. you're not gay im sure. you're just stressed from your beliefs. you can even prey if you wanted. just try to relax and ik its hard in this day in age when everyone seems to be LGPTQ/liberal.

[@emilyedens8034]

I don't see bisexuals as being confused. It's nkt like they can't make up their mind, some people just like both. And I think that's perfectly okay. They were born that way.

[@totaltrashmammal1697]

I thought I was straight until I was 15 at which point I went on a journey of depression and self discovery. I ended up just smoking a ton of weed and trying some weird shit with my gay friends. I'm 100% I'm bi now and it's nice to be comfortable with your sexuality whatever it is. Too all their own.

[@Trilliman707]

emily edens u know there's no scientific proof that people can be born gay BC they can't thats like saying being gay is a disability BC they can't help it but you have free will a mind to think on ur own ur own choices and nobody can control u but u now I understand if ur autistic adhd or cod BC those our disabilities and u can't really help but if u where born with it my theory is that being gay is a habit the later grows stronger and stronger that it becomes part of ur character and that ur so use to that that it just seems u can't help it BC the habit took over u and permitly becomes apart of u thats my theory

[@ultimatewatchme]

This is what i needed because i have a girlfriend now and i told my mum about it recently but my mum always said 'you could kiss a girl and not like it' or ' its because you go to an all girls school you're just confused'. But up until recently my girlfriend kissed me and i liked it. That was my first kiss but i could kiss a guy and not like it but i dont know. This video helped me a lot because i have been thinking about if i wasnt really bisexual, is this just a phase, am I disrespecting the community if i realise im not bisexual. This video taught me its okay to question at times and even if i do change in the future thats okay because people change over time and nobody will stay the same. Woops i ranted oh well nobody is gonna care about this haha 😅

[@caitlinpatten3816]

MilkyBerry me too

[@nonflammable3757]

Wait a minute you are supposed to like kissing a gender to be attracted. Oops guess I'm gay.

[@charless.2549]

This is an outstanding video! It's good to see the Bi community get treated with the respect they deserve. I've seen other videos here on KZbin where Gays and Lesbians call those who are Bi greedy or confused. (I'm gay myself.)

[@sneffie]

You said so much that I just needed to hear outloud, not just in my own head. I am me and whoever I am shouldn't have to be explained to anyone.

[@the10thdoctor86]

I feel the exact same way!

[@mathinho2003]

Thank you!! I'm 12 and just started questioning myself about this stuff and it's really really confusing

[@Taylor-yl4ls]

Same as me

[@HakimSpokenLewis]

WE ARE REAL! WE ARE HERE! AND WE ARE HELLA QUEER! END BIPHOBIA AND PANPHOBIA IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY

[@h2ogurl1234]

AND ACEPHOBIA

[@HakimSpokenLewis]

RIGHT!!! SERIOUSLY HOW CAN WE EXPECT ACCEPTANCE AND EQUALITY FROM THE REST OF THE WORLD IF WE OUST, DEHUMANIZE, BELITTLE AND INSULT PEOPLE WHO ARE FIGHTING FOR THE SAME CAUSE

[@JenTheDevil]

It's almost as if in the fight for equality we should support everybody equally....

[@HakimSpokenLewis]

Erin Conway Hmm then they would straight up run from me

[@HakimSpokenLewis]

+Erin Conway Haha it may be mean but i'd probably chase him

[@CelineNguyenIAM]

Your eye's are really captivating

[@lisesvelasco3826]

Anyone in love with her eyes!?!?!

[@kishawilliams7791]

My daughter is having trouble with deciding if she's gay or straight but I think this will help her.

[@aronaron1277]

Pls support her in whatever she is

[@bookgurl4265]

THANK YOU! I've never been able to find the right words to tell people this when they ask me about my sexuality and gender orientation and I will, from now on, be sending them a link to this video so they can understand what I am trying to say. Thank you once again. We love you Steph!! From all LGBTQIA people out there wanting the right words

[@tizzyice]

I didn't know I needed this video until now :)

[@CaasieWTF]

I ask people "how do you know if you're straght?" every time they ask me "how do you know if you're gay?"

[@mana44567]

ive identified as a lesbian for a while, but im still feeling nervous about coming out to family due to "oh no am i actually straight and just not sure cause then ill have to explain myself" panic. this video gave me another gentle push towards coming fully out, thank you!

[@froggyfun1830]

This video helped me a lot. I have been so confused on what I am. You have shown me that things always change and that nothing is legitimate. I have always been contemplating wether I might be Les, Bi, or Straight. Now I know that I can always try new things and that it won't always be that way. Thank you for helping me!

[@humanbean1340]

I’m 13 and questioning my sexuality. I have been worried about coming out as bisexual because I might change in the future and don’t know what I would say if I did change to straight or to lesbian because that would be harder. This video is really inspiring for me and just what i needed to hear. Thank you! I have just turned 13 so I have told my self since I haven’t felt this way about women and men before, if I still feel this way about people when I’m 14 I’ll come out as bisexual. Omg you don’t even know how good it feels to be telling someone!!! Thanks again for this video. Definitely one of my favourites!!!

[@corebroth8793]

“You’re too pretty to be a lesbian” Did you just call me ugly

[@lexisdodson6722]

you helped me so much by making this video. I am a sophmore in high school who is currently too scared to come out and it is harder for me to tell people especially my parents because I live with people who are very strongly against the LGBTQ+ community. Thank you for the info. ILSM!!

[@nyoom5278]

I love how in my high school in the holy year of TwentyGayTeen that many of my fellow classmates have come out as bi but it’s awful too because every straight and/or homophobic person in my school always says things like ‘Oh half the year has come out as bi’ and ‘They’re doing it for attention!!’ I’ve come out to a few of my friends who I know will not run away from me and who accept the LGBT+ community but it’s hard because lots of the people who attend my school would bully me if they found out I was L or B because of the whole idea all the people have of it being a phase! These thoughts have driven me to a few cutting incidents and dark thoughts that no one would accept me for who I know I really am. I hate having to hide away waiting for someone to ask ‘Wait why don’t u have any boy crushes OMG YOURE GAY WHATS WRONG WITH U’ and I just can’t deal with how awful it would be to be in one of those situations. Wow typing this all out has helped a lot. If u have any advice feel free to help me 😌🏳️‍🌈❤️

[@marimariana55]

You save my life everyday, thank you!

[@ElloSteph]

Mariana Prudente I'm just the cheerleader. You're the whole team saving yourself everyday

[@catimations5096]

I’ve come out to my friends and family as bisexual and everyone’s like “oh it’s just a phase you’re confused you’re probably straight” and you’re not even bi, it’s just less of an explanation than what you really are

[@zozo-qn8or]

YOU ARE RLLY INSPIRING TO MEH, questioning stuffs

[@belucienta]

her eyes :0

[@ElloSteph]

Belén Ruiz Parra the better to see you with, my dear

[@hopedwyer7947]

Ikr? They're so pretty

[@boholsurf_2749]

+ElloSteph oh that Alex quote made me love you more 😍

[@belucienta]

+ElloSteph you're so pretty and nice, good video!! Greetings from Spain Stheph ♥

[@thebareessentials]

Im 33 and have been out as a gay man for 7 or so years and still am uncomfortable with my sexuality. When I was very young I knew I was different but I had this overwhelming fear that my family and the world around me would not be supportive. I have never fully accepted myself for who I am because I believed in that fear so much for so long that I let it become my truth. I'm seeing a counsellor now and am trying to unlearn this horrible lie that I created. Love is love and I am me. I need to learn to love myself for the beautifully flawed perfectly imperfect human being that I am.

[@addylee8281]

I don’t know what I am, but I don’t want to label myself yet, but at the same time, I want to stop questioning myself

[@tala402]

I'm scared to go straight in the future lol I love women

[@killuazoldyck-tg4wg]

Idk , I used to think that I just admired girls, I wanted to be pretty, but then I started questioning myself because I had feelings for my bff that I'd never had before, I would stay up all night just wondering if I was insane bc I thought she would hate me. I told her that I might be bi, but to my surprise, she said she was full on lesbian. I wanted to tell her the truth, but that all changed when I started liking this boy. I cant bear to think about telling my parents I liked a girl too, so I tried to make myself straight, it worked until me and my bff had a sleepover. I had never had a problem with getting dressed with her before, but now I'm not sure. I didnt want her to know my feelings so I said I'd change in n the bathroom bc I needed to brush my teeth too. But this is where I had to tell her. I couldn't hide away forever, but before I could say anything, she said "I know" rubbed my leg, and opened the door for me to go to the bathroom so it wouldn't be awkward. To this day, she hasn't told me she has feelings for anyone else. But I still will feel attracted to men, just not as strong as I do to her. I dont think I will ever come out to my parents or other friends. I dont know how. But I hope that the 2% reading this will understand that they aren't alone in this battle called life.❤

[@FetaCheeseLena]

Thanks for this video. I did identify as bi, years ago, and honestly it is what I actually believed at the time. And man, I feel a lot of shame now, knowing that actually I am straight afterall, and I even though I wanted to make myself bi, I couldn't in the end. But yes, it's how I felt at the time, and it's legitimate, and now that I know more about myself, I hope to some day not feel the shame of being "wrong" about myself.

[@mendesarmy4life933]

I’m a lesbian and I know I am, it took me a LONG time to accept and realise. About 3 years and now I know I’m lesbian, be strong guys and make sure you don’t put a label on yourself to please someone else or be popular, you are you and love is your right as a human!

[@kelseyellsworth6448]

This is the perfect video for my situation right now. thank you for this video it helped a lot:) ❤

[@blackglitterytrash1089]

all those questions you asked at the beginning were yes for me are you spying on me lmao

[@casswritesstuff]

THANK YOU I come back and rewatch this video whenever my life makes me question my sexuality and every time I feel better about who I am so thank you thank you thank you

[@laurenvking]

idk what I am... I like feminine boys...

[@btsdutcharmy3248]

LaurenDance 11 straight, if you're a woman attracted to boys.

[@Star3marie304]

You might be pansexual

[@dreamcakey9623]

Omg.. thank you so much. I've been feeling really upset lately because of my issues but you helped me realize that I'll be okay

[@StroJhan]

Omg, I am mortified. My headphones were slightly unplugged so the "Oh, You’re gay" Start of the video just blasted across my living room

[@yuridrawsstuff3555]

R.I.P. Hannah Strom

[@pissylittlegirl3454]

I'm SUPER bisexual!

[@zaneledube1381]

My name is Luanda from South Africa...So I've dated 5 guys in my whole entire life, that was all during primary and one was I'm Grade 8... I've always worn my brothers clothes growing, never did I think I fit in as a female so I hung around guys a lot. One day in grade 7 one of my friends pointed out that I was lesbian😢😭 I cried and ended up beating her up, I regret it till this day. So as my childhood friends were playing dolls and houses I'd always be the uncle and my girl crush would be the aunt. It felt normal and my guy friends really didn't care...Grade 7 I kissed my girl crush and boy oh boy was it amazing, it got me questioning so many things about myself, I grew up under a Catholic family so I knew this was wrong but felt so right. Went on to high school my big sister begged for me not to embarrass her in front of people so I removed the thoughts of girls and so I started making myself look more of a girl than a tomboy as I was perceived in my neighbourhood...I couldn't even last with that guy, shit I couldn't last with of the 5 guys I dated...It was a sad reality and life just seemed meaningless because I wasn't as happy as my sisters and cousins whenever they spoke about guys.. I've had a all my guy ex's ask what did they do wrong and I would have no response because they didn't do anything I just fell out of love...Same year grade 8 I got tired of pretending so I joined the soccer team so if one ask why she walks or talks like a guy I'd blame it on soccer...Which I was really good at it because at home I'd play with guys and school girls...Same year November 2010 I came out of the closet, not to people but to myself first...Grade 9 I dated this amazing girl, somehow we got caught in the toilet kissing and we both got suspended my dad was called in and told that I was gay. My thought of it now were i could've just said i was just playing around but the very first words that came out were yes dad i love girls...My dad and i were so close, he looked at me and said you need to quit soccer that broke me inside...But same day he came to my room and told me these things happen and he loves me the way i am...Following year Grade 10 I met this amazing girl whom we dated for a full 5 years, my longest relationship ever...After high school both parents were deceased so I stayed with my sister and ended up joining a church due to the heartbreak I felt when my 5 year relationship ended cause I cheated more than once and she was tired of me...I started going you church to find my inner peace because I started smoking drugs thinking she's all I had....Me joining the church I had to go through a transformation of braiding my hair to look girly and had on lipstick...As time went by my heart healed and I was able to quit smoking and drinking, but the desire of turning straight started to turn on me.. I liked that people saw me as an inspiration but also felt so fake, I wouldn't want to date guys or have them look at me...I slowly went back to my manly clothes and lifestyle I love and comfortable to living...Had a talk with my sister and she made me feel as if I used God for my heartbreak and shut him off as soon as I healed...In my defence , they say his as God of mercy and love come onto him with your broken soul and contrite heart and I did that...He healed the pain but didn't take away the attractions. I tried keeping up with the church standards but I'd be so sad because I felt as if I'm living a lie and if Heavenly Father can heal my heart he can remove these feelings but it all came down to this one guy they hooked me up with...I liked the idea of a white guy liking me but would have nightmares of waking up married to this guy and living a miserable life...I'm still a lesbian butch but at the same time I feel as if life hasn't given me the answers I need, I pray everyday for him to change me but now I can't do it anymore...So I stopped going to church...And started my smoking clubbing life again, until today I don't know what the Lord expects from me so I returned to church as me...No make up or braids just me...With my walk and every Sunday I wear a dress...I can say I'm now enjoying church more since I've taken a stand for what I feel inside...It's easy judging a situation based on what society portrays us to be...I hear the changed lesbians stud all thanking the Lord and I'm so proud of you guys but don't stand there and act like this ain't real, it's a phase, the Lord will heal you from your sickness like he healed me...That ain't always true because I did go and I did transform but the feelings never for once went away...To all the females out there who've come out of the closet and somehow ended back in, I know the pain and people saying you didn't try enough. , maybe you weren't allowing the spirit to heal you...And it's a sad reality that life has to throw at us...

[@moongirlswanderlust]

hi sweetie! you're so pretty, thanks for the vid! i think i'm bi but i prefer girls a lot more, so i like to identify myself as lesbian. so for now i'm sure "girls" are not a phase, but what about boys? idk yet. i'm romantically attracted to all genders, so i'm panro. yesterday i finally came out to my parents after a year (as bi because it' easier for me). omg it feels so much better and just think that they didn't use to like the lgbt+ community but they said they accept me! don't give up guys! coming out will make you feel better with yourself. no more secrets, no more hidden feelings. if they're homophobic you don't have to explain with details your sexual/romantic attraction if you don't want to, just say: "i started to develop feelings/feel attracted to my same sex/other genders (too), but i wouldn't define myself as gay/lesbian/bi/pan... it's just me. this is not a phase/i don't know yet if it's a phase, but please accept me and respect me. it's a good thing that i told you, please remember i did it because i love you/i feel like you needed to know."

[@amethyst6603]

confused about bi or gay yes yes yes s

[@GarlicKiss]

Same.

[@taylorkimball1003]

i think the thing that confuses people is that when someone is straight bi then lesbian or straight bi then gay that people question if you really were born that way. i have heard people who say that nobody is born gay and that its a choice b/c of people who go back and forth so often

[@Maddy_Clare]

I believe it. I do think that some people say they are bi before saying that they are gay. The reason I think some people say that they're bi because they're scared of what others may think, say, or do because not everyone accepts the LGBT community and people can be mean.

[@ivy_sews]

Signs your gay: Your watching this video, and your reading this comment.

[@rimano3922]

Daaamn her teeth are so wight 😍

[@caitlin4128]

great video.. really opened my eyes to the perspective of sexuality being entirely fluid! i enjoyed the analogy of the shoe sizes. :)

[@RebaRocks14]

I am bisexual and always will be. My mom doesn't agree to it. She always kept saying how I'm gonna go to hell. I don't like hearing that so I made her think I'm straight again. But it makes me very depressed to know my own family doesn't even accept me.

[@vanna1897]

I'm gay and I'm going to be coming out soon wish me luck I know for sure I'm gonna be so happy after I have said it my mom is okay with gay people my dad doesn't mind it my sister is cool with it in facet she is bisexual and she has not come out yet my dad is not okay with bisexuality I don't know why it's stupid so I think if I do it soon maybe it will be easier for her she is older than me and usually the older one is more brace but I have always been the brace one right now I'm so happy I thought I was bisexual for a while and before I thought I was bisexual I thought I was straight but after I thought I was bi I realized I'm gay I have only had a crush on a boy once and every other person I have been attracted to is a women so I'm gay and I love that I know who I am now and maybe after i come out I can give my sister advice and some other people I can tell my aunt and my brother and sister and I am just be ma I'm so excited and I'm so grateful that it's most likely that after i say it there going to be okay with it I'm so excited that I'm typing so fast I wish other people who will be coming out soon good luck

[@ZeppNSoft]

Rainbow Gold i hope it went or goes well im not ready to come out yet

[@Ava-ui1wk]

Rainbow Gold yeah same hope it was ok or will be ok x

[@motorbullet7502]

Rainbow Gold I LOVE your profile picture

[@LarkinTime]

Didn't know there were so much gays.

[@synthspleen]

RobloxLet'sPlays we're everywhere tbh

[@synthspleen]

FFuzzyandfurryF gladly

[@soph5607]

FFuzzyandfurryF says the person who plays fucking moviestarplanet lmao

[@Amanda-mz2bi]

FFuzzyandfurryF don't comment a

[@kaylenfurr2555]

What's so bad about liking someone of the same sex? The same chemicals for example that make you like math opposed to english, are the same ones that make you attracted to who you're attracted to. The idea that men are supposed to be attracted to women is a social construct and it's honestly just bullshit. What if someone told you that you couldn't love who you love? I'm a lesbian, and guess what. It's COMPLETELY normal. So I think you need to get your head out of your ass and just let people love who they love. Thank you

[@MH-rv7jg]

This is so badass everyone NEEDS to see this!!!

[@beeniebabycow]

the way you were thinking when you were 13 is the way I'm thinking now

[@slothlazy4583]

I have a major crush on this 7th grader I loved her so much but am in 6th so the only time I see her is when I walking down the ramp she walks up I walk down and when I have p.e she's in team dolphin I am in regular p.e thank god for this bc I have found the one I rally love but sometimes I catch hwr looking at me does it mean anything? I wanna confess BUT I DONT KBOW NOTHING BOUT HER but when I makw jokes she hears me And laughs quiet I hear it BUT ITS THE CUTEST LAUGH I EVER HEARD any ideas?????? PLZ RESPOND ANYONE!!!!!!but I dont know how she feels about me...:(

[@totaltrashmammal1697]

Ziggy Playz I'm late by 4 weeks. At this point I'm too late to give any advice whatsoever. Shit.

[@Star3marie304]

El LaPoint omg lol chill. Shes just excited to have a crush! And figuring out her sexuality. Nothing to do with drugs or getting pregnant!

[@Star3marie304]

sloth lazy hey sweetie if you read this just know that yes I read your comment:) and I think it's very exciting having a crush on someone.😊 I know how you feel because I had a crush on a girl for the first time when I was your age:) 💕 Maybe you could see who she hangs out with and maybe have someone deliver her a note from you. You could write a little note to her saying something nice like "I think you are cute" or " do you want to hang out sometime"? And put the note in her locker or have someone give it to her :) I hope your school is somewhat liberal and gay friendly. You could always inquire about a GSA(gay straight alliance) at your school or ask your teacher or guidance counselor for resources. Good luck:) have fun:) if you need anything or have any questions please feel free to write me back :) Take care, Heidi 😊💖

[@ilikepancakes3516]

My friend is bi and I am too but because I love talking about LGBTQ+ I don’t think my friend really believes me and thinks it’s just a phase

[@sarah1271]

I really needed a video like this right now. Thanks!

[@kateevanz6818]

i am very gay. i use to hate myself for being the way i am. but watching a lot of joey graceffa helped me love myself.

[@skytho2079]

I dated the opposite sex and was never happy until I finally met someone of the same sex and I was so happy. I was so unhappy with the opposite sex and that's when I realized I was gay and I came out to my parents at 13 and I'm openly out and happy.

[@princeofsubliminal5312]

I don't know why but I still keep feeling awkward what if i'm still in a phase then

[@TashaChristineC]

Happy pride day! I wish I could be celebrating but my life is a very very complicated life. Short story short, I have known my whole life(well since 3rd grade. I’m 30 years old now) that I was a lesbian, at first I didn’t know anything about the LGBT world so I thought me having full on hard crushes on girls and NOT on boys was NOT ok and it would eventually stop(it didn’t). When I got a little older and learned about gay lesbian ETC I realized “hey I might be a lesbian”, but I saw how “that” group of people got treated in school and in society, so I chose to keep quiet about my feelings. My family wouldn’t have cared at all,by the way. I ended up dating lots of guys who ended up breaking up with me because “I wasn’t fully there” or I was “a dead fish in bed” or “I know Your really into girls, and that’s ok”. Then one day I met this amazing kind guy and thought “ok. Let’s try this one more time. Maybe I can make it work and I can just hide my feelings forever” fast forward 2 years, we got married,had kids over the years,everything was fine.....on the outside anyways,on the inside I was a fucked up mess. One day my hubby asked me if I was really happy, and I just broke down crying my eyes out and said “I think I’m a lesbian.....actually I KNOW I am, i just had this AHA! Moment. Everything just clicked and I realized I have been trying to shove the feelings deep deep down inside my whole life. Then I met you, and your amazing so I thought I could keep hiding them and live a “normal” life...I thought I could marry you and be the “normal” wife...and then we had kids together...and I didn’t want to doing anything that would hurt the kids...but as I get older, it’s getting so hard to control my feelings” I am 30 now, it’s been a year since we’ve had this talk. We are still together, we just basically act like room mates that sleep in the same bed, hang out, cook together. All because I don’t want to hurt him or our kids. But I am so depressed and lonely. Everyday I ask myself “why couldn’t you have gotten the damn courage to “come out” when you were a teenager.....but then if I would have done that I wouldn’t have the amazing kids that I do”.

[@abbeywalker1712]

I originally liked both... I always was more taken by girls and only recently came out as Les.... I started noticing that I wasn't Into guys as much but I found them attractive. I been struggling but after seeing this video... That really just cheered me up

[@gothicGumshoe]

How I came out to my mum: Me: So, uh, do you think rainbow slings have anything to do with personality, or anything... Mum: What? Me: When I was a baby you carried me in a rainbow sling. Mum: And...? Me: I'm gay.

[@Lemon-jh1kp]

At this point I’m switching different sexualities Weekly

[@mollysalt9223]

the world needs to see this

[@tanyamreed6816]

Right now I identify myself as a bisexual because I haven't been in a relationship with a girl yet but I've been looking for her!

[@serenitycarranza218]

I use to identify as bisexual becuase I felt I'd disappoint everyone with my sexuality. I was trying to force myself to be bisexual because my parents are homophobic, so, I tried really hard to like guys. But, it was really hard for me to date guys and try to like it, so, I came out as a lesbian and my parents were VERY mad and disappointed about it, but my friends excepted me, and my girlfriend is everything to me, so... yeah..

[@omegaprimeful]

So basically im 19 I had a gay thought pop up in my head. I tried shaking it heavily and I’m still shaking it away tbh. I love women TBH but I’ve been in so many relationships that went to shit. I still love girls and want to be with women. I had that gay thought and all of a sudden I started calling everything cute and shit. Tbh I take notice on how a guy looks but at the end of the day I don’t see myself being romantically or sexually involved with a man at all. Not because of religion just because I still want a woman in my life and to start a family. Deep in my heart I know I’m straight but every time I try to relax bam it’s in my face like oh you’re gay blah blah blah. When in reality over time I think I’ll know the answer but 9/10 imma be straight. Dated women for years and they’ve aroused me no problem but as of recently they don’t do it for me. Men don’t do it for me either and I find the sight of gay porn absolutely nauseating. I’ve been a straight man all my life and I’ve been questioning myself for at least a month now and nothing has changed. I don’t want to bed a man or marry a man. Can someone give me insight!? Like I legit have been checking if this that and the third turns me on and to my great delight. Gay porn or anything GAY related doesn’t turns me on. It’s like nothing does it for me anymore. Am I just in denial or going through something?

[@jessicamaijp]

I've kinda separated from my best friend (she's got a new best friend) because I told her that I'm bisexual and she is scared I will touch her up or something at our sleepovers. I knew personally WAY back that I was bi and had so many sleepovers with her and didn't touch her up, so now that I'm out I'm going to? Tf I miss her but at the same time I'm glad she's gone.

[@blackhawkxxx5556]

The larger question is does it really matter? Why so eager to put yourself into categories?

[@screamstomach9043]

Wow this video really helped me a lot ive been confused about my sexuality (That's the reason i watched this) And what you said at the end really helped me Thanks!

[@rvick1016]

YEP I ROCK THE PIXIE HAIRE CUTE😂😂

[@AlastorTheNPDemon]

The buggery with it. I quit trying to find a lable, although I think the closest thing is "gay ace" for now. I think I'll just stick with "alphabet mobster".

[@pastelgray7218]

I'm pretty young and a short while ago i talked to my mother and after a while we talked about sexualities. I wanted to go to my room but before I've got in my room she said: "You are to young to think about things like this wait a few years" I was so shocked that i just quickly get inside my room. Now I am Thinking about this situation again and I haven't come out yet but I pretty sure that I am Pansexual so I am afraid of the reaction of my Mother. (I hope my English wasn't that bad I'm from Germany so English isn't my first language)

[@denisetedesco5469]

U R SUUUUUUUUUUPER HELPFUL THIS IS MY EXACT SITUATION

[@applek6987]

I was only 8 when I started questioning my sexuality. I'm still questioning weather I'm bi or les

[@codyfranklin3957]

I thought that this was a very instrumental video. I classify as gay, but only use the label to make things easier for people. In all honest you fall for who you want, and adding labels sometime complicates things.

[@jessicagallagher3537]

0:19 CAN YOU LIKE SEE ME THOUGH THE SCREEN

[@heynaxan9744]

I contemplated on commenting this because I know it may bring controversial replies and start something bad. My question is: Videos that are titled, "Am I gay? Am I bisexual?" or "How do I really know what gender(s) I prefer?" they make me question whether I really am the sexuality I've came out with or if they're part of the reason I've again questioned myself on being a lesbian. I have a girlfriend, long distance relationship, but she is a lesbian. Has she tried turning me gay? Yes. Has it succeeded? Not exactly, but there feels like 'maybe I am?'

[@evieh6900]

I really don't want it to be a phase,does that mean it is? I think it's because I can't imagine dating dudes, I've always had trouble visualising a relationship with a boy. It's really frustrating. I'm a kid/tween, makes it so much harder.

[@Wolf79717]

I'm conflicted even though I'm only thirteen I saw this poster at my school and I said "We don't care if you are gay, lesbian, or bisexual. Here you can like anyone without having anyone judge you." That poster really made my question myself "Am I lesbian??" A few weeks back I had a sleepover with my friends. We were getting ready to go to sleep and by the way me and my friends are really close. So the friend that I was bunking with starting to hold my hand. I have held a boy's hand before and I didn't feel the same connection. The only bad thing is.... My parents. What will they say??? How will they react??

[@imogenbrown8664]

I'm still very young and for a long time I thought I was bi, but for a good portion of that I was truly thinking how I thought I was actually a lesbian. I had boyfriends however I didn't feel like it was right, I didn't feel 100% comfortable, but when I had a girlfriend it was amazing. when people ask me it's such a difficult thing to explain

[@imogenbrown8664]

i also guess I wasn't ready to except the fact that I'm a lesbian and was terrified, now I'm so happy that I can be myself without feeling scared.

[@valentinagerberoff856]

when did you actually, realized you were les?

[@imogenbrown8664]

A long time ago I was just in denial

[@rikkeleichtdanielsen6805]

You're really wise... I've been thinking a lot about my sexuality, and I'm pretty sure I'm bi. But who knows?

[@stephdevorah3267]

Omg your eyes are so pretty!

[@adristudios2407]

The background music is literally the McDonald's commercial theme

[@cowboyauntie1046]

Me:mom I'm gay! Mom:no you're not. Me:...ok

[@jaimearambula9501]

I’m taking as many quizzes and watching a bunch of how to tell of your gay videos cause I don’t know if I’m gay or strait

[@bloomuff8983]

I’m 11, and a boy. I used to like girls, but now I have barely any interest in them, and I’ve been really attracted to boys for about a year, and that attraction keeps getting stronger everyday. A few months ago, I identified as bisexual, but now, I have very little attraction to girls, and a very strong attraction to boys. Am I gay?

[@jillstephenson]

I really needed this. Thank you Steph 💜

[@LexxLifts]

No idea if I’m bi or a lesbian and I really don’t want to misidentify cause I know it harms the bi community but... I’ve never really wanted a guy, but I suppose its possible I will one day. This video is very helpful

[@JackieGuff]

I love you for pointing this out please tell this to my brother!!

[@miahill1574]

i came out as bisexual at 12 i think, and now i identify as gay but i always wish i hadent come out and took the time to think about it first, but i like what you said that if i feel like this now its not a phase and who knows what ill be in the future :)