How to Look NATURAL in Front of the Camera FAST (OVER 40)

[@EricHaefele]

I try to lean into the awkward and weird… it’s kind of my thing 😅

[@Steven-Thompson]

You do you 😉

[@marlettamcclain1950]

I love the idea of habit stacking. I’ve read Atomic Habits’ but need to read it again.

[@Steven-Thompson]

It’s brilliant and works

[@kayreeve.author]

True, I remember the tears first time I even took a selfie. Now I am confident putting the camera on, but need work on my speech structure and storytelling.

[@Steven-Thompson]

Hey I hear you, it was because of that conversation we had that ‘Tea with Ste’ was born. Simple practise daily will change all that you mentioned

[@PlantingDiversity]

Great book! Habit stacking is one of my very favourite AuDHD hacks!!! Thanks so much for taking about it 😊🌟

[@Steven-Thompson]

You're so welcome! That might be why it works for me as I’m awaiting an adult diagnosis myself

[@auntbecksbakery6336]

Practice is everything! It’s just like training for a marathon. You have to put in the painful hours or don’t bother signing up for the race! 🌟

[@Steven-Thompson]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s always great to see others who believe in the power of practice and dedication!

[@djpapakuma]

Thank you! I love the idea of stacking!

[@Steven-Thompson]

Cheers, I works,

[@Grammysstorytyme]

Did you PLAN the ice cream guy and loud horn?! If you did, I say it's genius! Great video and good advice. I'm starting practice tomorrow!

[@Steven-Thompson]

Hahaha he is the only thing that breaks through the sound proofing…. Who wants an icecream in a cold October in England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 lol 😂

[@tube-master]

Dangerously awesome and true! 😎

[@Steven-Thompson]

Hahaha, I appreciate you

[@tube-master]

@@Steven-Thompson i appreciate you back 😎

[@rolymiller]

Hi Steven, thank you for the 👍& shout out, loved the call, great to meet you have some of your wisdom poured into my life & business, my head is racing with ideas. 🙌

[@Steven-Thompson]

Very welcome 🙏🏻 It was a pleasure, I appreciate your insights, can’t wait to see you on the journey

[@professordianaskole]

Took your advice you’ve posted over the last few weeks, and made an Indigenous Peoples Day coffee chat style reflective video last night, fairly spontaneous (it was a 5 min highlight version of the 1 hour class I did with my students, just before), did not edit at all (all in one take), and my 24 hour views are tripled with it not even being a full 24 hours yet-plus the watch time is up 10%. This stuff actually works, folks! And what I’m seeing is my viewers (I’m doing tips and topics for college students and other professor) don’t watch a lot of shorts. 🤔

[@Steven-Thompson]

Who would have thought it hey! Would you mind sharing the things you have put into action. I’d love to feature you in a future video, I’m taking a screenshot of this video now #Humbled 🙏🏻

[@professordianaskole]

@@Steven-Thompson I’d be happy to, because I also love helping others. The Indigenous Peoples Day video, I just went with my heart, from my own unique knowledge, and didn’t edit. I did it all in one take and immediately posted it as soon as I was done. And then I walked away from the computer, didn’t fuss with it, and didn’t check it until the next day. Right now, my views are even higher and the watch time is now up 50% more. It works! And I wore my Cherokee turban, too. (Edit: I was thinking maybe I should go back and redo some of my previous videos, but I’ve decided against it, looking at today’s analytics for my channel. I think I’m going to take your advice, that had these results in this one video, and just make related ones for my ‘how-to’ videos on my experiences that led to the ‘how-to’ perspective and see how additional relatable communication does, if that makes sense.)

[@allanfortytwo]

Great video Steve. I need to do the 2 minute 30 day challenge, and read atomic habits..

[@Steven-Thompson]

Thanks for watching! The 2-minute challenge is a fantastic way to build those habits. Good luck with it!

[@lisamichaels3292]

😂 Thank you for the great advice and book recommendation 👍🏻

[@Steven-Thompson]

Any time! I cant wait to see what you do with it Lisa.

[@PrivateTangent]

Also a fan of Atomic Habits. Have the audio book. And also ear deep into Day Trading Attention and Surrounded By Idiots and adore the Heros 2 Journeys seen in soo many movies and books. But its time to acknowledge the hero within.... reluctantly.... (Lee Wicks)

[@Steven-Thompson]

It's awesome to see you diving into such impactful books! Acknowledging the hero within is the first step in your journey. Keep up the great work!

[@realpain84]

thanks for upload!

[@Steven-Thompson]

No problem! What resonated?

[@realpain84]

@@Steven-Thompson practice is the key!

[@KymoKyms]

I’d love to start a channel but my face has ruined my life. I cannot show my face, it is scarred and I don’t know how to go forward. Can I wear a mask? Any advice welcome 😢

[@marlettamcclain1950]

You might be surprised. I’ll bet there are many others with scarring or disfigurations. Don’t let it hold you back. Use it to help others. Think about people who have lost limbs or are paralyzed and how they overcome their disability. I am 100% confident you will do well.

[@vivianhudacek1556]

I’m sure your reaction is stronger than what others would have. We are all our own worst critics. I was horrified to see myself on video recently as I was practicing filming. I had no idea I looked so ancient & wrinkled, how prominent my acne scars are. The harsh midday sun did nothing to help. So I didn’t post it. (Haven’t posted a thing yet.) This morning I did a crazy thing: made a video after walking my dog-had bed head, no makeup, jacket on over my pajamas. I figured I’d just invite the comments right off the bat (when I finally figure out how to post/what to do/thumbnail, etc.). I told people I was expecting harsh remarks about my appearance, content, skills. I’m guessing my acknowledgment will somewhat diffuse those remarks. Made me feel better anyway. So what if people say harsh stuff? Doesn’t make me any less a person. Same is true for you! The other option is to make videos that are faceless. Best wishes!

[@Steven-Thompson]

Bravo, embrace yourself and congrats on the brave step

[@marlettamcclain1950]

@@vivianhudacek1556 I agree with you 100%!!!

[@Steven-Thompson]

I agree with @vivianhudacek1556 we are our own biggest critics. My advice is to practise in private, my training Courage Before Confidence is helping thousands, I’m sure it will help you too www.bigdaddydigital.com/couragebeforeconfidence

[@thetraveltitan]

Do you have the other channel Patriot?

[@Steven-Thompson]

Do you mean Patreon?

[@seanhenriques808]

Great video mate, but that was a serious attack of gas at the end lol

[@Steven-Thompson]

Well, I guess that just adds some extra "gas" to the content! Who knew I’d be so full of surprises?

[@mrdanvant]

I always find it start talking weirdly and not like I normally talk like?

[@Steven-Thompson]

It’s common, this will help www.bigdaddydigital.com/couragebeforeconfidence

[@AaronOverEverything]

Where does the baphomet come into play? Is that needed? Is that what this is all about?!

[@Steven-Thompson]

I’m sorry I have no idea what you mean, I even Googled the word and I still don’t understand how it connects to anything I’ve said in the video. Feel free to share more context

[@Jackiewhigham]

Great video! I'm used to hearing my voice but seeing mysekf on camera 🫣 but I have been practising because I know I'll get used to it but I like the way you described it. Also I will start your 30 day challenge today and speak on how I'm feeling to get used to speaking off the cuff. Hope you have a great day 😀

[@Steven-Thompson]

Love that, and love that you are ‘taking back your power’ too! Please keep me updated!