How to LOVE Your Short Natural Hair | confidence after your BIG CHOP | Nia Hope

[@fatib3604]

I did my big chop a month and a half ago, at first I was to shy to wear me hair. I decided to embrace my hair for what it is. I styled it, did my edges and all. I was absolutely in love with myself and my growth in such little time. I went to thanksgiving dinner with all my family, and was completely put on the spot. My cousin, laughed in my face and made hurtful comments in front of everyone. Needless to say, I am so heartbroken and embarrassed. He ended his remarks by saying I needed that laugh today. Im mad at myself because I know it shouldn’t affect me this bad, I’m balling my eyes out y’all. I feel so small, like all my life my hair has been a way for them to bring me down. But thank you for this video, I’m gonna shake back. I just needed a pick me up.

[@debraboldan7372]

Your cousin is a jerk

[@MoTalks]

I big chopped in September. I have big, wide-set eyes, round face, thick lips and nose and used my long hair as a beauty security blanket. I finally decided life is too short to be hung up on hair! I cut it low like yours and I LOVE IT! people are shocked but I don't care. It's the best decision I've made in a long time. I'll take freedom over hair any day! Keep being awesome.

[@NiaHope]

YAS! You are beaming with confidence and I love that!! #GETFREE

[@naydenise1681]

I'm sure you look beautiful. I felt the same you are describing. I look back on the days I wore long wigs and I feel sort of crazy...LOL...

[@terrisoutherland7492]

Monique Caradine me too!! I love my short hair!! I’m free!!

[@MoTalks]

Terri southerland it's movement! 😁

[@foxxcgirl]

Your features sounds beautiful!!! Give me some of those lips!!

[@gwen56ify]

Just diagnosed wi th breast cancer. Was scared of losing my long locks. Thank you for giving me the confidence to get rid of them. Will be getting a getting a buzz cut this weekend Thanks for the pep talk

[@NiaHope]

So happy that this video could help a bit! Praying for you as you go through your healing process 💕

[@ashleyjohnson6579]

I am 3 weeks into my big chop. and I wear wigs bc I lack the confidence. but I'm getting there. your awesome and I love your videos.

[@NiaHope]

Yes!! Wigs can be a LIFESAVER while you’re building up your confidence. Thank you mamas!! 😊😊💕💕

[@nope-go5im]

I’m the same, 3 weeks in and I’ve only worn my short hair out three times!

[@empresserica]

Same here

[@lakithagoss897]

Get some bright scarves and colorful earrings. These will surely build your confidence.

[@tlhalefangmatlhakola1059]

Girl please dont enjoy your short hair i have short hair and looooooove it

[@vanessa_the_mindset_maven]

Earrings, flowers, bracelets, and rings... Play up your Feminine😘

[@DajiaStar]

So true

[@marquitacoleman9461]

Just cut my hair to a number 2 and I love everything about it... down to the structure of my face,nose, and eyes.... I’m getting slot of compliments not that I care but I’m more confident now than ever.... ladies embrace your beauty,., hair doesn’t make you. YOU make you! Blessings to all Black is beautiful

[@tinajackson5450]

I had surgery on my brain and was a little afraid to get my hair cut. I found a good barber and she laid my cut out. So I feel like a Queen at soon to be 60. I love your cut too. :)

[@sandrarush1674]

You go Queen! Love this ! You are an awesome!!

[@l.d.4477]

How are you doing Ms. Tina? I hope you're doing well. ❤

[@maluvfla]

Due to Lupus and fibromyalgia, I had to cut my locs of 16 yrs. I watched your videos for a whole month to muster the courage to cut my locs. I cried sitting on the barber chair while he was cutting the rest of the locs I had left in my head. You made me realized long hair short hair, we are still beautiful. Thank you!

[@marvettedgordon7731]

I too have lupus plus, a scar at the front of my hairline because they had to cut my head open plus, a dose of chemo and so much more.,...but to God be the glory I am Alive. I had to shave off all of my hair, it took some getting use to but this video helps. So go rock your short hair it's fun!

[@foxxcgirl]

I’m sure you still look beautiful

[@sandrarush1674]

@@marvettedgordon7731 Yes, we are all beautiful, rock what you got!!

[@TheCocoKayyy]

I just recently cut all my hair off and I can’t believe it ! You were one of the main inspirations and I can’t thank you enough 😘

[@NiaHope]

Kea So Happy I could be an inspiration to you!! 💕💕💕

[@janiyiaholliday]

I’m 15 and I shaved my head 4 days ago , I love it even though I was nervous at first about the reactions I would receive at school overall everyone loves it ☺️

[@zee495]

Now you're 18!🤗💕

[@Niamirismom]

I STAY bald, tapered, and cutting my fro! Lol. I love it! Ladies, you can wear any style you want if confidence is your accessory!😘

[@NiaHope]

Haha you are meee!! "Confidence is your accessory" - totally agree!! xoxoxo

[@DajiaStar]

True!

[@jasmineowen7443]

I went for the big chop when I turned 50 and I have never looked back. Loving the videos.

[@NiaHope]

Love it!!

[@tonya2019]

I have been rocking my short cut for 10 years 👏🏾👏🏾. I love it, have not thought about going back. Evertime I think about the hair salon it gives me anxiety lol. My Husband LOVES IT. Damn what people say. SHOW YOUR BEAUTIFUL FACES!!😊

[@anitajosephs6280]

Tomorrow it will be a week since i chopped my locs off and went the barber's...i am absolutely loving having my hair short! You are right it is so freeing and i feel like my faces pops with my hair short...I would go as far to say thati feel more sexier with short hair than i ever did before! 😍

[@NiaHope]

Anita Josephs I know for a fact I feel more beautiful with short hair so you’re not alone lol!!

[@keya6534]

I am going cut my hair again. I did it once and everyone said I was too fat and my face was too big. I am working on my confidence now. Thank you for this video.

[@mominor6913]

TELL THEM TO KISS YO ENTIRE ASS.

[@SheISMelissaTierra]

You were the reason I finally went through with chopping my hair off, and you've been the reason I stop regretting my decision of doing so. Im going to make myself be confident in this statement of chopping my hair off. Your page is going to give me exactly what I need! Thanks sis

[@abelle5]

I just love love love these types of posts. It’s refreshing and inspiring... i went from relaxed to locs to bald and this is by far the best decision!!!! Less time consuming...

[@NiaHope]

Thank you!! It’s definitely low maintenance and that’s probably my favorite part hahah

[@nknight5228]

It's very liberating and beautiful. It builds your self confidence even more. I have done it 3x within 13 yrs. Now I'm on the growing my hair out journey. Im so happy to see all you beautiful sisters making hair videos and showcasing all phases of beauty. Its been a long time in the making. Thank you.

[@corie4993]

Wow, I wish I found your channel when I did my first big chop because I struggled with confidence. Fast Forward 5 years later, I big chopped again due to post partum hair shedding and let me tell you, I absolutely love my hair now. You are beautiful and I enjoy your videos. New Subbie! Blessings!

[@onthatilemokou2424]

So I had my big chop exactly a week ago. I needed this because I've somewhat been regretting chopping my big fro and all, so THANK YOU so much, needed this reassurance as I did it for myself and Ill adjust in due time as you said :) feeling all sorts of positive and my confidence is uplifted after watching this :) Also you're so gorgeous wow !

[@NiaHope]

So happy to hear this because that was my exact intention and hope that this video would spark confidence for those who needed it!! 💕💕😊😊

[@candisbrown1932]

I did my big chop a week ago and I already had great self esteem but I want to say since cut my hair off it has added an extra 2000 points to to my self-esteem you can’t tell me nothing about myself I’m loving this short hair

[@thebalancedluxlife]

I absolutely needed to see this video on today! I just big chopped yesterday, and I loved it the first day then today I woke up feeling like an ugly little boy. 😢 I’m trying to be confident with this new look. Your video gave me some things to consider. Mainly: stop the negative self talk! Thank you 😍😊

[@kylaedwards2863]

24hrs into my big chop, and I'm obsessed with how much I feel so empowered by it. Here to see how to add to this. Thank you for the great advice!!! I encourage all women who have thought about it seriously to go for it. 💕💕😌

[@Reeree0219]

Kyla edwards mine 6hrs ago🥺

[@milagrosmilliner]

What beautiful, positive energy you have! Thanks for posting this inspiring video. I have a curly pixie and I big chopped almost a year ago. I’ve been wearing it short since and I love it. There are days I do have mixed feelings about the length, and your suggestions were on point! You are a beautiful lady! Thanks for the positivity!!❤️

[@yvonneedwards6831]

Really struggling with having gradually lost much of my hair due to stress. It's now natural and am building up the courage to have it precision cut at the barbers. Meanwhile am wearing a wig to work, but worrying about that first morning arriving natural - questions, questions! Glad I found your channel. Looking forward to learning how to step out with confidence. xx

[@debraboldan7372]

Hi Nia You are on point!!! I LOVE my short natural hair, the best thing I ever did was go natural and short

[@ponciakaneshiro2758]

U are my inspiration girl, and I have already 3 month since I made my big shop,still enjoying my short cut.

[@elainebmack]

Good video. Upbeat and positive. I hear you about hats. I knit my own hats, and they really are fun when your hair is short; everything from little beanies, to berets. to slouchy hats. Scarves do a lot too. I also love earrings, but minimal makeup. Lipstick is nice. I agree with you that short hair shows off feminine facial features best, especially as women get older and their bone structure becomes more distinct. .

[@amandygunns]

Love this video. I’ve had short natural hair on and off (mostly on) since 1992. I feel more feminine with short hair, makeup or no makeup.

[@mikki273]

I did the chop in 1992 and haven't looked back😘

[@blossompaige2837]

Im cutting my hair all off today. I am so incredibly nervous but Im very excited as well. Ive been wanting to do this for 3 years and I feel like my confidence is finally strong enough to get it done. Thank you so much for these videos ✨✨

[@mercyoruwari2332]

I absolutely loved this video. You might of been talking about short hair but I got a general confidence boost. Nothing hotter than a i don't care what you think attitude. Thank you gorgeous lady 😁

[@shareemcful]

Absolute gorge with hair or without. Beautiful inside and out. I hope you continue being an inspiration to us natural sistas. Much Love.

[@livingwithnieceywhatsup9442]

Love your attitude about short natural hair. You are a great inspiration to us naturalistas!

[@NiaHope]

Thank you!! I’m so happy I’ve been able to inspire you! ☺️💕💕

[@edwigekafui1865]

Thanks for the advise, I'm about to cut my hair short and i'm so scared but you gave me hope

[@aquastar5314]

I just did again for the 4th time and I'm LOVING IT..... we are bold and have nthn to hide behind

[@beyondallreason-du4pq]

The online sister i never had❤..thank you❤

[@amaribryant2435]

I just cut my hair last week, and i still cant believe i did it. It still shocks me when i see my reflection sometimes lol. But Im glad I did it because my hair was so unhealthy and had a lot of heat damage. I love your videos and thanks for the tips about how to wear your confidence!

[@naydenise1681]

Yaaaaaaaa...I voted for you to post a video like this. I love you so much....You are so amazing. I recently shaved my hair off this past December. (To grow my hair back healthy) I too have the same situation where you might get a compliment and the person will follow up saying "I couldn't do that". I will admit I wore a wig maybe 2 weeks after my chop and then one day I put that wig to the side. Now I wear my short hair with confidence and I feel so good. The great thing about cutting your hair is you are also cutting out negative people. If they can't love and support you with really short hair forget them. I can go on and on but thank you for posting this. You have my heart.

[@NiaHope]

Nay Denise I love you back!! Yesss, once you get to that point where you’re completely confident it feels SO good!! This was one of the top 3 videos people wanted to see, so I had to make it good for you all hahaha 💕💕😊😊

[@naydenise1681]

We are so grateful :)

[@MarquittaY]

I get this ALLLL the time! Some ladies really want to do it but are afraid!

[@pythomas29]

I’m at this point of having no choice, but you look beautiful AND THE HIGHLIGHT IS GORGEOUS!!

[@being_favour9532]

Thank you so much for this video ❤️ I cut my hair in January and my baby hairs refused to grow after using so many products so it just made me feel less confident with my new look but this video helped me

[@marajones1828]

Got my big chop today with the tapered fade and I don’t recognize myself but I’m so happy I found your vid. I feel both sexy but also scared cuz I feel like I look less feminine but my boyfriend loves it!

[@maddieholland6038]

it’s the bad comments you get or the looks you haven’t and even if your walking past someone they just look because it’s normal to look but my brain things like what are they saying? do they think it’s ugly? do they love it? are they wandering why is it short?

[@rakayia6200]

Just did my big chop and your videos really help me to embrace this new refreshed me! THANK YOU!!!!

[@Babiigirl1130]

I did the big chop last week and im not so comfortable as yet but you are helping me...

[@gailhowardfinney723]

You are such a gift! I needed to hear all of this!

[@ciaraevans7158]

Doing a big chop after having locks all my life just feel like its time to switch it up and honestly I’m nervous to hear the comments, as i said I’ve had locs ALL MY LIFE but you’re video definitely screamed at me to go for it and not care after all hair does grow back. THANK YOU -subscribes-

[@vampiraalien]

I got chopped NYE & I was blonde now I'm Pink!! Hadn't been in years I love it!! Alot of your videos have helped me along the way already so thank you so much😘😘😘

[@NiaHope]

I'm kinda jealous lol I kinda wish I had tried rose gold hair a few months ago!! xoxox thank you! :)

[@Amanda-Jane]

I've had a buzz cut for over a year now, no fault of my own though, I loss my edges and middle part of my hair, so I had to cut it all off. But loving it now, less expensive, no more hair saloon ❤

[@tashannawiggins5150]

I finally chopped my hair off and my husband loves it so much. He says that I’m even more sexy and natural . So thank you for giving me the confidence and my sexy back....

[@tojusunmola4959]

your 2nd point wanted to stop me from cutting my hair, I did my big chop yesterday and I love it!!!!!!!!!! I can finally touch my bare head

[@karlilee6269]

I needed this and love this ❤❤❤ all of these tips are definitely worth it 💯💯👏🏽😁

[@ceeeceeedickson6173]

Your hair is getting so think... It looks really good!😀

[@NiaHope]

ceeeceee dickson thanks so much!! 😊😊💕💜

[@chocolateserenity]

So grateful I found your channel!!! Thank u Goddess! 👑

[@alexismonroe1840]

yass I'am 67 yrs old I just got tired of trying to keep my hair up I would not even comb it most times Iwas just tired got it cut off I never felt so free with the gray and and all

[@thabisamoruri5625]

Thank you so much for this ❤️🥺I went bald in December and I rocked my head and everything was fine people didn't make comments and stuff like that some actually hyped me up. Then I got braids , and it was harder to rock my twa because now I was used to myself with braids , however I just did it . I cut off fmy braids and went back to natural and some people had negative comments while some were positive ❤️✨ but what matters most is what I think...thanks for the video Watching this in 2022

[@unoveii3523]

Planning on cutting my hair....

[@RMiy13]

I'm in 7th grade and I cut my hair I like it but i have low self-esteem and i people have their opinion and they hurt to be honest and I wanna get through all the hate and I'm trying to don't care what people think

[@BibicheL]

I just did my big chop today and so so scare to go to work on Monday and I wish I have a wig buy hopefully will be courageous enough to rock it love your videos thank u so so much

[@tee8248]

I invested in some nice diamond earrings!

[@SUZIEandIAMHIGHLYFAVORED]

Thank you for this!!! I am thinking about cutting my hair but I’m scared! I suck at styling! Saw your videos with your short hair and I am loving it! Might not look like yours but I am going to do it!

[@maddieholland6038]

you look absolutely stunning, love your hair i feel like i’m at the akward stage where it’s growing back but i don’t think i’ve even hit it if you know what i mean!!!!!!!

[@khaleesithegreat2622]

Big chopping today soooooooo excited

[@ponciakaneshiro2758]

Ur video is a blessing.

[@julialawrence179]

Nia, you are truly an inspiration to me and many beautiful women out there, I have lupus and have been trying for years to save my hair, I finally got tired of seeing it all over my pillows and everywhere in the house, came across you on KZbin and sae how gorgeous you were with your cut, I got up and immediately went to the barber, best decision i ever made!! No turning bk for me, sorry i waited so long, plus I have more money to spend on my health and more time yo rest.

[@dorothyturner2244]

You are my inspiration! I cannot count how many times I have watched your videos over and over. Luv Luv all your looks. Going to get the big chop! Cutting out the creamy crack! You are beautiful looking forward to more videos! :)

[@jiranika]

just big chopped... I love it!!!!

[@math1181]

It's been 3 days after I chopped it all off....I Am completely terrified of going to class and I have class in 2 hours 😢😢

[@math1181]

I didn't go😢

[@flowertaj2297]

Oh dear :/ you could just wear a headband to make u feel more feminine xx

[@jeanettebrown5419]

This was very encouraging. I'm currently relaxed with some new growth and I want to do the big chop, just because I'm ready for something new and feel inspired to come out of my comfort zone. I'm feeling iffy about my facial features but I want to do it anyway. Nuff love from Jamaica 🇯🇲. Thanks Nia

[@NiaHope]

Jeanette Brown you’re so welcome!!

[@toni5810]

Go for it!

[@misskeyla21]

I struggle for a long time wanting to cut my hair because I didn't want to look like a stud lol. After I turned 40 I was like f-it and I cut it and I love, love, love it! The best decision I made. I finally found a bomb ass barber I just dyed my hair red and I can't wait to dye it again

[@florina2257]

I did my big chop yesterday and I'm really loving it♥️♥️ but it took me months to finally do it coz I've been very hesitant 😂

[@taiskye7418]

Girl I love your hair

[@NiaHope]

Thank you!💕💕

[@JJoelle]

I remember when I had my short cut! OMG I loved it immediately and it was so easy. These are great tips! My head is super big and I STILL loved my baldie cut lol

[@NiaHope]

Hahaha Yessss, most of us have "big heads" lolol Still gonna flourish regardless!! xoxox

[@artmieseelizabeth8074]

That second tip is hard but my husband makes me feel beautiful

[@nalish.8026]

I cut my hair like 3 months ago. And they grew like crazy From Namibia

[@MyMbarr]

Cute...Your short cut looks great!

[@lillielewis3165]

I love your ENERGY new to your channel😊 I'm Lillie from Philly😊anyway I cut my hair during quarantine I was that person you described all of those reasons were mine, but then I threw that Bullshit out the window with my hair😅. Thank you for your words of encouragement. Stay Fly Queen.😊

[@dri_driella1227]

I just cut my hair three hours ago it’s the same as yours lol I love it but I’m worried about wearing my hair out tomorrow going to work.

[@Reeree0219]

I just cut my hair 6 hours ago...it was scary since I have 4c hair but I don’t know how to feel about it either ..I have to go to work today and go to school tomorrow..I hope your confidence is okay now ! Same for mine soon❤️

[@misskeyla21]

This video is so dope I'm subscribing

[@sandrabarnes6653]

Thanks Nia! ❤️

[@CarpeDNO]

Hi there! I wasn't sure if you were going to see my previous comment on your hair loss video about 4 weeks ago, but I wanted to comment on here because I saw in your skincare videos that you were taking vitamin A, and I wanted to let you know any source of hair loss/thinning can be caused by an overconsumption of vitamin A. You probably just have to decrease your dosage of vitamin A and your hair growth should regulate itself! Just wanted to let you know that either way you look beautiful no matter the length of your hair.

[@NiaHope]

Thank you! I’ve actually adjusted the amount of Zinc I’m taking, but not vitamin a. So far my hair has been growing back extremely well, but mostly do to the hair growth serum I’ve been using for over a month now (I just changed my Zinc intake a few days ago). I appreciate your advice!! 💕

[@kamripinkney8982]

awesome tips! I just big chopped and I love it! 🤗

[@sunshinenurse1]

I thank you for this video I went short and loving it

[@Celestial_Cha]

All of the negative stuff is what I keep telling my self 😂 she literally named both of the things I say to my self

[@Astrid-88]

I got my hair cut today. It's something between a buzz cut and pixi (I wanted a buzz cut but my hairdresser opted for a pixi since I am a girl so we met in the middle). It's my first time having hair that short so I couldn't know any better. I like how my face looks in that haircut but I dislike the haircut - it looks like an overgrown buzz cut and has some parts that stand out too far from my head, changing my head shape - they look like bed hair and I didn't even slep yet! I am thinking about getting them fixed myself as soon as I get my hands on some proper clippers (the hairdresser refused to use clippers on the top of my head because "it would be too short" and I don't have money for another hairdresser for a while). But there is one thing that bothers me even more. I was wearing a pony tail for many years so my hair have very visible parting. It didn't get away after the cut, there is visible "bald" line where the parting was. Will it go away eventually? Or am I stuck with a "bald" line on top of my head? I am not sure what to think about the short haircut because the parting and the "overgrown, bedhair like" parts bother me too much. However what I found out for now - the haircut makes my face prettier and my eyes bigger, it also makes me want to get my ears pierced (I never had any piercing before, didnt want to, didn't feel like I need it). People complimented me, my dad even got inspired and decided to get a buzz cut too (the hairdresser used the clippers on his whole head because he is "a man"). Some people also said I look like a famous person but they can't pinpoint who it is, "some kind of traveller". I was feeling very confident at first, unlill I looked closely in a mirror at home and I saw the "overgrown" parts for hair and the parting line. Also - with the haistyle my neck, breast and belly look bigger (which isnt a good thing) and my clothes don't fit me like they did when I had long hair. I hope my new look will grow on me after getting some nigth sleep... I wanted to have short hair. I washed them 3 times today, because of how easy they are to wash and dry now.

[@fredaaa-]

Just did my big chop two days ago... despite a lot of people telling me it suits me I’m struggling to like it 😭😭 especially having relaxed my hair for like 20 years, I’m 24 next week!

[@JW-bk9qq]

Helpful video. Thank you , Nia!😘💗

[@nickierasberry6376]

Right on Nia👍👍

[@NiaHope]

Thank you :)

[@mayaasmamaw4460]

You're amazing!!! It helped me so much❤

[@dedemparker]

❤️❤️😍😘 thank you! Love your channel.

[@Blackinfluencer237]

Luv u girl

[@kyra_myi]

Yeass , I love the cut your so bold .

[@effiejames9129]

I needed this! Thank you!

[@BrownSugaFoodie]

you are so pretty 😍😍😍😍

[@hellv8041]

Love your videos. Please keep On

[@jinellecaesar7214]

Did my big chop in October last year everyone love love love it. Was not expecting that especially the gays..lol

[@goldeng4889]

Jinelle Caesar did my big chop recently too and yep,it’s like a green light for horny lesbians

[@KimontheWeb]

Love your bronzer!

[@sbuie78]

I love this. I just recently did the big chop and i love it. Im now learning fun way to keep it spicy.. Thank to you. I would like to know what type of eye lashes do you wear?

[@shonylclaudia7370]

I needed this❤

[@wendyyao7837]

I have low hair like you but its not as soft as yours looks like so I'll really like you to make a viseo on how to soften our hairs

[@lotus8285]

Love this video!!!