How to Maintain Healthy Relationships? I Mohanji

In this video, Mohanji talks about how to build lasting healthy relationships, nurture heart-to-heart connections, and what is the best gift you can give to someone.
00:00 Intro
00:12 How to build successful relationships?
02:21 Why putting boundaries in a relationship doesn't work?
03:44 What is ultimate freedom?
05:17 Detachment or suppression?
06:59 Why are personal flexibility and stability important for any relationship?
08:56 Why we must avoid expectations?
10:26 Mohanji explains how he talks to people when they come to see him
11:13 Do we nurture a heart-to-heart connection?
11:57 Conditions and bindings
13:30 What is the highest gift you can give to someone?
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[@radhakrishnan2118]

Exactly that's what I think always and I live like this. But for the first time hearing from a person.... feel so so blessed to listen to You Mohanji. Almighty made me connected to You. So grateful to the Lord

[@radhikapk5517]

Pranam🙏 Mohanji🙏 my dear Master🙏

[@zuzana832]

Samo ljubav...HVALA VAM....

[@gordanakrasic739]

Baba🔥 Maa ❤️ Om Sai Ram I love you infinitely Mohanji Shirdi Sai Baba 💞💞💞💞💞

[@nilanthithanuja2541]

Namaskar Mohanji! Thank You so Much! Jay Sai Ram! 💐💐💐🙏

[@rajeevanc3692]

Pranam gurudev

[@indu.chandranchandran4787]

So much clarity dear father❤️ Pranams at your lotus feet 🙏

[@SP-pt9bq]

Love you Mohanji. It feels Shivji speaking❤️

[@arfloctions5313]

Absolute wisdom and a guiding light for all of us in how we should be looking at relationships. So deep yet so simple yet so hard to put in practice for most people. Reason being we are all insecure with ourselves and try to address that through our relationships. If you love someone, set them free! Thanks Mohanji! 🙏🏽❤️

[@anuchawla2722]

Love you always Mohanji ❤️🌷

[@jamesjosheph3006]

I had asked this question, and Mohanji replied eleven months before. Pranam guruji 🙏👍🌳

[@andal117]

Incredible sir!! Om Sai

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Love you Mohanji 💗❤💗

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Jai Mohanji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@bhandarigracy]

Always grateful 😇😇jai sai😊😊

[@OWFwithus]

Feeling better..... Om Sai Ram 🌿 Pranamas Mohanji

[@tarunsingh9524]

Jai mohanji ❤️🧿📿

[@mrinmoyjyotisarma2818]

Pranaam Mohanji 🙏

[@mamatashetty5363]

Thankyou so much Mohanji You gave me so much knowledge about freedom I had so much confusion about freedom of children,myself and ofcourse relationships around me Thankyou again

[@kalaraghavan2022]

Love you M. Absorbing all that you say and walk the path of liberation.

[@prathibhabhat2182]

Gratitude mohanji...your every wisdom share is empowering 💫

[@chutuduttagupta7485]

I am thankful Mohonji. Your advise is showing right path. My Regards .

[@usharamachandran3162]

Very much enlightening. Thank you ji.

[@radhakrishnanpanicker810]

Thank you Mohanji 🙏

[@pritamadsule6919]

REALLY VERY GREATFUL TO HEAR YOU 💟💟💟💟🌺🌺🌺🌺

[@sambily08]

Thank you Mohanji, felt like something Iwas waiting to hear for Years.

[@temporarymail2619]

Omsai

[@andal117]

I pray to Baba that i should get a chance to meet u!

[@meenakshielangovan4286]

Excellent explanation 👌

[@archanakulkarni6707]

Today understood the real meaning of freedom. Great🌷💐🌹

[@prathibhabhat2182]

Mohanji when we listen to you ...its the revelation of higher realities enhanced space we experience within...absolutely selfempowering💫🙏💙 Love and grace 💛💜💛

[@jovanazivkovic3859]

Whole philosophy of good life . 😇 Thank you ❤

[@PeaceChanel]

Peace.. Shalom.. Salam.. Namaste and Thank You for your efforts 🙏🏻 😊 🌈 ✌ 🌷 ☮️ ❤️

[@ramasreedhara2831]

So beautiful 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

[@snigdhasinha6129]

Om Sai Ram

[@archanakulkarni6707]

Jai gurudev🙏 Thank you so much for explaining beautifully how to be detached & maintain healthy relationship.

[@mamtaashra9]

OMSAIRAM 🙏 Mohanji, Very grateful and Thankful for your messages. You are inspiring and touching so many lives. OMSAIRAM 🙏

[@saikahealinghome]

Love you Sir! Shat Shat Naman!

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Beautiful 👍🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 🌺🙏🏻🌺

[@marianf.lahrudi3958]

Love you Baba 💕

[@jyothivibes6394]

Thank you Mohanji.. Quiet relaxed.. Great knowledge on freedom🌷

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Pranaam Master ji ❤🙏

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Om Sri Sai Ram

[@binasworld5642]

Sooo true om sai ram 🙏

[@amitagrawal3994]

Things are not same for everyone, though I really liked the way you described things but why don't people understand that we are not programmed robots, we all are not same, we all must understand that every person goes through many different circumstances and we all must try to understand that first and have to act accordingly 😊

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[@chutuduttagupta7485]

So true Mohonji.But need more practice . You explain cleanly. Please bless me.🙏

[@MohanjiOfficial]

Dear Chutu, the Master always listens to the sincere request of a devotee. Please connect to Mohanji from your heart. He will surely hear you. With love, Team Mohanji.

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[@andal117]

Om Sai Ram. Can u pl tell if there r any ongoing cinstruction of Baba mandir in or around bang?

[@MohanjiOfficial]

@andal117, to our knowledge, Mohanji Foundation is not currently constructing any Sai temple in Bangalore. With love, Team Mohanji.

[@TheGandeevi]

I lost my father recently due to an illness,. I was obstructing him freedom every minute. Like no coffee ,no tea, no this one , no that one , as he is in medication . I should not have felt ownership , possesiveness,, trying to buy him, selfishly own him 😥rather i wiluld have given him freedom to live as he is .. so that he would have lived fee more years 😥😥😥😥

[@MohanjiOfficial]

Dear Gandeevi, Thank you for opening your heart. Please do not let guilt paralyse you. Leave the past behind and move on. You loved your father and he knew it. Accept yourself and your relationship as it was. You did your best. You have a precious, rich experience and remember positive things. Past is finished, futire is yet to be. Life is now, open a fresh page and keep flowing. Have nothing to do with guilt or regret. With love, Team Mohanji

[@TheGandeevi]

@@MohanjiOfficial thanks a lot for this reply guruji. I am totally devastated and i and feeling totally lost since then . As u mentioned i was dwelling in the past and they are coming as flashbacks,nightmares and negative thoughts that interfere my day to day life . I am unable to concentrate on anything more than few minutes. My thoughts , my guilt is pulling me upside down. When i first saw your msg mid night , with no consciousness due to sleep , i was feeling this message was a dream. I was unable to read it because my consciousness had shifted away from my normal perception of reality Again went to sleep ,again some of my brain centers were giving a hint , as u refered me as 'gandeevi'. I re-read this message more than 10 times . I will come out of this rut (guilt , worthless) as soon as possible and try to live a vivid life again . I live by example by executing the video(feeling ownership , possesiveness,, trying to buy him, selfishly own him) . I will start living life magnonmoulsy and let other live the same way Thanks a million again Guruji, as ur msg and videos are creating, and creating new experiences in some areas of my brain .

[@Suv33rRamlal]

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[@akhilmundra3113]

If you have a lot of possessiveness because say your partner wears a little exposing clothes and you cannot express the same to your partner as you had done earlier and they have got frustrated. How can you ensure that you can still express without suppressing and other person frustrating ? If they don’t agree to what you say, what should we do knowing that they still are adapted to that lifestyle. If you don’t listen, would it mean that you are still suppressing by not expressing the discomfort anymore which is ever present.

[@MohanjiOfficial]

Dear Akhil, please understand that the only person that we can reliably be sure we can change is ourselves; that too may take some effort on our part! If you have already expressed your opinion to your partner and know that they do not agree with you, then repeatedly saying the same thing is unlikely to help matters between you further. It may be easier for you to work on yourself and clear your own 'possessiveness'. Doing the Power of Purity meditation may help you with this. It is free to download on www.mohanji.org. With love, Team Mohanji.

[@akhilmundra3113]

@@MohanjiOfficial thanks a lot Mohanji for your reply. I agree to the fact that you can work on your part rather than asking them to do so as things are likely to go sour due to constant nudging. An afterthought that comes to my mind is - if you are constantly in a stage of change with an objective of unconditional love, would it be feasible to walk away from the relationship as it hasn’t matured. Will that amount to expectations again ? Because this way I honestly don’t know if any relationships would be ideal to be in because everyone I know is going through these phases in their relationships. Further, if the objective of unconditional love exists, should the relationships be continued even at stages when you feel your partner inherent’s nature is to get closer to male friends whereas on the contrary they expect you to understand and manage your steps carefully with female friendships.

[@MohanjiOfficial]

Dear Akhil, Please watch this recent video of Mohanji, which will help you understand the real meaning of love: kzbin.info/www/bejne/laWzloRsp6uCqs0 With love, Team Mohanji.

[@akhilmundra3113]

@@MohanjiOfficial I have watched the video and it’s absolutely lovely to see how Mohanji has elucidated the concept. I just have a follow up question - can we change someone through love and they eventually hears our viewpoint and make that change themselves. In simple words, how mindset changing takes permanent effect in our personality which would mean that we ourselves have changed the inherent nature we are born with. Can we do so for us and our beloved ?

[@MohanjiOfficial]

Dear Akhil, Mohanji says that everything that we experience externally is a reflection of how we are internally. When we change how we are inside, our outside will have to change. With love, Team Mohanji.

[@rajeevanc3692]

Pranam gurudev