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@MountaintravelerEddie7 ай бұрын
If she regrets losing me, then she fucked up….and I move on, don’t care. She should have thought about it better. I don’t have time to waste
@doubleJJ017 ай бұрын
This was the best video , I watched before , I save to my like but its gone thank you for re-uploading , you're soo beautiful ❤
@AnthonyManzio3 ай бұрын
None of your video work in getting a women full of packed fraud you tuber all a big waste of time. No monitors bs loads of videos.
@HOLLASOUNDS3 ай бұрын
Everything was going good, and then She said joking banter calling each other names and I called her a bitxx and that was it she stormed off and that was it, the end.
@CarlosVelarde-gy3ys2 ай бұрын
@christiectherapy to be fair when it comes to a women she will never care losing me even if I was good and she betrayed me and I let her go she will never regret and look back she Wil move on and do the simple think woman know how to do she find somebody else and never.look back so her greeting I doutdt that andnme.goi after her is a wasted
@fallen5467 ай бұрын
A man's best revenge is to live well. Level up boys. Make sure she regrets her choices.
@thisdyingsoul764 ай бұрын
Right. Never take them back if they don't appreciate you when they have you. You're better off to find someone that appreciates you in the moment .
@jjmst554 ай бұрын
@@thisdyingsoul76 Or maybe she just didnt like him so she regrets nothing
@thisdyingsoul764 ай бұрын
@jjmst55 if it was someone you just met and had only been with for a short time, maybe. But if you were with them for several years or even decades... most likely she had feelings for the guy at some point. And if their motivation was money or status, the best revenge is to thrive in those areas well beyond what she expected.
@TrueHunter9994 ай бұрын
Agreed
@PspTomisiАй бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
@laurawheeler-px6ozАй бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
@PspTomisiАй бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@laurawheeler-px6ozАй бұрын
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@PspTomisiАй бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@erickonlineeАй бұрын
search Andrew Tate breakup in youtube, hit the gym, it will go away.
@RobbiJamesVogt4 ай бұрын
She told me she wasn’t attracted to me, yet. She said she hasn’t been for awhile… She also slept with another man during this time and blamed me because I didn’t give her enough space…. Walk away - always walk away…
@losheroes6076Ай бұрын
damn
Ай бұрын
@@RobbiJamesVogt my girl pulled that same garbage. Only thing different. I walked in on them, he was doggy style on her and both looked up at me. You never ever want to see it, even if you do suspect it. In an instant a lesser dude could have f**ked both of them up. I wanted to, but then she wins twice. So I smirked and left. But I was crushed and heartbroken. Worst pain ive ever experienced and still am. But I'm not goin to jail for that tnuc.
@idolbass3 ай бұрын
When someone breaks up with you it means their feelings have changed, you will NEVER talk someone into loving you. You are better off moving on and finding someone who loves and adores you.
@aobasaurus4 ай бұрын
"You have to become the man that you've always known yourself as needing to work towards and the man she never thought you could become" well said
@cheungamh3 ай бұрын
If she moves on to another man in another relationship it’s over . Why would you take back someone that chose to leave you and proceed to try and start another relationship? That’s disgraceful
@StevenThomas-mz8lbАй бұрын
I wasn’t perfect and we had our issues but married for 23 years now divorced 6 years. She has called or face times me every week and often texting multiple times a day, sometimes we don’t talk or text for days or weeks. But she is always the one coming back to me and wants to keep connected. She is Persian and I’m from USA. She divorced me and I let her go, so she got what she chose and we can never be back the same, this is just another relationship with the same person as we age on. 😅 happy to be single again, and I avoid the drama women can bring to a relationship. ❤🙏😉
@chrivera072 ай бұрын
I love it, I never thought about it, she broke up and blame on me for my temperament and walk away, she always had to have the last word and I couldn’t be right for her. I can be the man she wanted for me and myself for good. I am not perfect man but I have flaws which make me human and I accept that. Great topic!
@Isseihyodou3003 ай бұрын
Thank you this help we just broke up this past week and I really don't want to lose her I did anything begging crying anything just for her to make up with me but she didn't I truly genuinely love him for 2years she didn't even think or fight for our relationship and the worse is that I think she's not even sad or depress breaking up with me she's more happy 😊
@bilalarain4632Ай бұрын
i think having a mindset that she'll regret leaving you will not help you in anyway, instead once you walk away, you should not care if she regrets it or not.
@FranciscoQuinonez-tb7wv21 сағат бұрын
Agreed.
@JessicaAnotiiАй бұрын
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
@ShanieceflordiАй бұрын
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
@JessicaAnotiiАй бұрын
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
@ShanieceflordiАй бұрын
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@ShanieceflordiАй бұрын
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
@JessicaAnotiiАй бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
@roho7412 ай бұрын
Yeah, they might regret it later on in some parts of their lives...but given the fact that some of them are beyond saving. I'd say that it would probably happen again over and over and nothing will change at all
@goldfinger-ub3fl3 ай бұрын
Run for the hills guys you deserve soo much more ,, Know your worth! ,,, Do you really wanna get back with someone who's been fucked by another dude? She wasn't thinking of you when she opened her legs for him ,,, Walk away level up and upgrade ,,, In order to grow you have to cut a piece of yourself off ,, Let her regret it live your life on your terms not hers !
@lukalavallee40902 ай бұрын
It's good for the presentation. I was believing I was assisting a Philo college class lecture about : *humans sexual market value fluctuations and it's impacts on couples. But in the end it s just an indirect approach to explain to naive men that YOUR SEXUAL MARKET VALUE IS NOT ENOUGH TO HER AND YOU +OBVIOUSLY+ HAVE TO INCREASE YOURS BY BECOMING *BACK +THE VALUABLE GUY OF HER STANDARDS, HER FANTASYS. AND IF YOU CAN'T SUCCEED forget about it 😂 .
@samwilliam63692 ай бұрын
She got divorce and called me after 6 years... Suddenly..... I chose to be alone till now and I do hold so much love for her that I could never love anyone else..... I am not sure if she is toying with me.... She broke up with me for no reason before getting married..... My heart is in severe pain and afraid of losing her
@josephkush10323 ай бұрын
Couldn't eat or sleep for a week after my partner wanted to leave. The best thing you can do is becoming a person who you can respect and would love
@thisdyingsoul764 ай бұрын
Why take her back when she didn't appreciate you the first time? Better to just move on and let her regret giving you up anyway. After she told me she deserved better, I decided I deserved better. I found better. I get unsolicited updates. I keep telling people I don't care but people seem to think I need to know how she's doing.
@nicksanchez87513 ай бұрын
I left her because I was battling my own demons of mourning losing my mom I didn't wanna hurt her but breaking up hurt her and I didn't see her or talk to her for 3 months and now we started hanging out again but she's hurt from the past im sorry for it we both admit we love each other but she's not ready yet idk what to do because now I know I want to be with her I was my best self with her and I want to give her the best
@paulhanash84113 ай бұрын
This girl is smart!!
@anshul21863 ай бұрын
I've been trying to persuade her for nearly 2 months now, and within that time, I dedicated 1 month to convincing her not fully but for like 1 weeks . LOL
@davidleon4338Ай бұрын
That sounds simpy asf don’t do something like that you throw your dignity down the drain if you do this.
@vitalie964 ай бұрын
I wonder, how old are you, and did you have in your own relationships life-learning negative experience? I am asking because you seem genuine and you are very knowledgeable for your age. I've never met, in the span of about 20-25 years, a woman who could be genuine and truly express her thoughts in a constructive way. Everyone what I've encountered with had the same pattern of saying sweet lies like: you are a good person, everything will be okay. I wish I met truly hones people who could give hones feedback because this is exactly what I was missing because I couldn't understand what I was lacking in order to improve myself.
@lafreeway2 ай бұрын
My wife started an emotional affair with her professor at a local college. I asked her to leave and then moped around the house not eating, not sleeping. After about a month, I casually bumped into a younger woman and she has been coming over a couple of times a week. Said she thinks about me all the time. I am no longer thinking about the ex and her pompous boyfriend!
@TMHMUZIK3 ай бұрын
I'm no longer dealing with it. I did my best but it wasn't good enough
@Tobizocktwieder2 ай бұрын
I am not sure about mine. We only dated 6 months or so. Then she realzed that she needs to experience more after her eight years martiage and can't do a relationship. She casually dates and I went no contact but every three weeks we write and meet up. She says she missed me alot but need to make all the experiences and dates guys on joyclub... Now we met again two weeks ago and hat 6. Now it seems that she hasn't any feelings more and I wonder if there is a chance... She will meet me in three days for a "date". But I wonder if it is a good idea to meet her. The last time we kissed and hat 6. So maybe she wants to get me around until this phase is over ... Bevor four weeks she said that she thinks alot and that it often shows that something from me is missing ...
@f0ster4442 ай бұрын
Once she’s gone and tried some other guy she’s devalued you to be inferior to other unknown men. They’re not worth accepting back
@klossmobile7 ай бұрын
Can a girl regret when it's been a short-term thing? A few months? We connected with deep chats etc in a way I haven't connected with another girl..I walked away when she started been flaky and she was monkeybranching. She was straight out of a marriage, to then a rebound with abussive ex..then straight into dating me. She should take time to be alone is what I told her.
@LeeEverett14 ай бұрын
She sounds like a train wreck man who did you a favor. She's emotionally immature and is using people as rebounds to get over her failed marriage. You, the nice guy, unfortunately was used as a rebound and she never actually had deep desire for you. You think you had a great connection with her when really it was just manipulation on her end to make it seem that way. Move on and don't dwell on this woman again.
@TheAtlantide54 ай бұрын
your video really clicked with me thank you
@claytonleach8848Ай бұрын
Don't give any more space in my head thinking about her rent free bye. It's time for me. Do what makes my life full filled.. There are solid women out here and will be lucky to share my time.
@ApostleThe3444 ай бұрын
She said at the breakup she loves me then eventually said she had no ill feelings towards me
@MeanMachineRadio12 күн бұрын
Thank You.
@xXxChaoticXx2 ай бұрын
I messed up with my career / always coming home pissed off from crappy work.
@GregAeroАй бұрын
It's the best to just move on, If she left you or cheated, no second chance. We are done forever.
@prelude21274 ай бұрын
The point is really if you work on yourself then by the time you have upgraded yourself you won't care. You won't care to have her back in your life.
@stephengalvin44404 ай бұрын
That was all very true thank you
@davidimes9 күн бұрын
Please read “The Manipulated Man”, by Esther Vilar! It’s even free online. You will never see relationships the same way, again.
@beerustv87824 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for this amazing video
@tom8os2743 ай бұрын
I feal the pain guys , it wont stop , i will admit i have been a wreck , drinking breaking down, whem .sober i break down , all i can do is exercise and the woman os on my mind, i avoid her at all costs but the pain os still there, all i can say is keep your mind busy with work with gym, i hipe everyone who reads this gets through it because some dont😢😢, stay strong guys ❤
@LaughingZeus2 ай бұрын
You ate with this one
@trippymane88862 ай бұрын
Thank You
@jamyangchoegyal65992 ай бұрын
Thank u so much ur types ❤🙏🙏🙏
@MartinVoois-b6i2 ай бұрын
Thank you! 👍👌🍀❤🦋
@bhattishfaq68103 ай бұрын
U drppped this 👑
@JohnDon-pj8nv2 ай бұрын
Please God just keep on moving forward someone else better waiting on you, when you find the real person waiting on you,then you won't even think about your ex
@jjsparksshow47723 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ love this video
@BitcoinWillFixEverything8 күн бұрын
I don't want her back. Life is hard, good luck to her.
@JohnnyBestmovers2 ай бұрын
You'll just give her blessings and tell her good luck..
@dukmahsik23 күн бұрын
Mindset needs to be work on yourself first, who cares about the past.
@ace78212 ай бұрын
What are your qualifications? Are you advertising mental health care? I don’t see any licensing information but I do see you advertising mental health care on multiple public platforms that cross state lines.
@JohnDon-pj8nv2 ай бұрын
Please God 🙏🙏🙏 amen, thank God 🙏🙏🙏 amen
@lilSniper473 ай бұрын
Why would I try to make a woman regret losing me? If she wanted to stay she would have but she didn't. Life goes on no need for all the BS!
@doktor31964 ай бұрын
People. Don't ever try to make anyone "regret" losing you. Cuz they just don't. Move on.
@MrTranqilo3 ай бұрын
You are good Women , Ma’am ❤
@silktalk9104Ай бұрын
“Win her back” 😂😂😂
@Jacespace233 ай бұрын
Best answer , trust in God , and believe in his timing is perfect. I didnt go out "revenge smashing" but pulled closer to God If it's meant to be it will never force love. Some people just need to learn to love themselves
@Boc3phu52 ай бұрын
Dont get mad. Get even.
@robertl47653 ай бұрын
When they walk out the only thing to worry about is all the extra time you'll have in your life to enjoy yourself.😅
@MrCheerbo7 ай бұрын
Hi beautiful Christie
@Naga_alufry69793 ай бұрын
New broke man here
@AmirHamzah-vd9rm2 ай бұрын
What is this....are they the professional????....how could???
@arterisdewberry94677 ай бұрын
You're beautiful
@jsmooth60497 ай бұрын
Simp
@Johnyrocket702 ай бұрын
Life is to short for this regret nonsense. Don't waste a minute worrying or dwelling on a failed relationship. All you will do is get depressed, waste time, and possibly get yourself in trouble. Look at yourself and how you can make yourself a better person and let bygones be bygones. There's to many women in the world to try and get women back. Don't set yourself up for failure. Making her regret leaving you is also a waste of time. It is what is so let it go.
@Stellarchick29 күн бұрын
Why ? Just move on and move up
@JC-gw3yo2 ай бұрын
She will regret losing you... I don't believe it. She is over you.. Move on man and get a better woman. "That dog didn't hunt" boys
@LanceStovall17 күн бұрын
I would like to talk to you
@thomasvilhar75294 ай бұрын
If she lost you then the man left for a reason. Do not go back.
@shitikanthsingh16952 ай бұрын
Why should we even care if she regret or not.We are not servant of women,who think their cheap tricks always work
@jacohammond96443 ай бұрын
Keep repeating the same points 😮
@Dansyoung7 ай бұрын
Don’t try to win her back. Move on and enjoy life.
@JVe-v6q27 күн бұрын
Fr fr.
@jean-claudehabimana88774 ай бұрын
Thank you
@wildcat44787 ай бұрын
The power of walking away. Guys, remember you have your own standard that will make any women regret losing you
@BaldwinAmorado-s3l4 ай бұрын
Yes, love yourself and improve yourself be famous be more money be high value, it's only key to regret her decisions
@marguskiis77114 ай бұрын
Womem just don't look back. They don't see anything.
@BaldwinAmorado-s3l4 ай бұрын
Yes women dont look back, save your self my brothers,, Be famous Be billionaire, and travel the world what ever your goals and she starts gonna stalk to you and regret it, her decisions, proof to him you are the only one who gonna love yourself no matter what,
@JR-Canada4 ай бұрын
That only works if you have a ton of options. Otherwise it's cliche and blablabla that everyone is talking about.
@BaldwinAmorado-s3l4 ай бұрын
No dude purpose and goals is matters women just a mirror of you ton of options women around the world who wants you who needs you don't overthink a one girl, overthink about your life
@TheMikeD4287 ай бұрын
I agree with all of the steps in this video; however, I don’t agree with the concept of getting the ex back. If, as a man, you are working hard to be the best version of yourself, then why go back to someone who has proven with her actions that she will lose respect for you? Even if you get back together, if you suffer a temporary setback, she will choose to leave again - she has no true desire for you, it’s only surface-level attraction. If you are the best version of yourself, then you can move on and find someone better and more mentally committed to the relationship. She made a choice, and you can support her choice by moving on to someone better. Her regret is the consequence of her behavior, and it’s hers to deal with.
@TurrkeySlap19 күн бұрын
Well spoken my friend 👍
@Dalaziifootball11 күн бұрын
Well spoken let them go and go forever.
@troooooper1007 ай бұрын
but why take someone back after they have checked out other options.. unless you think are trash yourself... and have no self respect.. someone's second choice.. what if someone better comes along in the future... you will wait for her to return again? wtfff... if she left and she wont listen.. then she is already SAID by her ACTIONS you DO NOT MATTER to HER.... she KNOWS it'll hurt you but she DOES NOT care... she is OK with HURTING you for DREAMS.. why would you want someone like that with you.. i'd rather be alone then be someone's toilet paper... wtf
@PotentialEnergy13 ай бұрын
🙏
@100logic83 ай бұрын
Amen brother
@DatingwithDarronBrown2 күн бұрын
This makes sense but it isn’t realistic. I’ve had relationships end at 19 and reconnect with people at 24. Love isn’t simple. You have to learn to love yourself with or without any woman.
@nonenone68844 ай бұрын
Why would I want some one back that didn't see the value in me and has been with other Men . That's sick
@tankthearc98752 ай бұрын
once with other men , nope keep your stds . you made the choice to risk me now own it
@davidshoyt19797 ай бұрын
This sounds pretty sexist. It’s always “what the guy did to push her away”. Sometimes. More often than not the girl is the messed up one.
@XF234 ай бұрын
it is not sexist... she is giving the best advices to me as a man right now!
@russellheyns18462 ай бұрын
I somewhat agree. The language was a bit of a give away. “What YOU did to make her not want to try anymore”. Although she did chastise her for believing the grass is greener. It’s more balanced than a lot of other advice out there. And she’s a woman herself so it can’t be easy to try to see things from the other side.
@jlinkqАй бұрын
Bro live your life and love yourself first. Take care of yourself. Forgive her to heal but don’t go back just use that energy for yourself
@MICROCAPTIGERS3 ай бұрын
If a woman leaves you, NEVER let her back! She’s already in another man’s bed! Facts of life! Go see other women and enjoy life and only allow her back to hook up late at night and that’s it!
@albertshinskiy3 ай бұрын
Excellent video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
@deboralaw-on9od3 ай бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my marriage of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
@albertshinskiy3 ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her/him?
@deboralaw-on9od3 ай бұрын
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex
@ruruoniyt38153 ай бұрын
Hey bro i feel you. And i believe the only reason people lost feeling because another person gave them a new feeling. Just go no contact. Full no contact. Let them be happy without you,but believe me it wont last long though until she remembers the memories and start comparing. In my experience she came back after 2 months.
@stev1efps9513 ай бұрын
Feel that pain. Feel ALL of those emotions. Sit there and cry, then cry some more, keep crying until you can't cry anymore. Then get up and go about your day, YOU NEED to accept those feelings/emotions in order to de sensitise them. I'm telling you now if you keep shutting those feelings out you'll never fully get over it. Goodluck man.
@xandagross883 ай бұрын
I was in a situation that my ex slept with a guy from her work and after I caught them she saying toxic about me completely comparing to me with the guy this vid makes me realise I need to start doing something in my life before it's too late
@jsmooth60497 ай бұрын
Men's mental health shouldn't u focus on women's mental health these 304's are going nuts out here
@NathalyNate2 ай бұрын
So leave them alone what you have to work on is the man's mental health because men are more important
@robd35293 ай бұрын
At the end of the day it doesn’t matter if she regrets leaving you or not, all that matters is where you go from this point and making sure you don’t let her back in
@rodneysessoms88044 ай бұрын
By time they your ex wife or girlfriend realize they messed up, it's much too late. Keep movin' forward onto bigger and better things
@nm958617 күн бұрын
I don't really want to move onto a bigger woman. I like them skinny like my wife. She weighed 115 when we married 16 years ago. Now after 4 beautiful kids she is 135 but still very attractive. Unfortunately, I made too many mistakes in our marriage and she is divorcing me. This will be expensive and I don't want to lose her. I love her.
@rodneysessoms880417 күн бұрын
@nm9586 you're have to prove to her that she's able to trust you again
@whathuh69652 ай бұрын
I'm not placing any focus, energy and desire into a woman that proves to me that she doesn't deserve me after I've tried. Now, my mindset is "You want me cool: You don't want me cool". Either way, I'm good.
@RayMak3 ай бұрын
I honestly feel like moving on already. Though I’m not perfect. I’ve given it my all and really brought my best self. But I’m a human with limits too. She told me she has never loved me from the very beginning. Also why not just move on and bless another woman with our improved self. While she can find someone that she truly loves.
@Docpowel2 ай бұрын
You are everywhere bro. Wish u all the best
@troooooper1007 ай бұрын
idk if i agree or not.. but i needed to hear this
@inspiredx38667 ай бұрын
She admitted she couldnt communicate well with things she was going through personally and i was a great guy. I have to continue to remind myself its out of my hands though.
@mhill88ify7 ай бұрын
Fuck what she said, you should believe that you're amazing because YOU believe it man...
@Boc3phu52 ай бұрын
Personal experience: they will come back. Always do. They just need time to think and reflect and when they're finished they'll say hi to you in the meantime just work on yourself
@melishek00013 ай бұрын
What happens when someone detaches from you each time you are doing great together? Like the better it is the more sabotage comes. Weird?
@rebelsolidsnake3 ай бұрын
I left her because she was constantly mistreating me for a stupid reasons, for her insecurities. I gave her kindness and love and I was in a roller Coaster in a circle. So bad to leave someone you like. She has written me twice but I’ve asked her to give me space, she almost a month that we don’t talk anymore, I miss her but respect comes first. Yes I was a good man, I gave her the world. I hope she will regret me
@OmVladOn7 ай бұрын
Me and my ex broke up because she's depressed and she said that she couldn't commit to the relationship, so I respected her decision even if I first offered to help her out !
@LeeEverett14 ай бұрын
That was a lame excuse. Brother, she couldn't commit to a relationship with YOU. Take the high road and never speak to her again.
@jonathanmelo86732 ай бұрын
Shes using that as an excuse
@mhill88ify7 ай бұрын
We're pre-supposing that "she lost respect for you"...which is probably the case 85%+ of the time. Sometimes though, women break up because they feel unworthy. Sometimes they are just confused, empty individuals. There isn't always a lesson to be learned in "earning her respect." Earning her respect isn't always worth it, she could be a complete idiot. So Fuck earning HER respect, its YOUR OWN respect that is more important.
@michaelmich003 ай бұрын
Thats true, a lot of avoidants selfsabotage due trauma and feeling unworthy.
@jonasis227 ай бұрын
let the one that got away, get away 👌
@davidmaski84674 ай бұрын
She wants new clothes, and she wants a new guy. That explains 80% of divorces
@oliver70114 ай бұрын
I say it this way, i need to become the man she was stopping me from being.
@erockvaughn21902 ай бұрын
Never try to win her back ever. Leave her to her cats and boxed wine. If she left once she will leave again. Do not be a little beta. Man up and move on. Never look back.
I totally agree with the points in this video, and towards the end of my relationship, I was becoming needy, insecure, paranoid, and not the person she met in the beginning. I understand why she stopped being attracted to me. But also, she was not her best version either and not the person I met in the beginning as well. She changed a lot both in personality and with confidence and self-esteem as well. In a way she did the same things I did and made the same mistakes but selfishly she expected me to be the one that did the changing for the relationship. It was very selfish on her part for her to expect me to be the person I used to be so she could be who she was afterward.
@loudestloud18343 ай бұрын
My ex had unrealistic expectations. We were medium distance, I'm finishing a masters degree and busted my ass studying and teaching to not pay tuition. I still tried to give her all I reasonably could. Anytime she called I picked up and would talk for nearly an hour each day. She said she felt like an afterthought in my life while I was working as hard as I could to get my career squared away and give us a stable future. I was planning to move to her city after graduating. She was never an afterthought to me. It really sucks that all this had to end over miscommunication
@Freudster21Ай бұрын
Very similar situation, once a woman comes up with a reason to lose emotional attraction, there’s really no stopping it. Best to just level up and have her regret it.
@avve900129 күн бұрын
Her loss
@ackbuilder82624 ай бұрын
Good content. The only issue most men have is that once she tries another man sexually while away from me, there is no way I would entertain getting her back. There is a disconnect in your message - live your life and don’t pay attention to her being with another man. She can still come back later. There is a reason that notch count is a single most prohibitive reason to allow a woman back in your life. There is a reason virginity was required back in the day.
@oblivious1086 күн бұрын
It hurts being rejected. And I don't know what to do or how to move on, not necessarily with her, but with these self doubts about myself. Also, I have a question. When you say "embrace your wins," what "wins" are you talking about exactly? Because I certainly don't feel any wins at all.
@OSRSXDАй бұрын
You're amazing. i love how ur mind works and how you see things as they are while you have learned from ur own mistakes and not just living ur life to find ur own happiness- rather, you make the effort to help give people advice who are hurting inside who have probably been in the same situation you have once upon a time. thats why eveything you say sounds so accurate. not everyone has the same mental strengths to have loved being in a relationship with someone and been able to move on so easily after putting so much time and attention into their special person- but ur advice is very genuine and i hope it helps people who need it and this video is my first time seeing you and i can tell ur advice is worth it's weight in gold.