How to Make New Years Resolutions that WORK! // Design Your Dream Life

[@katemurray7220]

This is gospel!! Everyone who is trying to manifest certain things in their lives needs to hear this. It's not about the goal itself, its about the feeling that goal brings you

[@RayaWasHere]

Thank you!! ❤️❤️

[@julialumina1615]

This year I want to: -work on my mental health and make it even better. -finish (or get close to finishing) that damn book! -move in together with my boyfriend, we both are so excited and I really cant wait :)

[@EmilyClaireDaly]

I don’t make resolutions but I love to set mindful intentions! Here are mine for 2020: - Pray more - Be quiet and just listen - Eat less sugar - Care less about people’s opinions who won’t be in my life in 5 years time - Continue to be creative through my KZbin channel Thanks for the video Raya ❤️

[@RayaWasHere]

Love these so much!! Thanks for sharing 💕

[@paulabaum7178]

Even though it's 2021,here are my goals :) 1. Express my actual opinions and wishes, I wanna show my real self to the world! 2. Treat myself kindly and see myself as the main character, see myself like others would 3. Start a creative hobby

[@InfiniteTripping]

"Make million dollars" - Almost everyone just want that one thing. I believe if we can do what we are passionate about and do it right, the rest will just fall into place. Dollars are just a by-product of living your dreams!

[@TaraWagner]

Love this advice! Along with feelings, look at VALUES and needs. If we create a life that meets our most important needs and aligns with our deepest values our emotions will naturally align too.

[@mastandstars5869]

Ok who just put ‘Go to Raya’s retreat’ on their list? 💕💕

[@RayaWasHere]

Ahhh so exciting! ☺️❤️

[@LeighAnneMarie]

YES, so important to check in with yourself to make sure your goals being influenced by other people rather than what you truly want in life

[@RayaWasHere]

Crazy how many times I’ve designed my life to go for a goal that’s not even mine! I think a lot of people spend their whole lives doing that, hope conversations like this can help break that pattern ❤️

[@weepingwillow901]

1. Focus on my health 2. Focus on my happiness 3. Travel more

[@Evergreenforest33]

I find focusing on a word for the year and wrapping your goals around that!!!! For example my word is -- adventure--- It applies to my job because I don’t want to take it forgranted It applies to my life because I want to travel more and just more hiking!!! On another note your retreat idea!!!! Omg I would go!!!!!

[@stephaniecamacho3342]

I looove this kind of videos, it really makes me think about what's going on in my life and helps me to get back on track!!! Thanks youuuu

[@isa199611]

Loved this so much! I would love to hear more about the podcasts, books and other sources of inspirations that you are currently listening to, reading, etc!

[@eviecash973]

I set my goals back in November but that first step is definatly something I missed some years. I waited two weeks to decide on mine. Now to set monthly or weekly goals. Keeping up the momentum 😉

[@blondysoccergirl]

YES PLEASE! Yes to feeling more! Yes to connecting more. Yes to more videos. Yes to more FUN! And yes to just more of you Raya. Because wow, you are so inspiring and so loving and kind. A beautiful woman who already is changing the world. Just by being who you are and radiating that pure energy into the world. Hope to see you soon. One of my goals for 2020 is to go to LA. Love you!

[@RayaWasHere]

Oh wow thank you!! This is the sweetest comment! Sending you love right back ❤️❤️

[@Yohualli]

I’m not trying to be a lemon or anything like that, but I just found your video and started wondering about if you were able to do your retreat stuff. 2020 wasn’t a nice year, and I’m having trouble finding new dreams and goals without thinking “I don’t know if this will work with this pandemic”, so I’m curious to see if you found a way to overcome the adversity, so I can be inspired.v By the way, I love your focus on feelings vs. goals. It’s the first time I hear something like this, and it’s given me hints of why some of my past goals didn’t work. Thank you for your video. I hope you and your family are doing well 💕

[@RayaWasHere]

Thank you! I’m actually doing virtual retreats! Had the first one a week ago and it was absolute magic! Check out kinunity.co to join - the next one is actually all about setting goals for the new year and how to manifest your dream life!

[@Evergreenforest33]

Raya hair care video for reallll!!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰

[@noorbowman1059]

Thank you so much for sharing! I definitely needed to hear this. Wishing you all the best this year!

[@elvitapurina]

You are such a wonderful person Raya! Loved the positive vibes bursting out of you in this video ♥ I guess the feelings I want to achieve this year are creative fulfilment and kindness and I will try it by going vegan (it really feels different saying it out loud haha), reading books and practising photography more often. :)

[@riwantositinjak337]

I really feel excited to have a day in 2020, thank you for uploading this video really helpfull for me, and i really appreaciate with what you do in your video

[@JessicaBurgo]

Happy 2020 babe I hope you have the best year

[@Rec426]

When you said to look at your resolutions I actually picked up my notebook and flipped through the pages of my resolutions. 😅 Here’s my top 3 that I’ve chosen - 1) Keep organised with uni work (feeling = less stress, achievement if I get good grades because of it), 2) Stay healthy physically and mentally (feeling = feeling more healthy in my body and more restful in mind) & 3) Write & submit more pieces (feeling = achieved, more creative being around creative people if i get the experience too and to gain more experiences in the industry). Also I like your idea of having more fun with friends. I think I’m gonna try and incorporate this next week when I go and see people. Try and do different stuff to what we usually do :)

[@RayaWasHere]

I love these! And so amazing that you figured out the feelings for each goal. Thanks for sharing, and here’s to all of us having more fun this year! ❤️

[@Rec426]

RayaWasHere you too ❤️ can’t wait to see what content you bring to this channel :)

[@pollywilliams76]

Absolutely love this!!

[@ayoubbouha3620]

I loved the section you talked about is this really my dream or my goal in life. But I suspect that since we live in a society and see how others live and our nature we always want beautiful things because we think it will make us live happily. But the question is, is happiness really related to these beautiful things in general, is when you will own these things, will you also have happiness, or vice versa with my full respect and thank you?

[@sunnysideoflife9029]

You are so lovely. ❤️ Thank you for this inspiring video. ☺️😍 I was so happy when I met you in Berlin last year. 😍

[@sunnysideoflife9029]

My top 3 goals are to become healthier, be more mindful and just be happier in general. ❤️

[@RayaWasHere]

Thank you! It was so nice to meet you too!

[@sunnysideoflife9029]

@@RayaWasHere ❤️

[@dimitarkolev9307]

Много си добра страхотни клипове правиш

[@RayaWasHere]

Mersi! ☺️

[@itsgmarsel167]

How do you always upload videos when I need them the most?!

[@luvyou-baby]

Top 3: Heal physically and mentally Have more financial freedom Spiritual growth

[@AnnieCoubec]

omg I want to go to your retreat so badly!!

[@RayaWasHere]

Ahh yay!! That makes me so excited to read ☺️❤️

[@Cristinawithac]

Would love to know more about your experience living in California and what you think of it, etc

[@RayaWasHere]

Will definitely be sharing more vlogs of my life here! ☺️

[@JassimChahir1]

Amazing video like always Raya!

[@RayaWasHere]

Thanks Jassim!

[@ajmersinghsingh5194]

hi raya i am from india

[@lightninwilliamrobin6515]

How idealistic those of you are in your 20s and 30s. Seize those moments b4 age gets the best of you. Dream big. Love and forgive others.

[@lightninwilliamrobin6515]

@@derekcolman I'm 68 and am just recovering from 1 hip replacement while I need the other one replaced too. I miss those younger years when I was in great shape and got to see some of the places on the wish list. Now it takes lots of courage💪 to reach out. To live, perchance to dream ...

[@educationforall3005]

Come to Pakistan please