Terri, you are a treasure! I caught myself accusing another friend of being Passive aggressive but realized I am very passive aggressive but described it as "non-confrontational".
@terri_cole7 жыл бұрын
Hahaha! I TOTALLY get it Bree. Thanks for sharing and being here!
@saiconicfitness5 жыл бұрын
BreeZ Place There are different ways to confront/address people and situations but there's only TWO catagories, direct and indirect. iNonconfrontational is a euphemism for aggressive confrontation that is sneaky and underhanded. All those people are doing are confronting indirectly aka passive-aggresively.
@kevindsmith100005 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, this hit me like a ton of bricks. I've been married almost 20 years and my marriage is on its last legs. My wife has told me she didn't have any romantic feeling for me because I wasn't meeting her needs and that's because I exhabited so much passive agressive behavior or silence and withdrawing from her that she never knew what my mood was and that she said she has a knot in her chest all the time around me and couldn't be who she thinks she is. She was the one that told me that I am passive agressive and after 19 years and nothing left to lose I started researching it and God damn I am so PA . I have decided to go to counseling to fix this. It's unreal what a Fed up childhood can do.
@mrking69511 ай бұрын
I’ve been married to a PA man for 51 years. I knew he had a problem from his childhood but didn’t know what he had until recently. I will say it is very anxiety crippling for a partner and I believe it has affected my physical health because of it. He made me believe it was my fault because I would blow up. I hope you found the help you need. I know it’s terrible for both you and your wife.
@kevindsmith1000011 ай бұрын
@@mrking695 Yeah my marriage ended but I've been in therapy since a week after we separated in 2019. I am much happier by myself and I believe she is too. My kids are happy as well. The marriage couldn't survive both of our unresolved childhood traumas but that's ok. I have 3 great kids and a good career and life moves and you either move with it or you get ran over.
@mrking69511 ай бұрын
@@kevindsmith10000 that sounds really good and I’m happy for you both. I wish my husband and I had divorced but now we’re both in our 70s, so I guess I’ll do the death till we part thing. I know I have my own issues, too. Who doesn’t? But sometimes as you said, it’s just too much. I have two adult children who seem well-adjusted with families of their own so I guess we got part of it right. I hope you have a happy rest of your life.
@nosponge16 жыл бұрын
Please do 17 videos about this!! This is really a struggle for me, and no one deals with it.
@christelnielandt51174 ай бұрын
Huge thanks !!! This is so valuable. In my family there was no communication. I started going into therapy and still do and it has changed me in many ways. I’d encourage everyone to do. Some people say it is too expensive. I prefer investing in my mental health instead of driving a very expensive car or live in a fancy house. My personal growth means the world to me. Wished more people did .. our planet would be more peaceful. I am still on my journey and I have learned, shocking but true, that I behave in a passive agressive way. Thanks for your valuable videos 🙏🌷. Love from Belgium ❤️
@terri_cole4 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@tinawalter88635 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You have explained this so clearly. Now I so get it. I loved these first two videos. I will be watching your videos every day now. You're so good at this. This goes clear back to my childhood which explains it all. Even why my siblings do it.....dysfunctional family. Even in my marriage which I ended after 35 years to a narcissist and never being allowed to have an opinion or speak. I'm changing my life around for me! Learning everything I can on all of this bad behavior. Thank you for your help!!!
@terri_cole5 жыл бұрын
Yes!! I am cheering you on!! Keep learning, keep healing.
@v.certain Жыл бұрын
I love how natural you are when you speak, feels like a fun talk
@deena30034 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you speak about Honest discourse. I've try to have an honest discussion with my partner and every time I got shot down. That's abusive on so many levels. It eroded the relationship completely.
@terri_cole4 жыл бұрын
I feel ya!
@ishitastripathi5 ай бұрын
Thank You for hearing me out through your words.
@terri_cole5 ай бұрын
❤️
@changeindirection6 жыл бұрын
You are awesome. So many other people suggest that passive aggressive behavior once established will never go away. I like how you put this in the context of flurishing!
@bekindbitch23125 жыл бұрын
I know he can't argue with people and avoids every conflict, by acting nice or try to calm the person. Only because, he can't express anger, even when he's pissed af. But life can't be always peace and love. You can discuss everything in your life, the thing is the way you say it. There's no loud or angry argument needed. So nobody gets hurt, or have to ask what your problem is and most important, you don't have to suppress your feelings! Thank you so much for your video, you are a blessing🙏💚
@hangugeohaksaeng6 жыл бұрын
"There's no frigen way I'm retelling it now, because it's too long." Haha! Thanks for keeping it real. :)
@terri_cole6 жыл бұрын
#JerseyGirlStyle lol!
@syoung62045 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I found your page you are helping me so much. Thanks
@terri_cole5 жыл бұрын
I am so happy to hear that. Thank you for being here!
@arhammonds44927 жыл бұрын
I LOVE how you've integrated the concepts of dharma, prahna, and chi with psychology. Thank you.
@terri_cole7 жыл бұрын
Awwwww thanks A'Biel!!! I so appreciated you being here ;)
@christiancantos1727 жыл бұрын
I need help. I just realized that I am passive aggressive when I met my partner. It is a big deal for us and causes argument. How can I improve my habit? Please help.
@terri_cole7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your Q, Christian. Your awareness is step one and your desire for it to be different is step 2. Step 3 is to be aware of the way you feel and to NOT react but breathe deep and RESPOND when you are upset. You can do it!!
@christiancantos1727 жыл бұрын
I need more advise. please email me. cantoschristian12@gmail.com
@1virtualraghu5 жыл бұрын
Above commit a big mistake and about to run away from family without knowing that in am Passive aggressive. Thanks this help a lot. And would change me personally and help me build my family up.
@miscmiscellaneous305 жыл бұрын
We too, love you back Terri🥰
@khaiahmann91924 ай бұрын
This was great. I feel it will help a lot for me to get to the root of why I really act the way I do sometimes. And not feeling safe to truly communicate my issues with someone especially if I’m not angry about it. I would love more videos.
@terri_cole4 ай бұрын
I talk about creating safety in relationships here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nGPYnmqwZa6gq8k I also have a lot of videos on effective communication! You can try this one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rqHOm3mhnbBpqsk ❤️
@gayatrimatapurkar9335 жыл бұрын
You are sooooo spot on... It warrants disbelief....thanks
@gokusuppercut50407 жыл бұрын
Wow this is really helpful, you explained exactly how I think to a tee. Since I now know what is happening exactly I can improve myself going forward.
@terri_cole7 жыл бұрын
Right on, Raymond!
@gokusuppercut50407 жыл бұрын
***** thank you terry your a very inspiring women. I was going to see a therapist but didn't end up going. I won't blame anybody except myself or make excuses. I just find it hard to break these habits its way more challenging then people assume. I'm kinda in a loop like you explained in the first video. Side note I have been interested in psychology most of my life but this video shined a light in a dark place. I plan to go to college for psychology just because of you. Just me noticing how well you explained my thought process really gives me hope that I can recover from this and someday help youth who are going threw the same thing. Sincerely thank you
@AsteriETERNAL7 жыл бұрын
Quite revealing indeed!
@sonnylittleflower6 жыл бұрын
How do you get what you need from a relationship when asking for it doesn’t work and passive aggression only drives them further away? How do you tell them what you need? How do you ask them to give you what you need without being negative and passive aggressive?
@Akowy15 жыл бұрын
We love you 2 . Thanks. 🌹
@Angel-se4zm Жыл бұрын
Thx ❤
@sealjojo93214 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I really needed this
@terri_cole4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@sharonmkopp6 жыл бұрын
Thank you soooo much I hear your message!
@flexibledreamer78464 жыл бұрын
When I was 18 and told my dad I wanted to go to culinary arts school to be a chef - he told me it’d be stupid if I went to school to be a chef he told me I’d be broke and homeless. So I never pursued.
@terri_cole4 жыл бұрын
I'm witnessing you with compassion. You deserve to have your dreams and go after the things you want.
@dawoodsedeqi9224 жыл бұрын
I have had this problem and I have been trying to solve it, unfortunately, my problem is that I wanted to be polite and nice and judgment, that's why,
@marcochan17966 жыл бұрын
You deserve Nobel at least from me
@franceskabriskey70465 жыл бұрын
This explains it just don’t know how to change it.
@kainalrik7 жыл бұрын
What do I do with a passive aggressive spouse who wants more codependency while also passive aggressively accusing me of gaslighting?
@pumpkinpie72545 жыл бұрын
Yay ! your volume is higher ...
@debnn48547 жыл бұрын
got it
@Tinamar657 жыл бұрын
Is it possible to "heal" passive-aggressive" actions and communication in a relationship by only one side/partner?
@terri_cole7 жыл бұрын
If one person becomes aware enough to stop engaging in the passive aggressive "dance" -the other person will have to do something different. I cannot predict exactly what that might be but I can say that when one person changes the other person is impacted and many times one person shifting and learning how to talk straight rather than act out feelings is enough to make the relationship much healthier. Thanks for a great question!
@heycharcharli33 ай бұрын
This literally just happened were i kept making passive aggressive comments to friends i really care abt and it finally became to much and ive been kinda cut out. I dont know how to go about ammending my mistakes, but with this new understanding i can have a chance. What would you recommend for how i should broach these mistakes?
@terri_cole3 ай бұрын
I see you 💕 I have an entire video on the art of apologizing here that might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p5fHf61-bLGXqq8
@heycharcharli33 ай бұрын
thank you so much! I'm writing stuff down so i can save myself from burning bridges in the future. Wish me luck on my self betterment journey
@terri_cole3 ай бұрын
I am cheering you on! ❤️
@karenenglish87325 жыл бұрын
This IS me.... I don't want it anymore... how do I stop.... please help
@ggsplace696 жыл бұрын
I love you chick I don't like it sometimes but I do love you x
@soraninja6 жыл бұрын
I feel like you're the mother so many of us wish we had ... someone to help us understand human emotion and physiology. Thank you so much
@SheSoZenn6 жыл бұрын
I've let alot of situations slide and I never stood up for myself, especially in Highschool and home life. Those experiences has led me to become passive aggressive, and expressing my feelings are uncomfortable for me. I never say wants really on my mind. I've acknowledged this but, I don't know how to release this anger, and let go of what happened in the past.
@terri_cole6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing here, Lea. Keep at it my dear. The more you express yourself directly, calmly and with kindness- the less angry you will feel AND the less passive aggressive you will need to be. I am cheering you on !!
@barbaralanza4954 жыл бұрын
I want to healthy and happier because I am passive aggressive. I recently had a confrontation with my daughter and she pointed out my behavior and I opened up resources and I am admitting that I’m displacing this behavior. So I’m trying to be informed enough to start recovering from this condition!! Your videos hit home and opened my eyes . Thank you!
@terri_cole4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome. Thank you for sharing your realizations!
@hcl17986 жыл бұрын
This behavior is abusive.
@pumpkinpie72545 жыл бұрын
This is what I believe to be ( the adult bullying method ) and even though we are no longer children it hurts so very bad.
@ascottishbairnochaye46417 жыл бұрын
I had to depart a relationship because of this. I could not live with it. I felt fear, being unsure what was 'going on behind the scenes'. Feeling manipulated by their behaviour, not being told what was on their mind,. I felt on edge and often controlled. It was very sad. A lovely man, stuck in a habit that pushes people away.
@terri_cole7 жыл бұрын
Good for you for leaving. This is dysfunctional behavior that never gets better unless the person wants it to. Save yourself and try to delve into why you were attracted in the first place. Was was the behavior familiar? xo
@nancyvail76314 жыл бұрын
Yes..my mother was passive aggressive..that’s where I learned it..to speak my truth means losing her approval. So continues to this day
@petarpetric12043 жыл бұрын
God, this speaks volumes to me. Thank you! The problem is is that you were abviously very lucky with your partner while I, just like you said, have this "role" in relationships where I'm not satisfied how it's going so i lash out and am passive agressive. It goes deep because just as you perfectly described it, it stems from very early in my childhood and parents. So I feel people don't take my feelings into consideration and even when I do manage to finally speak up my romantic partners for example dont want to work on it, or I am painted as the one who "alway complains". I feel like I'm stuck in an awful circle. Would love to hear your insight if you ever read this.
@marisolcb3896 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your video!!! All the other videos I've watched about passive aggressiveness have been more directed towards identifying when someone is being passive aggressive towards you and how to get away from that person. They make the passive aggressive person seem like an evil entity when in reality we simply don't know how to communicate our feelings in a healthy way ( speaking for myself). Being passive aggressive has brought me a lot of pain. I really do not like to be passive aggressive, and I don't do it with the intention to hurt the other person. I do it to protect myself (if that makes sense). I don't like to put my feelings "out there." I feel that by keeping my feelings to myself, I protect myself from getting hurt. But, I end up hurting the other person, myself and the relationship. I really wish to change. I wish it with every bit of my heart, and I am seeking professional help to help me in my journey.
@ariciaboyd82395 жыл бұрын
i agree
@targoltran Жыл бұрын
I really like Terri, she comes across very sincere. I would also add, when a person is passive-aggressive, they can't get their ways by simply being honest. As a result, they design their actions in order to get what they are looking for.
@shanereade2727 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video on passive aggression. It clarified and named what I now recognise in my reactions and behaviour. I recognise acting out passive aggression causes isolation / survival. Subconsciously its a way to cope with relationships that cause uncontrollable pain and shame. Bonding to something other than a person is next the step. Vulnerability is not not an option. Its about emotional resilence isn't ? You either have it or you don't. Its either fight or flight behaviour, depending on early developed coping skills and inner grit. Many thanks.
@terri_cole7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your insightful share, Shane!
@marvinasimswewinqueendom2543 Жыл бұрын
Beautifully done again. Very helpful. Thank you
@nancyvail76314 жыл бұрын
I have burned many bridges and relationships
@kimoichetabarapberenge17653 жыл бұрын
I was passive aggressive at work and it affected my colleagues,manager and me. One day the Manager told me and I quote....I need you to just be consistent and dependable...end quote. He bought me a book on emotional intelligence by Daniel Coleman and I read it, practised it and now I prospering career wise and at home/society
@ggsplace696 жыл бұрын
This is hard work and I am mastering this
@brittanym93265 жыл бұрын
Terry, How does one deal with someone who is so compartmentalized that he/she cannot admit or acknowledge his/her passive aggressiveness? It's so frustrating to explain how I interpret the disconnect between body language and speech and be gaslit.
@Venturahighwayride14 күн бұрын
I had no idea that I have been acting passive aggressively when it comes to conflicts both mine and others towards me. This has been really helpful. I hope I can use this to better build my relationships.
@terri_cole13 күн бұрын
I'm so glad it was helpful ❤️
@AB-cc8ug6 жыл бұрын
Mahalo e Terri Cole for your insight and checklist. You're the first one I came to on this subject that I want to work on. =-)
@terri_cole6 жыл бұрын
Mahalo! So happy to hear it ;)
@franrace99484 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for both these videos. I have just ended a close friendship with someone who was very passive aggressive. They would say everything was fine & withdraw or make plans with me & cancel at the last minute or even rearrange without checking with me. I felt like I continually had to give more to keep them happy while always waiting for the other shoe to drop. It was making me so anxious & confused I was finding setting boundaries really hard. In the end walking away was the only thing I could do.
@terri_cole4 жыл бұрын
I hear you. That can be really painful and challenging. Staying true to you is real strength.
@mewpie854 жыл бұрын
Shit... passive aggressiveness leads to bitterness... I have done this at work. It wasn't until I told the person I'm bitter at that it freed me. Some people don't ever realize this, and just live in their bitterness. I don't want this for me! Or anyone but definitely not me!
@evamussio75332 ай бұрын
Thank you so much xx ❤🎉😊
@terri_cole2 ай бұрын
You're so welcome ❤️
@whoknowswat43587 жыл бұрын
You did not tell us how to handle passive aggressive behaviour eg what to say to someone who is saying this? How to act towards someone by being like this? How to help someone with passive aggressive behaviour without hurting them? I got nothing out of this other than telling me what passive aggressive behaviour is!!!
@terri_cole7 жыл бұрын
I just went back and watched both of the vids on this topic that I recorded and I have to say, you are totally right! Too much explaining what it is and not enough strategies on how to deal with it in real life. Thank you so much for pointing it out-I will totally record a more solution oriented vid on this but in the meantime maybe I can actually add a little value right here right now. When dealing with passive aggressive people -the first thing is too not collude with them by responding to their covert communication. Passive aggressive behavior is a way for someone to express anger or hostility without taking responsibility for it. For example, the friend who rolls their eyes in the middle of your story or your cousin who throws you a back handed compliment like, "Although I don't normally like your cooking, tonight's meal was really good!" Not colluding looks like you actually pointing out what just happened ie: "Hey Bob I really don't appreciate you rolling your eyes as a way of communicating your disapproval of my story. If you have something to say to me -please say it directly and with words" Of for the cousin, "I don't appreciate you using a compliment about tonight's meal as a way of criticizing my cooking. If you are angry or upset with me about something, I'd appreciate if you would own it and share it with me directly" There is so much more to say on this (the solution based stuff) but I hope this was a little bit helpful and again THANK YOU for saying something, I really appreciate you taking the time. ;)
@whoknowswat43587 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being understanding and helpful
@summersifysummers47026 жыл бұрын
@@terri_cole Great response Terri!
@mewpie854 жыл бұрын
Passive aggressive people want you to mind-read...
@lavadamorrison45697 ай бұрын
Minis the New Age talk, this makes so much sense. I've been searching for a video talking about passive aggressive behavior from someone who is not a narcissist. I had two husbands that were passive aggressive, one was a covert narcissist, and one was not. Still the behavior was abusive and drove me crazy.
@musicsnob4226 Жыл бұрын
Somebody who goes out of their way to make racket with the dishes. You ask if that is necessary? They deny they are doing that. Swirling silverware in the sink smacking plates together. As anybody would you leave the room. Then you come back to the kitchen to see they WEREN'T doing the dishes. They were just doing exactly what you thought they were. Just making noise. Being annoying. The sink of their dishes is nicely organized for you to do. REALLY?!
@dawnemile74993 жыл бұрын
Aggressive behaviour is words and intent not only tone and loudness.
@zhibyful7 жыл бұрын
You've explained this so well. Thank you.
@BflyConcepts6 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I love your videos so much.
@angelamilne20546 жыл бұрын
supposing they have made it OBVIOUS in a subtle way that cant be Proved......that they don't CARE how you feel? Even if you reveal how you really feel at this point OR by the LACK of communication for periods of time that are inappropriate ? Also....supposing letting them Know how you feel causes them to have a better understanding on HOW to cause you to be even MORE miserable...?
@terri_cole6 жыл бұрын
Mary, It depends on who the person is and how they are connected to you. If it is your primary personal relationship and they don't care how you feel...that is a major problem. If it is work or friends, use the information as data and makes decisions accordingly. Thanks for sharing here.
@Mariatiffy5 жыл бұрын
this is helpful too.
@nicolebrown30222 ай бұрын
I love this video. Thank you so much for the breakdown. I developed passive aggressiveness by feeling unsafe in a relationship where my feelings were constantly invalidated and I was devalued. I thought there was no point in communicating my true feelings because I was always invalidated. The passive aggressiveness also became problematic. I ended up leaving the relationship altogether.
@terri_cole2 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear you were in such an awful situation, Nicole 💕 Glad you got out of it.
@janathena7164 Жыл бұрын
I have been surrounded by people who do mean passive-aggressive behaviors in my life. Seemingly, without any provocation, people (husband, best friend, father etc.) did really mean stuff to me for no reason. I read a book on passive-aggressive behavior, and I had numerous revelations. When my mother had a hysterectomy at 46, she was adamant that I go to my advanced college classes (after many conversations) in the morning and visit her in the recovery room after her surgery, rather than sit in the family room during her surgery. I passed my father as I entered the elevator to visit my mother in the recovery room, and he was clearly angry with me, which was very confusing to meat the time. Fast forward 26 years when I needed the same surgery for the same reason. My father never visited me in the hospital. Years later, I realized, after learning about passive-aggressive behavior, that he was paying me back for what he perceived was a slight to my mother. Wow. Just wow.
@terri_cole Жыл бұрын
I am witnessing you with so much compassion, Janathena ❤️
@mauiswift63917 жыл бұрын
Thank u for explaining this type of behaviour.
@terri_cole7 жыл бұрын
You're welcome ;)Thank you for being here.
@caleuxx91083 жыл бұрын
I have noticed and believe that sometimes passive-aggressive behavior is a form of manipulation to get what they want: the PA-person will not say what they want but they end up manipulating the situation (by actions: being late, forgetting, not seeing a text message, not noticing an email, etc.) in such a way that only once possible course of action ends up being doable/workable, etc. It is so exhausting dealing with people who are not aware of how dysfuctional their behavior is and who are not willing to take steps in a healthy directions. As dr.Cloud writes in his books... limits are needed but that is so exhausting, when it is needed so often.
@terri_cole3 жыл бұрын
Passive aggression can definitely be a form of manipulation! It's a covert way to have an argument without directly addressing the issue.
@lindah.8044 жыл бұрын
I am def a passive agressive, but I'm married to a person with narcissistic personality. You can't get any point across to these people, so the advice for that is not to react. This is confusing. I have so much internal stress, and it has caused outward anxiety, and unhappiness, He has been disbled for years, and has gotten worse over the years, making me feel I can't leave. Advice for my situation? I truly hate my life.
@terri_cole4 жыл бұрын
I"m witnessing you with compassion. You matter also. Your thoughts, feelings, opinions and needs matter. You also deserve to express yourself and have your needs met and have boundaries in place that allow you to take care of you. I have a lot of videos about boundary setting with narcs and difficult people, and that may be a good place to start.
@maria-gorettimillard62533 жыл бұрын
Love! All, Yr sharings. TY! Also, Cheat-sheets Check-lists Writings. Amazing! Life-changing! 😁🧚🧞🧜
@terri_cole3 жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@bevanavard87763 жыл бұрын
Thank you, im 52 years young and after watching this vid I now feel I have just been born again, my god I can explain the feeling I have now thank you again👍
@terri_cole3 жыл бұрын
You're very welcome 🥰
@mewpie854 жыл бұрын
My mother is THIS.
@terri_cole4 жыл бұрын
I see you and I am holding space for you.
@HaydenBlaby5 жыл бұрын
Hi there, how can I speak to someone to gain skills on how to behave better in my relationship and not be passive aggressive? I have been this way with my partner but I want to stop. I want to speak with someone to learn new ways to communicate. Can you help me?
@AnaPruneda6 жыл бұрын
This two videos are great. So helpful! Thank you very much!
@sunshine-sm6nf5 жыл бұрын
well I confronted my coworker and it went TERRIBLE! She has continued to ignore me but I guess it was a good thing I confronted because I know where I stand. You cant make everyone like you and feel like it was a waste of time. I plan on enjoying the kids I work with and others that do appreciate me. I feel like crying, I guess the people pleasing in me but I did have the courage to try and work it out, her loss. Doesn't always work out.
@dawnemile74993 жыл бұрын
You are just so right in your analysis. I was recently exposed to someone who manifests this behaviour. I would like to send them this video but they are not willing to face difficult topics.
@uhpluplum4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I find it hard to express my sincere concerns when I feel a friend being bothered by me for something, but without having told me. I wonder if it is my imagination or reality. It might be that I grew up being told I am too sensitive all the time and I'm bothered by little things, and now I just don't want to seem to my friends and new people I want to become friends with as so sensitive to things. I wonder though if it is just normal and not being dramatic to not be okay all the time within relationships!
@annh64905 жыл бұрын
As the oldest daughter of a narcissistic mother, I am passive aggressive (at times I think). In my relationships with siblings, I don't feel safe emotionally with them because of all the triangulation in this family. How does one become authentic and express anger directly in this setting?
@SuperMagusman5 жыл бұрын
what if the passive aggressive is (justified) based on extreme heavy baggage , could it be a coping mechanism??
@vanessap28146 жыл бұрын
16:13 yes pain cannot be avoided. The question is how to survive from pain?
@shauntck5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Good information that is helping me process
@pravinsharma21054 жыл бұрын
I am going to finish it
@terri_cole4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being here.
@reginaflowers3086 жыл бұрын
Is there a private way to ask you questions? Like email?
@mikem19565 жыл бұрын
What if you and your spouse are both this way?
@naturewoman12745 жыл бұрын
Thanks xx
@sunshine-sm6nf5 жыл бұрын
I finally confronted a coworker this morning and it does feel good to get it all out in the open. My coworker had got quiet at the end of the school year. I did not say anything, that is me. Well the new me today decided to Ask Her If She Was Ok, she had been so quiet? I thought she would say everything is fine but No, she blast me an said I Don't Like It When You ask Me a lot Of Questions! I apologized and said well I am glad you told me and I wont ask you questions. I think I had asked her if she was sick last year and then she began to get quiet. ANyway I guess she is private type which is ok and now I understand. Hope it goes better but anyway it is out in the open. If she ignores me at least I had the courage to ask her and I can go on and enjoy kids we work with. Thank you Terri.
@sunshine-sm6nf5 жыл бұрын
she didn't come to work today. I will keep you updated how it goes next week, but at least I had the courage to open up and ask her what is wrong.
@Honeybee-qc4np3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I never knew I was so passive aggressive until about 3 years ago my best friend asked me why I was so passive aggressive! Today I was being passive aggressive with my guy for absolutely the smallest thing ever and it led me to searching and to you!
@terri_cole3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad this resonated with you! Thank you for being here and for sharing ❤️
@lalalaurenmae5 жыл бұрын
you are a beautiful blessing to this chaotic world
@terri_cole5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words!
@Lee_Christine_Educator7 ай бұрын
Amazing content. My Mum has watched part 1. She has burnt out relationship and now another one with her PA behaviour.,Fingers crossed this may bring about change for her. Much gratitude. 🙏🏽🩵😘