HOW TO PRAY FOR A MATE by RC Blakes

[@pelicandame]

Years ago, I got mad at God, because I thought I was ready for a mate, and He reminded me that just because I am, doesn't mean my ordained mate is ready! Now happily married! And that's exactly what it was; my mate wasn't ready yet!

[@pdoll96]

Great testimony

[@chocolatechickapparel8615]

This is what I needed to see. God Bless y’all!

[@joanjones3677]

Congratulations 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@mz.sophisticatedlady8398]

Beautiful Testimony. Blessings 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@royaaltcreationsjewelrydes3178]

I have been praying on and off for a mate and saying that God have him and I under renovation that we have not met yet.

[@greaterishe7197]

1. Ask the Father to prepare a mate that matches your purpose/relates to your future. 2. Ask the Father to give you revelation of every toxic standard you have set for a mate. 3. Pray to become attractive to the mate you desire. 4. Center yourself in faith for your mate.

[@cynthiarichmond3545]

Thank you! God bless you!

[@gabriellemallory3550]

Amen..

[@aminataossanatuconteh5089]

Thanks

[@lisapope9616]

Thank you for the outline.👍🏽

[@ladyslimthebest2136]

Thank you I was taken notes on my phone fell asleep now I just wrote the notes you prepared so I can focus on the message!

[@dnewt3551]

I pray that God gives everyone the mate that he wants us to have.🙏🏽

[@Cat-sx6ep]

Not looking however great advice for the future. Made so many mistake and allowed misguided men into my life and my son just to see them take advantage of us ..Pure Toxic working on self worth !

[@carmenjohnston3043]

Amen. Thank you so much for your messages from God. God bless you and Lisa and family.

[@sohoye5494]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@venettablack1757]

Amen 🙏

[@BelieveInMiracles78]

Amen 🙏🏽 GOD IS IN CONTROL

[@chasidyjoyspeaks]

Praying BUT while I’m waiting, I’m working on self and healing. Trying to be the best version of myself. Praying for all the ladies waiting on God’s blessings! Love to everyone! Much love to RC and Lisa Blakes. ❤️🙌🏾❤️

[@moetolove]

Thank you Sister for your prayers as well I will be praying for you as well. All the best

[@lilliepad2535]

A

[@karenelizabethpalmer4295]

True That!

[@leeleeonthemove]

I’m right with you!! ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾

[@susiepowell3852]

Thank God for the word I pray God answer my prayers for the right spouse in Jesus name amen

[@sharhughes1086]

I'm waiting on God! Because I always pick the wrong one, waiting patiently and praying 🙏 for what I prayed for! Amen!!

[@bertaalvarez4637]

You're not alone. I picked the wrong one too

[@hawaglam540]

Same here!!! I have been left with mo choice but to surrender!🙏❤

[@newseason4417]

Same here

[@jeanettebyrd8710]

Been waiting,but trying to get self better in fitness,& health!

[@angelabetleja1910]

Me too!

[@RCBlakesJr.]

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[@TrimatizeBeauty]

That prayer brought me to tears...so powerful..💯💯

[@nikkimay78]

I’m in tears listening to this as I thought God has forgot about me ❤❤❤ but I now know Lord you are not only preparing me for my mate but preparing my mate for me. Thank you for this message 🙌🏾

[@toniat7398]

Remember, he never forget us. How can he forget the one he loved? Your time will come.

[@robinfreeman5528]

I love this teaching! God is good and will prepare the mate of my purpose in time.

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

He hasn't forgotten sis. He desires us to include him in our choice of a mate.

[@tinabutler7786]

I've wrote my petition and I made it plain. The lord said that he would give me my heart desire.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@gabriellemallory3550]

Amen..

[@glorytothealmightycreator]

I too wrote my petition. Now, let's see the Heavenly Father's move

[@alishadennis7769]

As it lines up with God's good & wise 🙏🦉 will for your's and our lives. Some things we must thank God for not 🚫🚫 giving us what we thought 🤔 would be good 👍 for us , when it is or was terrible for us & our lives. Knowing the LORD 🤚😍 always wants the best for us he loves & See's ahead & knows our needs BETTER than we do our selves. We cant be afraid or scared of GOD'S 😇🙏❤❤ good 👍 right awesome choices to bless us 👍 greatly. 🙏 😁🎉

[@Jesuslovesherr]

1. Pray for a mate who matches my purpose 2. Pray for a revelation of every toxic standard and deliverance from them 3. Pray to be attractive to the mate I would be attracted to 4. Center myself in faith

[@denisefrank164]

Attraction is for sure more than the physical. Your attractiveness comes from the inside out. The physical package, pleasing to the eye, is icing on the cake.

[@TheRevealingOfKatiaJ]

Yyyyes… I was in a toxic relationship fir 8 years. When I finally chose to ask God to strip my life of everything & anybody that want of him, my life opened up. I got a chance to find ME. Once I was focused on God & myself, he blessed me with a wonderful man. He wasn’t my type physically but he treats me like a queen & is my balance.

[@GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262]

I've already prayed and asked God to send me who He has my husband to be, because, I trust Him and His Word and He knows what's BEST for me✨♥️🥰!

[@lauracisco2807]

That is wonderful!

[@dorothymatthews6690]

Me too!

[@jewelmyles3590]

That's good!

[@daughteroftheking721]

Amen✨❤️✨☺️✨

[@spokenpoet5074]

Once again Pastor you nailed it. Loved the Word and all the commentary. I've been celibate and single for years and I'm 57 and I know there's a mate in God's time.

[@greaterishe7197]

I agree with you.

[@thegrace-basedstudent5701]

Girl, yes! I'm 50,' and God has a great husband for me, too. 😄

[@andromedamaxima1543]

Amen! God’s timing and God’s will.

[@TS-fj2lo]

I’m 55 and God has a man of God for me. In the meantime, working on me.

[@AngelInk-Poetess]

Yes- I’m 57 and believing God to raise up and being the man that relates to my future, and I to his. Praise God for Pastor Blakes!! 🙏♥️🙌

[@aprilsdavis4654]

I am happy and healthy praise God! I am working on staying spiritually connected to God. I am praying for God to raise me a husband at 60! A man that loves me from the inside out!

[@sheilasquare4339]

Amen 🙂

[@jacquelinej5755]

I was iron connected to plastic … a man with no Discipline and no vision. He talked a a great game and was connected to my drive, but only wanted me to make the moves that world secure our future, God finally opened my eyes 👀 so I could end an engagement that would have been a marriage full of arguments like our engagement. Thank you for reminding to remove biases but also allowing me to focus and discern peoples true actions. I’ll continue to wait for God to align me to my Boaz. I’m disciplined, healthy mentally and physically and will not rush for a mate . Thanks Again Unc for this valuable lesion. 43 and fine with my single self 👌🏾

[@tarlmabe]

Praise God you did not marry. I pray God gives you your heart desire in righteousness

[@BeautifulOnes876]

The recommendation to ask God to show the toxic standards that need to be addressed is excellent. There are many people who don’t even realize they can talk to God about these things! 😮

[@FeminineElegancebyRoz]

Smooches everyone💋, I posted this earlier and decided to delete it, but I think I'm going to post it again.... I did a 90-day prayer challenge starting December 23rd, 2021 and it ended March 22 2022 in prayer for my future husband. Today I am still single. Still hopeful. Still having fun and still praying. And still preparing.

[@pamelaheald4622]

God heard your prayer and he will give you your heart’s desires.🙏🏽❤️

[@hlulanimongwe3584]

I can't wait to read your testimony❤😊🥺

[@FeminineElegancebyRoz]

@@hlulanimongwe3584 chil'd you and me both🤣🤣🤣. And as of today July 4th one of my girlfriends is seeing somebody, now I am the last one in the group. God saves the best for last. Smooches💋

[@hlulanimongwe3584]

@@FeminineElegancebyRoz surely it feels awful right?😩🥺But girl mind your own business 😂😂😂💋

[@Lisa-yy7ov]

This is confirmation cause after church yesterday the holy Spirit told me to go read Psalms 51. Cleanse my heart oh GOD and renew within me a right spirit. It immediately made me cry and realize how my choice have been toxic and how I've allowed men to break me because I didn't know my value

[@toniat7398]

The blood of Jesus’ cleanse is daily. Ps 51:7

[@mandiij6]

I’ve been praying non-stop , it gets hard waiting and watching but I’m still going to pray when things are good and when things don’t go my way.

[@mandlenkosihlazo977]

Activate your faith. eg Start planning for your wedding eg Choose your wedding dress/venue etc.. Write him love letters that you will give him on your wedding day ,on your 1st annivesary and other milestones..You should also seed for it..eg Bless someone's wedding/marriage,preferably someone not related to you.

[@WomanOfGod79]

@@mandlenkosihlazo977 such a great idea.

[@dolsaidacampbell6730]

Bless us with our soul mates Father God

[@dolsaidacampbell6730]

God bless you Bishop

[@isabelhowes4688]

@@mandlenkosihlazo977 i actually scripted my engagement night lol..I thought l was crazy... I even made a vision board included my wedding dress.. Theme.. House.. How our relationship will be like.. It's elevates Faith.. I look at it every night n l believe God will bless me soon

[@lithabrown529]

There is no shortage in God! What an awesome teaching!!🔥🔥

[@wordsofwisdomwithnaomi5153]

I’m Ready but not Desperate and waiting and praying patiently on God. Praying for the man I fit and he fits me in this life.

[@biblequeen4sure823]

I'm waiting on God, not in a rush. God's going to send me a man to restore.

[@hollyjefferson1952]

Amen to that 🙏🏼

[@annmoreno2812]

@@hollyjefferson1952 b.

[@connievelez5478]

I may be a widow three times but I always married for Kingdom purposes and so did they. They all finished their assignments and went home. As a Proverbs 31 woman, you must have your own purpose and destiny to fulfill. I so agree with your teaching. I continue to walk on my Kingdom path with purpose.

[@toniat7398]

Some people haven’t been married one time. You should write a book

[@jamiashute4260]

Lawd preach pastor Blakes. This was a word, lately when i find myself about to pray about a man something tells me , hold up! Pray for yourself , pray to reach your highest potential and create the version of myself to be ready for a relationship.

[@MS-kg8jr]

This is my prayer as well. Becoming what I seek. God Bless!

[@maxinefisher178]

Please don’t use the word Lawd. It’s disrespectful to our Lord Jesus Christ. There are many Christians who use the Lords name in vain. Thank you!

[@vaclinciapounds8859]

I have prayed to God for the man whom He has meant for me to be my husband. Waiting on God. I made sure I was specific in my prayer. 🙏🏽 ❤️

[@charlottekendrickheard8058]

I am praying and trusting GOD as HE is preparing me during this process. In JESUS NAME AMEN

[@queenyeiya2074]

Amen 💕

[@niki-mars955]

Amen.

[@melissaj.corbin7675]

“When you are in your proper place, then I can bring a man into your life. “ No truer words from God through your loving teaching words Pastor Blakes. Thank you for this encouragement today. 🥰☺️

[@cpresley45]

After reading the comments, I find that some of you are angry with pastor blakes...why?. He addressed women because women are always complaining about not finding a man. But his topic is geared toward both. The topic says how to pray for a mate. It didn't say who. How many men do you find complaining about not finding a wife/woman?🤔 women ask for the truth but, when we get it, we get angry and shoot the messenger. Someone commented that he's boasting about his relationship..why shouldn't he? Anyone should boast about how God made a change in their life and blessed them. Everything he said is spot on. I think back to the men I turned down because they didn't fit 'my type' and what I thought was 'my type' wasn't anybody's type. I married 'my type' ..now divorced. I was in a relationship with 'my type' for 15 years and he left me and married an older woman whose money was longer than mine. I'm angry with me because I wasted my best years on 'my type.' And to the one who said prayer has nothing to do with it, I beg to differ. Prayer is the key to all things that are good. Bless you pastor and keep doing what you do. There will always be satan in the mix..like u said 'satan is a liar.'

[@cheshahale]

This is a kick in the gut! A good one though!! It’s checking me. I feel a LOT of guilt and shame because I wasted 20 years of my life with relationships that were not purpose and haphazardly living life. Now in my in mid 40s looking like “what happened the last 20 years?” As hard as this message hits. I needed this NASTY medicine 😭😭😭😭☹️☹️

[@KAAT2239]

I’m definitely praying for God to raise up my husband… like wise I am asking Him to prepare me for my mate ♥️ right on time Bishop!! Your love story is an inspiration to us all!!!

[@tyoung3509]

As always, love this message! “God can still do it!” I truly belief this. I’m 40 and never been married. I refuse to believe the things some people in society may say. I am mindful of who I listen to. Honestly, I only watch Bishop Blakes. The world 🌎 is too big to think there are no good men left. My mate may be in Australia or working overseas for all I know. I pray for my husband and will meet him one day. Patiently waiting and will ensure I am becoming that which I desire #3.

[@mztymtaylormadequeen7127]

Facts I'm 58 never been married .engaged but never married. Amen church

[@nomfundomolefe5881]

There is no rush believe me, if he ain't the man ordained for you... It's a waste of time.. I am divorced.. Trust God

[@MarloShaVonne]

@@nomfundomolefe5881 Preach.

[@poweidethompson7256]

Exactly

[@sebclay1526]

Iron sharpens iron. You preaching better than we're shouting

[@JustbeingStef]

“Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us. Unto him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus through out all ages, world without end. Amen.” Ephesians 3:20-21. Sometimes we have to be reminded that God is able to do all things.

[@sohoye5494]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@Patricia-FSH_p379]

Yes...the Word the Word the Word is so powerful sharper than any two hedged sword. God can do anything ❤️👏🏾🙏🏽

[@ngondjodindilipunye5956]

🙏

[@bonnygoldberg5852]

This talk was so beautiful and meaningfully Thank you Pastor Blakes

[@sharonbrown4978]

Beautifully said,well done sir🙏❤️

[@cindeed4422]

I love the point about hitting your personal goals. I have 3 different goals right now: I am writing a book about Hope, I am working on my financial security, and I am working in more service to God. As an older woman, I was married for 22 years. He passed away 6 years ago. God told me don’t chase a man, let him find you and in the meantime serve me! That’s what I did and still doing. I thank God for life and I am looking forward to the next chapter of my life regardless if a mate in included. If not, I love me! Psalms 34:5: “Those that look to him are radiant, and their faces shall never be ashamed’. Powerful message. Musician Bob Marley said it well: “love you with a sense of purpose”. A wonderful line that works today in relationships as well.

[@turner2952]

God gives us just what we need, not what we want. Sometimes, we don't even know what we want or need. Only God knows everything about us. We just have to have the patience to wait on Him to work in our lives. Outstanding message. Thank you so much for your great words of wisdom, Pastor Blakes. God bless you and your family and your ministry!

[@bridgettemontford6409]

I’ll continually wait on God to send me a God fearing man that loves him. And then he’ll know how to love me as his Queen and respect me at the same time

[@anncharles210]

Yes sir, I tell my daughter as well as my sons the best relationship is with God then he will order your spouses. I thank God for being apart of their lives daily. Remember your personal relationship with God will surely order your steps. Remember to pray for our kids to stay focused on Jesus. My eldest son is taking Greek and Hebrew in school and the professor ask him to tutor the other students. Please family keep him in prayer as well as my daughter who will graduate in elementary education in December. I know they both will need a little break but they're young and the sky is the limit. I tell them all the time stay focused.

[@tanjapersona9123]

Make the chandeliers shake 😂. Besides being a wonderful teacher, you're also hilarious. I'm a content marketeer and the way you use words and how you express yourself, You're a gem of words 😇. God bless you.

[@amor9905]

This message made me delete all those dating apps and instead focus my energy on working on myself and trusting God. I will never be discouraged and take a day at a time.

[@denisefrank164]

I tell women this all the time and they get irritated w/me. I’ve turned men down because of knowing they don’t match my purpose. They prove me right when they lash back disrespectfully. I will remain single and continue working on myself until God sends the man who matches my purpose. Not getting in my own way again.

[@Lifestylechangeswithlatia]

I've been praying for a husband 🙏🏾 and at the same time focusing on becoming a better woman, mother, friend, stranger, etc... the husband will come but I don't want to look up and my husband is in my face and I'm still not ready.

[@aprilhiggins5197]

Pastor Blakes, I can say many things but as I have listened to the words you have spoken all I can say is "Thank you" for allowing God to use you to speak to men and women to rise up and be the best we can be! May God continue to give you words to edify "we" His people!

[@queenyeiya2074]

Amen

[@blessedbrand]

This message couldn’t have come at a better time for me. Thank you, Bishop RC Blakes.

[@lynette6356]

God knows how to bring people together. Crazy making ways. Just stay positive. Seek God first. Remember He is the head. I keep looking towards God to get me ready for who He is readying for me so together we can serve His purpose. I never realized what it truly meant when it states let no man take apart what God put together in a marriage. God picks our mates not us picking them. We have free will. But when we place our will at the feet of God surrendering our will to the will of God He knows the condition of the hearts of men. He sees deeper than we can see, allowing God to place who is our mate into our lives. This is what I have been taught by listening to you Pastor Blakes. I’m so blessed to have come across you videos. Thank you. I’m at peace now. I trust God. May God continue to bless you and your ministry with His divine word and purpose so you may also pour out His word among people that are in need of His divine direction for their lives… for people like me.

[@steeenab2306]

I married and have had relationships where I’ve been the breadwinner. Moneys not an issue for me. But at this point in my life I do want a leader. Amen. God bless y’all. ❤

[@shannaj4896]

Powerful message! A lot of gems dropped in this video. Lord I trust you in sending my mate that I have been praying for in Jesus name.. Amen 🙏🙏

[@karenelizabethpalmer4295]

This hits right on Target.Pray is the key&Faith unlocks the door.Consistentcy,being true to yourself&Not wanting it so Bad.Thanks so much Pastor Blake's & Lisa Blake's for your consistent, diligence & Faithfulness to all the Family.

[@ingenesiapopiitjiurutue9891]

I am listening from Namibia-Africa. You are speaking the heart of the Father. I am pausing continually as I am doing self reflection and asking the Father to reveal more

[@lovingmylife-93]

I’m not religious. I do appreciate your teachings. I believe in God and God is definitely using you and I am thankful for you.

[@tiabanks5585]

We also must keep ourselves in shape to Sir, keep our hearts healthy as well! Im doing the work inside and out! Thank you for the teaching Sir!

[@diana5253]

Thank you for this message Pastor. After my last relationship, I focused on emotional healing as well as mental healing but have unfortunately neglected my physical appearance. I have not felt good about it as it has always been an insecurity of mine. This message hit close to home and I know that it is God speaking to me through you. I need to take better care of myself so that I can attract the man God has for me.

[@annwamuyu8560]

This is so me, am waiting patiently for a mate from God. Was dating a pastor 3 years who ended up to be a con. I was heartbroken and mad at God. You know when a man of God cons you millions then mishandled you, you feel like its God Himself mishandling you. I was able to forgive 'God' myself and my ex and am now healed and at a better place to date n get married. Much love from kenya RC Blakes, waa introducted to you recently by my therapist and I owe her a lot for this. Youre such a blessing in my life

[@Passiion_Fruiit]

I’ll be 30 next year and I pray I’ll connect with my mate when we’re both ready ❤️.

[@marcelladouglas5516]

People say wait on God but for those people who got your mate early in life and you are growing old with your mate and you did not have to wait it is easy for you to say wait on God now if you had to wait a long time for your mate and you got your mate I would rather hear from you than someone that never really had to too much on anything God just bless them yes I know God is in control but please be a little sympathetic to those of us who are still waiting especially women that have passed the child bearing age please have a little heart💖

[@candrawilliams6825]

God is still control and of course it not easy but worth it. Always talk to God during the process and ask to renew your mind and heart.

[@terrybogard6542]

And to remove anyone that is not of him out of my life someone that matches and merges with what the Almighty creator of heaven and Earth wants for my life wow this resonates with my spirit I am going to continue to wait patiently for God to do what he does in my life he knows what is for me and I now know what's for me is for me no man can ever take it away

[@bobbijokramm1976]

Nothing like these anointed messages from u Bishop 🙏....as u know u are the father I NEVER had as I am one of MANY. Ur a necessary blessing and I thank the Divine for u often‼️💯👉🤍🙏💪👑

[@dublingirl1691]

Love how Pastor Blakes says that the Creator of the Universe desires to be a part of your relational process and help you!!! Really spoke to me!

[@theadvocate3006]

Thank you for this message! Praying that the LORD lifts up standards against the imposters in my daughter's relationships too!

[@VauveAnais]

I look forward to sharing my testimony one day. I will definitely credit your videos with helping me in my development process. Thank you.

[@anncharles210]

Not only did I hit the like button but I hit share at least 10 times. BE BLESSED FAMILY

[@KatrelleMitchell]

There are no words to express how thankful I am for you, Bishop Blakes! So grateful for your ministry!!! YOU ARE APPRECIATED SIR!!!!!!!!!!

[@tishaadams2366]

Wow. This is powerful. If anyone listened to what he actually said. God told him she was for him and he told her the same. They confirmed what God put together. Thank you Lord 💯🙏

[@ms.forever9282]

Godsend me a man that matches my purpose. I'm prepared for my purpose and I pray that God raises up a man to build up, harmonize and relate to my future. I believe with all of my heart that God will give me a complete revelation of this and He will deliver. He will cleanse my heart, mind, body, and spirit of all these toxic desires. I will no longer be my own worst enemy when it comes down to men. He will help me appreciate and recognize a man that's husband material. I will be on the level of the person I desire and I will be attractive to the soulmate that God chooses for me. I'm faithful and very patient. Praying for your good health, long life, and more blessings to come your way. Thank you so much. More power and peace to you and your family, our living Legend, the man of love and power with a very big heart. You're Godsend to us, Bishop RC Blakes. You are truly An Icon! We truly love and appreciate you for coming into our lives. ❤❤❤ To God Be The Glory. 🙏🙏🙏

[@judygilbert6919]

This is what I need. Praying less stress and anxiety about this.

[@miranda2216]

You are the best teacher hands down!!!! The biblical truth and real life connections is amazing! Definitely transforming my life!!!!

[@catherinemartinez8319]

I really love that music and reminds me of my first husband when we were married in Michigan yeah wonderful music I didn't know you had that type of music

[@sherylegarrett8364]

Good teacher everybody in this whole wide world should of had heard this--- very helpful Thanks alot

[@caresawill.8749]

WoW!

[@louiseottley4995]

I heard it all the way in Trinidad what a word

[@valeriaallen1083]

Thats an awesome analysis...you cant get on a flight with a ticket (your attraction) going to a different destination. Thank you Jesus for that revelation!

[@deborahsteele7427]

"Pastor RC Blake's, you've done it once more again!" ... " Its truly remarkable, just the other day, during my quite prayer time, I was just thinking about these very same topics, in regards to putting our complete trust in the Lord's guidance, in regards to both dating & the marriage relationship, for just as you mentioned, this present generation, is completely " Out of Order", in trying to do things " their way", which is leading many to complete " destruction & discontentment ", all because they have not taken a real good & deep " heart search", of who they are, and many have not "prepared themselves", for marriage, and just like you said, and I am in total agreement with you; that it "first starts with you", and yes, I also agree that we must first be the true example; of what we desire first, before we should consider either dating & getting married!" ... " Just like you said; " Iron sharpens Iron ", and the two individuals can be a " Complimentary Strength", towards each other! " ... " Yes, I am extremely confident in knowing that our heavenly Father above, always, knows what is " Best" for us; and in " due season, & in time" he will order our pathways to meet the person that we have been created for, and there will be a true sense of "divine ones ness", and true inner peace, that cannot be mistaken!!!" ... " Thank you ", for another great teaching, as always!" .. (smiles) .. Blessings always, your heart friend, & Sister in Christ, Ms. Deborah J. Steele - 5/03/22 & 6/11/22

[@karenraines1738]

You have to be…what you desire. Reverend…you Preachhh!

[@christineempressone9197]

Words cannot express how helpful and NEEDED this word is for Us all and All women especially! Wether or not the woman hearing this is single or married! This is a WAKEUP ☎️ call and I am forever thankful for this message. Thank you RC Blake’s Jr.😇

[@berniemcbgood7674]

Bishop "Sir" you are hitting good points on all levels

[@worthbeingology187]

Replay! Yes Bernie Bishop always speak truth. I enjoy his teaching.

[@Prophetess_T]

I thank God for this teaching!!! This was my confirmation that I am on the right path. So many of my friends are settling. I question if I’m going about this thing in the wrong manner, but I’m clearly thinking straight!! Lol lord, I’m so thankful!!! This has brought me great peace!!!

[@margalinesanon4483]

RC Blake I have been listening to you for 2 years now, and everything you have taught me are 100 % true. You said, "if you think you need a man, then you don't need a man" you also said take care of yourself first. You are so right after getting hurt from my desperation for Man.

[@pamsholar4532]

God bless you Bishop and 1st Lady Blakes Jr. Thank you

[@Vinvictory-k5b]

Came across your video after I was so heartbroken 💔 and betrayed by my partner living with for three years . I’m so thankful to you your teachings, advice prayers. I have watched all your videos it really helped me.I got through it for nothing is impossible with God.Hallelujah all praise to God. I’m yrs moved on by the mercy of grace of God. Praying and waiting 35:55 for the right person. Thank you Pastor.

[@vernitadavis4115]

This video was perfect timing for me. I am presently praying for the Right mate. I am being patient this time and waiting on God. Tired of clowns in crowns.

[@leratojanaa1570]

Same convo I had with the Holy Spirit yesterday, I laughed my head off over simple yet obvious things that the Holy Spirit mentioned that I need to put in check! He even reminded me that the fact I live alone, doesn't give me the right to be untidy and that I had to make it a habit to pick after myself including making my bed daily!!! It sounded crazy but He reminded that the habits I get used to (good or bad) will determine a lot in how I will live and treat my mate! Thank you so much for confirming this. Im on it!!!!!

[@pharvey2473]

Thankyou Bishop Blake, & Mrs Lisa Blake, will be sending this to my daughter who is dating with marriage goals

[@Sunshine-wn4eg]

Yasss thanks for playing the vocals Dave Hollister voice is unmatched 🙌🏽

[@lizjackson3269]

I’m so encouraged by this. Thank you SO much!

[@becca1783]

2 years later, my first time hearing this message and it's on time. Thank You God and thank you Pastor! 😊 🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@morountodunokedara]

what a beautiful word this evening !! thank you for this pastor !!

[@MADDAMMARI]

Wow! I’ve been praying about this particular subject for a lil while now. I said I’m leave it to GOD and some enlightenment will surface. So today a coworker outta no where said listen to RC Blakes and sure and behold it lead to this message I seemed to started before and never finished. If that isn’t a sign to my prayers/question then idk what it is. But GOD I’m listening ! 🙌🏽

[@germaineprien7691]

I love this message, and SOoo agree with it, in every way. Its hard to overcome depression in the midst of preparing for a mate God wants for me.

[@mitz1919]

Preach🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I feel this message in my spirit! I’m about to listen to this every morning!

[@valeriaallen1083]

Yes I do believe God is a part of the process. Amen

[@antonianavarro1]

Thank you RC Blakes no man has ever talked to me like this. You healed apart of my heart. You’ve prayed for me and us. Today I pray for you and your wife thank you I thank god for you two. I wish and bless love, protection, peace, happiness amen 🙏🏽 ❤️ -don’t know how to pray good yet but I try🙏🏽❤️😂 thank you so much

[@kimhobbs678]

God bless you Pastor Blakes🙌🏾this conversation is much needed! Thank you for shining the light in the darkness 💯

[@rita4missions]

I sm asking the Lord to heal me of the wounds of the past. 28 yrs of marriage ending in an ugly divorce. i had some many marriage's proposals and refused them all. 20 yrs single now and I think that it must be something wrong with me. Now, I am going to start praying for a man that matches my purpose and my future. I desire to have someone to work together in the Kingdom of God. I cannot just sit on the couch watching TV, I have to continue on with my calling. I have so much to offer and I don't want anymore one way street. God send me a man that matches my purpose, I trust you. Raise up the man designed for my purpose and related to my future. Thank you Lord and thank you for loving me.

[@sparkle9482]

GREAT MESSAGE❤ Work on yourself and God will send you the RIGHT man when he's ready🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@steeenab2306]

I love the way u speak to the brothers too. They have hearts too and we need to be mindful of that. God bless u ❤. Luv y’all.

[@missychosenjohnson161]

Pastor I appreciate your voice of wisdom and the godly paternal male covering role you are fulfilling.

[@LightBeingsBE]

Thank you for your wisdom. I’m claiming and praying. 1.) My husband will be Godly and well tested in his faith, trust and belief in God. - I’m being very well tested the last four years 2.) I have an education and a purpose, I pray our purposes fit. -he will be financially stable and we will be better together. - I look for men of interest that have spiritual fruits. I move on when they are not. (Cursing, bad health, emotionally immature) 3.) I keep a healthy diet, I’m tall and still want to lose weight b/c I’m always keeping the weight in check, I do better in keeping my nails done. I have a personal style. - I want him to be as health conscious as I am… getting scans, and active in running, biking…in the gym together. 4.)I’m staying in purity until marriage. Pastor was set up with two partners, married and in the church! Blessed as a very young man. All I want is Godly, on purpose and healthy and it’s coming! 🙏🏽

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Thank you for always bigging us up, admonishing, encouraging, advising and praying for us like a good father. You are tremendously appreciated.

[@wachukas]

Thank you RC Blakes. Very timely content. Please do one on how to pray for an existing mate.

[@preciousstone2782]

THE IS ABSOLUTELY TREND WORTHY, THANK YOU, DR. BLAKES

[@gwenthornburg1671]

Oh my goodness that is a Beautiful Song about Queen!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@Purposeoverpotential]

THIS IS AWESOME❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾 GREAT WORD🔥🔥

[@ThePosh777]

This is so beautiful and coming up in church I'm all about this message, I'm attracted to holiness and purity because of Christ but then there's days when I think of a virgin that died a virgin praying for a spouse and had a phenomenal life caring for orphans but still never experienced spousal love and I know we all have our journeys but...pray for me...church is also a good place to meet narcissists 😅sorry...anyway pray for me.