How To RUIN Your LIFE in your 20s (DONT do this)

[@Denmosocial]

How many close friends do you currently have? Join our free mens community: www.skool.com/socializers

[@herriqueavelardasilva955]

none. being alone is a blessing in disguise, although is hard

[@chestnut3898]

Zero

[@wet_mouse420]

I don't even have distant friends 🤯

[@skippysway4419]

0 tbh

[@imperialhonorguard1483]

0

[@iw_legendary_sayain2215]

I’m 30 and I refuse to let other guys waste their 20s.

[@Denmosocial]

do you help those around you when you can? i.e. help dudes in 20s at gym or whatever

[@iw_legendary_sayain2215]

@@Denmosocialyes especially in your Socializer community. I try to spend at least an hour just commenting on others guys posts who are asking for advice.

[@user-ok8mz5pn2d]

Turning 30 in Oct and can safely say I wasted my twenties

[@Denmosocial]

@@iw_legendary_sayain2215 you a real one bro

[@iw_legendary_sayain2215]

@@Denmosocial you actually featured me on one of your ‘Socializer of the week’ posts bro. We’ve talked on there as well my name is Aldair! I’m pretty sure you’ve seen me and my activities!

[@yarfadoibrahim8158]

I really like the fact you don't demonize 9-5 jobs like those fucking motivational gurus

[@Denmosocial]

thats cause I worked 9-5s for years man I cant stand trust fund kids who hate on them cause clearly they do not get it

[@billysanderson4921]

@@Denmosocialthank god you’re not an idiot

[@Malachit-dl1qw]

wHeRE's yOuR BUgaTti???

[@AntiContradiction]

Yeah, instead he demonizes anyone who he personally thinks hasn't worked in "the real world" 😂

[@reelsheet]

Exactly, you need to start somewhere.

[@andrewbackhus6829]

18 years old, incredibly grateful to have learned about self-improvement over the last year. The future is very bright.

[@MenisXTO]

& in your hands 🫵🏾

[@FinesseHamilton]

Was your age when I became aware of self help and started my journey, I’m only 20 now but in just 2 years i went from being a weed smoking bum to making my first 6 figure income this year, I own a house now, 2 nice cars and finally bagged a baddie, you can do it bro stay focused and go hard, I hope my perspective is able to shed a little positivity on the grind, it does pay off bro believe in yourself!

[@fallimant]

Same!!!

[@Checkfits]

Like your positivity.

[@anthonyfranco5000]

@@FinesseHamilton what career/ job was able to take you this far and successful at such a young age? (i’m 18)

[@weekipi5813]

what a beautiful marketing strategy. Person doesn't know about an existing problem, marketers make them aware of the problem, and then they sell the solution.

[@sebstins]

Are you talking about Denmo?

[@brunor.4633]

Yeah thats why he makes that videos

[@morbidzombii]

@@sebstinsyeah this entire video is selling you dreams while telling you in your face that you’re a dumbass for listening lmfao. he uses his channel to sell his course.

[@Nightman-eb8mj]

How else are you supposed to sell a solution, if you don't have a problem. If you have a solution to sell, you better start making those problems. And this goes for everything in life. Politics especially.

[@brunor.4633]

@@Nightman-eb8mj Yeah its normal economy

[@Dave5400]

Something you left out that's worth mentioning is that people just don't seem to have stimulating hobbies anymore. Going to the gym, scrolling through social media, gaming, and going out on Friday nights are about the extent of people's free time today and there's nothing very mentally stimulating about this. Yes, working out for an hour every day or so clears your mind, but once you get into it, its just another routine like having a shave in the morning. I learnt to play the piano in my early teens and learning a new piece of music gives me endless mental stimulation. I also do woodworking making all kinds of things and incorporate tasks like chopping wood into my exercise so that I actually get stuff done whilst keeping reasonably fit. I am also a member of a boating club and an astronomy club which allows me to meet new and likeminded people, which I really enjoy but there is virtually nobody my age (early/mid 20's). The vast majority are over 40, and you'd be hard pressed to find a club in a different scenario. For God's sake, do something interesting with your spare time and actually do things.

[@TravisHi_YT]

Pursue creative hobbies that let you create something totally unique and brand new in the world. Everyone should have a creative outlet, no matter how good they are at it.

[@billyredtail]

I don't think anything has changed, I just think it takes a particular kind of person to want to do those things. Personally, my life is my hobbies, making things and engaging with my interests. I don't really understand what it would be like not to have obsessive interests like I do but I don't think it's like humanity has degraded. People have always been like this. I approve of your profile picture by the way. One of my hobbies is WW2 aircraft restoration at a local museum.

[@doriancicko1213]

You are lying

[@kaydnburns5935]

Called affordability. We work 40 hours a week and only have enough money to go to the gym. I don’t have $500 to drop on a piano or other instrument, I don’t have money for really any hobby. Ya know if we could all just get paid better we would all be happier. The single largest difference between our generation and the previous is quality of life and debt to income ratio. A single person could provide for an entire family, now two people working full time barely affords your basic needs.

[@billyredtail]

@@kaydnburns5935 Can complain all you like but it doesn't cost me to do the majority of the things I do. Can get a good pencil and a sketchbook for a lot less than a gym membership and drawing people is probably the most soothing thing I do when I'm stressed out with work. If you have a computer to send this comment, you can download free software. You could design a liquid rocket engine on Onshape with a bit of OpenRocket if you felt like it. All the theory can be learned on MIT OpenCourseWave. I get these are just two pretty random examples but I don't buy your point that life is boring because you don't have money to spend on it. You seem to be inhibiting yourself from doing these things when you could just give it a go. I completely agree with you on the cost of living comments but regardless of unfixable things like that, we still need to enjoy our lives because they will end. Suddenly.

[@rollingdudes8859]

I was able to stay disciplined and by the time I was 30 I had a STEM degree, great career in IT/ACCOUNTING, and $30K in savings. Then the GREAT RECESSION hit, and I lost my career, savings, and great credit rating in my early 30s!!! The SAD REALITY is that you can do EVERYTHING right and one thing out of your control happens to you and it RUINS you!!!

[@Authority47]

Did you bounce back or sit in your sorrows?

[@rollingdudes8859]

Tried to bounce back but FAILED!!!@@Authority47

[@revive5127]

@@Authority47I’m wondering this as well

[@LightBringer666]

survivor's bias is a bitch for these conversations.

[@westheguitarist8546]

Did you bounce back or still crying?

[@Dontdisrespectveezy]

21 years old. gotta say im proud that my life is on track

[@THAYOUNGDON]

Yesirrr I’m 18 trynna make sure I don’t waste it💯

[@Denmosocial]

my man

[@isoliltony]

@@THAYOUNGDONfr

[@syprachu]

your 21, of course your life is on track, it hasn't even started yet. good luck falling into drop shipping traps and wasting money on get rich quick courses and waste of time books

[@Dontdisrespectveezy]

@@syprachu im sorry who are you to dictate my destiny in life?

[@nathanressl]

Gotta buy the course. Won't be happy unless you buy the course. It's so simple! All I need to do is give this guy my money and I'll be happy!

[@cboisandlin9601]

Lmao I sense some sarcasm 😂😂😂

[@mrkt-legends]

My girlfriend and I broke up for 2 years to get my shit together when I was 20. Thought we were going to split for good. Both of us became better people. We both developed ourselves. She got a tech job. I started learning skills, got great grades in community college and transferred into a decent major at a good university. I almost failed high school and made it here. What he says is true. Don't fall into these traps. My girl got back together when we were at a good place. Her and I are now working hard and keep each other progressing forward. Sometimes you are truly not ready for a relationship if you haven't found your drive.

[@foundationuser5043]

Good advice man, I am really thankful for seeing this. So thank you. It gives me an idea of what to do right now, since I’m at the beginning of this same situation right now. So hopefully things turn out okay hahaha.

[@Hojueroso]

Dude its certainly unbelievable when cases as yours find out light. Great to hear both from you relation experience but mostly from the drive foundamental

[@irvingceron1016]

Lol, just find a new girlfriend.

[@SS-gi5cx]

@@irvingceron1016stupid comment, they just needed to work on themselves. Looks like you like the easy way

[@celisairlines4214]

I just broke up after 2 years, thank you for your advise

[@planettiktok3258]

im 27 , listen to Denmo

[@Denmosocial]

this guy gets it, username hilarious tho

[@planettiktok3258]

@@Denmosocial lmao 😂 Its my username for when I was going to start a KZbin channel reposting TikTok’s and compilations 😆😆🫣 great name right ? Even made a fire Favicon / logo

[@therocinante3443]

Get the channel going bro!

[@qerlee6988]

27 here too! 😂

[@fr5229]

I’m even older than that, listen to Denmo

[@jacobb8832]

I'm 23 years old, born with high functioning ASD, living with my parents, having no close friends, still working on my mental/physical health, and still don't fully know what I want to do with my life. And still a virgin. It sounds a little childish, and I sometimes feel ashamed of where I'm at right now, but it's alright. I still have time to figure things out before I turn 25. I'm still going strong. Thank you so much for the video. Keep up the good work!

[@jamieholt2547]

Bro same, I’m also 23 with autism and relate to a lot.

[@jacobb8832]

@jamieholt2547 Hey! How are you doing?😀

[@diegobrando6115]

Same except I have 2 close friends and I’m not a virgin

[@jacobb8832]

@@diegobrando6115 Good for you.

[@jonathanwilliams365]

​@@jacobb8832I have trouble talking to people coming up with topics to talk about

[@embracinglogic1744]

I still can't understand why our parents and the school system don't prepare us for life.

[@planettiktok3258]

they dont want us to realize whats going on lol

[@Denmosocial]

watch the video then comment

[@josephthomas8714]

I feel like a big problem with public education is how government driven it is. The schools have 0 incentive to prepare you to be an adult, just to cram you with as much information as they can to make the government pay them. Realistically your knowledge base after 6th or seventh grade is all you need from general education, and then we should really be developing actual skills. It should not be possible to graduate high school without knowing how to drive a car, apply for a job or start a business, and file taxes.

[@messedupet1875]

Lifes always changing and a lot of people cant keep up.

[@andro-rl9hx]

Because parents don't know, and schools are restricted by the curriculum

[@MrFrigid247]

"Bro" is out here selling snake oil "Bro," just wants to help the homies out "Bro" Buy my course "Bro." I Genuinely feel bad for the people looking up to you. Teaching people to never hold yourself personally accountable, basically saying "If your life sucks, it's not your fault! Everyone is out to get you! Everyone else made your life suck!" One of your greatest powers as a human being is the free will you have to take control of your life and your own actions. No one needs to spend $130 a month for a course from a 20 something year old who, just like the teachers he claims have no life experience, HAS NO LIFE EXPERIENCE. You have the power to choose the decisions you make in every moment, be responsible for your life and your own actions and become a well rounded person.

[@bromomentbabyface6804]

Shit, this is the best advice. Started watching this video, this is the shit he should be saying if he ain't already. Gonna do something else now, thanks

[@umu5037]

Best advice than the whole video. People like this will always share their 'wisdom' and point of view by comforting the viewer or making them worse to give a 'solution'(their course). I get the idea of not always will be your fault, but is your responsability at the end of the day.

[@WillyG38]

Beautifully said.

[@mattanderson616]

The guy scrubbed toilets and worked construction, but worked his way towards financial freedom through online content that resonates with people online (sub count evidence of that). Crazy how you define that as no life experience. Entrepreneurship is the hardest thing in the world. Of course everyone has the autonomy to forge their life path, but understanding a common life path and the implications of factors like the school system and corporate environment, and putting it on the context of one's own life can be helpful on its own. This can one start making moves towards a better direction, and avoid common pitfalls. 35 minutes of free, helpful content by the way, in addition to other free resources. Probably hours of setting up equipment, recording, editing, branding, etc. And he's putting his name on the line, taking accountability many aren't brave enough to do. MrFrigid247, the man behind an anonymous account only offering critical comments without well thought out arguments on specific topic points.

[@PorkBoy69]

Sounds like my friend that loves to moan about how much life sucks and then also moans at how terrible working hard is. So he just exists in a state of constant misery and can't even talk to me about how I live my life because it's a direct contradiction to his misery, and it stresses him out to know that being pitiful as he is, is not the best he could be doing. He would rather live in a state of denial and misery than put in the work.

[@becomingself-actualized1380]

I’m 42 and telling you that you can still change things even if you screwed some shit up before. It’s all about just starting to take the right steps and becoming the person you want to be.

[@Brandon-mt4tm]

Preying on insecurities? Check. Demonizing women? Check. Selling courses? Check. The best thing about being out of my 20's is being comfortable with who I am. And i can smell this toxic bullshit from a mile away. Great business strategy, bro.

[@jifpeanutbutter1549]

Real tawlk

[@Flexxjeny]

That’s so obvious though, generic advice for desperate people. It’s all business

[@pockettots9401]

They're all falling for it too. The new generation of males are screwed

[@lilquakeroats554]

Idk, women on dating apps in 2024 overestimate their values and get ego boosts thanks to countless thirsty simps DMing them. These thirsty men forget that half the population is female and yet they act like they’re a rare resource thanks to being unable to control their hormones. This builds up pressure in all men when even low value women think they deserve to be treated like goddesses.

[@lilquakeroats554]

Idk, women on dating apps in 2024 overestimate their values and get ego boosts thanks to countless thirsty simps DMing them. These thirsty men forget that half the population is female and yet they act like they’re a rare resource thanks to being unable to control their hormones. This builds up pressure in all men when even low value women think they deserve to be treated like goddesses.

[@zigotina]

in short: be an influencer and sell courses and other bs online jobs

[@Endermanv-ot2if]

"how i make 50k a minute talking about my interests"

[@marcelofonseca3105]

Thanks. You saved me 10 minutes of my life!

[@marcelofonseca3105]

30*

[@marcelofonseca3105]

30+*

[@CollyWobbles._3]

U missed the whole point looser

[@balst3rr]

30 here. By now, most, but not all of my "friends" from high school have officially given up trying to better themselves. Its sad. I watch to remind myself there are people who are still trying to excel and be better, because these chaches from my hometown aren't it. Love ya Denmo, keep up the good word.

[@twomgsx3]

YESSIR love to hear this shit! you said it the best!

[@kansascitylunatic6800]

20. In a financial mess. Pray for me 🙏

[@Denmosocial]

i pray for you brother

[@samuelamizade9395]

Lack of money this generation biggest problem. Today's system takes everything from you if you are in lack of money

[@getdrip1664]

I been in your situation, feel that bro

[@cge_edwin]

Real same here

[@Ponderosa518]

I’m 33 and when I was 20 I was in a mess too. Keep going-it gets so much better.

[@bluebunbunny]

15 year old female watching this!!! Trying to set my life up with good intentions and values. Thank you for the advice!

[@HarrisonThull]

17, and my main problem is that I’ve been homeschooled since I was 9, and I feel like it messed me up for life. But I want to improve

[@p_moneydollasign]

Def not bro if you wanna improve jus dont be stagnant. Go out and get into some shit and you'll be above most of you peers already

[@Hojueroso]

Man its crazy to hear from others as my age. Personally I haven't experienced homeschool but I heard from close friends.Honestly I think its the right time and right place for you to turn everything upside down

[@kyselovno]

Man, do not give up, the life is ahead. Do your best and all we guarantee you'll succeed. We believe in you and we pray for you.

[@Denmosocial]

you got so much time bro dont worry

[@PerryColdwell]

You’re 17 bro…you have all the time in the world to build your life the way you want it. Get too it.

[@georgecruz1434]

19 years old, I work 40 hours a week, I work in the medical field and I already invested over 2.5k within a year. I plan to do 5k the end of 2024. My mental and financial state is good. However I must start working out again.

[@hvllxwmakesnoises]

same here but working in aerospace and having 5k+ in retirement. put like $200 in crypto, and am gonna try growing my stock portfolio. this isn't something i plan on doing my whole life, so i'm setting myself up to be able to stay stable in case this job capsizes.

[@HelloThereWhy]

If you plan on retiring you gotta start saving way more aggressively man. Look up an investment calculator if you want, someone in their 20s needs to invest $1000 a month minimum. Otherwise you’re falling behind.

[@georgecruz1434]

@@HelloThereWhy no your right. I need to be more aggressive on my investments

[@Jojez02]

Hi, I’m 21 and I’m going to start soon to work 9-5. Ma I ask you some tips on how do you balance 40hrs of work a week and social life/spare time in young age? Thank you

[@keoni4824]

@@Jojez02i’ve been on an 8-8 for the last 1.5 year(s), keep in touch & maintain friends, pick and choose which hobbies you like and use pto 💀

[@CenationTroop]

I’m 30 now. Wasted most of my twenties. Only started to wake up when I was about 28 and made changes. Still not where I want to be but going in the right direction. Greetings from Ireland Denmo! 🇮🇪

[@depreza68]

2:19 School Brainwash 4:04 Bad Advice 7:42 First Career Opportunity, Stuck in your job 9:40 Moving out Living off independent, Isolation 14:02 Looking for help 15:03 Dating in 2024 20:02 You finally get a bf/gf 22:48 Midlife crisis

[@MrX-nc8cm]

Thanks

[@_quelevalg123]

Thxs bro

[@zifebort8245]

TYSM I needed this

[@acidicsal]

I’m 23 and lost most of my youth due to severe depression. I’m currently in the path of recovery and can finally think of a future I’d like to live in. Thank you so much for this video :)

[@MrDoboz]

just don't be surprised when you realize that the future you want well might never come along. stay afloat for what is, and not for what you hope will be

[@Iobserveandtalk]

20, and I’m currently in total shit guys, wasting my young years. I find absolutely no motivation in anything, it seems like everything is the same and nothing will change, I feel so small and impotent. But somehow hope is still exists in my head. And I’ll beat this cruel reality, we will bro, no matter what shit is up for us we’ll rip through it. Bright future is there for us!

[@Pacio0]

Gl bro

[@maxia4584]

Bro read the myth of Sisyphus by Albert Camus Workout Get into philosophy and know yourself at every age It ain’t over till it’s over

[@TheRealMrBillyBob]

Good age to be at. I'm 26 and looking back, I know what I'd have done differently. - Allocate 1-3 hours of video game time, no more, no less. Only 1 hour if 2-3 hours interferes with the rest of the schedule. - Wake up before 7 AM to exercise and eat healthy breakfast - Never go to bed past midnight - Read more books - Focus less on trying to do well in undergraduate classes, they're designed to be easy and make you forget the rest of your goals in your life (like the LSAT or similar tests). - Social media is only allowed for archiving your life and staying in contact with people, not for mind-numbing reel scrolling for hours.

[@falcongamer58]

​@TheRealMrBillyBob how did you get into the routine

[@maxia4584]

@@falcongamer58 practice, practice practice practice try everyday

[@supremesebz]

19 years old, working 30 hours a week, 2nd year in college 3.4 GPA on pace to graduate in 2026 as a finance student. In the gym every other day

[@idezi3395]

You’re doing good bro. Keep that shit up🙌🏾

[@Anonymous_00553]

Where are you from bro? USA?

[@Denmosocial]

you are a role model

[@vinnieg1227]

finance to finance person, get that gpa above a 3.5, many finance places won’t even look at you if it’s below that.

[@toby8266]

Keep going my man !!

[@Nachhito]

I'm 22 and this is exactly what I needed bro, im so grateful

[@Denmosocial]

gotchu bro

[@Jerrydiehard]

Im 23 and its crazy how much your early years can impact everything you laid out here. What got me through was the unbending will to game the system wherever possible. I refused to make my life anything less than what I wanted. Now im a dad, married to my highschool crush, have a masters degree, make six figures, got my own place, and have over 100k in retirement. Everyone here can do the same thing if you put yourself in the right positions by planning ahead, creating layers of backup plans, and eliminate the option of failure.

[@fn1709]

What do you work as ?

[@Jerrydiehard]

​@fn1709 I work in cybersecurity

[@FinesseHamilton]

I need friends like you man, I’m 20, can’t say I’m as accomplished as you but I’m the only one in my old friend group who made 6 figures last year, got my first house, and meanwhile my friends just play video games smoke weed and scroll social media all day 🥲

[@TheRealObama420]

@@Jerrydiehard hey man, i want to break into cyber sec and consider it my path in iT. I hear you cant just jump in it and need either side of IT/software skills to jump into that type of role. any advice or tips would help as im really considering college for the first time after 3 years of graduating hs and working in trades

[@Jerrydiehard]

@FinesseHamilton You're doing great man! Keep killing it

[@PlanetEarth7894]

I’m 22, still figuring out life like most of you out there. I’m just writing this for me as a remainder in 6 months to check the progress I’ve made so far, I’m tired of the mistakes I made in the last 4 years of my life. I recently decided to start college for a Computer Science program, started taking care more of my body, going to the gym here and there, I’ll test myself and see if I still keep these habits and improve 6 months from now, we got this! We’re all in here in our own journey💯

[@SudoMudo]

Just turned 26 man.. Life's rough but I appreciate advice like this. Much love

[@Denmosocial]

keep going bro

[@folks2520]

You will never make it old head😅😂

[@kok842]

I’m 22 and I legit followed a similar path during my 18-22. I got into a relationship in highschool and moved in with her after. Ended up dropping out of college and gained weight. After being cheated on for the 2nd time I snapped. Moved out and into a place with my brother. Life is stabilizing now, I’ve lost most of the weight I gained and I’m not afraid to be uncomfortable. Thank you Denmo, I thought for the longest time that I was alone in my struggle.

[@Bad_Fur_Day]

Just turned 32. Still listen to Denmo because he drops gems.

[@Denmosocial]

my man

[@pexce2k588]

I’m 15

[@trevorsOSRS]

Also 32, same.

[@justinaccount9920]

16

[@kingbucketz182]

I never really fell for the whole school, work, wife and kids ordeal. Sure I wanted and have those things now, but I wanted it to be in my terms. No surprises. The plan was to be developing business skills while working whatever job paid enough to support myself comfortably. My life looked as if I was a complete loser to my peers because I lived at home still at 30. Little did they know, I was building something. So I’m 35. I’ve moved out with my fiancé. At my day job I make 50k and the business makes a little over 60k (up from 30k last year and growing). In 5 years I’ll likely have everything I’ve ever wanted. It just goes to show you that there’s no real blueprint or set way of doing things in life. As long as you keep in mind what you want out of your life. You’ll be fine.

[@labcoatreads]

Stuff like this motivates me to push more at 26. Things are rough now but it takes time yall--

[@stevenboo3053]

Too all the young bucks out there, listen up. DON’T GIVE UP!!

[@i__7444]

I'm 19 yo, female. I'm not in college, i have no sense of direction on what i want to do. I barley managed to complete highschool and graduate. Now i'm just working a 9-5 trying to figure out what i want to do while i help pay bills.

[@sebastianaureliomalasquezr9931]

I'm 20, your videos are gold for me. Grettings from Peru!

[@OwlsUniqueSounds]

I'm glad I started a business at 19. Don't waste your time, do what makes you happy, do something that helps you provide for your future family, effortlessly. Most importantly, don't listen to your teachers, listen to the people who are where you want to be.

[@roderix1885]

What kind of business are u doing broski?

[@Isaac-fp2dj]

Cannot express how much I appreciate long form whiteboard videos. 19 by the way, I’ll be 20 in about 7 months. It’s also worth noting I live with my brother on our own.

[@highselfesteem]

Yo. The same.

[@ahhhhhyeahh]

I’ll be 20 in 7 months too‼️💪 we got this my man

[@dioscarlet]

I’m 19 and I have completed this cycle already. Now i feel so much more fortunate and hopeful in my life because u realized so many more people had to work super hard to get there. Wish me luck guys.

[@Drew.DrivesYT]

in my 30's and would likely be considered a "failure" by most twentysomethings chasing the hamster wheel, but I've never been happier or more fulfilled and comfortable with who I am in my life. once you realize that damn near everything is a well-crafted yet thinly-veiled distraction from what _really_ matters in life, the truth will set you free. it took me my entire 20's and some of my 30's to fully understand this, but I'm glad I did. "wasting" your 20's is a state of mind and perspective. shift it, and everything changes.

[@Dekkard5]

36 and I'm starting to have a midlife crisis. Alone, both parents passed away so my safety net is essentially gone. I only just finally got a full-time job a few months ago. Never had a girlfriend, never bothered to try since they're all out of my league. All my friends moved out of state. I did finally get my driver's license a couple of years ago and have a car. I'm trying to get back into drawing again to get better at it to start making money off it.

[@terka3305]

I was 38 when I finally found love, I hadn't dated anyone before and I don't regret it at all, because you have to go into a relationship only when you know it really makes sense, until I was 35 I was in a terrible situation financially and threatened foreclosure, I didn't have anyone at the time, who could help me, because I moved to a foreign country and the relationships in my family were complicated, anyway, after I found a boyfriend completely by accident, I opened my eyes and started to prioritize myself and to stop being so strict with myself, my life has changed a lot and I believe you can do it too, everything is possible, don't give up! I believe in you, I really do

[@konstantinmtg]

Hope you'll doing great and achive your goals!

[@keithwinters2444]

Sounds to me like you would benefit from a good dose of ambition. Wake every day with an aggressive goal, go out and push HARD to get it. Keep doing that, you'll raise your confidence, aura, and what you have to offer. Then, the girls will easily come to you. They are not out of your league either. Just looking pretty is not a talent, and it goes away eventually. Your ambition and what it gets for you will last. Get going!

[@stereo-soulsoundsystem5070]

He would benefit from a lot more than that big dawg.

[@cheetos1302]

​@@The_QuestionautCome to the gym fella 🤝

[@itsjustmecindy]

The one thing I would add is building a sturdy relationship with God. That’s where your confidence is derived from. That’s where you learn that having that one thing is more important than the rest. It allows you to take a risk on yourself and your dreams. My biggest regret was not realizing that soon enough or reading the Bible for myself before making prejudice judgments. It’s full of knowledge and advice that is imperishable.

[@kostynhoffman1520]

As a former Christian, I agree that faith can be a large pool of strength for someone. Where I stepped out of believing is when I started seeing people around me becoming almost dependent on it. Over time I’ve learned that we are so much stronger than we think we are. And also I stopped being a Christian cause I didn’t agree with their views on a lot of things 😋

[@alfredill45]

​@@kostynhoffman1520Have you tried giving Islam a chance? I am a ex-Protestant and I converted to Islam few years ago it gives me the ultimate purpose and motivation

[@kostynhoffman1520]

@@alfredill45 no thank you 😁🤝

[@wizboi2480]

There's no God

[@kostynhoffman1520]

@@wizboi2480 that’s what I think too but I was trying to be less blunt about it

[@Maverick2615]

I’m 26, and a financial analyst. Very accurate man amazing job. Some of the other things I’ve worked out but am guilty of wasting time to bs consumption including the dating apps. You’ve inspired me to once again get back on the free time productivity train, thanks!

[@curse2744]

I managed 100 days since new year of no audio, no video, just nature and family. I fell off track. I'm very glad I found you. I'm gonna resume succeeding now.

[@antoniogalindo2080]

24 years old, started university a bit late but on track to graduate business in 2 years, have been working 40 hours a week since 19, no savings but a car and stable apartment life, this video really helped me man, keep going bros.

[@user-kn1zm9vh2y]

Hey bro I am in the same situation, I also started uni late but I only have a year left

[@antoniogalindo2080]

@user-kn1zm9vh2y Way to go congrats bro

[@tsofunnyy86]

21 and finally locking in with content creation and holistic health. Spent too many hours on overthinking and stupid ass dating apps 🗣️this vid is a sign. LETS LOCK IN BOYS💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

[@rainy5517]

Same here. This year I wanna make a big change, maybe make some money thru yt and give my parents the life they truly deserve. that's my main goal, making my parents happy

[@Oku_yappin]

Overthinking did me in

[@Lancer95_305]

Honestly the best advice I got was from my English teacher he told me before i graduated that life will test u and destroy but don't give up just keep fighting no matter what

[@printedprops8730]

The microphone is fine. Whats wrong is your room has too much reverb or echo going on. You can add drapes, curtains, soft furniture to dampen the sound. Or even get acoustic panels on your walls if you want to spend some $$ Thanks

[@bhavjotsingh3190]

I'm 23 and I feel like I'm wasting my life slowly... I'm trying to do the right thing... Thanks for making the video ❤

[@thepinkkush]

I’m a 24 yo woman and I realized I’ve had my mid life crisis at 21. The transition from girl to woman is beautiful

[@Denmosocial]

glad it helped ya, cheers

[@1075Marijavera]

24 and god same.. 21 was the worst year of my life.

[@emmastone8779]

@@1075MarijaveraI’m 20 about to turn 21, not looking forward to it anymore 😂😂😂

[@wm8840]

Same I'm 24 and I finally got serious about improving myself and I've started to really think deeply about what path I want to take in my life, I was incredibly lost at 21

[@emmastone8779]

I’m 20 about to turn 21 this month & im not looking forward to it judging by the comment section 😭✋💀

[@senshai1267]

27, and it is a lonely grind

[@Denmosocial]

keep going bro

[@epicthunder2502]

​@@Denmosocialbig bro I am a student under the age of 23 I see my mate getting Gfs and I am kind of pressured to get one And deep down inside of me I know it is the wrong thing to do... I want to set my life straight and have a great future and I am trying to resist that urge of diving into relationships because I know it is disastrous for my age.... I don't know if I am doing the right thing... I need to know

[@stereo-soulsoundsystem5070]

You're not doing anything right calling an internet stranger your big brother. I pray you figure your life out

[@stereo-soulsoundsystem5070]

You're not doing anything right calling an internet stranger your big brother. I pray you figure your life out

[@The_Questionaut]

​@@stereo-soulsoundsystem5070Self reflect on what you did here, it's unnecessary

[@vauxvids]

I’m 22 and I thank god that I have already been through rage and no social life. Because now I am enlightened about women and have great social skills

[@nathanmolina3256]

I’m 25 I look forward to life, because there’s so much to learn in life ! Listening to this with intent and passion.

[@carcrusher1387]

im 17... turned 1 day ago actually...... alr guys time to grind.. all of us need to stick together and have each others back. keep up the good work

[@justthien]

I like you man. Unlike other "youtubers" out there whom I find little phony and pretentious, I can sense your genuine, a man who really wants to give as much honest and genuine advice as possible, like a friend, a nice older brother

[@isaaclawrence2877]

22, I like how straight to the point this advice is. I can tell you are speaking from experience. I'm entering a new part of my life (moving across the country to go do summer sales with my guys) and I couldn't be more excited to become independent and establish a brotherhood surrounded with like minded men working toward their goals.

[@therapidliquid.9470]

He’s selling his course

[@CarpeDiem-cw2hq]

29 and willing to make the rest of the year a blast. Greetings from Medellín, Colombia jack. A big hug and so much love for you my man.

[@Denmosocial]

respect buddy stay safe out there

[@chidowuan4762]

Y yo en México también viendo sus videos, esperando igual hacer que este año sea el que las cosas mejoren, saludos hasta Colombia parce!

[@AloneRacecar]

So I don't know if I'm too late to comment this, nor I'm not sure if I belong here but here we are: I am just about to be turning 26 (as of making this comment) and I am happy to say that I am in a good headspace with my life! Mostly thanks to not having a huge ego, thinking more critically and keeping a balance with everything that I do. I'm also happy with how my KZbin channel is going, and I've got a great girlfriend who may be on the chubby side, but that okay! I still love her and we always got each others backs. Sure do I wish some things were better in my 20s? Absolutely, it's human to think that way. But no matter what, I'm doing far better than where I was when I left school. But there's always room for a little bit of improvement. Even if it's just 1%. But hey, everyone is different. Everyone goes through life differently and at different paces. Some advice sticks around that works and some doesn't that don't. It all comes down to how one individual choose to live and take action in their lives.

[@yannickvdputten]

yea man i can relate to this. i was in a relationship for almost 8 yrs and all my attention and purpose was going into our relationship. the relationship ended and i was lost for about 2 years struggeling with addiction. just kept hitting the gym 4 days a week, working non stop in construction and broke my body so bad i couldnt even stand straight. now i got my goals straight and have a purpose on what i want for my future. being alone is not bad, but feeling lonely can make or brake u i guess. Never again man. Even if i will be with a girl in the next cpl of years, I will never ever EVER loose myself for somebody else. and just like u said, it can be great to be together but u just cant put urself on number 2. ur the biggest project u will ever work on. as last Ur not gonna have all good days, but dont let a good day get destroyed because of 1 negative thought. Im going to work out now. Thanks for the vid and keep it up guys :)

[@tonaxysam]

I'm about to turn 20 and I'm so glad I found this video on my feed, I am used to go over life without any goals but a huge opportunity appeared for me this year, so if things get right I will be able to change my whole life. And this is precisely the path I will follow. Saved the video and see you next time in the classroom

[@Ali_Ahmed_Yousuf]

I am 18, But I was already a lot since the age 6!!! I was funny as hell but some trauma change my life but since the age 15 I came back!!! Denmo you are literally a Legend!!!

[@iarly6857]

I'm from Brazil, i have 25 years, trying learning english and listing to advice.

[@connorappleton1945]

As a 23 year old who became a sixth form teacher straight after graduating summer last year, I feel attacked. XD

[@DJREKT313]

im 24yrs old, the best thing ive learned in life is you get out exactly what you put into anything, your life is yours and it always will be, the way you spend your life is 100% up to you and no one elses. as long as you're making strides to be a better person than you were yesterday, you're doing just fine.

[@WilliamPreat]

I’m 19, been working my ass off on minimum wage to fund my music equipment and travels for years. finally got my Finnish residence card and I’m moving from Australia to Finland for a gap year to try and survive out there on my own and learn to be independent. Been absolutely scared shitless, but everything morning I wake up and push myself to keep going on even though I am filled with so much anxiety and uncertainty about it. I really appreciate videos like these and you are fantastic at explaining things clearly and making a strong point. After this year I want to fully commit to investing, building my business while working at a 9-5 to support it until it gets off the ground. Big love to everyone in the comments, really loved reading and hearing from y’all. It’s never to late to make changes in your life, as long as you have the opportunity of life!

[@hagopav]

25 in 4 months. This scared the shit out of me. I started a PhD a while ago and am happy in that. I work out, i play music and usually have an “okay” classification of my free time. But i kinda want something serious at this stage. I want a serious girlfriend, not just the casual stuff i get. This motivated me to focus more on me and continuing to have casual stuff.

[@Denmosocial]

glad it motivated you homie. stay strong

[@lautarobeheran]

17 and in road of building an empire

[@Denmosocial]

my man

[@omotayosatuyi252]

Yes sir come on

[@twomgsx3]

Yessir good shit

[@adrianmichaelarena8905]

Absolutely fucking yes siiiiirrrrrr

[@quasar8589]

16 year old here, teens represent

[@JairMarcano-j4t]

16 years old. Lost and broken. Took a lot of Ls in 2023. Not sure what I wanna do in the future.

[@Дашням-ю8б]

Same here

[@therapidliquid.9470]

bro you’re 16

[@justkallmej2983]

@@therapidliquid.9470exactly, he ain’t got much time. I feel the similarity as him and just turned 17.

[@slo3442]

Dude ur gonna be ok, highschool universally sucks and its not your fault. You just have to live and learn rn and be kind to yourself

[@HJ-ek6hn]

I know it probably doesn't seem like it, but you have so much time bro, 16 is literally nothing (I mean that with the utmost respect btw). You can take Ls for the next 5 years and still be early in the game. I would advise that you learn from your failures instead of dwelling on them.

[@nonanimeprofilepic]

im 32 and ive been depressed and suicidal the past few months over getting out of a bad relationship and being harshly rejected by a girl at work, my life feels stagnant and feels like it's going no where but I've been slowly changing by just making small goals like clean my apartment and having a major goal in wanting to pursue a career i like doing in a couple of yrs. Your explanation of being pressured in having a gf and a house was spot on and I feel like everyone in my family doesn't understand what I am going through. Just wanna say thanks for making this video to help me realize I'm not hopeless and theres a future for me.

[@RONALDMCFONDLE]

Im 28 n still trying to make my dream work. Too many things hve happened for me to give up now. I realise the bad things that happen are mostly lessons from the universe for you to better yourself so that you could reach your goal without being a dick. The challenges are less hard when you put urself in the growth mindset and esp when you are doing smth u love……no matter what, you’ll always wanna make it fking work. So i hope all this effort will come into fruition one day. And videos like this only keeps us going by grabbing each day by the balls n owning it hard. Thanks bro, your effort will not be wasted, deep sincere appreciation brother 💪🏻🙇🏻‍♂️

[@folks2520]

Too late old head😂😂😂😂

[@feel_the_wrath]

Newly 18. Big ambitions big dreams, trying to make discipline a habit, trying to refocus and repurpose my environments to fit my needs. Working a basic 9-5 job on work release (avg 32 hours a week), but training mma consistently as that’s the career i want the most and has been that way since 13 years of age.

[@lifeafterresidency]

That's stupid man. You're not gonna make any money doing MMA. You could, but not likely.

[@feel_the_wrath]

@@lifeafterresidency ive been committed to it for 5 years. I have backup plans to be a nutritionist so that im still in some sort of fitness/health industry but it’s something im obsessed with. Genuinely obsessed. So i believe that it’s worth it. Despite the big chance that it falls on its face. That’s a chance im willing to take to be great and i believe that wholeheartedly.

[@feel_the_wrath]

@@lifeafterresidency but i will admit this. You’re absolutely right. It IS stupid. Very stupid. Reckless. But I’d rather be reckless and have taken the chance than be mediocre.

[@lifeafterresidency]

@@feel_the_wrath you have a back up plan which is smart. I hope it does work out for ya. Im a 34 year old that trains MMA for fun so I've seen a lot of young hopefuls

[@feel_the_wrath]

Understandable, I appreciate you looking out for the young hopefuls like me (thank you brother), this sport is not one to be taken lightly and it's taken a few years for me to understand and come to terms with how dangerous it really is along with the financial struggles (which I'm coming up with a plan for that as well, I discussed with my family and how I want to budget things and move forward with my career, they're on board with it all things considered) and I believe I'm ready for that commitment long-term. @@lifeafterresidency

[@thementalityman6993]

I'm currently 22 (soon to be 23) and really started to work on myself since I'm 18, some things started even earlier when I was 15 or so. When covid happened, I started to learn how I could make money online and acted on it as much as I could. I'm not at the endgoal yet, but still grinding and starting to see results! It really pays off working your ass off in something no one wants to commit to!

[@chaz-vo5tu]

This video sums up my life so far. I'm in the Navy and I'd say I am at the fifth stage. Not enjoying being in but only staying in my comfort zone because of the amazing benefits, I feel stuck, not knowing whether to take the risk and get out or continue being in, hating my life. I got a lot of time on my hands trying to find ways to improve myself, and I just happened to stumble across this video. Thank you man, this was an eye opener.

[@BubbleGutz]

Iv been thinking about the navy,may I ask what is your rate?

[@chaz-vo5tu]

​@@BubbleGutz Quartermaster

[@shawnyewest]

I was in a downward slope today and starting to slide further. With this video, you've completely stopped that momentum and I'm now back in the stratosphere where I belong. Thank you for your time and effort, Denmo, you're doing great work.

[@adriangonzalez2756]

I'm 24, I'm working, I live alone, I work, CS and Cybersec student, and lately, I've been doing this kind of journey of self-healing, depression fighting, ADHD issues, and, idk why life keep showing me this type of content, but this makes me happy, and think about my current life and kinda the future. This is amazing content, thank you for taking the time for doing this. I wish more people find the value in this as I'm feeling I did today.

[@kwanzy4774]

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@zickster]

I’m 23 and I just got a new job as a Cartographer making 50k a year. I was at an internship for six months, and I’m grateful for finally getting the big job. But, I’ve realized I hate the work I hate going in random neighborhoods imaging assets like water hydrants and going into peoples backyard. Mainly because I’ve been in some hairy situations where paranoid people approach me. I follow safety protocols and everything. I just want a change and I don’t know how to do it other than go back to school.

[@gulefekan4218]

what does your job consist of?

[@zickster]

@@gulefekan4218 Going out in the field with a gps device and grabbing points for gas pipes. Then going in the office and mapping it. I deal with the whole upper portion of my state

[@zickster]

@@gulefekan4218Going to job sites with my gps equipment and measure pipe lengths and fittings than go map it in the office or home.

[@rodrigoanjos6256]

8:50 you dont got experience in those types of jobs and youre giving advice about it , when you just said counselors and teachers were bad for doing that

[@YusefWakeel]

I’m 23 turning 24 soon. Working a corporate 9-5 job exhausted, living with my parents saving up though. Trying to work on side hustle to get into remote work so I don’t waste my life away commuting to and from an office.

[@Azooe]

hoping you make it 🙏 don't be ashamed with living with your parents free rent is free rent 🤷😂

[@YusefWakeel]

@@Azooe appreciate you and yeah it’s not horrible but I do miss being able to have friends over or have a girl over. Lately I’ve been traveling a lot so I’m cutting that down for the next 6 months to focus on saving up. My target is 30k savings before dipping the job currently at 17k

[@typrintustheempathingphara6858]

I just turned 20. And rude awakening. I say be smart. Save every penny you can. And STACK UP. A lot of people don’t have that privilege. Take advantage

[@mattr2626]

Do not be ashamed to live with your parents. Let me say that again: do not be ashamed of it. I'm 25, I have a corporate job, and live at home. My boomer parents try to shame me into moving out but all of my coworkers and friends think I'm doing the smart thing. Some people are too out of touch with the reality in 2024 to realize housing in unaffordable when you're young

[@YusefWakeel]

@@mattr2626 I’m not ashamed, it’s nice having the saving and flexibility Just not as much privacy and freedom so it’s a trade off

[@JayB-6]

People underestimate the impact of a father your literally a version of him

[@anarion203]

Female 27 yo. I was super exited watching your video, and finally found some advice not from a "positive psychology" bs way (u know, acceptance and unconditional self-love crap). It's like, "ok life sucks, let's do something about it", and that's what most girls needs too. Just saying my thanks here.

[@thomasbaxter2240]

I'm 23, lived most if not all of my life with depression and I finally beat it about a month ago. So yeah I would have loved to know back then what i know now, life without depression rocks.

[@rext4607]

How did you beat it?

[@danielleg6638]

​@@rext4607 trusting in Jesus

[@astryx4437]

So my life is already ruined basically. I've never even completed or encountered any of the points in this video

[@waleedkhaled4109]

I'm 26 and I'm becoming 27 and have never been in a relationship or had a close female friend yet!! Even though I'm reading books I'm doing a mechanical engineering degree I'm a former powerlifter and I got back to the gym again I'm 6ft tall have a good look and have a big clothing and shoe collection.

[@alexisrivera3654]

Dropped out of school to pursue sales. One month in and already signed 10+ deals.

[@amayakof278]

A girl here. Sir, I really enjoyed this video, thank you! It's very much relevant!

[@Denmosocial]

I do agree. Keep up the good work Amayak

[@xuanyu6229]

I’m 24, 1 year left to “it’s too late”

[@drop883]

It'd never be too late, bro.

[@Woody2Times]

Nah bro you’d be surprised how many finally getting their life together in 30s 40s+

[@tuneunleashed]

It’s never too late age is just a number just go at it!! Comparison is the thief of joy just keep f*cking going. I’m turning 25 in June and I just don’t give a f*ck what anyone thinks. My past made me who I am today no matter how bad it was…it’s better late than never.

[@BirdRaiserE]

It's never too late! Keep fighting and burn those calories. Get a journal, record your W's and L's, and whenever you get stuck or sad look back and see how far you have come.

[@d3drummerboy]

27 its not to late... i just started

[@TroyStewart17]

I'll be 40 this year. I listen to Denmo and always find it relatable.

[@Denmosocial]

atta boy

[@oscardahmer8533]

37yrs old and where was this video 15yrs ago?? Damn my life is kinda over but there is still small hope.

[@worp4406]

Your life is not over don't stop it ain't over until it's over

[@WYLLIESON]

never over

[@Denmosocial]

all good bro keep going

[@kacperdamek5244]

„Life really begins at forty. Up until then, you are just doing research.” Carl Jung. Find the purpose and move on :D

[@somethingnice3628]

Bruh 37?? I’m what way is it over

[@krishrao1]

i'm 18, definitely want some advices for my 20s

[@uruppy1406]

Started working again at 24 (last year) after years of multiple chronic illnesses that started a year after I graduated. So many things to work on. But you know, you reminding us we spent 20 years of our life in school helps lighten the load off my chest. Meaning I have only spent 5 years, I should take it easy (different with being complacent). 3 to illness which affected my career and finances a lot and 2 to working (finding out my career path).

[@NohablaEspnaol]

24 about to be 25, really thinking hard of not letting my life go waste man

[@poolcreates]

Please add sections to the video with timeline so referring back to these points in the future would be much easier for the viewers

[@Denmosocial]

i need someone to do this for me. If anyone would like to help, send me an email please

[@hibro43]

I’m 26 and still living at my parents house. Work on my resolution to get a job that pays rent this year. I won’t let myself be held back any longer

[@ethhics]

lets go brother you got this, treat your parents right, try your best in getting a job and start paying rent for them, after you've done that, look for your own place

[@ChuckReyes-i3p]

I'm 16 and watched until the end. My future will probably be different if I hadn't seen this video. I hope I can make the right choices.

[@Bromon655]

I believe more than having someone suggest to you how to live, it's up to you to go out and have these experiences yourself. Learn the hard lessons through your own doing. Take these "life ruining mistakes" in stride, if/when you make them. And work to achieve that ideal lifestyle which works for you (it's different for everybody).

[@lilmonix3_xoxo]

trust me bro fr bro only 129 for my course bro

[@carlosv7801]

Wish i knew everything that i learned at 25. It's never too late, but it's never too early.

[@Zmothy]

Idk Bro, im 25 now and i have learned a lot from my mistakes, i dont think i would have grown so much as a person if those mistakes never hapened...

[@mariavictoriasorianolopez9932]

Sometimes it is no necessary to going through all that if you know how to listen and think

[@Zmothy]

@@mariavictoriasorianolopez9932 i dont think that apply very well in real life... Every person is different, and even if a wise person tells you how things work, u wont always understand, and i think thats just cuz you are young, unexperienced and dumb at that time. And also, i dont want to live my life doing what others do and work for them (at least not always), i want to be myself and figure out my own life.

[@windowxp1386]

I thank the algorithm for filling my recommendations with motivational and self-improvement content.