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@dnnyshdy51892 ай бұрын
Don’t change her mind
@drwyattfisher2 ай бұрын
Sometimes getting a separation is the best option if there’s adultery, abuse, abandonment, or chronic neglect
@sheffley2 ай бұрын
She doesn’t respect nor appreciate you. Don’t waste months following this advice. I did it for 1.5 yrs while accepting her treating me like a door mat. If she isn’t putting in effort, cut your losses, level yourself up and find a woman that genuinely supports and adores you. Otherwise, you’re gonna find yourself an unsatisfying, unhappy marriage for the rest of your life.
@dnnyshdy51892 ай бұрын
@@sheffley exactly
@drwyattfisher2 ай бұрын
Rebuilding your marriage definitely won’t work unless both partners are willing to keep putting in effort
@sheffley2 ай бұрын
@@drwyattfisher agreed. The therapist I was seeing during that time never told me the hard truth. I wish he had been straight with me when she wasn’t coming to the sessions and was continually treat me like sh!t. In hindsight, it needed to happen that way because it brought me closer to Jesus, which is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Trusting in him has brought less stress and anxiety and more patience and joy into my life.
@drwyattfisher2 ай бұрын
@@sheffley Yes, sometimes the hard truth is exactly what we need to hear. Great job turning your situation into a wonderful outcome!
@DFDX10012 ай бұрын
Sorry, but likely she didn't want to be married but only wanted "her" wedding. The issues have long been present. Do you think she didn't know this? Getting married and then divorce d- especially early on divorcing - is easy and of little consequence to her. Most everyone will "side" with her with sympathy, even her being "strong and awesome." Mark my words, you will not stop this. Pander and you will continue to do so for the rest of the life of the marriage. You don't know it now but, you are FORTUNATE this is happening this early. I would simply tell her, as an adult, make your mind up by next week. Either get on board or get out! Have some self-respect.
@drwyattfisher2 ай бұрын
It definitely is a red flag that she's asking for divorce after only 4 months of marriage. It would be important to unpack this further.