HOW TO SET SYSTEMS INSTEAD OF GOALS | a system that will change your life

[@lilbrenya]

My favorite line and it hits home. "Everyone can set goals, but not everyone keeps focus."

[@tadiqshahid4625]

This is precisely what I have been searching, far and wide, across KZbin for. This video is a life-changer for me. The amount of detail gone into, combined with the ideas in Stoic philosophy, and a clear visualization of how to weave dreams, goals, systems, and habits together is why this video is a masterpiece.

[@drig9742]

Me too

[@rm.makes.me.smile_]

Any updates?

[@montoyaharris5519]

I second this!!!!

[@ddrumcorner4682]

Life is so weird I find 🤷🏾‍♂️... Much respect to everyone else who I've learned from. However, I just added a new entry to my journal: "the most important video I've ever watched "... Don't even think I'm exaggerating either. For whatever reason, you resonated so much with me.. Your approach and delivery... I'm wondering why I'm only now hearing about you... Your channel should be in the millions I think...it will be! Anyways thank you!!

[@dmarkina]

Just a reflection I had made for myself about picturing one’s dream life - it does not have to be in future. Simplify the vision and start living your dream life today ❤️ I guess what I am saying is that if one focuses the dream life on how one feels and what one does day to day, who one surrounds oneself with and what one contributes to the world, your dream life does not have to be some far away future vision, it can be attainable in the present ❤️

[@cristianomoniz]

I think you know about this but….. It is good in life to express our thoughts to say thanks to somebody who has the ability to transform our vision into something different. I want to say thank you because I was lost trying to develop a system for myself and I could find all the answers. And now I want to let you know that I'm very very happy that I watched your video to help me out with my personal problems. If nobody hasn’t said that to you, I wanna say thank you.

[@brettbarlow9581]

As a fellow INTJ I can say that these systems truly help propel me closer to my goals and aspirations. Thank you Alexis

[@AlexisKingsley]

Thank you!!

[@amypoole30]

I get it with the goals. I have been following people who do yearly,quarterly,monthly etc. goal planning and task lists to the goal planning and well, I wouldn't be here if it was working. Goals are great tasks and the check lists for them are great But I knew something was missing. A system to execute to allow me to reach the goals. This so makes sense!

[@salesprosteve]

1 year later, I still watch and LOVE this!

[@aurostar9805]

I was crying over my past failures just a second ago , but then your video pops up in the best moment , Thanks .

[@anchovyfish9884]

The most step-by-step and practical video about systems that I've seen so far. Thank you very much for sharing! I was already implementing some of the steps but this video reinstated the importance of the emotional aspect of it.

[@terrypeters8682]

I enjoy your communication style which always helps when learning new approaches to systems.

[@sergiodamm3705]

I’ve needed this for a really long time

[@AlexisKingsley]

✨ I turned this video into a digital planner!!! You can check out the 2024 Goal Planner + Visualization workbook at: alexiskingsley.com ✨

[@lisadixon5915]

I almost stopped the video as I couldn’t focus on what you were saying over the music. So glad I didn’t. Fabulous content.

[@cocosjourney7712]

Give this girl her 1 000 subscribers please! This is really informative! I feel stress free to see that I have already doing systems in my daily life without knowing this word before recently. I really hope I can be stuck to these systems which will lead me to my dream life. Whishing everyone and happy new year.

[@AlexisKingsley]

Thank you!! The daily inches and miles will get you there! You can do it!

[@marygrace3343]

I’m an INTJ as well and loved this video so much. I’m excited to set goals for 2022 and mapping it out with a system makes it so much easier

[@moniquedesi]

another INTJ here! :)

[@patchwicked]

Systems are friends!

[@Lady_Cyndia]

absolute successful living and ultimate goal is hearing the words "well done good and faithful servant" However - wow - my life is amazing - I have an amazing life with amazing marriage and smart capable adult children and two lovely grandchildren. Obvi my life isn't perfect but its perfect for me. Life isn't always sunny and rose smelling, yes I have sorrows and heartbreaks and family drama. That's part of being human and living life. Over all, the big picture, I'm happy and life is good. My big dreams include my health and seeing my grandchildren more.

[@navypinkdesign]

I have been dragging my feet with certain goals and the things you say just clicked for me. Thank you for that! Also, I’m watching this for the first time at 20k subscribers. You’ve grown this channel so much in 2 years starting at 800. That’s a pretty good endorsement for your system! Brava

[@michaeltilley6281]

Look how you went from 800 subscribers to over 20.4 thousand subscribers now! You're getting there!

[@priscila5990]

fellow INTJ here. just bought the journals. I'm hesitant about journaling but I've been unable to keep my focus on the goals I've set so I will give this a shot. Time keeps passing by... and that time is lost now. I'm in a constant reassessment of my life, but more so during this time of year so the timing for this type of content right now is perfect.

[@trevorfrayne6418]

I feel you just describe me and my life. Lol I'll go get the journals. Lol

[@damarisrivera6441]

Girrrrrrlllll! This is sooo helpful; this is how goals, intentions should be taught. Thank you for taking the time to film these vids; please do more. This is truly one of your gifts 🙏🏼

[@jimkingsland1645]

I liked how you acknowledged the number of subscribers is somewhat beyond your control. I also like how you expounded upon and summarized your system of weekly plans, results, and post analysis. Greatest advice was shortening the time frame and the one goal. Very inspiring. Thank you!

[@dianelou2262]

Ah yes, a path forward for how to set goals, Thank You!! Question - I'm new to quarterly goals, how do you just choose one? What do you do with your other hours of the day? Why can't I work on 3 goals? Does it overwhelm ppl and they end up giving up? I want to build my business AND get fit. Do I treat the other goals as little side projects that I kind of do but my plans and focus are more about the big one goal? Or go haaard on that one, and next goal cycle choose the other goal? I feel like always choosing my business other things in my life will fall behind, like making a lovely home, and sustaining health.

[@candacerushing6882]

This is one of the most helpful videos I’ve found on KZbin, and I found it at the perfect time! Thank you! I’m glad to see that 3 years later, you have 35,000 subscribers. Clearly, your system is working for you!

[@utejentsch5020]

Feb 4th: 48,000 ❣️

[@morganainsleymusic]

Hey Alexis, loving this channel! As an INTJ, I love systems and this stuff is exactly what I needed to hear around this time of year in planning for 2021 - a very interesting way of approaching goals and planning. I’m starting to implement it and adjust this system to suit my needs and it’s been great so far! Thanks

[@lachesislooms9233]

I would add one layer above everything else-values. That is the ultimate hierarchy imo.

[@mozlen5442]

I really love your videos. I watched 10 of them in one sitting. Thank you.

[@The_Superbillionaire]

Thanks a Billion Alexis Kingsley for this video, it is so explanatory and excellent, especially the part you talked about conserving your energy and celebrating your wins.

[@franh3452]

I am impressed by how you structured and presented the information in this video. Do you continue to use these systems almost a year later?

[@scottjackson163]

You are incredibly good at what you do. I just ordered your planner.

[@yesboss9273]

Genuinely, this is the most valuable self growth video I’ve watched in over 2 years! Needed this! Very refreshing!!! 😃😃😃

[@AlexisKingsley]

Thank you so much!!

[@toonstore1056]

The idea of making small ,sub-goal of your ultimate goal is not a new concept but the way you have presented the idea just changed the impact of this advice on me. This is the prefect example of it's not the idea but the story that sells😁

[@srishtibagalkoti6822]

Thank you for doing this!

[@ShalawnC]

Thanks for sharing this system! Congrats on 8K 🥳

[@morningcoffee1111]

You got over 10k subs in a year. Something must be working. Nice work! You have to get rid of that music loop though.

[@purplegal05]

New subscriber here. This is the best content on KZbin that I have seen recently. Very unique from other channels out there and super motivating! I look forward to seeing your channel to continue to grow.

[@sujata_155]

As an INTJ, it looks so useful, thanks for sharing, although I have been doing some of this but not everything and it really helps❤️

[@a7xfanben]

Thank you for this, great ideas and tips presented here!

[@nakoskyranos4080]

It is always a pleasure to pass by a fellow system builder and see that you are not alone. Great video!

[@samwooseong1811]

I love the fact that you are developing a system that will make you able to achieve the goals you set. I should learn how to build a system like you do. Thank you for sharing this! I am sure you will have 100K subscribers soon!

[@Huntingforbeauty007]

I just downloaded the Vision Planner. I was just about to start working on my plans and goals and this will prevent me from jotting things down aimlessly.I know the one thing I want to focus on and I'm ready to get this party started! thanks!

[@leannemarie212]

This is great! I’ve been using a system with too many questions that leave me shamed. I’m finally working towards just building a system so it’s less feelings based

[@mypsalm40]

Subscribed just to help you reach your goal this quarter!!! Thanks for breaking this down for us! So helpful!

[@AlexisKingsley]

You're amazing!! Thank you!

[@AlexisKingsley]

@Edith Cortez Thank you!!

[@rawshn]

I'm also a system-oriented person, rather than goal-oriented. People often ask me how I do it. Now I have a video to lead them to instead of having to explain them myself 🤣 And you could also add if you are not achieving your micro-goals: maybe you're doing something wrong. So modify the system! Thank you Alexis

[@merrymary428]

So incredibly good!!!!!!!

[@vinnynz]

The real beauty of the systems approach is when you have systems that overlap, so you can generate some real momentum.

[@Kris7245]

I just discovered your channel after looking for explanations on cognitive functions and you explain everything so well! I love your channel and think you deserve more subscribers than you have. I had read Atomic Habits and have been implementing new habits but struggling when it comes to the bigger more overwhelming dreams like starting a business. This type of approach is exactly what I need.

[@yourdreamstrategist]

Excited to see you use this to start your business!

[@ismaelba6466]

Best video on planning and productivity on KZbin. Keep up the good work Alexis🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@DMKGuitar]

Very good channel and thanks for the content! Really insightful

[@apoorvsom9120]

Alexis, thanks for the quick summary in the beginning. Very important intj thing to do. 🥺Only INTJs can understand INTJs. 💯💯

[@fernandor.desaneto4570]

This video was really life-changing. Thank you so much! Greetings from Brazil!

[@AlexisKingsley]

Yes! So glad!!

[@esraaabd-allah1626]

System is such a pleasant word! This is so actionable yet simple. Thank you Alexis!

[@demancey]

800 followers when this video posted Now at 150k. Goal acquired 🎉

[@DaveLopezMixing]

Alexis. You should feel very proud of yourself. This is excellent content. And I'm sure it's not a coincidence that I found it at year's end. Either the Universe sent this to me, or KZbin's algo now pulls directly from my head. Hopefully, the former.

[@stephaniecombs8438]

Subscribed! Thank you so much. This was exactly what I needed and was looking for to get myself to the next level. Keeping going and best of luck on your KZbin journey!

[@AlexisKingsley]

Thank you!! You GO! 🥳

[@deborahdavis8632]

Very clearly presented. I am thinking about my own dreams and systems. Thank you. 😀

[@AlexisKingsley]

Thank you!

[@tammysegarra2379]

This is gold. Thank you for sharing so much knowledge and break it down so well!

[@wokewerk6759]

Thank you for doing this work. I will definitely rewatch and implement these strategies. Hope to give an update midyear!

[@stefan-eckhart]

Love the video. I'll rewatch this from 10:55

[@michaeltilley6281]

This was very motivating. I am also a strong Christian so I want to include God in my system. What I really liked about this is how organized and how it shows how to turn your goals into reality and live it daily. I like the fact that you have a morning routine and if you don't like in a week you change it. I really enjoyed this video and so I am glad to subscribe to it and learn from you!

[@oliwiaw6]

Great video, I love how you made this video very visual and actionable!! Thank you

[@AlexisKingsley]

I'm glad you liked it! It was fun to make :)

[@christins2267]

I love how much you love this.

[@Alice_v2.0]

This is an absolutely brilliant video! Thank you. New subscriber. 👍🏾

[@breannakusko2530]

This video is INCREDIBLE. PAST TENSE. PRESENT TENSE. FUTURE TENSE. !!! I immediately followed you-you’re doing what is within your control and it is WORKING!! I’m excited to learn more from you because you articulate these large things in such a profound way. Listening to you is like aha moment after aha moment. THANK YOU for following your light & purpose by making these videos & channel💖

[@breannakusko2530]

Also, I see you’re into myers Briggs. I’m an ENFJ. I’m into astrology and am an Aries rising & moon with a Capricorn sun 🤩 I bet you’ve got some earth and or air in your chart because your communication skills are grounded with such practical know-how!

[@carolinembabazi4802]

Am motivated, thank you.

[@JoanneWetzel]

One of my biggest takeaways from Atomic Habits so in the New Year I’ll be working on my systems! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@AlexisKingsley]

This is gonna be YOUR year!

[@JoanneWetzel]

@@AlexisKingsley Same to you! ;-) Merry Christmas!

[@sebastianondogaokot9134]

Am in Uganda. How can I adapt these for me as a poultry farmer? Kindly advise.

[@salesprosteve]

Only 2 minutes in & this is great - awesome job alexis!

[@warriorprincess5795]

I'm glad to watch this video on New Year's Day and I just subscribed. Very helpful video

[@vincejupiter4749]

Thank you 🫡

[@shimmyshimmycocopop8905]

First thank you so much for creating and sharing this content!! It is a tremendous gift and has really helped me move forward with creating a life I want. ✨ In the future could you possibly limit the music in the background. I found it extremely difficult to concentrate with the combination of the volume, particular music beat, and how fast paced you spoke. 😣

[@diverstalent]

Thank you, Alexis! Awesome and useful information! 😃 Sousan

[@cuts240]

Ty 😊

[@venkatesasrikanthdhulipala9486]

Really a correct to build a systems for achieving goal

[@cantesiavickers3948]

Love your channel!

[@lessandra602]

💗💗💗😊 what A GODSEND

[@ritaneca9817]

I absolutely loved this video. I learned so much! amazing content

[@Xyz-bo6qh]

it is really useful and nourishing my mind to change directions and to look bigger .. thank you

[@JuanMorales-rl1wr]

how do you not have more subscribers

[@priscila5990]

just wait

[@jewelofdasouth96]

Ikr 😊🎉❤

[@RichardDuinmayer]

She speaks to quickly. The board is hard to read.

[@mihaelzanjkovic8603]

A lavaliere mic would take her to 600k - sound is huge, beside the good intended advice above

[@ina_devita_astrologie]

She should use more CTA because If i did not read your comment probably i forrgot to follow her even If ITS maybe the 5th Video i watched with her

[@kathryncainmadsen5850]

I have time blindness so I always get stuck at that T. This was helpful even if the music is annoying. ;)

[@reannaparker5705]

A really underrated video! ❤ thank you for this!

[@Lemknown]

Thanks , for teaching a valueable concept, I will use it from now.

[@maryleigh8990]

Once you establish the smart goal, the next step is determining the proper intervention to achieve that goal and then evaluate the effectiveness of the interventions and finally modifying the plan to increase the chances of achieving the goal the next time around... Well look at that...the nursing process...

[@grungekookie3298]

Great video! I love the content, the music is a bit distracting though.

[@christianvicbarnuevo8099]

Thank you...a very helpful content

[@antonyplazminecraft]

The secret to success is finally out

[@surajsk4920]

Thanks alaxa it's really helpful

[@VeronicaCristina]

excellent...thanks..

[@AlinaMinkova]

Thank you! This was interesting, looking forward to check your other videos!

[@mavisdavisify]

I appreciate your instruction. Creating an overarching system to achieve your goals makes perfect sense. Using habits, which are specific thoughts and/or actions repeated so often they become automatic, is a perfect delivery system as long as the habits are helpful, not damaging. Thank you for the information. I say this next bit as an older woman with some hearing loss. Extra background noise makes it very difficult to hear what you’re saying and the background music was loud enough to that I was unable to hear all of your presentation. I say this not as a criticism just as an FYI.

[@RantPocalypse]

Thank you for highlighting this journal. Awesome way to set up fantastic systems in your life. Good luck on the 100K subscribers!

[@ΑντρέαςΣωτηρίου-π8γ]

Goals are good for giving you the incentive to act / develop your habits or "systems" in the first place. Make sure to break your goals down in to multiple, manageable steps in order to feel those smaller, daily successes and to not feel overwhelmed by the journey ahead, or underwhelmed when you hit your goal. If you do experience an anticlimax then that's fine, that's your experience, but you've still achieved. Perhaps it just means your goal wasn't something that is in line with your values, so perhaps first take a step back and ask yourself what you value in life in order to inform more satisfying goals.

[@ErinBillings-g7d]

Do you still do coaching? I’m interested

[@tralaritralarajiju2652]

Yes!🍀 Although I am but concerned by the wasted paper and wondering why not using a Blackboard? 👀

[@alexa574]

I just found your channel and love your content! New subbie here! Looking forward to seeing your other videos. Thank you!

[@NavesNiche]

Very inspirational

[@marq1458]

thank you for this. very helpful. I have the atomic habit book, I should really make time to read it.

[@ΑντρέαςΣωτηρίου-π8γ]

Have a morning and night routine , also a deep work and in the zone phases , and also visualize the 2 most positive events of the day that happened. 2023

[@kittennoire8427]

This video came right on time! This is phenomenal, you have gained a new subbie here!😃😃😃👍

[@sholae8860]

This is a great video, thank you! I’ll be applying these. Unfortunately, I cannot get the planners anywhere- sold out on website and I’m in the UK. But I will still apply the breakdown you showed 😊