How to Shake that Feeling of Wanting to do Nothing / A Sad Day / Over 60

[@ggeise1467]

May Shamu's rainbow Bridge crossing have been quick! The following was in a sympathy card we received from our vet a couple of years ago when we had to put our 4 year old dog down: When tomorrow starts without me, don't think we are far apart, for every time you think of me. I'm right here in your heart. ❤

[@justmedrugfree2265]

Oh How Beautiful.... I'm still crying.

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

So thoughtful…❤️❤️

[@addie109]

Oh Nanny I am so sorry about Shamu. Thank you Colleen for all the love and care you show to your Mom and Dad. On February 12 we had to say goodbye to our Golden Retriever who had been by our side for 13+ years. Our fur babies are such a huge part of our families 😢💔we miss him so much. Prayers for comfort 🙏

[@bobbil8069]

Nanny, I’m so sorry for your heart wrenching loss of Shamu. Your deep hurt reflects the deep blessing he has been for you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on tough days. Getting older sure is not easy. I felt like you were talking directly to me & I drank in what you said. Thank you Wise Nanny! 🥰

[@heatherangellight8558]

We all loved Shamu and I hope he gives you signs he is fine on the other side…. You gave him a wonderful life with you. Some days we just need to recover from life and loss. Give yourself some grace. ❤

[@GrannyLinn]

Life’s a roller coaster. I think I’d just go back to bed and have a good cry. Hugs to you; we all feel your pain. ❤

[@janshea7340]

Nanny, I'm so sorry for your loss. Shamu was such a beautiful kitty and brought such happiness to you. May your memories of your sweet angel be a comfort and blessing to you. The old folks used to say at times like this do small things to deal with grief: make a cup of tea, start a pot of soup, clean out a drawer, plant a special flower in his memory, and such. Sending love and comfort across the miles. 💗

[@tsc1945]

Oh Nanny. Just dragged myself out of bed (I’m having “one of those days”as well) “threw open the house”….and something made me look at KZbin and there was your sweet face with Colleen and telling us the sad news. My heart is so sad for you, Nanny and Moosie. He was so sweet to join us and express his feelings about how sad he knows you are feeling…and his little kiss on your head really started my tears flowing. Even in his grief, he thinks of your heartbreak. Remember…God takes care of all creatures, great and small. My prayers are with you both and for your sweet Shamu. Xoxo

[@lindasmith3316]

I have read about several people who died and came back after visiting heaven and they saw dogs and cats there. I think you will see Shamu again. Nanny, I wish I could give you a big hug, I'm so sorry about your loss. My prayers for healing and comfort in your grief.

[@beckyfinley5218]

I hope a miracle happens. We can always pray for that. Never easy to lose someone we love. Blessings to you Nanny, please have a safe and enjoyable trip. ❤

[@marcialane8235]

Oh sweet Nanny I am so sorry about Shamu. I cried when Moose came in to comfort you..lean on those who love you for comfort. I send you prayers. 🙏❤️

[@carolobryan6488]

Nanny, I’m heartbroken for you! I’m so very sorry! I’ve cried with you this morning. Just know that God is the closest to the broken hearted.. I love you and may God Bless you always!

[@charliewhiskerspicou933]

Dear Nanny, I hope you had a nice visit with your family this week-end. You once again share some very useful words of wisdom relating to coping with life's difficult situations and times. I did not want to respond to quickly to your post as I was first saddened to hear about sweet Shamu and also hoping that if he returned you would post something about it . Thank you for caring as best you could for Shamu and other animals that come your way. I too have lost beloved cats and dogs.The morning of these sweathearts can be very if not as as intense as loosing a family member, and grieving time is quite normal. Charlie Whiskers was a very beloved cat I once had along with Picou my very beloved Rottweiler/malamute that passed in 2019. Since then I have another dog called Nanuk and two cats and 6 hens. So having no family of my own and living in the country on my own, these fury friends are also considered my family.Best regards to you and your Moose! 💌❣❤

[@ruthwinnifred329]

I have a feeling that Moosie loved "that cat" just as much . . . . sweet.

[@launajorgensen7275]

Oh Nanny it is so wrenching to let go of a furry friend. Each one is special in their own way and will live in your heart as long as you breathe. I hope you can let yourself grieve and then you’ll be ready to accept what life has to offer. All our love you and Moose and big cyber hugs to you both for comfort.

[@__76--_-646]

Awww Nanny I'm so sorry. It's heartbreaking 💔. I truly hope he shows up

[@mrshansonian]

Oh Mary Ellen, I am crying right along with you today! I pray for a miracle though and believe me, after losing both of my sweet kitties 1 year apart after having them for 14 years and then my husband of 41 years, I am with you today! Just know that you are loved and thought of today. Your sweet and loving spirit shines through, so thank you for sharing your life with all of us! God Bless you and oosie! Nancy H

[@susanjackson6972]

Oh Nanny, I’m watching this with tears rolling down my face, I lost my cat a week ago today, he was my best pal, now I am all alone. The pain is terrible. Sending all my love, prayers and hugs and this very difficult time for you ❤xxxx

[@kristinahohlweg1045]

Oh my love I’m so sorry, I’m in tears too xx

[@rogojo9853]

I’m sorry for your lost. Be well and take it one day at a time.

[@carolynhamilton3316]

I'm so very sorry. I truly believe, that if meant to be, your sweet cat will send you another soul to love. It's happened to me several times.

[@BR-kk9qu]

Oh Nanny, I am so saddened from this news. The grief is real. He brought so much joy. My heart goes out to you. I have experienced both situations… a loss of a pet and wanting to stay in my “sanctuary “ and not do anything. Thank you for being authentic. I appreciate you. - Belinda

[@bluehydrangea8008]

Dear Nanny…..how typical of you….you are the one with a heavy broken heart but still you gave “us” this very helpful unselfish video. God bless you and Moosie! ❤️💔

[@TamarasTimelessBeauty]

Oh no...I am so so sorry to hear this. I've always had cats and dogs and have grieved each loss...it never gets easier. As I listened I could so relate...I had a tuxedo cat that looked so much like Shamu. His name was Cosmos. (I gave all my cats flower names). When he was a baby we didn't have coyotes so he grew up as an outdoor cat. Over the years the coyotes moved in. As he grew older, he still loved being out during the day, but stayed close to the house, mostly on the porch and I would bring him in each evening before dusk. I was heading out to for a quick trip to the grocery store one fall day at about 5pm and noticed him on the porch, and thought maybe I should bring him in. But it was still pre dusk and I was already in the car and I thought I'll be right back. I never saw him again. He was 13 years old. It's good to forgive ourselves and accept but you never know...Miracles do happen. I had a cat that went missing for a week once and he just showed back up one day. Skinny, but unharmed. I figured he had gotten accidentally stuck in someones shed or garage. I don't have a cat right now, but my Bozlee is 14 1/2 years old, and still really healthy, but I am cherishing each day with him because I know time is short. I love you Nanny. ❤

[@trishb45]

God be with you all. Your precious Kitty knew your love. ❤️

[@carolynhamilton3316]

Oh Shamu! What a sweetheart!! Im so sorry Nanny!! Its so hard to lose your pets. They bring such joy to your life, and such pain when they go. Bless you Nanny. ... Yes, as we get older, get up and go gets up and is gone sometimes. More than we want. Enjoy the peaceful days instead in bed. As you say, learn something on the internet in bed, , plan something fun while resting, dream, remember fun times, pray, read a good book. Sleep!! My mom, years ago, raised my two younger sisters alone. She worked hard and always worked hard in her houswork and yard as well. Her saturdays were filled with chores. Once in awhile on a saturday, she stayed in bed all day, filled her bed with magazines, had her coffee nearby, and enjoyed several little naps, thru out the day in between magazines and maybe a book. At first i thought that was crazy. Waste a whole Saturday in bed. As i got older, i learned that she had the right idea. She worked hard. Why not!!? Take care Nanny. Enjoy your days in bed. You have earned to take it easy . You work hard . Enjoy the PJ days Take care Nanny. My prayers go out to you and Shamu. ❤

[@kathleenj.9829]

Pets always have a very special place in our hearts, and Shamu was so lucky to have you and Moose providing love and care for so many years. We all loved watching him over the years…..initially starting out as a regular visitor, and then becoming a beloved pet. Hugs to both of you.😘🤗

[@rxstrmom]

I'm so sad about Shamu…like so many I've lost precious pets too. Now…for many years when I need rest for any reason, I have what I call a “puff” day. I stay in bed and doze and read and watch tv and doze and watch tv and read and check social media and repeat and repeat and repeat. We deserve to have that time as often as we need without any feelings of guilt. Love you Mary Ell4n…patti 🩷🎀🌸

[@Mariposa62196]

Nanny I'm so sorry for you. My dog passed in August and I'm in grief. Most people say: Oh,that's not a big deal he was only a dog. No he wasn't only pet,they are a part of the family.😢

[@maryabdel-malik656]

No it is not only a dog or a cat they are our babies I lost couple before & I can’t imagine my life without my current baby Misha

[@Lolly41]

Absolutely. Our dogs seem to love more than people. It's such a pure love so unconditional so lack of judgement or comparisons. All encompassing. And not just because we feed them. There is a "soul" there. No one can convince me that our beloved pets don't join us in Heaven.

[@maryabdel-malik656]

@@bootsiekeegan4401 I don’t understand the meaning of this question !!

[@lindavirden9592]

I have 3 stray and 1 feral cat that like to come and eat and sleep. I cannot let them in for many reasons. Nanny I know how much you and Moose loved Shamoo. Because of you he led a good life. And don’t let negative comments get you down. Some people haven’t lived long enough to know we can’t control everything that happens. Take care in knowing I share in your grief

[@Lolly41]

@@lindavirden9592 Good answer. You can tell how much Shamoo is loved.

[@CharlotteUnser]

Dear Mary Ellen..... I'm so very sorry about Shamu....A dear friend of mine just had to put a beautiful dog down and is so upset. I wrote a little memorial for the dog with reminders of all the good years, the antics and the joy this beloved pet brought. Yes, we've all had to go through the parting of that which we love. It is the way of life. To love is to open ourselves up to loss, but the love and joy of the moment and years shared are what we have to focus on. And this sad time of losing a beloved pet is a heart lesson of allowing ourselves to grieve, to find ways to cope...to accept and eventually move on. And this is all life....birth, love, joy, parting.....How ever we learn to cope is individual....I am of the opinion that we are actually NEVER doing Nothing!!....even if we retreat for a while....to our bed, to the forest.... to our gardens....for in this time of self care we are renewing our balance our sense of life's seasons and an eventual knowing that all will be ok....and we are ok. Your video for me is so timely as I am walking with a long time friend to her eventual passing. It is so difficult to come to terms with the finality of life, but we KNOW in our deepest being that all is in the Creator's hands and love carries us through. You are so very dear and special to so many and your honest sharing of your vulnerability in your loss is so timely and beautiful. Thank you!

[@CharlotteUnser]

today, Feb. 27th we remember the passing of our son...too soon gone, but greatly loved until we meet again.....

[@reneklein6049]

I'm so very sorry about Shamu. Hoping that he's in a neighbors house or garage. It's so heartbreaking to lose a fur baby. My prayers will be with you and Moose. I get having days where you just want to stay in bed. You're right, it doesn't have to be depression. You simply don't feel like doing anything. We're all entitled to days like that. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. 🙏🫂❤

[@gailresources3970]

I am so so so sorry! Like you said, most of us know this sorrow. No matter how they leave us, it’s so very hard. I always say, “Remember that they loved us too”. So happy you have your family right there. ❤

[@lindleyroff1096]

Oh no. Shamu, please come home. It's such a sad time without you. I'm having' ones of those days - really, it's been 'one of those seasons'. I will try your solutions, forgiving myself, not guilting myself, getting out into the great outdoors now it's warming up, and trying to get small things done every day until I've pulled out of it. Thank you for sharing your sadness and your joys. Love to you all.

[@megablessedgram]

Nanny, I’m praying for you and Moosie for God to comfort you and give you peace. Also, don’t feel a bit guilty for not wanting to do anything. I do believe that some days we are just supposed to rest and give our bodies a much needed pampering. You will bounce back and have your energy and gumption return. Be kind to yourself. Also I’m so thankful you have sweet Colleen so close to you. She and her family can check on you and Moosie each day. You are so very blessed! Love you! ❤

[@MaryLuminary]

So sorry to hear about your beloved Shamu who has gone missing. It doesn't sound great, but it's possible that he got in a fight and then got spooked. I've had cats leave for a week or more, and I thought the worst. Then they show up. He could be hiding somewhere and watching you calling for him. Not to give false hope, but has been my experience several times. Cats can drive you crazy that way. Whatever happened, Shamu has lived the good life with you. The problem with these pets is that they just don't live as long as we want. I'm still getting over my dog George passing away during the pandemic. Broken hearted over that. I will pray for a Shamu miracle return. I probably shouldn't say, but one of my cats killed a mouse that apparently got into the house last night (broken basement window)and he left it for me to see by the backdoor. Not what I want to wake up to. I went back to bed as I had to build up the nerve to remove the remains. I'm one of those types who doesn't do well with critters. I can't take a fish off the hook or clean etc. God forbid hunting. This is bad as I live in Wisconsin. Anyway, I understand your wanting to crawl back under the covers. Nanny, sometimes I even shop specifically for pajamas and lounge wear so I will be presentable while spending the day in my jammies. One of those PJ'S All day days. I hope you feel better. Prayers for Shamu and you to help lift that cloud of sadness or depression. It happens to me sometimes, especially since COVID, as I was quite isolated. Actually following your show on KZbin has helped lift me up and reminded me of all the goodness and beauty in life. Thank you for that. I appreciate your sharing your wisdom and knowledge with us. Take care and have a good visit with family this weekend. See you in the next video. MJ♥️🐈‍⬛🙏

[@virginiabrayton7362]

Oshkosh here. Where in Wi are you? ❤️

[@brendahorn4782]

Nanny so sorry about Shamu. Our pets are precious to us. Your grief is real. Take care.

[@beckibarnes917]

Oh Nanny. I am so very sorry. It's ok to take a little time to grieve. Don't ignore it or it will consume you. ❤ Sending much love and hugs.

[@kmars3239]

I can see why Colleen is a therapist, her sweet disposition is amazing. I’m so sorry Nanny 😢

[@aujkalenic4203]

Oh Honey Girl Nanny, my heart ❤️ is weeping for you this day. That precious Kitty cat, we are so thankful Shamoo brought you & Moosey such joy for those years. Those Kitties are such a Gift from The Creator.....❤

[@DFerrante-nz6sk]

Nanny this is so sad,I know the pain of pet loss.Grieve and remember we support you in your loss.❤

[@cindykane6227]

Aww, Im so sorry nanny! Our pets are like our kids, they are so loving, and make us realise God gave us extra blessings when he made our fur babies. We lost our pup cinnamon after 17yrs. Our hearts broke. 2 yrs. later we opened our hearts to Penny, our Lab. Now shes having health issues, shes 10 My husband and our daughter, and I are crazy about her. We are 65, and 71, im not looking forward when her time comes. God is good, it will get easier, as time goes by❤

[@kathydonahue3354]

Nanny I am so sorry to hear about Shamu. I will keep praying for a miracle. Sending you and Moosie much love. God bless you and Shamu too. 🙏🏻🥰😘😊

[@GeraldineFaust]

So sad for you Nanny. Three years ago, my daughter had to take her special kitty, Dexter to the vet. Had no idea, but he was full of cancer. He had been lethargic and not eating for a bit. The vet had to put him to sleep. It came out of the blue and devestated our daughter. Dexter got her through so many trials..he was one special kitty! We all were heartbroken. It still pains my heart thinking of that sweet kitty. He was a member of our family! They love us unconditionally and Shamu knew how much you loved him!..Hugs to you!! 💕

[@lionheart830]

This is never easy. I can't look at pictures. oh this is so heartbreaking. I hope he turns up. Prayers for you and Shamu.

[@mazzie9663]

I’m sad for you Nanny, Shamu was such a beautiful cat. It’s hard to grieve the loss of our family, I say that because our pets are family. I have lost dogs, four to be exact…and the last one was Dec 2023. I cried buckets and still do on occasion. Cry, 😢and release all the sadness. And you will be sad for awhile…I cry with you because I know that pain. ❤Sending big hugs and prayers to you and Moosie and Coleen and family. Shamu will never be forgotten. We all got to know him through you ❤ love the Greene family ❤️🙏

[@shannonholland5568]

So very very sorry ....what a wonderful blessing he was ... Nanny ...we are sharing not only your grief but the flip side of the joy and love that precedes it....may the love we feel for you fill you up as you give yourself time to do nothing but breathe....cry...and even smile ....❤

[@susanjohnson5298]

Dearest Nanny there are simply no words to comfort you,this news is just so sad, take some comfort knowing Shamu had a loving long life Bless you and Moosie thinking of you both.♥️♥️♥️

[@lindab4946]

Nanny you are so right about giving yourself grace. I have not been kind to myself and was raised to feel guilty. If I didn’t just go go go all the time. As a teacher of 26 years, I was on a tight schedule every day. I’m now retired With the disabled daughter and a wonderful husband to help but… I still have to remind myself to stop every now and then. If I don’t take care of myself, I can’t take care of my daughter and my elderly mother. Thank you for all that you do and you’re honesty. It is much appreciated! Hugs to you and Moisie.

[@lindab4946]

Moosie!

[@countrygirl6794]

Nanny I'm so sorry about Shamu.💔 Colleen you are such a blessing to your parents 💕 I think the way I get over the feeling of doing nothing.. is to sit on the back porch and watch the birds... I know I'm still doing nothing, but it makes me feel better... saying prayers for you and moose, I hope Shamu shows up maybe missing a little fur but no worse for wear ...

[@larlar8580]

Hey sweet Nanny - I’m so sorry this has happened to your little Shamu, I truly know how you feel. I’m sure it happened so fast that the next thing he knew he was waking up in Heaven, happy and purring like crazy😇. You will see him again, don’t worry. He had a wonderful life with you and Moosie and Colleen and her crew. God bless you, Nanny - sending you love and big hugs💔

[@speckledhen409]

I have always hated decluttering. My common sense tells me it's more fun to gather. Don't beat yourself up. You have earned that "bedtime. " Your joy will return. Losing a pet is so hard, you will get through it.

[@FredaFlynn2008]

You know when I feel like this with no will to do anything I go outside and just the fresh air, bird song and the flowers that are beginning to come up really lifts my spirit. It’s hard to go out when you don’t feel like it but it can be quite amazing the lift nature can give us. 🌷🌺🐝🦔

[@sunshinegirl4101]

Nanny, you are amazing, giving us great advice when you are grieving yourself, I love you Nanny, be well,

[@susanhiestand348]

I have two black and white cats that are siblings, 11 years old. They have always been indoor cats. I dread the day when I have to face what you are going through. Their mother passed away at Christmas, my daughter's cat. That was sad for me as well. We all know what you are feeling and grieve with you. I feel it myself. So thankful you have something to look forward to seeing Mikey today and family Love ❤️🙏

[@joanmorris4081]

Nanny, I am crying with you -- I am so sorry about Shamu. Big, Big hugs and sending much love to you both!

[@kimberlypillman2983]

I just found your channel and love it. This is the second video I have watched and it’s like God brought me to you. My goodness I definitely needed to hear this today, well for quite a while. The guilt, shame, hopelessness and sadness I carry about so many things just takes over. When I can get some sleep I wake up and feel ready to take on much needed tasks around my home and out of the blue that thought is gone. It’s been a hard past 10 years (whole life but past 10 has been tough) with many deaths, losses, my Mom now living in a memory care facility with Alzheimer’s and we entered into the realm of empty nesters this year. I do practice gratitude and I chat with God all day thanking Him for many, many things. Animals and nature are my favorites. I will continue to work on giving myself some Grace and continue to watch your videos to get a little smile. Thank YOU for the smile and a reminder to be good to myself.❤

[@FredaFlynn2008]

Oh sweetheart I’m so sad for you and all of us who have had a beloved pet feel your pain, we truly do. I’m 67 and had dogs and cats all of my life and the loss is always the worst part of having our furry family members. The not knowing what happened must be heartbreaking for you. Keeping you in my thoughts and heart at this very difficult time. ❤

[@anndugal5007]

Nana let us give you lifting words and encouragement…it’s ok..we all go thru it.. the sunshine and vitamin D3 sure helps and tell yourself that you’ll be more joyful in a few moments..believe it.. I never stay in pjs never ..i always change and get dressed..I will be 80 this yr..don’t you dare give into the downers….do a little at a time..and sing a happy song.. 🌷 All is well 🌷dear one…a Canadian friend 🇨🇦🇺🇸

[@__76--_-646]

Lol me again 😊 I'm 66 and I love my bed. I figured what's the difference from sitting on couch or laying in bed! So much more relaxing and peaceful...big hugs for you and Moosey

[@harpoO3]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Shamu was a dear dear kitty & you will miss him, but as Colleen says, you have great memories of him. 💜

[@brendadistelhorst1189]

My heart goes out to you. Those fur babies do become a part of our families and hearts. ♥️♥️

[@maureenkenney1005]

Hugs to you Nanny! I hope you're feeling more like yourself very soon. I'm mostly an upbeat and energetic person but today I feel myself trying to fall into something I don't want to. Yesterday was the 2nd anniversary of my hubby's passing and just realized that I'm in my 80th year. I just turned 79 in December and already I'm hitting 80. Age never bothered me but I'm thinking a lot of this. I know I will get over it, just venting I guess. I'm so looking forward to warmer weather here in Mass. I love sitting out and reading and sucking up that Vitamin D. I'm sure in a couple of days we'll all feel a lot better. 🙏❤

[@lorraineshea296]

Oh Nanny i'm so sorry for your loss because our fur babies are a big part of our family Nanny take care Sending Love and Hugs and Blessings ❤🙏❤❤

[@AngelasJoys]

Nanny, I'm so sorry. Yes I do understand. I lost a dog and searched for him for four months. No, he never came home. It hurts not knowing what happened to him but I did what your daughter said....remember the wonderful times. I had him for nine years. He was a blessing, just like your sweetie. Love him always. Love never dies. God bless.

[@SandraSallin]

Oh Nanny how heartbreaking. 💔 I’m so sorry. You work hard. Please take time to do nothing. We all need those times. Be good to yourself.

[@ritahayes6407]

So sorry for your loss. Shamu had a good long life. Shamu gave you so much joy and that's always in your heart

[@Lolly41]

Oh how heartbreaking! Yes many if not all of us can relate. I'm still trying to recover after losing our beloved Lollipop a month ago, unexpectedly.Grieving losses is just part of the human experience. Personally, we believe we will be reunited with our pets. Many NDAs talk about seeing their pets. Taking a walk in the sunshine helps me. Many of my friends already gone. Being a wonderful loving caregiver is such a blessing. Also if I have things I plan to do, I break it up over several days. Before I would have too much planned for one day and I would feel guilty I didn't meet my "goals" (self imposed pressure.) Good message for the day. A wonderful testimony to start our day. Praying for Shamoo and for your heart to heal. My heart is still going thru the process.✝️🙏❤️

[@Lolly41]

I must add a scripture Romans 12:13 Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep. We weep with you sweet Nanny.😪

[@marthagriffin7468]

Prayers for your broken heart ❤! God will lift you up! We do , love our fur babies, it hurts us so very much when we lose one, honor Shamu by finding another fur baby that is begging for a loving forever home.

[@TheYorkshirelady]

Dearest Nanny, my love and sympathy goes to you and Moosie, I know you will grieve for dear Shamu, but his little soul will always be with you. 😥♥️. X

[@DebraHaskins-r7y]

Nanny and Moose I am so sorry for your loss of Shamu. It's OK to have a down day. Please show yourself grace that you would show others. Blessings and prayers..

[@elizabethlofling8131]

I’m so sorry Nanny to hear about Shamu. You and Moosie were such good parents to him. You are in my prayers.

[@tatianapulido]

I’m so sorry nanny it is tough I lost my 15 year old poodle and that was hard and my heart broke . but I kept looking at pictures and knowing how much she loved us and how long she was here and that she died peacefully and that was the main thing in my heart was that she was OK and sometimes we have to part with her animals, but always remember them just like a loved one because they are part of the family, I send you so much love and hugs from here and I hope he does appear and nothing happened that he was able to get away and he’s just frightened❤🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️

[@kimberlyharpel5254]

Oh Nanny, I'm so sorry you are going through this. I'm sending the biggest hugs I can your way. It's so hard when they leave us. They seem to take a little piece of our hearts with them when they go. I hope the memories will make you smile again. My heart is with you! 😢❤

[@gegeschannel8836]

We all share your grief of Shamoh. You are such great animal people. My parents had many cats and dogs. They grieved their death as you are. We had cats and dogs too. Most of our dogs lived long lives. But living in Texas, we have lost many of our cats because of predators. These are the hardest to get over. We love you, Nanny

[@pattistephan4163]

Nanny I am so so sorry about your Shamu!!! I know how precious he was to you, Our pets and babies are so dear to us . I understand your grief and sorrow! May God comfort you during this time of loss, and give you extra love as much as your heart can hold!!! xoxox in abundance

[@cheriebyrnes4697]

Aww Nanny, I am so sorry about Shamoo. I know how it feels to lose pets. Prayers for you as you recover from your loss. I loved seeing him with you.

[@tapy8048]

Oh no💔💔💔💔💔 I am so very sorry. You are correct, we feel like Shamu was so known to us and part of our lives. You and Moosie were so incredibly good to him and he had a fantastic life. We have had many animals die as well ( we always have had dogs and cats) and I like to think they are all together in Heaven and we will be greeted by them. Hugs to you both.

[@mamabones99]

Love you, Nanny. I am so sorry about Shamu, but I will keep everything crossed that he will return. Thank you for being real ❤ 🤞 xx

[@jeanmadden7105]

Oh Nanny I am so sad for your loss.I’m sending you lots of love and hugs all the way from Australia.God Bless and I love you🙏❤️

[@minerva9359]

Sending you hugs & love, God bless you Nanny ! ❤

[@MarchandP]

Hi Nanny, I just viewed your video a few days after it aired. My heart broke for you, yes we have all lost our sweet fur babies, it is sooo hard as they are family. I have felt devastated and thought I’d never be the same. It’s so beautiful to see how caring and loving your family is, Moose is a sweetheart too. ❤ you Nanny

[@lyndaparker2969]

So like you, Nanny, to cheer us up as you are going through this probable loss...GOD BLESS

[@katherinelane299]

I am sorry for your loss. Having lost my Blondie in December I know exactly how you feel but you are right. You will remember all the fun and good times you had together and the pain will ease. Love you guys.

[@RitaVernoy]

The loss is real.❤I’m so sorry, take all the time you need to feel. Shamu had a great life with you. It’s so very hard to see them go. We love you!

[@wiezers]

One of my favourite sayings is “time you ENJOY wasting is not wasted time”❤️

[@barbarasebor6396]

It’s ok Dearest Nanny My son lost his dog last Spring We have lost many dogs 🐶 over the years so I understand what is hurting in your heart ❤️ Nanny I will pray for peace for you today I get sad some days too Nanny I miss my husband, my mother and many others whom I loved You will be ok Love you lots Sending you hugs Shamu is in Heaven now, and think of the good times You are a strong and beautiful lady Take care of yourself, Nanny 11:05

[@audreysantiago7491]

Nanny Rest is the Work that needs to be done! 💚

[@judehearty]

Shamu was a very blessed kitty who lived a wonderful, pampered life full of love❤❤

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

He survived,Sue…he appeared 4 days later…battered but he healed,TG…😄❤️

[@judehearty]

@@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose Oh, thank you God

[@sharondevries1985]

I am so very sorry. This just breaks my heart. I enjoyed watching Shamu, I am a huge animal lover. It is the how that is most upsetting. I agree that we all hit a wall occasionally. As we get older it seems to occur more often. I just lay down and read or nap and realize that my body seems to need rest. I have been “pushing” myself for the last several months. Having a new room built and now trying to set it up for my crafting has been overwhelming. I too am in my eighties and my lack of energy is sometimes debilitating. The doctor reminded me that the pain drains energy. As you said, it is important to forgive ourselves. We have coyotes in our neighborhood. I always follow my fur baby around when she goes in the back yard. She is always in the house with me otherwise. People have posted videos of coyotes jumping six foot fences to get to their pets. It is frightening. It is so hard to lose a pet. My thoughts are with you. I hope that your trip to San Diego is the break that you need. Blessings to you both, love, Sharon

[@janiceblackwell4793]

Awe Moosie, you are so sweet to Nanny!

[@jocelynrose7911]

Oh my goodness Nanny. I’ve been feeling the same way today & am feeling guilty for not being productive. It helped spending the morning talking with Jesus. My heart breaks fr for you missing Shamu. I know that pain to well💔. My friend, these feelings too will pass. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻. It helps knowing we’re not alone .

[@debraswiderski3755]

Dear sweet Nanny and Moosee, I will be praying for you both and sweet Shamu.

[@deniseriner7165]

So very sorry! My heart hurts for you in your loss. Sending many prayers. ❤️🙏🏻🐾🌈

[@eileendavinroy7461]

Dear Nanny...my thoughts and prayers are with you and Moosey during this time of sadness. Our pets bring us so much joy and happiness and it is so very sad when they are no longer with us. It is ok to rest and recoup our strength during these times. Remember where our ultimate peace and comfort comes from...our Savior.

[@janhencely5671]

Soo sorry to hear about Shamu…you gave him the best life. They are such a special part of our family…plant something special in your garden as a memorial…🐈‍⬛🙏

[@janhencely5671]

Was elated that you found him alive! We have coyotes here and I worry about my cat a lot.

[@ChakraVisions]

Oh Nanny; I’m so sorry about Shamu. We love you, Moose and your entire family including all the fur babies. I feel your loss as if he were mine (crying my eyes out.) Sending big hugs and tons of love to you all. Thank you for your great advice and for being so strong! 💕💕💕

[@NSkrobis]

So sorry for your loss! Have lost many pets myself so fully understand the grief. For me I had to do grieving just as we do when losing a loved person.

[@cynthiaurtz4921]

0:02 20:14 Hi Nannie, I'm so sorry and sad about your sweet and beautiful fur baby Shamoo. I lost my fur baby 2 years ago - 10 days after losing my mother. It was a horrible time. I was emotionally spent and numb. However, after a year and a half, we adopted a 3yr. old cat from a small business owner who owns and operates a local animal rescue. Having no kids, I needed something to take care of as I had been a fur baby parent all my adult life. My hubby is 70 and I am 67, hence getting a cat vs.a kitten. This cat (we renamed, Jamie) needed us as much as we needed him. Losing our fur babies is very difficult. We have lost five. Our vet tried to comfort me by telling me that our cats were loved and that is what it's all about. Knowing our pets were loved by us and they loved us too is comforting. I believe there is a Pet Heaven and we will be reunited with our loved pets too. Godspeed my dear Nannie and sweet Moosie. Sending you much love and hugs. Enjoy your San Diego trip. This trip ought to perk up your spirits. You will be okay in time. It's okay to grieve, sob and cry. My grandmother used to say, "better out than in". ❤️💔❤️

[@heathermjordan-durant8684]

😢 I'm so sorry!!! Please don't blame yourself. There could be a precious shelter dog that needs a home and love.

[@debismith2802]

Nanny, soft hugs to you and Moosie, it's hard to lose a furbaby. They become like our children. And I agree with you, I stay in jammies alot of the time. Health issues keep me inside alot and I've accepted that. But I do get out with girlfriends for lunch at least a couple times a month, it helps with my mental health so much. My heart is with you!

[@susanproctor-brown9762]

Oh Nanny, I wanted to put my arms round you and give you a big hug, so very sorry to hear about Shamu. God bless you and Moosie xx

[@MaryToscano-h1l]

Oh, Nanny I am so saddened by your heartbreaking loss. Our fur babies are such a remarkable blessing in our life. Sending light and love to you and Bill, Mary Ellen. Thank you for all you do to make this world a little brighter.

[@carolthrasher]

I am so very sorry. I have had so many cats, I have mourned them all. It does not get any easier, but it is heart breaking. I know he was special, many prayers and Love to you and your sweet husband and family.

[@justmedrugfree2265]

No , Oh No. I am so very sorry to hear this awful news about your beloved " Shamu ". My Heart aches for you. Here I sit and am constantly so sad having lost my Little "OZZIE" in Sept. My heart doesn't beat the same anymore. I Lost Myself. I was with Little OZ 24/7 . For twelve wonderful years. If He wasn't so perfect in every way it might not be as hard. Its killing Me. We Love Our Fur Babies. When You met My Little Guy I made it known to people that they have just met THE HAPPIEST Dog on Earth. He was My Ball of Sunshine , He was My Happy. All of 9 pounds of Him. " Shamu " sounds like My " Moon-Beam " cat who goes out all day and in at night. I will pray really hard hoping that some how " Sham" broke free and is hiding until its safe. My Heart goes out to you. Sending much Love from here in "OZ". Your so great to watch and I never miss your talks. Very well done. I can relate in many ways.

[@cyrilamunoz-z4i]

❤❤❤ I have no words to express my sadness for our Shammu, Nanny. He’s now in heaven with our Lord. As you said earlier in this video, unfortunately we have experienced a loss of our beloved pets. ❤❤❤

[@BeckyM-z3y]

Sweet Shamu! I wish you peace dear. It is never easy to lose a loved one. You know that for those of us who constantly are doing and giving, it is easy to forget that most people take days off! This is nothing to feel guilty about! Relax. Recharge. Enjoy your time off. The stuff you need to get done will be there later. You are truly amazing! I am always in awe of you! My grandmother was the most competent and active woman I have ever known. She was like you, Nanny. I think that’s a big reason I love you so! My grandmother experienced ennui as she grew older and her body and mind and heart fought over what she could or couldn’t continue to do. It bothered her too. Thankfully, like you, she had a wonderful, loving man to support her and remind her that she was still the best. There is really nothing to forgive Seeetheart. You’ve done nothing wrong. Peace and love to you.

[@karolynlove2796]

Oh, Nanny, I'm so very sad for you and I feel like I'm losing Shamu, too! I look forward to seeing him in your videos as I love my cat, too and truly enjoy seeing your boy. My heart goes out to all of you...I, too, sometimes feel overwhelmed with things I should be doing especially in the Winter months. I need to purge closets, get a second bedroom hauled out to actually "return" it to a bedroom instead of a collect-all! Haven't even touched it, so feeling not too happy with myself because Spring is just around the corner and I will be outside!! Thank you for reminding us that it is okay to not always accomplish what we feel is so important to get done. So heed your message, my friend, and don't feel guilty either! We all need some "renewal" time for our brain and body to get that fuel we need to push through. Love you, Nanny, thank you and hugs are being sent your way to all of you for Shamu!! God Bless!

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Thanks, Karolyn,for sharing…I hear you about those “second bedroom blues”. ❤️